LIVE LIFE FOR YOU

[@ivyn6015]

Can y’all believe we’re getting hours upon hours of straight wisdom and facts for F R E E ???

[@honeybadgernasty]

IKR...??!!! I will forever be grateful for SheRa's free lessons! 🙌

[@MrsAmbitous93]

Girl I feel so lucky lol

[@MrsAmbitous93]

Forever grateful

[@Catherine_Kate]

I try to donate when I can 🙏 Good karma.

[@JoslynClayton]

@@Catherine_Kate girl yes and send new subscribers!!!

[@persephoneastrology7115]

The only thing you should feel guilty about is neglecting yourself! Powerful words, THANKS SHERA

[@olympiastargazer4469]

Great Video And parents- STOP RAISING YOUR DAUGHTERS TO BE PICK-ME'S!

[@lh9761]

For everyone else raised by those who can't read this comment, we're here!👌

[@entitled7665]

Olympia StarGazer I agree ☝️

[@julianasser6268]

Another thing, l find it REAL TACKY when men invite you to their house when meeting for the first time....its a huge sign that they dont have any money. I feel a first date shouldnt be at a man's house.

[@julianasser6268]

@@GeorginaJett Exactly!! Believe me l never have and never will!😀

[@msrailroadtracks2920]

Right! I would never accept that offer, and I would instantly block him. Periodt.

[@shinebrightlikeadiamond6411]

Definitely no house meeting until they invest in you. Because after they get to sleep with you they gone lol

[@a_la_drinah]

Agree

[@AmaLoveGoddessTV]

The first 10 dates should not be.

[@nishamack586]

"They will never care until you do" Realeast statement ever! My best friend passed away ,on her death bed she was worrying about who didn't come visit! I vowed then to put myself first! Shera I can't thank you enough for telling us the most important part! To keep the focus on Self!!! Thanks a million lady!

[@mmommo-hx4dx]

Merry Christmas! The secret to life is giving.

[@incogb6696]

Wow

[@samij6071]

This breaks my heart :(

[@honeykiss9350]

Women majority are the leaders in the home not men. When you see men with their families at places like Disney or SeaWorld, it not men who put that outting together, it's wives doing it. So expectation is it. I got it Shera. Putting yourself first. When momma ain't happy ain't nobody happy

[@connie187]

honey kiss So true women do everything in the home not men. We are not appropriate for all our hard work. So I left the marriage after my kids grew up. Now I met an amazing man that appreciate everything that I do😁and he pays for everything.

[@benjerry8987]

And then there's travel agents.....pay them to take some of the planning stress off mommy.

[@valeriegaddy8833]

Love..Freedom..ME..Time...2019

[@Vanessabobessa10]

And thats my job cuz he paid for the entire trip lol. Balance

[@honeykiss9350]

@@Vanessabobessa10You go girl! That's it. and men love it, believe it or not they really want to make us happy. That's what makes them feel like a man.

[@annamartinez53]

Omg ur amazing I met a man that wants to pay all my bills

[@eyzaguirreyoutubedatabase4106]

Strong independant woman

[@aminah761]

😀😀

[@rusty315]

How did u get him to do that?!?

[@Vera-dg3hf]

Lucky!!! Lmao is that working out for you 3 years later?

[@reallifetopicsrevealed7295]

CONGRATULATIONS!

[@meme-qg2gq]

“i’m not staying up all night” video: 3 hours 😂😂😂 gotta love Shera 💕

[@aminah761]

Haha

[@Only_1Gail_11]

😁 I love It!☺️😍

[@angieburke1268]

Its true. If women wouldnt settle for less and realize its a good thing and okay to have high standards and expectations from men, the men would wake up and step up their game. I used to date men with great careers but I took up with old gfs that have low standards and allowed it to ruin my life. So dump the low standards gfs and the haters even if its family. Being around people like that is a real downer and it will ruin your life. Now I am old, starting over and dealing with garbage that wouldnt be there if I had just told myself its better to be alone, look after me and its a good thing to look after me. Now I am enjoying putting myself first, looking after me first and avoiding the crazies in my surroundings. I am feeling better every day. Please listen to SheRa. You dont want to go through the hell me and my child went through because I settled for less and supposed potential. Its true dusties will kill you and their friends will try to kill you too. Just move on and up. Been there. Please listen to SheRa ladies and gentlemen. SheRa got it going on.

