Lets Talk about Dating

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Lizzie Velasquez

Lizzie Velasquez

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@jacqueline.musumece
@jacqueline.musumece 7 жыл бұрын
I am 29 years old and I have not had a boyfriend or a date or a kiss. Lizzie, you have no idea how much i need a friend like you to talk about all that.
@jacqueline.musumece
@jacqueline.musumece 7 жыл бұрын
Keylow 89. Thank you for your understanding. I would like we can be friends.
@livelife1422
@livelife1422 7 жыл бұрын
Keylow 89 I'm 18 and I'm not allowed to date, but tbh I'm just not ready
@jesuslovesyou534
@jesuslovesyou534 6 жыл бұрын
Jacqueline Jacqueline I just turned 30....im a woman, a very good lookin one for what people say, and just like u, still havent find my man.... but takin into account that it was right in my twenties when a ton of challenges faced me and my family......then it is just a natural consequence of that......now everythin is estabilizing a lil more......so now i can hopefully have time for that aspect of my life.....however, i can tell u that GODs Love, will always make u feel absolutely complete.....so that when we look or find ur man, we r sure we acrually are in love with him, and not just with the void he fills......God Bless u and all the best from Monterrey, Mex! :)
@ChristheCEO1
@ChristheCEO1 6 жыл бұрын
Jesus Loves You God does not exist
@still_becoming
@still_becoming 6 жыл бұрын
29 too and I never had a serious boyfriend ! We can talk if you wish
@exoticowl5564
@exoticowl5564 7 жыл бұрын
I hope your future husband is as sweet and kind hearted as you are 😁😊
@alyssarose3880
@alyssarose3880 5 жыл бұрын
So kind hearted to want people to feel sorry for you. OKKKKK
@curisoul4661
@curisoul4661 4 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@ookipuki
@ookipuki 4 жыл бұрын
@@alyssarose3880 what are you even talking about ?
@thatskai3070
@thatskai3070 4 жыл бұрын
Alyssa Rose rude
@martinmedina9174
@martinmedina9174 4 жыл бұрын
Her future husband is gonna have to be blind unfortunately
@MyHellothere123
@MyHellothere123 7 жыл бұрын
Hey Lizzie, I can relate dangerously close to this lol. I'm 27 and never dated or had a girlfriend yet. All my brothers have dated/are dating and it does make me feel bad from time to time. Sometimes I wonder if it'll ever happen for me. But for what it's worth I would totally date you.
@MyHellothere123
@MyHellothere123 7 жыл бұрын
I Would if I could lol Lizzie will you go out with me?!
@clarawagner2031
@clarawagner2031 7 жыл бұрын
I met my first serious boyfriend at 29. cheer up
@steampunkmagpie777
@steampunkmagpie777 4 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah
@CynfulExotics
@CynfulExotics 7 жыл бұрын
I didn't date until I was 28 years old. I was the one that no guy ever showed interest in and I got to see everyone younger than me date and get married. I always felt something was wrong with me but then out of no where my future husband showed up when I was done with looking for "the one." I'm 33 now and have been married 4 years in December 13th! Don't ever give up ladies and gentlemen!
@Mysteriousheadlines
@Mysteriousheadlines 7 жыл бұрын
Cyn Pet Vlogs this is such an inspiring story. Thank you for sharing. I am 23 and never been on a date before or had a serious boyfriend. I wonder when I will find someone of if it will happen but I trust god has it all in control. Your story truly made me smile and believe that it can happen for me.
@CynfulExotics
@CynfulExotics 7 жыл бұрын
Aww so glad my story helped. It really does happen when you think it won't and in the most oddest of places!
@ledaswan9964
@ledaswan9964 6 жыл бұрын
I want updates! :)
@ivylouise418
@ivylouise418 6 жыл бұрын
😊
@suesheification
@suesheification 6 жыл бұрын
Cyn Pet Vlogs same except he never showed up for me. Now I'm 38 an accepting the fact that ill probably be alone for ever. Don't tell me i wont because I've heard it all before. Now its just a question of how do i make my life meaningful despite this.
@mstarburst
@mstarburst 6 жыл бұрын
I've been single my whole life, I've never even tried dating as I knew no man would ever find me attractive. It's been difficult and upsetting at times, but I decided it's easier to just accept my place in this world, it is what it is.
@cattrickie
@cattrickie 3 жыл бұрын
you will find somebody someday! and even if you don't, your dating life does not define who you are
@herbwatanabe117
@herbwatanabe117 2 ай бұрын
You would be surprised what men like.
