Liking bad boys, ages 23-26 being rough, heartbreak, open relationships, having no clue w 🍷

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Damon Dominique

Damon Dominique

Күн бұрын

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@sofiat5966
@sofiat5966 4 жыл бұрын
I’m starting to think that no bodY knows what they’re actually doing at any point in their life
@titania4347
@titania4347 4 жыл бұрын
Bingo!
@A.l.e.x.e.a
@A.l.e.x.e.a 4 жыл бұрын
That's the idea!!!
@marjory62
@marjory62 4 жыл бұрын
Totally
@gabrielaribeiro6155
@gabrielaribeiro6155 4 жыл бұрын
Pretty much it
@ulzmark6707
@ulzmark6707 4 жыл бұрын
cha- chiiing 🎰
@stormer-6163
@stormer-6163 4 жыл бұрын
she's giving me strong 2003 avril lavigne vibes
@samc749
@samc749 4 жыл бұрын
I was just gonna comment this!!!! :O
@iflymilly
@iflymilly 4 жыл бұрын
"If I like you its gonna be obvious, I'm gonna make it obvious"
@esikazemese
@esikazemese 4 жыл бұрын
Oh, i didn't know what it is! You are so right :D
@stevensteven5144
@stevensteven5144 4 жыл бұрын
Look at Damon’s arms tho...damn boy! 😍🥰😍
@damondominique
@damondominique 4 жыл бұрын
i worked hard in the gym !!!! although to be honest it was mostly at home doing things like pushups and annoying ass burpees
@PoppyOxymoron
@PoppyOxymoron 4 жыл бұрын
Glad that i wasn't the only one to notice
@ascott2168
@ascott2168 4 жыл бұрын
I was barely listening to what was being said ! My eyes were fixated on those arms 😍
@marjory62
@marjory62 4 жыл бұрын
Arms + haircut =
@zoeh2867
@zoeh2867 4 жыл бұрын
this is literally what I checked the comment section to find and I was not disappointed
@rindeer8094
@rindeer8094 4 жыл бұрын
"I graduated, didn't know what the f*** to do with my life" if that isn't a mood
@ghaidamoria2881
@ghaidamoria2881 4 жыл бұрын
Y’all this is my kind of visual podcast
@damondominique
@damondominique 4 жыл бұрын
when the season is over (two more to go) i'll put them on the red wine talks spotify! open.spotify.com/show/4W8inHvMgYsrp1xdqqCJm9?si=38EJ_ArjTo-E-XgpIbJ8tw
@nikkiritche8772
@nikkiritche8772 4 жыл бұрын
Damon Dominique omg you actually did it- my uni commute is gonna be so good :,)
@sruvfig
@sruvfig 4 жыл бұрын
@@damondominique i'm not ready for the season to be over
@Ксения-б1в8о
@Ксения-б1в8о 4 жыл бұрын
@@damondominique the playlist doesn't open for me
@euephorja
@euephorja 4 жыл бұрын
@@damondominique what do you mean by the season ends I was not mentally prepared for something like that
@fghjkl6767
@fghjkl6767 4 жыл бұрын
Damon the whole video: 💪🏼
@damondominique
@damondominique 4 жыл бұрын
IF YOU GOT IT FLAUNT IT. Beyonce taught me that one.
@fghjkl6767
@fghjkl6767 4 жыл бұрын
I was *hypnotised* by those biceps
@RJCarrier
@RJCarrier 4 жыл бұрын
Forreal wtf how am i just now realizing how massive he is like wow
@iiAngelic
@iiAngelic 4 жыл бұрын
*Sits under the tree that creates the most shadows on the biceps*
@fghjkl6767
@fghjkl6767 4 жыл бұрын
alina-belle Hahahahahaha strategic
@loureads6134
@loureads6134 4 жыл бұрын
Bad boys are hot, until they break your heart and leave you on an empty parking lot.
@damondominique
@damondominique 4 жыл бұрын
WHY DO WE MAKE EXCUSES FOR THEM
@loureads6134
@loureads6134 4 жыл бұрын
Damon Dominique IKR they are poisonned snacks
@mirissamckenzie4459
@mirissamckenzie4459 4 жыл бұрын
the fact that this brought me back to such a sad time lmao
@loureads6134
@loureads6134 4 жыл бұрын
notanartistdotcom i feel u 😢
@mirissamckenzie4459
@mirissamckenzie4459 4 жыл бұрын
Lou Reads ah 😪 we deserve better and will get that 👏
@MrAshey123456
@MrAshey123456 4 жыл бұрын
She is really serving Big LEO energy
@fbspin
@fbspin 4 жыл бұрын
I was gonna say Virgo but I think Leo more as well!
