Loud Neighbors Are Torturing Me | Part 2 *Receipts*

[@lily10598]

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[@arctictimberwolf]

The Squeaky wheel gets the Greeze. You ain't alone! Hopefully you are living among caring, courteous and respectful people now.

[@teeb2681]

The same thing happened to me. Instead of dealing with the problem, they labeled me the problem of being the whistle blower.

[@charles2521]

Welcome to America. Be ready to get shot and blamed for whatever they do.

[@rubytruly5912]

@@Ravensolo777I’m suffering in Albuquerque but I’m from here.. and I live in one of the nicest complexes in town.. let’s be neighbors so we can be considerate of each other 😂

[@persiamotorman]

I was temporarily in Albuquerque. It felt very dark.

[@kayleighr6466]

This is a form of psychological torture and should be illegal.

[@kimnguyen2108]

💯 correct 👍

[@ormanay]

They use it to torture people, it is illegal, but hard to prove, you just have to throw a real adult fit. Hang in there!

[@katherinemcdonnell6333]

Absolutely! This is so infuriating. I am in a similar situation, only I live in the suburbs which, contrary to what most people believe, are louder than any inner city.

[@ChanellMarie0419]

I’m going through this as well I’m soo sorry

[@squirrelz6117]

You can sue them, or bill them. The police can't stop them though.

[@invinoveritas6859]

I'm a Buddhist,once a child soldier and a survivor of a mass genocide in Cambodia and i meditate alot.I require complete peace,quiet,serenity and tranquility.A few screws had gone loose in my head.Loud noises can trigger me into a battlefield mode..😳

[@janicem9225]

So sorry about that. I'm a domestic violence survivor, since childhood, now in my 50's. A male tenant above me, knows this, and is using sky high music and intimidation against me, and the coordinator here is doing nothing, and literally grins when I cry while talking to him. Ugh. It's driving me nearly mental.

[@boundariessetinstone5893]

Yes I went crazy and going to sue my landlord for not removing these loud neighbors. It was constant loud music, all day dogs barking, screaming throughout my building to each other, hanging out in stairwells playing music on their phones and talking loud my our windows. And while all that was going on me and my family were being harassed by a severe narcissist. I had a nervous breakdown so bad that it affected my family severely. And 7 months ago after 18 years of sobriety my parents relapsed once and died. My non immediate family and friends don’t understand why I’m calling my landlord, these ppl and my ex murderers. They are the reason my parents are dead they stressed them so bad it lead to their deaths. I want justice so bad but I don’t know how to get it and I’m now clinically insane. I started a petition against my landlord for not removing the disturbance and restoring peace and quiet under the peace and quiet ordinance act. Finally he evicted both apts causing the torture one a few months ago the others a few weeks ago. But the damage is done I’m all messed up and my family paid the price with their lives I want justice.

[@lily10598]

I am so sorry for your loss. Those people should be held responsible. I would sign your petition against your landlord. I really hope you can get justice 🙏🏻

[@SeanNewhouse-mv9ez]

My mgr once blamed the entire bldg for the LOUD partying and chaos from ONE apt that was ONGOING, LATE and would go on SEVERAL hours every time

[@superphysiologicallevelsof1349]

Sadly theres never a solution, as long as landlords are getting paid they dont care about what residents are doing, noise polution needs to be made illegal with strict consequences

[@patwillis1893]

They just want the 💰

[@AiwaLover]

And I naively thought that having demons as neighbors and suffering noise violence was something common only in Brazil. Foolish mistake. Illusion. The civilized world should have already created anti-noise laws for teaching in schools and applied them without tolerance. Prevent the production of powerful home or vehicle sound systems with volumes limited to 1/3 of the current volume. And removal of the device if there is a recurrence. This would easily and quickly resolve this issue. Noise violence kills the victim and sometimes the original attacker. For me, noise pollution and violence are terrorism and torture. It deserves equivalent law and penalty. I have suffered from this for two decades and I will never be the same again. I became misanthropic, as well as anxious, irritable and depressed. Panic Syndrome. Social phobia. The biological consequences caused by these mediocre and unhappy beings may be suffered by me, but they have extended negative effects on society as a whole in the medium and long term.

