Living alone at 27

[@Nikeaie]

Hi :) my advice would be to stop listening to self care/ self development podcasts etc. for a while. When you are not in the best place yourself, they make you over analyze yourself. Just do things you enjoy. Play a game, go for a walk, watch a fun Netflix series. Do something that you would like doing before social media, or even when you were a kid. Make life a bit more ‘simple and fun’ for yourself. You are already enough, you dont neel to ‘self-develop’ right now. That can happen slowly over time :) just keep going! Have a nice day 🌻

[@Polly1589]

Love this ❤

[@chendaforest]

I totally agree, excessive introspection is harmful.

[@soundscape26]

I agree with this... and while we only see highlights of her days, it often seems she's trapped in self-analysing herself over and over again.

[@carlam.3044]

Yesss! I just relaxed so much once I realised that I don’t need to do anything to be worthy! No meditation, no journaling when you just don’t feel like it! I can now say that I never really enjoyed it 😅 Just freee to do whatever I want! So cool, I love it

[@ValerieKachkova]

I hope it’s not going to sound too invasive but since you do share a part of your life on the internet I suppose an observation wouldn’t be completely out of place. I’ve been following you and watching your videos for a while now - I have truly enjoyed and even admired your sense of peace and calm, and an overall ability to be so openly genuine when it comes to sharing some intimate parts of your journey, such as your struggles, worries, etc. However, it’s very obvious to your viewers that ever since Ross came into your life, your emotional well-being strongly depended on the status of your relationship with him. Now, watching your newer videos, I honestly worry about you.. You don’t owe anyone an explanation or even an update, but I just genuinely hope that your lovely heart will heal soon! Sending you a warm virtual hug!!

[@Mein_Leben_in_Spanien]

I was thinking something similar, especially when I heard you listening to the podcast about narcissism…

[@DrasOO7262]

I think due to another broken relationship .. she met someone after Ross

[@101meinu101]

yeah I remember she broke up with him and has another boyfriend now@@DrasOO7262

[@naiadelacolomb5863]

Je pense qu'il faut aussi qu'on garde en tête que ce que Chloé choisit de nous montrer est différent de la réalité, de sa vie quotidienne. Ce n'est pas parce qu'elle partage des tranches de son quotidien et qu'on les retrouve une fois par semaine en format vidéo de 10-20 minutes qu'on la connaît et qu'on peut faire des suppositions sur sa vie et sur ses relations et je pense que c'est important de l'avoir à l'esprit. Parfois ça arrive d'aller mal sans que ce soit "la faute" de quelqu'un en particulier ! Si tu lis ça Chloé continue de prendre soin de toi, je suis ravie de voir tes vidéos toutes douces régulièrement dans mes abonnements

[@dianalarionova244]

Chloe, I'm sending you big hugs from Russia, from the small town called Blagoveshchensk. Your videos make me smile. You really inspire me!🌾🤗✨

[@_alexjulia_]

We are always alone, even when living with someone else or being in a romantic relationship.. and this is so essential to understand I think, at least for me this was really important :)

[@claudiahowick]

Mmm I resonate with this so deeply. We are always going to be in our own every growing and changing company, as we grow and change alongside... And this realisation is, like you say, essential to feeling peace

[@lapooh]

Don’t underestimate the effect of being underweight on your mental health. I’ve found it so much easier to think straight and be happy since getting to a healthy weight ❤

[@DRT813]

This is a good point. I accidentally dropped weight when I was going through a really rough time and I'm feeling a bit better balanced when I eat more. Things are still shit and I still have anxiety and depression (and I'm also still underweight), but I think not having enough food has a really negative impact on brain chemistry and hormones - I noticed that especially around my period the emotional rollercoaster was even crazier than before. The challenge is of course to eat more when you're already feeling bad, since it makes me lose my appetite and energy to cook. But from my own experience I can also really recommend getting to a healthy BMI and I'll continue working on it.

[@Emily-gr4nw]

Sending all the love. I'm 26, I was living in Switzerland with a long term partner until last year I moved back to the UK alone and the relationship ended. It's taken a lot of time and healing and going with life, but being alone brings great wisdom which will aid us to not loose our minds so much in the next relationship we enter.... sending big hugs

[@larteaga261]

You are young , beautiful, smart, successful and seem to have great family and friends. There is no need to keep asking what ‘s wrong by continuously analyzing yourself. You are just normal. We all have ups and downs throughout the day. Just relax and don’t take yourself so seriously. You know exactly what to do.

[@MarLaYnk]

No matter what video you make, I just love it honestly. Sending you a big hug too, Chloe ❤️

[@a45728]

I also loose my appetite when I'm not in the best mental health state and it makes me sad, because I love food and making it - this too shall pass

[@perrine502]

You seemed to be so well’a few months ago, i’m sure you’ll be back to that happiness again. Take care and for what it’s worth, i agree with the comment about overanalyzing ourselves, sometimes it feels great to read, watch or listen more fiction. Sending hugs!