@blueandpurple5467
@blueandpurple5467 4 жыл бұрын
yesss god I couldn't put my finger on what it is
@MrAshey123456
@MrAshey123456 4 жыл бұрын
fbspin She says her birthday is this coming Sunday so Leo season, maybe Virgo Mercury or Venus 🔥
@Lorenamissozuna
@Lorenamissozuna 4 жыл бұрын
wow couldn't agree more
@VSandTaylorSwiftLove
@VSandTaylorSwiftLove 4 жыл бұрын
omg ok that makes so much sense... she must have her venus in leo as well bc I can RELATE
@maymccarthy1880
@maymccarthy1880 4 жыл бұрын
I don't know if a heartbreak in Paris would be better or worse, because you are in the right city to be dramatic. Going to museums, the Eiffel tour and really overpriced coffee shops
@nellsea8086
@nellsea8086 4 жыл бұрын
.......
@baralike6258
@baralike6258 4 жыл бұрын
I spent my first heartbreak ever in Paris. It was an awesome trip ngl lmaooo
@camilalenarduzzi9433
@camilalenarduzzi9433 4 жыл бұрын
@@baralike6258 I was about to comment the same thing. First time in Paris and first heartbreak ever, definitely much better
@baralike6258
@baralike6258 4 жыл бұрын
@@camilalenarduzzi9433 glad you're feeling better ❤
@camilalenarduzzi9433
@camilalenarduzzi9433 4 жыл бұрын
@@baralike6258 thank you I hope you are good too and go back to Paris soon ❤️
@croissants-b7s
@croissants-b7s 4 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or does anyone else wanna land a spot in Damon’s red wine talks?
@damondominique
@damondominique 4 жыл бұрын
I HAVE A REALLY IMPORTANT QUESTION. So do y'all like bad boys too? If no, congratulations - you’ve saved yourself a lot of unnecessary drama. And if so, what is the logic behind this bad boy phenomenon?
@susanamosquera3399
@susanamosquera3399 4 жыл бұрын
Idk I'm a lesbian, love you thoooo
@anthonysuazo584
@anthonysuazo584 4 жыл бұрын
what if you are the bad boy...
@kenreshasmith7460
@kenreshasmith7460 4 жыл бұрын
I honestly don’t think it’s the bad boy per say but more of the bad boy persona. The confidence etc. 10/10 do not recommend tho. Love your videos Damon D
@satv5654
@satv5654 4 жыл бұрын
I think it's nice to be the special one and being someone's favourite person, especially when they usually don't really like other people
@BrandiMonard
@BrandiMonard 4 жыл бұрын
Yes but if a guy treats me like shit, I don’t like them. They can be “bad” but they gotta be a good person too!
@perripie
@perripie 4 жыл бұрын
as a 19 year old living in new mexico I just wanna say, these red wine talks help me so much with hearing different perspectives and ways to live my life :)
@harikeshsudheer8761
@harikeshsudheer8761 4 жыл бұрын
As a 19yr old living in India, I couldn't agree more *sighh*
@Lozo39
@Lozo39 4 жыл бұрын
harikesh sudheer Where Are you from in India ?
@selenehernandez8279
@selenehernandez8279 4 жыл бұрын
These help me too, hearing different perspectives is really formative for a 19-year-old Latina who has never been out of her country and is studying foreign language teaching to get out of here.
@xiiioet3556
@xiiioet3556 4 жыл бұрын
Period poo!
@harikeshsudheer8761
@harikeshsudheer8761 4 жыл бұрын
@@Lozo39 Kerala. what about you? where do you live?
@madischulz
@madischulz 4 жыл бұрын
ANNE THANK YOU FOR LETTING THESE FRENCH MEN KNOW WHAT'S UP. I get so fed up with the harassment in Paris.
@LiaOda
@LiaOda 4 жыл бұрын
I'm actually thinking about doing the same from now on - we can't just let it happen everyday!
@lana5201
@lana5201 4 жыл бұрын
lol I had to keep reminding myself that she isn't American lol her accent sounds very American
@LMvdB02
@LMvdB02 4 жыл бұрын
Second language learned by consuming American media.
@LMvdB02
@LMvdB02 4 жыл бұрын
@@cherrypai44 yeah there's almost no trace of a Dutch accent
@brittnis7294
@brittnis7294 4 жыл бұрын
Same!!!
@fionadejonge6373
@fionadejonge6373 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like she may have had a high school year in usa or sth
@stressedariesmood
@stressedariesmood 4 жыл бұрын
Fiona de Jonge nah I have friends from the Netherlands & that’s how they learn english, in an American accent
@kato-savoy
@kato-savoy 4 жыл бұрын
Me staring at Damon’s arms like: 👁👄👁
@frogfourthree3162
@frogfourthree3162 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like they both are used to being dominant in conversations and they (not saying this like it’s a bad thing) like being the center/ leader of the conversation so it’s interesting watching the two of them have a discussion
@ivandure63
@ivandure63 4 жыл бұрын
Red wine with Nathaniel Drew is a must !!!!!!!
