Dad FAT SHAMES Daughter!!!! FORCES HER to Lose Weight

[@LifeLessonsWithLuis]

I Hope todays Video teaches you, that YOUR WORDS have the ability to HURT PEOPLE. So choose wisely how you talk to people, we’re all on the same team 🤗 Follow Our New Instagram Page: instagram.com/lifelessonswithluisinsta

[@pattywilliams788]

This is very true. I recently made a comment about my experience on the latest Dhar Mann video about fat shaming and bullying and I received negative comments that were bullying and fat shaming. These words from people who think that they are entitled to say anything they want to about a person’s weight are hurtful and harmful. It doesn’t matter if it’s coming from family or total strangers. After saying this, I fully expect to get the same kinds of responses here on this video. Regardless, I wish to thank you, Luis, for sharing this message. Hopefully most people will heed your words and be better human beings.

[@corduerorose9747]

Eating disorders aren't no joke so be careful who you hurt and watch what you say cuz in the end you will regret it big time 😔

[@mzvetta9601]

Hi *Luis...* Hope Ur Havin' An Awesome Day Sir! Thanks For Another Great Vid!! Keep Up The Good Work!! ♥️🤗

[@savagetuber]

why is the quality so bad?

[@Farid0]

@@savagetuber yeah

[@MichaEGreen2401]

I didn't have my father growing up, but I sometimes felt insecure about my size. My grandma always reminded me that beauty comes in all shapes and sizes and that just because I'm a little bigger didn't mean I'm not beautiful.

[@user-ze3nc5nh8m]

Your beautiful in any way

[@adellakemp387]

Amen!

[@SwitchedDreams]

I’m so sorry for your father.. I couldn’t imagine a life without my dad..

[@lola-kz1oz]

I am only 8And I am very insecure about my size and I don’t have a mother growing up she left me when I turned one years old my father’s only been my only priority. I love I’m so much and he reminds me that beauties in all sizes you don’t have to be beautiful because you’re beautiful in any way you are Beautiful in anyway

[@xroda_]

But when a guy is fat he’s ugly

[@kelvinblack4867]

Never fat shame your children. No matter if they’re your daughter or son.

[@EljaKaramelja]

My mum does it always and I am not fat...

[@alannah01]

@@EljaKaramelja There's body shaming for skinny too

[@alannah01]

@@EljaKaramelja also i feel so baddd

[@EljaKaramelja]

@@alannah01 For sure! But I can't change anything.

[@zack4841]

Why would it be different for a guy lol

[@jennyvone]

Watching this has me appreciating my dad more and all his home cooked meals every evening.. his fried chicken… And chicken and dumpling soup… he used to make my favorite meals 🫶🏽 thanks pop for loving me unconditionally 🙏🏽

[@cathrinekatsigianni8823]

It is unthinkable what emotional support or lack of it can do to a young person's life, especially when this comes from their parents!!

[@real.snatch]

its unthinkable how low the quality is. 480p seriously?

[@movieandshowclipsss]

stfu it's not wrong

[@ryandietlin6364]

Never judge anyone ever, no matter their shape or size. Really happy youtubers like Luis and other youtubers are able to tell us this. Thanks for this Luis!

[@dre_731]

W dad

[@Tswizzlekay13]

I started crying while watching this cause the fact that real person actually probably said this to there daughter kills me no body should ever have to go through that.

[@goatsigs1252]

Eleven my homegirl from stranger things ain't no way that's you?!

[@badphantom45]

Fat shaming ANYBODY is terrible in general, but forcing her daughter to eat nothing but lettuce and tomatoes against her will is a whole other thing. Forcing her daughter on that malnourished diet turned that father from a bully to a child abuser.😖

[@addisynhoward-et7bw]

You guys need to realize.... Its just acting it isn't real.

[@heiwaa115]

😐 don't you know these things happen in real life??? Yeah we all know this is acting. But in real life it's not an act and because these things happen in real life,seeing it acted out could also be sad? I don't get how that's so hard to understand

[@cutegorv]

@@addisynhoward-et7bw these are real things that happen?? people have actually died from this??

[@heidiregaladohernandez2481]

This definitely made me cry because I went through the same thing but sadly didn’t change my parents sees me as a large girl while everyone else sees me as skinny which is why I only ate once a day and lost some weight I didn’t get to a breaking point because my boyfriend was there and for the ones who are struggling with your body don’t listen to the harsh comments you’re beautiful

[@Kickinchlo]

Go you

[@rilee1344]

Yeah

[@kingstontwelve]

It’s alright sweetie

[@sarahhenry1845]

You are so beautiful.

