Living with “High Functioning” Autism (Connor's Experience)

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Жыл бұрын

Connor tells us about his "light" autism, as he likes to call it. Let us know if you have any questions and thank you for your support!
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@MrLondonTV
@MrLondonTV Жыл бұрын
I love this!! Thank you 🙏🏾
@angelikabronner1220
@angelikabronner1220 10 ай бұрын
Great helpful video what great child
@brandii01able
@brandii01able Ай бұрын
Mr. London?! lol. What are you doing here??
@berenedain8427
@berenedain8427 6 ай бұрын
Man, I'm autistic and a robotics engineer I would love to sit and talk about rockets with your son! It's nice to see such awareness of his condition, I didn't get diagnosed until I was 26 years old, and I went through a lot of bullying and misunderstanding with my family not knowing how to deal with me. You're a great dad and raising an awesome intelligent son!
@meganldavidson28
@meganldavidson28 3 ай бұрын
Same how I grew up too
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@suzannemcmaken4648
@suzannemcmaken4648 3 ай бұрын
@davynolan182
@davynolan182 2 ай бұрын
Same for me, I was diagnosed at 18, 25 now, mechanical engineer, lot of misunderstanding with my family too.
@spacemanspiff33
@spacemanspiff33 Жыл бұрын
Holy smokes Dad you're raising some class act kids. You're a big inspiration to other dads like myself.
@michellehouse-hq7mh
@michellehouse-hq7mh Жыл бұрын
#YEYFATHERFIGURES
@akacisco1able
@akacisco1able Жыл бұрын
Totally agree my son is 6 and is diagnosed, he can't talk so is so much struggle
@badboygoodgirl
@badboygoodgirl Жыл бұрын
lol what??? i dont get it
@havik3420
@havik3420 10 ай бұрын
​@@badboygoodgirl what don't you get?
@havik3420
@havik3420 10 ай бұрын
​@Mp what kind of herb are you referring to? Cbd? Mj? Something else?
@rochelleb973
@rochelleb973 11 ай бұрын
What an intelligent, well spoken , child. He is definitely going to be just fine 😊
@ONERR4RF
@ONERR4RF 6 ай бұрын
@@NaomisFoundationnot at all how it works
@HermitKing731
@HermitKing731 Ай бұрын
Just because he can talk doesnt mean he will go fine.
@StarfishSunsets
@StarfishSunsets 3 күн бұрын
I was thinking the same exact thing!
@ayame316
@ayame316 Жыл бұрын
Protect this child at all costs! 😢. As an late diagnosed autistic this made me cry. Just feeling all the things I used to feel-remembering being that age.
@1DirtyKilo
@1DirtyKilo Жыл бұрын
Protect every child @ all costs
@emmat7736
@emmat7736 Жыл бұрын
Oh darling, me too!
@alrahbimom
@alrahbimom Жыл бұрын
I am 49 and I stemmed all my life. Had a hard time on school but loved to learn. 6yrs to get BA and three 1/2 yes for masters! I did it even with the constant starting a task while thinking of three other things but texting my family. It’s always just mind in overdrive! Taking a class this weekend on rekki to heal my mind n quite the noise 🎉🎉. I am curious if I am but I will test my two sons 10, 8urs old.
@XRDFTYuhbHUIUW
@XRDFTYuhbHUIUW Жыл бұрын
Same here. I did similar things at school. I've had struggles but i've always masked them. I have never been diagnosed. My son was diagnosed 4 months ago.
@danielnelson9411
@danielnelson9411 Жыл бұрын
​@@alrahbimom Took me 12 years to finish college. Kept changing my major.
@eric-seastrand
@eric-seastrand Жыл бұрын
You’re a smart and articulate kid. You’ll go far in life.
@xuzeh
@xuzeh Жыл бұрын
That is not what we came for, we have no need to go anywhere. We came to your neurotypical world to show how love can be chosen/emanated/given even though it is barely received; on the contrary. We care for you neurotypical humans, not for your stupid systems and tools which you love to worship so much.
@haannguyen4402
@haannguyen4402 Жыл бұрын
I have HFA too
@haannguyen4402
@haannguyen4402 Жыл бұрын
Hey Connor, when I was your age, I had trouble making eye contact with others
@SavAJ23
@SavAJ23 Жыл бұрын
Its not all it takes today
@indaclubinthebutt9209
@indaclubinthebutt9209 Жыл бұрын
No he won't. He should just give up now.
@selaang1825
@selaang1825 8 ай бұрын
Very articulate and intelligent kid, Connor is. Very impressive. Actually, he talks so much better than neurotypical kids his age. Way to go 👍🏼
@rileyadams7192
@rileyadams7192 4 ай бұрын
@@NaomisFoundationautism can't be healed or cured because it is not a disease
@CBfeb1
@CBfeb1 3 ай бұрын
He’s freaking amazing ‼️‼️‼️
@tastypymp1287
@tastypymp1287 3 ай бұрын
I don't think he articulates himself better than neurotypical kids his age, that's a bizarre claim.
@dajourphil0soph3r36
@dajourphil0soph3r36 3 ай бұрын
@@tastypymp1287 that’s a very autistic thing to say
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@elanhunter310
@elanhunter310 4 ай бұрын
Connor, I am SOOOOOO showing this to my son …. He struggles to accepts his autism doesn’t always have to be a challenge. I can tell from just listening to you that you are just as super bright and creative as my boy… what a wonderful example and role model you are for your amazing and perfectly perfect community… can’t wait to show him…
@JudeHavina
@JudeHavina Ай бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely
@AmandaBoyer-xk3ex
@AmandaBoyer-xk3ex Жыл бұрын
Hey, Connor. My name is Amanda. I am a adult with High Functioning Autism or as you so eloquently put it “light” Autism. A little tip to help with Dyspraxia. When you are running especially in a confined space touch the walls. This will help orient you in space and time so you are less likely to run into things. I still sometimes trip and stub my toe though, even now. I hope that makes sense and helps. I wouldn’t want you to break your toe. Good luck out there! 🙂
@AutismFamilyChannel
@AutismFamilyChannel Жыл бұрын
great tip!
@Myeah
@Myeah Жыл бұрын
Have either tried steel toe shoes? I'm just curious! Great video, positive and informative (and adorable). 😀
@taoist32
@taoist32 Жыл бұрын
I trip over everything! Maybe wearing special shoes in the house would be helpful. Thank you!
@inbornwanderlust1076
@inbornwanderlust1076 Жыл бұрын
I stubbed, and subsequently broke, my toe in a swimming pool once pushing off the side. When I told my friend I was with at the time he was laughing at my reaction to it and didn't believe me and asked how it was possible to do that. I said I didn't know but I did. Well about 5 or so minutes later my whole toe turned deep purple. And finally I could point that out and say see!! I'm not lying. My friend then felt bad about teasing me, but also said that only I could manage to do that. Lol! Editing to add that at the time neither of us knew I had high functioning autism. So my friend wasn't being mean. I didn't find out until I was in my 40's!