[@JoyFay]

The main issue is that this apartments are not well built, including the “luxury” apartments.

[@ninajefferson4018]

Afraid not person! The main issue is the Nazis living there.

[@PTSIONYIHhHGH-zi7uv]

It’s got nothing to do with that

[@prettyboyesean]

I've been there, i used to live under these 2 guys who lived above me in a 70s built wood floor apartment. Needless to say, it was a cracking, stomping nightmare. Since moving out of there i now live in a top floor apartment. Which makes me empathetic to my downstairs neighbor. I change my walking style (from heel step outside to fox trot inside), I wear headphones and don't play anything out of my TV or speakers most of the time. When I accidentally drop things i say out loud "sorry downstairs neighbor" under my breath 😂 I honestly don't know how people can be so inconsiderate when they know they live in semi communal living! It's common sense to me.

[@iamwhoiam7887]

I fkn hate my downstairs neighbor and make noise on purpose

[@canm7157]

Around 50% Percent of People are complaining about loud Neighbours. Needless to say, that there are more Narcissist outside then studies can claim since they don't take many variables into account. Believe me or not majority of the People are Narcissist.

[@Justasandwitch]

Why do people walk on their heels wtf. Seems unnatural to me

[@proconsumersafety]

Get an attorney, because if the property manager is not fulfilling quiet hours, thus annoyance during after hours, they are not upholding their part of the lease.

[@JustinRohrerJr]

You can sue the landlord if they don’t evict the upstairs neighbor.

[@lily10598]

Wait, I can sue?

[@mjriasb]

How? I finally made a complaint after living in this hell for 6 months- the cops came twice the same night I complained. The man (husband) that was released from prison and moved in also grabbed me and wouldn’t let me go- making weird creepy advances and has a long criminal history of stuff like that. No response whatsoever.

[@tjluckock5116]

I am struggling with my neighbours upstairs as well, i cannot cope with the noise.

[@lily10598]

So sorry to hear that

[@melodyal3357]

Same me. I am dealing with situation being desperate and looking on yt for some tips. I asked them in polite manner but they continue..

[@missmary.foodconsultantand9174]

I am a senior. I have asked my landlord 3 times to have these neighbors stop this excessive noise . Stomping for hours, letting k8ds run back and forth all day until night. Guy not on lease moved in. Yells talks loud, I asked him to stop their daughter from playing by our common wall. They stopped for 4 days and came back with a vengeance. I am alone here. When they hear my company come they stop. So they're doing this purposely. Waking me out of my sleep I can never take a nap in the day. I believe they're on drugs.

[@husky7985]

I remember i had to sleep in my car because my upstairs neighbor was so loud and i was desperate to get some sleep. I dont know how people deal with this.

[@lily10598]

There were some nights I seriously considered sleeping in my car too. It’s not fair at all.

[@lolad6083]

The laws need to be pushed to either SWIFT eviction of these psychologically torturous neighbors or the landlord will be held responsible and have to undergo appropriate renovations to insulate units. Landlord and management don’t care so they need to be hit in their pockets with fines that’ll make them care.

[@frogismyhandle]

But we are the ones called crazy in the end lol

[@Luci-pz8xx]

Pro tip: Landlords don't care about you or your living experience.

[@lily10598]

Yep and it’s very messed up

[@mightyobserver12]

This is so true. My landlord didn't even read my message and keep avoiding me.

[@asmrsistaa]

Oh my gosh😢 I’m literally stressed out for you! And everyone else who’s enduring this torture, including myself. I’m not sure what your living arrangements are right now, but under a different video I saw someone say “If you have HOA, record and send them the proof. I've had HOA fine the apartments that are causing distress. It worked after the 10th complaint.” As for me, I’m taking matters into my own hands though. It looks like my loud neighbors are moving out, so to prevent any new people from coming in I’m going to sneak up there and dump liquid stink in the sinks, bathrooms, ac vents so management can’t move anyone else above me. It’s been 2 years I’m sick of living like this

[@earthpart3]

Spot on.. why would you have to move because of someones else violating the lease? They should be evicted.

[@melodyal3357]

Yes that’s correct but in the end it’s us who must move because they won’t stop and/or even start to be worde and more violent.