[@EmpressofChrist]

I so needed to hear this 💋🌹

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

Very true

[@valalv3785]

i left abusive dusty finally took a year and funny even my not so called friends stop talking to me because im living life to the fullest now..!! thank you Sheera your inspiration and videos have literally helped me changed my life around.

[@gracelikerain5039]

Ur dusty probs tried chasing u down after your level up

[@jerrejackson1973]

@@gracelikerain5039 I wanna be your backdoor dusty. 😂

[@gracelikerain5039]

@@jerrejackson1973 i have one

[@jerrejackson1973]

@@gracelikerain5039 I appreciate your honesty. You are beautiful both inside and out. I was only joking, of course, as in reality, I don't mess with other men's women and I could tell you were in a relationship by your comments.

[@gracelikerain5039]

@@jerrejackson1973 Thanks

[@sunshinegoddess1403]

I have always thought like this but I was told it was wrong but I never gave up. Then I found your channel...smh😢😭 and I knew that I had it right the whole time. Then I met the man that changed my life and now I am where I suppose to be and I just want think thank you Sista Ra! I thank you for the words of wisdom and encouragement for women to keep fighting the great fight. I was always the woman saying I don't want to work I want a man of means to provide for me and now I have that. I just wanted to give my testimony so that any woman that's out here feeling this way but people are laughing at you just know that it is possible. I have three children but my man doesn't have any. Who would have thought that a man of means would want a woman with 3 children? I'm currently working on getting the bag (ring). It's been less than 2 years and we live in his very nice home and I don't have to work and I shop every day. The life you want is out here. Don't give up lady's. Follow this Sista's instructions and you will have the life you desire. Peace and Love💋💋

[@krisbec5904]

Wow 🙌🙌 Thank you for this I have 2 small children and have been very discouraged by ppl around me to just settle for being a single mom, but I really would like to be married! So I will keep hope alive that I find my Russell Wilson!! GOOD JOB GIRL!!!

[@Makeupsokayy]

Thank you for this 🙌🏾 I’m 20 and 1 daughter but I’ve always wanted to be that! Stay st home and not work. I’m leveling up I just attract old men 😂

[@shinebrightlikeadiamond6411]

Wow that is fantastic, I definitely won't be giving now hearing this, I wish you all the very best and all the wonderful blessings that's in store for you and your kids and your soon to be husband for the future.👏❤️

[@freshmanjeans]

Aye🔥

[@a_la_drinah]

Thanks

[@sprice771]

Don’t gold dig on Dustys that’s like stealing from homeless people. 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀

[@BybiGurl1]

They ain’t dead yet are they dwl

[@sarahs.archives]

When I say I hollered on that part 🤣🤣

[@Vera-dg3hf]

Lmaooooo

[@olympiastargazer4469]

Oh no "Dusties will kill you for what they got" oh my God I'm dying 😫 You better give that Dusty back his $20 lol hahhah

[@aishaabdullah7806]

LOL.

[@jenniferpatricks3966]

Olympia StarGazer i screamed too😂

[@truthiswealth1074]

Self FIRST ! I agree about being careful with who you deal with . Dusty OR stingy men will put hand's on you over a few dollar's and not even think twice ! Alway's be careful and know who you are dealing with at all time's . Better to move on than lose an eye or worse !

[@olivenorville6901]

My dusty nearly kill me over a $12.00 dollors food after realizing that he was $12.00 out never again I will grow wings and fly when I see a dusty

[@likemycommentifyouwantareply]

@@olivenorville6901 grow wings and fly 🤣

[@poshvegan1443]

The being who birth me hates me and tried to turn the whole family against me, including my son. Needless to say that tie was cut and my life greatly elevated. We have to trust to our intuition. #greatvid

[@kaeciawilliams8006]

Posh Vegan I am in the same boat ❤️

[@gracelikerain5039]

She hates u? 😒

[@yabe1496]

Yess, the same here, bravo!

[@sabias3932]

So happy to hear you protected yourself and your relationship with your son above any kind of “loyalty” to her. Some people put too much importance on family loyalty and it ruins their life...

[@benjerry8987]

Mine too. It hates my face. I'm like - "same here, and right back to you you old dirty broad. Bye!"

[@deena3003]

You could not be more correct about calling your pickme friend to go out and they come out looking dry. They get jealous seeing how polished I look. I can't no more.