[@chloeschannel1228]

I’m so sorry that happened to you 😞

[@shelazy_wolf1]

The fact that it took her almost dying for him to realize he was being an awful father is just... WOW

[@blossom5634]

💀

[@n0t_nadine17]

Ya

[@reeniecostillo2565]

It happens I. So many lives

[@clarasland9739]

I know right, the dad should be ashamed of himself

[@specialperson3419]

“They are never truly sorry till you’re gone.”

[@sharyn7454]

This made me cry. I went through the same thing with my mother. To this day I have an unhealthy relationship with food and I never shedded a tear when my mother died. Luckily I found someone who supports me and never makes me feel bad, because of him I’m doing much better.

[@sharyn7454]

I lived this, my other use to slurp and hmmm..when she ate and made me sit at the table until she was finished. She’s dead now I still have a terrible relationship with food and I still consider her the biggest jerk on the planet. I told her before she died thatI disliked her and would never see or speak to her again because of cruelty. I don’t miss her.

[@FoxyxAutumn]

@@sharyn7454are you ok?

[@evoevannismo8141]

This is the main reason why people need to watch what they say because once words are said, you can't take it back. People who body shame other people are deep down insecure about themselves. Unfortunately my girlfriend sometimes get body shamed by her own parents let alone her family and it bothers me why they do that. Like I said they're insecure deep down and are just mean.

[@UKImmigrationLawGeek]

Even a comment such as "You eat too much" is just not necessary. Words like these can send someone on a downward spiral.

[@rayannbeasley5458]

I agree I had that done to me most of my life and I struggle with eating disorders I actually have 2 different eating disorders. I have been in treatment for my eating disorders but all it takes for me to relapse is to hear are you sure you sure be eating that or you are eating too much

[@UKImmigrationLawGeek]

@@rayannbeasley5458 I concede that many people don't mean to be malicious. For example, I find it difficult when people ask me what I am eating or make a comment. I find it very difficult to chew in front of people. Many, many years ago someone said that I "ate too much" which wasn't really a true reflection and I don't know why she chose to say that.

[@benlukawrage903]

@@UKImmigrationLawGeekmaybe because of jealousy

[@benlukawrage903]

@@UKImmigrationLawGeek 😏

[@Ev_Does]

Yea…. As the kid that was constantly fat shamed by my dad that doesn’t go away…. And their behavior doesn’t change even if you are hospitalized or try to commit suicide. I get the message, it’s nice, wish life really happened like that.

[@joshuagodfrey644]

You seem nice I hope your day is going well.

[@SupergirlJLM]

My sympathies and stay strong from one girl to another 💗

[@sheilaewall4426]

I was born two months premature. First I was too skinny then I was too fat. As an older person, I have to do the best to take care of my health problems.

[@n.amaral2847]

I really hate it when parents do this to their kids. I can completely sympathize with this poor girl. Her dad is such an ass!

[@Campuschronicles2]

His father is very rude, I wish I was the to show the man what real boys are made off

[@justdecatur6015]

hi

[@iccerr5639]

thats nonsense

[@marianavarela8888]

I agree

[@rojaligajula2184]

Extra weight comes with potential diseases, i think the whole family should have helped her in a healthy way

[@marylavender.9509]

I can relate,many people in my school started saying im fat, even my best friend. My mom too, id stop eating dinner,id drink water instead of eating when im hungry,i barely took care of myself because of how big i was. And because i didn't take good care of myself i had a fever for two weeks and my body was weak. I was sent to the hospital and had my white and red blood low. Now i have the body everyone expected but i wish i realized that i wasnt too big and i wish i could've accepted my body. Im not complaining,but i just hoped the old me loved herself a little more. just a word of advice to everyone, love yourself before you love someone. Accept yourself when no body will. Your beautiful,no matter what color,what shape you are.❤️

[@krantikumarg4532]

TBH stay away from that so called friend. She isn't ur true friend because if she is really ur friend she would never say that. And tell ur mom whatever she is saying isn't gud. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes

[@NoraPhelps]

Thank you😊

[@tracybenoit]

The minute I saw this and read the comments I started breaking down into tears

[@aiiquillia]

there’s a different between motivating someone to lose weight and body shaming someone to lose weight. no one should ever get made fun of because of their body type! you are beautiful ❤️

[@therealrobloxpro8001]

Hi my name is naiym

[@therealrobloxpro8001]

I like your videos

[@Jeng4280]

Thank you for this. Having toxic family members who constantly shame you if you aren’t up to par on your health, is enough to screw you up in the head. And it’s not WHAT they say, it’s HOW they say it to you that hurts the most.