[@patwillis1893]

And that's another way they get away with it by saying no other neighbors have complained. But that's not the issue . It's all about the 💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰 and more greedy 💰💰💰

[@Marie.Jager.]

The office “management” where I live are literally about to deal with my lawyers if they dont gain a morsel of competence.

[@abrownbombshell]

That management company is a piece of crap. Why couldn’t they just knock on the door and ask the occupant to turn the music down? Why would you need to be inconvenienced further because of a disrespectful neighbor?!?

[@SeanNewhouse-mv9ez]

it's like the default position is suspicion about complaining tenants 😡

[@ArtieJee]

Girl, I was dealing with loud music and neighbors screaming while partying for a couple of weeks now. Luckily it stopped today. I had to talk to the president of my apt block(useless) and the police(double useless and rude). They were abnormally louder today so I called the neighborhood security just cos I did not know what to do and my headache was starting to pierce through my forehead. They were unbelievable effective! I have a theory tho. they might actually be doing something not legal and trying to cover their illicit shenanigans. A friend had a loud neighbour three floors up once and they turned out to be making M3TH. They are in prison now. ADVICE FOR ANYONE DEALING WITH THESE PEOPLE: Do not try to engage with these people. They are clearly sick in the head and they will likely retaliate against you. Reach out to any authorities trying to stay anonymous. I know it would be so satisfying to just go and confront them, but I think we decent people have more to lose.

[@katarinasilletto729]

This brings me to tears because I also am going through this now it's so bad I even got into an altercation with the people above me nothing is being done by management and I lost it because when a person looks to try and go about things the correct way no one helps I am praying for both of us I would give anything to be able to afford a home for me and my family😢

[@lily10598]

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Document, get proof, and bother management constantly! Please stay safe, praying for things to get better for you.

[@californiadoll6273]

Only way to stop loud neighbors is by RETALIATION, get louder! Get a loud base system (they're not expensive) and mount it in the ceiling and put it on max sound!

[@justinedse3314]

I've got your back with this! People who have never lived through it have NO idea what it's like. Hang in there! I hope things are better now.😊 You deserve peace.✌️

[@lily10598]

Thank you so much!

[@boundariessetinstone5893]

Pls talk to my family and friends they don’t get why I’m now clinically insane. I also lost my parents to it and they also couldn’t understand why I went insane.

[@KiNETiKpoWerZ]

Man that is ridiculous and I empathize! Why would the management think that 'mediation' is possible given the nature of the noise and the neighbors behaviours?

[@TerraDactyl-hc9ff]

I’m dealing with noisy neighbors as well. I work night shift and get home at 7am. The lady upstairs is constantly stomping with her kid. Her kid is absolutely terrible. Running and jumping as well. I also get the pleasure of hearing her chair with wheels. I’m going to get enough recordings before I take legal action. Also going to notify management when the regular manager has her temporary replacement while out on medical leave. Hopefully I can move into another unit. I’m going crazy and losing sleep. So tired at work

[@lily10598]

Oh the rolling chair 🙃 I can’t imagine having to work all night then having to go back and deal with all those noises. Best of luck to you, I hope you can move to another unit and find some peace.

[@Mikke-G]

I wanted to find a night shift job but there are 4 kids above me living in a 2 bedroom flat which makes it impossible to get any sleep especially in daytime...

[@livingonpurpose23]

I've moved into my place in May. The apartment is beautiful howevery upstairs neighbors are loud and inconsiderate. I'm so over it. Apartment complexes don't care and act like you're a bother to them when complaining. There's really no point of telling them our frustrations, they know and don't care

[@lily10598]

I wish they could have some empathy!

[@mavismounds]

I just moved in November, and already, my upstairs neighbor is waking me up in the middle of the night. I complained to the manager, but I'm sure nothing will come of it. Like you said, they don't care.

[@RealMTBAddict]

Nope. Better to just call the police. My city fines $75 first offense and $500 2nd offense. Enough fines and rent won't get paid. My neighbor likes to vacuum at 12am for 30 minutes while banging crap around. I think she lost her job since she now leaves at weird times.

