Locked Up Car Wreck

[@khiadaniels8451]

People need to learn “Jail Talk”. No one falls in love faster than someone who needs a place to stay and a car to drive🤦🏾‍♀️

[@EliteHumanNetwork]

Lol!! Say that.

[@EliteHumanNetwork]

You would think any person with half a brain would know that.

[@brittneyjake2010]

Factz

[@mscece1900]

😁😅🤣 ⚰

[@lachaelawells-andrew7119]

Lmaoooo

[@valkprince]

I bet the judge wouldn't tell either of his daughters to give offenders a chance.

[@NubianP6]

You KNOW he wouldn’t!

[@sussieasempapa6787]

Exactly !

[@scottrogue946]

Sure wouldn’t

[@BossLady333]

💯❤️💯

[@TheCloser561]

Real talk!!!

[@Pytnamed_Lon]

It's sad she doesn't understand she's worthy of so much more.

[@YoungHaveNot]

Is she? Lol

[@1cheeseakamulti]

Thats a transformer I understand clearly now

[@locafly]

@@1cheeseakamulti no. No, she's a real she. Lol

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

@@YoungHaveNot - Valid question.

[@SRT_DRE]

In the black community they feel like going to prison is a badge of honor. Women look at dudes that get out of prison as warriors and strong men. Y’all need to change that mentality.

[@inukoko2012]

She seems like a beautiful person and has a loving heart. Instead of talking bad on her, I hope she’s learned a hard lesson from this experience. She’s a good woman and deserves better.🙏🏼

[@l.nicolethompkins42]

This. ❤

[@wordplay6665]

Right she’s beautiful hope she found a genuine connection

[@MsKetaMarie]

He didn’t give her anything but headache, heartache, and a totaled vehicle and she did sooo much for him

[@RealLadi228]

Lessons or blessings 😹😌

[@LeoSun33]

She is literally blinded by love. That man doesn’t love her the way she loves him and everyone can see it but her.

[@kadeemjoseph8138]

More like lust, he's blowing her back out which is why she's still with him

[@kadeemjoseph8138]

@🖤Arrogant Goddess🖤 She said she met him through her friend who was dating a guy in jail It shows you the type of women they are and the type of men they like

[@timboslice9905]

You think she’s still into him? I haven’t finished the video yet. Edit: Never mind. I just got to the end.

[@theredwhoop9372]

Yo handsome azz can't keep a man tho too even know

[@LuLu-kk5gs]

@@kadeemjoseph8138 she was lonely 😩 I guess

[@TaRonThomasTv]

Throughout the entire case I never once heard her say anything the defendant did for her. Never allow yourself to love someone more than they love you.

[@kkhaze]

STRAIGHT FACTS THOUGH 👌🏾💪🏾💯💯💯

[@TaRonThomasTv]

@@kkhaze yeah. I was literally screaming at the screen, "girl. U too pretty. Eww. 🏃‍♀️ run!” 😂🤣😂

[@lisabostick8431]

And then at the end when she’s trying to give instructions on how they should get back together, he further embarrasses her and tells her to have a great life… This is awful… I never would’ve expected Mathis to give this type of crazy advice

[@CharisToTheWheeler]

Whew chile! Say that again

[@TaRonThomasTv]

@@lisabostick8431 👀oh my gosh. I gotta rewind & watch the end because I knew he would embarrass her so I clicked off. I just wanna give her a hug 🤗 🙄

[@ebieg3233]

He's locked up and has nothing better to do. Of course he's going to want to have long conversations and write letters😶

[@brettsfav4]

💀

[@miker6793]

😂

[@Makavellah]

Right she’s delusional 💀

[@hateisforlosers6116]

Exactly!!!! He ain't got nothing but time!! And people in lock down know not many people are going to be there for the conversation.

[@beverlyhall4578]

She is so gullible. Girl men out jail are going to always cheat. He was locked up.

[@melaninskinn8515]

Sister please learn from this🤦🏿‍♀️ this man drained a good woman dry, then he cheated on her.🥺 And the judge not even showing her no compassion 😒

[@devincoats2588]

Lol that man don't even want her, these girls are funny then they complain they can't find a good man when they're looking for them in prison 😂

[@NKAB4]

@@devincoats2588I’m a female &nd I agree…she’s not a chld he ran game she fell for it…

[@germondtuggles1848]

She pick him

[@YourFavoriteRealEstateAgent]

What she need compassion for? She was excited to get involved in this bullshiggety

[@NKAB4]

@@YourFavoriteRealEstateAgent exactly she should’ve followed her first mind…when he jumped in that video he had her she played herself…

[@Greatsharkbite]

"Be the man that I met when you were incarcerated" I NEVER thought i'd hear those words.

[@freelikeyve]

LMAO

[@TeePalmer]

😂😂😂😂

[@MrsB320]

😢😢😢 6:40

[@the_tnm]

JM has a soft spot for ex felons which is understandable but it definitely taints his viewpoint and the advice he gives at times. Celebrating this woman for throwing a year of her life away to fall in love with a jailbird, who then got out and LEFT HER....is insane.

