Men VS Women and UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS (ft. Code Raid’s Fauzi & Aida) | The Hop Pod Ep.51

[@YouGotWatch]

What other gender stereotypes have y'all experienced growing up? We want to read your stories!

[@AintLoai]

we needd moree vids with aida and fauzii !!!

[@YouGotWatch]

Catch them over at Code Raid! 🚨

[@BadriKid]

i really love how well spoken fauzi is, i really wish he has his own podcast where he doesn't have to be so hyper

[@Ben-kh2rh]

Hear hear

[@mynameisfauzi]

Wah! Thank you leh! 🥹

[@MrHnd1988]

How to Make Grandma Dies a Million Times (Nicholas, 2024) i died 😂 3:50

[@JuzNicky]

its a Yeamster thing to be said.

[@amelial3396]

ah released just in time for dinner

[@YouGotWatch]

We're accompanying you for dinner? So cute! 🥹

[@JuzNicky]

@@YouGotWatch Tau Geh white chop chicken with a side dish of curry.

[@itzy4541]

Released just in time to destress from the shittiest day of the whole month

[@mysticwanderlust]

Loved this episode so much! love how it was more of a conversation between the hosts and guests rather than an interview, the flow was great and aida & fauzi are such eloquent speakers!! would love to see them on this show more, orrr we could have a code raid podcast 😉 think the chaotic energy would be great hehe

[@SabBliss]

16:03 Joie’s “but hujan later cold” is so cute. 😂

[@sleepy_dobe]

I walk with an umbrella under the sun. Because I don't want to have to apply sunblock constantly. Exposure to direct hot sunlight also triggers my migraine, so I use the umbrella and also periodically wet my head, face and neck. And if I use sunblock, then every time I wet my face, I'll need to re-apply it. Troublesome, time-consuming, and not to mention expensive. So the umbrella is just a better solution. Also blocks out UV rays. Perfect.

[@sophiaisabelle01]

We appreciate your insights. Keep making an impact on the community.

[@RON-xp7wr]

this episode was amazing!! get other profiles to share about gender stereotypes as well

[@curry98]

HAHAHA! I know what's Aida referring to when she mentioned the spoiler alert 🤭

[@domkzq]

The men vs women sleeping around point is kinda invalid. The reason one is "celebrated" while the other shamed on is because it's much harder for men to be able to sleep around. It requires a man to have looks/money/status/game (sometimes a combination of two or more) to be able to pull it off even if he has no standards. Whereas if a woman is willing to spread her legs, she is definitely getting laid. Disclaimer: my stance on hookup culture is that I am against it for both men and women, but I can't deny the fact that it's easier for women to sleep around

[@amiliajade1502]

In situations where theres a men and woman, both decent looking, disregard money and statue cause just hooking up, and the woman is the one that initiated so doesnt matter if the guy has game or not Ultimately the woman is still labeled as loose or whatever not so great, and the guy who hasnt done anything, nv initiated or shared anything, is "celebrated" Yes, yve shared that seemingly guys have to make much more effort than woman to hook up but still they are both for the same intention thats what im saying so why the difference in comment. N honestly, if a girl doesnt make effort in herself, the daily maintanence, the dress up for a night to the club, instead has like flaky skin, tangled hair with food droppings stuck to it, and smelly shirt dug out from dirty laundry which u can definitely smell from 2 people away, her chances are probably not high even if she spread her legs wide open.

[@domkzq]

@@amiliajade1502 do you notice how my statement was a more of general rule, whereas yours is more of an exception? Exceptions don't make the rule, there are always going to be outliers. Ever heard of the saying "women have sex with who they want and men have sex with who they can"? Women can say they just want to hook up, but they still have standards whether they want to admit it or not. Why do you think that the average age women lose their virginity is lower than men? Why do you think that there are more male virgins than women virgins? It's harder for men to sleep around. And to your point of a woman who does look after herself having lower chances: if we have a woman and a man who doesn't look after themselves (appearance wise) and send them out to find a casual fling for the night, who do you think is going to be more successful?

[@sleepy_dobe]

I think there are more men nowadays who are ok with being house-husbands. The problem will come when the wife, by virtue of her higher income and the man now being a house-husband, wants to lord it over the husband.

[@tlim8969]

Whoever has the money has a higher tendency to lord it over others. Has been happening for centuries with men lording over their wives too.

[@jbrkjferkjbekjb]

i was always the "gentle", "sensitive" guy in school (more into literature, etc, though I also love sports), and btw straight as an arrow, but I received incessant namecalling from the girls in my UG CCA who would label me as a "gay" and "loser" because I was not "man" enough. It was so common to be scolded by the girls like "can you man up" just because you didnt "take charge" or raise your voice even if it didn't affect the outcome of the task but was just how I carried myself (while it was perfectly acceptable for those girls to do the same thing). Interestingly though it was the conventionally unattractive girls who would project their bitterness on me, girls i've had 'situationships' with never gave me that problem. That was an immature phase but having entered the workforce, I still get the sense that guys are subtly expected to "take charge" and be "dominant", even if some of us prefer to be gentle / soft-spoken who're more chill and prefer to take things slower. Some female (or even male) colleagues/bosses legitimately look at less dominant guys as "less of a man" and it can hurt personal relationships and professional opportunities.

[@miriam.abraham]

omg tsl reunion

[@Serperi0r]

There's an episode with Siyu and Isaac?

[@YouGotWatch]

Yes! Ep 21 on differences between Millennial & Gen Z dating, watch it here! 🎧kzbin.info/www/bejne/o2SbpJKwjLiFh6ssi=zIwtuaRmb6sBBJXT

[@superswaggerfly]

Talk is cheap. When you’re the breadwinner then what’s your expectation of your partner who’s the househusband/housewife? Taking care of the kids is never easy on top of household. Stereotype is the norm when there’s expectations and often it goes beyond gender.

[@sleepy_dobe]

20:27 Not just disgusting, it's also extremely inconsiderate. Nobody around her can use that grab pole to steady themselves anymore.

[@Syahzukihayatbusa]

Ahhhhh..no wonder most guys in Aida's life ghosted her.

[@christinepek]

you not paiseh use your face say this kind of thing ah LOL embarrassing

[@kimt7831]

aida is such a pick-me

[@ColouredPixels]

aida has to be at least BI. cmon now