Lilia *finally* chops off ALL HER HAIR! (almost 13 yrs old) 🥺 SHOCKING EXTREME HAIRCUT

It's happening! After many years and many inches donated since she was a little girl... my daughter is cutting off her long, heavy, thick hair... for good. 🥺
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My name is Jess! I had a daughter (Lilia) at age 18 w/ my high school sweetheart. We mutually split up & co-parent to this day. I met someone new, got married, had twin boys (Kyson & Kaden) and another son (Landen). He cheated, we split ways, & he’s not around much. After juggling life as a single mom of 4 for some time, I met Chris, he had 2 sons: Caden and Tommy, who eventually became my step sons. After Chris and I got married, we had our 7th child together, Addelyn. We’re one big, complicated, blended family & every second of our story is on KZbin, you can start from the beginning here: • 8 Weeks Pregnant!
FAQ: Yes, we’re done having kids.
FAQ: Names and ages of the kids: Caden (step son, born in 2009), Lilia (daughter, born in 2010), Tommy (step son, born in 2010), Kyson (son, born in 2012), Kaden (son, born in 2012), Landen (son, born in 2014), Addelyn (daughter, born in 2016)
FAQ: Who are the dads? Gabe (Lilia’s dad), Drake (Kyson, Kaden, and Landen bio dad), Chris (Caden, Tommy, Addelyn’s dad)

[@swallison1]

Lilia looks so happy with her new hair! But my favorite detail, was when Addy said she thought she wouldn't like it, and Jess reminded her that it is about what Lilia likes and wants. It wasn't a lecture, but just a calm, casual reminder for a little kid that will hopefully carry over into situations when Jess isn't there to remind any of the younger kids that their opinions don't count for more than the person actually making the choice.

[@melissamack333]

Yes I loved that! Just a quick reminder that hey, you might not like it, but it's not your hair, and we should let people do what THEY want with their bodies regardless of if we like it or not. And like you said, she mentioned it so casually, not in a mean/lecture sort of way. A+ parenting right there imo

[@autumnsteinert2303]

lol 😊

[@Official_Yummy]

@@melissamack333 yes

[@kerripastor4039]

Her confidence and self expression is truly incredible. As an adolescent mental health therapist I see kids struggle so much w their identity and resistance from their parents. Your acceptance and support of Lilias identity/expression is everything. Love you guys!!! ♥️

[@clairesheehan8246]

She is so cute with the haircut. She has a lot of confidence, love her

[@TDSiren]

Big props to your friend who is a hairstylist! Awesome of her to explain the process to Lilia. She seems very knowledgeable, friendly, and someone I would totally trust with my hair!!

[@ABlendedLife]

as a hairstylist & a mama of 4 I’m so happy your so supportive I know how hard this is for us moms I’ve had amazing teen makeovers Like this and moms will stand there crying but still very supportive Loving everything Lilia is doing how she expressed herself So many young teens will Be looking up to her she’s so fearless 🙌🏼😭

[@LucianSabau]

GABi

[@chassycastellano2718]

She is an example of Perfection! Lilia is such an incredible role model for young people today! She is not afraid to be her authentic self and that is the way we all should be! Way to go Lilia live your best life and the only way to do that is to be You All the Time, Every Minute of Everyday! Don't ever change for anyone just CONTINUE TO LOVE YOURSELF, BECAUSE YOU ARE TRULY A BEAUTIFUL SOUL! GREAT JOB JESS, I LOVE THAT YOU ALLOW HER TO EXPRESS WHO SHE IS IN HER OWN WAY! YOU ARE GIVING HER THE ABSOLUTE BEST CHANCE AT A HAPPY LIFE THAT YOU COULD POSSIBLY GIVE HER. ITS AMAZING TO WATCH YOU SUPPORT HER COMPLETELY! SENDING YOU HUGS FROM SANTA FE, NEW MEXICO 💕🤗

[@MarieA38]

Love when Addie said she doesn’t think she’ll like it and Jess reminded her that it’s what Lilia wants/thinks that matters. That’s what I’ve been telling people on Jess’ TikTok that say they don’t like it. Jess is such a good mom, allowing her kids to express themselves and teaching them to respect other people’s opinions and choices even though they defer from their own etc. wish more parents were like this ❤❤

[@ashtonpatterson1893]

Lilias image really came to life with this haircut her vibe and personality all came together seeing a side of her really come out especially her style that we have briefly or barely seen on camera yet I’m so happy for her I can’t believe she’s gonna be a full on teenager next month really seeing a mature side of her come out it’s like her hair was hiding her for so long. Lilia you look incredible ❤

[@san3949]

I absolute love how much confidence this has given Lilia. Seeing her change and how amazing all the family is about it all is heart warming.