[@lrlittlebean]

I feel you girl! I have super noisy MF upstairs above me, I hate apartment living. Human nature being what it is.. when I got complained the stomping only got louder, I plan to get out of my lease since I have hundreds of recordings with all the noise. I may get an attorney just do so this. Ugh! but anyway I am so sorry you have to deal with stupidity all around, I don't' feel so alone now.

[@lily10598]

Good luck to you! I also have hundreds of videos on my phone and they still did not let me out of my lease but I hope it works out for you!

[@jasontomica8938]

​@@lily10598I noticed your car is a right hand drive. But you have an American accent. Are you in the states or did you buy a car from overseas and ship it to the states

[@miiconyer8772]

Yes I agree it is mentally draining. Someone should do a study on people Experiencing this.

[@douglasbubbletrousers7343]

Nuisance neighbors literally gamble with their lives, i have heard of countless stories in the news of a fed up neighbor murdering a nuisance neighbor. Example: James and Lisa Goy were both shot to death by a neighbor they had constant conflict with, and the whole thing was recorded on security cameras. I saw the video and it was ruthless.

[@osho1enrique504]

Really???? Like seriously? Can you send me the link 🔗 of video or that news? Please

[@lily10598]

People are insane! That is exactly why I have been avoiding directly confronting them because I have no idea how they will react.

[@douglasbubbletrousers7343]

@@lily10598 Maybe set up a patreon and/or gofundme to accumulate the funds to get out of there, that is something i would try if i were you.

[@dingdong6452]

They were real clowns. I doubt their absence is mourned by anyone.

[@dingdong6452]

@@SookaNooka same lol

[@varuna0714]

You poor thing! I totally have been in your situation with a property management company that was unwilling to address similar issues.

[@PeartFan76028]

I can relate so hard to your story. I’m in a similar situation now and am currently waiting on a delivery of fox urine and an air horn. I’m about to go nuclear on this neighbor.

[@lily10598]

Fox urine 😂 I hope you teach them a lesson!

[@the_feature_selector859]

I’m going nuts with my neighbor too and your comment made my day. My the fox urine spread joy for all us respectful neighbors!

[@Skud_007]

I’m in a similar situation, what does fox urine do?

[@RealMTBAddict]

I live in a duplex with a crawlspace. I'm about to make the other side of the crawlspace stink with dead fish and watch the annoying neighbor move out!

[@katherinemcdonnell6333]

Thanks for the great ideas

[@catherinekittykat]

Omg....I feel for you! I've been tormented for 15 months and so sleep deprived and severe anxiety. Sane issues with management, security, dispatch. Insane!!! The greedy bastards that created apartment living are sadistic, knowing how unevolved and selfish humans are. I've been in a battle I shouldn't have to fight. I've called corp office and everyone. Life is hell on Earth with bad people galore. Management just pretends they are handling. It's so unfair and torturous. The problem with moving is there will still be disgusting humans that don't care. It's like trading one hell for another. My heart hurts for you... I understand! Big hug to you and hope you get a better life, and me too and all the good and decent humans. ❣️😇😇😇

[@VGB004]

I don't feel your just unnecessarly complaining. Im a lil older than you & my building is just out of control even being in a nice high rise. Its the lack of respect pple have, no matter the age.

[@lily10598]

So true. I had assumed since we’re all adults, they would’ve stopped by now but I guess respect doesn’t develop with age.

[@Joanclear]

Currently going through the same thing, it's horrible it can affect your mental health in an awful way. They play until 3am very loud

[@lily10598]

It really does harm mental health so I don’t wish it on anyone! I hope it gets better for you!!

[@Maya-yg9so]

Get you a lawyer and file a lawsuit

[@ChristinaPistone]

@@lily10598 I am experiencing the same! Terrible!

[@xoxolaurynwuvsu]

It definitely does. My boyfriend and I both feel like we have almost ptsd from months on being woken up out of the blue and constantly hearing stomping and a bass. I already have bad anxiety as it is so it’s like I’m always in fight or flight mode because of the noise.

[@ChristinaPistone]

@@xoxolaurynwuvsu It's the worst I know :(((

[@Asalashjari]

I'm having the same problem in another country. It seems like the whole world is protecting the noise makers and torturing the people who obey the rules.

[@lily10598]

That is so disappointing. I’m sorry you’re experiencing this.