@rosevanille317
@rosevanille317 7 жыл бұрын
I am almost 25, I never had a boyfriend. Never kissed. Never held hands. For so many reasons, both personal and familial... I was never in a rush to find "the one", but time flies SO FAST sometimes I am afraid I will get old without knowing love. I already feel like I have missed on so much things in my life... Sometimes it makes me sad. Other times, I wonder if love is even a thing for me. Just picturing myself in love feels odd, like I am undatable. Anway I really love that you talked about that and oh I wish I had a friend like you. Take care
@garyallen1473
@garyallen1473 4 жыл бұрын
Lizzy is a great inspiration for me, and none of us are undatable, it just takes some of us reaching a different age or time in our lives when the stars just align in the right way for us. I used to get sad too, thinking everyone else had kids but me, everyone had everything else but me, and all I did was work and watch TV every day. Now I just learned to love the life I have and if that means no kids and being alone I have come to accept that and am still happy. Love is a thing for you, don't give up, just enjoy yourself and let things happen for you while you are living your best life.
@rudy1999
@rudy1999 4 жыл бұрын
Did u find bf? It has been 2 years now
@jellybean8040
@jellybean8040 7 жыл бұрын
Lizzy, I love you and i have followed you for many years. I am 65 yrs young and would like to give you some advice. When i was 32 I gave up looking for that special one.Once I stopped looking it happened😍.It was amazing ,unexpected. My point is , you will find him when you least expect. He is the man of my dreams,really. We have been married 32 yrs with two grown boys. I was blessed and you will also. You have a great heart and one day he will be there like it was for me. God Bless You... 💖 Julie
@skindare9808
@skindare9808 6 жыл бұрын
You are not young
@crystalbeth1400
@crystalbeth1400 5 жыл бұрын
Skindare why did you feel the need to post this? Your life must be very empty :(
@skindare9808
@skindare9808 5 жыл бұрын
@@crystalbeth1400 What is wrong with what I said? We get old, thats the truth, thats Life, and then we die. So its ridiculous to say that Im 90 years YOUNG
@basicpenguin3844
@basicpenguin3844 5 жыл бұрын
@@skindare9808 its humour bro.
@ShahW
@ShahW 4 жыл бұрын
@CVK lmao I agree 😂
@KaylaTalksBooks
@KaylaTalksBooks 7 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this so much. I'm gonna be 24 in a couple of days and I've dated but I've never had a serious relationship. It kind of makes me feel like crap about myself a lot of the time. Especially with my brother and sister always being in relationships, and my brothers four years younger than me. I'm also so resentful of my friends and family who are in relationships, I try to be supportive but it sucks when it's not happening to me. I'm trying to work on worrying about bettering myself and not focusing on finding a significant other now. I like to think when it's meant to happen it will happen.
@Jenks-xo2xj
@Jenks-xo2xj 7 жыл бұрын
24 is so young! don't stress about it, theres someone out there for everyone, and if not there is still friends and family for support and love. my advice would be the exact thing you are doing, focus on yourself! live life and enjoy it while you are completely untied from anyone, and have a ton of fun! work on yourself, do things for you and be selfish about that, take yourself on dates and treat yourself to gifts. I never had any guys interested in me and I was totally down until I did that, and I was so fucking happy and so much fun, and as a silver lining though more men became interested in me, and now I look back it was because I was happy and confident and was living free. (ovb the men being attracted thing was NOT the main goal and was certainly not the reason I did that) take care, sorry for rambling lol
@Sunflower_Cats
@Sunflower_Cats 7 жыл бұрын
Lizzie, never give up on love. Love can manifest in so many different ways. We all want that special love. And few are lucky to have it. You are a blessed woman.
@loslosxoxo8345
@loslosxoxo8345 7 жыл бұрын
My sister is still single right now and shes 30 this year, she have suitors before but she never settle to a guy she don't like. A lot was saying she would grow old alone because of her standards but she always reply that if its the plan of the Lord let it be than to fall into wrong situations ( cheating husbands, Lazy partners, and become battered wife) She said any woman don't need man to ratify their existence.
@dinaamjad9854
@dinaamjad9854 5 жыл бұрын
Mix Fab your sister has a very nice mindest. Respect
@digitalic3
@digitalic3 7 жыл бұрын
I pray for my future wife too. I made all the same mistakes. God's timing is perfect, where I get in trouble is when I'm impatient or trying to stay in control. I also have a health condition and have had some success, and I find myself questioning the girls intentions. So far I've stuck out over and over. If you want what you never had, do what you've never done. For me that means loving myself, trusting God, and being patient.
@connieconnie7507
@connieconnie7507 4 жыл бұрын
Yes be patient..I'm sure God has a good wife waiting for you in the future
@xqueenx1319
@xqueenx1319 7 жыл бұрын
You deserve all the good that comes to you! You have a wonderful and positive attitude that inspires me!
@Bruh-dn2wg
@Bruh-dn2wg 7 жыл бұрын
I'm at the age where all my friends like to date and I feel left out but I know one day I'll find the right guy who will actually love me for who I am and maybe I wont find them but they'll find me. Lizzie, ur doing good in this world and u inspire people so keep going.
@garyallen1473
@garyallen1473 4 жыл бұрын
In high school I was bullied and didn't even go to prom or anything, it wasn't until college that I was able to gain a fraction of the confidence that you have and begin to go out socially. You are amazing.