[@edmcgeman5084]

You are right. I couldn't believe JM was making the case justifying the necessity for the man going back to hang out with the same crew and likely doing the same things that sent him to prison. He always advises recovered addicts not to back and hang around folks still doing drugs and it is no different in this case.

[@ak24553]

Right! And I wonder would he approve of his daughter dating an ex felon

[@latanyahood5622]

girl, you said it better than everyone....I agree

[@thedondoll4747]

I wish he would’ve got on him more because he used her!

[@ak24553]

@@thedondoll4747 absolutely he used her! I hate that for her. She was blinded and wanted to be loved so bad and he came and destroyed her car. He was only out for a month and was cheating.

[@Marcie_does_it]

She said “it was great for about a month”… Yeah, sis. That usually how it goes. 😭🤣

[@lachaelawells-andrew7119]

🤣🤣🤣yooooo

[@t-bone1898]

Right, he was only being nice just to get what he wanted from her. She's just naive.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Yup😞😞🤦🏾

[@yolandac9334]

Lmao

[@myraclez7612]

LMBO Right

[@MiiMuslim]

DON'T NEVER LET SOMEONE TELL YOU MORE THAN ONCE THEY DON'T WANT YOU! SHE SAID ALL THAT AT THE END, AND HE WISHED HER THE BEST. . .

[@valpooh7532]

That’s what I said!!!

[@smsourpatch8926]

Exactly. Glad someone caught it.

[@jearl3054]

She told the defendant in the end that she loved him because JM gave her hope when he said: "Stop It, and get back.". The Judge might have been hoping that the defendant would listen, stop cheating and get back together but the defendant is not into her. The good thing is that she now knows for sure she must walk away from him. As for JM, he has to realize that the defendant is not as wise as him in wanting to stop cheating and to be a better person.

[@valpooh7532]

@🖤Arrogant Goddess🖤 you’re right! I learned the hard way myself.

[@mrs.gonzales8317]

@🖤Arrogant Goddess🖤 girl you said a WORD honey!

[@fundifferent1]

LMAO!! The way she was talking about her behind bars relationship like it was just the most magical situation in the world!

[@zionnazionna2626]

The way she speaks so highly of this guy. She made it about him and forgot about herself. That end part when he said he wish the best . Had to been so hurtful to hear. But I'm sure she didn't get it

[@SamuelsReview]

This is sooooo sad. She's gushing over building, protecting, and financially supporting a man/ jail bird

[@quincydavenport9977]

Yep, there are good brothers out here who are hard working, good character men who she would walk right by and ignore to chase after a jailbird….very disappointing

[@connectgametv]

Stfu... You hatin

[@YoungHaveNot]

She is making a complete fool of herself

[@taylorhaze8651]

Black men require 50/50 anyway.

[@BlkMagickGaia3]

She's a Masculina and a PickMeisha. Desperate and living up to negative stereotype about Black women. And he's the perfect example of a stereotypical Black man.

[@jennifersmith8007]

Look at the big smile on her face. This girl is delusional.

[@meghanwilliams4295]

He got her good.

[@makailabest7678]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@gt43025]

Desperate

[@KangarooFriedRice]

They know how to manipulate women who don't love themselves and don't have boundaries in place. How does she begin with saying she's not into men in jail only to immediately communicate with him? It's so easy for these guys to squeeze the dum-dums for everything they have

[@Danni2018]

🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

[@Fourlittlefurpeople]

Do not listen to the Judge and help a bum out, you see where it got her, smh. Ungrateful! Bad advice period.

[@quatrelldaniels8126]

Ignorant how bout judge mathis wife not turning her back morale of the story people can change

[@beverlyhall4578]

Do not date people while they are in jail. It turns out bad most of the time.

[@Bih1stOfAll]

@@quatrelldaniels8126 So! Change FIRST, and THEN date. No woman wants to mother a man and do everything for them. Ya'll got shite backwards

[@BossLady333]

💯🙄😂🤣💯

[@metro7films]

CORRECT!! I 100% agree! Her association with that man cost her! You can't pull yourself and push someone else! Find someone who's walking your way!! (And what she felt wasn't love!)

[@GreekYogurtGranola]

She treated him like he was her son, and wonder why she ended up with a childish man.

[@xPROGNOSISx]

It’s the lack of gratitude for be. Ladies, THIS is why you shouldn’t do this. LET THESE MEN STEP UP and take care of THEMSELVES. They had the same hardships most of experience but they refuse to stand up and cut the excuses out.

[@MsCremant]

Judge Mathis is a rarity. As a rule, dating criminals/"holding a man down" does NOT work out in the woman's favor.

[@NubianP6]

💯

[@K_Cole0128]

Coming from a former correctional office, i totally agree.

[@biggchill8176]

Thank you I would never tell my daughter to do this or sister or any woman I cared about that this is a good idea

[@kmyles8599]

Thank you! He has to understand that the average guy that is incarcerated is not going to end up being a judge! And I'm sure he wouldn't advise his own daughters to date and a man that's been convicted of selling drugs, etc. I also let him have it regarding "black women not supporting black incarcerated men." That is the biggest crock of mess I've ever heard!