@nicelady51
@nicelady51 Жыл бұрын
No running in the house is not a rule anymore? I thought that was taught in Parenting101 and had nothing to do with whether you are special needs or not. Back in the old days, when remote controls first came out, if you were a little and wanted to be like your Dad, you'd get a key ring with all the unuseful keys to keep in your pocket. Just like Dad. If you ran past the tellie, it would change channels because of the keys jingling in your pocket. If your Dad missed the Red Sox hit a home run then, oh boy! That is why you don't run in the house.
@jareda38tv52
@jareda38tv52 Жыл бұрын
Hello Connor, I am 16 years old and I was diagnosed with High Functioning Autism 12 years ago. I find it really hard to make friends and to find like minded people. I always feel a sense of relief whenever I make a friend. In my spare time, I like to research, watch tv, and play videos. Quite frankly, I am glad that you cherish the moments you have at home. Home is very much my comfort zone, it provides me a sense of peace and compensation. So you know Connor, you are a very articulate and intelligent individual!
@7katter
@7katter 11 ай бұрын
The roblox pfp is just perfection
@bakegamer5199
@bakegamer5199 9 ай бұрын
I am the same, i wish i could make friends but i find it really hard and anxious. Home is my favourite place!
@kolegenop537
@kolegenop537 3 ай бұрын
​@@7katterdickhead 🙄
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@zanelancaster2007
@zanelancaster2007 7 ай бұрын
He is so sweet and he speaks beautifully!
@harmonizedigital.
@harmonizedigital. 10 ай бұрын
What a bright kid with a nice family. He is going to do great.
@mcheedradish9215
@mcheedradish9215 Жыл бұрын
Connor is very smart and talks so mature for his age. Love him!
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
I also saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZbin. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@marybarnett3517
@marybarnett3517 Жыл бұрын
@@bolinhong2598 please could you forward the KZbin about the Dr. oyallo . Tia
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
@@marybarnett3517 his link is kzbin.info/door/L8Tawls84nezPDtqOzOfCg
@philipphilip2174
@philipphilip2174 Жыл бұрын
@@annikenlittle9644 That's a weird and personal question. Plus who cares?
@annikenlittle9644
@annikenlittle9644 Жыл бұрын
@@philipphilip2174Boys Wear Goodnites Diapers? Cool.
@milliefigueroa5754
@milliefigueroa5754 Жыл бұрын
Conner, I forgot to tell you, I’m so proud of you, and I’m a scared Grandma of a 6yr old with the spectrum. I’m so proud and you bring a little relieve into my spectrum world
@francesjones9644
@francesjones9644 Жыл бұрын
Me too Millie, I have a 6 year old autistic grandson and Connor, you bring understanding into our world. Thank you.
@-TammyJean-
@-TammyJean- Жыл бұрын
I also have a 6 year old grandson with autism and he is struggling in school. Thanks young man for explaining this to us so we can have knowledge to help our grandchildren.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
I also saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZbin. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@JoseRojas-hl7sn
@JoseRojas-hl7sn Жыл бұрын
@@bolinhong2598 scam
@Realalma
@Realalma Жыл бұрын
@@-TammyJean- I have a 9 year old grandson with autism as well. The best thing his parents have done is deciding to homeschool him. He is thriving now. I still worry about things though. Hugs.
@freedom5329
@freedom5329 Жыл бұрын
Connor is a very smart young man. He is so mature for his age he should become a teacher, and he explains things so clearly.
@philmickelsonscalves7585
@philmickelsonscalves7585 Жыл бұрын
He’s gonna be a rocket scientist , obviously
@juliak.9390
@juliak.9390 11 ай бұрын
@Mp Please stop spamming. Nobody needs "saving from the spectrum". This is just plain false and hurting information about HeRBs...
@JudeHavina
@JudeHavina Ай бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely
@yeannlimartinez7155
@yeannlimartinez7155 Ай бұрын
Tears!!! I wish this world will be more educated when it comes to Autism. Great Job Connor!! You have great support at home. Good job dad!! Thank you for sharing this video!!!
@JudeHavina
@JudeHavina Ай бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely
@Lisa-gz1dg
@Lisa-gz1dg Жыл бұрын
What a great boy! He is so well spoken and Insightful.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
I also saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZbin. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@lauramcclain8651
@lauramcclain8651 Жыл бұрын
Stick a sock in it buddy .
@sabrina_boymom0517
@sabrina_boymom0517 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Conner! Your relative (your Dad is my cousin) who is 16 years old has "light Autism" and has similar feelings as you. He's most comfortable at home too. He can blend in in public (mask) but he breaks down when he comes home from the social stress he experienced and from masking so much. Thanks for being brave and sharing your feelings! You're awesome!
@AutismFamilyChannel
@AutismFamilyChannel Жыл бұрын
Thanks Sabrina!
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
I also saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZbin. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@Tarotjackpot
@Tarotjackpot Жыл бұрын
You are all awesome. Fantastic video
@rothabugter2161
@rothabugter2161 Жыл бұрын
What is steming?? Or stimming. Thankyou so much your a lovely young man to share your knowledge with others Rotha (Australia)
@juliak.9390
@juliak.9390 11 ай бұрын
@Mp Please stop spamming. Nobody needs "saving from the spectrum". This is just plain false and hurting information about HeRBs...
@wakeupstylellc
@wakeupstylellc 10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ my 6 year old was having issues with having friends and with teacher. We requested an IEP, and they found that she is on the Spectrum. They called her someone who needs little support, because academically she is in the 90% percentile. Thank you for doing this video. I can see how smart you are and it makes me feel that my daughter is not alone in her light Autism. ❤
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@JudeHavina
@JudeHavina Ай бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely
@CatherineLee3000
@CatherineLee3000 7 ай бұрын
I also have light/high functioning autism. Connor reminds me of myself. He seems very mature for his age. I have been told when I was growing up that I am more mature than most adults. I am still told that I am more mature than most people. I was diagnosed with it at age two.
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@JudeHavina
@JudeHavina Ай бұрын
So glad I got the best treatment for my autistic son who is only 4 years old I've been using Dr Oyalo Herbal medicine and it has been really helpful,💯 his speech has improved completely
@Mindfreedom8
@Mindfreedom8 Жыл бұрын
I'm honestly impressed by how smart and eloquent this young man is, I truly wish him all the best!
@philmickelsonscalves7585
@philmickelsonscalves7585 Жыл бұрын
People with Asperger’s are generally more intelligent than the average person
@juliak.9390
@juliak.9390 11 ай бұрын
@Mp Please stop spamming. Nobody needs "saving from the spectrum". This is just plain false and hurting information about HeRBs...
@victoria_m13
@victoria_m13 Жыл бұрын
“home is the most comfortable place” i am really happy to hear this. for me it was really uncomfortable place until i started to live alone. but i’ve found the most comfortable place for me (after my room) - techno clubs. people don’t watch you in the eyes, you can move like you want, everyone respect your personal space, no small talks if you don’t want them, you can have a verity of smiles on your face (this is my steaming- crazy smiling) and if someone sees it, they think you’re on dr*gs. music goes through you, moves all your organs.
