Lilith in the 7th House | The Lilith Podcast

[@lex-rf3cz]

Being a Lilith 7th I tend to stay to myself. I don’t care to control nobody. Y’all make Lilith here sound like a bitter ass energy lmao but I be chilling

[@ThatssoRavenDeNai]

Huge facts 💯 it's usually the other way around for me I just let my partners go because I don't believe in control someone else

[@calgoulden8223]

But if you got in a relationship that's how you'd act, so it still applies

[@torivictoria46]

But what sign is your Lillith?

[@rockymountaingirl88]

but a lot of people are not self aware . you may not be like that, but you can still attract people with libra lilith vibes.

[@Dulcecicero1433]

I have Lilith in the 7th under the sign of leo and I got married at 21. Then I found out he cheated so I left him w out looking back. We were married for 6 yrs. In vedic it also states Rahu in the 7th house delays marriage; causes unhappiness in marriage, can even cause the death of the spouse. There will be lot of opposition, obstacles, and hardships with the business partner. The negative influence is magnified when other inauspicious planets are placed along with Rahu in this house.

[@ley1029]

Your kitty is PRECIOUS Nina. Love the video already!

[@keorabernard7584]

Lilith in 7th house can be verbally abusive, project, and be judgemental. However, we also can attract the same things when we aren't aware of our self-worth or traumas that make is want to align with a darker partner. I actually really like you ladies but this was definitely a more negative interpretation of this placement. Perhaps, you all have had bad experiences with Lilith in the 7th house? I have Lilith in Virgo in 7th house and we're not easy people but more positivity next time. I know it's not a light placement but please understand that it's not just Lilith. There are other placements too. Teigen has Scorpio and Sagittarius which both are extreme regarding opinions and beliefs. Love you ladies but more constructive video next time please 💗

[@freakiniilse]

Yes thank you, I agree with this. It felt like a lot of unresolved issues were projected in the understanding of lilith here. Yes it is dark, yes it is complicated, but we still have human feelings.

[@BlackThorndRose]

What if you have your natal Venus conjunct Lilith in the 7th house (or in general)?🤷🏻‍♀️

[@freakiniilse]

@@BlackThorndRose i read it is somewhat the same, and full of dissapointments in love. As this natal placement seems to symbolise an intuitive knowlegde on how an ideal relationship should be. This ideal is hard to attain for people who can't. So this might lead to dissapointments. Or it might lead to the natal becoming really bitter in the regard of relationships. This can change over the course of time, and ofcourse these things aren't set in stone. These things can be obstacles in our life's, they might become our greatest source of fullfillment even.

[@deedeewimley]

I had a dream about Lilith becoming the dark goddess through what felt like the "first rape" .. and being in that position it took everything in me to not go into that rage and negativity and man-eater/emotionless entitlement of being disempowered and violated... it wasn't easy! It actually took the presence of a child to be my saving grace in a sense.. so it was about the logic of choosing a more positive path even though the circumstances are effed up... and having to grapple with the dark aspects of creator that can allow certain things to happen.. it taught me a lot about focusing on the root of destructive behaviors and heinous actions that always comes down to trauma... whether in this lifetime or a previous one 💕

[@angierosario5192]

See y’all so hurt about being 7th house in Lilith suck it up we all ain’t shit 😂 just cause we are made this way doesn’t mean we have to stay that way. 7th house in Capricorn 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@jaehyunscousinnara4537]

Same I'm a 7th house in Capricorn like you. Have you ever had a normal relationship like others?(I'm sorry if that came off rude I'm just curious because I got lilith in 7th house too)

[@freakiniilse]

I was looking for a more positive interpretation of Lilith in the 7th house, but maybe that was wishful thinking. XD I definitely agree with a lot of statements you made here; the abuse, the blaming, the projection the obsessiveness. Also the difficulty with admitting to those aspects or the attraction to those aspects within ourselves. I must say I find it funny in a way that this aspect is so two-faced, Virgin Mary and the AntiChrist are both associated with this aspect. I am glad that you mentioned Zooey Dechanel here though, it brought some light into the story. XD Asides from that, I feel it's a quite heavy pill to swallow... Not that it is something new to me, it's more that I hope to find some lightness and hope with this aspect. What you said was that when we start to acknowledge our own shadow we can overcome these things. I think to dig into our own shadow is anyhow a good idea and will benefit us into many areas of life. Anyhow thanks for making this video and for digging into the subject so deeply.

[@calgoulden8223]

theres nothing good about this placement.... sorry. It can help you in some ways sure, but in terms of benefitting the world? no

[@freakiniilse]

@@calgoulden8223 why you think there is nothing good about it, do you have this placement? I didn't mean the placement benefit the world, I mean diving into our own shadow can benefit ourselves.

[@calgoulden8223]

@@freakiniilse yeah exactly its only good for you, cause you see other people as a threat all the time. I have it in the 11th house so I feel like that in large groups

[@freakiniilse]

@@calgoulden8223 I see, I am sorry to hear that. It is true that other people feel as a threat a lot. It sucks. I think large groups must be terrifying for you. It is a burden, I once read though, that we can heal from this through life if we work through the karmic cycles of pluto and saturn.

[@calgoulden8223]

@@freakiniilse yeah its good to be aware of it and want to change but it'll always cause problems in that house, which is why I prefer to avoid big groups, maybe in the future it'll be different tho im still young

[@amandaa.5209]

I have Lilith in Virgo in 7th. I have Saturn, Jupiter Mars in Virgo in the 7th house also. Never had a good relationship nothing that lasted 2ys. N mostly Scorpios! Alot of married men or that are with someone hit on me. And much older at times.... You nailed it. And I'm a giver also.... It's the Virgo in me. Ive known that I will never marry... Parents are also divorced...so I'm pretty much screwed!! Oh and Ive been cheated on n I feel it so strong when It happens it's the craziest feeling

[@12ctube]

I have this and the demon analogy is f real.. I had no idea until I looked at dating history and could explain some things pretty extreme

[@QueenLDes]

You both succeeded in gaslighting me a lot in these 7h videos. Thank you for telling me it's all my fault.

[@lakshrampal2970]

Wow, i remember commenting something similar on another BML in 7th by a female. 🤗 I know exactly how it feels and how most of the times you arent doing anything and all these things happen that you dont want at all. 💓 i landed in some toxic side of this placement a few years ago. Just now, I was followed for 4 streets by some weird guy i didnt make eye contact with (a thing a learnt), wore my ugliest pants and t shirt, walked around even an hour before that contemplating how to not look sexual and why this is happening at all. Only to come home, have a fight with the God and realise maybe i give it too much attention and therefore by law of attraction, i find myself in this situation over and over again. I also realise, how disconnecting and hating my own sexual nature because of perverts, i am further making myself more powerless and weaker. I havent listened to the video yet. I just came home and sat down to watch something that could enlighten me further, please forgive me if my story was irrelevant. But just saying i know it sucks, i took some time to tell myself, that its not your fault, you are perfect and healthy and beautiful and kind, just the way you are. ❤ just focus on what you want to create. And other things. I am lost here. And its been a while. Sorry again if this was irrelevant.

[@lakshrampal2970]

This was enlightening actually. You should have listened that one female, God was that bad.

[@smooth1748]

We have a lot of toxic traits that need healing. We grow through our relationships. We come out better as long as we acknowledge what we did wrong. If we believe we didn't do anything wrong, then, that right there is where we need to change.

[@starsalignastrology9492]

Great job - loved all of your insights. This IS a difficult placement and is imho the epitome of what Lilith is about, exile from the self/other/our sexuality. Myself and my off and on "partner" of 15 years both have Lilith in the 7th in Cancer. Intense!

[@PaulWhitcomb-ty6md]

You two work well together. You might consider doing readings that include segments from both of you. I enjoyed this video very much. I have all four Lilith points in my 7th house, with three in Pisces, and late-Aquarius Waldemath conjunct (1 degree orb) Aquarius Moon/Desc. opposite 1st house Virgo Pluto/Leo Asc. Isn't that fun? There is light in the tunnel, though. With Moon trine Neptune, Sun conjunct Neptune (in Scorpio) and Neptune sextile Asc, along with a huge amount of Uranus/Aquarius energy in my chart, I bail out at the first sign of conflict. So yeah, I definitely keep my shoes by the door, if you know what I mean. I believe in my own freedom too much to deprive others of theirs.

[@Selflesstarot717]

I only have Lilith and North Node in 7th house and they are both in Aries. I understand that I’ve always lost myself in relationships. Does this mean I need to be poly? Single life?

[@fortune_roses]

Got Mars & Saturn (in Scorpio) in the 7th house :(( this was an interesting look into 7th house themes. Thanks!

[@torivictoria46]

My mars and venus is taurus 1st and lillith scorp 7th. I guess my lillith is calmed down by that???

[@lakshrampal2970]

Thankyou for this long video and i wish it was longer. Do you have any sources we could go to for more information?

[@criscross9945]

Sorry dear, it does not match with me. People should know, that absolutely every placement has positive and negative and it depends on each person which side they align themselves with. It all comes down to the level of awareness one is at.

[@shivahema77]

😂😮😅my ex boyfriend 💔 have this placement very true... whenever he's mood is off he will put the blame on me.......

[@leab.9571]

MY TIME HAS FINALLY COME

[@dask472]

I have Lilith in cancer in the 7th and I gotta say I don’t really relate to this 😅. I’m 28, I’ve never even been in a romantic relationship and have had the best friendships. I’m Not a perfect person but certainly not what you described. Does this mean I’ll never be in a good healthy romantic relationship?

[@aniassantiago6445]

I felt read to filth. I also have Pluto, NN and saturn in my 7th H.

[@3sheets2thewind98]

Having Lilith in my 7th hours I have a thing for gothic girls

[@crystalsmith9038]

Yeah I had a thing for emo or guys who looked cool and smoked back then when I was depressed b4 my spiritual awakening

[@BlackWingedSeraphX]

Can't wait for 12th House. I know it's a ways away, but I hear it's a pretty savage placement.

[@torivictoria46]

In whole sign in lilith in 7th scorp...but in all other house systems, it's in 6th ...what to do????

[@squaddon5861]

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[@HumbleSinner7777]

Lilith in Scorpio 7th house 😮😈

[@randomvids7583]

Me t00

[@tybenz2533]

You monsters🥺

[@randomvids7583]

@@tybenz2533 lol wym ? I wanna hear another perspective

[@unkownknight6127]

@@tybenz2533 why?

[@torivictoria46]

Hi. Me too, lillith in 7th Scorpio. My sun is pisces...lillith is my only other warer placement. I totally relate to this video.

[@a7onzo_]

Can’t wait for Lilith in the 8th House, mines is in Virgo

[@PuzlaPanov]

Thank you for this video! (Lilith in Sagittarius in the 7th house)

[@BlackThorndRose]

I have Lilith in Pisces in my 7th house and…it’s conjunct Venus…what does that exactly say?

[@torivictoria46]

That sounds pretty and lovely, honestly.

[@arthurwanyama1461]

Yes finally

[@lessandra602]

🙏

[@venusianbeauty01]

u read me like filth 😂😂😅😢

[@itsbree.berries]

I have Lilith in Pisces in the 7H and I don’t really know how to feel about this video…

[@torivictoria46]

Maybe you'd be overly emotional?

[@BlackWingedSeraphX]

This placement almost guarantees a Cheater.

[@heavydreamer]

I can guarantee you the opposite, the Cheated. And after a while: trusting noone, yay

[@ley1029]

@@heavydreamer THISS

[@lex-rf3cz]

@@heavydreamer I’m at that point. I don’t care to put energy in relationships.

[@crystalsmith9038]

Yeah honestly I lowkey wanna screw any guy I become friends with which is a problem, but I hate cheaters and sleeping around.

[@torivictoria46]

Yes...it does