LOSING OUR MOM: OUR EXPERIENCE WITH GRIEF

[@ambermayer0521]

Coming up on 3 months of my mom’s passing and I just feel numb. I know God is bring me through - the only hope I have is in Him! My mother is such an amazing woman and I want her legacy can live on

[@beindyamarrisamaran94]

I lost my mum 39 days ago and it has only been getting harder. Grief is a walk alone. But it gives me comfort in knowing that she’s pain free and is in a much better place. I could relate to many things said here. She has been the most important person in my life and forever will. Thank you so much for this video ❤️

[@hemmyranjith2133]

im so sorry for your loss😔 may she rest in peace🕊🕊

[@ctony3158]

Sorry 🙏🏽 :(

[@beindyamarrisamaran94]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@thanuska.s]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss love. My prayers are with you and your family and stay strong, I am sure she's in a better place and is watching down on you always. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond as well, we truly appreciate it ❤

[@arunag9957]

May her soul rest in peace 🙏🏼💐

[@ratitrajectory6664]

Lost my mom 7 years ago. Every single day I miss her and every once a while I will think "If only mom was here." You really never get used to the loss. Sorry for your loss. Be strong.

[@rohini9999]

I’m grieving really hard too. In October I lost my mom and it was so sudden even today I feel the shock and it’s new. We don’t know the reason why she passed because she was happy and healthy and full of energy. Losing a mother is losing everything. I tell her even today, with you a biggest part of me died too. I feel you girls.

[@JayStephan]

Wow...I can relate. I lost my father. He was on a business trip in India when he passed. Having the funeral in India was literally the most horrific experience of my life. Something that could have been executed with dignity and respect felt like an act or a show and tell of how many tears were shed by who. I had people I barely knew come up to me crying their eyes out telling me what I should do, how I should behave, and how I should now take care of my mom. I was mute through the whole experience because I was in disbelief of how "fake" everything felt at a time when it should've been about comforting my mom and comforting my sisters and I. For me the healing process was a full year. After a year I realized that death is part of life. We all must go. So instead of being sad, I now remember my dad with smiles and sometimes I catch myself laughing, remembering some of the funny things he used to say or do. In my heart I feel he's still here with me and believing this, I no longer feel sad but happy that I got to share the year I did with him and now he lives in my heart forever. It took my mom 2 years and now she also remembers him with smiles. I've learned that we must embrace life and death equally.

[@thanuska.s]

I am so sorry to hear about your father. I can completely understand everything you mentioned as it was very similar to my own experiences. It's unfortunate that it has to be that way, but it's just something we have to ignore and focus on what's really important. I am so glad that you and your family were able to heal and grieve in a positive way. He is definitely watching down on you guys and I am sure he's really proud. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we really appreciate it ❤

[@Bonitawrites]

Losing my mom last month was different than losing my father. I was closer to my father and can still break down in tears thinking of him eleven years after his passing somewhat suddenly. My mother died from a terminal illness and we weren't as close, yet her death has deeply stunned me. It is traumatic. How other people didn't express concern for my kids, my brother, and me the first day irritated me. I needed some support but interaction overwhelmed me. I can't imagine having to greet people that first day the way you did. I've never understood the "triggered" concept until now. What a strange, difficult life-disrupting experience. I'm glad that you're close to each other and can support each other. Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm so sorry for your loss, and for the trauma we all have to experience when our parents pass. They do become our angels.

[@SarahS145]

My dad passed away 5 months ago and I still struggle everyday. I'm an only child so it's been really hard trying to deal with his death and it's truly a lonely experience. All the emotions and experiences you had with your mom's passing is exactly how I've been feeling - literally crying everyday and not knowing how to move on while everyone else has moved on and the worst part is not being able to open up to anyone about it. I try not to think back to the day it happened because of how traumatic and triggering it can be but no matter what, this is something that is unimaginably hard to deal with. Really thankful that you opened up about your mom, it honestly does help to know what I'm feeling is normal.

[@anjalijoshi832]

lost my dad of COVID-19 one month ago. still a shock. videos like this make me feel less alone. thank you

[@NoaPenda]

I think no one really gets over the passing of a loved one, but we just learn to live with it. I just lost my boyfriend on the 2nd January 2021 after he accidentally shot himself in the thigh and its very hard. We did not expect him to pass away because the doctors told us that the bullet did not touch the bone or anything critical, but a day later he pass away just like that. Some days are better and others i just want to sleep. Am very proud of how strong you guys are. I cant imagine talking about this topic for more than 5 minutes and not cry.