@lolacariad
@lolacariad 4 жыл бұрын
yes pleaseeeee
@nomipyar
@nomipyar 4 жыл бұрын
Please!!!!
@matv3069
@matv3069 4 жыл бұрын
No he’s annoying and pretentious. Go watch him on his own channel cause I hope Damon spares us of his presence here
@katsiano
@katsiano 4 жыл бұрын
Yes!! I’m here for this
@faitha950
@faitha950 4 жыл бұрын
I would really like to see this.
@julienne2704
@julienne2704 4 жыл бұрын
On the romantic ideal of Paris being a reality: "Do you think it's true?" Damon asks. Just by the sly smile and the hopeful little sideways look, you can tell he thinks it is indeed true. :) Alas, Damon, you have an artist's heart. Keep the poetry of life alive. It resides in making ideals into reality.
@damondominique
@damondominique 4 жыл бұрын
I do think it's true! It even sounds cheesy as I write this but I believe it 100%: that no matter where you are, there are so many beautiful moments - it's just up to us to see them. Told you it might come across as cheesy - but even that, I feel like it only comes across as cheesy, once again, to people who don't really *want* to see the beautiful moments. I think you see what you want in any situation - the good or the bad, and it's up to us to pick which side we're dealing with that day.
@julienne2704
@julienne2704 4 жыл бұрын
As the poet George Santayana said: The Earth has music for those who listen. :)
@saguaro2231
@saguaro2231 4 жыл бұрын
@@damondominique wisely, heartfelt, said....I agree totally..(but that doesn't mean if I didn't agree that it wasn't well put)
@Ypools1
@Ypools1 4 жыл бұрын
*me who's spent most of 23 in lockdown and is turning 24 at the end of the year* love that for me
@ibra1000
@ibra1000 3 жыл бұрын
Saaame. Omg, it's so disturbing to me. It feels like my youth is being taken away from me and there's nothing I can do about it. Maybe I'm too dramatic lol.
@issyjones882
@issyjones882 4 жыл бұрын
"maybe I'm toxic... oh no" ME
@lizzieblades
@lizzieblades 4 жыл бұрын
I didn’t want this to end and I also realized that there seems to be little content/media/support/representation for people who are 23-27 (in terms of advice, guidance, finances, etc.)... These years are so hard and they seem to hold so much weight in terms of what one’s life turns out like.
@larissadlvi
@larissadlvi 4 жыл бұрын
This was the perfect company to my dinner and honestly, i relate to anne so much because i'm 23 still going to uni and pretty sure i won't be working in my field, seeing everyone kind of knowing what they want to do sucks (yet happy for them!) and it always leads me back to this quote that i love by alan watts "The meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain and so obvious and so simple. And yet, everybody rushes around in a great panic as if it were necessary to achieve something beyond themselves"
@iiAngelic
@iiAngelic 4 жыл бұрын
I personally don’t want to just be alive or what is the point. is he saying the meaning of life is to only exist? I guess it depends on your definition of being alive. Just existing to me is not being alive.
@gatoperson97
@gatoperson97 4 жыл бұрын
Love that! Life is beautiful
@TheOhmann23
@TheOhmann23 4 жыл бұрын
same, i'm 23 and also still at uni and I have no idea if I wanna work within that field - love the quote, I really needed to see this comment!
@JVelthoven
@JVelthoven 4 жыл бұрын
Millennial Dutchies take on proper English accents so well.
@dylantierney6407
@dylantierney6407 4 жыл бұрын
Not all trust me
@fbspin
@fbspin 4 жыл бұрын
This is so true
@beccaalice1514
@beccaalice1514 4 жыл бұрын
They talk in very American accents so flawless you can't tell they aren't native speakers!
@user-xd4sk4pk7h
@user-xd4sk4pk7h 4 жыл бұрын
I can not believe English isn’t her first language
@matheusprado6035
@matheusprado6035 4 жыл бұрын
*proper english*
@EverythingSara
@EverythingSara 4 жыл бұрын
As a 25-year-old, I can concur that this age is indeed ROUGH 🙃😭👌🏼
@damondominique
@damondominique 4 жыл бұрын
23-26 i'm tellin you. ROUGH. WEIRD. LIKE WHAT IS GOING ON. 26 and up and you feel GOOD!
@EverythingSara
@EverythingSara 4 жыл бұрын
Damon Dominique yes! 😂 “what is going on” aka “what am I supposed to be doing with me life?!?!” lolll
@matthewwaters4924
@matthewwaters4924 4 жыл бұрын
@@damondominique just wait until you are about to turn fifty . oh the horror help me lol
@alinachelaru6235
@alinachelaru6235 4 жыл бұрын
For me it started early. I'm 20 and struggling, guess that's just the beginning 🥺
@lexj23
@lexj23 4 жыл бұрын
Just turned 41. Still not sure what I’m doing with my life.