[@avamariearmbright4304]

Jessica, the way you let all of your children feel confident in their own body and you have and will always support them makes me so so so happy! This is my future goals for when I’m a mama!! You’re amazing! ❤

[@LittleFishy000]

I love how supportive you are of your kids. L is truly shining with her hair and the love your giving her is so refreshing to see.

[@LillyNature]

Lilia looks incredible♥️ Jess, I think you are such an amazing mom. I think it's absolutely heart warming that Lilia can be herself and you are supporting her in any way. It really touches my heart and heals a little bit of my inner child. Thank you for takeing us along!

[@Sabrina-Photography]

I am so in love with how Jess is as a mom. I have 2 little kids and I hope to be just as exciting and loving and supportive as Jess. ❤️

[@brynnalys]

I love not only the fact that you let her choose how she wants to style herself but the fact that you constantly support and remind her how beautiful she is! Lilia is so lucky to have you as a mama!

[@tinkerbellflys6]

I’m so glad you let Lilia embrace her own style and self not every parent does that so I love to see you supporting her through it all 💗 also I’m so glad she has accepting friends who love her for who she is, that is so important!!

[@pamelacunningham7668]

LOVE the hair cut. Thank you Jess for listening to your children and making them comfortable and safe.

[@KatyWatson173]

I absolutely love Lilia’s new haircut she exudes confidence. 🙂💖🐈🐈‍⬛

[@michelleandrews9423]

I love it and she looks so grown up with it!! I love that you let your babies be themselves!! Such an amazing mom and daughter team!

[@abbiesapp2922]

I love this new Lilia. And I love that everyone supports her. My mom talked me out of multiple haircuts when I was younger, claiming my curly hair wouldn't look good in short styles, so I love to see parents that fully support their kids choices. And Lilia has so much more confidence the new haircut!!! And who doesn't love shopping for some new clothes!!!

[@renegadestorm6903]

Not my mom but a friend , had a really a short hair cut , and I said I wanted mine kinda like hers but messy taking into a-count my hair was curly . She said it wouldn’t work . Spoiler it did .

[@abbiesapp2922]

​@renegadestorm6903 the freedom I got when finally chopping my hair of was so crazy. It was the end of my senior year, and I did it like a couple weeks after prom. I had gone all over short in October, but let it grow out for prom (bc I wanted an updo, and it looked amazing) and then Jojo Swia chopped all her hair off and I decided I would too. I've had it half shaved ever since.

[@katetomlinson1638]

the moment i thought oh yeah she’s working it is when everyone looked and chris is wowing at it, her jaw structure and beautiful smile pull it all together who would’ve known she could pull this off!

[@Zimhart22]

But can we get a clothing haul?? Lilias style has changed so much over even just the past few months. That's awesome! Especially in middle school I was so scared to try new things cause I didn't want other kids to notice. And now in my adult life I still hold myself back because of those same thoughts. Definitely something I regret of my early teen years is caring so much about peoples thoughts that I don't even talk to.

[@ForeverMrsKidrauhl]

I love how you allow her to be who she wants to be. You're such a great mama Jess!!

[@jessicamorrison5029]

You are literally the best mom ever. So sweet. The true meaning of being a parent ❤️

[@branchk]

i love how supportive her mom is and her whole family!!!

[@natashaswain7478]

Lilia's haircut looks nice on her. I like how happy she is and how she is not afraid to be herself and I love how her mom backed her up and supports her.

[@madikam]

Lilias confidence is incredible! I’m so happy for her!