[@teiatalks1879]

JSM where u stay at ?

[@WheresMyNutellaBish]

That shit is horrible... how you mad you didn't put effort to go out? Girl we goin to the club!!

[@deena3003]

@@WheresMyNutellaBish right lol that brings bad vibes😅

[@freshmanjeans]

Dang..i low key happy I ain't got no girlfriends

[@a_la_drinah]

@@freshmanjeans I feel the same

[@whatsupwithtorii]

I’m sooo glad i Start putting myself first, because that’s exactly what the next person gon do💯

[@a_la_drinah]

Exactly

[@buggeyed139]

‘Desire is greater than fulfilment, the whole point is that they never get it, desire is the power’

[@naureenwalji485]

you keep me stronger than any therapist friend or family

[@mimiappiah57]

Can’t stay up all night 3:15:51 😁

[@IamKarryanne]

I chuckled..lol

[@arionb2316]

Lol she always says that

[@stargazerlily8451]

😂😂😂

[@HausOfAdonis]

hahaha

[@Driveright698]

🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

[@foxywhitetip7387]

Just saw a older KZbinr giving relationship advice . She said “men like someone they can build an empire with, not someone to take care of” - but I couldn’t watch anymore of that ......

[@JB-ej2cx]

Angie Ali Yeah! I only hear Shera wisdom. Other advices have only made me lose the game, being taken advantage of, betrayed, used and discarded and ultimately single with nothing on my hands. Not anymore.

[@hollywood9654]

😆 Bob the builder chicks... Real masculine

[@genevawelch9865]

Foxy WhiteTip That gives me a headache just reading that

[@reallifetopicsrevealed7295]

*55:56 Shera this by itself is a reason to NEVER get involved with a dusty. Your breakdown was genius! Unfortunately, I went through this myself. You helped change my mindset so I escaped and life has been so much better, thank you! Dusties destroy their Pickmeshas. They demand the most, but don't have💩 . When the Pickmes passed away from health problems, the dusties replaced them and lived off their insurance money.*

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

😮😮😮😮

[@benjerry8987]

"I don't care who's wrong or right I don't really wanna fight no more" -Tina Turner

[@mstwelvedeadlycyns]

True

[@msgameconsciouscarter1475]

All I know are pickme women they always saying they don’t mind going have with their man their should not me gender roles and they talk about how a man with money is not a good man just cause he have money blah blah.... this channel is really giving me life and made me realize all my life I was hanging around these women hats ok with dusty men or men that doesn’t have to do much for them.ive been saying this is 2000

[@benjerry8987]

They probably say that because it is their sons, brothers, cousins, dad, etc who are dusties. They make excuses/defend them.

[@allisononyoutube5794]

I never approach a man. They always approach me.Dustys stopped trying quite a while ago. They need to stay scared because ain't nobody got time for that.

[@julianasser6268]

Yes!!!!! Exactly what l needed to hear!!!! Stop living for your mom!!!....yes!!!.....even as an adult my mother tried to dictate my ENTIRE life.......havent went to see here in over a year now....l have removed myself from her....she doesn't like that l no longer allow her control me...boy is mad about that

[@krisbec5904]

My dusty bought me an edible arrangement, and then told me he was going to be short on HIS HALF of the rent the following day🤦

[@sarahr4231]

Level up and leave ASAP

[@krisbec5904]

@@sarahr4231 Girl I put his ass out the last day of February told him naw I don't need your HALF of rent take yo lil change and get the hell out... Spent the year prior getting certified and getting a good job so I could hold my household down too bad I didn't have Shera then cuz I would of waited a lil longer to level up my looks too and had his replacement on stand bye😆

[@come_on_barbie_123]

@@krisbec5904 no u did right. U did what u needed to do to secure YOUR bag, for your own security. Now u just need a man to back it up!

[@msrailroadtracks2920]

Wow! That’s a dusty for ya.... 😷

[@jaquonnacoleman6013]

Kris Bec 😭

[@trapgypsy22]

"see ya at the next funeral hope it ain't yours" took me out 😂😂😂

[@valalv3785]

i moved out to differ area.. dramatic changes, thank you Sheera.

[@a_la_drinah]

@Val Alv planning on doing this

[@likemycommentifyouwantareply]

@@a_la_drinah me too

[@SoMoLove80]

I love me some Shera! She helping all little sisters level up! Salute and salute to all the ladies taking this advice and leveling up!

