Meeting The EX - Chat / Makeup Therapy Video

[@RandaXXPanda]

I had to meet my ex of two years (he cheated on me), and I used this makeup, which is much more than I normally wear. I typically wear nothing, but he kept saying something about me looked different, and he went on and on about how or was glowing. He tried to say he'd made a mistake, but I just have him his stuff back and left. Definitely no regrets.

[@thynguyen911]

Awesome! Way to go girl :)

[@sarahledbetter542]

When Mrs. Lisa Eldridge curses in a video you know he was bad.

[@kyracachia3684]

YESSS

[@igotflover2215]

ikr

[@luciarodrigues7416]

I am happy she did it !

[@feymreichmanostenrn8751]

So true ! I loved the unexpected bleep and black bar over her mouth....Very funny actually, I laughed out loud. A bit of GRIT moment 🦍 amidst the gentle, sweet, nurturing nature of Lisa is actually amusing. And I do like the "pea chop" moment. 🦍

[@nataliaoprea8378]

this is the first of Lisa's videos i ever watched, stumbled upon it in the recommended section. I didn't identify myself with it at the time but still, i fell in love with her personality, her charm, her style. Some months later, i was going through the worst break-up of my life, when it felt like i will never stop crying. During that time, i remembered all of what she said in this video, not so much about meeting the ex (cause i didn't do that), but about making yourself look proud and strong again. So the next day i took some extra time to put on a little bit of make-up and went out with friends. Felt so much better to see my face looking bright and normal when my self-esteem was so low. Don't think you'll see this, Lisa, but ever since the day i discovered you and especially during that hard time of my life, you inspired me to stay classy and lift my chin, so, thank you for that!!

[@LisaEldridge]

HI Natalia, Im blown away by your comment , thank you so much this wonderful message and your kind words. You have made me very proud and happy X

[@weazerrr]

I hope you're much better now. Sending you lots of love xx

[@stellabizani7881]

Lisa Eldridge You are truly amazing i wish i had seen it about a year ago when i also had a horrible break up with a horribly unhonourable man because you just gave the most amazing therapy beauty video. I am totally blown away by you i have been watching your videos for so long and you are my perfect inspiration and so special for me thank you for making beauty industry so much more perfect! Lots of love to you and thank you again and have a happy new year!!

[@godilgroup4363]

Lisa Eldridge hi I want that Actress are doing makeup light and skin color type makeup so natural I want this makeup tutorial please give this type makeup tutorial video please

[@christinekobzeff]

Lisa, you are the Bob Ross of makeup, listening to you puts me in the most relaxed trance, love your videos! xoxo

[@HitlerCleopatra]

Although this video is for heart break make-up, I have depression and I have used these tips many times to avoid unwanted attention and questions. Thank you Lisa x

[@hannaht7427]

I hope you're all right x

[@constanzamuirin6737]

Dear Lisa, I'm portuguese so sorry for my english. Your videos have something about a lost feeling - an old feeling - of a classical aura that portrays woman, no matter the moment she occupies in History. Your makeup protects the natural beauty of women. This video of yours, in particular, it's original and precious because it says precisely that. When i see your videos, it makes me think of an essay by Charles Baudelaire, "the painter of modern life", chapter "the praise of makeup" (i dont know the exact title in english), that i think points to that spirit of an era, that idea that "simplicity embellishes beauty". You represent all that and a lot more with your work and transparent kindness. Thank you so much for posting. Obrigada, Catarina

[@eleanortheakston9289]

Constanza Muirin your English is amazing

[@RJHail]

Constanza Muirin beautifully said and a big part of why i watch her make up tutorials is because she wants a woman's natural beauty to shine through the make up rather than an over painted doll, with too much foundation, highlighter and contour that other channels promote. Lisa is all about making you feel good about yourself rather than changing how you look.

[@fbxn]

I will definitely search for the essay! Simplicity embellisses beauty❤

[@LisaEldridge]

Just be your gorgeous self... do a really good version of your typical make-up .... something you really like and that represents the essence of you! I hope it works out ... let us know! X

[@aegidoll]

There's a certain satisfaction in running into your ex when you look amazing. Evil? Probably. Brilliant? Definitely.

