Living My Best Life: A Peek into a Week in the Life of a Gay Dad

[@claymitchell2335]

As my Mam used to say, "Spring has sprung, the grass is riz, I wonder where the flowers is? The bird on the wing. Isn't that absurd? I'd always heard the wing was on the bird." Every Fekkin' year!

[@rlwonder89]

I really appreciate you two. My partner and I have felt like we don't fit into the gay community and you are showing us there is an alternate regular just everyday guys community like us.

[@juliefrost8079]

I recommended a gay friend of mine to listen to your podcast - he's just split with his partner of 9 years and is coming to terms with it - he's listened to all episodes and loves it! (as straight woman in her 50s, I'm definitely not your target audience 😀)

[@david-stevenmorris.4418]

[I love it when you show off your brood, Keegan. Nothing wrong with taking pride in your kids.]

[@catc7918]

Firstly thank you Keegan for so generously sharing and allowing us to see glimpses of your personal life, your vlogs really brighten my day. Secondly it always stuns me that people feel justified to blithely comment and pass judgement on others appearance and dress!! What is that old adage ... “If you can’t say something nice ....” Hopefully these quite frankly rude comments ( I thought you looked great) won’t deter you from vloging. Cheers from Australia. 🇦🇺🐨😘

[@Jamnicity]

Your kids have such a relaxed school morning! Mine are always rushing around and out the door to catch the bus by 6:37am. I was just like Joel with my first dog, if I had to leave her with a stranger. I was the way over-protective dog mom! 😄 Thanks for sharing your week!

[@harvestmoon_autumnsky]

I was happy to see you playing board games with your kids. I have two teens as well, and for Christmas we always buy a new board game. I enjoy your walk to Dunkin Donuts (no, we're not eating a donut, you and Joel never fail to clarify, just a coffee). You always impress me with your organization and motivation.

[@beaukat3]

Keegan I really love watching your interaction with your family… Your love for Joel is quite evident and very nice to see…

[@markwaltz2768]

I very much appreciate you … and Joel ,sharing the normalcy of your lives, normalcy being sometimes hectic, sometimes stressed, sometimes chaotic and sometimes blissfully mellow. All of it feeling like a wonderful , entertaining visit with great friends. Love you guys 🤟

[@tigertigertiger3740]

Another lovely video there. Yes, I agree wholeheartedly Keegan, hyprocrisy is MEGA annoying!!!! Also, yes, you are very handsome man but only of certain "type" though that I'd probably have to describe as a "Rough Cut Diamond". 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@andrewbogg5004]

I absolutely hear you, I helped with an LGBTQ+ group here in Barnsley and we have worked really hard to break down barriers and show the community who we are and not a stereotype, our 12th Pride will be held this year! Keep up the amazing work.

[@Sambubdo]

Perfect example of kids who are raised properly. Great vlog Keegan!

[@keeganandjoel]

Yes! Thank you!

[@kathleenchild]

Your children are charming! Enjoying your and Joel’s podcast very much. Try not to over extend yourself too much. Enjoy your weekend!

[@k.vn.k]

I love the first suit. Keegan, you have such a rugby body, you will look good in any suits 😊

[@tracywatson7776]

The country side of England is so beautiful! The hills, stone walls, all the green grass, trees. etc. I couldn’t get enough when I last visited. Now I want to go back and stay in the countryside and not the city. What’s a great welcoming town with beautiful country, and villages with mom and pop shops?

[@keithgrant351]

Both suit trousers looked a bit tight 😮😂

[@col62]

Like your optimism it being spring 😂😂. Regarding what we say or do is an absolute nightmare. Tan shoes are great with blue.

[@thomasmead6898]

Thanks so much sharing your life with us. The suit and shoes look great! Have fun in Denmark! I have to listen to the podcast!

[@stepps511]

If there is a word that comes to mind when I view your videos, Keegan, it is "wholesome". There are others, of course, but that's the overriding idea that I take away. And believe me, that is a very good thing! Thank you!