@miroslawamarkowska3637
@miroslawamarkowska3637 4 жыл бұрын
Okay so Anne said "your life doesn't have to be perfect. fuck it up a little" and now I'm literally in London pursuing my dream of a career as a musician
@thepurplepalace85
@thepurplepalace85 4 жыл бұрын
Annie is so cute I can't ❤️
@gracelemons8534
@gracelemons8534 4 жыл бұрын
me: a 22 year old who's questioning my place in the world y'all: 23-26 is when you question your place in the world me: so this is just the ... intro ... huh
@emikabrekker
@emikabrekker 4 жыл бұрын
i'm 16 damn
@wavyy
@wavyy 4 жыл бұрын
I guess that people just question themselves for their whole life and that's a good thing Better than not being self-conscious at all. There is no self-consciousness without self-doubt.
@britnysnyder4991
@britnysnyder4991 4 жыл бұрын
Im glad she said shes 25 and dont know what to do I just turned 30 and i still feel like this lol
@Tinamar65
@Tinamar65 4 жыл бұрын
Most people of any age don’t know what they want to do in life, but over time they forget about it.
@tiannakaitlyn3641
@tiannakaitlyn3641 4 жыл бұрын
I feel it too
@avayoung1003
@avayoung1003 4 жыл бұрын
Truly a maggie rogers look-a-like
@pagegrav
@pagegrav 4 жыл бұрын
the actual first thought in my mind
@strawwberryyy
@strawwberryyy 4 жыл бұрын
oh yeah! love maggie though
@JordannGeorge
@JordannGeorge 4 жыл бұрын
i was thinking drew berrymore
@haley4855
@haley4855 4 жыл бұрын
They even have similar mannerisms AND maggie lived in France for a bit
@maxabat6gaming
@maxabat6gaming 4 жыл бұрын
yes honestly it's the outfit
@charlotterenee4214
@charlotterenee4214 4 жыл бұрын
The open relationship convo has always intrigued me. I remember one person I talked to said something ab not having every facet of themselves satisfied by another person, and thus an open relationship ensured that they could explore different aspects of themselves with different people. Personally I still think it's possible to find a person that satisfies you intellectually, emotionally, and sexually/physically. maybe it takes more patience and looking, but open relationships feel like a cop out. Maybe not every relationship is "the one" but my dream is still to find that one.
@katieakin9397
@katieakin9397 Жыл бұрын
I think people should explore the relationships that feel most authentic to them. “Cop out” implies that being monogamous is our obligation - says who? These are broader questions that intrigue me, like tracing the origins of the supposed morality around being monogamous. This societal norm contradicts the rising divorce rates that point to a possibility that being together with one person forever doesn’t work for half of the people who get married in the U.S.. I don’t think it’s a matter of “either or”, I think what’s right will differ for each person as to whether they want a closed or open relationship. Also, open relationships can include clearly defined boundaries and parameters.
@allisoncallahan2633
@allisoncallahan2633 4 жыл бұрын
i like you because when you ask what her goal is and she says "i dont know" you say "cool" and that would NEVER HAPPEN IN NEW YORK
@damondominique
@damondominique 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I just think people get caught up in their own goal-oriented timelines that they *think* they want, chasing some goal for the sake of "getting somewhere" and "feeling successful" which they think will bring them happiness...when, all the while, through the process, they end up missing out on life itself.
@allisoncallahan2633
@allisoncallahan2633 4 жыл бұрын
@@damondominique yeah completely agree its definitely a challenge explaining to hustlers that ive already transcended money and capitalism. i mean they really only ever ask what your hustle is so they can talk about their own and validate their choices
@CVH2311
@CVH2311 4 жыл бұрын
Omg her singing voice is so beautiful. I'm in love. (also, bad boys are a mystery that makes us want to figure them out, understand them, but they never give away enough (maybe they're scared), therefor never fully satisfying our curiosity, that's what keeps us attracted to them. For me, that's how it works. I can never fully figure them out, but keep wanting to).
@poetic.j
@poetic.j 4 жыл бұрын
Damon out here with big best friend therapist energy. " Do you want to have a house or a baby no then cased closed". 😂 It gave me life.
@luzpalougarcia
@luzpalougarcia 4 жыл бұрын
My favorite thing in the whole world is watching these while knitting
@getrealgetright
@getrealgetright 4 жыл бұрын
@floorlucassen9182
@floorlucassen9182 4 жыл бұрын
Yesss omgg me too!!
@luzpalougarcia
@luzpalougarcia 4 жыл бұрын
@@getrealgetright a sweater! what are you working on??
