I Wish I Would Have Known This Earlier

[@FransceneJK98]

I’m not even married and didn’t look for this video. But I’ll take that as a sign that God will send me a godly husband and wants to prepare me.

[@michellesanchez9]

I am not married but I clicked on this video anyways because there is always wisdom we can gleam through 💛 thank you for this video. God bless you

[@anettetorres3716]

Same! Better to study for the test with time than when you're already taking it haha, God bless❤

[@kyssma7131]

Me toooo, can’t wait to be married to a Godly man 🙏

[@jeabelladadslitlgirl281]

@@kyssma7131 Hey sis, same here and may you find your Godly man so soon..God bless you☺

[@mary-annblake77]

Lol me too 🤭

[@brittney1863]

Same

[@BelovedOfGod15]

I am not married but I really want to be so I am still watching because I want to be a good wife to my husband when he finally meets me, praying for him so much ☺

[@K4yLove]

I love the fact that you state that you are all in one. And I love that even though your kids may feel embarrassed at the grocery, they get to see what a good Godly woman looks like. Props to you! 🤍🎀

[@felicitygrace5113]

Going for a walk with my husband sounds like the most trivial thing, yet it has me welling up. ❤

[@aly.pingol]

As a single woman praying to be a wife and mother someday, this couldn’t be more helpful!! Thank you so much, Lisa. 🤍

[@LianaChang]

Excellent! I learn this: If you want to be the best as a wife, as a minister, as a mother, or else .. its oke if you make mistakes, and always learning to be better, not compare ourself to others but to ourself in the past, not listen to the accuser. Blessing to us all. Thanks Lisa.

[@Jesusindahouse]

Especially the part of the "talking to friends" about your marriage problems. Don´t do it. First you do not you, if some of these "friends" will go and talk to others and spread the bad news (the more something is spoken about, the more it becomes a manfiested reality! )and second they can use it against you (and some of them will). There are not many people I will ever call a friend. I only had 2 in my life so far. Be careful about this and rather seek counsel from a professional.

[@CoraJDugan]

Great answers! I can say that Gen X is one of the strongest generations because we didn’t have instant access to the internet to give us those answers. We had to figure out life with a lot of mistakes and we learned from them. This is the wisdom that is coming from us Gen X- pouring out to the Millenials and Gen Z - our pain and answers came with trial and error. Not a Google question and instant answer. There’s a lot to be said with what we had to learn. Thank you Lisa! This encouraged me greatly!

[@chikamusic7696]

And now we have information overload. So many perspectives to juggle. Don't envy us

[@annam7034]

This is really helpful. Lisa, you are such a passionate speaker. 😄

[@PennySullivan-r1t]

Prayer's Needed Everyday 😭😭 🙏 Thank You for This. 🙏🌹🌹🌹.

[@asha4189]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom on wifehood!

[@TEWMUCH]

Wow. I love that take on don't try to separate the roles. That was very interesting.

[@CG-lj3zi]

It was so helpful to hear you say that the 80's were weird, that we were supposed to know everything. I was a teenager then and I still struggle with that a lot! It's helpful just to know that about what was going on in my formative years.

[@grafxgrl8030]

Love you Lisa. Thank you so much for your transparency. You are a blessing and God bless you and John for your beautiful ministry and the wonderful young men you have raised and your heart for other people.

[@lisamartinezyanez5805]

I didn't know got married and did by myself. I didn't asked that! ❤ I love my husband and in constant prayer

[@deloresgrey2260]

Beautiful, thank you, Lisa. God bless you, your family and your Ministry. I am three in one as well. These roles can't be fractured/compartmentalized, with our main identity being a CHILD OF GOD! 😊

[@AmazingGrace911]

I am single but I really love this message 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@shantakoa8596]

Never been married…I was bored so I decided to watch. knowledge about certain things can be helpful

[@Juliano-ll2gn]

I read the Book of Psalms 3X for my fiancé..🙏👑🙏❤️

[@fionadyson3112]

I love this! It's not about balancing/ juggling, because we are always all of our identities .. this resonates. And at the same time knowing when to make one thing the full focus, eg not trying to fit time with the children into a preaching trip. Thank you x

[@ljlou5746]

Correction.. Identity is and must be different from Role. They can not be merged into one. This is how God taught me: First and foremost is your identity as God's daughter. It is unchanging & eternal. It's who you are. Your roles God has assigned to you are what you do. They are not eternal & sometimes they do change beyond your control. What about the mother whose only adult child has died? Who is she now if her role is merged into identity? Or the wife whose husband has died or decided he wants out of the marriage. Roles must be separate from identity and come under the umbrella of identity as Daughter of God. ❤