[@princesskitty187]

Exactly. If he wanted her to lose weight. He could have motivated her to want to do so not make her feel like crap

[@aiiquillia]

@@Jeng4280 :)

[@camelnat]

This really hit home for me, I've been fat shames by family, and so called relationships this made me cry. Thank you)Luis 🖤

[@tianamaccena2992]

❤️💕

[@tianamaccena2992]

Your Beautiful

[@LifeLessonsWithLuis]

❤️

[@camelnat]

@@tianamaccena2992 Thank you ❤

[@heatherpierce9123]

I'm sorry to hear that! Body shaming is never okay.😘

[@localvids285]

Making your kid feel insecure about themselves, that’s just bold!😔

[@beckykennedy6886]

"Why would I want to be nice when I can be honest?" Well, why not be both?

[@theodorapearson8239]

Just add a little discretion with the words to a kid- they usually won't understand things like an adult would; there are words to sweeten a lot, and make it enjoyable to lose weight.

[@superdragon1101]

Last year on March 11th, I was with my friend and her family at a Chinese & sushi restaurant for her birthday, and her father ordered enough sushi to feed 30 people even though there was 12 of us. I still don’t know how we managed to eat all of it without throwing up. I ate about 16 rolls, 8 shrimp tempura and 2 bowls of rice. When I showed my dad’s friends, they body shamed me, saying that, “You’re never gonna get the ladies if you keep stuffing your face. You gotta like a buff bodybuilder to be popular.”. But I’m actually very skinny and stronger than I look!

[@NikkiGRocks4Ever]

Thank you,Luis for this message. God bless you and your team. I hope that anyone who has an eating disorder get help. If not, it could cost her or him, their life. I cried watching this video because I have a similar story. I am blessed to say that I am cured of my multiple eating disorders. It has taken years for me to recover. It is not just about eating healthy and exercising. My self esteem was practically nonexistent. Words can hurt. I went to support groups and therapy and I had a loving Mom. I learned that I have worth and value no matter what size I am. The right words can heal. As I built my self esteem by loving myself, I learned about nutrition and exercise. I learned to have tools to cope with life’s problems by not overeating and purging. Life is precious. Everyone has worth and value no matter how big or how small a person is.

[@lukecohen5696]

That is really nice and sorry for what you had to go thru

[@NikkiGRocks4Ever]

@@lukecohen5696 Thank you for your kind words. The good news is I’m at my healthiest now. Have a great day, Luke!

[@lukecohen5696]

@@NikkiGRocks4Ever you too

[@ne0girl9388]

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[@janaeggermont29]

This is happening to me but I don’t try to throw myself up. Every day my dad reminds me how fat I look. It had gotten in my mom’s head and my grandma’s. The only one who doesn’t look at my size is my grandpa. It gave me anxiety, feeling insecure, liking school more than my own home, emotional, quiet … The hardest thing is my parents, if I would confront them they’d say I’m being dramatic

[@voniansah3997]

I'm so glad for this content. It is so necessary. There's so many of us girls and boys out here who struggle with our weight and self-hate because of harsh words expoused by others. Thank you Luis keep up the great work

[@jasminemonga]

Doesn't matter who the person is! Fat shaming is very dangerous! Just don't fat shame anyone!

[@ILikeCreepyStuff]

And skinny shaming too!

[@jasminemonga]

@@ILikeCreepyStuff yeah exactly!

[@lillianandrews4012]

Lol

[@ILikeCreepyStuff]

@@lillianandrews4012 why is that funny

[@jasminemonga]

@@lillianandrews4012 Are you in your senses?

[@chriswiliamson5853]

the thing about it i thought he was ordering for his daughter too then start talking to her about her weight but bro calls her fat and order two cheese burgers with extra cheese and two chocolate shakes and im like bro can't call no one fat thats crazy doin this to your own daughter is different.

[@izzysvlogs8767]

It’s sad it took him a near death experience to realize he was treating his daughter horribly. Great lesson learned!