@getrealgetright
@getrealgetright 4 жыл бұрын
@@luzpalougarcia SAME!! well sort of. I guess it's really a cardigan. And I don't quite have enough yarn so I'm doing the sleeves in one color and the body in another. Hopefully it won't look too janky lol
@chrispytofu
@chrispytofu 4 жыл бұрын
Has their 23rd birthday yesterday... reads the portion of title that says "ages 23-26 being rough"... :(
@ade8419
@ade8419 4 жыл бұрын
turned 23 last month. hate it here
@bluesquirrel2472
@bluesquirrel2472 4 жыл бұрын
it's weird
@lolasunshine6045
@lolasunshine6045 4 жыл бұрын
I'll turn 23 in two weeks. I feel young and old at the same time
@bananeboum
@bananeboum 4 жыл бұрын
I turned 23 in mai and it IS weird. I feel like I'm old but still young and I should do more but maybe it's okay. I'll probalby die in sixty years so Right now I have lived like only a quarter of my life
@bbybea787
@bbybea787 4 жыл бұрын
literally lmao
@TheNameisMora
@TheNameisMora 4 жыл бұрын
absolutely love bad boys. They give us the thrill of being dramatic in the rain when they break our hearts
@AnnaDaws
@AnnaDaws 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 I can't
@alexiee09
@alexiee09 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao major mood
@Prof.SeverusSnape
@Prof.SeverusSnape Жыл бұрын
I absolutely loathe them, in 2023 they are like cautionary tales depending on where you live.
@cn7079
@cn7079 4 жыл бұрын
I fell in love with a French guy while we were both studying abroad (I'm also European). Not sure if he was really a bad boy, but he certainly knows how to stir up drama around him and broke my heart. I still kinda miss him many months after though I know I deserve someone more committing and nicer.
@IMAInteriors
@IMAInteriors 4 жыл бұрын
Her english is just... magical
@daydreamerwanderer
@daydreamerwanderer 4 жыл бұрын
oh my god, how many friends do you have? I dont know if I am jealous cuz im too introverted to make friends or grateful for being a homebody because i cant keep up with ppl 😅😅😅
@damondominique
@damondominique 4 жыл бұрын
you know they were all you guys once? like, they watched one of my videos, saw me in paris, we ended up meeting up, then again, and again, and again, and boom. red wine talk.
@daydreamerwanderer
@daydreamerwanderer 4 жыл бұрын
@@damondominique ur telling me I have a chance to be your friend one day. Ok, ill be nicer and friendlier to people for practice 😅😅
@lolasunshine6045
@lolasunshine6045 4 жыл бұрын
I need to move to Paris 😂😂
@erinsymone1645
@erinsymone1645 4 жыл бұрын
when you're 27 going on 28 and still feeling like you're in the rough ages. It's just tough!
@djkittkap
@djkittkap 4 жыл бұрын
I tried open relationships. It did not work and here is why: 1. Secrets, 2. Lack of Clarity, 3. Lack of Accountability for Secrets and Shady behavior. That guy was lame, DONT BE THAT PERSON. Open Relationships can work with honesty, reasonable compromise, respect, and absolute open communication... Not communication you think sounds good. Not communication you pulled from a textbook definition of RAdiCaL ReLationSHiPs, actual feelings on the matter.
@chloemonte5195
@chloemonte5195 4 жыл бұрын
i jumped out of my skin when i heard belfast... usually people dont know we exist
@rhiannonp7244
@rhiannonp7244 4 жыл бұрын
This👆🏼👆🏼
@giovannaboeri6136
@giovannaboeri6136 4 жыл бұрын
Belfast is one of the best cities in this world!
@ruairimcbride2061
@ruairimcbride2061 4 жыл бұрын
No same I’m shook
@juliabull9538
@juliabull9538 4 жыл бұрын
I was considering travelling to Northern Ireland or Ireland when I next can as its close to home. Rather than Dublin.. Should I go Belfast then? Is it very spenny, are hostels a good idea there? X
@carolinepace4577
@carolinepace4577 4 жыл бұрын
Oh my god tell her I just turned 25 and I'm living in a foreign country (mostly for a boy) too and every single word out of her mouth is poking my soul. It's a relief to hear someone else in nearly the exact same position who's having the SAME existential crisis I've been having for a year. Cheers, girl.
@danielahurtadot
@danielahurtadot 4 жыл бұрын
I turned 25, and feeling weird also trying to find a place in the labor ecosystem, but tonight we are young 👌🏼✨ 🎶
@electramakraki6299
@electramakraki6299 4 жыл бұрын
sameeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
@vayneemelious
@vayneemelious 4 жыл бұрын
This is the most relatable red wine talk for me. Ages 23 - 26 being rough, heartbreak and having no clue, all these things describes my life perfectly.😂 I got my heartbroken and people kept telling me that I'll get over it and find someone else. Also, I'm going to be 25 next year and I still don't know what I really want to do.
@tifffelske
@tifffelske 4 жыл бұрын
Loved Anne, I think the same about monogamist relationships and I have to say that I'm about to turn 32 and I still have no clue. Good luck everyone.
