Live Pregnancy Test at 10 dpo || Tired of Trying to conceive || Ttc baby 3 cycle 39

Live pregnancy test at 10 dpo. It is officially hump day for me when it comes to testing. I always feel like this is the day i will get my positive pregnancy test. It is a tricky one to say the least. Today i did have a bit of a rant. I tried not to but it just all came out. I guess the fact that trying to conceive is tiring cannot be avoided.
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Hi, My name is Athina. I am a 30-year-old mama to two beautiful little girls and wife to the best husband a girl could as for, Leonidas. We live in a small Suburb East of Melbourne, Australia. I am a Stay at home mom. I post videos about motherhood, cleaning and everything in between. I love being able to express myself without driving my husband mental :)
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[@cartbeforewheel]

I have been watching your video for a few years now. I look forward to them whether TTC or home life ones. You have been refreshing to watch, never pushing "like & subscribe" down our throat. Or at least not that I have experienced. Just chatting to friends. You make these videos for your own reasons, and we get to watch them. Or click off. It's true. I believe some viewers watch TTC videos for the reaction, as in a form of mild entertainment for their day. But ones who have gotten to know you and your family have a more vested reason for viewing the whole video. I miss you when you have not been able to post. I have learned things from you too. But mainly you are a friend to your beloved viewers. TTC is not the only reason some of us click on your videos fast. Take Care!

[@sarahmcd9345]

I'm so glad you addressed this the way you did! When I saw that comment yesterday guuuuuurrrlll I had to put the phone down and walk away coz that was one of the most insensitive things I've seen regarding TTC and like you said, saying something like "make sure you are prioritising yourself and your mental health" is such a nice and genuine caring way of saying what they might have intended to say, or maybe they were being mean and knew exactly what they were saying 🤷🏻‍♀️ Either way I admire you and and wishing you get your positive when the time is right ❤

[@MistyFillion]

Yes gurrl me too! Let her live her best life and support her journey with her or don't but...ppl always have to have THEIR opinions? 🤷‍♀️ I've been with Athena since day 1 & I love all her videos

[@MsLessette]

I've been on the ttc journey with you a few years now. I understand the optimism and silent disappointment and the feeling of tiredness with it. My children are 16, 8 and 2. I had a miscarriage between my first two and I am currently 32 weeks pregnant. I tried so hard to conceive that when I fell pregnant when my toddler was a little over 1.5 I was shocked and not expecting it. My point is... sometimes the journey of ttc is long, sometimes it's shorter than expected. Being hopeful doesn't make you crazy. Many of us are on the same road. There will always be someone who says it's crazy and to stop, but nothing worth having comes fast and easy. We're here with you and support you ♡ thank you for sharing your journey with us.

[@karlaricker2562]

Athina, there is a test called the saline ultrasound, which is alot different than the HSG, but still checks to see if your tubes are open and if you have any polyps or fibroids on your uterus. I found this test to be more comfortable than the HSG and less painful. Essentially, it is just an ultrasound with saline. Please ask your doctor to see if it would be a possibility for you? I would hate to see the years go by with you still being fairly young and leave these stones unturned when if there is something there, it could easily be fixed.

[@rentme2011]

I had that saline ultrasound last April. Definitely less painful than HSG.

[@azmisazmazingworld]

I like how you explained it all here. You’re right, no one can know how a person is in any way just by watching a few minute videos of someone every few days a month. ❤

[@user-fg1pb4ty6v]

I was honestly NEVER tired of testing while trying to conceive. Please don’t listen to the negative comments, they’re not worth it! You’re amazing, you will get your positive result and keep staying positive ❤ Screw all those haters!

[@thehornoftheunicorn]

I didn’t see the comment yesterday, but it's disheartening to hear that someone thought it was their place to advise a stranger on the internet of a possible mental health condition simply because of the length of your journey to conceive. As an actual therapist, I wouldn’t even do what she did. Please know that their words don't define you, and their misunderstanding doesn't diminish the validity of your experiences or emotions. Your strength and resilience throughout this journey are evident, and I admire your courage in facing these obstacles. Sending hugs ❤

[@cupcakejg1]

Smh people are so ignorant. Remember people who comment like that are probably not on a ttc journey. They either never have tried to conceive or when they did conceived quickly. If you don’t have something nice to say don’t say it at all.