[@manashasivaparan2271]

Can’t imagine how hard it must have been to make this video. So proud of you both. So inspiring ❤️

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for taking the time to watch the video love, we truly appreciate it ❤

[@nirusiva2004]

I lost my mom 13 years when I was about your (first daughter) age and I went through the same it took many years to come out from the grief. Both of you are very matured. Thank you for sharing. God bless you!.

[@thanuska.s]

So sorry to hear about your mom love. I am sure she's watching over you and is with you every step of the way. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we truly appreciate it ❤

[@samine1994]

I can't even imagine what you guys went thro. Watching this video got me crying and gave me a different perspective of life. I'm so sorry for ur loss but ur mother is always right beside watching every step you take!

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we really appreciate it ❤

[@britneydunlop-moncrieff382]

You guys uploaded this the day my mom passed.. just watching today. Thanks so much for posting..Exactly right.. I wanted to see if how I'm feeling is normal. Such an informative and helpful video. I'm currently in the numb phase..still doesn't feel real. I was there when my mom passed.. it was traumatic, yet beautiful at the same time. Please make an updated video in the future, I'd love to watch.

[@ajdropss]

Got me crying on a Monday girl! You guys are soooo strong and I’m so glad you made this video! You two are truly incredible ♥️

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for taking the time to watch love, we truly appreciate it the love and support ❤

[@keshan2675]

Death means different things for different people. As you grow, your understanding of what death means deepens and becomes more relatable.

[@thanuska.s]

100% agree with you!

[@multivampireaddict]

I am so glad that you made this video, it makes me feel not alone in grieving my mother or feeling the emotions that I have been feeling, and even the grieving of lost experiences.

[@thanuska.s]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss love. I am sure she's in a better place and is always watching over you. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond as well, we really appreciate it ❤

[@naeemahM]

I lost my mom last September and I was having a really rough day and I found this video so helpful. Grief is a roller coaster of emotions. Moving forward with grief is the hardest thing for anyone to do. You only get one mom. We were best friends. Therapy has truly helped me process such a huge loss. Thank you both for your transparency!!

[@savanaa.624]

I've experienced pretty much everything that you both did when I lost my Dad. I can totally relate. My Dad's funeral happened the very next day after he passed away. There were family and relatives that never bothered to call or visit my Dad when he was alive, but all of a sudden they were present at the funeral and at our home. (I realize life gets busy and people are doing their own things, and came to pay their respect.) I had to suck up all my emotions and be of service to everyone...to prepare food, pass out food, greet them, do the dishes, clean our place up....and so on. I felt so many emotions...anger, hate, sadness... I just needed time to grieve...he just passed away.. I wanted to cry but had to perform for the people of my culture and religion. I was so messed up pretending to be emotionless. It was a traumatizing experience. I had no family or siblings for support. People seemed so judgmental with their own experiences and beliefs on how things are supposed to be done. Some don't know how to react or what to say so they just presume. I needed to be around people that could relate to my loss and comfort me. At a time like this; joining a support group, calling a bereavement helpline or speaking to a counsellor can be very helpful. Most are free services, and they can be very helpful. The professionals are there trained to listen and help us through such times. Take Care.

[@iamshowkace]

I can’t imagine how hard it must have been to film this. I’m so proud of both of you. Sending you strength and love today and everyday! ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you sis for all the support through this entire process. Appreciate you ❤

[@MooreStationery]

So sorry for your loss. You are both very brave and have the same feelings we all do when something like this happens. All the best to you both as you heal. My mom passed away unexpectedly - that day, when I look back on it was so unusual. But I will say that God made it so that each of my siblings got time with her when on a regular day we would not have, if that makes sense. She was unwell. My sister and I drove her to the hospital. My mom and sis got out of the car at the ER. I parked the car and when I walked through the door, she was already unconscious. She was never revived. If someone asks, what are you afraid of. My answer is nothing. What I was most afraid of has already happened.