@juliak.9390
@juliak.9390 11 ай бұрын
@MpFor real now?? In every single comment you hide your little add- phrase? Please stop spamming. Nobody needs "saving from the spectrum". This is just plain false and hurting information about HeRBs...
@michaelselz3389
@michaelselz3389 9 ай бұрын
Techno clubs is literally the worst place for ppl with autism to go to , I can’t think of a worse place , loud noises, crowded spaces, flashing lights, drunks all over, conversations everywhere , it’s gotta be #1 On the nightmare list for an aspie (i have Asperger’s)
@victoria_m13
@victoria_m13 9 ай бұрын
@@michaelselz3389 maybe, you’ve been in clubs without techno culture
@NaomisFoundation
@NaomisFoundation 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr Oyalo for healing my son from autism. And I want to share about him to every one. His herbs has made my son verbal and Improve in social skills
@brendawelcome9164
@brendawelcome9164 8 ай бұрын
He is so intelligent and very self aware! ❤
@massboy11
@massboy11 Жыл бұрын
What an impressive young man with an equally impressive vocabulary.
@winterdream5710
@winterdream5710 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for doing this video, Connor! I have 2 grand kids who are not high functioning like you. It's very hard sometimes but I think I'm getting better at understanding them. Hear you speak so clearly - so well spoken, focused and intelligent - made me smile. My grand kids are getting help and I hope they are like you when they get older... though I would not be upset as long as they can live and be happy. Well done, young man!
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
I also saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZbin. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@pyao
@pyao Жыл бұрын
Hi Connor thank you so much for sharing, I’m 24 and your insight made me realize I masked like my whole teenage years even at home until recently. My mom told me the other day I “act more like myself like when I was a kid” now and I think it’s because we moved around a lot and FINALLY settled down and I feel comfortable at home again…🌸
@Djcoll128-vx3ey
@Djcoll128-vx3ey 8 ай бұрын
I myself have high functioning Autism and can relate. Your not the only one bro. I also like how easygoing and open you are as well.
@BionicPig95
@BionicPig95 Жыл бұрын
It made me so happy when he said home is the most comfortable place. I wish I could’ve been able to say the same at his age. It’s so awesome that he and his brothers have such a supportive home and family.
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@snigdhadas3507
@snigdhadas3507 Жыл бұрын
When my 4 year old was diagnosed with mild autism about 5 months ago, your channel was the first place to give me hope. I can't express how much I appreciate your videos. Judging by my kid's response to the speech therapy and OT in this short span of time, I feel like he is most similar to Connor. Today, I kinda think of Ian, Connor and Alistair like I would think about my own nephews.
@rivainursetyo9296
@rivainursetyo9296 Жыл бұрын
My son 4 yo diagnosis with moderate autism in 2.5 yo, now he doing therapy (ABA VB) and showing improvements little by little.. oh ya, and the first channel i look up to is from Mary barbera..
@Finnloaf
@Finnloaf Жыл бұрын
@@rivainursetyo9296 Please look into the dangers of ABA more, new research shows that it can be very damaging and possibly even traumatic for autistic kids! They teach you how to hide your autism and they teach boundaries as a bad thing, which can lead to problems with setting any boundaries at all later in life which can be really dangerous. I'm not trying to say what you should and shouldn't do with your kid, but please do be aware of the possible negative long term effects of ABA
@ediblemanager
@ediblemanager Жыл бұрын
@@rivainursetyo9296 if ABA works for you, go for it! Ignore those internet voices who would condemn you for trying to help your child.
@evelyl6620
@evelyl6620 Жыл бұрын
@@Finnloaf do you know of an alternate treatment??
@Sapiditious
@Sapiditious Жыл бұрын
@@evelyl6620 if not already engaged in some occupational therapy (speech & fine motor mvmt skills). I like the social-relational approaches I’ve seen so far. (Floor time developmental learning, Rdi for children ready to engage in back and forth communication and social skills learning)
@plotus6
@plotus6 Жыл бұрын
I have 2 Autistic children who are also severe language delayed. I really appreciate this video. Thank You Connor! 🙏
@katherinefielder3415
@katherinefielder3415 10 ай бұрын
His explanations are brilliant. The stimming being like breathing is a brilliant explanation
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@claudebentley8347
@claudebentley8347 Жыл бұрын
I’m so impressed with you Connor and I’m also impressed with your father the way he is being so much a part of the conversation with you I love the fact that you can be so mature at your age to see there’s nothing wrong with isolating between what you’re calling stemming or how you might act in a social environment masking I believe the more genuine human being is when you’re alone with your family and allowed to just be yourself I guess that’s what you’re calling steming. You seem so honest and genuine Connor I wish I could be more like you if everybody was more like that it would be a better world!
@candaceyoung3468
@candaceyoung3468 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making of this video. My 14 year old son is high functioning autism and I am truly grateful he picked me to be his mom. God bless you.
@20Jandy10
@20Jandy10 15 күн бұрын
@leighreinhart6185
@leighreinhart6185 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Connor, for putting your thoughts into words so well! It seems like you were trying very hard to answer your Dad's questions as best you could, even though some of them were a little challenging. I would like to thank you very much for making this video, and for sharing your experiences and knowledge with others. 😊
@ShelbyN3890
@ShelbyN3890 Жыл бұрын
My boyfriend has autism and he can’t express his feelings to me
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
I also saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZbin. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@virginiaconnor8350
@virginiaconnor8350 Жыл бұрын
My friend has high functioning Asperger's and nor only has she attained a BA in interior design, but also work in communications. She hates crowds and noises that suddenly pop up behind her. She's better in mathematics than I am, but tended to be a little literal-minded when I first met her. I used to nickname her "Saavik" from "Star Trek: The Wrath of Khan", but she's more like Cdr. T'Pol in "Enterprise".
@juliak.9390
@juliak.9390 11 ай бұрын
@Mp Please stop spamming. Nobody needs "saving from the spectrum". This is just plain false and hurting information about HeRBs...
@NaomisFoundation
@NaomisFoundation 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr Oyalo for healing my son from autism. And I want to share about him to every one. His herbs has made my son verbal and Improve in social skills
@talesfromprincesajesa
@talesfromprincesajesa Жыл бұрын
Hi Connor, I am on the spectrum too. I really liked your analogy that stimming is just like breathing. Good luck to you! You are articulate and self-aware :)
@PegT901
@PegT901 9 ай бұрын
I’m a 57 year old female nurse. This really resonates with me. I really appreciate how articulate and honest Connor is being in this video.