[@1980tiffani]

Exactly! He shouldn’t be giving kuddos for this cuss then dude started cheating and acting up right out the gate. Come holla at me when you’re out and working and taking care of yourself.

[@momoboolman8820]

She was SO focused on him and his success she lost HERSELF. She wasn't even working and had problems w him cheating already. Wild. Love is blind.

[@tiffanywalker4437]

**Lust

[@thetruth-zb7cj]

@@tiffanywalker4437 🎯

[@a_83567]

And notice at the end she gave this long speech about him needing to get it together and all he said was “I just wish the best for her” which to me sounds like it’s over and he’s okay with that. I’m not going to say he’s a bad guy but that shows that he’s not as interested in her as she is in him. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@thetruth-zb7cj]

@@a_83567 he got head, kewchie, bussy, money and dignity from her. Nothing else is left. Why would he stay?

[@tiffanywalker4437]

@@thetruth-zb7cj exactly! And she has the nerve to be gushing all over some jailhouse peen.. she went out bad 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@alanwilliams3127]

JM is giving bad advice. If you’re trying to improve your life, you can’t stay around the same people.

[@MsArLee1105]

Exactly .. the advice was bad & dumb.

[@maxxxcee602]

I agree 👍

[@angelfrancis4600]

I like him but don’t agree with him this time.

[@angelfrancis4600]

I’ll not do that, n this is a great example.

[@daniellemitts4112]

Exactly because he saying this but would not tell some one who is trying to stay clean from drugs this...... Crazy

[@TamaraH565]

His ending statement said all she needed to know.

[@cathydavis3579]

His ending response crushed me as much as it crushed you, he had no intentions- just conversation, money on his books and an address to report once released. He only talked to you bc he probably knew the other chick had another dude while he was locked up. This should be a lesson learned, actions speak louder than words.

[@allymaree8812]

Her friend set her up with an inmate 🤦🏾‍♀️..... and I guarantee she was not the only woman putting money on his books

[@symontemplar1418]

Ahhhh So this is the new hustle and con. Setting up lonely lovestruck women with convicts to siphon off their hard earned money after they leave prison on the promise they are going to have a long term future relationship. The "friend" probably getting a cut of the benefits.

[@t-bone1898]

Right

[@theredwhoop9372]

That's her fault for being silly and wanting a pookie

[@mybexchange6330]

Her friend??? What a sucka! With friends like that you don't need enemies...

[@TheProsparity]

😂😅😂😅Crazy how dumb she is😅 Just left home….

[@GrandAwesomeOne]

It’s not a sister responsibility to build a man up after jail/prison for this very reason. They have programs for that.

[@BossLady333]

💯😂🤣💯

[@wildfiregirl1556]

She choose Lmaooooo.

[@originaleverythingelseisca5977]

Thank you!! I was looking for this comment. In my city there are a while bunch of programs. The other day I saw a man who has been in and out of jaill working at my dry cleaners

[@nicharr7796]

Girl let him go. He’ll be back when the streets dry up. Please don’t be available when that happens. It will just be more of the same.

[@brionem88]

Yep, hopefully she'll realize.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Yup he will be back calling crying for her help again

[@TheProsparity]

😂😅😂😅😂😅 Crazy!!! Did she just leave home😅

[@peacefaith560]

she aint going nowhere....she dont know her worth and he knows she's his fool for life lol

[@diamond5338]

Damn she smiling talking about their situation and how they met meanwhile this man standing there with a straight face 😭

[@PORTERGYRL]

Father's this is why your daughters need you

[@zoemalone3173]

I feel bad for her. He showed at the end that he doesn’t want to be with her.

[@islandgirlruby2750]

Of course it’s gonna be great while he’s incarcerated, smh, gosh ladies please have some standards.

[@valpooh7532]

He sure did. After she said her little speech… He said that he wishes her the best.

[@sheilasembly-crum8447]

That broke my heart too.

[@paulathacker2925]

And it sounded like she didn't really understand what he was saying by that smile she had at the end...I believe it's mostly infatuation bc she really fell for him and they probably still messing w/each other!! Lol 😂

[@Opinions-galore24]

Indeed he did. She gave her all to him. It's like he too advantage of her kind giving heart.

[@urluvizmyluv1999]

Sir please let that lady go. She's not strong enough to walk away on her own.

[@girlyh.6505]

She definitely isn't sadly. She seems like she will take any crumbs he drops for her.

[@epicmoments2889]

He told her he wish her the best After she told him what he needed to do to get her back. He let her go most definitely

[@urluvizmyluv1999]

@@epicmoments2889 you know how some of them will call "old reliable" at 2a for a booty call

[@anotherlevel-e3121]

SHES GROWN!! HE GOT IT GOOD...I WOULD STAY AND CONTIMUE YO USE HER, IF I WAS HIM!! BUT IM NOT

[@wildfiregirl1556]

​@@anotherlevel-e3121 Lmaooooo.