[@MsNutbucket]

Lilia I am excited for you🎉 Your new look is Fantastic!! Glad your family is Supportive ❤

[@l.12345]

You can definitely see that this transformation has given Lilia some major boost in confidence! ❤ And, I don't know who said: "You look like Kaden!", but man, they're right! That was one of the first thoughts I had when I saw it on Instagram! You go, Lilia, be who you truly are! ❤

[@emilyelisabeth7131]

Her smile says it all, she needed the hair cut to show her true self, the confidence now is so much more than before ❤️beautiful

[@annaokropiridze2539]

I am always a quiete viewer, but I couldn't NOT comment on Lilia's hair ❤️❤️❤️❤️ It looks so beautiful on her and she rocks it and is truly shining🤩🤩🤩🤩

[@caitlin12315]

As someone who has wanted to chop their hair off and be themself but can't because of family this makes me so happy. I love how supportive you all are, Lilia you look incredible, such a slay.

[@angelblazevicius2001]

Lilia looks amazing. Love her hair So nice of her to donate to cancer patients. Great job

[@melwasf0und]

as someone who cut their hair a lot shorter to be more comfortable in myself, the reaction from friends was so amazing just to be asked what i wanted to be referred to as in regards to pronouns and stuff made me so happy

[@noelbivens8074]

I love how she’s feeling herself. Honestly her energy is so similar to Jess is adorable

[@rebeccaottavio2338]

Love how everyone is always so supportive of lilia ❤

[@Mad_DOG-nz7gn]

I love how she talk to you about everything and shows her confidence❤

[@christinemoorewood1844]

I think it looks adorable. Her hair is awesome. I'm glad that she expresses herself in the way she wants and you let her awesome parenting. Love you you guys. You guys are awesome!🎉

[@bevwhittle461]

Loving Lilia's new hair cut and so happy that your class were asking about your pronouns and everything, it is fantastic to see such progressiveness and inclusion. In my day such a drastic change in appearance would have meant dealing with being bullied for weeks afterwards!

[@bellab2889]

Lilia’s hair looks great and the best thing is that she looks so happy!

[@ryleighrain9821]

​@Hope,s world do t think j should ask people that quetion only bc it can make people feel very uncomfortable just saying I'm not trying to be or nothing. 😊❤ have an awesome dayy! ❤🎉😊😊

[@ryleighrain9821]

I love ur name! ❤

[@KCandhoney]

@Hope,s world I don't think you need to ask that question ❓ you should try to say something more positive

[@jordangraybill1374]

@Hope,s world that is not something you ask she is Lilia she looks like herself and also why does it matter if she looks like a girl or a boy or whatever

[@pamelacunningham7668]

What does "look like a girl or boy" mean? She looks like a human and has explained where she stands.

[@liszt77777]

Incredible. Short hair suits her indeed ❤

[@maddyc4765]

I’m so proud of Lilia and I look up to you so much Jess. You are the most amazing, supportive, hype women of a mom and your kids are so lucky to be so loved.

[@EGracie86]

Loved how Lilia's stylist explained everything. The cut is really nice and suits her so much, I know how light my hair feels after a cut so can only imagine that, literal, weight off her shoulders.

[@teamtightpants]

I feel like I just watched Lilia become a full-blown teenager! I love seeing her find herself and be able to express it fully

[@TheZiggy411]

I LOVE that she loves to switch it up and doesn’t care what anyone else would think ❤ she’s an amazing girl .

[@Madelynntapken]

This video made me sooooo happy!! Thank you so much for being you and showing us your real, true growths!!! It’s so exciting to see you become older, stronger and more brave individuals!! You all rock!!

[@JaydenStorey69]

I’m so proud of you lilia you look good with your new hair cut I love how jesss lets her child have what she wants to make her kids happy ❤❤

[@logangoodson1665]

I just really wanna say thank you🎉🎉 as a girl who's mother wouldn't even let me style my own hair till I was 15 and put so much importance on long hair for girls I love and appreciate that you listen to your child and did what she asked even if it wasn't something you liked so yea thank you

[@blondie5240]

Lilia looks SOOO bright and happy. It makes my heart smile. She’s glowing ✨

[@Tia.H]

Your haircut looks absolutely fabulous, Lilia! Good on you for doing what you want to do! You look so happy. It's great that your family support you in expressing yourself the way you want, too. I was at the hairdressers a few years back and wanted a shorter haircut, but my mum's cousin was nervous because my mum had other ideas. I basically told him that it was my hair to do with as I wanted and she'd need to suck it up. I got my shorter haircut (above the shoulders) and everyone was happy.