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@games_bond7221
@games_bond7221 Жыл бұрын
I'm on the higher functioning end of the spectrum and since I'm a girl, it took me 14 years to get a diagnosis. My main struggles are social interaction and sensory issues. I have no idea how to make friends and most things people find nice (pastel colors, bland foods, taking baths, talking about trends) I hate, and the things I like (bright colors, silence, sharp tastes, being dry, talking about deep aspects of life) people hate. I am now 16 years old and got an official ASD diagnosis 1.5 years ago, right before my 15th birthday. I started noticing weird things in myself when I was 8, I kept telling people about it and all I got was "You're just really smart" (my IQ is somewhere around 150ish) and so I just stopped saying anything. 5 more years of suffering later I received my first phone and one of the first things I did was look up my behaviors to see if anything matched them. Turns out it was one of 2 things: ASD or ADHD. I researched for 6 months before finally telling my parents that I thought I might be autistic. They told me it wasn't possible, because they had met autistic kids and I didn't scream, kick or bite. After 6 more months I was able to get therapy and my therapist scheduled an ASD assessment. I walked into the neuropsychologist's room and after 30 minutes of talking, before the tasks were even given to me, she said "You know... You are right. You are autistic, I can see it" and not even a month later I was diagnosed. My mom apologized for not believing me. My dad still doesn't believe I have autism and says I am just a lazy brat. It hurts to hear him say that, but I'm learning to ignore it. All my old teachers said "Oh but she doesn't look autistic, are you sure you had the right diagnosis?" or even worse "Well but she's got such mild autism, if she even does have it in the first place, she surely doesn't even struggle that much!" Meanwhile my brain: "Hi!! Did you know that dogs sweat through their tongue???? Because they have hair so if they sweat from their skin they would be constantly wet! Do you want to be my friend? ...No no no that sounds weird they will think I'm weird... Let's try again... Hi. I'm Rebecca. I'm 16. I like dogs. Do you want to be friends?" (that usually is perceived weird anyway so people kind of walk away and I spend the following week thinking what I did wrong...) Also my brain: "Loud noise, loud noise, loud noise!!! Flap your hands, it will help... Oh wait, no there's people... Ignore the noise, ignore it!" until eventually KABOOM (meltdown/shutdown) Also my brain: "OOOH LOOK THERE'S SOMEONE NAMED PIERRE! You should definitely talk about your favorite singer!" goes up to person: "Did you know that there's a Canadian band called Simple Plan and..." Just because people don't see the struggles, it doesn't mean they aren't there. I'm commenting both for this video and the "Your Child Doesn't Look Autistic!" one. Sorry if it's too long. I had a lot of things on my mind hehe. Also hi Connor! I'm glad you felt comfortable enough to make this video! Wish you and your family a great day/week/month/year
@discotoscadisney
@discotoscadisney Жыл бұрын
I love how honest your comment is. no need to mask how you feel and what your brain does. You deserve to be heard about your struggles, their hard enough as it is without people their comments. really wish for the people around you to try to give you more respect. Rememer you deserve it!
@games_bond7221
@games_bond7221 Жыл бұрын
@@discotoscadisney Thank you so much for the nice reply!!! I honestly thought nobody would read it haha ^^
@embuscadochifreinexplicaca5960
@embuscadochifreinexplicaca5960 Жыл бұрын
I read it all and let me tell you, thats was a very accurate description of how I felt growing up. Im now a bit older then you and just recently realizing what I have, but its definately similar to your experience besides me not actually going up to people because I was too scared of them judging me (rsd from adhd if youre aware of what that is)... we wouldnt even need therapy if we were accepted by our true selves, but guess what, no, youre just too weird apparently to speak your own mind about whats going on in it... yeah, the not stimming around people struggle is also real for me, probably also due to rsd and/or maybe anxiety. Gathering knowledge about it made me realize I have another autistic friend ahah she was always perceived as weird because she wouldnt care about "norms" she would burp and not give a damn, she would be constantly stimming in class, picking wax out of her ears or rubbing her legs in a circular motion 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 oh, and ralph from the simpsons is probably autistic too. Anyway, today more then ever, I realized autistic / neurodivergent people is who I feel confortable with, because I dont feel I need to put on a mask (which I never even learnt how to anyway), so yeah. And I would totally not mind to be your friend and I wish more people see you that way. Because youre awesome! 👋 Because youre a very smart person, let me also tell you most people dont realize it till much later, because we have it mild, and so we tend to not really care until it deeply affects us and/or use coping mechanisms to deal with certain emotions we dont want to feel (until we "cant" hold the pain anymore and we really feel the need to figure ourselves out and why we are rejected). Also adhd/add (very common comorbidity), especially add, which goes invisible to most people, may put some of us in an even harder spot to figure out whats really wrong... And I might wrong, but I would bet this kid was only diagnosed because he has an autistic brother already and because of his particular articulate speech, which I and many other autistic people dont really have. If you see me on the streets and talk to me, you wouldnt really be able to pick anything that easily, just that Im a very shy person, but with the knowledge I have about autism now, I picked it up as soon as he started talking...
@games_bond7221
@games_bond7221 Жыл бұрын
@@embuscadochifreinexplicaca5960 What you said means so much to me! Officially I am diagnosed with autism and anxiety but my therapist said I could be also diagnosed with ADHD and OCD (but they "wouldn't help me get a job when I'm older") so I understand the ADHD struggle, though I have more of an inattentive form of ADHD. I also am in therapy for DID because of childhood stuff and honestly it doesn't really help my overall situation. I would love to be friends, though I'm not sure how as we can't really have lengthy conversations on KZbin comment sections ^^'
@embuscadochifreinexplicaca5960
@embuscadochifreinexplicaca5960 Жыл бұрын
@@games_bond7221 Well, thats good youre getting the therapy you need, even if it doesnt help much. About the adhd diagnosis in specific not really helping you when you are older, thats not really true if you have it (or it gets) that bad like someone like me, because atleast the meds for it, they certainly help with the executive dysfunction struggles and the RSD aka it helps me being who I really want to be around people, if that makes sense. I also started developing OCD at one point, but somehow magically, I dont struggle with it much anymore, but at one point, I "needed" to read the same paragraph or line of text of a book like 10 times to feel good and not anxious. Do you have in-stagram or d-iscord? (fear of youtube deleting the comment because they dont seem to like certain words lol)
@bettydamnboop3030
@bettydamnboop3030 Жыл бұрын
Conner there are thousands of people who have autism and you coming forward to explain your journey will definitely help those of us who have it and those of us who don’t. You are well spoken and I want to say Thank you 🙏🏻
@KnotZMilky
@KnotZMilky 3 ай бұрын
Connor is so brave talking about his experience. I definitely think he’ll have a bright future ahead of him ❤
@dializ7253
@dializ7253 7 ай бұрын
Kudos!! From one parent with more than one child with Autism out of 4 to another parent with the experience. Thank you for sharing. I often use videos like yours to help my husband (their step-father) better understand our children, their needs, and how they function. My oldest has ADHD and other health issues, my two in the middle are ADHD and borderline Autistic. It is NOT EASY!! Parenting is not easy, but many do not realize how much harder it is when your children have special needs, especially more than one. You also don't always get the help you need with 504's, IEPs, and etc when they are functioning. Sending hugs and prayers from our family to yours. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤
@skynetrules340
@skynetrules340 28 күн бұрын
Are your children taking any medication for Adhd? Have their symptoms improved? My 4 year old boy is autistic with ADHD.