[@ronryyj123]

Ladles and Jelly Spoons made me laugh. maybe a quick vlog of you and Joel trying random intros and outros. i'd also listen to a compilation of you two laughing.

[@danielimpastato3466]

Lots of great comments here, Keegan👍🏼 so I've not much to add - great vlog👏safe travels💫PS we have Rover here in the US also. The dogs will be well cared for. Always nice to se you with your family❣(includes your tea-cupping BF Joel ☕

[@shanebrowne6661]

Oi my man and I celebrate our 34th anniversary this June. I will be in the UK and he will be in SA. His statmying home while I go visit family. I was a rugby player decades ago Nd cricket player. I grew up when being gay was illegal. You 2 inspire me and I'm glad u have the life you have the live u have today. Remember it was my fighting for equality in the 70s Nd 80s that paved the way. Lov u both

[@jimb4789]

You're a great Dad, Keegan, with great respectful kids! Enjoy the videos following daily life. You and Joel are awesome 🙂

[@nikkilogan7726]

Your vlogs really brighten a lot on other people's lives. Your such an inspiration Keegan. thank you so much 😎🥰🏳️‍🌈✨

[@justinh8417]

I’ve loved the new HHH blog. People are always going to hate on something and you’re opinion is completely relevant because it’s your opinion & we’re all allowed one.

[@devosoap]

The blue suit is a smashing color on you plus it's a little more spring looking. Although I love Joel's taste, his choice of suit for you is kind of drab. (I probably would've been fine with his selection if I hadn't seen the blue one.)

[@46831Mike]

I’m new to this channel but I can’t wait to see more!

[@robertamcmunn3642]

Keegan, if you are being trolled for being handsome and confident it tells you a lot about the commenter. Just to add my two cents, I love how you and Joel talk to each other and understand each other.

[@JosephMay-gp8mo]

Thank you keegan for your knowledge, and wisdom. You are a great inspiration. Love you and Joel so much ❤️

[@gwynethglas-brown9171]

Hope you had a Great time in Copenhagen with Joel & your sister 🥰

[@ginabarrows2454]

I started watching Joel a long time ago. He is just so sweet and honest about his feelings. You seem to be the same way. I hope you both will be happy together for a long time. You also have a great relationship with your children, which is lovely! I am glad to see you are being a role model for others. Keep up the great work! ❤

[@oscarwinston1159]

Mmm, may I suggest the shoulders, lats areas, and arms are reconsidered on the suits. Maybeturn them into double vent. If you crossed your arms in front and too tight, then something to consider. Great fashion for a great holiday. Enjoy!

[@jl9608]

Älskar svenskan! 😂Heja Er! 🥳

[@kirkwood512]

You two are doing a great thing with your channels. Block trolls, ignore troublemakers, and keep up the great work!

[@callen8908]

Hello from Los Angeles. I really admire you Keegan. Thank-you for sharing

[@a.j.stauft1779]

Omg loved the vlog massively...yes happy homo yeah🥰❣️❣️ Totally agree that we need to make a new image for those of us...yes a dad ..that don't fit and don't want to fit stereotypes!! Nice to not feel like the outcast anymore ..thank you very much!! Love the new wheels J ..now the bmer is powerful n fast with wicked cornering..behave mister no racing lol..and to finish K you are stunning in your blue suit..the Grey fits nicely but with your complexion you present better in colour. Hope the wedding was a hit❤👍👏❣️💪🦵❤️‍🔥

[@smellyolegoat150]

I’m a 63 year old gay man. You all touched on something I hate. It is how many stereotypically vicious judgmental queens there are in the gay community. Then there are the judgmental gays that aren’t necessarily queens, they are just loaded with pretense and arrogance. Between the two groups, I have spent a lifetime looking for a way to fit into the community because I don’t fit into any of the stereotypes. I’ve long held the theory that a large part of the negativity in the gay community comes from our struggles against the bigotry many of us have faced. I feel like so many of us are full of pain and anger as a result of our struggles. Sadly, all to many of us then lash out blindly at anyone and everyone because of it. This instead of learning not to treat others the way we’ve been treated. I finally discovered a wonderfully, warm and accepting group who camp at an amazing gay campground in Missouri in the US. It’s a group that seems to accept everyone for who they are without judgement. I remember the first time I went there. It’s as if I could breathe for the first time. I really wish we would do better as a community. Heaven knows, we could do better.