[@_heyitsfrenchy]

She romanticized him & the entire situationship, whole time he was like "I wish her well". Been there.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

me too

[@ctgal9698]

Please don't wish me well when you used to give me hell 🎶 - Meg thee stallion

[@shalanathomas7751]

Hmmmm sad!

[@shalanathomas7751]

@@ctgal9698 💯💯

[@originaleverythingelseisca5977]

Exactly!!! He wants no parts of her, after she done built him up!! He said whatever she wanted to hear to get what he wanted. Now after he got it, don't want her. Never build up a man other then ur son

[@mboyd9940]

Whyyy mess with a dude in jail and then be surprised when he gets out and commits a crime against you???

[@mrttamara]

The judge know he is so wrong advising her to give those guys a chance. She should have never ever talk to a guy like him.

[@shygirl8773]

So Mathis is saying she is a good women because she gave someone in a jail a chance who she helped upgrade and then he moved on to the next..SMH..

[@itssslulu3004]

She is a good person but sadly he wasn’t

[@maxxxcee602]

Exactly!!! JM is so inconsistent, sometimes he gives really good advice, the other times he is totally off the richter scale.

[@Cede90]

And he know he would not allow his daughters to date a man in jail

[@godizself1]

@@Cede90 Ever never in the history of never

[@carymyers5616]

He can be inconsistent in his life lessons.

[@momoboolman8820]

He made her feel important, wanted and needed while he was locked up. She "mothered him. She didn't have her own life together so she clung to him. She wanted to fix manage and control him. And he seen it as an opportunity to come up. He used her.

[@yotiep.1072]

Nahhh...she's a big girl..she knows what she's doing..TRUUUUST ME

[@buckmarley3422]

He didn't even ask for money on his books and you blaming him because she fell for a dude in prison? 🤦🏾‍♂️ She said it was "amazing" while he was in Prison.....SHE chased a felon and here you are putting all the blame on him...SMH

[@thetruth-zb7cj]

This has always crippled the blk community. Blk men use women and the women allow it. He was a felon. He should have never been entertained.

[@Monique215_]

They used each other 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@marioglisson1200]

I guess he did skipped out there! Just stupid!!!! My opinion.

[@JacksQueen.]

The judge is on one today. His situation is different from most of these fellas today.

[@thetruth-zb7cj]

JM pissed me off!

[@thetruth-zb7cj]

I bet his daughters couldn’t date felons☕️🫖

[@alexisstarr7825]

Exactly JM swear he sooo street 😂🤷🏾‍♀️

[@originaleverythingelseisca5977]

Exactly

[@Joybrowne1989]

This guy didn't seem like he was ever serious about her. At the end when she spoke his silent smirking said it all. Somewhere in his head he just isn't ready.

[@andrejamal5438]

Desperate as hell! All the brothers you could’ve gave a chance who are not in jail!

[@K_Cole0128]

There’s a difference between supporting, helping and enabling. She enabled him.

[@deejai1173]

Right

[@brionem88]

Exactly!!

[@Ms_knowitall]

Say that! Say that!!!

[@originaleverythingelseisca5977]

Facts!!

[@1234532785]

I’m sorry, but there’s no way I’d ever talk to a man who is incarcerated. He used her and she’s better off without him. I want better for us as black women!!!!

[@beverlyhall4578]

We, black women need to want better for ourselves. God first, men much later.

[@amaliomar]

@@beverlyhall4578 So where should men put you. Much later I would assume. You can't have better if you don't know how to prioritize your mate. Sure you'll have your little fun period with the pastor at motels but then what.

[@Fuel_pw53]

Damn right. Dont get with a man who’s in prison. Cmon dont be stupid. When they do get out of prison let themselves get better. U dont have to help.

[@jalishaeking]

You probably never talked to any man that actually claimed you so now what

[@1234532785]

Girl, what? Lmao!! Please go heal. Be blessed!🤍

[@PrettyColorsDoe]

Why would judge say many “sistas” turn their backs on black men who have been to jail? What an ignorant statement to say! So many things wrong with that assertion. Did his daughters get involved with a man who was in jail or did they turn their back on black men too? It’s a personal decision to entertain an imprisoned man and those who do not shouldn’t be deemed turning their back on anyone.

[@alanwilliams3127]

He say some dumb shit sometimes. Horrible advice on this case. Basically telling this guy to go to the hood and hang with bums. SMH

[@worldhealthrn]

Honey when he said that statement I was already irritated by some other things he said I was so fired up I went ahead and wrote my whole response and then scroll down to see yours - I'm just going to say ditto!!!

[@alanwilliams3127]

@@worldhealthrn i did the same this. Lol. He irritates me sometimes.

[@PrettyColorsDoe]

@@worldhealthrn yes girl! I honestly cannot articulate the wrongness of that statement. The bar is set so low and that’s still considered a black women’s best? There are too many women being taken advantage of my men in jail , in fact so why say such a thing.