@lakshmisymonerae8414
@lakshmisymonerae8414 4 жыл бұрын
I’m 28 too and I feel like this is such a strange transition! We’re still technically young but thinking more long term and on a more serious level. The tolerance for shallow interactions is low so going into new situations the mindset is totally different than it was when we were younger.
@williameudy633
@williameudy633 6 жыл бұрын
Praying for you and your future husband. I know he’ll be the happiest man on earth.
@شهلةالعيون-ر7ث
@شهلةالعيون-ر7ث 7 жыл бұрын
I felt so much suddenness in your voice.. Darling, you're inspiring and awesome! So the ONE for you will absolutely be special and unique like u. He must share the same sense of humanity that u have and the same shining and glowing personality
@egyptianqueen4007
@egyptianqueen4007 4 жыл бұрын
I think we need to stop feeding people this lie about everyone will someday find their soulmate when that is just not realistic. It does nothing but cause people to get disappointed when they don't find their partner. Some people will die alone and that is a fact.
@egyptianqueen4007
@egyptianqueen4007 4 жыл бұрын
@@DuchessTheAristocat Yeah it is unfortunately.
@rosie6
@rosie6 Жыл бұрын
Damn stop calling me out Bruh
@東雅樹-v5b
@東雅樹-v5b 4 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Nirosha101
@Nirosha101 7 жыл бұрын
Lizzie you sound so mature....I love it. ..I don't understand the whole obsession with dating especially amongst teens and people who are not even ready for marriage. I liked what you said about praying for a husband and hoping to meet him whenever the time is right.....people who start dating early end up going thru heartbreaks and a lot of wasted time...I'm 28 too and have never had a bf, and I'm glad I've spent a lot of my quality time with friends who I'm still in touch with vs with bfs who would have been my exes and basically strangers at this point...so basically dating in my opinion is a huge waste of time until one is ready for a lifelong commitment/marriage ❤️😊😊😊
@ShockResistor
@ShockResistor 6 ай бұрын
Dating helps you learn what you like and dislike in a partner. It's practice for handling conflict and such. Lessons learned dating are valuable. I'm in my 40's, not a traditionalist, never married, am friends with my ex's for many yrs.
@RoosaM88
@RoosaM88 6 ай бұрын
@@ShockResistorI agree that dating might help with things such as preparing to handle conflicts with another person but then again, you don’t need to be in a romantic relationship necessarily to learn valuable social skills. I do know my likes and dislikes very well, despite not having ever been in a committed long-term relationship. Also, I’ve observed how there’s people who have so much dating and relationship experience who suck at relationships of any kind. They never seem to learn from their mistakes.
@demarcusroberts7024
@demarcusroberts7024 7 жыл бұрын
Lizzie - you rock and the way you allow everyday people into your life ( like the real deal, not scripted life) helps more people than you will ever know. You are an inspiration because you chose to be inspiring!!
@westindiesgalfruits2335
@westindiesgalfruits2335 4 жыл бұрын
You get prettier and prettier each video baby girl ♥️♥️
@thynguyen911
@thynguyen911 7 жыл бұрын
It's like you've been living in my brain and just revealed my thoughts to the world! I'm 21 years old and I have never had a serious relationship. I have a best friend at the same age who hasn't dated before either and she just has a boyfriend recently and that makes me so happy for her and at the same time pitiful to myself. You're such an inspiration Lizzie and I'm truly grateful that you chose to share your thoughts to us and omg THANK YOU!!!!!
@ShockResistor
@ShockResistor 6 ай бұрын
Don't compare yourself to others. You'll have yours.
@avocadotigress3986
@avocadotigress3986 7 жыл бұрын
Your beautiful Lizzie, don't let anyone tell you wrong! Stay true to your self!
@rebekahclarke1154
@rebekahclarke1154 2 жыл бұрын
Same I always wonder about dating because of my looks and comments my mum gave me about my looks ugly and hideous hurendous and more but Lizzie is my inspiration for why I'm still alive today
@meidson12
@meidson12 7 жыл бұрын
Omg. I can't tell you how much this video helped me. I've never dated. I've never had anyone. In high school that really destroyed me. I feel like a failure and a disgusting person because no one wants to be with me, that always makes me so sad. With all my heart, thank you for the advices and sharing your story. You have no idea what this video meant to me. Thank you.
@gabriellabotha240
@gabriellabotha240 7 жыл бұрын
Meidson I know exactly how you feel. Lizzie is an amazing person. She is real encouragement. Let's focus on enjoying life now!
@meidson12
@meidson12 7 жыл бұрын
Gabriella Botha Exactly! Let's enjoy it!
@gabriellabotha240
@gabriellabotha240 7 жыл бұрын
Meidson I hope that this doesn't defeat the purpose of this video - but ... you're really cute though.