[@mp-iw6kx]

Thanks for the motivation.👍 Now that the rain has stopped her in California I can start walking..

[@jamesromaine4321]

Keegan. Your the best

[@joemalick]

Nice, I love a vlog with a mix of days and events, it makes it interesting! I am like Joel, I do get nervous about leaving my dog with others, but I’m sure it worked out well. And I agree with you, that suit is dark for Spring, a nice lighter gray or tan would look great, not sure if you have one like that. Later, jelly spoon! 😂😂😂

[@Brooksie603]

I really like how suits with a vest under to coat looks. It’s very sharp.

[@cupcake22293]

You guys are my favorite gay KZbin 0F all time

[@richardblackwell1230]

Really good video 👍👍 really like your posts - did you or/and Joel record anything when you were in Copenhagen and Malmo as I did a similar trip a few years ago. We went on a lovely canal/river trip around Malmo and were supplied with a flask of coffee and some lovely hot cinnamon buns .

[@badwater]

Hey Keegan (and Joel) ... I enjoyed this a lot. I'm always interested in mundane day-to-day things. You have a beautiful family. Cheers from Tom in Birmingham (we say bur-ming-HAM) Alabama, USA.

[@carltwidle9046]

I'm a New Zealander. I campaigned back in the 1980s here when the Homosexual Law Reform Bill went through in Parliament. The law did change. I remember back in the 1970s/ 80s some gay men had self loathing. It wasn't their fault because of the oppression towards gay men. How were we to feel good about ourselves when there was so much negativity and hostility aimed at us.

[@Majeed.]

Lovely family

[@myownkindofrunway]

This is so lovely

[@claymitchell2335]

Hot Cross buns was Mummy's favourite.

[@tonirajap4180]

Just tuned in for the first time...looking forward to acquaint myself with your content. Thank you for sharing.

[@123Iamawesome321]

So happy to see the week in the life of a gay dad!!!! #goals Also have to be less anxious in typing that email for Happy Healthy Homo unless you guys are really too inundated with those emails.

[@wordscapes5690]

I can’t bear children, but that fault is mine not the children’s. I have HUGE respect for fathers and mothers, because the idea of having to take care of kids, or to tolerate them, is absolutely terrifying to me.

[@coleda-1460]

Keegan, you can talk about anything you want, your point of view, is just as valid as anyone else's. Anyone who tell's you different, is just a troll who wants to play I'm a bigger victim, so many times you have said things that really hit home for me, I'm sure most people don't want you to feel you have to sensor yourself, I know I want to hear your's and Joel's opinion's. If some toxic troll has a problem with it, f#(k em.

[@jeffhampton2767]

The first suit looked skin tight

[@karenwhite7023]

Have a great trip. Beautiful family. 😀

[@LoveLeighEating23]

I love that it’s in there when Joel comes in and you present him that so fun. I love you both so much. I hope y’all have a great day.🥰 and thanks for making my day better♥️

[@deannaeakle8680]

You’ve got to ignore the trolls! Live your life and live your honest truth! People will see that you are being honest

[@mitchellbarnow1709]

Butter, butter, butter, how ever you say it, it’s delicious! ❤

[@melissagm235]

Keegan, I came to your channel from Joel’s channel, and I just want to say how refreshing your lifestyle is, because you don’t conform to the “gay normal”, I know that is the message that y’all are trying to get across with your new podcast, you and Joel are just everyday men living your life on your terms. I have only one small complaint, in the beginning of the video when you are walking the camera is bouncing so bad that I had to skip ahead because it was making me ill. Just something to consider in the future, I know that I am not the only one who has issues with to much bouncing around in videos.

[@deetles98]

Great video! Thanks for sharing!