@brie3679
@brie3679 Жыл бұрын
“We’re okay with you stimming at home right?” “Yeah” Thing is… all of us out here.. we don’t NEED to be okay with it, Connor. You don’t need to mask. If someone judges you for it, take it as a blessing because you’ve just seen their true colors upfront. You know not to put your heart and trust into that person. It may sting people people treat us badly but often times it’s truly for the best as we learn from the start who they truly are as a person.
@liltunafish1471
@liltunafish1471 Жыл бұрын
Yes completely agree. It’s ok to stim at home AND anywhere else. The onus is on the public to feel comfortable with it, not for autistic individuals to have to keep masking for other people’s comfort.
@juliz2500
@juliz2500 Жыл бұрын
True, and at the same time, masking is important because it serves as a protection. You don't always want to be the odd one out.
@lanahankins3430
@lanahankins3430 Жыл бұрын
@@juliz2500 It doesn’t. We don’t care about the same things you do it’s okay.
@bernlin2000
@bernlin2000 Жыл бұрын
I think this is somewhat unfair for the general population: some stimming behaviors can be very alarming if people are unfamiliar with the source of the behavior (self-soothing). It could point to some serious neurological condition, like seizures, to the untrained eye. That doesn't make people bad, just concerned and unfamiliar.
@lanahankins3430
@lanahankins3430 Жыл бұрын
@@bernlin2000 if the stimming is self-harm, it's most likely due to trauma or what you mentioned, but telling someone to stop rocking because you simply don't like it is stupid when you can 9/10 walk away and control your own autonomy. It only makes them uncomfortable that others aren't conforming to their norms which is the ableism everyone suffers from.
@teegintom
@teegintom Жыл бұрын
Thank you Connor for being so open and sharing your experience with autism. I was diagnose with high functioning autism after 62 year and I finally know why I did and do certain thing now .When I was a kid I mask a lot but did not even know to use the word mask . I just want to thank your whole family for sharing. It really helps to understand as I share some of the traits you and your brothers have. At my age we did not have the therapy treatments we have today.
@Roswell33
@Roswell33 3 ай бұрын
I love how this is from your kids point of view! So many parents and people in general act like Autistic people's opinions aren't important. Especially about ourselves!!
@mycupoverflows7811
@mycupoverflows7811 11 ай бұрын
He reminds me so much of my kids. I have 6 and we have recently started seeking diagnosis for the oldest. My husband and I have suspected for a couple years (after research) that we are both likely high functioning. I love how you speak so respectfully to Connor. I often feel like I'm speaking to grownups trapped in little growing bodies when I'm talking to my kids. We homeschool all of ours, so they're very deep into their interests and very poor at masking. The amount of anxiety I've had my whole life from masking versus my children's inability to mask and their comparative lack of stress... It's a double edged sword, and difficult to navigate. I'm so happy to see the world becoming more accepting and accommodating towards high functioning autism and the amazing things we have to offer.
@NaomisFoundation
@NaomisFoundation 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr Oyalo for healing my son from autism. And I want to share about him to every one. His herbs has made my son verbal and Improve in social skills
@nverted-dynamo
@nverted-dynamo 3 ай бұрын
"Poor at masking" sounds like they're living their best lives. If more people unmask, then fewer will have to feel obligated to do so.
@darkchipz3016
@darkchipz3016 Жыл бұрын
I have high functioning autism and anxiety.Sometimes I scare to have eye contact because it makes me feel uncomfortable and giving me anxiety.I love to make EDM music becuase it gives me comfortable. Thanks for the video Connor!
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
I also saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZbin. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@tinyking11
@tinyking11 Жыл бұрын
I’m neurotypical and I absolutely hate eye contact as well. You aren’t alone. ❤️
@PlusVK22
@PlusVK22 Жыл бұрын
Well if it makes you feel better, eye contact with mammals can be a sign of aggression so it makes sense to feel uncomfortable with it. If you stare at humans or any mammal, it's confrontational. People are not supposed to make too much eye contact with you, if they do then they're just rude. Even in a conversation, you're supposed to look away sometimes, not make eye contact square on the entire time. Looking away is a sign of respect. That's why a dog that respects its owner/pack will look away from eye contact for the most part.
@ElaineWalker
@ElaineWalker Жыл бұрын
Wow what a perfect kid. I especially love how Conner seems comfortable in his skin talking about autism positively. Most adults with autism are like “Woe is me..” I personally love being autistic and realize all of the down sides have only to do with the rest of the world not understanding yet.
@Black.Sabbath
@Black.Sabbath Жыл бұрын
Woe not whoa 😂
@NaomisFoundation
@NaomisFoundation 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr Oyalo for healing my son from autism. And I want to share about him to every one. His herbs has made my son verbal and Improve in social skills
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@nichola9733
@nichola9733 Ай бұрын
Thank you, Connor, for being so strong, brave and vulnerable to make this video. And thank you, dad, for facilitating. It was really helpful for me.
@alongthenarrowroad8854
@alongthenarrowroad8854 11 ай бұрын
Connor reminds me of my identical twin boys. They articulate their words so well and are intelligent beyond’s their years. My twins were diagnosed at 3 years old. I just found your channel and it reminds me im not the only one walking the autism journey with my children and family ❤️
@nicoleyap6070
@nicoleyap6070 Жыл бұрын
Such a smart and handsome young man. He is so well-spoken. I wish him well. He will do great things in life.
@franciastone5048
@franciastone5048 Жыл бұрын
Connor is so smart. So articulate.
@reidnlorikincaid9683
@reidnlorikincaid9683 3 ай бұрын
You are an amazing person. Thank you for teaching folks about how the world is for you. My daughter also has autism "light". Videos like yours help her feel less alone. Rock on! You inspire me.
@StarfishSunsets
@StarfishSunsets 3 күн бұрын
What an extremely bright and inquisitive, articulate, and well spoken, young man!! Although we all have our strengths and weaknesses, those who are gifted and blessed with extraordinary minds like this will go on to be the experts of the future
@yeshuahamashiach4780
@yeshuahamashiach4780 Жыл бұрын
What a smart boy. He is very blessed to have such good parents. Having "light autism" myself, I couldn't have explained everything he said any better.
@Lisa-zu8fi
@Lisa-zu8fi Жыл бұрын
Ian, Connor and Alistair are such lovely, intelligent, charming young men and these videos are delightful. I was diagnosed this year at 53. It's been a struggle but this channel both helps and warms my heart. Thank you for sharing your family with us.
@lanefaulhaber875
@lanefaulhaber875 Жыл бұрын
I feel like you helped him get through this video really well. It would be hard for any kid to stand in front of a camera and respond to questions, but you helped him to be clear and make sure what he was saying was getting across! Thanks for sharing these videos 👍🏼👍🏼
@Muhluri
@Muhluri 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience Connor! Dad, you’re doing a great job!