[@rachelrenee79]

My fiancé just broke up with me yesterday on the phone. This is only my second relationship and it's heartbreaking. I haven't slept or ate at all. Watching your videos makes me feel better.

[@hernamewaslola7690]

Be strong. Team Eldridge family are with you x

[@hollywoo81]

Rachel Albers we're all with you hun xx

[@eceilaydaa]

How are you now?

[@dsbmblade5053]

+Rachel Albers lovely girl, he's not worth your tears!

[@Lynnvandenbrink]

I'm sorry to hear that! I hope you're feeling a bit better now, God bless you!

[@helenhernandez3583]

"Oh oh she's in love with someone else", was such a refreshing line. It made me smile. That is the name of the perfect shade of blush. Loved it!

[@paigemarie9850]

I've watched this video so many times. There were never any breakups to weather, or exes to show up between the time I found this video and now, but every time I watch it, I feel soothed like I've had a really connecting chat with some friends about experiences we've all shared. I often put it on before bed and listen to Lisa's calming voice, very thankful that she exists and also that I don't need these tips at this time. Whenever I watch it now, I wonder how her friend fared and can't help but smile at the idea that even though it started with a shit boyfriend it ended with a beacon of female bonding and understanding.

[@demiphoto]

This is a really nice video. Not only for the recently heartbroken women, but for every woman who has a hard period and she needs to look and feel stronger. And nice term "Make up therapy"

[@bskakd4233]

Can't agree with u more

[@sentirparasanar68]

I'm a life coach, who happens to love makeup. I just recently found you... and it's the first time I listen to someone combine the pleasure and joy of makeup with soothing emotional tips... The PMS one, the first date, the dinner date... You give SO MUCH MORE than a make up tutorial. I really appreciate it. This is what I call VALUE. You just became my most recommendable makeup artists; all the clients that come to me to relieve their pain and sorrow will have my tools but will have your tools too. Thank you very much for pouring out your heart with such generosity.

[@KauaiDee]

I am always so impressed with the amount of thought and preparation that goes into your videos. Love it.

[@danigirl103]

I'm watching this video 3 yrs after a very bad breakup and I started getting a little misty eyed because it really hurt and I wish I hadn't forgotten to take care of myself and look my best. She's so right about makeup therapy because it's nice to invest in yourself and feel good about yourself. Doing your makeup isn't for them, it's for you. I haven't met anyone just yet but I've definitely learned to see the value in taking care of me and doing things to make me feel good in my own skin. Thanks for such a lovely video!

[@xolizahbeauty]

could listen n watch your videos all day. you're really like the big sister I wish I always had! thank you for your being such a kind, gentle, and helpful person

[@blukatzen]

Believe this or not, it's an important video, on how to make up during times of grief, not just seeing the ex. This information is just as important for getting through a time where you want to be somewhat put together say, during a wake or funeral of a loved one, and during the days right afterwards, when tears are near the surface! I remember when my parents died, you don't want to look awful, but most folks don't expect you to look put together.

[@LadyConqueress]

I would love more of these girl talk videos like you did with PMS and whatnot

[@Vendelaz]

I love this. "She just want to walk out, walk away and the last thing he will see is this perfect bottom" Literally me.

[@funeralgiggle3771]

Seeing your cat cheered me up. So cute!

[@ThatGibsonGirl]

BRILLIANT....LOVE THE JEANS IDEA...just flip the hair and never look back!

[@rsavitri]

there is something about your personality that is so genuine. the way you talk making you seems like everyone girlfriend. aside from the great tutorial, you also manage to make your followers feel close to you. thumbs up!

[@leighhamrick]

Videos like this are what make you so unique to KZbin. You're absolutely one of a kind, Lisa. I love your work!

[@knslingley]

Not sure why I watched this since I've been very happily single for over 2 years. I've recently discovered this chanel and like another person mentioned ... her voice is very soothing. Also comes off very endearing and sincere. Refreshing - Thank you.

[@idawoodhouse1755]

I love this video, I re-watched it like 5 times. You must be a really good friend.