[@LoveLeighEating23]

I love you angel so much I have followed him for years. You did good and I believe he did good as well. Getting to know you has been a joy. I think y’all are a fabulous couple. I’m glad you’re both doing well. I’m glad you started your own channel. Love you both. Many blessings.

[@henrym7198]

You’re not a Gay Dad; you’re a Great Dad. Boyfriends come and go, but your kids are forever. Hope your romantic relationship lasts for ever, but your children should always be a priority. You won’t regret it. Your relationship with your kids is what caught my attention in your videos. Wish my nephews straight Dad were like you!

[@gazaman7561]

That's Joel husband ❤❤❤❤

[@tadziosquest]

Are short suit jackets a thing in the UK?

[@lizgillies3564]

Quite right Keegan look after yourself and your family ❤hope you get back into your rugby soon 👌. Love watching a good game of rugby, went to watch Scotland Ireland in the six nations this year. Scotland got hummped 😂, but we didn’t disappoint on the end tables 👌. Hope you guys have a good trip away 👏♥️

[@lelandpeck4585]

Keegan, this was a great vlog! Very entertaining. Gosh, you sure are one busy Dad.....keeping work, rugby, kids, your partner all taken care of keeps you busy. Sorry you are getting some negative feedback on Happy Homo. I bet there's some jealousy going on with some of the guys. But you and Joel just "have it all together" as far as I an see. Hope you had a great time in Copenhagen. Look forward to hearing about that. Hope you felt ok on the trip.

[@michaelssmith3524]

You have really good looking kids love your vlogs I agree with Joel second suit the best I like the tan shoes ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Just for one day, I want to Keegan to be a stereotypical Vlogger. A challenge video, if you will.

[@paulwj62]

Im obviously joking but I know the reason the weekend of the 24 everyone was busy but the 24th was my 61st birthday 😅 😮

[@EvieVermont]

Can you get rid of the negative remarks? I know my channel gives me the option of not allowing the negative comments through. The haters don’t hate you. They hate everyone. Also, I do what we call in the States “house/pet sitting” and I go to people’s homes, watch pets, water gardens and house plants, feed and walk pets, get mail, take in packages, etc. I also send pics of pets on a daily basis, text daily, and just try to make the home/pet owners feel as if I’m the next best thing to their being at the home. (Of course, I only do it word-of-mouth. No advertising.). Of course, I’m paid, but not that much. Maybe you could find someone you trust to stay WITH Finn and Eva? At your home? It really is best for the dogs, I feel. No judgment

[@LoveLeighEating23]

I was wondering, are you spiritual/religious or what are your beliefs. Joel and I believe in the same kinds of things so we understand one another but I’ve not heard much yet on your beliefs or what you’re teaching your children🥰 I’m interested and thanks for sharing if you do tell us.

[@chessieray1465]

Keep the intro! It's unique.

[@david-stevenmorris.4418]

[I would leave Fenn with Joel's Dad. They looked very friendly together last we saw them together. Be careful, Joel's Dad might not give Fenn back.]

[@bkm2797]

Well that was a nice vlog, and it's always good to see Taylor and Fletcher hanging out. Hope you have a great time in Sweden, even if it's only a couple of days. I have just one issue with the conversation regarding gays being bitchy and cattish, being from San Francisco, I have been around many gay male friends, and yes they can be that way, but mostly they are hilarious and extremely witty, really keeping me on my toes,Lol. However as they begin to mature and settle (30's on), they age like a fine wine/whine,lol,whatever. Thanks guys, have a good trip.

[@Kane-sf3yj]

✌

[@kebinchen8585]

Always love happy healthy Homo!

[@markulrich9496]

Keegan I always have wanted to ask you about your accent. I was wondering if you are from an area close to where Jodiie Whitaker is from I liked her on Doctor Who. Anyway I subscribe to both yours and Joel's channels and have subscribed to HHH as well. I am from The Dalles Oregon in the USA. It is a small town an hour and a half east of Portland Oregon. I am liking the new podcast. I watch it on youtube. I find myself not fitting in to the gay community as most of it seems foreign to me. I guess it is because I grew up in a small town and currently still am here. Anyway have a great day. Mark

[@keeganandjoel]

Yeah, we’re both from Yorkshire. I’m from West Yorkshire. I don’t know about Jodie

[@markulrich9496]

@@keeganandjoel I read on her Wikipedia page she is from West Yorkshire. I think my ancestors are from there. My biological name is Beckwith. I was adopted when my mom remarried.

