losing connection with friends

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@Idontwant1 2 ай бұрын

It’s hard when you don’t feel like your friends are moving at the same pace as you. Especially when they are settling down and you’re still doing your own thing. Don’t worry about it. They are older than you and you will probably be at the same stage when you get a bit older.

@clarejohnson7387 2 ай бұрын

This!!

@rileyxcx 2 ай бұрын

i havent had a friend in a few years and your videos make me feel alot less lonely. love u diva 💜

@AdamMcIntyre2 2 ай бұрын

sending u so so so much love

@briankuhn_ 2 ай бұрын

Riley’s comment hits home with me. I know exactly how that feels. Going through the same rn.

@angelinakaranfilovski6936 2 ай бұрын

@@briankuhn_ me too, i find adam's videos so comforting for this reason

@Madisonnnnnnnnnnnn Ай бұрын

Same 💜

@memememe7107 2 ай бұрын

I’ve found as long as I’m maintaining self-authenticity, I will be friends with the people I’m meant to be friends with. That being said though, I do believe that sometimes people just are not in the stage they would need to be to be compatible with my life even though I have a great history with and/or truly love said person and vice versa. I know I’ve had stages where I was going through my own stuff and I probably wouldn’t want to be friends with who I was at the time. People constantly vary day-to-day. It’s definitely a very nuanced dilemma everyone will continuously face.

@LittleKantBoy 2 ай бұрын

12:34 that perfume application omg I smell it from here babe

@sharyn20611 2 ай бұрын

Is Adam becoming a beauty channel oh my goodness that would be so cute ❤

@lauren_mcq 2 ай бұрын

Adam that’s enough powder sis😂♥️ you’re so funny

@hifibeef 2 ай бұрын

Dude I'm 51 and went thru the same crap w my friends at your age. It does suck but just do you..they will be back

@KuriyamaSan5110 2 ай бұрын

Your puppies always steal my heart 🐶🥰

@f4ithy 2 ай бұрын

really late to this but i so needed this i lost friends since i dropped college and i never really had many friends in primary and secondary thank you adam

@ros1e269 2 ай бұрын

the same thing happened to me too :( hope ur doing well diva

@f4ithy 2 ай бұрын

@@ros1e269 im honestly doing so much better i made friends outside of my area so i still get to go out hope ur doing good too 💜

@clarejohnson7387 2 ай бұрын

I’m 27 and this hits home so hard. I had a period of being really ill from 2020-2022 so I was not well mentally or physically. A lot of my friends drifted away because of it. It hurts to think that we’re not as close anymore because of that time I was MIA- but I appreciate that that time showed me who my true and lifelong friends are, who were constantly checking on me.

@ronnstoppable 2 ай бұрын

just saw u uploaded this the same day i had to ask my old group of friends if they still liked me. we all used to be incredibly tight before i graduated and over the summer, but it seems like they stopped talking to me as soon as school started again. and its not that distance is a thing because im going to community college less than 20 mins away and they have group chats they text in constantly with ppl in uni over 3 hours away. they seem excited every time i pop up and they see me, but never reach out unless i do first or they were reminded of my existence (which rarely happens). it sucks to see people u used to care about so deeply phase out of your life, but i know im exactly where im supposed to be. your videos have really helped me through the incredibly lonely transition from high school to college, and i even bonded with someone new because were both huge muckers. thanks for always being there, adam

@danihydrant9767 Ай бұрын

My heart melting with the doggo cuddles

@Jensenbosio 2 ай бұрын

As someone who’s been suicidal on + off, I am not in the business of comparing the timeline of my life to others. If I’m gonna have to live through life and the pain it can bring, I’m gonna do whatever the I want. Also, most live incredibly boring lives, to where the timeline itself is what is exciting to them…I run and hide from the thought…

@alejandrasylvana805 2 ай бұрын

I just finished watching peter video and then your last video and i was “now what?” Because i’m still doing my walk and you just upload a new one! 💜 love that for me.

@hannahw90hw 2 ай бұрын

some of your friends will be divorced by 30, sadly - I was that person. But its ok, I found the right person after that. other friends I know were single well into their 20's and then met the right person. Some are still single in their late 30s but their career is great and they have great friendships. Your life is a completely unique story, you don't need to be where anyone else is in life.