[@buda8244]

I binged watched ur vids for a couple days and today I did myself up for a meeting at work and I was poppin all day!! I needed that wake me up cuz I been acting like idk who tf I am like this low energy lonely ass girl... Ugh can't stand her lol #levelup!! For sure xoxo

[@bangelic6471]

My anxiety be through the roof sometimes because I’m so anxious to level up and I don’t wanna forget nothing you said...

[@a_la_drinah]

Same

[@scarletcold5958]

I wish i found you sooner...then i wouldn't be such a doofus getting used all the time. I never wanted to play games because i had that silly naive misconception men like honesty...LOL. Thanks to you i saw the light and error of my ways. YOU ARE GOLDEN!! Much love

[@shernadehosein3749]

I'm learning so much from her! I love her she gives me comfort!

[@DC-se3vr]

My sister told me the same thing. Always be as “naturally beautiful “ as possible.

[@evepogue9412]

Lord I wish you had this stream 30 years ago! Smiles! Yes I am listening, an eye opener!

[@uanip1341]

Winding up in the dumpster is the scariest thing 😂😂😂. No more dusties for real

[@DeliciousBeautii1]

Uani Palacio Exactly!!! My dusty ex bf is still mad at me for all of the bills he paid and the money that he gave me!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@uanip1341]

girl! watch yoself lmao

[@DeliciousBeautii1]

referral madness Because I was ruthless!!! I still am a little bit!!! Lol

[@DeliciousBeautii1]

Uani Palacio 😂😂😂😂

[@GeminiPeach81]

Thank you for answering the question regarding the mother taking over her adult daughter life. I wish you would do a video on it because it's a problem for alot of us out here. I honestly believe that one of the reasons that I'm 37 and single is because of my mom. She didn't encourage me to prepare for a man, although she herself had been married twice and had a long term relationship with my biological father. She was married to my stepfather, a wonderful man who took care of everything, until his death. Now, I am financially responsible for her, which is ok but I can barely afford to care for me. It's like I've replaced my dad as emotional and financial support, which I'm not happy about. My older sister is married with plenty of money but I get all of this responsibility laid on me. It's a burden. It's hindered me from developing a romantic relationship with a man because my mom gets jealous or starts talking negative to discourage me. Furthermore, it's difficult to explain why I live with her. I pay all the bills and mortgage, yet can't even redecorate the home. Seriously, it's crazy. I have no privacy and I feel like a child.

[@Trailblazers323]

Lula Belle She sounds like a narc, with you being the scapegoat and your sister being the golden child. Leave.

[@vlee7217]

U need to tell her u lost your job. Lie. Let your sister take care of her and MOVE AWAY to another state. Don't die alone sad and miserable.

[@YiriUbic3793]

Wow Lula that situation is taking the life out of you, you should stop feeling guilty, release the fear and guilt, Lula do you fear if you stop helping your mother people will start talking about you? Are you afraid that people will stop thinking that you are a nice and a good person?

[@f3042]

This situation is so common. You need to remove yourself ASAP and tell your sister to pick up the slack. She isn't struggling with this situation because she decided to take care of herself first. You should certainly love and honor your mother, but you're a single adult- you should put yourself first so that you can get what you want. Get fit, get dolled up and date older men. You can catch a handsome and successful man in his 50s. Hell, if you're looking for a Black man they still look amazing in their 50s (I'm really just realizing this myself so I've adjusted the age range I'm ok with). Keep the faith. Strategize and put yourself first so you can claim the life you want! 👍🏾💕

[@GeminiPeach81]

Yari Arias I fear my mother being homeless. I want to make sure she is provided for but I want to live my life as well.