[@glambygilly]

Such an incredible video! So proud of you ladies ❤️

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much love it means a lot ❤️

[@blueblaze9862]

I lost my dad n u guys remind me of me n my sis. This is such a real video. Thank u:)) We will get thru this

[@24182able]

Came across ur video...watching u2 sisters talking abt ur mom was such a relatable experience. I lost my mom 3months ago..of a sudden heart attack out of nowhere..no signs...at all..i hv a sister n a brother n my father.I js could relate to every word u said.i am still in disbelief at times dt mummy is no more.....lots of love n courage to you

[@user-km2ie5ml5q]

my heart goes out to both of you and your family, losing a parent is never easy and I pray god shields you two with strength throughout your lives. Thank you for making this video and sharing your thoughts and feelings and helping others get through these dark times.

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for being so kind and taking the time to watch and respond, we really appreciate it ❤

[@kudomohan]

This was so hard to watch for me cus this is one fear I have , losing my mom and I am a mom of two little girls and I want to be there for them until they are ready to cope with loss . This is very sad, you guys are unbelievably brave ! I am a follower and I seen that video of you both in your moms sarees ! I know her fav colour is blue. As a mom I just want to say your mother has done an incredible job in raising such thoughtful amazing children . She is proud right now watching you both ❤️

[@thanuska.s]

Totally understand your fears as it's something we've experienced too. The best you can do is enjoy every single moment with each one of your loved ones. I am glad you were able to connect in some way. Thank you for the kind words and thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we really appreciate it ❤

[@kimayamaya8732]

Love this video! The way you all are feeling makes me feel normal. Just lost my dad about a month ago so this video was extremely helpful in so many ways and made me get in tune with my thoughts and learning how to grieve. Thank you ladies so much for sharing your story. I Will be praying for you guys as you know the passing of a parent never goes away, we just learn how to cope the best way we know how

[@abinayahelbig9068]

Thank you for sharing such a big and personal part of your life! I can't even get myself to understand how hard it must have been to talk about your grief publicly. You both are such beautiful and resilient women ❤️ This video is so inspiring. My heart goes out to you guys! I said this before about your videos but you guys are so authentic and relatable. My most favourite channel!

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much love for taking the time to watch and respond. It truly means the world to have your support and love, thank you ❤

[@FashionSense518]

It's been a year for me and I can't imagine how to live the rest of my life without my mom. I mourn for her everyday. Mom came to me in my dream last night to hug me tight ❤

[@3k445]

I lost my mum recently and a similar age to you both in the UK. I had random individuals call me and the first question was how old was she? And what happened? No condolences, put the phone down to such individuals and in the Hindu culture people are very selfish. Your video has brought a lot of strength and as the only female in the house- I definitely feel the pressure particularly when all the males tell you to be strong.

[@shwetasingh7924]

I have lost my brother.... And day by day it's very difficult to except that he is not there for me.... He was everything to me...

[@thanuska.s]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Stay strong and just know that he is always there with you and watching over you ❤

[@yofashionmelody8435]

Oh dears thank you for sharing your experience & I pray God keeps you stronger & flourishing to greater levels in life.🙏🏼🙏🏼💙

[@BethanyB_]

my mom passed last june and it’s been the hardest thing ever. i never ever youtube searched anything on grieving and yet this video popped on my feed. thanks for your transparency, i’ve been wanting to talk about my mom on my channel but it’s literally so hard. from the lack of support from other people to feeling sad everytime i think about my mom won’t be able to meet her future grandkids or be at my wedding, it’s so depressing. i totally relate to 2020 being the year of being unmotivated. grieving ontop of having to deal with the craziness of this pandemic was so hard on my mind and my body. so i applaud you guy’s honesty and i admire it ❤️ thank you for this video.

[@thanuska.s]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss love, stay strong. It's going to be a tough road but I know you will get through it and your mom will be there with you every step of the way. I am so glad you were able to relate. Those are definitely thoughts that cross my mind every single day so I know how tough it is. It's just important to remember although they won't be there with us physically for new milestones, they are watching and blessing us. I hope you are able to find the strength to continuing moving forward while having your beautiful mom in you memories. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we really appreciate it ❤

[@BethanyB_]

@@thanuska.s yes, amen to that! ❤️

[@EJ-vn4pv]

I had the same experience regarding the 30 days after when everyone else disappears and goes back to normal life. It felt like I was more alone and the world was just rushing by me while I was stuck in one place. Grief therapy helped a lot!!!