[@heidipalmer259]

Hi Izzy x you look pretty xxxx

[@akkumaa_]

@@heidipalmer259 WTF!!! Ur so weird

[@mouazjamhour7887]

People can change after seeing their consequences

[@aliciax5854]

@@heidipalmer259 Na 😭

[@matthewpowell2429]

That man was so heartless to force that upon his daughter. I'm surprise he didn't face charges for it.

[@KBAFourthtime]

You can't ever help anyone learn, improve, or grow by body-shaming them. It's just abusive. And as I infer from a reply on some other video, 99% of the time, "tough love" is just something adults say just to make abuse seem okay.

[@danishqaril8919]

In my honest opinion, Luis has the best motivational videos that educate us and teach us life lessons. The videos inspires me alot in my daily life ❤️

[@christinagould9807]

I was briefly anorexic in high school. It broke my dad's heart. I got better and began to eat. It gave him the biggest joy to take me out to dinner. I gained a lot of weight. He eventually passed away from cancer. I have lost weight through exercise and some diet changes. I know that I'm so thankful for the joy I gave my dad.

[@spatic7642]

There is no shame in encouraging your kids to get a little fit for their own health but being toxic about it is sad

[@aaravhatesyou]

Yes that's what i want to tell if u actually care about you child's health you have to tell and teach them to eat a proper diet kindly cuz even overweight is bad for health in the future but being abusive towards them is completely wrong

[@lynnvh5445]

The thing is her dad wasn't encouraging her he was bullying and torturing her. Eating and enjoying his food in front of her then some nerve to have her clean after him. Use kind words to tell her maybe they both could go on a healthy diet. It took almost of her dying for him to realize that he was being mean to her

[@mouazjamhour7887]

He wasn’t toxic, he just wanted his daughter to be a fitter person by putting her into a diet, forcing your child into a diet is not and its a part of parenting to force their child to be a better human being

[@aliciax5854]

@@mouazjamhour7887 He literally was being toxic 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@MelB868]

@@mouazjamhour7887he was toxic getting her lettuce tomato and onions calling her fat saying she could live on water and vitamins for 6 months that’s all abuse

[@stxllla2450]

i love how the mans girlfriend barely knows stephanie but acts like a mom to her. it’s sweet

[@thiscrazyeverythingbelike]

The dad had the nerve to get 2 cheeseburgers and 2 chocolate shakes for himself, yet only let’s the kid get a lettuce wrap with no meat and cheese, just tomatoes and onions. I’m surprised the dad isn’t fat himself😂. The way he just eats in front of the poor girl just proves he is a bad dad either way.

[@stacysaint-ilma781]

I’m glad the father learned the realization at the end. For stephanie the inside that matters.

[@zack4841]

obviously inside matters but when ur very overweight u still gonna say inside matters and keep eating until u die? Oh well..

[@Regina.6692]

@@zack4841 she's not "very overweight". She's overweight, but not by much

[@zack4841]

@@Regina.6692 I mean like bmi could say something else but alright

[@aliciax5854]

@@zack4841 You can’t always go by bmi, a health professional will tell you that

[@MelB868]

@@zack4841my bmi is 32 I actually need batteries in my scale I could weigh tomorrow

[@abhis8119]

Losing or gaining weight is a completely individual thing. We live for ourselves not for the society. People be it our family or friends can make us do anything saying the want the best for us but it's only we that knows what's best coz we reside in our body not our family, friends or the society.. love you for your videos Luis ❤️

[@Mass-hp4kz]

im sorry but when she slapped the lettuce i laughed

[@memes8362]

Oh me too lol

[@brittnihadley6067]

Same the only funny part in this video! Not being mean about the vid it was good but sad

[@animerror]

Man she almost lost her life and all she got is a 30 sec apology from her dad

[@mouazjamhour7887]

The daughter forgave him and he changed WTF do you want more from him, for him to bow down and cry for years and treating his daughter like god for the rest of his life

[@animerror]

​@@mouazjamhour7887 i mean thats good ig

[@shiralleehaggart72]

@@mouazjamhour7887 He almost lost her due to his fat shaming while stuffing his own gob with burgers.