[@nxtsuh]

I used to live in an apartment, called security like over 20x, called the cops 2x, told management over 10x, literally nothing was done. They just come and is like yup. They're loud, that's apartments for ya, move out if u don't like it. They only did something after we kept calling security to go talk to them and the neighbors got pissed and jumped down to our balcony and threw a brick at our glass doors. Management Literally only kicked them out AFTER they've destroyed property, but when it comes to the well being and peace of the neighbors, nah, they will not give a shit about you

[@lily10598]

So wrong they let it escalate to property destruction. Management could have prevented that by kicking them out immediately. Crazy neighbors only get worse.

[@nxtsuh]

@@lily10598 Yeah, and now I moved to a duplex with neighbors that blast heavy bass music every day and night for 14 hours a day. Screaming, crying, throwing beer bottles, punching my walls from 1-6am. Istg I'm cursed with these bad neighbors 😭

[@Favored2020]

Currently dealing with this! I’ve done a paper trail called cops went to the office soooo tonight I am taking matters into my own hands!!! They will call on me for sure because I don’t appreciate the disturbance every night!

[@mariarohmer2374]

You poor thing. You've seriously done everything right. Their response is cowardly and a total waste of time. Cannot believe you had to keep asking for help again and again.

[@birdsrule2]

I definitely can relate to and empathize with you. That person that made that dumb comment to you wouldn't be saying that if it happened to them. I'm definitely done with being a downstairs neighbor after this year. I just want to live in the woods away from all civilization at this point because no matter where I go I have the same issues with neighbors.

[@lynncostello2305]

I feel exactly the same way...every where I have lived in apartment buildings there is one person or more who are extremely loud....now my next door neighbor has a bunch of kids running every day for five hours...honestly these people need to face real consequences.....landlords should have to live in the very conditions they force other people to live in

[@jnlmhny]

YES they should!

[@Texas_Made_]

Im 35,i GET IT..ive done all that partying..so now that im more mature and value my peace and sanity,i dont tollerate inconsiderate people..i have gotten a few old neighbors to stop because thats how serious it is to me...people always say mean things because its not their problem..when you loose sleep,cant hear your own tv,etc. Management tends to be scary and acts as if they dont want to confront them but guess what,people like this tend to do this to those who dont stand up..i had someone who tryed to bully me with noise..😂little did he know who he was living above...he had to MOVE👀☠️ that Management is LAZY AND DID NOT WANT TO CONFRONT THEM...hope you find peace girl

[@terribletomvu37]

I empathize with you. This is what I’m going through as well, being born neighbors (one homeowner lives on the living room side of my property and the other lives on the bedroom side). They make noise at every waking hour and after I told HOA management about it they retaliate by making MORE noise. Human beings suck!

[@pennyburns4425]

I have been going through this, its so appalling, it takes over my life - which is now reduced to nothing. I am with you 100% xxx

[@melgonz.6962]

I've dealt with these issues after 13 years of apt living. I've learned the first step should always be to talk face to face. Bring pepper spray or a friend if you need. This works about 75% of the time. People are tough until confronted. If they continue, again face to face. If it continues, consult management. Also, call police. Keep a record. If it continues, I would just find a way to move. It's not worth our mental health.

[@prettybaby80]

Wouldn’t advise face to face. You don’t confront people who act this way. This is a job for management if you care for your safety. In neighborhoods I’ve live with you’ll catch a bullet or a punch knocking on someone’s door to complain about their noise. You don’t know the mental state of your neighbors. People have gotten killed approaching their neighbors. It’s either the cops or management anonymously

[@wordivore]

I have seen a lot of that, "Have you tried talking to them?" kinda BS. If they were reasonable people in the first fkn place, they wouldn't be blasting music 24/7. And they wouldn't retaliate making things worse, once they know it bothers someone, they'd apologize. If someone is blasting music 24/7, then they aren't sleeping or they're turning it on and leaving to sleep elsewhere. That is NOT a sign of a stable person. In my experience that ahole neighbor makes excuses, pretends to be sorry then turns up the music even louder after you leave or tells you to fk off. Then when you call someone who could actually do something about it, they KNOW it was you! Yeah, no thanks. Also just a side note, when you call the cops for this narcissistic behavior, the cops have to hear it/witness it or they can't do sh!t.