[@fionadyson3112]

@@ljlou5746 that makes sense! Thanks for the correction ❤️

[@evasccl7846]

Thank you for sharing and being open, listening to you was so healing and encouraging at the same time ❤ I also appreciate your candid reflection on what you'd want to do more to grow... holistically is a word that stood out for me and brought everything together harmoniously❤ Wholeheartedly thank you. May God bless you, your family and everything you do for God's glory 🤗

[@mariposatutorials135]

I recommend the book about love and respect, it goes into marriage and the roles of a husband and wife and how not to have a cycle going that is toxic. It’s amazing and has built my relationship stronger. I got my book at Barnes and nobles, also my church has groups on wensday to help with it as well, sometimes.

[@marilyncruz7679]

Thank you, 💞 sharing your journey through marriage is very helpful to me. Our marriage is going through difficult issues, but being able to get wisdom from your videos have helped me to focus on how God is moving in our lives.

[@hillarymurphy671]

Grateful for all you and John share! I’m still single but I’m loving learning from you both.

[@monjournalmyjourney]

Luv U Lisa. ❤❤❤

[@angelawilhoit7474]

Amen!❤

[@anaintuitive]

You have such a beautiful aura 🤍

[@rosagoglia4649]

Thanks this was good.

[@rosagoglia4649]

:)

[@SigneStraarup]

Thank you for sharing 💕💕🌿🌿❣❣

[@sweetjessie240]

Thank you very much! Very good! 👌❤

[@summernight7587]

Love this video! The only thing I wish u would of included was a scripture from Gods word

[@lexisaragoza2941]

Ugh I love you sis Lisa!!! Thank you

[@Daybara]

“Loving fearlessly “!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🥹🥹🥹

[@fiyinoyedele7000]

Thank you mama ❤, you are so helpful and a timely voice in this season for women.

[@shoshanas5251]

Permission to ask for help from people I already know and trust is also one of the major stuff I-wish-I-had-known since the beginning. Married only 16 yrs but just realized that one of the main ones is my husband! I tried to be mrs-know-it-all and do-it-all 😢 He wanted to be my hero but didn’t give him chance.

[@jilllingenfelter4682]

I’m going to use all of this amazing Godly Wisdom helpful information for the future ahead. And I’m also super thankful to God for my amazing Godly Parents. And I go to them about everything as well:) And when God brings a very very Godly Passionate man into my life as my future 2nd husband in His Perfect timing I will be absolutely ready. And I won’t ever separate my Christian life/and my church ministry life it all is wrapped up together:) and I absolutely absolutely love that this is who I’m 100%:)@Lisa Bevere

[@karadi9899]

Thank you, this is an answered prayer

[@EBThisThat]

This is excellent information but ‘going to the right people’ is a bit tricky in this day and age because there are people who love nothing more than to undercut your efforts. I’m working on my trust issues due to my upbringing. I’m harshest on myself but I’m improving.

[@carlyfleming1855]

Prayers for your decernment! I also struggle with this from my family upbringing. Before being a Christian I would explain my feeling towards my parents opinion and advice as "Bible", meaning the end all be all. Kept me in absolute turmoil for nearly 30 years of my life. I'm finding that being part of an in person Bible study and building relationships with Godly women is the key to this. 🗝️

[@deborahdianeparksdenton8124]

True

[@Rebecca281]

Amen

[@denisejurado8335]

This was so full of hope & wisdom. Thank you so much ❤

[@ninoshkahendricks8816]

This was awesome 🔥

[@comic_life_86]

Ok, this is like the most helpful video ever, thank you so much!

[@natalieamarshall]

This was so good!!! Thank you for the wisdom!! So helpful ❤

[@meganp8766]

Blessed by this!!

[@CamillaBanda]

Thank you! You just healed me from so much!

[@melintcbs]

gold

[@Daybara]

This is right on time!!!🎉🎉🎉❤❤😘😘😘

[@AngieeShipps]

Love this !! So much wisdom!! Thank you so much!! ❤

[@bethanyheyde805]

Thank you for the advice!

[@jeyathagna4548]

I LOVE YOU LISA BEVERE AND TEAM!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@rcz2023]

Thank you

[@Karli-t8d]

Amen 🙏🏽

[@teohproject]

More to do and works!