[@kmyles8599]

Hello! Same thing I said! How dare he sit up and say that black women don't support black men! Who does he think is supporting them when they are in jail without bail and no where to go once they come home? I can't believe he said that mess!

[@internetuser7156]

She wanted him, he used her. Mathis gave her hope, he deflated her. Sis, protect your heart. You deserve an honest man.

[@lotusflowerbombshell5059]

She’s so beautiful, inside and out from what we can see. I hate this happened to her.

[@JoshuaDesean1992]

He skips out of prison and she thinks “that’s going to be my husband” 😂 girl

[@originaleverythingelseisca5977]

Lol. Right!!

[@hana-cb2nc]

lmao wouldn’t have been because he was happy to be free

[@PORTERGYRL]

That part sent me

[@savagebull9183]

😶

[@ShineForlyn777]

Joshua it's the way you commented 🤣🤣🤣I don't want to make mockery of anyones life but that comment was funny

[@toneykaasman2359]

I do not understand why someone will want to be unfaithful to someone else who has been there for them and wants the best for them. A woman like her is very very hard to find and shouldn't be treated unjustly

[@augustabradley2596]

Amen

[@chemac8471]

I believe in karma!

[@angelphilbert1200]

I am hoping that this public embarrassment will allow for her to move on from this clown 🤡 and some fine looking brother will see her and snatch her up and give her the life she deserves. She is too good of a woman to waste her future on another clown 🤡!

[@mwoodson1026]

AGREE 💯

[@mona-bn4zg]

@@chemac8471 because he has been locked up. He was free, and had to make up for lost time.

[@britanimckinney1964]

I know that ending broke her heart. She was speaking facts to him and almost pouring her heart out just for him to say I wish her the best. I know her heart dropped. Let him go sis and heal!! Don’t ever ever ever get yourself back in a situation like this. I agree with her getting her money for the car. He should have wanted to do that anyway after her taking care of him. I would have been mad if she lost the case. I drove my man car around until I got mine and if was in an accident at no fault of my own, I still would feel obligated to pay. You take that risk when you drive someone’s car.

[@janedougherty3327]

Very very sad

[@theredwhoop9372]

You sound like a pookie broke your heart lol and you talk too much as well

[@catlady8540]

I wish the best for her...I felt that. Young lady move on please.

[@Opinions-galore24]

Indeed. She gave her all to him. It's like he took advantage of her kind giving heart.

[@theredwhoop9372]

@@Opinions-galore24 maybe she deserves it

[@lonnabunny8820]

She loves this guy, I feel so bad for her because he took advantage of her and will do it again if she lets him

[@gregoryewilliams4291]

That sister fell for the getting out of jail routine...

[@britmax5341]

She’s a gem. She deserves better

[@wildfiregirl1556]

She has to want it blessings.

[@bran9730]

Right...she's beautiful and positive.

[@britmax5341]

@@oneshotdeal1388 obviously. What human doesn’t deserve a pleasant relationship

[@britmax5341]

@@oneshotdeal1388 she had more then him. She was just a nice person who ignored red flags. What’s wrong with wishing someone well? Only miserable people comment like this 😂 you must be the defendant hiding behind a KZbin page 😂😂

[@britmax5341]

@@oneshotdeal1388 you saying a whole lot of nothing. Learn to wish people the best. I’m not gonna judge a stranger, Judge Mathis already did his job. He didn’t need your input

[@Rainsnowreadysetblow]

From “I’m not dating anyone in jail” to talking to someone in jail just by him jumping in front of a camera and saying “I know you”. The standards are real high. Smh

[@YoungHaveNot]

Sad af This is the average black woman these days

[@1cheeseakamulti]

She slow and that's all type of race of women

[@tamradavis5807]

@@YoungHaveNot Omg shut up🤦🏽‍♀️How does this one women and her choices have to do with other black women ? Everybody doesn’t want a jailbird , her actions doesn’t speak for all black women just like one black male actions doesn’t speak for all black men, grow up .

[@yotiep.1072]

@@YoungHaveNot exactly bruh.. exactly..😂😂😂🤦🏿‍♂️

[@yotiep.1072]

@@tamradavis5807 ashiiidddd dam near..alot of y'all just hiding it better now..it's cool,just own up to it🤷🏿‍♂️..alot of get upset like this, because they be coddling these bustas

[@jlywi7171]

Why do some men STILL cheat even when they have a woman like her… beautiful, well spoken, and she went above and beyond to help him better himself!!! This is so irritating to me 😤

[@fintyeli3]

Then at the end wished her the best like he was moving on bc he could do better, smh. He's a loser.

[@opulence_prime]

Cheaters are selfish, immature, insecure saboteurs. If you don’t understand maybe that’s a good thing. But just know it’s nothing you can do to change them. They have to want to stop cheating.

[@blahaaaaaaan]

maybe her sex is trash!

[@anaserales5555]

GREED honey it's as simple as that!