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@jerrysmith715
@jerrysmith715 Жыл бұрын
Many thanks for sharing your world with me. I learn so much in understanding my 3 year old’s world. This help me a lot in relating to my son and helping him. Great job Connor.
@anders95
@anders95 Жыл бұрын
He is awesome! I wish him all the best in his future. I'm 27 and I haven't realised until recently what my "problem" was. Great to see such a supportive dad😊
@curiousbystander9193
@curiousbystander9193 Жыл бұрын
maybe your diet?
@latinasawntop
@latinasawntop Жыл бұрын
@@curiousbystander9193???? What is wrong with you
@curiousbystander9193
@curiousbystander9193 Жыл бұрын
@@latinasawntop I am 100% confident gut biome influences dna expression.....and gut biome is influenced from pre-birth (mother's biome), and inherited at birth through direct biome transfer through exposure... SO yes, everyone on the broad category of "spectrum" should be on an organic, low acid diet, free of preservatives, fillers, gums,, etc..., and most importantly, low refined sugar. Anyhow....as society becomes more on the spectrum from the food it eats, get back to me on this.....but please, do your own observations. Bad dIet run in families stronger than genes.
@mparagames
@mparagames Жыл бұрын
@@curiousbystander9193 what? One cannot "become" autistic, they are either born autistic, or they are never gonna be autistic at all, lol Has literally nothing to do with diet
@curiousbystander9193
@curiousbystander9193 Жыл бұрын
@@mparagames wait and see... it is the gut biome of the mother, whom shares it with the child, then subsequent diet factors, that dictates most of these developmental delays now being called asd... so yes, true asd, if there is such a thing now that it's been "spectrumized" would be genetic, not congenital. AGain, diet and biome dictate dna expression..... even if that's hard for you to believe.
@bball3048mm
@bball3048mm 9 ай бұрын
This video popped up on my recommended list of videos. I am so glad such channels exist. I too am autistic (HF). I am 44 years old and didn't suspect to be autistic until 7-9 years ago. I told some of the folks who knew me ever since I was young and they totally agreed that I have many symptoms of Asperger's more specifically. Good luck to you and your entire family.
@NaomisFoundation
@NaomisFoundation 6 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate, recite alphabets and numbers
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@vio3366
@vio3366 Ай бұрын
That's so interesting to know. I'm in my early 20s and I think I may have autism. But getting a diagnosis is expensive.
@nataliasafarova6491
@nataliasafarova6491 4 ай бұрын
What a sweet and intelligent boy, you've got! Thanks for making this video! And you're doing a great job!
@anne-sophielahlou2312
@anne-sophielahlou2312 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Connor you are another version of my son looking a lot like you physically and phychologically, and myself at your age! I transmitted my Aspie world to my son and I’m proud of it. Take care
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
I also saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZbin. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@lorrainepigeon2873
@lorrainepigeon2873 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for these insights Connor. As the mom to a high-functioning autistic child (who is now an adult studying electrical engineering) , I really appreciate everything you said, your thoughtful explanations. They help me understand my son so much better and love him for who he is. And also help him navigate this world. I wish you all the best Connor. Thank you for your courage and honesty.
@adriannee.1030
@adriannee.1030 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Connor. My grandson is on the spectrum and your video is helping me understand better what he is experiencing and helps me to figure out ways to be more supportive of him in a meaningful way. Thanks to your Dad too, for the videography work. You guys are doing a great service. :D
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@susansilverstream3811
@susansilverstream3811 6 ай бұрын
Great channel, folks! Thank you to Connor and his dad for this candid intetview! You're a beautiful and kind and loving family and you are helping people! 🌟✨💜🌹💜✨🌟
@christinad4432
@christinad4432 Жыл бұрын
Wow! He reminds me soooo much of my daughter. She's 15 and high functioning autistic also. She's so smart and such an amazing artist. She also won Math Student of the Year at her school last year. She doesnt allow her autism to get in her way. She actually says she likes having the type of autism that she has because it's like a "super power." (her words not mine) She can hyper focus on things and once she learns something she never forgets it. She's an awesome kid and I wish you guys lived in Maryland because I know our kids would get along very well.
@chessgame00
@chessgame00 Жыл бұрын
umm can conner have the mic back please, lady... ok, thank you...🙄 🤦‍♀️
@juliak.9390
@juliak.9390 11 ай бұрын
@Mp truly? In every single comment you hide your little add- phrase? Please stop spamming. Nobody needs "saving from the spectrum". This is just plain false and hurting information about HeRBs...
@agoosewithinternet
@agoosewithinternet 10 ай бұрын
@@chessgame00 Let them talk about their kid, and frankly it's none of your concern.
@junipercosmic6841
@junipercosmic6841 5 ай бұрын
​@@chessgame00What an unnecessary b**chy comment.. ew. It's called relating and sharing. You see that the uploader hearted her comment, right? So give the facepalm to yourself maybe. 🙃
@20Jandy10
@20Jandy10 15 күн бұрын
@nancykimbrough4988
@nancykimbrough4988 Жыл бұрын
Good job Conner. My teenage son has " light autism" also. School very stressful for him and me as well knowing what he had to deal with ,but he is the most wonderful child in the world to me. Very proud of you
@NaomisFoundation
@NaomisFoundation 6 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate, recite alphabets and numbers
@davidhanifin2692
@davidhanifin2692 11 ай бұрын
The amount of insight Connor has is refreshing & admirable. A great visual video for people to understand the basics of ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorder).
@gardeningdianne
@gardeningdianne 9 ай бұрын
Thank you Connor for your video. I have learnt much more about Autism and this is going to help us look after the lads with Autism that we work with in our Men's Shed in Adelaide, Australia. Keep up the great work Connor.
@TheTruthIsGonnaHurt
@TheTruthIsGonnaHurt Жыл бұрын
Conner, thank you!! 🙏🙏🙏 You give me hope for my own 2 year old son. I am terrified. When he goes into his loops, I feel as if I lost him. He is non verbal and I want nothing more then to have a dialogue with him. Thank you so much for giving me a glimpse into his world.
@skymeadow7762
@skymeadow7762 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Conner! My grandson is autistic and I have a close bond with him. Sending Love, keep working on your Space Dreams,. We need you.
@loekverheijden2499
@loekverheijden2499 Жыл бұрын
He reminds me of my 10 old nephew. I discovered about my autism at 33. My little nephew grows up in a different time, where he gets to understand himself so early on and his talents can flourish because he gets to learn in ways that fit him. Just like this kid, he can already express how he works and what his needs are in a way that it took me 33 years to learn about myself. He is 10 and tells me that he can tell we are so much alike. It warms my heart to see
@emwarner6650
@emwarner6650 Жыл бұрын
Hello Connor. My name is Emma and I live in England. My son is 16 years old and has autism, he is what you call 'Light Autistic ' too and he does well at school. He does find it very hard to make friends through. Thank you for making the video, it's so good to hear different perspectives. X
@NaomisFoundation
@NaomisFoundation 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr Oyalo for healing my son from autism. And I want to share about him to every one. His herbs has made my son verbal and Improve in social skills
@kevinmulligan2646
@kevinmulligan2646 Жыл бұрын
Hi Conner. I am also a high functioning Autistic. I'm 68 now, and have had a great life that's been full of adventure. I know you have many great experiences ahead of you. Glad your video came up on my feed.