[@lailaj3020]

You two are so strong, sending you both lots of love

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond love, we truly appreciate it ❤

[@sabrinalaporte_]

I lost my mom 3 months ago and I can relate with this video so much. I felt like I was trying to be so strong through the first couple weeks. After the funeral I just found my myself just losing it and just crying at random moments. Grief is 1000% hard.

[@JaspreetKaur-sr9oq]

Thank you both for sharing this video and discussing the loss of your mom and how you coped through that process. I lost my dad a week ago and unfortunately it was during a covid lockdown so the the process had been a nightmare. He was in the hospital for over a month but we weren’t allowed to see him until he was pretty much on his death bed. Now that he’s gone, it feels so surreal. Like a big part of me is now missing. I miss him. I constantly wonder where he is and if he’s okay. I’m hope he’s pain free and happy. I was looking up videos on grief and I’m glad I found yours. I’m so tired of hearing stay strong and you’ll get over it or maybe you should go back to work as a distraction. Why can’t we be sad in our culture?? Sigh. Sorry for the long message. Hugs to you both. May your mom rest in eternal peace.

[@thearkedcrown]

I've been reviewing my journal I kept for the past 20 years and I was surprised to see how much anger I struggled with after my mom died because of what other people did or said to me. That anger lasted for years and was very difficult to let go of. I have spoken to people over the years with this same experience and it's comforting in a way to relate to people who went through something similar. Though I wish it had never happened to anyone.

[@bridgetjones5695]

I lost my beautiful mum 2 years ago and sometimes I can’t even believe that she is not around .. the only thing that gives me a bit relief that at least she reunited with my dad up in the heaven .. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💓

[@niyakasibhotla6766]

I’m so sorry for your loss and I hope you guys are as alright as you possibly can be. You’re right that there’s never an “okay” time to lose a parent and that people should always be given ample time and space to grieve in their own way. My mother experienced some serious health complications recently and I was terrified about losing her, so I can’t imagine what you guys are going through. Sending over lots of love and healing energy 💛

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you love for taking the time to watch and message. Glad you were able to understand and take something away! We also hope your mom is doing well now. Thank you again ❤❤❤

[@niyakasibhotla6766]

Thanuska Subramaniam Thank you so much for the kind words and wishes and for posting this video, I’m sure you’re helping so many people! ❤️

[@anniepalmer8667]

Lost my dad 6 weeks ago and have been having anxiety ever since. Some days I feel I have a handle on things on others I'm like a fish out of water. The process isn't linear and I'm trying to be at peace with that.

[@niroshaniekanayake647]

This is such a great video. I’m Sri Lankan and I love that you made a video based on our culture Because now I can share my emotional journey with someone else in my culture. Wishing the best for you girls and your healing process ❤️

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond love, we truly appreciate the support. We are glad you were able to relate ❤

[@iKajany]

This was incredibly touching, Thanuska and Heranyaa. Thank you for sharing your experiences. I really resonated with this video because I lost my furry best friend, 11 year old beagle named, Billa about a year ago. He was a part of the tight-knit family and it hurt and impacted my life a lot too. I do believe our loved ones that have passed are the light that are routing for us to be the better version of ourselves, even if it means that they are missing out on the unexplained, achieving memories/goals/experiences/milestones that fall into our laps once they are not here. Love both your work sistas and keep wearing your hearts' on your sleeves 🌹

[@thanuska.s]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss love. Totally agree, I know they are walking right beside us every step of the way even though we can't see them. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we really appreciate it ❤

[@livharden3015]

It’s the worst pain in the entire world. My mom died 4 years ago. she was only 45 and she has a heart attack in her sleep, my brother was sleeping next to her when it happened too. Or course I am extremely heartbroken but I’m thankful she didn’t die tragically

[@thanuska.s]

I am so sorry to hear about your mom, and thank you for sharing. No matter the cause of death I know it's still traumatic so stay strong love, my prayers are with you ❤

[@kimanthamoodley247]

Thank you. I lost my mom two weeks ago to covid. This has been so relatable

[@anitahelen4093]

Very straight.. and I totally understand how our culture had made us numb and I don't know when people gonna change...😑😑 Especially these unknown people named under relatives who gather only for funeral and family functions once in a blue moon. Shittt. And they passes gossips all around the whole family is really annoying. I'm really glad that you guys shared this. More Love and Healing to your both❤️ God Bless your family. More Power 🔥 Love from Chennai.