[@jlywi7171]

@@fintyeli3 yeah I noticed that too. Hopefully she moved on… I’m pretty sure in the end, he’ll regret losing her

She's a good woman... just to the wrong guy

[@elainecaldwelljoseph4705]

He is a sorry excuse for a man. Leave him alone

[@leggs4113]

She poured her heart out at the end and left the door open and he barely said three words.

[@epicmoments2889]

"Wish you the best" in other words he don't want her.

[@peacefaith560]

when you get a fool...shes his fool for life and he knows this ... his prison game got her hooked lol

[@originaleverythingelseisca5977]

Awww naw he sounds words alright, he wished her well. He could care less about her after he got what he wanted

[@papalegbasson2447]

She loves him more than he loves her. He said, I wish her the best

[@locafly]

And that small comment was very cold to me.

[@teces6674]

I was looking for this comment. He is over her and she's still hoping for them to get back together. She was good for the time being but her job of building him up is done and he's on to the next.

[@fintyeli3]

I caught that and then have the audacity to say I'm not going to down her, about what exactly? I wish he would have before the ruling so the judge could've seen his true colors

[@itssslulu3004]

@@fintyeli3 exactly he was sound ungrateful

[@beverlyhall4578]

Thank GOD he left her. GOD had to save us from our dumb selves.

[@ourtruth216]

They need to stop saying I grew up with a single mother. It’s putting the blame on the one person who didn’t abandon you. They need to start saying “I grew up without my father”

[@rochellewhite588]

I guess they think any excuse is better than none !! 😦😦

[@cali2468]

Yep.

[@apriljmedia7000]

I love this because on these forums the black men are actually blaming their single mothers. Please keep abortion available and use it as needed.

[@wonpilspiano]

The disrespect single mothers get is disgusting.

[@Boujiebratt]

😂but saying you grew up with a single mother already infers that the person grew up without a father .

[@destajong7611]

When she said "Thing where amazing...when he was incarcerated" I pissed my pants 😂😂

[@yerimarchai3483]

Aww I feel so sad for her, she's such a pretty lady. I hope she finds someone that matches her energy and love

[@aimeekenney1550]

Judge Mathis swears he’s so street and his advice is so contradictory sometimes. And the judge is so wrong on this. So the dude takes her car and crashes it and he’s not liable for the damage? No way.

[@linequeenpublishing]

Did I miss something? I thought he is making him pay for damages less the emotional distress.

[@nonelikememe]

Judge gave horrible advice. Praising her of allowing him to use her. Telling him it's ok for him to hang out with felons. Just ass backwards. Smh

[@mogetit5999]

I think it was a great example of what happens when you don’t use discernment and instinctive judgment. Lesson learned hopefully 🤷🏾‍♀️ if she was awarded full amount she would most likely repeat this delusional behavior

[@NubianP6]

@@linequeenpublishing yes, based on the legal concept of detrimental reliance, but how do we even know that some other person was at fault? JM didn’t even ask for a police report.

[@linequeenpublishing]

@@NubianP6 oh ok. I was just making sure I didn't interrupt it wrong that he had to pay. Maybe the person that write this didn't catch that he still has to pay

[@aeonflex4261]

What in the Love After Lockup is this mess? She thought she was gonna groom him into Judge Anton Mathis lol 😂

[@JuggzL30HC]

💀💀💀

[@dimelaschey3748]

😭😭😭

[@allymaree8812]

😂😂she thought!

[@yotiep.1072]

😂😂😂

[@valinda22ify]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MrLenroc82]

3:34 that is why women end up in these situations. They WANT to be the ONE who helped him become a man.........too late for that

[@Alesana907]

She literally met him while he was in prison. What did she expect? He said everything she wanted to hear because he needed commissary money. He needed a "hold it down girl" and she fulfilled.

[@originaleverythingelseisca5977]

EXACTLY

[@freelikeyve]

She gotta get new friends too. Her home girl set her UP 😂 she’s such a bad judge of character. Lol

[@simpleeazy1018]

@@freelikeyve While she busy worrying about who he hanging with 😂😂😂 I feel bad for Homegirl but dam worry about yourself

[@Itsme-dt9we]

This guy said it is what it is and I wish the best for her! After she just basically said she’s wanting to give it another shot. He does not deserve you girl!!! He’s a boy

[@BW-dt4qx]

Regardless of the spiel Judge Mathis gave about "turning your back on black men"... Sis, don't settle. You deserve better.

[@ultimatecouponlady]

Judge Mathis just contradicted everything that he stands for by saying that it's okay to hang around the same people that you got in trouble with before you were incarcerated. In every other episode he advises against this.

[@rubyjaez]

I swear. He would not tell a drug addict to get out of rehab and hang with the people they got high with. So he should not tell people who get out of prison to hang with the people who he committed crimes with.

[@harleydriverpdtnm3996]

FACTS!!

[@biancawilliams748]

I was thinking the same thing smh

[@sandybrickman1392]

Was thinking the same thing

[@MelissaAlexander-y7f]

I totally agree with you. I was confused on that !!

