Looking back at Ivory's life and death and how are dealing with this as a family

[@nicoleziegler6112]

I think it would be a wonderful legacy to Ivory to continue this channel in a new happier direction!

[@lynsaenz916]

Yes indeed!!! We would love to see you guys doing vlogs ❤❤❤

[@Clara-wo1hg]

Yes!! We would love it 💖

[@susiegonzales5930]

You're daughter looks just like ivory beautiful

[@gia13ish]

I agree. 💛💛

[@andreahughes6288]

Give them a chance to grieve in their own way. Maybe this is how they are grieving. Maybe this is how Ivory wanted her channel to continue. It's no ones business how they should continue Ivorys channel. That's up to Ivorys family. If people don't like what's on Ivorys channels then just don't listen or come here. Its not your channel! Let Ivorys family grieve in peace!! RIP Ivory.

[@stormfaith]

The loss of a mother is life changing. I’m heartbroken for all of you but, Zuri looks so heartbreakingly crushed. She may tell you that she’s good but, check in with her. Tom, you’re a good dad… please take good care of YOU, too. Your family is in my thoughts.🙏🏽

[@ph3lovestory]

I lost my father when I was 22 years old, he transitioned right in my arms. I miss him so much!!!! 😢

[@meganmckissick2281]

❤🙏

[@tigertalks1567]

I can see the goodness in your daughter that was in your wife, she will carry on her Legacy. I can also see the sadness in her. God bless all of you there are no words to comfort in this type of situation❤

[@rachelgless3123]

Yes, I’m getting tears here. It will of course be hard to accept and I would thing there would be some anger that they have to go on without her. I think seeing a therapist is a good thing for this very difficult situation.

[@silondon9010]

You two are so brave

[@jeanmaharaj5802]

Tom u an the kid take care God will bring uall true

[@maryreyes368]

I think the combination of speaking English, Dutch and Filipino is beautiful.

[@deniseweavinghannah]

Biggest hug to all of you! Thank you Suri for your presence today.

[@wendylpa]

Thank u for going live. Suri is adorable! Ivory carried the lung cancer gene mutation (EGFR) correct? If so, you may want to consider getting both of her children’s genes tested for that mutation. Be strong & please keep us updated!

[@lydiabarnhart5449]

Last January they found a 10 mm Nodules in my left lung, I'm doing some reading about EGFR that 1-10 Asian I'm Filipina non-smoker non-drinker, I cannot understand why we get this Nodules? I have a follow up schedule in June and will see from there? Continue to be strong for your self and your children they need you! Sending Love and prayers 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@dianefaust6218]

I am devastated losing my mom, I'm 64. She died in 2019. Had to leave our family home. BUT, I am comforted that she is in Eternity 🎉and we will be reunited once again. Our Heavenly Creator is in the business of restoration. Hallelujah 🎉

[@TS-uz8yz]

What a beautiful, brave girl! You both are absolutely great! God bless you and your family ❤

[@OneLove101.]

9:55 I have a life limiting illness too, and listening to Suri telling us her beloved Mama’s wishes, makes lots of sense. I am now going to reconsider my decision to be buried, for this very reason. Suri, you’re a beautiful & brave girl, just like your Mama. 🩷 I know she will be watch in over you, Dad and your little brother, really proud of you all. 🫶🏼 I’m so sorry you had to lose your Mother so early. Sending hugs from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 to you all. Xoxo

[@beeintelligent3259]

I can see the sadness and stress on his face. You are such a good man. Your daughter is absolutely stunning! ❤❤❤

[@victoriariley7490]

Both beautiful father and daughter..Stay close and do wonderful things together 😊❤

[@nellyzen1096]

She is definitely watching over you…I lost my father in a very traumatic way 3 years ago and at first I didn’t see or feel anything because I was grieving and my energy was very low. In time I started to see the messages and even saw him in my house a few times during the day. He also told me to paint to heal from this trauma and I’ve been painting for 2 years and it has really helped me. God bless you guys, you are in my prayers.

[@brendagonzales4532]

God bless you and your family..❤

[@Nope-NotToday]

Oh my God! She look så much like her Ivory. So beautiful ❤️

[@Sandra-faith]

Tom, you are doing a great job. No-one knows how to do grief. Just take each day as it comes and be there for each other ❤

[@annaclaire9927]

Your daughter is beautiful like her mum

[@sonyagraske376]

I missed the live, watching now... your daughter is beautiful❤

[@mariasare4546]

Suri you are a carbon copy of your Mom. So pretty, I love your face. Thank you for joining your Dad in this blog. Take care of your Brother and your Dad. SALAMAT.