[@lolove8794]

The grace given through wisdom and revelation in this video, on top of her graceful approach - thank you 🩵

[@lisamartinezyanez5805]

Amen 🙏

[@Candie227]

Thank you for your video it came up randomly on my channel. This is something I really needed , touched my heart! Thank the Lord ❤️

[@annehortsana2957]

Thank you❤

[@ruzamartinovic6556]

All you bring is a suntan comment made me laugh Lisa thank you for making me laugh it was long time ago😅❤. Pray for me to meet a Godly Men i have been celibate for a decade now for the Glory to Jesus but would want to share life with a God Fearing Men ❤

[@faithmzk]

This was beautifully. Thank you Lisa

[@favourmofoluwawo5032]

Thank you, Ms. Lisa! Your responses are so full of godly wisdom. ❤

[@bethe9323]

These videos are so helpful!

[@sherbetstraw]

"Lisa all you're bringing is a suntan" hahaha hilarious !! Thanks for this great video

[@lilmamasofly9111]

Loving these videos! Thank you Miss Lisa 💕

[@mssunshine33]

God bless you ❤

[@NiyahSimone]

Beautifully put! So much wisdom in these answers

[@victoriaogunfowokan3120]

This was so good, thank you so much for sharing some of the things you wished you had done better that might learn from them, that's so helpful. Not an easy thing to do. But I really learned much from that part particularly, so thank you ♥️

[@ry2yb]

Great advice!

[@anacossa8437]

Amen❤

[@lineokobeli9330]

Thank you Lisa

[@bluemeadows7520]

Thank you Lisa 🌟

[@joycelynnebills1787]

Outstanding information, unfortunately my time is extremely limited and sometimes I just need the ideas right up front and some of the small talk removed. Love you and this is just a constructive idea

[@BYHCongregation]

Ahahaha…. Mopped the floor with Alcohol lmbo. Love u princess!!! You’re the best❤

[@ouch3206]

Thanks for the sharing!! And may I ask where did you get that shirt? Llove the words on it. Hope I could get one❤

[@L.Hodson]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@RemnantRevival]

I see why your husband loves you!

[@TheDWZemke]

Interesting point of view from a man's my wife, multiple master degree's And a PhD( I was her stats boy). I was the male model, on academic scholarship ( my body count less than 100) . Graduated as an undergruate one weekend (m23 to my wife 33). I lost her to Alzheimer's after 30+ years of marriage. We were loyal to each other the entire time. Now I am starting all over again as a 6' 4 " making over 6 figures. I miss her, will probably never get married again. Looking for a female that understands, my limitations... Will be definitely be loyal but I feel like I am in the wrong time frame. Thank you for the video.

[@1roxtube]

Wish there was one of these for husbands 😳

[@3333falcon]

Lisa I love this topic! I would love it if you would consider doing a video on biblical submission to a husband. My husband is always saying how I need to submit to him. I didnt get married until I was 33. I was very independent. I know that I am married but my husband doesnt like me doing things on my own. He wants me to run everything by him. An example, I took some money out of my paycheck that I earned as a bonus and set some aside. I didn't tell him about it, he called me slimy, sneaky, and basically a liar. He now wants me to give him my paycheck and he doesn't want me making any deposits to the bank now because he doesn't trust me now he said. I told him this was a form of control. I told him I would do it but I disagree with his decision. He told me that is not true submission. Ireally need help in this matter because I want to be a submissive wife but not sure if he is handling me properly or if I am just not getting it. Also a video from John on how a husband loves his wife as Christ loves the church would also be very helpful. I need some biblical advice in these subjects and I'm sure many other couples need it too.

[@andreacarrillo9846]

Adding to Lisa´s videos, i know of Focus on the Family ministry (podcasts), i think they have a line to call and ask for couples counseling. Maybe you could consider it. Hope is it helpful for you :)

[@lynndanter9537]

The Proverbs 31 woman managed her own money. What she did over and above caring for her family was hers to invest wisely. This was the common practice and also became a law in England centuries ago. Your husband is trying to be a leader which is good but is unwisely micromanaging.

[@kelseynicole9661]

That doesn’t sound like he’s selflessly serving you and expecting you to submit. That sounds like he’s being borderline controlling. Ultimately, it says husband and wives submit to eachother. It is a partnership and he is responsible for being the spiritual leader and the wife should respect that and support him in that but marriage is a partnership and he sounds like he’s using his position of authority to be domineering. Also, if you believe that his leadership is going against Christ, you don’t have to submit to him. Ultimately, you serve and submit to Christ first

[@GraceAdonai]

Check out Pastor Mildred Kingsley Okonkwo,she has indepth teachings on submission n take your time to binge watch her sermons on marriage.i wish you all the best in wanting to please God by submitting to your husband🙏

[@tarrel-fc8yi]

Transparency is one key word in marriage, this issues should have being discussed before marriage, if you it by the way without discussing, it’s also not an issue,I sense a bit off control here, from the very beginning a woman was not wired to even work by God, we are in times we’re women work, if your husband understands who he is in Christ and his role properly he should not be asking what you do with your money rather be proud of the fact you choose to work, also bear in mind the Bibi leadership speaks of submission to the man who is your husband, so in other areas a woman should submit and a man should love his wife period.