[@kymberlipomerants5520]

Then at the end, she said she was opened to getting back together, but he said, "I wish you the best", she STILL does not get it. While she is up there giggling and playing, she does not get what is at stake

[@gigifree5783]

she sounded crazy in the beginning of this. he was in jail. she was acting like he was away in college.

[@keishannadean7955]

She stopped smiling when she thought she was loosing the case

[@taylorhaze8651]

He did not say bw discriminate when bw CONSISTENTLY are involved in struggle love. BW you deserve the best! Remember that!

[@goodwill374]

The delusion

[@coldasdecember4930]

THANK YOU !

[@AsiaMare]

Facts

[@mcbthird]

Yall jump in relationships with criminals that’s y’all problem that y’all weirdly romanticize them

[@goodwill374]

@@mcbthird that’s definitely a problem.

[@yontine]

A REAL man would not allow a woman to take care of him! PERIOD!! Especially if he fresh out of jail. That is not how I was raised. These women today are so desperate. Makes me gag 🤢🤦🏽‍♀️

[@1234532785]

This!!! The way she was talking it sounded like a mother/son relationship smh. Doing his resumes and helping him get a job?! 😩

[@Mr.Boring_Man]

Anybody fresh out of jail needs to get their priorities straight and not be focusing on dating. Job, working and more working. This is pathetic.

[@beverlyhall4578]

Girl that is an old pick up line. In or out of jail.

[@amaliomar]

Women are always talking about what a real man is or isn't. You never hear men say "a real woman would..." Men are a myriad of identifiers. One minute men need to ask for help and seek therapy the next he can't allow anyone to take care of him. This level of non-linear thinking is what had her trying to be with a dude in prison in the first place.

[@Bih1stOfAll]

@@amaliomar You a damn lie. There are MANY videos with BM saying that and trashing BW. Hell...even ya'll leader Kevin Samuels did it

[@nation301]

She’s naïve! He used u, to pass the time away until he got out. Cheesing hard over this dude that didn’t want u!

[@BelieveInGOD1113]

Ugh! That big, stupid grin on her face as she explained how she got played REALLY got on my nerves!

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Yup

[@nothgir]

Everyone talks good when they’re behind bars. He’s made perfectly clear that he only wants to use you.

[@ashleyokoro7946]

Not Judge Mathis supporting STRUGGLE LOVE. It’s not her responsibility to make that grown man…a man

[@KentBrooks3]

I think the judge is a little wrong on this one. The best way to protect yourself from people who are living a destructive life is to stay away from them. Why put yourself in the position where you have to always be on guard from those around you. That sounds stressful to me. Don't be around people actively engaging in drug activity because you know you are liable to be a victim of their uncontrolled desire to remain high. They can't control themselves a lot of the time that's just what drugs do the people. This guy wasn't on drugs but he still ended up being a bum because he could not treat such a wonderful, beautiful and intelligent woman with the respect she deserved. His loss her gain. I hope she sticks to her motto. Stay away from the people living that life.

[@generalquebaby7611]

So true! Facts I'm dealing with a situation from a dope fiend that wasn't even my man. A terrible car accident almost caused me My life. Thank you for your insight.

[@elh1977]

I agree! I don't like the judge's rant about chilling with the homies. We should be around people who have the same goals and want to be successful. It's a motivation to keep going. He apparently isn't ready for that yet.

[@1980tiffani]

Exactly!!

[@shaunlewis8484]

JM always falls for the “ I’m turning my life around stories” he’s responsible for destroying her property periodt!

[@Cantfindme2121]

Exactly!!! Hell he gave her a lecture about trying to keep him away from bad influences and two seconds later explains how his wife did the same thing and it worked for him! He’s so wishy washy on this one!

[@mildredpierce4506]

I have a nephew who’s in prison. For many years he’s been trying to hook me up with various inmates. He assumed that because I’m single that I’d be interested. I’m single and alone but I’m not desperate or lonely. Plus I’ve had several boyfriends since he’s been locked up. I’m guessing that because I’ve never told him my personal life that he thinks that I’m just sitting around twiddling my thumbs waiting for a man. As judge Judy has said, women need to stop being desperate.

[@msknich0le]

That man doesn’t want her. She’s speaking to him like he’s still an option. Lady, take that L, like most of us have done, learn from it and move on. If he’s lying and cheating, he don’t want or value you or the relationship. He is what his actions shows, so believe that. Judge knows he would not advise his daughters, to pick up cons from prison.

[@lachaelawells-andrew7119]

Take that damn L and move on. I know I did.

[@freelikeyve]

Big facts

[@thelandballin747]

I understand a woman standing by you and helping you out, but she had to hold his hand like a baby. I don't see why women love these types, then cry when the cons on them.

[@yvonneeric-qh7tr]

I hate when he starts with his story. We all bought the book . We don't need to continuously hear it .

[@imbigtaj]

She loves him more than she loves herself smh 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@yotiep.1072]

Alot of black women be doing that ish..smh

[@fintyeli3]

@@yotiep.1072 I agree but it isn't just the colored sistas its the colorless sistas as well that doesn't know their worth. I see more colorless on here suing than us colored🤣

[@kmyles8599]

You hit the nail on the head! Too many women are deprived of having a father in their life to put that crown on their head to let them know that they are worthy of so much more than they accept in a man.

