【LIVE-OWL】 懷才不遇從不存在 無法鋒芒畢露 便莫怪人無眼光 勿學識「退而求其次」最忌「思想巨人行動矮子」｜張寶華

[@johnnyshek5130]

絕大部分人只是平平庸庸過一生，能夠鋒芒畢露的是極少數，這是現實，然而，這不代表這些平凡人沒有付出努力，也不是三分鐘熱度，而可能是能力有限，或者缺乏機會，甚至兩者也有。一個人能否成功，必須具備能力和運氣，缺一不可。對自己太嚴苛，常常與他人比較，不斷強逼自己，反而活得不開心，盡了力，便已經對得住自己，畢竟謀事在人，成事在天，不是人人也得追求一些宏大的理想，活得開心才是王道。張小姐，得罪得罪！

[@jack19971965]

只要努力 (成功道路) 一定有你份, 因為成功道路好窄 好多人未試已放棄或者中途放棄 到最好行出成功道路就係歸你! 加油!!!

[@johnnyshek5130]

@@jack19971965成功人士不應覺得自己高高在上，也需要對社會承擔更多責任，因為身邊的人沒有他們那麼幸運，能力和機會遠遠較他們遜色，說得不好聽，沒有這些人墊底，成功人士的光芒不能凸顯！

[@瑞雲-p7j]

其實問題係好多事情係由整體因素決定，某個人自已既努力只能夠有一定程度既影響，唔係話個人努力毫無作用，只係個人努力都唔係能夠完全影響所有事情。正如兩球隊落場比賽，兩隊人都盡百份之一百努力，但係始終都一定有一隊輸，呢個世界無絕對，所以我都認同你既觀點，就好似片主咁講，佢話無懷才不遇，何為懷才不遇，就係自已既才能得唔到認同，咁我呢家死都唔承認你嘅才能，我什至認為你一加一都唔識，咁懷才不遇係咪發生緊?呢個世界，其他人係外表係判斷唔到人地識D咩，而且總有主觀情緒，以偏概全，個人喜好，利益問題，人際關係，好多野都影響到人嘅判斷，認為，同行為，所以你想咁容易獲得客觀評價，公平對待唔係咁簡單囉，好多人會因為某個人既某個問題，而討厭某個人，之後就會指責某個人其他唔關事既正確問題係有問題。就好係你呢家明明做得幾好，我明屈你話你唔得，懷才不遇係咪發生緊?所以我希望片主明白，呢家個問題唔係你到，而係係我果到，我因為對你認識唔全面，只係知道你部份情況，同時因為唔鐘意你，加上你做既事影響到我利益，然後我就判斷你無任何才華，咩都唔識，咁你點樣解決?個問題明明係我判斷有問題，誤解左你。

[@waihung7014]

張小姐慢慢學下，做人放鬆啲，俾咁大壓力自己好辛苦架。

[@fbloophole]

真正的才女，係全才再加材，女兒身，男兒志「智」志與智雙全，十分喜歡台主的所有節目!👍👍👏👏🎋🎄🎋🎄🎋

[@LittleCowB]

多謝Sharon 好鍾意看你d片 對人生有好多啟發 自己努力好緊要！！

[@Annieling2688]

讲得很好，激励每个人都要求学，才能创造自己的价值。你的节目真的有用。👍👍👍💝💝💝

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

Thxxx candy !

[@Annieling2688]

你的导读和讲话很正面，希望能有多些年青人看到你的节目。现在这内容的传媒十今稀缺，励志的教育很必要。🙏🙏🙏

[@jorismith2139]

很喜歡你今次的topic 我獲益良多！非常感謝🙏

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

😀😀😀😀😀

[@zella1982]

生命寶貴，必須努力令自己成為一個優秀的人！才可做到更多！令人生豐盛！

[@corinardh8635]

偶爾在KZbin 看到張小姐的導讀，得益匪淺

[@catchercool4372]

張小姐，你就似位人生導師！多謝您！

[@puiyingtsuu3604]

華Dee, 你媽咪好叻! 呢個世界上没有不勞而獲的事～totally agree!!!!

