Lindsey Shaw and Devon Werkheiser Address Their Intimate Relationship | Ep 40

[@NedsPod]

What shocked you most from this episode?? 👀

[@MegaRobinize]

It was awesome

[@iloveyoutubedeer9905]

The 45-second delay in the beginning LOL. Seriously, you guys are bringing back so many wonderful childhood memories. Keep it going.

[@vodkajaybulls]

Love these better help segments! There actually lit A.f. and low key spot on for a lot of us. Way to be! 10/10!! 🔥🔥

[@HirokiPlays]

Thinking my phone wasn't working for a good 5 minutes lol love you all!

[@TheChurchofBreadandCheese]

"I'm a virgin, my trauma isn't"

[@AmiriHipHop]

Before watching this episode I just have to say I feel bad for Daniel. He practically has to deal with Lindsey and Devon having sex mentally from across the table every single week lmao!

[@Chalepastel]

lmao

[@bdeamon1]

You mean he gets to...

[@FlowlikeRiv]

Someone finally said it lmao it needed to be said

[@andriam254]

😂😂😂

[@donjoe8518]

I do feel like they need to give it a go, they have the chemistry

[@Whizabethj]

I know y'all skipping to THAT part, but the whole episode is worth the watch. I tune into every episode and they're all great! This conversation about sex and intimacy was refreshing and will help someone.

[@imreallyelchapo]

I just made it to this episode and I've loved every one so far I hope hey keep going for a long time

[@MrTron15]

The fact that all of them still have chemistry from when they used to work together when they was younger is amazing I'm proud of each and every one of them and I'm just glad they're being honest about their experience cuz not every kid was spared from the drama with Nickelodeon but from what I can see they all still grow up to be fine adults and they're honestly talking about all there experiences

[@NitoTv]

Bj conversation starts 34:00

[@muayty21]

You the goat

[@nataliagarza5661]

Ty

[@madisonrembert2024]

Love you

[@jshotphotography457]

Send ya cash app 🫡🫡

[@pesodavinchy]

Thank you my good man

[@Charizeldio]

This was the best podcast so far. This is how I imagined a real adult Ned’s reboot being. Like real adult conversations about real adult situations and topics. Love y’all, keep up the good work.

[@donitas90]

and not just adults talking about adult stuff, but remembering their horny teen experiences without any shame at all. that’s way higher, since every other people would not talk about this afraid to think about pedo or wrong stuff topics.

[@mastixencounter]

You mean any reboot where the casts are adults now

[@prodshoki]

@@donitas90Yall are brainrotted humans

[@brielec91]

Lindsey out here just putting so many feelings I’ve had in my 20’s regarding sex that I hadn’t been able to form into thoughts or express by words into my 30’s. I just know there was a shift for me. But she explained it perfectly, from the whole performative aspect, to the “letting your trauma f**k and not you”. Spot on

[@LL-mj7pz]

Mannn💯

[@infamous-xm2fc]

“im a virgin my trauma is not” I died. this needs to be in a t shirt lmao

[@paccmancxz]

Done.

[@Brandon-pq7lq]

It’s awesome how they can have these experiences at a young age together, get older, and just talk about it like it’s nothing. That shit is cool to me. A lot of nowadays are too focused on “naw that’s my ex we ain’t talking about that”. Love conversations like this

[@LadyCimaju]

Yeah bc that was something CASUAL, and even if there were feelings involved they were just teens, it’s not the same when they betray you or abuse you🙃🙃 grow up

[@ceeramos97]

​@@LadyCimajudamn who hurt you😂😂 shut up

[@jameswiggle]

Amen Sir...also lol at the person telling you to grow up

[@Anewevisual]

Wdym too focused on??? Not everybody wants to talk about intimate sexual details about their past. or is yours so dry that you need to hear about other peoples that badly? Lol

[@joshuacampos421]

Perv

[@anns1109]

“I’m a virgin but my trauma is not” New favorite quote 😂😂

[@mione134]

Same! It's perfect

[@dreamcage1801]

I’m still a virgin and I am 32

[@Ass794]

@@dreamcage1801Here 🍪

[@dreamcage1801]

@@Ass794 🍑

[@1Lanavis1]

It was fire honestly

[@KelzGlover]

Daniel telling the 10000 year old dad joke “Dunlap you’re belt” had me gasping 😅

[@N7Landry]

All these years later and they're still giving me advice for life

[@Liljuliia]

I really appreciate how Devon wanted to keep there past relationship private. Great episode!

[@bloodgrass2519]

Lindsey: I am a little boy Daniel: That might be the problem Amazing as always.

[@aninhacadilaque233]

I love how transparent they were in this podcast !!! How beautiful it is to see people speak soo openly about what we all go through at some point in our lives

[@littlemisstentoes]

I'm so glad I didn't just skip to the BJ part. They had such an inspiring convo about sex because I've always struggled with it and felt so much validation with some of their opinions about it!

[@degreaseLLC]

So happy to see all three of you have grown up to be so intelligent and reasonable and respectable.

[@dianathom8786]

Also; Thank you, Lindsey, for your openness in this episode. You validated a lot of feelings for me, and I'm sure a lot of other girls. You are a gem and the best.

[@trigunstudios217]

If you have bad feelings about things you did it is because you made a mistake you need to avoid in the future. Validating your feelings sounds like you are using someone else to justify your bad behavior that you haven't learned from.

[@taronpratt]

Stop looking for validation

[@taronpratt]

​@@trigunstudios217facts. These the type of ppl you stay away from. They are a lost cause because like u said, they're constantly lookin for justification to their negative actions when they know they are wrong.

[@PredatorH2O]

@@trigunstudios217 *loud incorrect buzzer*

[@Silly-Goose.]

@@trigunstudios217It’s hilarious and shameful how you interpret OG’s comment as a form of seeking validation to continue toxic habits. In no way did she say or imply such assumptions. Being self aware of your past mistakes and finding solace in knowing you’re not the only person in the world that suffers with similar experiences can help people grow past their mistakes instead of dwelling in self hatred. It’s hilarious how you hold up a mirror to other’s flaws and yet you don’t even realize how much of a self righteous bully you are. You have a lot of work to do on yourself. Good luck.

Can Lindsey and Devon just get together already???? Like legit, the way y'all are describing each other in what you're looking for is WILD.

[@LesEXO2012]

Right??? I don't know them personally, but to me it seems like there's something there that could be long lasting if they give it a go lol

[@Shadessmh]

Adults can make decissions on their own

[@LesEXO2012]

@ekkusu9493 Yeah and nobody is saying they can't lol

[@OuhPii]

Some people work better as friends.

[@SakinishiChannel]

I mean they did get together at one point

[@Mr_Jay__]

Video freezes at around 55seconds to 1 minute and 26 seconds

[@maxtreen3144]

So did mine

[@juliuskingsely8256]

Mine too.

[@Chtsht23]

Not all capes wear heroes.

[@TORULEZ10]

It freezes again around 38:30, until around 39:10. 46:10-46:40.

[@medz32]

And again at 46:10

[@Saturns27]

Yall helped me as a child and helping me even more as an adult. These conversations are so refreshing and it makes me feel seen that other people have these issues and you guys are kind of putting it into words that I couldn't figure out myself

[@NostalgiaRocket]

I like the natural way they speak of their moments. It's like having friends and it feels natural. I just treasure this actors!!!

[@SladeCrow704]

I’m so glad y’all have really opened up to the fanbase about your privacy in your lives and give us a more in depth look at your personal lives

[@reggie5904]

we do NOT need to know this shit lmaoo

[@gabrielah9896]

This was such an open vulnerable conversation, your feelings are so relatable Lindsey!!! Many people are going through that shift of wanting real connection before sex, maturing in that aspect is a lot harder said than done

[@lucypalacios5090]

Lindsey, you talking about the TRUE INTIMACY and vulnerability of true sex was so brilliant. What a great pod. I laughed, I cried, and I’m glad I came 😃

[@KazTheGoat12]

Lmfaooooo! Im stealing that last line you wrote! Im sorry 🤣🤣🤣

[@jaylamb499]

You came? 💀💀

[@fastbreakreport]

Bruh 💀

[@jaylamb499]

@@fastbreakreport not the proudest fap 🤣🤣

[@loyalty2542]

*Druski voice* "What do you mean by that" 😏

[@JasonLee-ei5iw]

I literally rewatched and binged the show over summer after hearing a bit of the podcast and I forgot how funny it was as a kid! It literally became a comfort show to me, glad you guys are doin this ❤

[@NedsPod]

We're so glad to hear that ❤

[@YouTubeperson1337]

I been meaning to do this for some time. I keep forgetting, but also I keep pushing it off because I know it'll be emotional remembering back to my childhood even more than I do listening to this podcast 😭 and I won't be able to stop haha

[@simpleeling3839]

Saw a lot of ppl on tiktok and fb saying how uncomfortable they felt during the intimacy convo but honestly we are adults and so are they… so I think it’s great that they are talking about it. Also a lot of yall at that age was experimenting at that time as well. Aside from that I love the tea

[@shannonfilialunae1359]

I love Lindsey! she is so so so good with her words and explaining things she has gone through and felt and that is so special 🥹 I definitely can’t wait until she writes a book! I’ll wait.

[@ashleysharitz9689]

The way that Daniel and Devon made eye contact when Lindsay was talking was hellllla funny!!! 😂😂 23:05

[@Sofia2crazy]

Man, the way you talk so freely about sex is liberating honestly

[@Bobinsky850]

I absolutely love how they do the better help ads. So creative and real

[@josecolon4404]

I usually skip the ads but "What about the turtles? What about the TURTLES?!" made me laugh

[@NedsPod]

😂😂

[@proposterous42]

Lmao I skip the ads too but did you see the one with the guy in the grocery store like “Debit that builds credit!”? And the guy at the end on is like “nO cReDiT cHecKs??” I laughed

[@jadynromero8175]

I loved the representation 🎉

[@camilafuentes3173]

When Lindsay said "the parts that needs to be satisfied in sex are the parts that need to be heal in real life too. You bring those issues and insecurities, they're not gone when you go to the bedroom, in fact they manifest in weirder and stranger games. Is sorta you let your trauma fuck instead of you actually fucking" GIRRLL THAT WAS SOOOO SMART AND BRILLIANT. It really hits hard, this is something we need to talk more about. Thank you so much for bringing this topic to the table and for your honesty, for showing us your feeling and thoughts, and of course, for the gossips 😏 ❤️ it was very healing, to be honest. And I felt very comfortable listening to you guys ❤️

[@TheblondeKrista]

Literally! This was so well said I had to pause, rewind, hear it again and then take a break to think about it haha

[@Ambereigh]

Timestamp?

[@FMJUploads]

As a child i wanted to see ned and moze date. Now im watching devon and lyndsey discuss their past relationship. Life evolves

[@stephaniereece7875]

I need Devon and Lindsey to get back together please lol 😂

[@Robert-tl3eb]

Lindsey is amazing. Always had the biggest crush on her. She deserves so much love 🤗

[@mantodeaneotropical1659]

She has a channel in other site where she show how to do a bj

[@KazTheGoat12]

34:25 this is what some of you guys are looking for. Thank me later. Man this was WILD! 🤣🤣

[@tsjintexas]

This was the most honest podcast ive ever seen lol 😅😅😅😅 i feel like I'm at a party with my drunk friends and im here for it

[@ArianT97]

You guys made my childhood. Eternally grateful for it especially Daniel, Cookie and Kojo were iconic characters. Love you guys for life

[@Trevraffe11]

As a shy guy, it’s hard to even go out let alone go up to someone 😂 but this pod gives a little more confidence, appreciate y’all. 😊

[@MasterCrowshi]

This is what shows from my childhood should do, you guys were always my favorite people to come home and watch after school. I've always wanted to say thank you all!

[@HeatherVictoria0911]

This was actually a great conversation! Sex is so much more than what we think it is when we were young. It's unbelievably important to find a partner that is on your wave length and open to understanding what it takes to pleasure you... And thats beyond just the act of sex. My thoughts and prayers to everyone in the dating scene lol

[@vaporaest]

this is so well worded AGREED

[@angelarose6155]

I agree ❤

[@Mrwonderful0212]

I’m gonna guess you found that one for you. You lucked out. Is that fair to say?

[@patriot459]

If only it was always just hey two people are guna make it happen. When in reality there’s so many nuances between people and how they operate so yeah wave length is so important.

[@Ninjagungui]

Sex outside marriage is wrong😉

[@StockysWoods]

First episode I’ve watched and man I missed the days watching Ned’s declassified. And now that where all older and just straight up people anymore this makes me feel so good to watch. Please keep these going.

[@TrueWarrior008]

I'll only say, this episode was WILD but thank you guys for being open about it xD

[@sandrodanielvargaschavieri5390]

I just came for the BJ talking and I just got hooked on the whole podcast. Damn you guys are amazing!! I want more!!! Greetings from Peru

[@thendsufi]

I loved the beginning conversation especially. I’m 27 and disabled and I’ve never even been on a date. I genuinely don’t know how people do it, especially now when everybody’s got phones and there are people just waiting to smear others as “creeps” and “perverts.” While a lot of those people do exist, not everyone fits into that category, and this especially applies to men since I’m a dude. Dating has always been difficult but now it just sucks because everyone is so isolated from one another, particularly in a hyper-individualistic and self-centered society like the US. I feel so bad for Lindsey. I would give anything to meet her. It’s sad that, like me, she feels no one really wants her.

[@DeadSezSo]

Yall are just perfect for podcasting!! You and Pod Meets World are so good that I think yall should continue even after the official rewatch is over! You guys have so many great insights, you're so entertaining, genuinely hilarious and the three of you have fantastic chemistry that makes watching you guys so enjoyable.

[@OsnapitzMitsy]

Y’all really get me through my morning work shifts 😅 thank yaaa to my childhood friends 😂❤

[@NedsPod]

We're glad we can help 🤓❤

[@lord.6th659]

Every time I tune in it warms my little pre-teen heart that they all more or less grew up to be who I imagined their character would turn out to be

[@187942]

This was gold. Love the conversation around sex and connection between people without expectation of ever seeing them again. Very relevant to what I’m going through

[@TheRealCSB]

I never watched this show, but based off this podcast. I love the dynamic between you all! Quite open and honest!

[@JakeAdkinsOfficial]

You picked a WILD episode to jump into 😅

[@jaccollins6431]

Daniel: “They’re numbered!?” Daniel asking the real questions.

[@megann8694]

Honestly the more serious talks u guys had in this helped me a lot. Thank u

[@TORULEZ10]

Great to see a interesting, properly titled (non-clickbait title) episode! This was a great episode.

[@jarod9135]

I know this is three months old, but the beginning is one of the best advertisements i have seen for a therapy service

[@courtneydonaldson5102]

Amazing episode! Not because of the sex stuff, but how open everyone was. It’s a full understanding that we are all adults now and we go through this stuff. At 32, this is absolutely one of my favorite podcasts. It’s so authentic. Thank you all for keeping out childhood alive and random ✨💛.

[@r-evolutiontv7351]

I don't know where have I been the last years, but I never heard of this podcast till today, you guys are mi childhood and I love you, and seeing you're stil supporting the unhelped ones as you did in the intro makes me totally feel like I need to support you too, thanks hommies, keep doing it... I mean the social contribution 😂

[@jesseandries1227]

Congratulations on your live podcast! 🌠

[@NedsPod]

Thank you so much ❤

[@sweetmaggi]

I have not been so introspective and laughed so hard in the same sitting in a LONG time, if ever. Thanks, you guys. You're healing my inner child big time. ❤

[@honestlytho426]

Yay!!! A great way to start my day. I listen to the Pod while i eat breakfast and take my dogs on a walk. Thank yall and the team for your hard work and content

[@NedsPod]

We love to hear it! Glad to have you here ❤

[@danimerino7648]

Not but real talk. I wish I knew a lot of the things you guys talked about here in my teen years. It would've saved me some regrets and heartbreaks. You guys are amazing 🩷

[@mione134]

I love how open and honest y'all are talking about this stuff. No shame. No embarrassment. Just pure honesty! Its so appreciated. We should be open to talking about all this. I'm in the same boat Linds! At this point id probably ask my best guy friend to help me out and just let us have one night because I need it. Maybe you could help her out, Devon? 😂 jk jk

[@chexmickz]

This is the first time I’ve enjoyed a betterhelp ad 😭 love you guys

[@alyssasmyth]

By far my favorite episode! This podcast is EVERYTHING!!!!!!!

[@TheblondeKrista]

The way this pod slips between profound and hilarious so seamlessly is impressive. It’s always a mix of some of the funniest and wisest shit I’ve heard.

[@nicholasfarnsworth5859]

This might be the best version of the talk ever

[@amber4051]

Yallllllllll YES get those views. This is great. I didn’t even know this podcast existed until now and I am now a listener because this went around and finally hit my corner of the internet.

[@karazhni]

I would seriously consider taking this podcast in a relationship/sex/dating direction. You guys were well spoken on the subject and could really roll with this. With all due respect, I really never had any interest in watching this podcast but if it were to go in this direction, I think I would be a regular viewer. Good luck with whatever direction you plan to go in!

[@tyrenee3883]

This was actually a really deep informative episode. i thoroughly enjoyed it

[@pooflower23]

Very good episode, healing to hear about past toxic relationships

[@GammaRayTrae]

Devon laughing at Daniel’s story about making a woman cry that had me in tears 😂

[@petsounds3612]

I've learned way more than I ever thought I would about all of you by listening to this podcast 😂

[@ChristianElia]

sheeeeesh. this is the first episode of this pod that i’ve watched (huge neds fan), and that story and tip at the end hit home. had a recent experience that led me to this exact same realization. i was really feeling what lindsey was saying as well. it’s tough to be single sometimes, im navigating it again for the first time in years. love this 🔥

[@guillermosierracuellar9812]

I loved/found hilarious when at the end of the show they tried to save the museum from being robbed that they started to act crazy to gain the attention of the security guards that Susie and Billy decided to start dating in order to avoid them

[@NedsPod]

So funny 😂

[@alyssaferry600]

The episode we've all been waiting for! Did not disappoint! Thanks ya'll for being open, honest, and reall about all the stuff discussed on the pod. Its always nice to hear relatable stories from other 30 something year olds. Especially ones we feel like we grew up with. The Matrix reference from Daniel had me in tears! 😂 Its also happened to me before lol

[@Nflashymode]

They need to upload this episode again it freezes too much 😢

[@jordynsteinbrink800]

I literally had to watch this episode twice just to make sure I didn’t miss any amazing nuggets! Love you guys 😍

[@sophiapezza8927]

Such a creative way to do the sponser honestly

[@amberpierce9642]

Lindsey was spitting straight fire this whole episode!

[@DemixLuna]

I'm so grateful sex has not felt performative for me, but there have been a few occasions where it definitely felt like an itinerary when there was zero emotional connection. My biggest challenge while dating, was feeling an emotional connections with a guy and not knowing how to communicate it until he would essentially ghost me when he was done. I'm not sure if that was his plan or I just didn't properly pass the sex phase. Love this raw genuine talk about sex. Definitely feels like an adult survival guide (:

[@diegom2p884]

You guys are really the best, waching your podcast is one of the highlights of my week, thanks for everything

[@koihoshi]

That talk about those moments that just pass hit me hard. There was a summer I met a woman who told me she'd love to date, but it wouldn't be forever because she was trying to get her dream job, and it meant moving from place to place, and she didn't want people to follow her. So I knew it wouldn't last forever. But it was one of the most awesome summers of my life, and we had so much fun and went on a million adventures. She was so kind and sweet. When she finally got her call to move, I knew that was it. I didn't try and find a way "to make that change" because I knew how much that dream meant to her and how serious she was about it. So I let it pass. I'll always be appreciative of the time we had and cherish it in life. Just a happy summer, love and adventure, even if for a brief time.

[@joonant1]

I love this pod. I went to the live pod on Monday and i can't wait until you guys upload it. That was so much fun. Especially love the new theme song you guys debuted.

[@anabeatrizschneider9256]

LOVE THE SPOTS! Great work

[@WhoDoYouKnow03]

Man, I love this pod

[@SuaveGambino]

When she says i really never liked attracted men and STARED AT DEVIN i busted out cracking up! I came across this podcast and its AMAZING!!😅😅

[@Eaoden18]

I can relate a lot to the story Daniel told about the engaged girl he was involved with. When I was in the military, and had just graduated boot camp, I met a girl in my secondary school. She and I immediately hit it off. We spent so much time just hanging out and eventually things became intimate. When we got our orders to go to our permanent duty stations, she and I got put at two separate bases, but were only separated by a few hours. She came to my base one weekend that she had free, and throughout some conversation, eventually let it slip that she was married, and had been for 3 years at that point. Her husband, while all of this was going on, was overseas in Afghanistan, none-the-wiser. I cut her off at lightning speed and then told her husband what was going on and showed him everything and apologized for my part in it all. He ended up being super forgiving and understanding, divorced her and now he’s one of my best friends. But that gut-punch I got from learning of her betrayal to both me and her husband was just devastating.

[@emmytato-sf3vw]

Lindsey is what we needed ❤ her openness about sex and her feelings are similar to so many girls and I love that the guys are so supportive and non judgmental ! Such an awesome podcast

[@kimmicub17]

What Lindsey said about trauma causing you to be more wild with sex I whole heartedly agree with.... my trauma filled self was wild af... my healed self is completely happy being a little more reserved for sure

[@Libraqueen223]

So very true!!

[@Sisima13]

I love the way Daniel tell his stories ❤ Also this man has not aged he just grew a beard 😂

[@liymaf]

"Even if it was just this, that's enough." I needed to hear that. I have a hard time letting go in my life, in general, & this is a quote I'm gonna keep in my mind. I've met so many people through the years & my sadness of not being able to keep up with them in the present gets in the way of me appreciating the past moment(s) that made an impact or fond memories. Deep af man. Makes me wanna get it tatted lmaoo so I never forget it!

[@zknight4481]

Clips of the Lindsey talking about giving Devon a BJ brought me here just out of nosiness but I’m actually hella impressed by this podcast and by all three of them. I likely never would have watched this podcast at all if Lindsey hadn’t brought that up and it hadn’t gone viral. I’d never even heard of the pod and would’ve just assumed it was people trying to relive their glory days but y’all are actually all super brilliant, super enlightened, and just very mature and well-rounded. Y’all definitely need to put Lindsey in charge of marketing because I, for one, will be subscribing and watching future episodes whether y’all’s past intimacy ever comes up again or not. That just got folks in the door but y’all’s deep and insightful conversations and what each of you brings to the conversation is what pulls people in. Well done, seriously! Not a lot of celeb podcasts are worth listening to but this one is.

[@onallyrose1996]

U guys keep making me laugh so hard but Daniel keeps making me laugh so hard the most everytime I watch it even when u guys talk about ur relationships he always wants the tea and wants u guys to spill the tea for us 😂

[@saratomko9372]

Devon and Lindsey dying laughing over Daniel talking about that moment being cringey is forever embedded in my brain 😂😂

[@NewHaven203]

These podcasts are always so interesting! Also when are Devon and Lindsay going to settle down and get married? They are made for each other

[@Andrea-wb2mb]

Ok, I gotta say, I love the sketch/adds, I love when creators make it entertaining ❤

[@vinnymigliore2810]

I would love to hear the jobs you guys all had after the show. I didn’t know you work at a retail shop after Neds ? and what was it like to go from being on TV to working a actually real normal job!

[@superlife2091]

When Lindsey brought up trauma fucking that shit hits hard after being with someone who was a victim of SA, physical assault, and emotional abuse. I’m engaged with my partner with 3 years together, and an 8 month old son. She had back to back abusers and trauma that just culminated in her just living the lifestyle of just having sex and then being left behind. She was confused when I called back after the first date. She was terrified of disappointing in bed and if she was going to be hit when we first started. She cried when I gave her my first gift to her. (a giant rainbow teddy bear she named Huey. She’d never been given a gift from a partner) I’m glad I’ve been patient with her recovering from her trauma and growing to overcome it with both medical and therapeutic assistance, because we have a family now and I wouldn’t trade it for anything.

[@ACSanchezium]

And here i thought i was weird for wanting to get to know someone, atleast a little bit, before i sleep with them. for the longest time i thought there was something off about me not being into one night stands. now i dont even give a shit about it but its good to know im not the only one who's felt like that before.

[@mione134]

Agreed!

[@whocares897]

That’s not weird at all, that’s completely normal and human. Why would you not want to get to know someone before you do something so intimate and vulnerable? I personally think it’s weird to just jump into bed with someone you don’t know

[@realmadridhfg]

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[@dressa-wu2rr]

thank you so much for this conversation! It relates so much about my feelings and the fase that i'm in my life right now and I don't feel that much comfortable to talk about it to many people because sometimes they don't open space for this type of conversation. This pod is really helping me :)