[@wamosm]

You're right!! She's an idiot and very gullible!!

[@wildfiregirl1556]

​@@yotiep.1072 Sad.

[@scottrogue946]

At the end she said be the man that I met when you were incarcerated. Tyler Perry need to turn this into a stage play 😂🤦🏾‍♂️😳

[@africanviolet2469]

🤣😂

[@morgenf1]

Omg 😭😂😂😂😂😂

[@tiffanywalker4437]

I wonder if JM would want his daughters dating a guy like the defendant 🤔🤦🏾‍♀️😏

[@cadedramosley2458]

She poured her heart out and he said I wish her the best. Wow 😮smh ladies awake up and walk away

[@bernardtalbert6729]

SMH. The ultimate example of how black women love the Pookie's and Ray Rays? She met this fool in prison and thought it was a great idea to hook up with him?

[@convowithashnicole]

She said excitingly, "after the video call they started talking everyday all-day, meeting his friends, putting money on his books etc etc Of course y'all talked everyday bc what else was he doing? Where was he going? Sounds like the homegirl who introduced them sat her up and sat him up just to use her. He hit the jackpot!

[@1234532785]

That’s what I was thinking!!! Like damn your “friend” set you up!!

[@jennifergraham5801]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mybexchange6330]

Yep! Always the girlfriend!

[@peacefaith560]

not to mention how many men he been with in prison

[@shostoppah111]

Key words “set up”

[@jbaker5014]

She’s dumb. Even after all what happened she is still willing to work it out with him and he basically said “Nah, I’m good love. Be blessed”.

[@mrsevelync6900]

Fr! So cringe

[@fintyeli3]

Right so desperately sad

[@hateisforlosers6116]

Yepppp his ending was pretty much I am going to be who I am. That had to hurt!

[@beverlyhall4578]

She is surely simple. Female leave the worthless dude alone.

[@cochrancochran66]

Wow… how were so quick to call names when someone fell in love with the wrong person. Hopefully, you’ll find grace if or when it ever happens to you.

[@3at3r]

Probably one of the most delusional women I’ve ever seen 😂

[@blahaaaaaaan]

she typical these days, women don't like nice things, structure, or harmony any more.

[@gt43025]

Delusional and Desperate for Man

[@lachaelawells-andrew7119]

And she’s gorgeous too … lawd help us.

[@nastyyella300]

Is that a woman?

[@blahaaaaaaan]

@@nastyyella300 lady?

[@nothgir]

Ladies know your value so that the person you allow in your life has equal or higher value.

[@jmontg4752]

This man DONT want you and NEVER have. He just used you to put money on his book and help him transition from jail. You’re a beautiful, smart girl. Please move on, he’s for the streets.

[@kenscales4992]

GURL !!! YOU can do so much better than HIM. The Judge ALWAYS Seems to take the side of the MAN. SMH

[@shaunlewis8484]

So tired of JM projecting his personal experience on litigants! Let’s see how he feels about his precious daughters or granddaughter sending commissary to an inmate

[@EdahsWolb4855]

👏👏👏👏 that part 💯💯

[@iamjayee]

He clearly doesn’t want a relationship with her he used her (she allowed it) he got what he could get and was out she probably wasn’t the only person that he was talking to men in jail are slicker than slick She’s need some self love ❤️

[@EDIVA2000]

He gives zero F***🤦🏾‍♀️

[@5822huron]

I can't even believe judge would encourage this relationship. He didn't even respect her. Smh

[@harleydriverpdtnm3996]

FACTS

[@chowchow2theleft567]

Being desperate in having low self-esteem is a very dangerous drug. It’s also extremely costly.

[@Baddestchik911]

The bar is in hell. No standards at all. Imagine raising your daughter to date someone who is incarcerated smdh

[@blahaaaaaaan]

I can't see why she would let a broke Nipsey Hustle impersonator do this to her!

[@BossLady333]

@@blahaaaaaaan OMG! I was trying to figure out who he looks like! JM always has litigants that looks like celebrities. 😂🤣

[@symontemplar1418]

@@BossLady333 Don't forget the defendant's last name is Mathis!🤔

[@freelikeyve]

“The bar is in hell” lmfaoo

[@brittneyreigns]

This makes me sooo mad! Judge giving her props for fully supporting a felon! Nooo sir. These men generally are using these women. Very rarely do they get out and do right by these same women who are holding them down. These men wouldn’t do the same. This should not be celebrated or praised. Plenty of eligible SINGLE men to choose from. Everyone is not a judge Mathis. Most of them who come out of prison come packaged like him: NO GOOD.

[@coreyharris2238]

WTF!?!? How is it easier to get a girl when your locked up?

[@mrpitts15]

He lame for this. Pretty girl gives you a chance while you’re incarcerated, putting money on your books, and you come out and cheat on her.

[@broadwaybiz211]

Facts