Live Q&A session on 5-22

[@casseophealejarde-khaizen]

I don't usually watch videos twice but GOD just led me to watch your videos again because you both are so encouraging and the Lord is glorified in you. Thank You Lord Jesus for my brother and sister and please Lord bless them and their family.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Wow, thank you

[@casseophealejarde-khaizen]

@anuncommonlove1112 you're very welcome and thank you so much! To GOD be the glory! 🙌

[@angeladreher430]

Thank you is just not simply enough! I missed the live but I am learning and growing so much as a result of your ministry. My baby boy Joshua who's 10 walked in and he heard you guys ministering and said mom that's dad. Both sons have held me time after time for over 5 1/2 years including my daughter. My 14 year old Caleb struggles tremendously as a result of his father not being in the home with us. They truly love their dad but they are also very honest about their feeling but keep saying what's the use because dad won't listen. So I said to them we will not say that any more to not hinder our prayers. I tell them Daddy is not bigger than God. And we pray that Daddy will turn back to God and truly repent and we pray that his fear of the Lord is restored and that God will turn His heart back to me and the children. But in the mean time God is healing and preparing mommy for when Daddy returns! My husband tried to divorce me last September in 2021 but the Judge threw it out and said," Perhaps you guys can continue reconciling. He doesn't know it but that morning my spiritual mom and I fasted and prayed that God would put His Judge in the seat of the courtroom. Withing 5 minutes Judge dismissed the case! Like you sister, I have said to my husband, I am the one and only Mrs. Dreher! Interestingly enough my son just came back in the room and said mom maybe you and dad can do what they are doing! Made me smile! Even as you were praying in this video. Joshua said mom why are you smiling. It's because, God just used this video and his statement to confirm and give me the strength to continue to stand! I hope me sharing this will encourage you all.

[@Fervent21]

Thank you for sharing both sides of your journey and for your encouragement. Been standing for 6mo and it’s been hard. It’s getting worse, but I continue to believe in God’s promise.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Sorry for the late response, God knows what we have need of in our lives. Just know this is only a season not a stopping point. The goal is to go through, trust God and believe as we continue in prayer with you. Be encouraged

[@jermainesmith2061]

Your Ministry has been a profound blessing! Your restoration story was the 1st one that really resonated with me. There simply aren't Ministries that deal with Marriage restoration. The majority of Ministries would encourage divorce in fact. Your channel should be called An Uncommon Ministry! I'm blessed to have found you guys!

[@sp-ip6tn]

Wow my covenant anniversary is July 31 1995 !!God i know you stamped that date in time and you God was a witness between my husband &i .When we are restored this will always be our Anniversary !When we are restored we will just be recommiting ourselves our marriage and family back to our God.Lord i thank you for always giving confirmation and you always honor your covenant.Everything outside of the covenant isnt honored is so true.God's word is so true heaven &earth will pass away but his word will stand.So Thank you man of God woman of God fir standing on his words and not your "fleshy feelings'cause as we know they are deceptive .The enemy always trying to destroy "A covenant husband and wife 'because it honors God.Thank you for your obedience keep teaching !God i trust you that you &only you can turn a man's or woman's heart..Im so greatful for your testimony cause its breaking generational curses off of families.Thank you woman.of God for showing your kids even though it looked crazy to the human eyes but this is a spiritual battle .I feel you on every level but God uses these times to prove to not only you but others he is and always will honor his words and cause the world to see Jesus in you and him turning what look to the world "dead" but when God resurrects My God he does it so well .It causes the people to say "I know God had to do this !!Amen

[@andrestang6023]

I currently standing for my marriage, my prodigal wife essentially forced me to leave our matrimonial home it’s been 3 years! She went from loving Christian wife to someone who only had hatred and anger towards me, recently she’s been in another relationship with another man who has a child! I don’t know what God has in store but I’ve been praying for over 3 years for reconciliation/ restoration!