[@angelalynch9286]

Thank you so much for sharing, we are always here to listen and support always. You are all so lovely and I pray that your pain eases . Love to you all and as I said we are all here for you ❤️

[@maridelarchibald8698]

My friend pass away. Leave the 4 kids. 16, 13, 10. And 5 years old. And the Husband is working in th grocery so financially is an struggle. Were fine now at the end it takes so much time to learn the accept the fact that my friend is not around. So hats off your bravery

[@nancisailormoy9135]

Suri you are beautiful and look like your Mom, so she will live on through you ❤

[@reghhxxi521]

best wishes to a great life ahead! i also lost my husband to cancer last May 16th and the loneliness is unbearable everyday. i seek support from my own family just to keep me sane. your strength is an inspiration to me, i hope you guys keep on posting life updates. 🙏💐

[@peppapig3761]

❤. Very humble and brave family grateful for sharing such a hard journey in your life. Wimbledon London

[@twinklenow1]

Good job. What a beautiful young woman you are sweetheart. Your mama is so proud of you!

[@damizu]

Oh my… Zuri is much like her mom. Tom, Thank you so much for keep continuing this channel and CC too. You have made Ivory’s strong legacy. Wow soo nice father and daughter to participate this channel. I enjoyed to watch you and family’s happy life. Please keep continuing!! ❤🌸❤️

[@ellenhaben1217]

God bless you and your daughter and son💖💖💖🙏

[@wacekenjoroge6191]

Thanks for the update Suri is beautiful like her mom.

[@lydiabarnhart5449]

She's beautiful 😘 Like her mom❤️❤️❤️❤️Sending Love to you and your family ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

[@missems7909]

May Her Beautiful Soul Rest in Peace. May God continue to give you and the kids strength and patience. 🙏🏽 ❤

[@CindyKinney]

Wow, Suri, you look so much like your mother. She was so beautiful and so are you. Stay strong.

[@debbiemartinez8989]

With cancer, there are many different factors. It can be the air outside, pollutants in the air. One’s body can’t manage it. It can a person’s eating habits. It can be a gene mutation, the body isn’t working right. The truth is, many things can cause cancer. Lung cancer is a hard cancer to fight. One hopes and prays the cancer goes into remission. The life expectancy for lung cancer is 9 months. Ivory definitely was a fighter. She loved her family very much. God had blessed Ivory with a sweet and beautiful family.

[@coraleahs]

God Bless you three, I believe she is shining down upon you, and will always be.

[@retiredred]

I'm watching now. My love to you both and your family. Suri is very beautiful and reminds me of Ivory ❤ Thank you so much for sharing with us!

[@rmarvel169]

Thank you for sharing your beautiful mom & wife with the world, she was a beautiful, classy lady! She's very proud to look down on her beloved family and is always with you ❤️ 🙏🏻😘

[@fishfinder6427]

I am from the USbut lived in Greece fir 2 years. Have fun Suri! Thank you for sharing your Mom with us. ❤

[@everythingjen1]

Aw suri is so sweet like her mother~ I lost my mother to a heart attack a week before my 16th bday many, many years ago. It's so hard at that age to navigate life, thank God she has you to help & guide her 💕.. Thank you for answering those questions & I look forward to future videos!

[@Nova_Spencer]

I lost my precious Dutch mother 2 months ago from lung cancer. I came across your channel in January this year while researching my mom's cancer on KZbin. I've been watching all your videos and can feel your pain and relate so much to what you're currently and have gone through. I cry every day and I hope my pain will ease as the months go by. I wish this for you and your children too ❤

[@maryreynolds5310]

P.S. your are correct, don’t force the issue..time will heal in each one of you at your own time. No rush, just take your time at healing and think of happy thoughts every chance you can.

[@Beafree]

lung cancer isn't always due to smoking. My husband's aunt died of lung cancer, she never smoked.

[@louannespada3035]

I will continue to Pray for you.... Ivory loved Y'all so Much.

[@sallyhoward8971]

Just wanted to say , God bless your family I know what you're going through. I lost my daughter to brain cancer. She was only 42. I miss her terribly,!! Please take care of yourselves. Sally

[@slimcatandme]

❤prayers for your family during this difficult time. Your daughter is beautiful just like her morher.