[@toddhupp2645]

do you have custody of the kids? very cute kids.they seem cool with the situation.

[@אדוארדחצבני]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@rickyn1135]

My Friends ex pays a women over 2k a month to walk her one small dog once A day! Too much money too me!

[@jackb1000]

Why do you refer to Joel as SHE? We are MEN who love MEN at least for the most part. I would be pissed off if my boyfriend referred to me as SHE, especially in front of other people! Otherwise, I love watching you two guys interact with each other and the kids.

[@keeganandjoel]

A, because it’s something we do and think is funny. B, it’s part of gay culture derived from polari, C, it doesn’t really matter if you’d be offended, I’m not calling you it.

[@claymitchell2335]

Tired of me yet? Don't feel bad about the age thing with your son. Up until out late teens my Dad would call us four kids together, look us over then say, "You're the one I want, the rest of you piss off!" One of us was my older sister. The rest of us were boys.

[@iagodacrisanov5850]

Hi from România 👋😍

[@seamusfinnegan775]

Styles must have changed since the last time I put on a suit. The trousers are not supposed to be skin tight. They are not skinny jeans. And that coat does NOT need to be taken in. The suit looks way too small as it is.

[@Manx36]

Do you realize your arms and hands get expressive when you do certain things and your voice softens when you are discussing things like clothes or art? I saw a video where you were discussing some art and your speech softened, it’s not a feminine thing but maybe a more relaxed state. I was wondering if it’s a conscious thing or not because I’m told I do it around gay friends and I don’t do it around straights and I honestly don’t know I do it. I don’t know what being “gay” is because I spent so long being straight and now, I don’t know how to be gay because I’m just me 🤷🏽‍♂️ and I spent so many years trying to make sure I was butch enough for anyone watching. I’ll do something and friends will say what was that and I don’t know what I did but I think it’s like a muscle that’s constantly been in use and I just relax it subconsciously, was wondering if that’s ever been part of your experience?

[@Mary-gn5xo]

The suits are far too small , jacket needs to be longer length and suit trousers are not supposed to be tight.

[@kennethrush9363]

Hi guys who children are they as the show dose not come you tube so not up date

[@toddhupp2645]

gays do often develop odd defenses.true.

[@dane3165]

Keegan why do you keep thinking you have to say your gay? We don’t care, we don’t have to label ourselves every time we do something. Live your life and stop with the I’m Gay crap, it’s annoying.

[@keeganandjoel]

Honestly Dane? It’s for search engine optimisation. I don’t mention it in the videos but if the titles offend you so much, don’t watch. Super simple

[@petermbradley]

Keep your children off the videos - they are not adults to consent to this charade.

[@freeman100100]

Why the distaste at saying “hi guys “ too fem for you. Check yourself

[@joselito7776]

You are not bad looking, but not exactly handsome. The reason I say this is cuz the shape of your head is the same as Sloth's in the movie, The Goonies, which takes you off my handsome list. Who would I consider handsome? Molly Ringwald's crush in the movie 16 Candles. Still is, decades after the movie released. But you know what? The Goonies is so beloved, I'd rather be Sloth than the dude in 16 Candles. And quite frankly, being handsome is not where it's at. If you're healthy, have people to love and who love you back, you're WAY ahead of the curve.

[@mandybrown3459]

Keegan and Joel are gorgeous and handsome

[@Georgiaredfern]

Joel is handsome but Keegan a bit of rough. Needs elocution lessons.

[@vodriscoll]

Your opinion. I think he's hot as hell

[@joselito7776]

@@vodriscoll , the shape of Keegan's head is the same as Sloth's in the movie, The Goonies. For this reason, he is off my handsome list.