[@laporchahood-silva8361]

Been on this ttc journey for 14 years for baby number #1 and let me tell you people will say the nastiest things to you because of thier own mental health issues if it is your hearts desire to have another baby do it I refuse to give up because it's what I want and believe in I love your videos and hope you continue on your journey or simply just do what makes you happy😊 ♥️

[@AussieTracy]

Oh I hope you get your baby soon. I will keep a little prayer for you each day.

[@brooklin_bernek]

Can I add I’ve only been TTC for a few months and it’s hard…. Very hard so please be kind with your words seriously UNTIL YOU walk this path along side with us other TTC mamas.

[@mimi-yt7gq]

Your mental health is NOBODY'S business! PERIOD! I think that if someone is questioning someone else mental health then maybe they should be looking at their own mental health. Just me? We do not know any creators daily lives. All we see is a very tiny part of their day so how can we question their mental health? I don't get it.

[@lucysoleil2895]

You do what makes you feel happy and comfortable Athina ♥

[@lanessiacarrington8283]

You're entitled to the way you feel. I'm with you. I understand because I'm on year 6. Doctors say I'm healthy so I'm confused.

[@aro4781]

The natural progression of tapering off is best for you. I have watched the entire ttc journey for you and know that there were definitely times when your cycles were off and breastfeeding was full on. You are doing GREAT overall, so proud of you. ❤

[@xostangbabydes]

Let them be, I came across your page when I first started TTC and I LOVED watching your testing videos and looking forward to my tests and keeping the faith for you and I to both get our positives. Sending you babydust ❤

[@Mrsran87]

Sending big momma bear hugs,sweet Athina...hugs for the girls too!!!🥰❤

[@chantellopez6254]

I am going to cry so hard when you get pregnant I am praying for you 💕

[@user-fg1pb4ty6v]

And like you said once you let go and you’re OK with it not happening that’s exactly when it’s going to happen❤

[@lilacks17]

Dude, you are always so gracious. And respectful. And mature. More gracious than your viewers deserve, honestly. Well done. 👏 And well said. It's a very good point that a lot of the three years had different factors involved. It's probably fair to really only count from when you stopped breastfeeding. That's not tonsay that it isn't mentally taxing all that time, and the exhaustion truly adds up, but as far as rolling the baby dice, it really hasn't been that long. You know yourself of and when you might want to up the ante with a saline ultrasound, or supplements (coq10!!!), or just keep going as you are. You do you. Hoping a baby is headed your way very soon.

[@Wanna-Be-MAMA]

I’ve been doing this for 6 years every months testing and trying and switching up medications etc. nothing is mentally making me obsessed with it it’s called wanting a family and longing for children or in your case more children. Don’t let these people bring you down you have no reason to defend your self it’s normal, ❤

[@Crystal-el2qo]

People are so mean! Just remember, your journey is just that! Your journey! You do you! Keep going or don't. It's up to you and what's best for you and your family! It took my mom and dad 7 yrs to conceive my sister. Don't let the haters get to you, girl. I truly enjoy your videos!

[@AmiHutto]

Looking at your videos of TTC can be tough believe me I've been trying to conceive for over a year unfortunately nothing yet has been tracking ovulation and bbt everything nothing is working.. So I understand the fact you want to give up on TTC! I feel you on that part but we must keep trying, plus usually when you give up trying for so much usually it's when you normally get pregnant it's weird always happens to me. But keep encouragement and keep going for May 2024 be the year of babies dust to everyone

[@shandac_m_1987]

I admire your determination... some people have tried for 10 years before conceiving I pray you don't have to wait that long baby dust to you in your journey hopefully soon

[@brooklin_bernek]