[@Jingleee]

I’m from the Philippines and i am a mother too,my heart goes out to all of you most esp to the little boy too young still needed his mom but you are a loving dad and Suri a loving big sister and God will bless and look after you all..Godbless richly stay strong then Ivory wil be watching over you all an Angel by your sides..sending hugs!❤

[@katebaker8763]

Your sweet daughter is so beautiful like her Momma 🙏🙏🙏 just listening now so nice to get to know you both🙏

[@christinerowland3785]

Maybe a school counselor would be a good route for the kids

[@j3d354]

I’m so sorry for your loss 🥲. My mother fought cancer also when I was a young girl

[@shanhiebner6476]

Wow!!!! Thomas and Suri, you are so very brave, Suri you just as beautiful as your Mamma, Ivory is a special angel always watching over you guys❤❤❤❤

[@mariakulasa3077]

Godspeed ❤

[@SP4RAPTURE]

I love you both, and your son, I haven't seen him yet, I pray for you every time I see a video , God help you to heal from your sadness . Much love, hugs, and you both are bringing love and smiles to me as I watch your video. Thank you for doing this ❤❤ blessings, from Susan xxx

[@lilyanamenchaca]

Zuri is absolutely beautiful. Many blessings and best wishes for you all. Love and Light from Dallas Texas U.S.A ❤️

[@caroljordt8045]

What a beautiful family! O Greece that is awesome that she has the opportunity to go on a holiday! I know she will have a ball!

[@raymarriss2440]

Howdy from Texas! Prayers for your family! Hi Suri, so nice to meet you. Blessings in all you do... 💜

[@kathystevens8163]

Ivory was so blessed to have such a wonderful family. Blessings 🫶⚘️

[@OneLove101.]

11:48 ❤️‍🩹 How sad. I hope you can keep busy, and your loss is still so recent, so bad days are completely expected. With time, the conversations about Mum will become easier. Memories of your Mum being ill, will eventually start to fade and it will be the happier memories at the front of your mind. It’s okay to feel sad, bad, or even angry. Keep talking to people, your friend, your Dad, school, and let everyone know how you are feeling. 🩷 A nice holiday with your friend and her family, will do you lots of good, and it’s something to look forward to. Thank you for sharing this with us. 💕 xx

[@geraldinemarciabennett1025]

Lost of love and God's blessing to you and your children Ivery will always be you'll and look after you'll ❤🎉God will make good decisions for you and the guidance Will always be with you'll

[@juleswilliams1960]

thank you for continuing to share the journey. Ivory was a beautiful lady.

[@sharonfrench4299]

I am glad she's going back to school keep her mind occupied you have to try and keep yourself busy going to be very hard for a while I see the pain on both your faces so sorry she will have a good time in Greece with her friends God bless you and your family one-day-at-a-time dear she was beautiful woman and so strong no more pain she can rest but she will be watching over you sending prayers your way ❤️🙏

[@debbiehunter2155]

Siri enjoy your get away with your friend. Your mom would want you to be happy and have fun!! She will always be with you.

[@annerusso8835]

Thank you so much for the update. Everyone grieves differently. You all went through a very rough time. One day at a time. Suri it is great that you are going to Greece for a holiday. Have a great time. It will be good for you to get away. Again thank you for taking the time to keep us informed. Enjoy.

[@ceebedor7290]

Thinking of your terrible loss. It was kind and brave for Ivory to share her story with us. I wish your family every possible blessing.💕

[@berniemartin1941]

God bless your family.

[@lilliearvizu9447]

Blessings 🙏🏻

[@Cissi2009]

Thank you for taking the time to discuss and explain to us.

[@charlesmacpherson904]

Such a great father and husband! 🙏🏻 your daughter is beautiful!! ❤

[@debbiemartinez8989]

A beautiful Zuri. You guys are great and brave. May God bless your family!

[@ericaaubie860]

So sorry for😢your loss! She was such a beautiful woman. May God bless you all, and God will bring you through.

[@dikidoma8169]

Love to see that you are continuing with this Chanel god bless

[@tracypotter3748]

One day at a time it's so heartbreaking for your whole family my thoughts are with you 😢😢😢

[@cindygonzalez7912]

We loved your mom zuri, May God bless you brother and your dad ❤❤❤ my heart goes out to you. May God give you peace❤great to see you suri, visit us more offen❤ we would love to see you. You did great dad❤ your getting more comfortable with lives👏👏

[@Elischarlot]

God bless you and your family 🤍

[@angelasmith1072]

I lived in Netherlands for 7 years until my Dutch partner died I could speak Dutch a little it's a hard language too learn we spoke English together I found most can speak English because of tv I send you and family sacred blessings as I know what your going through

[@garyjohnson8239]

Lost my wife 8 years ago lung cancer spread to her brain before we found out and 7 months later I removed her from life support alone I feel your lost I pray that some day that a cure is found God bless you and your family

[@debbiehunter2155]

Prayers and blessings to you and your children!! May God give you comfort and peace.