[@Marie-kr3dt]

Hey everyone, could you please stop making comments about her weight? Would you write those kind of comments if it was an overweighted person? Like: Come on, just eat less. Or: be careful of your weight! I am also very skinny, but I eat like I want and what I want. It is just my body. There are skinny bodies and other bodies. THAT is normal! Comments like (eat more, your underweight etc.) lead to pressure and wrong thoughts about your own weight. Please just stop. ✋ Love your Videos Chloe! Greets from the south of Germany :)

[@HarryThomasPictures]

I'm also 27, you look even younger and will always stay beautiful❤!

[@mbarda]

LOVE living alone

[@i123456987654]

I’m 25, living at home with my parents, and I’ve never been in a relationship…so it’s very interesting to me to see how the other half lives

[@aberforthdumbledore3961]

Im 27 too but my life is totally different from yours im still living my bachelors life.

[@noemihofer8847]

Thank you Chloé! I love watching your videos and I hope you are getting better day by day. 😊

[@lisbonlover]

hi Chloe, I heard the podcast you listened to. sorry to hear you may be trying to heal from narcissistic abuse 💔 I wondered if you would mind sharing some tools and resources you are using to help? what is the podcast you were listening to? I am also on a healing journey and working my way through 'how to do the work' after you recommended it previously 💞

[@debrafirestone861]

Me too When I’m stressed or very upset I can’t eat either

[@MarieLeopold_m]

Looking forward to another what I eat in a day!

[@milenandco]

Hello Chloé, pour le granola je crois qu'il vaut mieux mettre les graines de chia avec la cuisson (comme les graines de lin) car fragile aux hautes températures (peut-être que tu le sais déjà mais just in case). Bonne journée ! 🙂

[@jenninjapan]

Sending you lots of ❤️

[@evivsongsofpoetry]

chloe you are my favourite youtuber of all times :)

[@Madelin_maria]

Same!!

[@shakastaily]

Giving you the biggest coziest hug from Miami while you cocoon for a while dearest. Btw, I love organic basics, and used your code from several years ago to purchase some essentials and I love my garments. xoxo

[@Madelin_maria]

Much love to you Chloe ❤️ I'm sending you light ✨

[@qoda5dogs]

Lovely video, would you mind sharing where your round white meditation pillow is from?

[@siwai-maybe]

A warm hug from Hong Kong.

[@MarieLeopold_m]

Connecting to you so deeply ❤️

[@Edith1111]

Sending you a big hug back! ❣

[@carolina098]

Same as you… and I’m 33

[@orianegidron]

Happy hibernation season everyone 🤗

[@Jeelmin]

No way you’re 27! You’re definitely younger ❤

[@aszcz8025]

Podcast is about Ross? 🤔

[@ninak1695]

Vielleicht hat sie endlich gemerkt, dass sie in einer toxischen Beziehung mit ihm ist

[@Polly1589]

​@@ninak1695dein Kommentar ist herablassend und unempathisch. Muss das sein?

[@soundscape26]

In the past she alluded to a problem with a family member so let's not just assume everything is about Ross.

[@ninak1695]

​@@Polly1589das ist weder herablassend noch irgendetwas anders, sondern ein Fakt, wie Chloe jetzt ja endlich verstanden hat

[@Polly1589]

@@ninak1695 Der Ton macht die Musik oder läufst du auch privat so durchs Leben und belehrst die Leute, dass sie es doch bitte ENDLICH verstehen möchte. Meine Güte!

[@raniamohammed1437]

What was you listening to when folding clothes?😊

[@Polly1589]

Such a relaxing video 🥰 According to the things you say and the podcast in the background, I'm going through a similar phase of my healing journey. You are not alone Chloé. I wish you much strength, you are doing well!

[@auro3474]

Qualcuno sa dirmi la marca degli orecchini di Chloé? Grazie❤

[@krinko547]

Hey ♥

[@carolina.mariia]

what are you listening i’m the background? 🤍

[@johnmckean1356]

Chloe! Please eat something that is not healthy for you once a week…. Without guilt! 😂😂😂😂 …. Love ❤❤ … Oh and you love books. How cool would it to write one?! Take advantage of being single! You are beautiful, warm, motivated, intelligent and compassionate. It would shine through in your writing I would think. Finally… don’t follow my advice… I give horrible advice and really just like to hear the sound of my own voice! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@didifau346]

❤❤❤❤

[@schadzka1]

Hi whats your job

[@ericafaber6585]

Sending love and healing hugs from New Zealand☺️🫶🇳🇿

[@chendaforest]

🇳🇿🥝

[@paola.insuasty]

Great video ❤ by the way is that sugar at minute 8:47?

[@lenm8597]

I think that is food for the kombucha :)