@meidson12
@meidson12 6 жыл бұрын
thank you guys! it means a lot
@meidson12
@meidson12 6 жыл бұрын
Fueler wtf dude? u complimented me and then deleted and now you're calling me fag. get help
@fender5247
@fender5247 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate to your story I’m 38 and I’ve never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl before some of my family told me I was too ugly or too stupid to have a girlfriend it has took me many years to overcome that thank you so much for sharing your life with us you are such a inspiration God bless you Lizzie and thank you
@joshkahn9600
@joshkahn9600 7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for opening up to us Lizzie. I've felt the same way countless times. Your sweet heartfelt honesty helped more than you know.
@anatrevino3320
@anatrevino3320 7 жыл бұрын
"Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you the desires of your heart." -Psalm 37:4 ESV
@kaymuziya2534
@kaymuziya2534 4 жыл бұрын
Amen,
@144heartx
@144heartx 4 жыл бұрын
Amen :)
@geraldinereilly5931
@geraldinereilly5931 4 жыл бұрын
@@kaymuziya2534 untrue. Unfortunately 😔
@geraldinereilly5931
@geraldinereilly5931 4 жыл бұрын
@MARY HARTMAN, MARY HARTMAN 47 now. Not true. God left me single. Trust is great until it doesn't amount to anything and then it hurts😟
@Zach-e2j
@Zach-e2j 6 ай бұрын
God is trash
@rosier1135
@rosier1135 7 жыл бұрын
I had a friend that was much less attractive than me but I would hang with her because she had an amazing personality. The guys would ask her out much more often than me. Even though I liked her very much, I still considered my self much more prettier than her but I lacked personality. Later on, my friend help me to develop better personality and confidence. I had to learn how to do that but for her, it was natural and the guys knew that. She's got married first with a very handsome guy.
@unfortunatelyunfortunate
@unfortunatelyunfortunate 2 жыл бұрын
She was most likely prettier than you then.
@monkeybearmax
@monkeybearmax 2 жыл бұрын
@@unfortunatelyunfortunate don’t be daft. Lots of pretty people never get married
@breathinglight144
@breathinglight144 4 ай бұрын
Lizzie sweety, you made me cry. I know this is an older video, but I just watched it now and it really touched my heart. I can't put it into words very well but I just love the way you're thinking about this, with so much hope, faith acceptance, grace and kindness❤ I love what you said about praying that your husband is growing at the same time with you and that your hearts will both be in the right place when you finally meet. And having faith in God's plan. Thank you for sharing, your honesty and vulnerability with us is much appreciated always❤
@msericaplease
@msericaplease 7 жыл бұрын
I didn't have any Romantic experiences at all until I was 22. My current boyfriend of almost 4 years is my first with EVERYTHING. I always felt like I missed out on romantic things when I was a teen but now I don't regret it. I think it's worth the wait in order to have a significant other than loves you for everything you are instead of having flings as a teen.
@msericaplease
@msericaplease 7 жыл бұрын
It's always ok to focus on yourself. Self love first!
@Soviet19171
@Soviet19171 4 жыл бұрын
This helps me a lot, I get very down on myself for "not being good enough." for anyone. but this is a wonderful message and it helps me to keep going! Thank you!
@lynnrose7562
@lynnrose7562 7 жыл бұрын
Never feel that whatever you are comfortable sharing that we would not be interested. Nothing could be further from the truth. Anyone out there would be lucky to be with you.
@KiraPlayer1
@KiraPlayer1 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this Lizzie, you're so inspirational. You've just helped me by watching this video. We all have to be patient and someday our prince will come. Btw I love your hair :3
@hollowayquotes
@hollowayquotes 2 жыл бұрын
Lizzie, I wish I knew you in high school. I was born with Pfeiffer Syndrome, and until adulthood, I didn't know anyone else with a birth defect. On top of that, I was constantly third wheel to "the hot best friend." I'm 33, and have yet to have a girlfriend. Something that helps me is writing stories of my life goals. Writing and reading about my future -- in this case, dates with my girlfriend -- has trained me to expect myself to make it happen.
@sheenagriffith2635
@sheenagriffith2635 11 ай бұрын
You have all the wisdom you need to get through this and youre preaching to the choir. I believe with you that your special one is out there and he wont be one day late.
@KristinNTravis
@KristinNTravis 7 жыл бұрын
I love you
@SunnyRoseShine
@SunnyRoseShine 5 жыл бұрын
Lizzie you are absolutely one of my very favorite people. I would love to talk with you, and hang out. You're not only cute, but absolutely beautiful inside and out. You're wise, kind, funny, honest, intelligent, strong, genuine, and just purely amazing.