Sooo happy to see you today!! I’m feeling bummed because I haven’t eeen my BFP yet. Ughhh we all need heavy baby dust lol ❤❤❤

[@TigrisAquino]

I am 3 years into trying as well. But like u we’ve had breaks, things happen in life and I had a miscarriage that first year of trying. It is tiring and taxing but it’s also a process that gets let’s stressful and we do over time make peace with what it. As much as I hate to see u feeding the trolls with responses 🤪 I do appreciate you educating people about the experience because what you’re going through is super relatable ❤🙏

[@rentme2011]

I started TTC for baby #2 in late Oct 2021. I’ve peed on so many ovulation sticks and tracked so many cycles. I totally understand the emotional toll when all you see are stark whites on HCG tests. It got to the point where I stopped doing the HCG as it was a dagger to my heart. That’s just for me personally though. Everyone does what works for them. I’m hoping you get your BFP soon!

[@CrystalM1917]

I am truly amazed at your lack of curiosity over what could be the cause of your infertility. I think it takes a lot of self control! If you were over 35, i would assume egg quality issues if blood tests are all normal, but being that you're not, I wouldn't automatically jump to that. However, It could potentially still be the case even under 35 but no way to know without bloodwork. A blood test can't check for egg quality, only egg quantity. Your amh level. But, if your egg quantity is on the lower end under 35, its basically insinuated by fertility specialists that the egg quality may also be diminished, since this is not a typical finding in women under 35. This result could give a clue as to what treatments you might want to pursue without going too invasive right off the bat. You can still ovulate normally with a diminished ovarian reserve until pre-menopause sets in, which is why this is very important to check on imo.

[@yadiracantoralpena1055]

I’ve been following for a white now…are you using, preseed? Dha, coq10? Etc ? I know that your are taking the mira vitamins but those 3 things helped me the straight away. Best wishes from spain!

[@soniyaps3042]

I m 8 dpo ,I m on Ur journey .may god bless us to conceive and get healthy babies...bless you

[@stephengeorge4785]

I have had 2 stillborns 3 miscarriage and 1 infant loss my baby didn't make it out the nicu I can't explain how that feels but ik God has me and he will deliver me from all of this One day I will have a child in Jesus name

[@AthinaKarpouzis]

I truly hope you have your healthy baby in your arms soon. ❤️

[@stephengeorge4785]

@@AthinaKarpouzis thank you

[@A_Vets_Life]

TTC is just hard and tiring 😔

[@AussieTracy]

I watched a KZbinr who had been trying for 12 years and then in her 40’s she fell pregnant naturally and then 3 years later fell pregnant naturally again. They had resigned themselves to never having children and boom now they have 2 children. I guess never say never. People who tell others to get a mental health check should probably reevaluated their own personality and look at the reason they felt entitled to say that. I guess in their bubble they are perfect and think their opinion is what matters most in the world, which is weird to me. Saying that to someone who is already struggling with their mental health could actually push them over the edge to do something quite drastic because they may think everyone, even strangers, think they just shouldn’t be here…. Be kind to people with your opinions when making comments or just don’t say anything. Happy day to everyone ❤

[@CrystalM1917]

I'd love to know who they are, do you remember their YT channel name?

[@thisislife6197]

Oh I know who you are speaking of. Yes, it is an amazing story

[@CrystalM1917]

Yay, I found her!

[@thisislife6197]

@@CrystalM1917 standard American wife

[@AussieTracy]

@@CrystalM1917 Standard American Wife is her channel. Lovely story and just proves miracles can happen.

[@Lucy-Wilkinson]

💜

[@kstromm6361]

TTC is not the same thing as doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results! Let’s not forget it’s a marriage and relationship with your husband. What is wrong with people telling you it’s fine for people to speak to you this way?! I’m so sorry!

[@janeaj841]

I get people being confused as to why you've been trying and so badly wanting a baby but not doing things differently by at least getting tests done. But everyone has their own journey and reasoning of doing things. If watching someone makes you anxious or agitated then maybe you should stop. Continuing to watch something you dont like with same results is the same thing you're saying she's doing. So does that mean you also need mental help?