[@prettybaby80]

@@wordivore exactly. I don’t need to speak with them. They know exactly what they’re doing.

[@RealMTBAddict]

Call police first

[@boundariessetinstone5893]

Police do nothing they let me get into face to face altercations other tenants as well never did a thing.

[@xoxolaurynwuvsu]

My managers have acted the same way towards me and it’s so infuriating.

[@lofvee]

That " dance tapping " my neighbors also do!! Its driving me nuts.

[@LalaLarrieux]

This is exactly my experience. Everything, even the responses from property managers.

[@v.f.2917]

I know exactly what you are going through. Im so sorry. I deal with psychopath neighbours too. Good luck, we will find peace!❤

[@VuJaDeFilms1]

Some people just aren't mindful of others and weren't raised properly. Crazy thing is there are people out there that will lose their heads and shoot someone because it is very mentally tiring.

[@lily10598]

Exactly. I just heard about a case where a college student repeatedly tried to poison his upstairs neighbors because of all the noise. I’m surprised there aren’t more cases like this.

[@VuJaDeFilms1]

@@lily10598 Wow, I wouldn't doubt it. There's probably thousands everywhere. Sorry you had to go through that. I'm really close myself to suing my upstairs neighbors for being a nuisance and have been logging and recording everything for over a year. It's exhausting....

[@kayleighr6466]

Why are management not just dealing with the root cause??? Evict the noisy neighbours !!

[@lily10598]

They don’t want to lose any money

[@user-wp8il2mw6h]

Lily thank you for sharing this experience. I’ve been enduring my own neighbor from hell and all I can think of doing is moving bc nothing works. I hope you’re in a much better space now

[@stevewesby]

I have to escape to my car also- I've been driven out of my home by total sociopaths and now boxing up my condo to move out without a destination in mind. Anywhere but here... Thanks for posting, Lily

[@lily10598]

So sorry to hear that, best of luck with your move. Glad you’re getting away from the sociopaths!

[@stevewesby]

@@lily10598 TY Lily- your posts mean more than you know. I truly appreciate your struggles with inept management and hostile narcissists with no consideration for others.

[@ChrysKay]

God, Lily I feel for you so much right now. I’ve been living in my apartment for over 2 years and it has been nothing but constant noise and music from my neighbors. I feel the exact same way, like I’m being tortured, I haven’t had a good nights sleep in over 2 years. I actually discovered your video because I got woken up this morning and I was so frustrated that I just start googling shit. I’m right there with you! I hope you find a better living situation!!

[@lily10598]

Two years?! I’m so sorry, that is so messed up! Stay strong, karma will get them.

[@Ashley-og9ti]

I found the video the same! Got woken up once again in the middle of the night/early morning I just burst out crying, really bad breakdown. I googled how to deal with loud neighbors, never thought I would admit it lol. Found everything from soundproofing, to revenge, to people just venting. Makes it even worse when you tell people about it and they're like, "is it really/are they really that bad??" Um no I'm just complaining bc it's fun 🙄. Hope we all get the peace we deserve, no one deserves to feel punished and uncomfortable in their own home. 💛

[@donald4016]

Lily baby girl u don't deserve what you're going thru I was in the same position and I moved out I couldn't take it no more I talked to my neighbor asked him politely to stop making fuckin noise, I called management, and I called the cops and still there was no solution so instead of me killing my neighbor I just left! 🙂

[@ManifestOptimism]

3 strikes your out. I would have contacted Police after 3 alerts to management. I am going through a less intense situation. Apartment management knows of the noise the tenant above me has caused and it has been quiet since I let them know for the most part but my lease ends in Two months and I'm moving to a better Apartment complex.

[@njeriassata7541]

Have management or other tenants and, police come to your residence to witness this behavior. some universities have legal clinics that charge no or a nominal fee.

[@earthpart3]

Most apts have soundproofing in the walls and not in the ceilings and floors. Thats why its only heard by you in the unit underneath. Those managers are useless as are most landlords.