[@arianmendoza8141]

My aunt never smoke but died of lung cancer, really sad that Ivory was young, also my daughter was only 21 died of colon cancer but non of our family or her dad side with history of colon cancer. God Bless you and your kids, I know the feeling it’s hard and the longer it’s getting harder. 🙏🤗

[@josianejojo2605]

Thank u for sharing n update May ur loving wife rest in peace With the angels

[@elainecartwright1793]

So heartbreaking stay strong for you beautiful family xxxxxx

[@annaclaire9927]

God bless your family. May Ivory rest in peace.❤❤❤❤

[@taebebe9528]

Thx for your updates stay strong for eachother, I think you will all come out stronger and closer as a family bcz of the passing of Ivory your wife and their mother. Suri is a beautiful young lady just like her mom she will be great human being and woman in life and successful in whatever she does in life just as her mom, also Kai will be a young wonderfull boy and man in life. I wish you all nothing but love and happiness Godbless your family and Ivory watch over you 🙏♥

[@Naznin45]

You are a wonderful dad

[@patriciaobrien2775]

Thank you for sharing your heart and life with us. I am sending you my sincere condolences to your family. May you always find the strength to carry on as she would have liked I'm sure. The love remains forever. Keep her tucked in your hearts❤

[@konaroxy1852]

May God bless your family ❤🙏🏻 Thank you very much for sharing in the most difficult time.

[@Maria-tl1lm]

Huge hugs to you all, you are strong and Ivory will be really proud of you. Best wishes. 💚💚💛💛🧡🧡❤❤💖💖💜💜💙💙

[@carolcrouch4688]

I appreciate your posts I love to hear how you and your family are doing love to you all

[@JUNJUN-lw2vr]

It's nice to see you both are smiling. Will you guys be visiting Phillipines to visit Ivory family? That would probably nice for Suri also. Keep posting videos you guys are like family to me

[@heidiescobedo2870]

Prayers & Hugs to all of you.

[@Ceek2353]

I admire your strength Tom. My family extends our most deepest sympathies. We are comforted by the fact that she is in a better place.

[@quicktastic]

Beautiful like her mom and speaking 3 languages. Obviously a very smart girl. Wishing the very best for all of you and also peace in what must be a very sad and challenging time. I lost my mom when I was young like Siri. It is not something you 'get over'. I don't mean that in a negative way, just that you don't get over such a thing where it doesn't bother you anymore. It will always be a tough loss. What does happen is that you come to accept it and that you must live your life (as your mom would want). The good news is that your mom will stay with you always. Be comforted that nothing can ever take her away from your heart and mind.

[@Marymary999-h8s]

Thank you Tom & Suri❤❤

[@frandaniel886]

Sending healing to your family. Ivory most likely had a gene mutation causing her cancer not smoking. Immunotherapy works better on gene mutations than chemo.

[@miriamm5330]

Be strong for your kids, you got a nice family. Watching from Houston TX.

[@bellapabillo1170]

Nice to hear from you both after Ivory's journey to heaven. Keep on moving and take good care of your 2 children, more hugs to your family

[@Barbara-ch3qf]

I think you are doing amazingly well. You show such respect for one another’s limits. I think you’re right to give yourself and the children the room to grieve in in your individual ways. The next thing to address for the channel is how to rebuild your lives after such a loss.

[@Jennifer-qo4kz]

🥹 she had a loving caring family and it’s all so so sad

[@marthamarshall7088]

Suri looks just like her mama. Absolutely beautiful!!

[@billiwright39]

Sending prayers❤

[@barbaradeschamps4532]

Suri is so beautiful ❤ Sweet Ivory must be so proud.

[@marthainsalaco9266]

Thank you both for this post❤ I can see how incredibly hard it is for the two of you😪 Always keep the communication open ,Never stop talking about Ivory ..Everything is all so new and the heartbreak is constant,But time will heal and all of you will be at a better place to talk more freely and be open with one another ♥️It’s ok for each of you to grieve in your own way ,Just make sure to come together with it too ..

[@eunicelove4471]

Beautiful family May The Most High Bless your family 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@teresa3221]

Biggest hugs to you all Suri looks beautiful take care of yourself Tom it’s a hard road she was beautiful your Ivory and such a beautifully dressed lady so smart in her clothes and little Kyle it is hard for him to process but you are a great dad it takes time