[@andreaspinner9299]

Hello, your story really encourages me because my husband's divorce just finalized and he's engaged to his daughter's mom, long story but his daughter is 24 and they were never married and she kept his daughter from him after he left her over 20 years ago. Don't even know when she crept back into his life, we were married 8 years with no children. He is a man of God and she's not saved by his own admission. Anyway your testimony has helped me to continue my stand, I told God I will continue to wear my ring and honor Him by honoring our covenant. You two are awesome to do what you are doing for others. God Bless you 🙏🏽

[@holyghostpower938]

Love these videos and testimonies. Going through this right now myself. I can see the deep Love and the joy on your faces and eyes. Especially as Sean is talking you can see their story on his wife's face...the stand, wait, pain and joy. God bless yous and please keep my and mine in prayer. Standing on his word and promises

[@redeemedpodcastwithnequia5701]

God only covers 1 Covenant‼️ I just ❤️ yall. Hey Family👋🏽 Loving Pt. 2 as well🙏🏽

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Hey hey

[@redeemedpodcastwithnequia5701]

@ we have to do a part 2 in 2025. I got rid of my chromebook🙇🏽‍♀️ I have a MacBook now😄.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you for writing in Nequia, i trust all is well with you and the fam. We will have to pray about 2025 and see where the Lord leads us to serve in this new season.. Be blessed

[@redeemedpodcastwithnequia5701]

@ that is definitely wise🙏🏽.

[@hueyjoseph4526]

Such a Pure Word of Full restoration and inner healing many are Bless and strength from you guys Full surrender to the King of Kings.🙂🙂🙂

[@starraviles7101]

I am so glad I found your channel!! I am so encouraged to keep standing thanks to your testimony.

[@corihill7321]

Thank you for sharing your stories and words of encouragement. I have been standing for 1.5yrs and I always feel refreshed and ready to continue standing after listening to both of you. 💜

[@sharonbraswell9668]

Thank you so much i needed this i pray my profile will be open on day to listen to this with me 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@anuncommonlove1112]

You are so welcome

[@shareenchoudhury-leighton1748]

Thank you, beautiful people 😘 Your testimonials are so pertinent to my situation - you give me hope! Please pray for me and my husband. Our anniversary is on the 28th February 2003 Seperated for 3 years on the 30th July 2023 😢

[@anuncommonlove1112]

We will!

[@bmarshall8462]

Shon & Adrianne thank you for this Anointed platform.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you my brother and friend. Be encouraged and know that your labor is not in vein. Stay strong and you always have a brother here, you have our info and can't wait to link up with you soon.🙏

[@nosiphokhanyi4323]

It's Saturday and am catching up, this is so helpful. One thing I have realised about prodigal, they so confused. It's like they so wanna hurt you and still wanna be part of your life My husband wants dirvoce in the same text he wants us to do a birthday party for our daughter, honestly with all the hurt I wasint ready to be in one space with him, so I told him to do it the next following weekend, he got so upset and felt like i wanna hurt him, God knows I never deprived him of any communication with the kids ever since he left. I just feel you sis when you said after the fake ceremony You just wanted peace and heal

[@hueyjoseph4526]

Thanks you !Awesome sharing ,I miss The live but till Powerful Testimony !🙂🙂🙂

[@anuncommonlove1112]

You are so welcome

[@cchand5211]

I wasnt able to catch the live. But listening to the replay. I thank God for your testimony and ministry. Is there hope for someone who's spouse has been under the control of pornograhy and has become abusive. He left the home and filed for a divorce. Before he left he was trying to go with several women that he met on line. He is with another woman right now and making future plans with her. I'm not sure that its God's will to heal my marriage. When I started standing God gave me Isaiah 56:1 This says the Lord: keep justice , and do righteousness, For My salvation is about to come, and My righteousness to be revealed. At the time I wasnt sure if God was telling me that he was going to save me from the abuse and adultery it he was going to save my husband. We have been married 37 years and he has been out of the house and with the other woman next month will be a year. I just cant believe its God's will for all of these marriages to end in divorce. Please pray for my spouse and me and our family. May God continue to bless you and your family and ministry. Thank you both.

[@olliehall6490]

I pray we have more support during the Holidays are very Hard😭😭😭😭

[@jasmineys929]

This was really good! 🙌🏾❤

[@minalabigail9668]

You both are so adorable couple…God bless you.