[@mithuranm]

Proud of you guys for being so strong

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you Mithuran ❤

[@thelifeoferica9134]

It’s a week since I lost my mother, and I feel the same! On the day my mother passed my aunts ( her sisters) took mine and my sisters pain of our mother and made it theirs and as well they took control of planning our mother’s funeral and my sister and I had no part in planning her funeral and we were not allowed to speak at our mothers funeral but I made that happen by speaking at my mother’s funeral

[@yemiomo3176]

Oh my this video is so spot on, thanks you ladies for sharing your experience. I really found this video encouraging and will favourite it each time I need a reminder my feelings & views are more is normal x

[@Jeyanesan1979]

I am almost crying by your video. I have lost my dad last year too. Whatever u experienced .. I experienced too. Bon courage les filles.. ( i am from France)

[@vasukirubhakaran5814]

Thank you so much for making this video, it's comforting to see that others are also grieving the lost of loved ones. Condolences to you and your family

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for the kind words and taking the time to watch and respond, we really appreciate it ❤

[@tiffanymarsh6682]

This is really helpful to hear. I lost my mum two weeks ago and I have a 4 month old. I just keep thinking what my mum isn't going to see with my daughter growing up etc But at the same time it doesn't feel real sometimes. Thank you for making this video. Sending love

[@sunitakaur3918]

I lost my parents 15 years ago. Thanks for sharing this ❤

[@Enheritance]

My father died last Thursday and a day before that I talked to him on facetime it had been 3 months sense we had seen him in the hospital because of Covid. I thank God that they allowed us to FaceTime him. Those 2 hours I cherish forever ❤️ he was so happy to see his family and I’m glad he went peacefully in his sleep the next 36 hours. I’m going to miss him so much. I hope I’m strong enough for the funeral in a couple days. I know grieving will take a lot of time but, it’ll get better day by day. I’ll definitely get some therapy. I was extremely close to my dad more than my mom and I have a 7 month old daughter . That now has to grow up without a grandpa . I’m glad he saw her on FT ( Covid sucks that he couldn’t physically see her ) and that bring me peace. Just thinking happy thoughts. 🙏🏾🥺

[@cocostylesnyc]

I lost my mom in 2007 and I will tell you this. it’s very important for parents to instill certain things within their children because my mom always told myself and my siblings to always live our lives. She always said always remember the good days we had and that’s what I do. Her birthday was yesterday January 4th and I always pull out old pictures and reminisce on all of our good times. Everyone handles grief different but trust me they are watching over you always. Thanks for sharing your story. I may share mine on my channel one day.

[@thanuska.s]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss love. No matter how long ago it was I am sure it still hurts the same so stay strong. You are completely right, they are always with us. Thank you for taking the time to watch and respond, we truly appreciate it ❤. I would definitely encourage you to, as I really feel like it helped me release a lot of my feelings. It may be therapeutic for you too!

[@baxterdestiny16]

So sorry for your loss 🙏🏾 I’m currently dealing with the loss of my baby boy so i definitely understand stay strong

[@jasveensachdev7511]

Its been over 2 years for me. I can empathise with all your experiences and observations. Its ok to not be ok and it will take as long as it takes. And people can say really frustrating things. Look after yourselves, sending love from Australia

[@amanihuss4630]

This is soo relatable! Most Asian cultures 😤 Beautiful ladies ❤️😍

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we truly appreciate it ❤

[@dangelicdevil]

Sending you love and strength. I know exactly how you both feel. Literally feeling EVERYTHING you’re saying. My mum passed away less than 2 months ago suddenly. It’s literally been the hardest thing I’ve ever been through. I feel u when u said “didn’t even wanna be here” I’m an only child and she was my everything especially since I lost my dad a few years back as well. It gives me hope that u say that it will get more manageable with time cos right now I can’t see a way out of it the pain is so unbearable.