[@FlorPeralta6]

287 jealous exes

[@Vendelaz]

yaaass

[@Averythingbut]

wow. can lisa understand a girl's feelings this much? I loved the makeup, but I loved the pep talk even more. made me feel much better. Thank you, Lisa x

[@brandimaddox6786]

I know that this is ment for breakup makeup, and heaven knows we've all needed it, I have mutiple sclerosis and this tutorial is amazing for for anyone struggling with being ill and still wanting to feel beautiful

[@gloriinher40s]

I adore Lisa. She's the best of the best.

[@Emi-yq1fx]

My suggestions are to wrap a few cubes of ice with a towel and press them onto your face. Works no matter how puffy I am. Also a good 20 minute intense cardio gets the blood going and makes your face look a lot less puffy and drained!

[@gracevpasaribu]

Oh Lisa you're one of many gorgeous ladies who still manages to look so classy when cursing

[@de341f6]

I remember being 13 and watching Lisa's videos. I'm glad I learned my tips from her and not from so-called gurus who suffocate their skin in full coverage foundation. I'm currently 21 and in graduate school and find myself coming back to lisa's videos which are honestly the original asmr ;)

[@SaintOrCinema]

Peachop's cameo was wonderful x

[@annabelle7123]

Loved that last shot of before and after look! and here you don't just look beautiful but confident, comfortable and really just yourself... here just your chat to yourself loaded me again with self-confidence and self-love (not arrogance) that I needed, though I am not seeing him again, thank you so much! Enjoyed much. Love,

[@kiramargolis5902]

Your cat gives amazing advice!

[@ryanchow8679]

each time im broken hearted i watch this video.

[@likeinvestments11]

one of the most honest and beautiful and encouraging videos without being overly emotionally sappy... GORGEOUS

[@blakeknight9454]

Very helpful tips for such a bad situation. Good funeral makeup too...for puffy sad eyes.

[@ckinahan1]

you're amazing. actually inspiring. I was sitting at home trying to make what have become full blown malar bags after crying for 4 months & trying to decide if I should go to an event where I might run into him. I had basically decided not to go, after all, how do you hide malar bags? he won't know that's what they are, but it'll equal crying to him. After watching this, I think I'm going! if I can get ready in time still! will you make an update version of this with current products? I think this video is far more important than you thought it was. You just inspired me to leave the house for the first time in months. ah! it's making me cry as I write this! thank you, thank you, from the bottom of my heart, my sincerest thank you,! you're an Angel from heaven. luv luv luv you/your channel. Thx again!

[@vanityposh6348]

The worst thing you can do is see your ex. I saw my ex last week during the Valentine's Day weekend. I had to worry about the tears after I saw him when I realized he didn't change and he only got worse.

[@BL00DSAGA]

And then you realize you're getting better and always have been more so than him! Stay strong beautiful ❤️

[@vanityposh6348]

Liz Hines Thank you so much sweetheart :)

[@catherineguy21]

Catherine Great your videos are wonderful x

[@humafarooq8575]

You have such a beautiful soul.

[@shivaniarora9686]

its so so great of you to be so so considerate and sensitive all the time or in general as well. It's a treat to hear you or listen to you . Awesome stress buster .. you are so mindful of everything in every video of yours ...

[@Michellecrossan]

such a kind video x

[@59Smythe]

Why would anyone give a thumb down to this? It is brilliant.

[@marsbars180]

My girlfriend of almost six months broke up with me yesterday I miss her so so much,,I still love her but I understand why she had t do it. This has helped me a lot thankyou Lisa xx

[@michikomanalang6733]

Been there, friend. This tutorial cheered me up too for some reason

[@liltrooper29]

Every time I visit your chanel you always let off such calm vibes, even when talking about an upsetting thing like this. Youre such a lovely person and it's so relaxing watching your videos

[@manonmaoui]

You seem like such a genuine and lovely person.

[@ResetYourMindMedia]

I love that all your make up looks focus on being subtle and as natural as possible. You are so talented!