@mr.garlicman3134
@mr.garlicman3134 4 жыл бұрын
HELLO LIZZIE, HOW ARE YOU ? I AM GOOD. MY NAME IS MICHAEL. I AM 34 YEARS OLD. AND IN A WHEELCHAIR. I HAVE A DISABILITY CALLED SPINA BIFIDA. I HAVE HAD IT SINCE BIRTH. I CAME ACROSS YOUR CHANNEL AND I AM SO GLAD I STOPPED AND WATCHED YOUR VIDEOS. AS FOR ME DATING I HAVEN'T WENT ON A LOT OF DATES. I AM SINGLE TOO. PEOPLE AVOID ME TO. WHY I AM NOT SURE. YOUR FRIEND, MICHAEL W. HEDRICK
@Jessie_Bee
@Jessie_Bee 4 жыл бұрын
The people who avoid you are obviously missing out on a great friend. It’s their loss; you seem like a very nice person to be around 😊
@mr.garlicman3134
@mr.garlicman3134 4 жыл бұрын
@@Jessie_Bee Thank you. I JUST SUBSCRIBED TO YOUR KZbin CHANNEL
@Jessie_Bee
@Jessie_Bee 4 жыл бұрын
Michael Hedrick Aw thanks Michael 😄 I subbed to you too! I see that you sing on your channel which is awesome! Thank you for sharing your voice and good energy with the world 😊
@mr.garlicman3134
@mr.garlicman3134 4 жыл бұрын
@@Jessie_Bee THANK YOU. I DO SING BUT NOT PROFESSIONALLY. I NEVER HAD A SINGING LESSON EITHER. JUST MUSIC CLASS IN ELEMENTARY SCHOOL. YOUR FRIEND, MICHAEL W. HEDRICK
@babylal5i
@babylal5i 4 жыл бұрын
I don't get why would people avoid others I mean... ???... Hope God will give You Lost of wonderful people
@sarahcasey7172
@sarahcasey7172 5 ай бұрын
Her bubbly personality and positive energy are what makes her cute and attractive!
@FurbleBurble
@FurbleBurble 6 ай бұрын
I am 6 years late to this video. I am also new to your channel. I have been binge-watching new and old videos of yours over the last couple days. It takes a lot of courage to make a video like this and share what you have shared. You are such an amazing woman. I would so happily take you out on a date if I could. You are such a beautiful joy.
@Cherrybliss9XP
@Cherrybliss9XP 7 жыл бұрын
Lizzie!! Girl, you are such an encouragement! Your willingness to be vulnerable is so, so precious and bold (: I'm 21 years old and have never dated. At this point in life I don't want to pursue dating nor do I want to marry because I choose to enjoy life as it continues to run its bipolar course (; If I do happen to meet someone, then that'd be a cool surprise I wouldn't mind experiencing. It would be another blessing to make it count. I personally admire the qualities that make up an independent woman. Why should one aspect be able to summarize one's place in life or be given the power to stigmatize? It's sad how some societal notions have standardized norms on what people "should" have and do by a certain time. Anyone who deviates from the criteria is mostly perceived as someone who's lacking. That in itself is shameful. Society glamourizes the mentality of once we gain x,y,z then we will be satisfied. But the harsh truth is no person, socieconomic status, grade etc can or will bring us a complete satisfaction; one that would not make us want anymore because it alone is more than enough to meet the deepest of deep emptiness/desires. I wanted to say, Lizzie, you've responded beautifully to the struggles you're facing. And that's also when s.w.a.g and living hope comes in. "The 'sun' is risen" Thanks for the share! ~nothing but love from NY!
@AnimeSpotlight
@AnimeSpotlight 7 жыл бұрын
I love your optimism so much! Whenever I have a bad day and see your videos and photos it brightens my day immediately. I'm so glad you exist. I look up to you and hope I can become as awesome and self aware as you are. ❤️
@kamillasilva7302
@kamillasilva7302 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the message Lizzie!! You described my feelings, it was like it was me talking to myself. hahaha One day we gonna find someone! God really knows the right time for everything. By the way, I'm 27 and my birthday is in a month. Kisses and hugs from Brazil!!!
@esradogan112
@esradogan112 7 жыл бұрын
I know exactly how you feel trust me ! Your not alone in feeling this way
@imcharmed4evr
@imcharmed4evr 7 жыл бұрын
Don't think ur alone on not having a special someone, when everyone you know has someone, I've been that solo girl a lot too/currently. My Mom used to be my, plus one at family get togethers, but now she's passed away and I'm now seriously solo. But like u said, EVERYTHING happens for a reason and I'm happy, living life to the fullest! BIG HUGS! ♡
@maryhyland
@maryhyland 7 жыл бұрын
Hi Lizzie, I also tried so hard to make sense of the fact that I wasn't finding anyone out there who I could relate to..someone to feel crazy for and happy about, deep down inside. I also acknowledged that, while I did not need a guy for my happiness, it would still be so nice to have someone in my life. I went through my 20s searching and being disappointed. When I reached 30 I told myself I wasn't going to do that anymore. Like you, I began to pray about it, asking God to please help me find someone who would be good for me, a like-minded soul, someone who would also be my friend. I literally stopped this crazy pursuit and when I least expected it I met someone (he lived in another state) who seemed to fit the bill for me. We managed the long distance and believe it or not, were married nearly five years later. That may seem like a long time but all I'm saying is when it's right and it's your time you will definitely know it! I think you're bright, beautiful and amazing. Best wishes to you!!