[@laurendolan7853]

Your a great mom! Your support radiates keep doing you Jess I love watching your family grow ❤️ your all amazing

[@charlenepatton4052]

I really love her hair. It's so cute. Gives her her own style and her personality shines through. You rock you.

[@toniahammond4567]

I love it!!!!😍😍 Lilia is the sweetest girl, i hope she stays this way forever! 🎉🎉

[@omirasantillanes5150]

Can't wait to see the new vlog and hope you guys have a great Sunday evening and night with the kids and hope Lilia loves her haircut and can't wait to see the before and after pictures of her with her new haircut.

[@cruzinbosco]

I love everything about this!! We love you Lilia!! 🥰

[@sngray11]

Lilia looks so much more mature with her new haircut! 💗 I too grow my hair long, get sick of it and up chopping it all off and donating it. And Jess, you are such an incredible Mama! 💗 I love the way that you support all of your children to embrace their passions, interests, personal style, etc.

[@donnajoblok697]

I really really love her hair! But also her style. You can see how much she grows and learns to be herself. That is amazing!

[@Azlantheforestgremlin]

Lilia thriving gives my old, cold, queer heart so much hope and joy. You're doing amazing Jess!

[@user-vi4uz9oo7p]

This makes the baby me soooo happy. I came out at 28 years old and 3 years later I finally love myself enough to be happy..I grew up in a not so accepting home so I love your support of your daughter! I cut my hair off a year ago and it made me sooo free! Keep up the positivity lillia! You’re awesome!

[@saragomez4991]

Love Lilia’s new hairstyle!!!! Lilia you are such an amazing inspiration for all the young kids of today. ❤️😍😘🥰

[@Jackert86]

Lilia looks amazing. Such a vibe and I love her personality and style so much. Shes completely herself and thats just amazing ❤

[@DigiRangerScott]

She looks incredible! Such an adult style!

[@madtingz2288]

It really suits her and her personality! I’m glad she’s being herself :) good job Lilia

[@natalieebeling]

I’m so excited for her been watching y’all snice she was in your belly 🥺🥺 your first bump date with her 😊😊 I’m so happy and proud to see who she becomes, WE LOVE YOu AND SUPPORT YOU ARE ARE CHEERING YOU ON!!!

[@AbraFAM_de]

Wow, her hair looks sooo beautiful and cute. ❤😊 And even more important, I feel she is shining much more from the inside with it.

[@BlueMolly2024]

So excited for Lilia. She looks fantastic.

[@nickiebledsoe6302]

I flipping love it! ❤️ She looks so good! 🙂

[@heatherlozano6672]

Love the new hair and love the community around you at home and school! Keep it up! ❤❤

[@wendylear913]

❤ I love that yall support your kids NO MATTER WHAT

[@DanielleLera]

I love it! Looks great Lilia 😊

[@melissamack333]

Hearing Lilia talk about her classmates asking her about & respecting her pronouns made me so happy! The kids are alright 🥹🤞🏻also she looks gorgeous & I LOVE the confidence! She's clearly been raised in an environment that encourages her individuality & that's HUGE especially for young members of the LGBT+ community. Good for her & good on you, mom & dad (all 4 of you)!!! ❤️❤️

[@melissamack333]

@S D cry about it

[@jessicaruiter8508]

I am OBSESSED with Lilias new hair!! It suits her extremely well!! I cried happy tears when I saw her reaction!! So stinkiin cuteeee!! ❤️

[@Ozarkbear80]

I love Lilia's hair, it's so good looking on them! Kinda bummed we didn't get a clothing haul of all the clothes you guys got, but that's okay. You are such a great mom Jess!

[@shelbylynn06]

how is it she can pull of any and all hairstyles???? she looks absolutely beautiful

[@littlebopeepcattery2186]

Looks great! And best of all Lilia loves it ❤

[@leisabrady5384]

You look AMAZING LILLIA! So cool how a haircut can completely change your look. Here comes the awesome teen years of expression and experimentation. Love how you embrace you!! LILLIA you are so confident and you know who you are. Some people can go thru their whole lives without knowing who they are. Sending loads of love Leisa Western Australia xxx😘😘😘

[@sheria1011]

Absolutely love the haircut and seeing how much she's shining coming into her teenage years

[@SarahBear1209]

I love her hair so much! So super cute!