@vanessiek 2 ай бұрын

You’re so young. I got married at 36, we bought a house right after and now I’m about to have our son and I’m 37. Don’t compare your journey. And don’t rush and end up with the wrong one. ❤

@daniellejadecro 2 ай бұрын

13:13 omgggg i can totally relate. I dropped a friend that stole my expensive lip liner (it’s not just because of that but it was definitely a contributing factor)

@Justmaddielol Ай бұрын

you should try the NARS light reflecting foundation ! it's very light weight and makes my skin look amazinggg. i think you'd like the glass skin kind of look it gives you 💙

@sienna66657 2 ай бұрын

I so badly needed this video right now! I feel like I’m growing so much faster them much of my friends I’m beginning to get annoyed of them because they are starting to lack maturity and it’s so sad to say it’s gotten like this

@sailboatcaptain 2 ай бұрын

I can definitely relate with feeling like I’m in a different life stage than my friend group that I’ve been with since I was 16 (I’m 24 now). I feel like I’m moving faster than my group (buying a house, living with my partner, graduating uni) which makes me feel soooooo isolated and sad because I can’t do the things I used to before lol I feel like I still crave being a young and wild girl with no obligations and responsibilities but i also feel soo guilty for feeling that way because I feel so ungrateful AHHH!! It’s been a weird time but thank you for helping me see the other perspective because I really felt like I was the only one longing on the way things used to be :,)

@FCUK- 2 ай бұрын

Take YOUR time. You are still so so young. Have fun and continue doing you. 30s is a good age to settle down or just whenever you're ready. When I think back to 22 I was so young and still learning. But it is sad that as u age you have to plan hangouts.

@AnimeInkArt 2 ай бұрын

Jesus Adam you made this right on time. I've been feeling this for a few years. I started a art business on top of My regular job in 2021and I've been through a lot this year. I feel like as I worked on my self and had to deal with a lot I always couldn't reach out first and I noticed some people didn't reach out because I didn't. But I gained a new set of people that are understanding and we catch up like nothing happened compared to my old friends which I still see form them to time and love but I just don't talk as frequent . Or see them as frequent

@quickpawss 2 ай бұрын

i absolutely love this video, thank you adam

@ihatebbqbeans 2 ай бұрын

thank you for this adam

@klialuvsbvb 2 ай бұрын

Holy shit im early for once. I’m kinda glad you posted this tonight, i’ve been dealing with the same thing recently :’) Much love to u Adam 🤍🤍

@alex5716 2 ай бұрын

Navigating through life, friendship, and maintaining those friendships can be so difficult as you get older. Sometimes friendships are meant for a season and some friendships last forever. It’s hard, but I’ve learned at 36 years of age to treasure the friends you have in your life and allow them to bloom or let them go when the times allow. Also, as someone who didn’t get engaged till just last year please know you have plenty of time to figure it all out. Enjoy loving yourself and taking care of you!! The rest will come when it supposed to. You’re amazing and are doing amazing things!!♥️💚

@Smith-Lucas 2 ай бұрын

❤

@Smith-Lucas 2 ай бұрын

Hope your doing well and stay strong

@alainaperfater9341 2 ай бұрын

thank you so so much for this

@cassielee3874 2 ай бұрын

i love u adam!!

@lilacocean4137 2 ай бұрын

congrats on selling out chicagooo!!!

@jonathancabrera7543 2 ай бұрын

Awesome A New Vid

@FURRYHATER1214 2 ай бұрын

I'm in love with my friend but he can't know 💔

@autumnwillow2111 16 күн бұрын

a friend break up imo is nearly as bad if not worse than a relationship break up fr depending on the history w the friend

@cambriajenkins6620 2 ай бұрын

The relevance that this came out 😭😭😭

@emina2214 2 ай бұрын

I might misheard, but did you say your friend Neave is in her mid thirties. Is that Neave from podcast? I thought she was your age

@katiecannedtuna 2 ай бұрын

heyyyy Adam 💖 much love 💖

@sammymaldonado8598 2 ай бұрын

im also getting ready (to relate hard prob according to the title)

@Avalonkenton 2 ай бұрын

Are you back in Brighton now ? I can’t keep up with all the moves

@JoF999 2 ай бұрын

Congratulations on selling chicago out 👏👏👏 also how do you look so good after the club!? I always looked like the which from wizard of oz after melting 😂

@meerlovesliv 2 ай бұрын

i was talking abt my ex bestie who left in feb this year that i miss and blah blah

@LifeOfAStan101 2 ай бұрын

i've never clicked on a notification so fast 🤣

@Lola-AreaCode212 2 ай бұрын

I'd come to a show if you did one in Vienna, Austria but I have no idea how many "mückers" you have here. Shout loud if you ever pass this way! 💗 (I'm actually a New Yorker btw)

@Buncode7 2 ай бұрын

wait adam i know this is entirely irrelevant but you look so cute with your hair pinned back ! i thought you cut your hair and it looked really good HAHA

@c_c_mtg_ 2 ай бұрын

what's the name of the Fenty body shimmer? When I google I'm only getting the body tint with shimmer in it

@alejandrasylvana805 2 ай бұрын

I get it, i know my bestie since we were babies (without exaggeration lol) and we always been in different stages in life but this last 2 years It seems too noticeable, you know what i mean? like i feel like she's getting further away from me but i’m not sure that she actually notice that…and also, i feel like i’m putting all the effort while she barely try and that hurts.

@emmadear3276 2 ай бұрын

Wow i wouldnt have guessed Naeve is mid 30s, she definitely doesnt look it. Im 33 and watch Adam's content and i often feel maybe am i too old for this community lmao but hearing Naeve's age makes me feel a bit better