[@Valentina_Salas18]

I'm so glad for this video! I'm not meeting with an ex, my dog died this morning and I have a dinner at home with my husband's boss, wife and kids and a full day event tomorrow and I'm barely keeping it together, I have to cook a massive Italian dinner but I just want to sit and cry, so I gave myself an hour to do just that only to find out latter my face is a mess and I have this social event coming, ! Thank you Lisa this not only helps with the makeup but it just made me feel better . XO

[@carolinanorambuena7369]

Hola Lisa! I just love this makeup therapy video. It reminds the uniqueness of women friendship; you showso much loyalty, empathy, wisdom and much tact to adress a complex subjetct. It reminds also that makeup is a powerful weapon to put forth the best and strongest of ourselves, just in those moments when we need the most. It's like a statement, it's as if your own face, your own skin told you "You can do this!". And a last thing: that little intervene of Peachop was a beautiful unplanned detail! That's the love of our little ones, they HAVE to be where we are always! Regards from the south of Chile!

[@trinapenuliar5451]

Thank you for putting so much understanding and support into this tutorial. It was a great look, but also the little boosts from Lisa, said in such a classy, keep your head up kind of way, is just so nice. Thank you for sharing this story with us!

[@daniellem1978]

I love the fact that you zoom in on your face when you do your tutorials. A lot of videos are done from a distance, and you never really see the intricate bits of how to do things, or how they look. Love your channel Lisa :-D xx

[@seanpaulcreative9320]

I think you are just amazing... growing up as a gay boy in the 90s and 2000s I obviously knew who you were and loved your work but getting to see you talk in person is another level. You are elegant and gorgeous and I really want to take a moment to say thank you!! Cheers

[@yashereen]

You are certainly a highly talented makeup artist, but even if you weren't, I'd watch your videos just listen to the soothing and lovely way you speak! Also, how in the world could I ever get you to do my makeup?? One more also--could you possibly post a bridal look specifically for women with small and/or hooded eyes?

[@giuliasanasi4233]

So sweet of you, Lisa, to think of a "makeup therapy" for women in break-up crisis. Like you said, we can be self-defeating when it comes to bad breakups. This video really moved me, because it's so kind of you to talk about women problems, from your point of view: your KZbin channel actually is more appropriate than you think, because you can show or hide so much of your character just doing your makeup right. I find you're one of the brightest women that I know. Lots of love, Giulia. x

[@jdjohnson2414]

Lisa is SERIOUSLY empathetic! What a lovely video! She’s be a fantastic friend / mother x

[@Lohfert]

So encouraging! And couldnt stand for the cuteness of your cat ^^

[@TheLittleDidSheKnow]

Lisa's videos are so timeless. Keep coming back for this video after all the breakups all these years!!! ❤️

[@sunnysu4965]

I had my last breakup 15 years ago. I am now for 13 years happy married but watching this for fun now, I have a slight flashback about the pain I had...

[@aminakamran6969]

This is the only comforting video that I go to after a breakup. Thank you, Lisa!

[@Pinkyton]

Hearing you explain your friend's choice in jeans reminded me of that old saying:"I hate to see you leave but I love to watch you go."

[@TheOGNunjaDam]

I love all your videos, Lisa, but I think this may be my favorite. this is more than makeup... You've touched the hearts of every girl who ever had a bad breakup. Thanks for this.

[@jenalynch5878]

I love your videos because you come across as not only a highly-talented professional, but also a genuine person! A pleasure to watch. I think these tips are great for any time that you are really stressed, break up or not. Thanks again!

[@Ladynipchick2]

Oh, that was so sweet of you to do a video like this. I had a lump in my throat at the end - but felt comforted and supported at the same time. Lovely idea. Well done!

[@dinaatjuh]

You know, even though I don't use any make up at all this is the best how to get over a break up video ever. Because you have really wise advice on what you do and what you do not want. I find it really helpful thank you so much! I'm still not over the last guy, it has been over a year now. :(

[@MsBeccie1]

Lisa, there is so much sincerity and empathy and sensitivity in your videos. You must be a wonderful friend. Gorgeous makeup too. Thank you xx

[@diannte]

Thank you, Lisa. For your sincerity and solidarity and your make-up. I already had come up with ideas of how I wanted to do my make-up, but watching this video was like a warm salve for all those heart wounds. You're there for me, with me, through this all - me and all of us too. Thank you.