@km3543
@km3543 7 жыл бұрын
I just watched Lizzie on Good morning Britain and I had no idea who she was but one look at her and I was like wow she's gorgeous, I heard her story and I was like wow! She's my inspiration! I'm hooked now xoxo love you lizzie💕
@ROCKRATADVENTURETEAM
@ROCKRATADVENTURETEAM 6 ай бұрын
You are much braver than I am. I'm 62 years old, and I fear talking about my personal life. I will admit the older I get the less I care what others think. I just try to stay kind, and protect my friends, family, and maybe most of all my trusted doggies :)
@drjohnsonhungwell5115
@drjohnsonhungwell5115 5 жыл бұрын
I'm 45 and haven't met anyone in a very long time a lot of it's because of my job , I've been told I'd meet them when I least expect it and that I'd know if it were right so I'm still waiting , I hope you find a good man who'll treat you well .
@UnpronouncebleNames
@UnpronouncebleNames 7 жыл бұрын
Don't worry singles, if you haven't found your love, God is saying.... "I'm saving this one for someone special" ^^
@crystalbeth1400
@crystalbeth1400 5 жыл бұрын
Unpronounceble Names this logic makes no sense though, what about people who did find someone young, were they not ‘someone special’? Annoys me when Christians think just cos they believe that they then know and understand the mind of god. What about people who never marry and wanted to? People who died and wanted to? You can’t apply any kind of logic to God, no matter how comforting. However I do believe that Lizzie will find true love if she hasn’t already. I believe maybe she needed to go on this journey and spread love into the world whilst learning to love herself. I personally find her to be beautiful, and I find it annoying when commenters are acting as though I don’t. I found her image a shock at first, but I swear to God when I watched her in videos her light shines and it’s like you forget that she looks different to most people physically, and I find myself thinking she is beautiful and noticing beautiful features on her face. I’m sorry I went off on you a little there, I just believe sometimes when people try to be comforting in trying to explain God’s plan that they can unwittingly offend others on the other side. Xxx
@zoozyg3108
@zoozyg3108 4 жыл бұрын
@@crystalbeth1400 honey life is unfair not everyone gets what they want
@deergreentea2847
@deergreentea2847 4 жыл бұрын
MARY HARTMAN, MARY HARTMAN MEEEE LOL
@egyptianqueen4007
@egyptianqueen4007 4 жыл бұрын
God doesn't always send someone a soul mate. I know many women that have prayed to God for a soulmate and are still single.
@deergreentea2847
@deergreentea2847 4 жыл бұрын
Egyptian Queen oh no that makes me nervous
@raenab1029
@raenab1029 6 жыл бұрын
I’m 16 and I have a disease called friedreichs ataxia and I’m convinced that I’ll not only die alone, but die never having been on a date or asked out ever.
@eveline-d1p
@eveline-d1p 6 ай бұрын
Nothing really matters after death, Why do u care so much? Better go out and make enough money to keep yourself happy till you're alive. All the best
@isaure9861
@isaure9861 7 жыл бұрын
Lizzie! This video came EXACTLY at the right time for me. Don't know how you did it but God bless your beautiful soul and words of wisdom - keep me in your prayers! And I'll keep you in mine :)
@sleepypink2228
@sleepypink2228 7 жыл бұрын
I'm 18 and I never dated and half of my high school friends asked me why don't I have a boyfriend and I got ask out by a couple of guys before but I rejected them because I didn't feel the same way about them I didn't wanna try to try anything because I didn't wanna be hurt or them be hurt by me leading them on
@gabriellabotha240
@gabriellabotha240 7 жыл бұрын
I love Country music! That's right girl. Don't date for the sake of dating. If he's not for you; then he's not for you. Don't settle for less
@sleepypink2228
@sleepypink2228 7 жыл бұрын
Gabriella Botha thank you someone gets it
@sofetch2289
@sofetch2289 4 жыл бұрын
Same. I am 19 though and in college. I figured i would date when i get in college but i still dont feel like dating anyone. I dont feel like i am missing out on anything... Maybe dating is not for me. If its meant to be it will be
@gailruckle8183
@gailruckle8183 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lizzie for the inspiration you are to the world. You are incredibly special. I’m single after 30 years with someone who was thrilled to be rid of me. It’s a kick in the gut and the self esteem. You are inspiring me to be open to hope for the future. Thank you.❤️
@beeshdos5410
@beeshdos5410 4 жыл бұрын
This is my struggle too ,Im 30 & I never had a boyfriend, thank u for giving me hope
@laurie2355
@laurie2355 6 ай бұрын
You are so well spoken
@heatherfox8131
@heatherfox8131 6 жыл бұрын
I'm old enough to be your Mother BUT yet YOU truly inspire me & I believe that Special Someone is out there waiting for the right time to meet you as well ! :-)
@daysesca9582
@daysesca9582 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. You have such a beautiful soul. I hope you meet a great guy who values you and treats you like a queen cause you deserve it girl.
@XFCBXS3rgy
@XFCBXS3rgy 6 жыл бұрын
This woman is gorgeous!