@thamaragerig9587
@thamaragerig9587 4 жыл бұрын
I recommend this book 'The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter and How to Make the Most of Them Now ' for Anne or anyone that feels similar to her. It really help me center a bit and naviage the twenties in a better way.
@swimawaylittlefish1542
@swimawaylittlefish1542 4 жыл бұрын
14:24 I think the term you're looking for is a bad-boy tsundere (Tsundere (ツンデレ, pronounced [tsɯndeɾe]) is a Japanese term for a character development process that depicts a person who is initially cold (and sometimes even hostile) before gradually showing a warmer, friendlier side over time. - Wikipedia)
@mish3916
@mish3916 4 жыл бұрын
Hella yes my weeb friend 🤧
@ardithaliti1194
@ardithaliti1194 4 жыл бұрын
Damon's liver after all these Red Wine Talks: 👁👄👁
@Ксения-б1в8о
@Ксения-б1в8о 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@DeliaNoto
@DeliaNoto 4 жыл бұрын
I know Anne is straight but I'm kind of in love with her
@milikoshki
@milikoshki 4 жыл бұрын
re: feeling "behind" friends or acquaintances at home.. I have lived abroad for the past 5 years and struggled with this feeling until I aged out of it (mid 20s are such a confusing time for SURE) but when I *actually* talked to the people back home, a majority of them spoke about how they wished they'd taken more risks, explored more, how cool my life seemed, etc.. basically the grass is always greener and shit gets easier as you gain confidence and know yourself better (it also helped me a lot to move beyond entry level jobs and start making good money, not gonna lie) I think it's v rare to feel like you made a choice or a commitment to a certain life path with full confidence it was 100% the best choice for you and nothing else might be better or more comfortable or interesting. It's more important to be ok with not being sure.
@HoppingFireflies11
@HoppingFireflies11 4 жыл бұрын
"even the safest decisions we make still have the same amount of risk involved no matter what" UGH I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS! And Damon thank you so much for mentioning Revolution Ramblings, like that podcast changed my life no joke, words can't describe how thankful and grateful I am😭❤️
@Niqabnelliedti
@Niqabnelliedti 4 жыл бұрын
I just binged the whole wine playlist yesterday we love a consistent youtuber
@rfishe
@rfishe 4 жыл бұрын
you are literally the reason I started my channel about planning to move to France. my unhappy American heart gets so happy when I see you post a red wine talk because I feel like I can live vicariously through your experiences. one day I will be there and living my best life. until then love from chicago. x
@seifghazi5896
@seifghazi5896 4 жыл бұрын
This was one of my FAV red wine talks. You’r friends vibe so cool I love her personality
@damondominique
@damondominique 4 жыл бұрын
That's that DUTCH energy
@fabiolagraceffa9261
@fabiolagraceffa9261 4 жыл бұрын
I actually feel this girl, we got the same thought pattern
@jnd5192
@jnd5192 4 жыл бұрын
She is such a Leo
@mesha8853
@mesha8853 4 жыл бұрын
I swear damon always uploads red wine talk about subjects I need/should/want to hear about
@sandybravo6492
@sandybravo6492 4 жыл бұрын
Oh i can relate with the ‘all my friends my age are certain of what they want, have careers, stable relationships’ etc while I’m here not knowing wtf I’m doing. I have been talking to some of them, and while they look certain, they’re def still doubting their decisions. I feel like we put so much pressure on ourselves in this age and think that we should have our life figured out but sometimes it just takes time. Personally what i think i should do is stop comparing my life to theirs. I AM improving in a way that’s suitable for me, no matter how many $$ others are making or how many babies they have. I always feel better when i compare myself to how i used to be and what i’ve done to work on myself and i alwaaaaaays feel bitter af when i compare myself to others. Bottom line is don’t compare yourself to others.
@mariacorreia5881
@mariacorreia5881 4 жыл бұрын
Damooooon💙I love this soo much I end college this year, 23, no friends, WTF is life... This just gave me a little context and a little perspective. SO THANK YOU
@nicmellone7831
@nicmellone7831 4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE THESE WINE TALKS
@mellomell7269
@mellomell7269 4 жыл бұрын
I, personally, know what i want. I do have a vision on how m life would be, in the near future. It's actually stress, anxiety and fear of failure or incompetence that make the journey hard. Cheer up for all who are stuck, dont know how to start or what to even start. We can overcome it !
@lostinoctober23
@lostinoctober23 4 жыл бұрын
I like how she had different perspectives on certain subjects Damon brought up, like it can definitely show how you or others can approach diff. obstacles or things in general.. Damon keep doing what you're doing ahhh I love your videos!!
@Itsactuallycharlie
@Itsactuallycharlie 4 жыл бұрын
YASS to the open relationship talk Damon! The part about not having a clue what to do with our lives at 25 was soooo needed
@mlzd283
@mlzd283 4 жыл бұрын
Yaaasss. I've been waiting for thissss. This and Dating with Damon are my faves... His name is Damon and he's da-ting a-round.