[@JohnHWChong]

讚👍!!

[@huichunho7457]

多謝寶華分享，支持你💪🏻

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

Thxxx dear

[@chingfung5277]

謝謝Sharon分享

[@tomso6922]

張小姐！好突出既個人性格！

[@chanchinwang7166]

Tks for your sharing. Good to know 👍🏿

[@sodaisys5657]

多謝你的經驗之談！！！

[@yuetminglee5105]

說對

[@edwardlau8362]

張小姐妳人美麗,高智慧,好值得欣賞

[@dennisli1990]

Thanks Sharon for sharing! This video is full of wisdom. I used to be quite self-absorbed when I graduated from medical school and I thought I could already have a very decent life as a hospital doctor without putting much extra effort. A few years later I knew some successful entrepreneur and finance friends at similar ages as me who have already founded successful business / leading a big team and already semi-retired, then I finally realised that how ordinary and narrow-minded I was.

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

Thxxxxxx

[@caticadailylife6237]

Don't feel bad about yourself. I am always thankful for the doctors who looked after me when I was in the hospital. There are things that couldn't be measured by wealth, like making people's lives easier.

[@user-thuglife777]

好激励，支持你的视频

[@yellowbill2033]

仲記得以前睇黃子華的棟篤笑，佢在入面都講過話「問你借錢的人目的係想同你絕交」，聽你講番都好有共鳴呀。

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Dho1pc]

對於張女士您有"盡心知性得知天"的天賦，在下感到十分佩服! 能多有您這類人，香港就一定有美好的前途!

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

Thxxx david!❤️

[@chanshukyin6463]

同意你說。

[@chi_1010]

真係好鍾意睇你做的講書片！好有意思！謝謝你的付出同分享！

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

❤️

[@mcheuk6832]

。學無止境。活用於精。 Thanks for sharing 你嘅人生經歷 with us 🙏🙏

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

❤️

[@35687Carol]

Sharon, 你講書好好聽，我訂左這本書明天來啦😍💖

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

Great

[@vivianwong1814]

Thanks Sharon ! I listened this KZbin third times !

[@huameizi1122]

今日再嚟聽華Dee😉😉

[@eb7587]

Good point

[@kimhiniu1705]

老師，起初我真系有d小看閣下，：，學術派我身边不少，且我覺得百無一用是書生，但聽聽下發覺您見地不止是學問

[@kamancarmenwong9626]

好有啟發性 要一聽再聽 👍🏼👍🏼

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

❤️❤️❤️❤️🙌🏻

[@chinghocheung2908]

這個世界是人才競爭的世界

[@bartoneok]

多謝分享。

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@corinardh8635]

張小姐這麼漂亮，看她導讀，賞心悅目！而且又有內涵！

[@袁麗珊-y4t]

講得好啱

[@jenniferkwok1622]

Hello Sharon! My name is Jen and I am well over 40s with two young children. I have only just became your listener/subscriber!!! I have only discovered you in recent month (I left HK in 1996, so I am not been super close to HK scenes till recent years) and have been catching up with lots of your youtube videos recently. I really hope that you can see my comment here. I haven't came across one host/video that I felt 'YES! she completely nailed my life motto!' (sorry I don't know how to type chinese) We all need to be responsible for our own lives/actions/failures! I completely agreed with all the things you said in this video. This definitely is the video that change my impression towards you. You go girl! I am watching all the advertisements in order to show my support! Take care, Jen

[@jiakunyi5833]

就係要保持一顆too simple sometimes naive的心不斷長進自己👍

[@juanplui2027]

Miss cheng, A very good thinker, very inspired talk. Thanks!

[@kiutsang8704]

不能同意更多！謝謝分享！

[@florencechow3857]

I am very glad that you are very honest to share the true about people need to work hard to be success.

[@HKUKHKUK]

Thanks

[@ckstuart]

字字珠璣，終生受用。謝謝！

[@ctlau169]

立刻，就係最好時刻

[@dicksonli725]

Appreciate this video and the last one. It's like you are telling us all in person, I've learned a lot.