@yaraqashou9093
@yaraqashou9093 7 жыл бұрын
Ilysm Lizzie you're a big inspiration and you have no idea how you gave me hope every single time I was about to give up I'm so grateful ♥
@daelenecloete5852
@daelenecloete5852 7 жыл бұрын
You are such an inspiration Lizzie! ❤
@douglasbollinger3626
@douglasbollinger3626 6 ай бұрын
You are so well spoken, caring, warm hearted and beautiful! I could listen to you all day! I'd date you in a heartbeat! I hope you have a great week!
@aaronbustillos8047
@aaronbustillos8047 4 ай бұрын
Listen,I didn't meet my true love until I was like forty years old. Yes I dated but not much. I was like when it happens IT happens. Met my true love and I loved ever moment with,sadly she has left this earth but my memory of her are still strong and keep me going. You are going to fall head over heels to someone that will complete you,just let it happen 😊
@Marteeeeeeen
@Marteeeeeeen 7 жыл бұрын
Dear Lizzy! It´s completely normal to feel that way! You know, I have a problem in my lips's skin that make see them not very nice! I trying right know to found what is the problem. Anyway, the point it is that, because of this I´ve never had a relationship too, and you mention already what happen in our minds, but it´s because we all have an ego! And that ego makes you compares with other persons, and ego-mind do the duality. If other persons have that you don´t have, the ego-mind start to talk to you in your head the way that only know to do, thinking about himself! And desire what others have, making you believe that having that, you will be complete! and you will be on par with other people! And if you don´t have that, you are less, and the other people are more. This it´s how ego-mind (talking synthetically) works in our minds, because in our childhood and in our adolescence, we develop him and it´s a normal process. Through out the suffering we can understand that, that is not what we are in essence. Unfortunately, we live in a society, that feed quite the opposite, and we are bombed with this false information, that tell you that in onder to be happy, you have to have a girlfriend o boyfriend, that you have to form a family, have children, and you will be happy, and don´t saying that this is bad or you don´t have to do it, it´s part of human nature leave our legacy in our children, but legacy can be transported to other persons that not necessary have to be our children, like you do with us dear Lizzy! with yours video´s reflections and talks that inspire and help so much people! And proof that we are more that our body esthetic, more that our thoughts, more that the things and possesions that we can get! We are awareness! Thank you so much for share with us Lizzy! Love you! A hug...
@humansworld7260
@humansworld7260 6 жыл бұрын
you are so amazing! Such a beautiful human being! love your heart
@andrewbeard9896
@andrewbeard9896 3 жыл бұрын
It's so odd that physical appearance plays such a tiny role in who we are as human beings, but they seem to dictate so many opportunities for interpersonal connection. Humans are weird.
@scottdowning538
@scottdowning538 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Lizzie I'm Scott Downing cross-country truck driver out of Bakersfield California I just found you about a month ago and have started watching your videos you're such a great speaker and pretty as can be!! It's quite impressive weather on stage or in your bedroom, you park yourself in front of that camera and deliver!! You are woman I hear you roar!! I wish you great success and you are obviously well on your way! Bye-bye Scott Downing man of God and cross-country driver
@crossing.the.cosmos84
@crossing.the.cosmos84 7 жыл бұрын
I knew a lady like lizzie couldn't stay single for long. I know you'll be married with kids soon. You have so much character and strength to be a girlfriend,wife and mother ❤❤❤
@eveline-d1p
@eveline-d1p 6 ай бұрын
Why is it necessary for everyone to breed no matter how physically (obviously) unable they are? Kids... I don't think it's a good idea for her, let's be logical here
@noyb6200
@noyb6200 2 жыл бұрын
This hair style looks great on you girl xox
@siomaitag8914
@siomaitag8914 6 жыл бұрын
i love her voice :)
@rahbertpat3993
@rahbertpat3993 6 жыл бұрын
Your voice is super comforting. Its positive and uplifting.
@ravengstrom5122
@ravengstrom5122 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this Lizzie.
@sasaasas2844
@sasaasas2844 7 жыл бұрын
İ from in turkey You have very beutiful face We turkey love you lizzie
@richardinacan
@richardinacan 6 ай бұрын
i didn't have a serious gf until I was like 27. it is what it is, I had a few problems making genuine friends and connecting with people. Still do. It is what it is, i've been a lot happier since accepting who I am.
@andidontcarelol
@andidontcarelol 7 жыл бұрын
I didn't experience any of that in high school either. I didn't even experience dating. I made 1 mistake and got pregnant and after that, never again. I love that you are so courageous though. To talk about difficult topics. ❤️
@RJGould
@RJGould 7 жыл бұрын
Lizzie, you are wonderful.. 'Happy Anniversary' to your folks..