[@nosiphokhanyi4323]

Wow to God be the Glory, may God bless you both for this channel, we are learning alot When He said : I came back home Humbled God is faithful 🙌🙌🙌

[@olliehall6490]

I believe GOD is opening doors threw my ex mother law, reaching out to are daughter and grandchildren But GOD🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@Dr.YolandanWhite123]

Were you guys ever intimate when you moved out? My husband and I have been separated/moved out since February 2024. He is seeing the OW, but he is intimate with me, and the OW does not know about it.

[@nunyabb]

5:25 good question

[@olliehall6490]

I Pray that my husband Melvin Hall soften his Heart ♥♥♥♥♥towards our daughter and our four grandchildren ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥

[@harveylaterrica]

I hope i didnt mess my stand up. God warned me not to put my husband out, but I did it anyway. I thought I would be better off being single than being married and feeling like the other woman. Smh, God told me I would regret and I do everyday. I feel like I delivered him to the enemy

[@anuncommonlove1112]

God knows how to restore, trust him 🙏

[@karashuff2700]

I wasn't able to be on the live session but have a question. I am standing for my marriage covenant after an unwanted divorce. My husband said he didn't love me and didn't want to be married anymore, but actually he left me for the OW although they were 'just friends' before divorce. But they both left the church, he said God has forgiven him. He is still with the OW and is spirit-filled, involved in another church. My question is how can he be good with his relationship to the Lord but not see that what he's done is wrong? I still feel he is being deceived. Thank you!

[@jenniferalshouse8254]

I would also like a perspective on this. I'm in a very similar situation as you.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Hello Kara, thank you for reaching out...This is an excellent question to ask..The Bible says in the book of Romans 11:29 "Gifting and callings are without repentance"..Many have God given talents and gifts made to glorify God but do not do so with them. As touching your husband, when you are around people who teach, accept and approve of the lifestyle, you will continue to do what you've always done and that is operate as if all is well. There comes a time in everyones life where you are going to have to answer for the mis deeds of not doing right as Saul had to do. "what is this bleeding of the sheep I hear? It was the people"...Needless to say, Saul lost is anointing, approval and his kingdom due to disobeying God. We are accountable for what we know and have heard...."to him to knoweth to do good and doeth it not, to him it is sin". Be blessed I hope this helps....Be encouraged

[@linmack3560]

Did the OW gracefully step out of the picture or did she cause problems when you left?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

When I left they texted and wrote emails, but I was not let to reach out respond to any of them at all. I also told no one where I was and stayed silent till God released me as I needed to heal as well. Sad part was, there was a prior discussion and was told if i left there was no return, but I had not planned on it anyway.

[@linmack3560]

@@anuncommonlove1112 Thank you for this! My spouse keeps telling me he didn’t plan on leaving but did so to heal. I t also do not know where he is. He doesn’t want to tell me. He wanted to come back until I got upset him about the OW. Now he’s distanced himself and doesn’t call. He will only respond to text messages. I apologized for getting upset and I’m praying I can him to talk about coming home again. I told him I’m praying for him and our marriage. Is that okay? He sent me a random message on Instagram last week about how respect is love to a man. I’m assuming he left in part because he feels I do not respect him. I sent him a nice response and apologized if he disrespected in anyway. I wonder if that’s a good sign or not. I kinda look at it as if he’s so happy with the OW then why send it?

[@chasannebarnes2558]

The children are adults and gone. What then? Marriage is for life. Are we now able to live and serve with each other in private loving and respecting as fhe word says? Are we able to sit quietly with each other?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Our children are grown too, we also have eight grandchildren, but God....He only can do it....Trust him all the way, stay encouraged 🙏

[@latonyadavis3134]

How did the Prodigal explain to the OW that he was returning to his wife? My Prodigal seemed morre concerned about his OW (remarriage) and how HER Adult children would feel! He seems to be worried about what other people would think if he reconciled with his Family. I'm hurt but sill Standing. Could you speak a little more about transitioning from the OW. Thanks.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

When you are told do dona thing in whatever way God brings it to you, it is up to every prodigal to listen and follow through regardless of barriers. Every experience for each is different, but what is not different is obedience. Everyone has to obey the voice and come to repentance for the situation or situations they have caused. My four part series on Imdealingwith called "restoration of a Man " details this.