[@munam5220]

What a lovely post to use makeup to help someone stand up a little bit stronger. Your vids are always down to earth and easy to relate to but this one was pretty touching. Thanks for what you do!

[@lopezelba1]

Your voice is so smoothing and you're just so graceful. Almost regal. You truly make any makeup session into an experience. I enjoy watching you.

[@honeymoonbagchannel]

Best of luck to all ladies going thru this...remember we've all been there. This is also a great look for when you're just tired...like when you have babies/newborns,etc.

[@BeeKay4444]

What a fantastic video! We have all been there or will be at some point possibly. I think this advice is spot on. Also I must say....Lisa, you are absolutely splendid. Such a naturally beautiful face and I feel that you come across sincere and genuine, unlike many others on KZbin. Thank you for doing these videos and I will be watching every single one of them.

[@sihambarrakouia6572]

Lisa, you are really the sweetest! I felt like chatting with a BFF for 19 minutes! Really the sweetest!

[@DonnaBorooah]

This tutorial is coming to aid in a slightly different context for me today! I am going to a housewarming of a friend, and so will many estranged people from my High School! I haven't seen them in a very long time (on purpose) but know that I have to be at my most fierce today. While the crying and redness don't really apply, I am definitely stressed about it.

[@tranquility9325]

Lisa as usual you are gorgeous beyond words. I hope your husband realizes how freakin beautiful you are and intelligent to boot. Thank you for this tutorial. I had a photo shoot yrs ago, and found out the same day that my best friend had passed away. I started to cancel the shoot since I had been balling all day but my other friend convinced me not to. She did everything she could to cheer me up and miraculously the pics came out flawless. Miracles do happen and makeup is a life saver lol.

[@LisaEldridge]

oh great, thanks and welcome! X

[@mrs_hindson7239]

This is the most gorgeous video. You must be a really cherished friend. If you're not a mum already - you will make a wonderful one. love Peachop 😂 😍💋💋💋!

[@gtran7]

Ty very helpful tips, and you are a great friend/co-worker to be so loving, and patient to let her vent to you for 3 days.

[@LisaEldridge]

Very pleased you like it so much, thanks for commenting X

[@rhonddalesley]

Personally, I always try to make an extra special effort if I have to see my ex, we've recently broken up after 8 years because he treated me badly and to me, looking good shows that I m okay without him, that I'm not sat at home crying over him because he'd get a kick out of that and I'm not giving him the satisfaction. I'm not saying that I doll myself up to the nines but I darned well make sure he can see what he's missing, i appreciate the bit about the jeans and the nice bottom, he always loved mine, apparently it is pretty nice so now I go with the 'if you've got it, flaunt it' mantra 😊

[@Pauline-vc9jj]

your cat is so fat and adorable

[@sonyasrinath4861]

Omg this actually made me laugh so hard

[@aquablushgirl]

I wish I had seen this a year/six months ago when separating from my husband. I love your calm delivery and no nonsense but kind approach. It is very soothing to listen to. I actually had a bit of a cry when you talked about staying strong and feeling different in a year. You look lovely in this make up. x

[@chloegeorginareynolds9475]

Lisa you're absolutely lovely. So kind & just a complete angel. I'm new to your channel & I can't believe I haven't came across you before. Love love love you! Fancy adopting me? Lol x

[@ishamaini1]

i cried watching this video ...i feel so shitty right now, he wasn't even my ex but i liked him a lot, and he was too hungover his ex to give a shit.

[@ivoryvignettes]

hope you feel a little better today xx

[@ishamaini1]

ivoryvignettes you're so sweet, thanks...time really does heal all wounds :)

[@msuspartans112]

ishamaini1 I feel you. I briefly dated a guy who clicked with me so well and I totally fell for him. Then, he started being distant. I was so hurt. Never felt like that before. I was crushed.