[@madelynn187]

How are you

[@dangelicdevil]

@@madelynn187 seeing this a year later. Wow, what a difference a year makes. I hope that my comment helps whoever comes across it. She passed in 4/2021 now, and I feel so much better. I'm starting to feel like my old self again. Yes some days are harder than others but I don't cry as much, Of course I miss her every day but I'm now able to think of her and smile. I'm starting to do the things I used to love again and I don't feel as hopeless or broken. Sending everyone strength and love. You will be ok. ❤

[@durkamuru7572]

Love you both so much, both your strengths are so much amazing! Thank you for speaking out about this, it's so important!

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you boo for all your support, we truly appreciate you ❤

[@neelakirschner6966]

I lost my beloved mum 2 1/2 weeks ago to COVID. I feel so sad at the moment and I miss her terribly and at the moment it is so painful.

[@fionagiles2495]

Sorry for your loss. but glad you two have each other 💕💕💕

[@garishma27]

You guys said it all. Thank you for putting this up.

[@resmigopinathannair7216]

I lost my father 2 months back, i find difficult to move on...feel so lonely. Feeling vaccum. I dont want to share my feelings to everyone. My father had cardiac arrest. Before he had attack i spoke to him did videocall. Everyone says he went peacefully, he is a lucky man. But me and my sister cant come out of his loss...

[@justdoenme]

I lost my mother to her battles with cardiac arrest. Feeling lonely and not wanting to share with everyone happed with me too. I focused on family and one friend. I cant with my emotions and then I realize time passed a little longer without the emotions. People say it get better with time. I say it doesn’t. You just learn to live life differently. I emphasize with you.

[@resmigopinathannair7216]

@@justdoenme ❤❤..Heartfelt prayers..

[@akshayamanivannan]

I'll be real with y'all; you'll never heal from this but I just want to let you know that she's watching over you:)

[@thanuska.s]

Totally agree, thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we truly appreciate it ❤

[@TnECampbellAllstarZ]

Thank you for sharing this with all of Us, both of you are so resilient i see a very prosperous new year for you guys❤️

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you for being such a great friend through all of this ❤️

[@nanchycute]

Gracias por compartir ... perdí a mi mamá hace 1 mes ... y me relaciono con todo lo que compartieron. Esto es duro

[@sundari867]

Thanks for sharing your experience! Love to your family!

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for taking the time to watch, we truly appreciate it ❤

[@chitham2409]

Thank you for making this ❤️🙏🏽 so grateful.

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you for taking the time to watch, we really appreciate it ❤

[@agshayamaha9950]

This is such a moving video!! Love how you guys are so strong in talking bout this❤️

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we really appreciate it ❤

[@jeremywu1238]

I miss you so much, Grandma

[@jessicadhaliwal5456]

I’m so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you guys ❤️

[@yolandafaye6436]

I lost my mom about 25 years ago and the same time I was pregnant with my first born at 23 - it was a time that I didn’t remembering being pregnant -now my son is 25 years old and he reminds me of her -I know she is our guardian angel -🥰🥰🥰 it doesn’t get easier just manageable -one of the last thing she told me that she was proud of me --that is what. I hold on too

[@thanuska.s]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss love. No matter how long ago they passed, I know it must still be just as tough. I am glad you have memories with her to hold on to that are so special! Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we really appreciate it ❤

[@bukksbukks7415]

This is sooooo relatable, thank you so much for putting this up. ❤️❤️❤️

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for watching and taking the time to respond, we really appreciate it ❤

[@ajie333]

So proud of you guys for discussing this topic so honestly ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much boo for taking the time to watch, we truly appreciate the support ❤

[@myurijeyabalachandran700]

You guys both hit SO many important and relatable points for my own loss. The ending is so cute reminds me of my Appa :D! Sending Strength!