@herlanwijaya3566
@herlanwijaya3566 4 жыл бұрын
Damon, you have no idea, with every video you make, it always makes me feel better each time. I'm 23 turning 24, timid guy who feel as lost as Sandra Bullock in Gravity. Have no idea what i wanna do AT ALL. And hearing people like you and your friends who are very full of life, extroverted, positive, but also feel lost and uncertain, really cheers me up, knowing i'm not the weird one, and that it is completely normal and ok. Really appreciate your honest videos 😭😘
@linnea4882
@linnea4882 4 жыл бұрын
I needed this, excuse me for half an hour while I drink my wine and relax
@wellendore
@wellendore 4 жыл бұрын
When she said she has no idea what direction she's going a breathed a sigh of relief, so relatable! I love these talks they give me so much peace, and make me chill a little bit about my future. Honestly i think just trying new things all the time really helps.
@lotaerinne
@lotaerinne 4 жыл бұрын
i love birthdays! they're a celebration of the fact that i lived another year! that "surviving" shit is difficult
@elif-ux6tw
@elif-ux6tw 3 жыл бұрын
this might be my favorite episode of wine talks anne doesnt fuck around she just gets right to the point lmao i love her
@Princessm2025
@Princessm2025 4 жыл бұрын
I’ve never related to a conversation more omg
@AllySheehan
@AllySheehan 4 жыл бұрын
okay why is anne so iconic
@themichaeljoel
@themichaeljoel 4 жыл бұрын
Out of all your guests, I agreed with her the most. Turning 25 in December too so maybe that has to do with it. When she said she dislikes birthdays cause she's not getting a lot attention, I laughed so hard.
@themichaeljoel
@themichaeljoel 4 жыл бұрын
sidenote: peep how he tries to flex his tricep lol
@EspeciallyK
@EspeciallyK 4 жыл бұрын
Baby 23 is just floating around!!!
@jazlou
@jazlou 4 жыл бұрын
Anyone else really up for a red wine talks with Jo??🙃🙃
@hailey_holmez
@hailey_holmez 4 жыл бұрын
I am so fucking ecstatic about this series! To comment on “Didn’t we all move for love?”: I feel so called out. Damien, that is exactly why I’m moving to a big city. Fuck it, it’s fine. Love is phenomenal!
@damondominique
@damondominique 4 жыл бұрын
I vote DO IT👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@Annedeleukste
@Annedeleukste 4 жыл бұрын
Haha Omg my name is Anne, from Groningen, only child and fell in love with a french guy too. Those damn cute french guys! ❤️
@df29208
@df29208 4 жыл бұрын
I like that you put a 'context' subtitle in the vid, in 30 years people will loose the context - heck, hopefully, in 5 years - the pandemic will be be forgotten - but not the people that were lost to it - they should be remembered, and the health care and support workers who 'worked' through it.
@successfulperson7657
@successfulperson7657 4 жыл бұрын
Yes Damon, you want that duality: tough and soft
@bobbyphillips8732
@bobbyphillips8732 4 жыл бұрын
Anne is awesome. Bring her back for more
@Amy-hz8mo
@Amy-hz8mo 4 жыл бұрын
Is no one gonna talk about how gorgeous Anne's singing is?? 😭😭 I need that on spotify
@cristyaniko1556
@cristyaniko1556 2 жыл бұрын
I've turned 25 and honestly this was the most comforting video i came across and dont feel to alone about being 25 and having the big IDK im still figuring it out bro with everyone around me seemingly so certain w what to do w their lives
@Nomadtf2008
@Nomadtf2008 4 жыл бұрын
How does she have an American accent? I thought she was an American first.
@caj3420
@caj3420 4 жыл бұрын
it isn’t as uncommon as you think! i come from a country where the first language is english but the general accent is very different to that of an american accent. however, i spent a lot of my life watching american tv shows, movies and videos that i ended up picking up an american accent too!
@douloureux.
@douloureux. 4 жыл бұрын
do you like pizza? cuz I want a pizza dat ass yes? It’s not like we absorb another accent within a few months. We grow up with American English and if you speak English in everyday life, even if the native people have another accent, it’s gonna get ‘better’.
@strawwberryyy
@strawwberryyy 4 жыл бұрын
well... a lot of europeans use english so much that you just naturally pick it up... I think it's way easier than the british accent we were all taught in schools lmao
@ware0081
@ware0081 4 жыл бұрын
I'm Dutch as well and sound like I'm American. I grew up watching American movies/tv shows and started speaking English from the age of 6.
@0guerrier0
@0guerrier0 4 жыл бұрын
American media 🙃
@donahuesheri
@donahuesheri 4 жыл бұрын
22:31 omg I felt the same way when I lived in new york for a year!! the fomo even though you know you would never be there anyways, but knowing that it's so close to you and that you could be there is such a hard feeling to describe!