[@latonyadavis3134]

Going to listen now. Thank you.

[@bluepoppy1334]

Thank you for this 🙏. Was Shaun’s relationship with the OW limerent?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

No, Shon's relationship with the OW was not that. He had history way prior to being married that went from early 20's to Junior high..

[@locksy2785]

Question for Shawn, how did you end your fake marriage and how did the OW take it?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

In "Restoration of a man" I give details on my whole process...(Imdealingwith)

[@lukethompson7970]

Hello! Did you contact Shaun during your stand? Or just waited for God to work in his heart with no contact ?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

She contacted many times, but sometimes I didn't want to be contacted, however she was never rude.. Type of contact and Attitude makes a difference.

[@lukethompson7970]

@@anuncommonlove1112 thank you for your reply, I know every situation and journey is different but would you recommend me to contact my wife? Would it be a smart thing to do?

[@olliehall6490]

Happy Holidays❤❤❤❤❤❤Take Care🌾🌾😛🥹💞💞💞💞💞💞

[@locksy2785]

How long were you in the fake marriage for?

[@gsxrfem5180]

How do you get kids to share there feelings. Mine cries to me but is unwilling to tell her dad.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

As the former prodigal I went throught that as well where they smiled and chilled in my face but complained to their mom. It took a while for any one of them really told me how they felt because they did not want me to know how disappointed they were in their dad..It just takes time and age of the children also make a difference too as to when they will feel comfortable to talk..🙏

[@gsxrfem5180]

I've tried to let go, but im not sure I can fully let go without physically letting go and moving on.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Well, the children of Israel coulnd let go of the fact they felt Moses brought them out to die in the wilderness and said they were better off in Egypt. So instead of being obedient, they found themselves in the wilderness for 40 years, instead of the 1 day journey into the promise land. Many died in the wilderness and never saw what God promised due to murmuring and complaining. God gave us free will to choose, he says, "choose the this day whom you will serve". On a daily basis we have a choice, every minute and second we have a choice. This is when we give it to God, trust him, lean on him and press in...the word of the Lord says, "this kind comes but by prayer and fasting", maybe this is the direction you should seek. Everyday is a process and will take time. "Tho the storms keep on raging in my life and it's hard sometimes to tell the night from day, there's a hope that lies within that reassures, as I keep my eyes upon the eastern shore I know he will lead me to a place he has prepared And if the storms don't cease, and winds keep on blowing in my life, my souls has been anchored in the Lord" Stay anchored.. Be blessed🙏

[@gsxrfem5180]

@@anuncommonlove1112 He has kept me for 4 years so far.

[@linmack3560]

My husband who’s been out of the home for the past few months and wanted to come back about a month ago. However, I ended up seeing some pictures of him and the other woman and got mad at him. He changed his mind and now he’s been pulling away from me. He’s not into initiating contact as much, but I mostly have to initiate it. I’m still praying, but I feel like giving up. Do you think there’s still hope?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

God van do anything that we will believe him for. Question is do you believe he can change minds, circumstances and situations. Just because we say things in haste or while in our flesh, does not mean it's over. However it may take a little longer than planned when we give them a piece of our minds. Stay encouraged, trust God in the process.

[@linmack3560]

Thank you! 🙏🏽

[@bernadettejohn3055]

Can i get a Number to reach you guys am In anther county……thank you

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Reach out via IG

[@cristalradcliff1951]

Can you write down the scriptures that the Lird led you to please?

[@cristalradcliff1951]

Do you have an email address or a way to talk to both of you privately?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Contact info should be located in the description below... Also on IG

[@cherylboltonvanwinkle4464]

Do you have contact information?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you for reaching out, we can be reached at [e-mail] or Anuncommonlove2021 on our IG.. Be blessed look forward to hearing from you soon🙏

[@mariaraujo8622]

Amen

[@evmikewilliams9021]

God will not cover a covenant outside His ordained covenant because it is adultery.....full stop God cannot and will not bless adultery