[@DeliciousBeautii1]

She is exactly right!!! If you’re still being approached by dusties, then that means that you haven’t leveled up!!! Dusties haven’t approached me in years!!!!😂😂😂I remember I went to the dmv with 90% of dusties in there and they were so afraid of me!!! They were watching me closely though! They was looking at the clothes that I had on and then they started looking at themselves with an insecure look! All I heard was some little dusty say damnnn she’s beautiful from afar, but he was too scared to approach! When I go to my bank, the dusties just stare, but they Never approach!!! When I leave outside my house, I make sure that I have on quality feminine clothes that fit my body really well, hair flat ironed straight, and a full face of expensive makeup on!!! I am a dusty repellent!! My sister who is not that attractive still gets approached by dusties and bums at the local gas stations!!! When we go out together, the bums stare me down and approach my sister asking her for money!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@misssweetbabi81hunt60]

DeliciousBeautii1 yesss “dust be gone” spray 😂😂😂😂

[@kittykitcat6932]

I noticed the same thing lol

[@hopscotchgiggles4288]

DeliciousBeautii1 Love this! 🤗💃🏾

[@hopeful9160]

Why are you not pulling your sister to level up?

[@DeliciousBeautii1]

Hope She doesn’t want to!!! She loves being a pick me!!! She enjoys being used by multiple men!!!

[@jocelynradam8333]

You are beautiful 😍 I like your principle in Life . This is how a woman should treat themselves . Love yourself first before others ! 😍❤️😍

[@dreamceline2093]

So many women, present company included, really need this message! ❤️

[@LOVEPLATINUMBEAUTYESTELLA]

This is so absolutely true. Best advice for happiness and success. 💯

[@magicianxo6480]

Be all that YOU can be and nothing less! That's the name of the game I'm a free spirit BUT it doesn't mean I'm free with you... Haha ...means I'm free to choose where I go when I go and who I go with 😊💪 Plus as I watch I'm doing vision boards for beauty, success and goals for 2019 for fun..BUT a firm believer in magick of action visualize it then do it amen 😏

[@corinaweber9014]

You look gorgeous!!!! Also you look so young. I love your new look. Great video.

[@margosepulveda5408]

Love your kitty......and love that you love on him while doing a video. Says ALOT about you......time anyways. I believe you are an A type woman......you just are doing what you want too do. Not what your 100% capable of doing!! I also don't know anyone who can talk, give advice, be nice & real for hours on end......not get angry, upset at others remarks, trolls. SheRa could have her own TV show on any topic she wanted. Im so glad we / the people are fortunate enough to get ALL this information for free!! SheRa could make millions with all this great advice.......I know ALOT of things she talks about. But, I could NEVER put it down like SheRa does!! Feel lucky young ladies.......and old.....lol!! Now.....I need to go and deprogram myself!!...... Lolol!!

[@ah-ss7he]

🤭 I thought u were talkin about vagina in that first line 😭

[@lastchance6993]

Amen, make urself happy, think abt urself. Yes, I agree

[@bravesoul7777]

dusty gets mad n demands the things he bought for u back. yup.happened 2 me. i dumped him.

[@jerrejackson1973]

I'm dusty, don't get mad, and not demanding nothin. I only mess with single women tho

[@applescience1065]

On one of the social media platforms...Maliah commented that Drake was a crybaby, and had a sense of entitlement. We like men, not boys.💋

[@siphokazin.7552]

I love love this video.💙💜 There is a mental part of leveling up where you have to make yourself first priority! Go out on your own fulfill yourself outside you man and Never feel guilty for going out and being happy without him. This is soo good🥀💖💐

[@vitalenergy3595]

Every 1 of those 20 dollar bills.... I had one ask me “what did you do with that 30buck I gave you?” 😂😂😂

[@a_la_drinah]

Lol right

[@deannaishmael4749]

I can’t stay up all night lol this was 3 hours. I love it lol

[@angieburke1268]

Oh hell not all black guys are dusties, theres a lot of white creepers, brown creepers, yep in every race.

[@ssmith8758]

Angie Burke...yup! Met myself plenty of white dusties...#neveragain

[@genevawelch9865]

As a white woman, I have dealt with plenty of white and Hispanic dusties. And yes I’ve definitely met handsome sophisticated strong alpha male black men who took care of beautiful black women

[@french_daily_cupcake17]

@@genevawelch9865 Asian men are no different either. Some men at age 30,40,50,60,70's are dusties too. Though the odds are high, we can still end up with providers🤞

[@gueenvictoria64]

Its gon catch on fire and its a party city wig.....what......😱 Too funny!

[@marcycat]

I'm the black sheep of the family because I have a better life, they're jealous. I just stay away from their unkind treatment.

[@jaclynredmond5496]

How did i actually just discover this Queen only days ago??? You're really speaking my own mind! Keep it up pretty!!