[@athenaspencer4684]

❤️❤️❤️👋😁

[@tatafr4702]

Bonjour. Je regarde tes vidéos depuis longtemps. Et à chaque fois, je vois ta déception. Selon moi, tu y penses beaucoup trop. Je te conseille d'arrêter, pendant quelques cycles, tes vidéos sur tes essais bébé. Arrête aussi tes tests d'ovulation et tes tests de grossesse (que tu fais d'ailleurs beaucoup trop tôt dans le cycle). N'arrête pas tes essais bébé mais arrête juste tout le reste. Tu verras tu arriveras à tomber enceinte de cette manière. Moi c'est quand j'ai arrêté de regarder toutes ces vidéos sur les essais bébé et les tests de grossesse (dont les tiennes) que je suis tombée enceinte. J'ai recommencé à regarder tes vidéos qu'après mon accouchement. Libère ton esprit de cette pression que tu te mets à vouloir absolument ce 3 ème bébé. Profite de tes 2 filles et ton mari en mettant de côté ce désir de 3 ème bébé. Et tu verras, ça marchera.

[@AussieTracy]

In my opinion YOU should keep YOUR opinion to YOURSELF..... Not your body, not your choice. If it were that easy to get pregnant everyone would stop ovulation testing and stop thinking about it but guess what infertility does not work that way. No amount of relaxation helps you get pregnant. Obviously you have never dealt with infertility because if you had you would never leave that sort of comment. Perhaps your native language does not translate to English very well but your comment comes off as unkind.

[@tatafr4702]

​@@AussieTracyMon commentaire n'était que bienveillance. Vous ne connaissez pas mon parcours pour avoir mon seul et unique enfant (4 ans avec plusieurs fausses couches, alors non je ne suis pas méchante. Alors oui, je sais ce qu'est l'infertilité). Donc je sais très bien par quoi passe Athina. Je suis méchante avec personne. Je lui conseille juste de lâcher prise quelques mois. Si ça c'est être méchant pour vous, je vous trouve un peu extrême. Bref, c'était juste un conseil. Je ne demande pas à être agressée par une inconnue cachée derrière son écran.

[@Sunsun281]

The other good option.. is that to stop trying does not mean it won’t happen. Perhaps the word “trying” ought to be replaced with “stressin’ To Conceive.. TTC is probably really STC? Just go organic, focus on romance ❤️‍🔥.. do not project manage Mother Nature.

[@Fts-4lyfe]

When you post videos online for the world to see you're naturally going to get all kinds of opinions n viewpoints. 3 years of trying to conceive without luck is something that should be looked into. Grow thicker skin if you keep making these vids

[@cupcakejg1]

Who hurt you… smh

[@user-ml1ln9qy6w]

You have two beautiful girls but your obsessed by having another why?

[@christiwright3604]

Not your business

[@AussieTracy]

Some people want children, some people want more than two children, some people are kind and show empathy towards others. Some people are just downright rude and just say things in the comment section just to cause an argument. I believe you fall into the latter, why be so rude? No need. I hope you have a lovely day.

[@mawma6474]

How rude!! She has a mother’s heart!!! She can want more if her heart desires. She’s married, she’s a good mother and it’s her choice and right to have as many children as she feels that her family is complete with. Why the heavy judgement. She only has two children plenty of families have way more than this. She’s not being unreasonable.

[@user-ml1ln9qy6w]

I did not mean it like that she has 2 beautiful girls and can has many as she likes she is very fortunate. Unlike some concentrate what we all have and not the negative.

[@christiwright3604]

@@user-ml1ln9qy6w then why uses obsessed? I’m sure she’s happy with the two beautiful girls she has. I’m sure she wants more children and that’s completely ok! She is making a daily video journal of her 3rd child conception journey. I believe every woman chooses what’s best for her. We need to support her decisions.