[@bananabish5447]

She didn't almost die tho. This video is such bs, almost losing your life after a single weak of vomiting? That wouldn't burn her organs or fuck up her hydration nearly enough to cause prolonged unconsciousness. The usual reason for vomiting to cause fainting is your potassium levels dropping which takes a LONG time. I have chronic nausea (medicated for it), poor blood pressure and anemia and even with all that, when I developed bulimia I didn't have problems with fainting for a good while. I mean, I get everyone's different but organ damage after a week? GET REAL! And I was a red risk patient too!

[@uIovehim]

When I first started watching your videos, I couldn’t stop! I love your videos they keep making me happy

[@kiaraariana-r1h]

She is beautiful just the way she is and she doesn't need to change ANYTHING about herself. ✨ If anyone out there is being fat shamed or have been told to loose weight, just ignore them whether they are your family, friends or just random people in public noone should feelk ashamed. So just know that you should, Love the life you live. ❤

[@kyanblevins3431]

Body positivity is losing weight not eating yourself to death

[@pawfect_yt2065]

Okay, Luis portrayed a true thing.. Good Job Luis !! Anyway my father is the best father i can ever get, not comparing with yours

[@bananabish5447]

He portrayed bulimia in an inaccurate, uneducated, sloppy way. It's very evident he didn't do his research and the result was a poorly thrown together piece of junk that didn't have an ounce of truth behind it.

[@robertsmith2879]

Great video and great lesson, it's really unfortunate and really shameful how people judge someone for their weight and this young girl wasn't heavy by any stretch, I get this is just a video but it's a shame that it took the girl almost dying for the dad to see how wrong he was. People need to stop acting like the diet police let people live and let people be who they are without judgement.

[@zack4841]

umm so u think she wasn’t heavy ? Sorry but she’s clearly overweight …

[@robertsmith2879]

I don't think she was heavy enough to get to the point that she needed to starve her self, I'm just about letting people be who they are, people can offer advice, offer opinions, but gotta be who they are

[@MermaidKerenay]

She's not obese if that what you mean. The way the dad was talking to his daughter, is why so many women and some men die of eating disorders every year. Losing weight the healthy way takes some time. It won't happen in a day. Making changes in your diet takes time and dedication as well. Be careful, the word "DIET" has the word "die" in it. If she was in sports, she can't binge and purge or starve herself. That's crazy dangerous!

[@zack4841]

@@MermaidKerenay diets can be different and doenst mean eating barely nothing

[@zack4841]

@@robertsmith2879 she did it so her dad would be happy with her weight

[@Isabellaxberrylife]

Not me thinking this was a dhar man edit (edit my moms FaUmOuS *+ not trynna be that girl but thanks

[@KashiAlexis]

Girl for real

[@KITKIT384]

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[@最後の]

We are not telling stories we are taking lives

[@AnnieBrady-s6h]

Fr Bro fr

[@ShalyneO]

Bro Fr

[@high16200]

Hi Luis, I feel sorry for these teenagers, being bullied especially by their parents is a very horrible way, you do not treat your children by confusing them and creating an inferiority complex which unfortunately sometimes leads to suicide. Bullying is a worst case scenario for a teenager. Thank you for a life lesson and for inspiring other parents and people around them. Be safe and healthy brother.💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@cassimarkosian8215]

My father and step mom did the same thing to me and it made me resent them both and now I struggle with body image. Words do have impact on people.

[@MahmoudKafawen]

Awww sorry 😞

[@S.A.M.Sloverfnaf]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@BePostiveStayHydrated]

Wow, poor girl, I feel so bad for her. A lot of girls must have eating disorders because of how hurtful others are, honestly, that stuff does more harm than good.

[@angelicareti5669]

None should not put pressure on someone's life

[@mollygirvan4558]

Amazing life lesson, Luis. These videos just get better and better! Keep up the good work! ❤️

[@Laquonjofficial]

This was extremely sad and It made me cry💔 Glad she survived ❤️

[@Kasie.Mckenzie]

My parents told me the nice way that I could loose some weight because of my family's health past and I'm glad my dad told me they never body shamed me

[@dianebajorinas5832]

I remember my Grandfather saying things like “you’re never going to get a guy if you don’t lose weight” and “ how much weight have you gained on this diet.” That was about 40 years ago and it still affects me.

[@genevievehyde423]

Sorry you had to go threw that.

[@Xilla-posseLgendary]

lazy and feeding face excuse, sdafe space mentality, no real man wants over weighyt women is a fact, or choose a over weight man too, or be silent

[@TPMSage2]

Is he dead? Otherwises i have something for you to say.

[@aliciax5854]

@@TPMSage2 Na you asked if he died?? Wtf 💀

[@Kennedifreeman1313]

4:05 the way she slapped the vegetables wrap Lol😂

[@alceratops6853]

Dad: "You need to lose weight!" Also dad: "Let's go to burgers, but you don't get any!!!!"

[@Bella-pf8dy]

But only dad gets some plus she got some healthy food instead

[@zack4841]

Exactly bc she needs to lose weight thatswhy she doenst get any lol it literally makes sense

[@Regina.6692]

@@zack4841 Even if she did need to lose weight, she shouldn't be forced into a diet.

[@Regina.6692]

@@Bella-pf8dy She got a couple slices of tomato, onions, and lettuce. It's not even a meal-

[@zack4841]

@@Regina.6692 fast food is never a meal lol

[@Gaganthewiwa]

The way she slapped the lettuce onions and tomatoes was hilarious

[@SuperMegz87]

fr 🤣🤣🤣🤣 6:36

[@misscocoababii]

Yeah she was thinking: F**k this dam veggie wrap! Im a young woman! It's my choice, no one else's!"

[@thepoisonouspotato3631]

No matter what, people will always find ways to make you feel bad, they will make you feel bad for being skinny, for being fat, for being tall, short, good looking will say show off, people might call you ugly, and you just have to love yourself and don’t let anyone bring you down, just tell them, ok yes I am and don’t say anything else

[@harshitaghosh3328]

i can't believe she literally said, "we're girls, we have emotions." when did emotions even become a gender thing? last time i checked, all HUMANS had emotions, not only girls! come on, it's 2022. gosh.

[@axelq123]

stop being problematic my gosh. yeah its 2022 it aint that deep😭

[@iheartmusic_0179]

@@axelq123 FRR like she didn’t mean boys didn’t have emotions like bruh

[@arvzae7162]

I understand how you feel but she means that she’s a person who has emotions, she’s just clarifying her gender. It’s not a big deal. And back then in the old days, women weren’t allowed to vote AKA express their emotions. Don’t blame girls for acting like that, they just want justice, and so do I

[@axelq123]

@@arvzae7162 preach

[@axelq123]

@@iheartmusic_0179 ong

[@vale_7284]

This low key hurts watching. I have bulimia and I’ve been struggling with it. Im trying to get better but it’s hard. My parents don’t know though, I can’t bear to tell them. But yeah, for anyone who’s thinking about it, don’t. Ur flaws are beautiful and beauty isn’t some “skinny” or “perfect” thing. Eat all you want :)

[@lukecohen5696]

I am so sorry that you are going thru that I feel you could use some help but you are beautiful and your life matters I hope you have a great day

[@Angel_Webber]

“You turn oranges to orange juice and then spit them out of you, your body is imperfectly perfect everyone wants wants what the other ones wanting no orange juice” 🫶orange juice by Melanie Martinez ❤

[@mamalatinaholistica]

"what would you rather have a burger or a husband?" "Burger" Me: same

[@Autumnurfavbrunette]

real

[@heatherpierce9123]

Body shaming is so wrong & completely unacceptable in every way! I know people who have been in Stephanie's situation with eating disorders, such as bulimia & anorexia, mainly because of negative comments made by family members about their weight/size. Eating disorders are very real & serious, they can cause you to faint, become dehydrated, malnourished, otherwise very unhealthy & even death can be a risk! This video depicted this reality very well. When someone constantly makes nasty, derogatory remarks about your appearance, obviously it's going to offend you, and some may already be suffering with poor self image & low self esteem. Think before you speak. If you are genuinely concerned about someone's weight, please let them come to you first! Then choose your words very carefully. Calling someone "fat" is never appropriate. Nor is telling someone that they're "ugly" because they're overweight, or that nobody will love them or find them appealing. *Words can do more damage than you'd think* Be kind always!❤️💯 Beauty comes in all shapes & sizes. Thanks Luis for shining light on such an important topic!✨

[@peterminea3949]

7:35 Beautiful Spanish language sample!

[@HyperNovaSmash]

Translation please.

[@pepper_8318]

When you fat shame your child or do anything harmful to something they can’t control it makes them feel insecure think about what it would be like if someone did that to you! Remember when you shame someone for something they can’t control that could be you someday!