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

[@yilinghu5870]

👍👍👍👍👍🌷我們都是堅強的女性

[@juanplui2027]

Good talk. Direct to the point and simple presentation.

[@philso4088]

你真有愛❤

[@gordoncheung2856]

講得好

[@don-109]

謝謝你

[@一粒微塵-n4s]

講得好啱，踩過一次屎，發誓唔借，衰心軟，我又借比另一個，還?又係一拖再拖，唉！做人真痛苦。

[@wongms8741]

有呀！我曾遇過這種人，一借無回頭，少時不識推搪，現在年長才懂得點推，希望年青人學懂怎樣推搪。

[@iphone5iphone5]

多謝你分享， 你真係講得好好。 人生哲學，一語道破。

[@gilbertkeeyue]

Thanks Sharon, it is very inspiring!

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

[@sallyyuen1689]

借咗錢對方唔還仲要大條道理，最後仲要好似係我錯，本來好怒。最後我感恩咁短時間認識佢嘅真面目，同埋認識自己未夠修養。

[@carolcarol5287]

到咗

[@LittleCowB]

靠自己真係好緊要

[@Wannie61]

非常同意, 自强才能不息!

[@monoblues]

...張小姐，你好有DGS feel....really 女拔萃D女仔性格上及那種鬥心和你很相近！😆😄😄

[@jack19971965]

27:25 35:35 43:40 今集養分好高呀! 以上觀點十分十分十分認同!!! Workout都好辛苦, 好舒服個刻係workout完沖涼!!!😅😅😅

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

👍🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

[@chongfilipe7087]

Keep up the good work 👍

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

❤️❤️❤️

[@shanyu4381]

我最近睇緊《告別沙婆》The disappearance of the universe 好難明…我每日睇少少，都有所得著… 推介比你，希望聽到你分享☺️好鍾意聽你，加油！

[@carolfung174]

I am reading too

[@yuenlucia5454]

其實我好認同張小姐的想法 ---》若果我們仍然活在舊時代的香港。我深信在一個講求公平/平等/民主或至少假設人是平等的社會，這些道理我都相信的。因為只要權力被制衡，平民才容許向上流。 我剛剛在想： 若果在新香港/共產政權/㙮利班/內戰中的叙利亞，這些道理是否一樣應用？我很懷疑。 用力上位？ 努力做好自己品牌？令自己發光發亮？ 在這些國度下會否提早死亡？

[@瑞雲-p7j]

一定要公平/平等/民主先得，有D人道理都唔同你講，你唔諗住果D人能夠客觀，公正同足夠公評咁評價你，有D人真係根據自已嘅利益，同喜惡，關係對人作出評價。總有人係以偏概全架，佢只係會根據自已認識果個部份黎評價同判斷你，佢唔會根據你真實既全部黎判斷， 無人可以知道曬你一生做過幾多好事或者壞事，所以你都係唔好諗住得到足夠公正嘅評價同認同。

[@oiwaileung4925]

其實做人吾駛有成就，最重要用自己能力賺取生活費，動物都要物競天澤，適者生存!所以人類一樣為生存競爭，只不過層次高些，生活要求多些，並不是食物和洞穴，而係多方面物質和服務，總之凡有生命的物質都要為生存努力，總之眾生一樣。

[@carolho7703]

2023年9月 聽 依然歴久不衰

[@tracyc9605]

I feel like lucky to hear that!

[@mansinglo6088]

喜歡你有才氣。

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

🥰🥰🥰

[@selftaught_zerotohero]

Thanks for sharing your opinions. 好似阿媽教仔咁(但我老過你), 但教得好好聽。👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@queeniewong2964]

Very inspiring ! Thank you.

[@eb7587]

I live by myself n very independent.

[@meing08]

Hi:寶華。

[@RenNinn]

讲得很好，有收获到

[@anselmmak4660]

I watched this late . Nevertheless, I concur no more. Will share to those I reckon who should find this talk useful. Thank you, Sharon.