@dragonsgc
@dragonsgc 4 жыл бұрын
When she said “maybe I’m toxic. Oh no.” That shit hit HARD
@Laura-iw8wq
@Laura-iw8wq 4 жыл бұрын
Her voice is so lovely
@smilesmadefresh
@smilesmadefresh 4 жыл бұрын
"I like a touch exterior, but like a mushy gummy worm on the inside"... hahahahahaha amazing. Loved this talk.
@TaiJ-Aird
@TaiJ-Aird 4 жыл бұрын
23-25 were my best years ...things were simply imperfect but adventurous, fun and exciting.
@mallowhawk294
@mallowhawk294 4 жыл бұрын
Simple chat about life, drinking wine in a park in Paris. I wish I was there haha
@mirandachen8189
@mirandachen8189 4 жыл бұрын
i love her attitude and general demeanor about life... and when she sang at the end she has such a beautiful voice 🥺 absolutely in love
@brynmcclennan973
@brynmcclennan973 4 жыл бұрын
Also, what is the idea that you have to "do something with your life"? Why do you have to do anything? It's all just other people's beliefs of what makes success, or happiness, or what the meaning of life is
@lolacariad
@lolacariad 4 жыл бұрын
THIS
@papuko_o
@papuko_o 4 жыл бұрын
Do something with your life that aligns with YOUR beliefs of what makes success, happiness and what the meaning of life is. If you don’t attach meaning to anything you’re just there. It’s about to have something to work towards that feels worthwhile to you, so your time here feels most valuable
@brynmcclennan973
@brynmcclennan973 4 жыл бұрын
Christine see but that’s your belief :). What happens if I want to do literally nothing for the rest of my life and I don’t believe there is any meaning in life since we are animals? But I “need” to do something so that other people feel better about themselves
@papuko_o
@papuko_o 4 жыл бұрын
Bryn McClennan you’re absolutely right. If you choose to not bother with life, that’s your decision, and I think seeing the environment we live in that’s understandable. However- as a fellow being in existence. I encourage you to use this opportunity of life available to you to find something that’s worth the search. Can’t promise you you’ll find it, but since you’re already alive anyways. Why not give it a shot?
@brynmcclennan973
@brynmcclennan973 4 жыл бұрын
Christine haha I’m not saying I don’t want to do anything :) I have lots of stuff I love. I’m just saying isn’t it weird that feeling like you have to “do something” in life isn’t even a real thing?
@locas563
@locas563 4 жыл бұрын
all i do now while working at home is listen to these redwine talks and let me tell youuuuuuuuu the work don't get done hahaha i be cracking up, crying and it really is sooo relatable. love this
@megl2003
@megl2003 4 жыл бұрын
I'm in my 30's and I still don't have a clue... haha. She looks like Maggie Rogers. :)
@morganstubie
@morganstubie Ай бұрын
Girl, I’m an an only child too with wonderful parents and they encouraged me to follow my soul. I went to school in Paris and I hear ya!! You don’t need to know everything all of the time…
@Yangyang-1995-
@Yangyang-1995- 4 жыл бұрын
I like to be free emotionally and physically.. I don't think any relationship should be a restriction for each other..jealousy is when you have to rely your happiness on other people ....
@Clio00hikaru
@Clio00hikaru 4 жыл бұрын
I think people are on a path, constantly exploring, and the goal post shifts over time. There’s a constant undertone of uncertainty.
@lifeinacubicle9674
@lifeinacubicle9674 4 жыл бұрын
my second fav youtube channel!! First is Damon and Jo. :-p Love from Sri Lanka.
@damondominique
@damondominique 4 жыл бұрын
Awwwwww that's sweet. And what!? Sri Lanka? Damn! ❤️
@lifeinacubicle9674
@lifeinacubicle9674 4 жыл бұрын
@@damondominique *drops deaddd. You should come visit when the pandemic is over!
@zyra5509
@zyra5509 4 жыл бұрын
I miss these moments with my friends. Just talk about random stuffs while drinking and eating. And you're just free to talk about your feelings and opinions w/o judgements. ❤️
@LashanR
@LashanR 4 жыл бұрын
All of Damon's friends are the types of people I need out here in London. Do they all just live in Paris?
@LPBineli
@LPBineli 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe you should visit Brighton. Iive Here and people are like his friends.
@lynnsalee8645
@lynnsalee8645 4 жыл бұрын
I high key feel you in this comment
@madmelk
@madmelk 4 жыл бұрын
@@LPBineli i live in Brighton and i don’t know, i agree and disagree
@tajshapope8131
@tajshapope8131 4 жыл бұрын
Damon, your arm muscles are POPPIN off in this video! Being 25 Im going through that rough period.....I'm working on being patient with myself everyday. Great video as always!
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