[@lizobet1]

Her hair looks amazing...such a confidence boost for a young person exploring their identity ❤

[@abbyray5947]

Lillias hair is so cute!!!!🤍 you guy’s are great parents.I love how you support all of your kid’s decisions.much love to you all!🥰

[@ismayevans3560]

Fabulous! The confidence is oozing from Lilia! Love from the UK 🇬🇧

[@daniellemarshall8024]

Love Lilia's haircut it absolutely suits her so much better than the long hair !!!!!🥰🥰🥰

[@Lisa_Uncensored]

Just because things are different doesn’t mean it’s better. The fact people don’t care there is an issue is mind boggling.

[@kennedygraceee]

fr why r people normalizing this

[@Rey-fj5bk]

what is the “issue”? her cutting her hair? it’s literal hair.

[@madi-olivia07]

I just have to say this haircut really really suits her. I’m in love with it. So happy for you darling you look fabulous 🫶🏻

[@flaviekhn6895]

I never leave comments, BUT Lilia looks so beautiful with her new hair ! I can see she's 100% herself and enjoying it and I love it ! Love U 🫶

[@ashleyroblox_love]

omg i am so proud of lilia for doing what she always wanting to do 💕

[@haileymedoff7992]

I remember wanting to cut my hair so much before I truly found my identity and I definitely felt more confident once I did. It’s amazingly obvious to see how much more confident Lilia feels with this hair cut. It suits them so well! It’s also great to hear how great her classmates were about it. Great to know they are in an accepting environment both at home as well at school.

[@jordanvlogs6348]

I absolutely LOVE her new hair!! I also have thick hair. Maybe not as thick as hers, but I do understand the struggle. Although I miss her long hair, she is rockin' her new style! 😍🥰❤️

[@brendad940]

Looks great Lilia! My daughter did that at 16 for the first time and looked amazing too! Sending love from Wilsonville Oregon ❤

[@fatmaalshamsi1091]

She tried so hard to have an LGQBT+ baby. She tried to dress Landon in Princess outfits and have him in make up and he eventually didn't wanna play along anymore so she moved on to Lillia .... all to stay relevant to the woke mob. Poor children.

[@Rey-fj5bk]

she wanted to cut her hair tho? idk abt her other kid honestly but lillia seems really really happy with her haircut so just let her be.

[@sirish310]

I love how she’s expressing herself. ❤

[@taylorchristine769]

Beautiful, dashing, and gorgeous in general but most of all because it’s what speaks to her and brings her inside shine to a whole new level, actually to a whole new ballgame she’s far beyond levels 😍 congrats on the new era of you 🎉😎

[@Gigi4u]

Can I just say WOW JuST WOW!!!!! You look incredible Lilia! So much weight gone, genuinely happy, lovely style,.... This is you ❤

[@thekiknd]

Omg typical younger sibling reaction 😂 my younger bros always made fun of everything I did 😂 I’d try a funky makeup look and they’d be like “your face looks weird” 😂 but it ended up actually helping me to have confidence in my own style because I could be like I don’t care what you think, I like it!!!! Lilia absolutely rocks that new cut!!!!

[@pq1sl3y]

she suits it so well! glad she likes it!

[@ahargers93]

You can just tell that she feels more like herself with the shorter hair. She just looks like she feels more confident and comfortable in her body. Love that for her.

[@Ross1984.]

It looks great Lilia! I’m so glad your friends at school are being so accepting

[@emilyjay7844]

Kyson had the exact right question "do YOU like it Lilia" "yeah" "then I like it"

[@gladrags9124]

her hair grows so fast! it'll probably grow back to the same length in a year or two

[@sarathompson8004]

Lilia looks like a different person 😮 Wow!! Love the new style though. Go Lilia!!!! Jess, I love that you let your kids be who they want to be.

[@sduolcepoh7502]

lgbtq Homosexuals and Lesbians: Romans 1:24-32 24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves: 25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen. 26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature: 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. 28 And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient; 29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, debate, deceit, malignity; whisperers, 30 Backbiters, haters of God, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 Without understanding, covenantbreakers, without natural affection, implacable, unmerciful: 32 Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them.

[@anneahlefeld1989]

Lilia's hair looks amazing. She's exuding confidence, looks more comfortable in her skin , if that's even possible.

[@Hondasmama2005]

I love the new look! Also how her classmates are excited as she is about her new look and accepting of her being her! I can t 11: