Link Tells Amelia How He Processes Sadness - Grey's Anatomy

[@Simpliyvonne]

This is how you have an adult conversation when in a relationship , you listen and try to understand. I love that she didn’t try to make him feel bad that he didn’t process negative things the way she does .

[@ac.car88]

Yes and im glad he explained his side to her unlike everyone else who usually just tell her to stop talking and leave it at that he calmly explained that its okay they do it differently and didn't shame her for her way. Hope they stay together.

[@ac.car88]

@murattt03 i know they split. I was talking about this specific moment because i liked how she grew from what she used to be. Also when i said this the season was still running and the breakup didn't happen yet.

[@Tempest7575]

I actually like their conversation. Yes Linc snapped at Amelia but he explained what he needed, and she listened. Amelia did not push what she thought was best and they were ok at the end.

[@rachelkim4457]

I liked it too. As a girl, I think I expect my significant other to explode all their feelings to me when they’re upset. However, I had to learn that he processes things differently than I do and that he needs space and time. And sometimes me just being there is helpful. Silent comfort is comfort too!!

[@chelseaeastin1159]

Im literally realizing, after watching this, I am an Amelia [i need to talk about everything] and have a partner exactly like Link. He has his feelings and putting them into words makes him feel worse.

[@jordancomeau9197]

I love the respect they have for eachother. Even if they don't understand what the other person is saying. They try and understand. They are such couple goals. Also screw teddy

[@hahap5411]

@@chelseaeastin1159 I too am an Amelia! I need to talk about it all! If not I will explode. I cannot bury my feelings. Good or bad! I don’t know if that’s good or not! I had an ex like link. We cannot see eye to eye!! I guess that’s why we cannot be together. I need someone who can express their feelings. Good or bad!!

[@julianovaes7041]

I really liked the character development of Amelia and the benefits of her relationship with Link, she is doing so much better!

[@nealwhaley63]

“If you need a partner in misery, I’m not your guy.” Amelia should’ve heard that YEARS ago.

[@bloopersseriesvostfrbyemsb6131]

Word of today I'm not your guy - A.Link

[@anialaniak1605]

Do you understand what she has been through?? I mean she processes feelings by talking about them which keeps her from drugs and other things.

[@Andy-nv6ys]

I really wish the writers didn't touch Link and Amelia, Grey's always ruined multiple couples or makes them tired of watching for ridiculous unnecessary dramas. They both deserve to be happy

[@ilahmaecunanan2629]

Amelia + Link 4Ever. I love how he plays the guitar

[@jordancomeau9197]

I want their relationship 😔

[@trudy__taylorandjorjamummy]

He's in a band irl

[@bananabread4127]

Still remember when he was in a country show where he was a country star

[@koria9168]

@@bananabread4127 I remember when he was on the O.C. lol

[@allthelovemara]

Poor Tom :(( he deserves so much better and I don’t want him to die

[@khya9840]

They need kill off teddy before anyone dies

[@georgiadyer665]

@@khya9840 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@spencer62321]

@@khya9840 low-key if they killed her character off I would be okay with that choice

[@khya9840]

@@spencer62321 I would celebrate if she died. I’ve hated her since she ruined Owen and Amelia’s relationship. In wanna fight the writers bc they really kept her but got rid of April and Arizona. Like she’s ruined so many relationships Owen has been in then when she finally gets with him she cheats on him, she’s a home wrecker. But stay safe🤍

[@aishaahmed6291]

@@khya9840 agree!! shes so unnecessary i dont understand why the writers brought her back.

[@nofacespacetasmr3008]

Finally a man that doesn’t baby Amelia. Everybody think she’s so fragile and whenever somebody says something that she doesn’t like she always walks away I really like link especially in the season

[@annikab3655]

I'm so glad Amelia found Link...they are perfect for each other. Amelia deserves all the happiness in the world after everything she has experienced in her life! ❤

[@zly243]

Yesss its crazy to me that this is the same amelia from private practice everything that happened to her was so sad 😭

[@JN_lincoln]

Amelia and linc building a healthy communicative relationship with respect at its heart and I'm here for it... But I'm not here for Tom's inevitable death he's such a good man and having seen the promo for next week with Jackson getting all "he saved my mum" makes me hate characters even more considering how they've been treating Tom since always!!!!

[@Proj3ctX1]

I think after he saved Catherine him and Jackson got along better but at the end of the day he was still mostly an asshole to people who he didn’t let in.

[@jocelynmaaji9051]

He's just been an asshole to everyone. Imagine what it took for Bailey, Richard and co to talk to him on how to stop running things. He was good till Teddy came and spoilt his character.

[@julianovaes7041]

@@jocelynmaaji9051 Teddy is a bad apple that rots everything she gets in contact with. I know neither of the men involved are saints, but both tried to be better and vulnerable, and all Teddy does is mess things up

[@jocelynmaaji9051]

@@julianovaes7041 and she knows how cry to victim. Owen had to make himself better committing to her and she went ahead and did this. When she found out Amelia might be pregnant for Owen, she didn't even confront him went ahead and slept with Tom. Always been in his shadow all through his relationships. She's terrible. Tom deserves something good at least. He was so jovial and proud of what he does but Teddy reduced him to this.

[@julianovaes7041]

@@jocelynmaaji9051 both of them deserve someone better, Owen is slowly getting to terms with commitment, Tom can improve in empathy, but he also deserves real love

[@aishaahmed6291]

i love amelink alot!! they seem pretty stable, they talk about their problems instead of just shoving it away. i really hope the writers dont ruin them.

[@bloopersseriesvostfrbyemsb6131]

We can definitely see the difference between him and Owen . I try to review in Amelia and Owen perspective but if I saw him arguing on Amy they both scream on each one and say think that split them . When I saw the way Amelink communicate they really try to understand each other and how they proceed to sadness and try to respect that and at some point Amelia will help owen to do the same with teddy .... The big similarity & difference I recognize on Owen and Link is that Link is a bit solo , keep everything for him but express it with music or other perspective bright side or sometime talk about it . Owen buried everything never expressed feeling but hurt people by the word coming through his mouth , doesn't think through ever never see the other side of the piece . And that why is never work between Amy and him ... Communication is the KEY to a healthy relationship ☺️

[@aishaahmed6291]

@@bloopersseriesvostfrbyemsb6131 agree!! amelia and link talk through their problems instead of shoving it in and link trys his best to comfort amelia and understand her unlike owen who just was rude to her and yelled at her all the time.

[@richieyh3211]

I really like Tom. He and his dark and broken fits well. I really don't want him to die.

[@rosannefernandes3866]

It breaks my heart to see Koracik like that. They are killing the poor guy off

[@ANGIEHINA]

I really don’t know what he did to get such bad luck. Everybody cheats on this show and never get this much punishment for it.

[@aloudjane137]

Yeah that was my... I dont know the term like that made me finally quit watching the show like it was enough!

[@walkz007]

@@ANGIEHINA they hated him from the start for nothing,the man has tried with these people but they swat him down,it's not his fault Catherine hired him,he saved Amelia,and Owen is a dick he needs to be put in place every once in a while. He has tried these guys just would not let him in the clique

[@jaleesagreene6800]

@@walkz007 It's almost like they've never watched a medical show and realised that most of the neurosurgeons are assholes but likable assholes. Hell Derrick and Amelia are the exception of neurosurgeons that aren't assholes and even Derek was an asshole sometimes

[@haileygrimmius9451]

I mean I’ve never really liked him but I don’t want them to kill him off 😭

[@dgtgpd9160]

Ok but lowkey teddy should have made a better effort to see him or get inside bc she knows he has covid and he didn't respond to her. Could have been dead on the ground

[@carolinaburgosaguilar1494]

He has COVID and she could also get sick. Seeing how tired all the doctors are, the last thing they need is having another one sick. The least she could do would be looking through a window, but given that he told her that he needed to forget her it is understandable that she choose to give him the space he needs.

[@mwate8764]

She could have left the SOUP

[@dgtgpd9160]

@@mwate8764 no fr that's what I thought I was like why did she take it w her 😭

[@mwate8764]

@@dgtgpd9160 ikr. Thats what done in every movie (and reality). Leave the soup. Especially that she had an idea that he was just ignoring her. I bet he needed the soup.

[@priam9376]

1) they better let Link and Amelia live peacefully, without ANY drama and be happy 2) I've never liked Maggie but she seems happy with that guy, that's cool ! 3) Ok Tom is definetely going to die, I liked him :/

[@antliveyabish9555]

There is not realistic relationship with a lil drama.

[@annavitoriasantos4174]

@@antliveyabish9555 but with less drama then becouse they have sufferd so much in life they deserve to be happy together

[@julianovaes7041]

@@annavitoriasantos4174 both of them deserve a happy ending, please! We need functioning couples in this show!

[@julianovaes7041]

About Maggie and Winston, I'm really enjoying the development of their thing, it shows the way relationships are build and protected in a world of social distancing, and it also represent lots of character development

[@kelissaapoar1143]

She is just so gorgeous and the fact she’s in pijama is just wow

[@quinn3660]

And this better be all in terms of drama with these two. I swear to everything that’s living I will flip my sh!t if something happens to them. 😭😭😭 A+L

[@Timburgess03..]

Same!! Writers better not fuck with our Amelia and Link!

[@julianovaes7041]

@@Timburgess03.. please!! They are one of the few (maybe the only one) of the couples that work out and respect each other

[@Timburgess03..]

@@julianovaes7041 I know! That’s why I don’t want the writers to mess with them

[@subman23]

I hope you didn't see the part where Amelia mentioned she had sex with Tom......

[@julianovaes7041]

@@subman23 Link was dumbfounded by this, but I don't think he'll be mad about the situation, at least I hope so

[@allthelovemara]

I love Amelia and Link so much & everyone process sadness differently

[@scabillis]

I GOT IT: TEDDY DIES AND OWEN AND TOM FALL IN LOVE

[@xxwhispersxx2856]

Yes!

[@alaiyahnichole8255]

Why didn’t I think of this! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@aifelchen]

Would ship it :-D

[@ilanagreen5371]

Best comment ever! That whole situation is ridiculous!

[@bbvienna]

yess

[@Haileypasmr7]

If everybody communicated like this people would understand each other so much better! the problem is people only see their point of you and only listen to respond not to hear, this is what healthy communication looks like!

[@tylerhackner9731]

We all process sadness differently

[@astrid5039]

I swear to god if they ruin link and amelia ill be done with this show! ;_;

[@walkz007]

Aww these two my heart♥️♥️♥️if anything happens to them👊👊👊

[@nav7506]

This has undoubtedly been the healthiest relationship Amelia has been in. Only other time I think she was even this close to happy was with James, but back then she knew she wasn't ready (plus the tumor lol). Edit: I’m really annoyed with what the writers are doing with their relationship in S18

[@ambergarris3075]

I love Amelia and link together! Much better than any of amelias past men. Not a fan of Ryan, James or her and Owen together. Link seems like a great balance for her. I will say, I’m NOT down for the jo/Jackson arc. Just seems too forced and I’m not at all interested, unfortunately. I’m really hoping for a Jo/Jack (station 19) crossover hookup. Those two make so much more sense to me.

[@kortland30]

I AM LIVING FOR THEM THIS SZN 😭😭😭💙💙💙

[@suzanner1630]

Link is me in situations. My mother is Amelia. When she is going through situations she wants to not only talk but focus on what is negative about the situation where as I try to stay positive and try to find a silver lining

[@sudiptimurmu8851]

If these guys separate I m done .....they belong together ❤️

[@rayrachelle2145]

Am I the only that was unhappy Link's guitar playing kept getting interrupted? I miss the Nashville days when I could hear him sing.

[@veronicacunha5934]

teddy always gives food to men she loves

[@justcallmejessz3712]

Honestly, this is SO relatable. As someone who was sick well before cov¡d my feelings and/or reactions to lockdown are so different then most. While I of course have taken more care and increased my diligence, my life jas not changed all that much. Ive worn masks for awhile because I'm immunocompromised. Ive increased the use yes, but still isnt odd for me. Ive stayed pretty isolated both because of health [or lack there of lol] or because my life isnt normal for someone my age so friends are.... distanced. Anyone with a sniffle has avoided me for years. So isolation? I don't mind it. Tbh. I kinda like it. LoL. It doesnt take away the way others feel. And I know that. But I understand that not everyone needs to be in constant "let it out" mode in order to let it out

[@MsSonnencreme]

Amelia seems to think trauma bonding is love

[@enasajackson2319]

Wow EXCELLENT scenes!!!💯📽️🎬

[@megandoss6083]

I love doctor Amelia Shepherd she is so beautiful 💜💜💜💜💜

[@theresalor]

Lol me and my boyfriend allll day. He's such a positive person (glass half full) and I can go down in situations thinking as a glass half empty 😭😂

[@mayme4743]

Tbh imo I think it’s nice that they put in these little problems for Amelink because it shows what a healthy relationship is like you talk about it you deal with it you don’t keep things bottled up and you listen to your partner which half the other ships don’t do

[@haileygrimmius9451]

1.) I love this with Amelia and Link. They shouldn’t touch them. Link is the perfect man and Amelia has him. 2.) I don’t really like Maggie but I guess she’s happy with this guy. Also did anybody else think they were about to have phone s*x? 3.) okay After Koracick was made chief of chiefs and the power clearly went to his head I didn’t like him. But I really don’t want him to die. He may really suck but I don’t want them to be like “Let’s kill him instead of Meredith”

[@mathildemortensen1443]

i like Tom. really not hoping he will die

[@natashaissa4070]

Is this from the new season? I’m in the uk and they aren’t showing it here yet. I don’t want to spoil anything for myself.

[@mirajo8242]

Yes it is, season 17

[@natashaissa4070]

@Stabi-Chillow Fans thank you

[@rahelkahsay7735]

You can watch it in the UK

[@natashaissa4070]

@@rahelkahsay7735 how?

[@sinanuluc5143]

Why are the dialogues happening so slow? Does anyone remember the first few seasons?

[@alijohnson190]

Love these two together and I hate what they are doing to Tom's character.

[@Proj3ctX1]

Link process it the same as me tbh

[@khadijah279]

I work in a hospital, when all this shit started, I began making waistbeads and other jewelry, I later had my breakdown BUT stringing all of those beads helped me not lose my goddamn mind!!

[@Mm.mm11]

Tom😢😢😢😢😢

[@gabbybuckley4655]

Link was a little unfair to Amelia I felt bad for him but he shouldn’t of snapped like that to her she’s in pain to way more then him

[@martakaminska6061]

The partnership doesn't work like that. If you're in a relationship and you're treating one half like glass that you can't disagree with or snap at, ultimately that makes you the nurse, not the partner.

[@armargo]

He literally beat cancer

[@armargo]

He was just trying to be supportive and she tore his head off. All he asked her to do was respect how he’s coping

[@97indianuk]

It’s normal considering the pandemic and partners are spending 24/7 together. A little conflict or disagreement is normal.

[@97indianuk]

I think they both snapped at each other but later when they were calm could communicate and tell what they needed. It’s healthy to show that

[@ms6221]

I really hope I'm wrong but I think this is foreshadowing of Linc getting his cancer again

[@Floyzl]

Link is all that is right in the world and protect him at all costs. Stupid teddy, didn't think something could have happened to tom in his situation??? I hate her and Tom don't die.

[@patmebg3794]

Aside from the great romances of the original characters of the show, the closest I've come to being enraptured is with Jackson and April. God, I lived for their fights. Their makeups were awesome. These days I feel no fire watching Greys. It's fun though not as fun as it used to be. When I need some blood pumping, I just watch the old greys, and it hits me every time. Tell me why I'm doing that when new episodes are being released every week???😩

[@harrybeckett3502]

Oooooh somebody was snappy

[@agentfayelau3663]

Link is right. find what's help u cope. me I play video games or watch comedy shows.

[@malebomokgopane5024]

Hello guys please fill me in on what's happening with link, I'm in South Africa, we haven't gotten this season as yet.

[@chanaberlove8720]

Nothing is happening. He just had a baby with Amelia and did a shift in the hospital.

[@marifranco8244]

I have been MIA for a few episodes, where is Maggie? Why is she not with Mer?

[@emmarobinson3855]

Maggie is around, she’s been facetiming her new boyfriend a lot, she isn’t with meredith because meredith has coronavirus.

[@cicichaney624]

She is staying at a hotel for everyone's safety

[@nadiajupiter8340]

Not play my DAMN guitar he should take the bass out his voice and talk through his feelings

[@wakasmalls]

I wonder if🤔🤔🤔🤔,,, "Maggie" watches her scenes while off shooting and gets bored🤦....

[@sammy8416]

This is link 🤔

[@silmarodriguez241]

Por fa en español

[@petrah56]

Tom😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@mgeller3266]

Are the couple

[@kileypowell286]

ahh im early and don’t know what to comment

[@frankangulo9786]

First never been last 😂😂😂🦋😩😘🥵

[@63married]

The writers didn’t gave them time to develop a relationship... I feel like I’m watching two strangers living together 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@bloopersseriesvostfrbyemsb6131]

The global pandemic doesn't help . . . I think we gonna see how Amelink developing their relationship, their feeling for each other and parenthood but Yes sometimes I'm humm they don't last too much differences between Amy and Link but when I really see them like this I'm they belong together

[@shelleyroberts2269]

Amelia is so annoying she whines and complains too much. The actress who plays her is terrible

[@theyluvvhaile]

you don't even know her in real life pls 😂😂😂.but she is obviously a great actor if she can make u hate her character on the show.

[@shelleyroberts2269]

@@theyluvvhaile and you are a moron that can’t even spell. Just stfu