[@mvg5165]

As a single woman in my 40s I regret spending my 20s and 30s at church thinking I would meet my husband while serving God putting my life and future in hold. People specially women!! read your bibles and don’t fall for a culture that wants to keep you slaved to a ministry. Marry! Have children and enjoy life and the love of Jesus

[@niceyenuf1]

I don't understand this comment. God rewards and takes care of those that serve him. Why would you regret serving in Church?

[@eng.reagan9540]

How do you serve God while you still have the "I" mindset? There is no "I" mindset when you trust and believe in God. The "I" mindset is based on the fleshly things. However, if you trust and believe in God, HE will be in charge and the "I" effect will cease to exist. The church is your body, not the building. If you want to serve the church, forget the building but serve both old and young, rich and poor, weak and strong and most importantly, serve even those that don't look like you or share your beliefs. NB: You don't need to go to poor countries to serve God. Those pictures usually attack your faith and take advantage of your emotion. The person next to you needs your assistance more than the person far away from you.

[@priscillachinsembu4669]

​@@niceyenuf1she's speaking from a place of regret... I feel she misunderstood how to go about being single....

[@deloresgrey2260]

Do you take clients? I would love to have a chance to speak with you. What is your ministry's contact information?

[@MihannahRock]

Funny I spoke to God about this then I run into this video lol

[@karibunisafari9827]

💕💞💗💓

[@VanillaBean15]

A PRIORI: ou prepare yourself to be a Godly wife by being faithful to Him, surrendering to Him and taking care of your relationship to Christ. AFTER WATCHING THE VIDEO: Don't gossip about couple problems. It's ok to ask for help. Intentional time with the family.

[@ELKASIDAV]

Never ask God to take your sex drive , Pray that God will teach you to live by holy conviction as you wait for a Godly Marriage

[@TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle]

The truth is, there isn’t always an older woman available

[@i-primeproductions1517]

It amazes me that women ask women what it takes to be a good wife, and they never ask men. Women are always telling men what it takes to be a good husband, and then they are also telling women what it takes to be a good wife. The number one problem I see in marriages and relationships in general is feminism vs femininity. Every man has an emotional need, and a FUNCTIONAL need for a woman that is soft, feminine and submissive. Women have no problem whatsoever being respectful and submissive to every single boss they’ve ever worked for no matter what their personality type, no matter how abrasive, irritable or irritating or stressful. Those people or situations are yet they want to mouth off, be disagreeable, argumentative, and opinionated with their husbands. They do not acknowledge his God-given authority. That is the number one issue in marriage, you CANNOT love your husband and disrespect him. A husband’s role is to provide for and protect. Women are 100% expect that rule to be met fully. Yet they cannot seem to bring to the table. What is it requirement of a wife. Imagine a marriage that never has any arguments, but only the occasional respectful disagreement with the ultimate responsibility falling on the one who has the authority with that responsibility. There would be peace and power and longevity.

[@MochaBrady]

Hum- not all women are like you are describing.

[@i-primeproductions1517]

@@MochaBrady irrelevant

[@MochaBrady]

Really irrelevant. It’s irrelevant that not all women are like you describe. So, in other words we are just supposed to take what you say as the ultimate truth. Maybe you are a poor judge of character and pick those kind of women or maybe you are domineering and disrespectful to women so, you think that we are all alike. Irrelevant really wow.

[@airplane800]

What is a Godly wife? Maybe the description of Godly may vary from man to man. I dated a girl that was always preaching to me and trying to fix me. Is she Godly? Do you know how many divorced "godly wives" I know? Many. I really don't see much difference between the women I know in church and the ones that are not in church. I am actually much more respected by women that are not from my church. My professional friends are much more respectful to me. To be Godly is a very vague description. Women are women, they have struggles, difficulties, and are not perfect. So are men.

[@2rythm797]

jealousy..?? the meanest comparison is Proverbs 31

[@MatthewSands-e3g]

Yeah watch this 1000 times, then go find somebody else 😂

[@rhhamlin08]

BareMarriage podcast

[@Giannina-LoveThemAll]

The video I've been waiting for 🫶

[@jandefreitas5784]

Thank you for sharing this.

[@rosagoglia4649]

Thanks this was good.

[@fromkaywithlove]

Amen ❣️