[@ah-ss7he]

I’m waaay late

[@katongochisando2094]

i only discovered her six months ago 😭😢

[@RandomPersonsOpinion]

Shera is my Spirit Animal. 😂🖤

[@alegria147]

What a wise woman you are, Shera❤️

[@EM-ps4kr]

My father and mother make excuses for my husband putting his hands on me and act like it doesn‘t even happen. He tackles me, has dislocated my knee, sprained my knee and shoulder, ripped my shirts i was wearing, ripped table tops off and thrown at me.... i am sick and need his insurance so i am stuck and no one seems to believe me and i don‘t know why my family thinks so poorly of me since i did all their laundry and cleaned their kitchen growing up plus watched my brother as a kid. Luckily he works out of town.

[@sweetstorm7652]

E M please leave him

[@samij6071]

You need to LEAVE. If you're sick, move to a State that took the Medicaid expansion & that will hold you til you can get well & level up.

[@Anonymousthough]

YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT about this WHOLE SUBJECT!!! ITS SPEAKING VOLUMES TO ME AND MY SITUATION! 😌 FINALLY, MUTUAL IDEAS AND FACTS ARE PRETTY MUCH SIMILAR! ☺️🤪👌🏽

[@lunab4175]

Defending Beauty hey girl do you have an ig ?

[@amylibunao6025]

She is amazing showing us our value

[@SkinCareLuver]

I'm about to start doing this because I'm telling you, you will never be happier. But it's true. This is why alot of men seem happier and emotionally stronger when in relationships with women they claim are clingy but I think it's a front because as soon as she's gone he's on bitch mode

[@JoslynClayton]

Whaaaaaaat???? Therapist make u feel bad so you keep coming back 😯😊🤣🤣🤣🤣💓💓💓

[@YourMotivationPage]

Desire is greater than fullfillment. Very true ❤️

[@valalv3785]

LOL your old school quotes..Your so entertaining

[@sunnycookie1584]

I simply thank God for everything keep it moving I have no more time to focus and worry about these men if someone call they call as my mother used to say a phone call is nothing but a phone call my focus is on me and what I need to do for me

[@k.d.williams6439]

Love your lives!! So much golden information!!

[@aigil9116]

My sister got LV on her b-day from her ex when they we're dating briefly.

[@julieslifeoflove7549]

You spoke FACTS!!!!💖💖💖💖💖

[@suzannebaker2200]

your my favourite you tube,you talk bout stuff that I like to hear,home truths,thumbs up..😘

[@senaitsmith8437]

You are smart woman I ❤️ You girl

[@KDbelieves]

Why are people asking Shera all of these questions. She's not omniciant. This is why people stay walking around ignorant asf because they don't know who to ask the right questions. she's very knowlegeable, but she doesn't know everything.

[@DeliciousBeautii1]

KD No one knows everything!!! Through life experiences, she’s learned a lot on her journey and now she’s teaching other women to put themselves first!!! If you choose not to, you will get used any way!! It is up to that person to choose to live how they want! A lot of people are ignorant and a lot of people with stay ignorant! There is a lesson in almost everything! It doesn’t matter who’s teaching! If you’re not able to read between the lines or use discernment, then that is on them and not her!

[@KDbelieves]

Well duh. Unless you're agreeing with me, that basically what I said. Some people are simply not the best people to ask certain questions. Would you ask a police officer about color theory? if you have basic logic, you probably would be better off asking a stylist. It's clear that some people look up to her so much that they will ask her questions that don't have anything to do with the topic at hand and when she gives them the wrong answer's they will follow it blindly.

[@DeliciousBeautii1]

KD That is not what you said! Go back and read what you wrote!!!

[@patriceparham9517]

DeliciousBeautii1 That's exactly what she said.

[@lovelife6299]

When people look up to someone they want their opinions on everything bc they can't think for themselves. These questions get annoying af. At times i have to turn off the chat 😔

[@agnieszkaagnieszka2844]

You are great and funny wish I knew you ealier.. 😊💕

[@nrsimmons178]

SheRa is still correct on dating athletes-only baseball players have guaranteed money and will still get that money even if he gets injured. Football players only get earnest money guaranteed to them, which is the bonus they negotiated for themselves. Even when she's wrong, she's still right, lol! ♡

[@ColeyAwakend-id7yn]

Hi Shera, I feel really sad a lot of the time it’s like this little hole of emptiness that keeps on telling me that my reality is not enough. I don’t get a lot of joy out of speaking to a ton of people. I’m 31 now and I want a relationship, just finding this whole process shattering at times.