@AHugs-gg2mm
@AHugs-gg2mm 7 жыл бұрын
You are beautiful In side and out! Any man would be lucky to have such an amazing woman like you! You have such a great personality and deserve all the happiness in the world! Xoxo 💙💛💙💛💙💛
@arianathekitty9165
@arianathekitty9165 7 жыл бұрын
Im ipnotized by your eye makeup i love it 😣💖 and thanks for this video it *really* helps
@vyk_asp
@vyk_asp 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Lizzie, I'm 23 young person from Australia and I share so many worries and feelings that you showed in this video. I feel so grateful for your honesty and encouragement and I really take on to heart about turning those frustrations and impatience into excitement, fun and trusting God's plan. Thank you so much!!!💗 p.s. You have such beautiful eyes🙊
@lisagaikowski2533
@lisagaikowski2533 4 жыл бұрын
Lizzie any guy who is lucky enough to get to know you better and Truly be around someone so genuine and loving will consider himself truly blessed!! You are such a kind and caring beautiful person not just on the outside but within You! Your light shines bright and that is the thing that has made you the star you are! You keep doing what your doing, don't change a thing and you're gonna end up with the love of your life! 😉👌💕
@Sonia-dg9ev
@Sonia-dg9ev 7 жыл бұрын
If i was a guy and single i would totally date you Lizzie you are beautiful inside and out ❤️ You will find your true love wish you the best always and forever
@nonieky
@nonieky 7 жыл бұрын
You're so wise. I got goose bumps. what you said at the end is so relatable.
@sophielee3983
@sophielee3983 7 жыл бұрын
"How is it that I can have this great career but I can't find a boyfriend" .... this is me everyday😓
@fernandohernandez7686
@fernandohernandez7686 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way. I have goals, i am beggining my carreer. I have tried, but still cant find someone to share with
@juanitawest976
@juanitawest976 4 жыл бұрын
Lizzie. You are doing the right thing. Let God guide your life. Just let go and let God. I just found your channel recently. As I said before you are an inspiration to many. You have a very beautiful complexion. Hugs.
@puya5240
@puya5240 6 жыл бұрын
I love this video. You're a wonderful person for being so real and honest.
@lararibeiro2018
@lararibeiro2018 7 жыл бұрын
You are amazing >< thanks for sharing, I mean it! You really helped ❤❤❤
@hazlodge3188
@hazlodge3188 7 жыл бұрын
Hi I'm watching you on good morning Britain right now and I think that your so strong! Don't let other people bring you down because there just jealous of how amazing and strong you are. Keep going and all your subscribers are there for a reason. All the people who are being mean to you are behind you for a reason ♥️
@sophielee3983
@sophielee3983 7 жыл бұрын
Oh my god I've never related so much. I am going through a lot of what you were talking about: resenting people for being in relationships and still never having dated anyone, feeling bad about yourself when your siblings are dating and you never have ❤️❤️ I respect you so much for being so open with us.
@ShawnD77
@ShawnD77 5 ай бұрын
You are beautiful Lizzie!
@rosanafabre6840
@rosanafabre6840 7 ай бұрын
Hello Lizzie, recently I started following you on social networks and I love this video. It was so nice to hear from you!!! Many blessings for you, you’re a beautiful and wonderful being. You are inspiration!!
@jocelyncortez9058
@jocelyncortez9058 7 жыл бұрын
You are amazing and because of you I understand many things. This video is very especial because it comes from your heart and even though you haven't met your true love yet, you still having same personality!!! Also, you never lose the hope that one day you will find your true love and when the day comes you will have a very happy life and your kids will be so lucky to having you as mom. I love you Lizzy ❤️❤️❤️
@CatsandKittensRescuer
@CatsandKittensRescuer Ай бұрын
Love you Lizzy!!!
@christieguerra8182
@christieguerra8182 7 жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOVE THIS VIDEO!! Lizzie you're so brave to speak about a subject that is so sensitive to you. I'll be praying for you and your future husband. I love you.
@think7243
@think7243 6 жыл бұрын
I really like your story and please don’t apologize for your video to be a bit longer I don’t get tired of hearing your stories:)
@albaluzgutierrez1357
@albaluzgutierrez1357 7 жыл бұрын
I love Lizzie and thanks for making this video ♥️. And you deserve an amazing guy who loves you and respect you 💓💓and all those stupid guys well it's their loss✋🏻 love youuu
@Snowdragon.
@Snowdragon. 19 күн бұрын
I would be very happy to be dating Lizzie … she is beautiful inside and out, super smart (hope it rubs off on to me) and you’re funny.
@PlanetMarth
@PlanetMarth 6 жыл бұрын
I´m 33 and im single now...I didnt had a bf until I was 25 (I had my first kiss and It was awesome) That relationship last 6 years,we got engaged,but them it didnt work. Before that realationship I was very sad for not having a bf. Now I enjoy been sigle for now...becouse I learned that relations doesnt make you happy. that depends on us . Dont be with anyone just to not be alone
@yassohussein9020
@yassohussein9020 7 жыл бұрын
Love you lizzie 💕 good luck and thank you for such a nice share 🌷🌷
@christelleauclaire7370
@christelleauclaire7370 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story 💚
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