[@thiscrazyeverythingbelike]

Then the dad has the audacity to say, “ I know u think I mean harsh on you, but I’m doing this because I love you, alright?” Like WOW.

[@LeppLass61]

Great lesson. Glad the dad got that new gf, she helped him to see the light, and his daughter is beautiful!!! That lettuce wrap was sad looking! I also love dunking my burgers in chocolate shakes!

[@dianalayne8324]

Great lesson Luis it dies not matter who you are ,never fat shamed anyone and let them think that they're not beautiful ,words do hurt more than you think ..

[@JesusLover3412]

I'm so happy he made it right, with his daughter, at the end.

[@movieandshowclipsss]

im not

[@chesterinabennington7891]

I really enjoyed this story. It's good that you presented this problem, it happens more often than we think.

[@shelazy_wolf1]

2:42 Dad: What would you rather have, a burger or a husband? Daughter: A burger. Her honesty tho 🤣

[@brendanstreecko7847]

Same honestly

[@inthiskpopshitforlifelmao]

Me too 😂

[@ne0girl9388]

B

[@shelazy_wolf1]

@@ne0girl9388 ???

[@ne0girl9388]

@@shelazy_wolf1 idk lol i just type rabdom letters lmao

[@AnonyRekrap]

When she slapped that lettuce i fell on the floor laughing😂

[@katelynlawson3416]

What a shitty father. I feel so bad to those going through this. When people in the past have called me fat I would sh. Nobody should feel this pain. Everybody is beautiful. 💖

[@jonathanhamiltonjrbigjohn2409]

Fat shaming your child can lead to serious consequences. So don't bother with it.

[@ajandgreyhates5983]

This is honestly so relatable I was going through the same thing it’s not fair a girl has to be SKINNY to fit in

[@movieandshowclipsss]

It is fair!!

[@TheMail518]

I was shocked that this guy orders 2 burgers and 2 shakes. I wouldve thought he gave 1 of each to his daughter. I didn’t think she would have to pick what to get

[@laurenarmstrong8596]

If everyone only knew how many people go through feeling like they aren't good enough because of their looks. As a female who has always been bigger than other girls, I can't imagine my own parent putting me down about my weight. It's hard enough when you have family and friends that are smaller than you and knowing that no matter what you do, you'll never look the same body wise. I hope anyone seeing this video or reading my comment realizes how beautiful they are, inside and out.

[@Caleb7890]

4:05 is the saddest part R.I.P Lettuce wrap you will be missed

[@jonathanryan549]

When her hand hit the burger, it sounded relaxing

[@perryh.5306]

She ain't even fat...she is beautiful! I wish I was her brother, I'd worship her!

[@Mridk-lr3de]

1:42 Lettuce wrap with *NO MEAT* *NO BUNS* *NO CHEESE* made me die of laughter

[@SabrinaRohrbach]

Never put your kids down. Love them and don't abuse them

[@marybali5492]

I can really relate to this......My parents keep body shaming me all the time when they see me eating a chocolate or any sweet...although I keep telling her this is my body not yours and try to be strong or tough....They just never stop...I hope they understand this but they will never

[@stefigachadimova7479]

THEN JUST IGNORE THEM

[@kevinwrightsman355]

@@stefigachadimova7479 yeah mom

[@kimsakura1090]

@@stefigachadimova7479 it's not that easy

[@aliciax5854]

@@stefigachadimova7479 Are you fr??

[@stefigachadimova7479]

@@aliciax5854 duh it's not that hard to ignore them. Why should you always listen to your parents, your not 5 years old. You got school so you should know what's right and what's wrong for yourself. Sometimes we dont even need our parents support. We're almost adults now so we got our OWN life

[@Ryan-Horgan]

Most parents are pretty clueless at how to be one. If every parent read 1 or 2 of the top rated books on the subject, the world would be a much better place

[@julianaturner208]

I cryed so hard because as such a young age like fourth grade, I was insecure how fat or skinny I was so I just had something to add tally relate to

[@ayeshakhatoonsyed]

Same girl

[@carlahinson1624]

Being overweight is a big thing in today's society and there are a lot of girl doing even worse than just developing a eating disorder. Liked your story keep up the good work.

[@ayushighosh22]

I can relate to this , every single day I get fat shamed by my mother, at this point , I feel so exhausted, to hear the same thing again & again. It hurts honestly, because when I look at myself, all I see flaws. My confidence dropped& I feel insecure most of the time.