[@PaulHung158]

才女！

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

Thx Paul

[@rebeccawong1]

有 in the middle, in fact, always in the middle. My dad always says, 比上不足 比下有餘⋯⋯ in the middle, always

[@ericso1280]

真知焯見。 金言玉句。

[@sushanzhang2465]

Van Gogh 就係懷材不遇最好好嘅例子！

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

Sushan Zhang 他才不是呀！

[@manman-ys9fx]

👍👍👍💪💪💪

[@hk_200k]

年初一出面無乜節目，聽返啲重播。1. 本書有啲 Brian Cha感覺🤣 2. 想睇下嗰件4萬蚊冷衫

[@coolzero6070]

'Ignorance is Bliss', if want to change that, either to develop a new meaning of 'Ignorance', or to accept a new meaning of 'Bliss'

[@kenkong4341]

父母 家教對孩子成長很重要

[@leungwanho]

金石良言！

[@dc3642]

support ! btw見字飲水😊

[@annieleong9898]

被書名吸引。講得好好。我都係零同一的人

[@hkyang298]

辛苦才學會做人生点光，唔醒殺間成功路。

[@jack19971965]

Support 💪💪💪 CLS!

[@PB-vy3hh]

我讚成先錄，因為聽你講書時，如你要分心去睇comment, 或say hi 就中段咗train of thought(或任何 live)我會無耐性聽。有少少提意，你可以有些停頓位，呼吸位，會再舒服D，每次聽完我自己都有少少呼吸加快，心跳快，希望你唔好介意。😊 黃世澤介紹你的study channel,佢雖然不是說話好流俐，但有停頓位，我可以消化，思想。🙏

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

你係唔係一個容易放棄嘅人？

[@chiwaikung7826]

天父一早已為你編寫咗8成人生，只要盡用自己的資質去努力，便算是無憾。有時想過放棄，但身邊很多人會推著你，大家一起邁步向前，鬥志又會從新燃燒，堅持，堅持，再堅持，就是成功之路。

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@sodaisys5657]

通常借完錢比朋友，就會失去這朋友。

[@chanshukyin6463]

絕對同意。

[@ngaielaine9327]

q

[@tomtu7555]

是的，不过这也是看你跟这位朋友有没有缘分，我有借过两个朋友的钱，一位没了，一位不影响任何关系

[@周志興-p4p]

👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@charlenekim5533]

圣经 叫我 要依靠 我们的 天父，因为他是我们的 creator. We can be friends with our creator.

[@zoechoi6126]

我唔钟意睇書，但钟意聽您分析🤣

[@chinghocheung2908]

讀書都要講天份 有人是一看書就想睡覺

[@woochatming9917]

@B ecca 周迅騙你的。 你以為背劇本是容易的嗎？

[@K1982K]

我讀大學時, 個阿SIR話 從來只有技不如人, 世界上係冇懷才不遇

[@lukjanuary9894]

有妳嘅導讀，我都可以增高八份一寸

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

😄😄😄😄

[@bluehoyin3474]

講足51分鐘辛苦了~

[@helenlai2165]

我有朋友十年身材如一日，我好羨慕，後來問佢地，原來是糖尿病

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

Omgggg

[@李靜芳-g6t]

分享某個人的一句格言： 做人志在開心，做人這麼辛苦，那麼為難自己幹嗎？！

[@Ylchan-pn6ex]

必須做個自強的女人、 因為女人的幸福不是被飼養出來的！

[@chiwaikung7826]

Sharon 長命工夫長命做 保重身體

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

Thx dear

[@tonylo6582]

28:48 寶華哥：如果我純粹靠靚呢，咁就 _ _ 喇

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

I said that ?🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chinghocheung2908]

梅艷芳講過 借一次錢就小一個朋友

[@TooSimpleSometimesNaive]

Omgggg right

[@kaimok5661]

@@TooSimpleSometimesNaive 對應這個借錢問題可以說請去銀行辨私人貸款手續，代給予幾間選擇及比較，如果感情很好可以考虑代還利息。