[@allieb6671]

you deserve someone better :) his loss,your beautiful

[@aprilblossoms4]

I am not sure if you will see this Lisa but I had to comment here. I have always watched a few of your videos here and there and liked them. Never thought much about it. But recently I happened to see your video where you were walking a lady through makeup looks for work and another one with 2 wedding looks .I have to say I was blown away. I loved the relaxed conversational style and great tips but more importantly your kindness and wonderful personality that came through. Today I happened to stumble upon your much older videos and had to do a double take because they all look like they were shot in the past week. Neither you nor your videos seem to age! Sorry for this really long comment but wanted to say thanks and look forward to many more of your wonderful videos.

[@katharinagorochow1222]

I love this video soo much! I watch it every time when I'm sad or just not feeling good and it always cheers me up. Thank you very much, Lisa, for this wonderful video!

[@shivanisharma4983]

What a refreshing beauty video. This was really therapeutic and lovely. Thank you so much.

[@felicitythomson3397]

The sweetest most caring video ! What fab advise. I do so hope she is in a good place now....many years on. What a good friend you are !!!❤😘

[@lananasser9590]

This video gave me goosbumps! I can remember being in a situation like this. It is not an easy thing to experience. I think all of your recommendations have been spot on. The best of luck to all of the girls going through this currently. I hope you find happiness soon!

[@loremaser618]

Met up with my ex...we had the same makeup.

[@sandrad4239]

This is great! I always had a similar approach to meet the ex look. My motto is not to let him see me worse than when we broke up but not over the top either. The most important part for me was to remain calm and pretend really hard to be in control. It is hard but it is so worth it when you look back and know he did not break your spirit. Well done Lisa, signing to your channel straight away

[@holziebog]

Great advice Lisa, very friendly & positive. Girl power! :)

[@cestmoi6608]

Nailed it. I'm glad my girlfriends and I are not the only ones paying attention to these little details. Hope the meeting with the Ex went well for your friend and that she's in a happy relationship by now.

[@popartjunkie]

For someone who just got dumped a few days ago (not on bad terms, just wasn't working out, still not fun) having stumbled upon this video after the past few days of crying in bed, this has had to be the most therapeutic thing I've seen/heard. Just wanted to say thank you.

[@mar00725]

I just discovered your channel and WOW I love It. You are incredible.

[@ShamsGhanim]

I don't have a boyfriend or an EX, But I really enjoyed watching you Lisa. Sometimes life itself is hard for us to face. You motivate me to be strong and face it :) . I wish I had a friend like you in this journey of life :) Bless u . Greeting from Iraq :)

[@sacmakiz]

This video made me emotional not only because brought back old painful memories but I felt a sense of support and understanding. Lisa, 'beautiful' isn't enough to describe your effect on this world. I am dealing with depression and hopelessness daily, I watch makeup videos to soothe myself but most makeup videos on youtube aren't my taste. My face structure also looks like you and I feel very sad for giving up on my life. Your strong, wise, harmonious persona gave me a sense of "Maybe I know what I want to do and not be afraid of being seen. Maybe I can go after my dreams and have what I always dreamt myself to become' Your lovely face, your compassionate wise soul, your creative talent, healthy vibrant outlook, the fact that have a love for cats, flowery dresses and gem stone rings... is what I always dream myself to be but I delay it because I am afraid of losing it all over again. Depression after loss of loved ones made my me give up on myself. I hope I can get back, do my makeup the way I like, natural, blended and in my style, find people like me, not afraid of expressing who I am and embracing my vulnerable & hurt side and by sharing it providing support for others is who I want to be... I am tired of feeling hopeless and not doing anything about it because of fear. Thank you for giving me some hope today

[@radioila]

I'm coming back to this video after such a long time... because I'm the moment I need it :-( So helpful, and so many precious advices (I appreciated the Rescue Remedy one so much ;-) You're a very good friend, Lisa, in real life and also "remotely" for us!

[@katiem6773]

Great tips Lisa. Really enjoying your videos. Easy to follow and practical tips!

[@autumnphoenix910]

Thank you from making this video Lisa. I've just broken up with my boyfriend of 2 years due to geographical issue. And it's been rough this past week. This video is just uplifting and confidence boosting, which is what I need right now. Again thank you xx

[@moanableful]

I really love you!. You are a wonderful person and an amazing make-up artist. Please keep uploading more videos. God bless you!