[@thanuska.s]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss love. I know your angel is always with you ever step of the way. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond as well, we really appreciate it ❤

[@shawmiakumar8057]

This video was so inspiring and you guys are both so strong and incredible! ❤️

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond love, truly appreciate it ❤

[@chindurajah6153]

Just want to climb in my phone and give you both a big hug❤ I lost my mum when i was almost 2 ..i am 26 now, got no memories of her but still have days where i can't deal with this feelings and thoughts You both got my biggest respect that you talk so open about that topic ❤❤

[@thanuska.s]

*hugs* I am so sorry to hear about your mom love. I am sure she's watching over you and I can totally understand. Appreciate you taking the time to watch and respond. Thank for the love and support ❤

[@NarsPrincess1]

My heart and prayers with you guys❤️❤️❤️❤️ you’re so strong and I’m very inspired

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you Krisha. We appreciate you taking the time to watch and message ❤❤❤❤❤

[@tetianarosokha6225]

You are so blessed to have each other.My mom passed away 1 month ago,my brother lost speech and cognitive ability cause of suicide attempt last feb.it would be so much easier to grieve with my brother which I used to have

[@thanuska.s]

I am so sorry to hear about your mom and brother. Stay strong and remain positive, my prayers are with you ❤ We definitely are blessed to have each other and won't ever take that for granted. Hope you are doing well love!

[@Ponthayadesigns]

Thank you for this, I can relate to your words. There is a book called "motherless daughters" by Hope Edelman which helped me in some way. Thank you for talking about this openly! Hugs

[@davinadhanraj5569]

Aww stay strong. God bless you guys. ♥️♥️

[@jyotsanadang7203]

i lost my mom suddenly due to heart failure. she had chest pain two days before her death and i kepttelling her to to go to dr. she said she wll be fine. and she was all ok the next day. bt the day after she passed away..ths happened a month back and iam everyday questioning myself feeling guiilty . i dont know how to live the rest of my life without her. she was a major part of my life i loved her the most i fought with her

[@janebritz7905]

Sending you both love from South Africa .💕💕🇿🇦

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we truly appreciate it ❤

[@shobnajayaraj2316]

Absolutely u guys are Right I lost my mom at the age of 2yrs still grieving!

[@londone989]

Awwww I’m so sorry, please stay strong 🌸🙏🏽

[@lc2296]

Thank you both for talking about grief

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we really appreciate it ❤

[@ronnettnorfleet3626]

It’s been a month since my mom pass . It’s really hard and early I pray that God can send her as my 👼 to guide me🙏🏽💔😥

[@ranushaparamanantharajah7268]

thank you for sharing, very inspiring ❤

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we truly appreciate the support ❤

[@kimberlytv7895]

Everyone has a way to grief ,some can grief years,some months some forever,as for me i grief only 6 hours am done with pain,people think am not normal but its normal ,i don't allow pain blow me,any kind of pain i will forget it within hours

[@thanuska.s]

Totally agree, everyone does grieve differently. For some it affects them and some it doesn't. But either situation is okay! It's just important to move forward with your loved ones in your memory and remember that they are always with you!

[@kimberlytv7895]

@@thanuska.s yes true

[@madelynn187]

Would you make an update video on how you guys are now ?

[@sharukakrishnakanth3984]

sending to both of you lots of LOVE

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much love, truly appreciate it ❤

[@nardeennagy1175]

Thank you.

[@NJ-jj2hw]

So sorry you guys went through this. Tamils dont know how to deal with grief and trauma.

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we truly appreciate it ❤. And I completely agree, something we hope can change.

[@soniathomas4549]

Love you both 💓

[@thanuska.s]

We love you too, thank you for watching ❤

[@rohinijohn5824]

Absolutely true.

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you for watching love!

[@Yasodiniindrajith]

Thank you!!!

[@thanuska.s]

Thank you for watching ❤

[@rohinijohn5824]

I've just recently lost my , Mum. I lost her on 17th December due to Cardiac Arrest.

[@thanuska.s]

I am so sorry to hear about you loss love. Stay strong, my prayers are with you ❤

[@simrang353]

I lost my dad in October :( this video helped :))

[@thanuska.s]

I am so sorry to hear about your loss love. Stay strong and just remember he is always with you. I am glad it helped in some way. Thank you so much for taking the time to watch and respond, we really appreciate it ❤

[@nidun_c]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@thanuska.s]

Love you thank you for all your help ❤️

[@tiinaiiceey]

I wll never get people who come to your house during a funeral and they are there cracking random jokes.. like wtf.

[@thanuska.s]

I agree. I guess that just goes to show they may not be the one's who really feel the pain.

[@deep.divespodcast]

Almost 9months since my mom passed :(

[@MaheshJadhav-fq2nf]

Please make a tight sleek low bun without parting your hair after oiling or gel and show your bun from back