[@MsMyami]

Thank you Sister SheRa....I needed this.....

[@MirrahMirrah11]

Ur videos are life!!!!!!!! Ty Ty Ty Ashera

[@biancadonici2718]

True worth is self worth .

[@callalilly4743]

28 inches!? Do I think it's ghetto? Girl I already knew the answer 😂

[@julianasser6268]

Gurrrlll😂

[@LeilaniAlua]

Thank you for this video!!

[@pr3ttylinks]

You are freakin hilarious. Omg 😂😂😂😂

[@astridtravel7991]

When I only care about me everybody said I was selfish. I could not see it any other way. It was hard because my mom is an alcoholic narc.

[@elizabethandiosa4579]

This is my reply to the Holy ghost from another post. They are thinking coffee dates are ok. I had posted that it's cheap and disrespectful. TheHolyGhost I understand what you are saying but try to look at it this way. That attitude is a throwback to dowry days trumped up and promoted by patriarchy and misogyny. It's blatant disrespect for a woman to meet for merely coffee. It's about all of us improving and stepping up. It's about respect and honouring the masculine and feminine. Less than a century ago in western culture women were not allowed to vote. For many centuries women were stripped of any rights to own property. If women resisted they were burnt alive at the stake and called witches. Less than fifty years ago, it was still legal to beat women and children and the men that did that were never charged let alone prosecuted. When women are giving, they are disrespected by 85% of the males. To this day we as women are still being raped, beaten, harassed and stolen from and otherwise exploited. One might think that rapists and bullies would be prosecuted but this very often does not happen within the legal system. Also I firmly believe it is not healthy to raise children with some guy that sells drugs for a living or gets tanked frequently. It's true that most men that are helped, supported or do fifty fifty with a woman eventually leave her. As for me, I am an older glamorous, educated, kind, intelligent, artistic and fun loving woman. I am also a mother. I believe we can always learn and improve throughout our lives. We can expand our consciousness, read, take courses and improve our lives and the lives of those around us. It's good to get an education. It is admirable when a man can be a good, kind and benevolent provider. It's not about women and men truly honouring each other for our differences and similarities. I would never want my daughter to have to slave away and be disrespected by a man or woman with low standards. It's ultimately more beneficial for men and women to uplift and uphold a woman. Why denigrate her. Why benefit yourself by denigrating a woman. Up what you can offer as a man.

[@samij6071]

Perfectly said.

[@biancadonici2718]

Love the God way unconditionally...

[@gueenvictoria64]

Girl.....U telling the truth!! # Thanks Love ❤

[@mw7882]

I appreciate you so much! 😘😘😘😘

[@dchrysostom]

You are too funny 😂 End up in a dumpster for $20... 😂😂😂😂

[@peekaboots01]

Awwww...kitty wants mommy's love. She's so cute. Black beauty!! Meow. :)

[@steph7115]

You putting women up on strait game!!!

[@biancadonici2718]

Love u foremost ..and be gracious be determined

[@divinalove8525]

Your eye makeup looks so good.

[@jamilgotcher5456]

All my brother's and male cousin's wives hate me because they're jealous. Anyone else have to deal with these women that married into their family and are jealous as hell of your beauty and accomplishments? I'm going to do like SheRa and just see them at the next funeral LMAO

[@absolute3112]

This is one of my favorite SheRa looks..

[@IamKarryanne]

1:49:00 Just so i know where to start again..youtube doesnt book mark anymore or whatever they use to do.. or it is just me?

[@skyeblu9717]

Softfire Lol it's happening to me too

[@travelfoodielove]

I love you love when u tell us to do you

[@sabounji]

This is well known.....that women or men whom live for themselves attract ones in similar state..... If they do not love themselves, they can not "love" others....and it starts with self-care.... For ones whom are searching for others to give or provide them something they do not emit....they/he/she is or are mistaken.....

[@biancadonici2718]

True value comes from within yourself not valuable .

[@biancadonici2718]

Love is cherished....

[@ceceliacoehins3547]

Ashera sometimes you have me LOL hahahah .................Nice video as always!!!!!

[@blahblah1438]

I love your videos

[@princesslove5973]

I love her soo much