@totaldj1779
@totaldj1779 7 ай бұрын
Hello Kevin, mind sharing some of your great adventures?
@GloriososMomentos
@GloriososMomentos Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Conner; you did great at clarifying. My child just got diagnosed with ADHD, On High Spectrum function, Sensory Disorder, and the list continues. I am trying to learn everything that I can. Thank you, Dad, for posting these videos.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
I also saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZbin. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@melcatz
@melcatz 9 ай бұрын
You’re such an inspiration, Connor! I hope my 4yo son will be as good and kind like you ❤
@charlottedouglass8869
@charlottedouglass8869 8 ай бұрын
Very smart young man! Conner, thank you for sharing about your autism. It helps the rest of us that don’t know much about your problems to understand. I appreciate your courage.
@kerstinklenovsky239
@kerstinklenovsky239 Жыл бұрын
I am 55 and was diagnosed with high functioning autism / Aspergers syndrome 10 years ago. Whilst I recognize all the things that you are talking about, I must say that I am very grateful that I didn't grow up 'wearing the spectrum T-shirt', as it were. It helped me to work harder to overcome the typical challenges we guys struggle with. I became a teacher and an expert at masking. Having said this, receiving my diagnose at 45 was a game changer and a joy. Today I proudly 'wear my Asperger T-shirt' and celebrate being autistic. I work with kids like you and they are my best friends.
@inbornwanderlust1076
@inbornwanderlust1076 Жыл бұрын
I'm 42 and just found out I have Asperger's. I understand and agree with your point of feeling joy by knowing now. I feel like so much finally makes sense.
@clicheguevara5282
@clicheguevara5282 Жыл бұрын
You’re lucky! I didn’t get diagnosed until my late 30s. I’m one of the many who developed severe C-PTSD from being isolated and made to feel that something was “wrong” with me for my whole life. If I had known it was just autism, I would have been able to cope MUCH better. Living life constantly masking will destroy your mental health - especially if you don’t even know that you’re masking, let alone why. Ideally, I would have found out as a late teen or young 20 something. Growing up undiagnosed definitely made me tougher and more resilient. ..but it also broke me eventually. I’m not saying you’re wrong btw. I 100% understand what you’re saying and it’s totally valid. It’s a spectrum and everyone’s different! I’m just offering a different perspective.
@kerstinklenovsky239
@kerstinklenovsky239 Жыл бұрын
@@clicheguevara5282 I totally agree with you. Thank you for seeing my point, though. 🤩
@juanmanuelmoramontes3883
@juanmanuelmoramontes3883 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, everyone's experience is different and valid, I personally think that it depends on how much it has affected someone's life, sometimes people can be cruel and bully you, and trying but not getting the results you wanted can be detrimental to mental health and can lead to the appearance of Depression/Anxiety, so yeah, it's not as easy in all situations but is good some people can overcome this through their own will.
@peterbelanger4094
@peterbelanger4094 Жыл бұрын
I'm 52, diagnosed in 2003 with aspergers. I feel much the same way you do. I think too much special attention is being put on it, like a t-shit as you say. I think possible too much focus is on the kids, and too little is paid on us adults, to learn from our experience. As an adult 'on the spectrum' as they say, I find it extremely difficult to find any social support or find professionals who can even treat me. It's all about the kids. over 25 with autism?.... sorry, you are now on your own. Nobody even knows how to treat you.
@barbiegirl12340
@barbiegirl12340 Жыл бұрын
What you do is awsome Connor, because you help a parent like me understand better my own son. He is not as verbal as you are so he can't always explain what he is going through. So by talking about your experience, you help him although everybody is different , and there is "ligher" forms of autism , there are still things in commun.
@trinityisnumberone
@trinityisnumberone 4 ай бұрын
Your son is gorgeous. 100% autism is a gift! My son is just like yours. You left out the greatest gift=creativity! Thinking in pictures! These beautiful minds are truly creative geniuses and can see in alternative ways most people cannot. Embrace this uniqueness. My love, no need to mask or hide your autism, be proud. God made you this way on purpose, as He told me about my son. He does not make mistakes. I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Marvelous are Your works, And that my soul knows very well. ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭139‬:‭14‬ ‭NKJV‬‬ ❤
@autumn5852
@autumn5852 2 ай бұрын
Masking isn’t usually a decision, we just do it as a survival mechanism. Like he said, it’s like breathing, it’s don’t automatically. As we get older we can decide to learn how to unmask but it comes with great risks. We can loose our whole families and friends. But after so many years masking, some of us have no choice but to unmask and loose all our friends and family.
@billkress2606
@billkress2606 3 ай бұрын
Great job, Connor!!! Home is definitely the best place. You don't have to be an actor, and you can lose yourself in everything that interests you. I've been "acting" for 60 years and I didn't even realize it. Now that I found out about my "light autism", it all makes perfect sense. Thanks for being brave enough to do this video!!! 🤗
@samleon7121
@samleon7121 Жыл бұрын
Thank you both, watching Connor on this video feels in a small way, what the near future may hold for my high functioning son. Thank you Connor from my son and I.
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
I also saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZbin. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@therocknrollgamer9572
@therocknrollgamer9572 Жыл бұрын
I am a 14 year old boy from Ireland with Autism. Being autistic is something I prefer not to take notice of. However, being autistic is very annoying as I easily have issues understanding people, issues with school, etc. Thanks for this awesome video. It helps me relate to you guys, and it helps me realise I am not alone (Even though I have friends with autism too).
@NaomisFoundation
@NaomisFoundation 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr Oyalo for healing my son from autism. And I want to share about him to every one. His herbs has made my son verbal and Improve in social skills
@karenwrona3251
@karenwrona3251 29 күн бұрын
love this dads compassion and respect! he’s lucky to have you
@KnotZMilky
@KnotZMilky 5 ай бұрын
I also have Autism and everything that Connor said is so relatable! I hope he succeeds at whatever he does
@k71r
@k71r Жыл бұрын
I’m 13, and I also have high functioning autism. I’ve noticed that a lot of people, especially kids who have it tend to be a lot more mature and open minded. It feels good when you grow up faster, but I wish I had a better childhood.
@jeenasohaily5568
@jeenasohaily5568 Жыл бұрын
My son is 4 he has autism but there is nothing wrong with autism it’s just brain work in different way than other people in my idea if I am not wrong , but I love my kid whatever he is . But believe me you guys more special than us 😌
@tastypymp1287
@tastypymp1287 3 ай бұрын
​@@jeenasohaily5568No, it is a disorder. It's an inefficient way of mapping and navigating reality.