[@edwardmartinez7376]

That's what actually my mom say that every time to even my dad lose weight.

[@hatchetbabi9074]

I fell in a deep depression stage a few months ago.... wen my husband started to look at me like I eat everything.... I'm so insurance with my body I looked into the mirror everyday saying (he's gonna leave u for a skinner girl) after 3 babies my husband looks at me like a disguste him... I don't even go out in public 😶

[@laurenalan423]

I am so sorry. Please know that Jesus Christ loves you and that you are wonderfully made just the way you are. You are a beautiful and wonderful person. (See Psalm 139.)

[@slamfamilyy]

It's okay and I'm here to support you I get skinny shamed and I cry but I try remember that we're perfect❤ I support you so much I love you

[@aliciax5854]

@@hatchetbabi9074 Girl, you’re still with him?

[@CurvyCass1982]

I'm curvy and my man loves it. He loves me. Don't change for anyone.

[@angel-df7lh]

I can't with the way she slapped the lettuce wrap 😂I am dead

[@marivicmaraan8088]

Atleast the step mom wasn't evil this time

[@Lamya708]

Yes finnaly

[@GiannaIsHere2234]

“Your not hungry your bored” that’s what my mom says after I eat 50 snacks and still say I’m hungry

[@TANAPHELICE]

Smh… Honesty without compassion is brutality. The ego and ignorance embodied by the father… ridiculous. Nice lesson!

[@Gummidrp]

Her: “ I’m fat” The dad: “glad you understand!”

[@MelB868]

I was hoping the dad would get fat

[@kasaundracoleman]

THE ENDING IS SO AMAZING

[@itsmemarie]

Great life lesson Luis some parents don’t know how to talk to their kids

[@alexrazmus1798]

There are many ways to talk to people. You need to know which is the right way. Also don't push others to far. They might take actions that could cost them greatly.

[@Antinia868]

I don’t need a husband I have every right to eat what I want nobody else can tell me what I can or can’t eat

[@hcofficialytchannel]

0:48 That startled me! I like Luis dressed as an in n out cashier! XD🤣

[@ganjinaxoxo]

1:25 that’s what my mom says all the time “woah don’t eat so much you getting fat and if you wanna get married, be skinny” it just hurts me and I go to the bathroom crying

[@MultiAarcher]

I'm Obese Myself I Have Addiction Issues And This Is Why Rather Than Fat Shame People Give Encouragement And Be More Uplifting For Others To Do The Best They Can There's No Person Perfect Here Plus I Don't Want To Be Perfect And That's Okay Were All Loved For Who We Are No Matter What And Remember That Beauty Is In The Inside Your Beautiful Inside

[@cringenick23]

This absolute shame of a father figure really calls his daughter fat when he gets two burgers and two chocolate shakes, he really should be the one eating the lettuce wrap. Made me so mad when he said "I'm glad you understand, sweetheart" and went down the stairs happy after fat shaming his own daughter. No one should fat shame anyone, it doesn't matter if it's family or strangers.

[@sarahkolakowski2012]

I got fathered by my dad so this video kind of hits home. I didn't become bulimic but it did really hurt.

[@kachoo2135]

I think Stephanie ought to go down to Social Services and request getting bussed off to another family

[@pianoguy5110]

6:40 "eh ehh Cough 🗣️cough 🗣️cough 🗣️ Uh uhhhh Woahh "

[@terrychapko8406]

That's too bad his daughter had to go through that and her dad would say something like that if I had a daughter I'd never say that to her he looks like he could lose a few pounds himself he don't look too slim to me yes I'm nerve to tell somebody else how to lose weight especially his own daughter that's too bad I'm glad he apologized to her doesn't matter to me if my daughter was a little overweight it doesn't look good to be too skinny thanks for sharing this video this is a Life lesson to teenagers that you don't always have to be skin and bones to be loved and like to have friends from Terry

[@kerimebozaoglu9283]

Thank you for posting this video and showing the world treating someone like that isn’t ok. And words and actions like that cause eating disorders. This hits home hard because I nearly lost someone very close to me because of bullies that picked on her weight!. People don’t know how powerful those words and actions may be and what it can cause. So please before you pick on someone’s weight look yourself in the mirror and ask how you would feel if someone would do that to you. How you would feel if the person your bullying gets an earring disorder because of you and how you would feel if this persons earring disorder got so bad that they lost their life because of you.