@tastypymp1287
@tastypymp1287 3 ай бұрын
​@@jeenasohaily5568No, they're not 'more special'. Very odd claim.
@williamvasquezvasquez9878
@williamvasquezvasquez9878 Жыл бұрын
Conner answered your questions like a mature adult👍! Those questions were excellent👍! And Conner, you’re very welcome and I’m glad I subscribed🙂! Thanks for sharing with us👍! Love you all and God bless✝️🙏🏻❤️🙂🌈!
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
I also saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZbin. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@cristinazampiero7262
@cristinazampiero7262 10 ай бұрын
I was totally captivated by this gorgeous and amazing kid. Bravo dad!
@jamiesaari
@jamiesaari 7 ай бұрын
This video was soooo incredibly helpful! You have helped another young person more than you will ever know. 🙏☺️💕
@naruhinastarr
@naruhinastarr Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video! I’ve been stumbling upon your videos for a couple of weeks now. My son is 3 year s old and he saw a child development pediatrician. He’s suspecting mild ASD but he also wasn’t sure, so we have a neuro coming up with a psychologist in less than 2 weeks. My son has a speech delay and ever since he’s been attending speech therapy since the beginning of this year, he’s made progress. His receptive language skills have jumped, we are still struggling with the expressive part but he’s definitely gotten better. I’m trying to learn as much as I can and how I can help him, also what to expect, so thank you so much for your videos! Thank you to Conner and you!! :)
@bolinhong2598
@bolinhong2598 Жыл бұрын
I also saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZbin. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@abracadabraneptune9116
@abracadabraneptune9116 Жыл бұрын
Love this!!! My daughter says she is 6D not Autistic 😀 I believe this children deal with this realm different they are so brilliant and on a whole different plan that what we perceive as normal. School is hard because they are quick. I really wish there was a school only for Autism diagnosis children. I will do my best to make sure that happens one day soon. May The Most High keep us stronger daily.
@willpham6104
@willpham6104 Жыл бұрын
You are a wonderful human being, keep the spirit up. My little niece who is now 6 also has this, and it breaks my heart sometimes, but I know she will do great things and be able to do well in life.
@NaomisFoundation
@NaomisFoundation 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr Oyalo for healing my son from autism. And I want to share about him to every one. His herbs has made my son verbal and Improve in social skills
@daniyellpayne9033
@daniyellpayne9033 5 ай бұрын
I love this conversation. My son is four years old with autism and does all these things. Connor explained about engagement with things that interested him in coordination. Connor for president! God speed. You're fantastic, like my baby! :) Thank you again for the video.
@oksanashmyr7928
@oksanashmyr7928 Жыл бұрын
Such a smart and lovely boy! Thank you for sharing your experience, this video will help a lot of people to understand more about autism. It is definitely helping me to understand my son who is autistic but can’t explain his inner world yet. Thank you!😊 Wish you all the best!
@luckycharmranch
@luckycharmranch Жыл бұрын
Hi Connor, I’m 58 and late diagnosed female. I too have Autism, Dyspraxia, Dyslexia, Dyscalculia, and ADHD combined, and Sensory Processing Disorder. You are correct, stemming is natural automatic thing, and I appreciate your video. I do the whole swaying thing too, along with a lot of other stems as it’s just the way I am. I decided to allow myself to stem in public, as it helps my nervous system stay calm and keeps down burn out which is an unhealthy thing for autistics, especially as we age. You are a bright young man, and we all welcome you to the autistic community. I am sure you will do great things, and become very successful. BTW, I’m a level 2, and if I can be successful then I know you can be too! My secret was to do what I was good at, and hire people to do what I wasn’t good at. Your family seems to be very supportive and understanding, and that is a fantastic thing!! Sending you well wishes and inspiration to continue to be your authentic self. Never, ever be afraid to be who you are, as there is nothing wrong with being autistic. It’s just a difference in wiring in our brains. If it wasn’t for people like us, who think and perceive the world differently, there would never be new ideas, out of the box thinkers with new and creative ideas, and inventions. Keep shining bright, and showing the world that autism is a Bonus to the world, not a negative!!! I appreciate you, and applaud your strength and wisdom.. keep going, and keep educating the world! All the best to you and your family, my fellow AutiKin.
@kroo07
@kroo07 Жыл бұрын
I'm almost 70 and only learned a few years ago that I was autistic. I fortunately stumbled into engineering where quite a high percentage are autistic, most without realising it. Had a great career and family. Knowing my condition mostly helped my wife understand me better.
@NaomisFoundation
@NaomisFoundation 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Dr Oyalo for healing my son from autism. And I want to share about him to every one. His herbs has made my son verbal and Improve in social skills
@taraz2779
@taraz2779 8 ай бұрын
Conner you are a rock star! I sent this to my 21 year old son who we are just getting diagnosed as conner reminded me so much of him. Thank you buddy!
@philipphilip2174
@philipphilip2174 Жыл бұрын
My grandson has high functioning autism. It's helpful to hear you share information about yourself for me to better understand my grandson. Thank you Connor !
@sindyhope9157
@sindyhope9157 Жыл бұрын
Hi Connor. Wow, what an interesting video you made. That takes guts, well done young man! I've learnt so much from you and wanted to say thank you. Well done, You are very intelligent and brave and I'm sure you will help many people this way. 😁
@user-kk4zv8zq3l
@user-kk4zv8zq3l 3 ай бұрын
My child was so playful and verv interactive since 1year of using doctor Oyalo herbs ….and now he is verbal and also improve in social skills, he can now communicate
@clicheguevara5282
@clicheguevara5282 Жыл бұрын
Wow dude. I was JUST like you at your age. You’re so very lucky that you got diagnosed young and have a support system around you!
@embuscadochifreinexplicaca5960
@embuscadochifreinexplicaca5960 Жыл бұрын
Yup
@keni3527
@keni3527 Жыл бұрын
Fr. Figure it out at 34 😂. Would've been useful early on.
@clicheguevara5282
@clicheguevara5282 Жыл бұрын
@@keni3527 I found out I’m autistic at 39. It would have been VERY helpful information at 18 or 19 though. Lol
@keni3527
@keni3527 Жыл бұрын
And It's kind of funny it took me this long.
@thismyytbhandle
@thismyytbhandle 11 ай бұрын
This is great content, thank you so much. People being undiagnosed causes SO much hurt both to themselves and later on the people they depend on them (I think my mom might be undiagnosed). And then, I know people that have been diagnosed early on and yet have felt (scratch that, they HAVE BEEN) so discriminated against, it's very heartbreaking. So awareness and acceptance, which is what this channel brings about, is SO great. Thanks again.
@user-oz7hc8gu5z
@user-oz7hc8gu5z Жыл бұрын
Thank you Connor so much for sharing. My grandson is autistic so you're helping me to understand him better.
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