[@lorithomposon3529]

I sympathize with you so much cause I’ve been going thru the same thing since moving into my apartment in July. I too, have been in school during this inconvenience. I’ve done everything you’ve mentioned from notifying management, keeping documentation, ignoring it, calling the police, reaching out to corporate, I even consulted with a lawyer out of desperation on ways that I could terminate the lease. It’s truly an unhealthy situation to live in. It can take a toll on your mental health, and in turn, your physical health. My lease will soon be over, so at this point, I’m just counting down the days until relief. Is there anyone that you might be able to live with until your lease is up? It sucks having to pay for a place you don’t live at, but if that is an option for you, I think that would be your best bet at preserving your health. Stress is dangerous. Be safe and I’m praying for you.

[@lily10598]

I was in school too, it was awful. What management I think fails to understand is the toll it takes on mental and physical health. In cases like ours, it should not be difficult to terminate the lease. I am crashing with friends now but I feel so bad I am putting them out when I have a place. Thank you so much for sharing your situation. I hope things get better for both of us!

[@roido6614]

I live in an Apartment near a Hospital and mostly all my neighbors are Asians like Filipino, and Indians. I've noticed they are some of the most Respectful people I've EVER lived next too. No Blasting Loud Music. No Loud Shouting. No Mental people. "For some reason, I like listening to Asian people talking in their Accents and Languages."

[@boundariessetinstone5893]

Yup but Latinos aren’t

[@lily10598]

Kind of satisfying watching the sunset

[@prism223]

Renting was definitely an experience. * First complex was in the hood. Shots fired outside every night loud enough to make the windows ding like a snare drum. Less than a year after I moved out of there the whole place got flooded when a river overflowed. * Second complex was much better. But, maybe a year after moving in the upstairs neighbors moved out and forgot to disconnect the main water line to their washing machine that they owned, so they snapped the main line in the wall and caused my apartment to get flooded, although it wasn't bad enough to move to a new apartment after dehumidifiers dried the carpets out. * Same apartment, new neighbors: They were a Shakespearean tragedy translated into pidgin English. Loud stomping & fighting basically every day. Vacuuming & bass music at night until past 3am even on weeknights. Myself and the other tenants below talked with them about the sound and it would temporarily be reduced, and then get right back to loud. Eventually I started grabbing my 100 watt guitar amp and wailing some metal riffs whenever the noise upstairs got bad enough. Those neighbors eventually started fighting so loudly and destructively that you could tell the apartment was getting trashed from outside, messed up window blinds & front porch etc. Ultimately the mother & daughter had an epic meltdown fight where they were apparently throwing things and screaming loud enough for the rest of the complex to hear them, climaxing with the police showing up and them getting kicked out for violations of the lease.

[@Heythere2810]

Girl I understand your pain. Your life will be beautiful again. It’s only for season remember that. I haven’t slept for almost year & I’m also a college student who wants to rest & sleep. God bless you.

[@kittylady6946]

Bose Sleepbuds have been the only way to get through my current lease. They are not cheap, but way cheaper than a lease break fee, movers, and new apartment fees. But after this lease I am looking for a single family home to rent. I suggest you get a pair of the Bose Sleepbuds 2. They are a miracle.

[@flowerskellykelly]

I wish we could start a law that would be strict on noisy neighbors. Have them evicted if they do it more them 3 times..I wouldn't know how to start to try to make a new law but I been sitting in my car all night because of the noise and I think my neighbor is on drugs because she has party's all night long and she is stomping her feet all day and is supposed to be waching a kid that slams objects on my ceiling all night and day.

[@lily10598]

I totally agree! I wish I had the power to make that a law!

[@prettybaby80]

If only management would actually stick to the rules in their lease we wouldn’t need a law

[@juanalmager9474]

When authorities get their feelings hurt they love using the line "You're the only one complaining about this issue."

[@gibbieraven]

Wow. Im so sorry ❤️🙏🏼. How much a lack of empathy, compassion, or understanding I just witnessed. The rental managers turned narcissistic.

[@lilwinged5291]

I'm sitting here thinking about how they're not creative at all ,because you said in your first video that it's the same music 🤔...narcissistic people are actually so boring without personality...obviously they're narcissistic and obnoxiously gaslighting you...They have no lives at all accept to get attention. How embarrassing to be them ...ewww...I know this is an old video ..I'm seeing a part 3 ..

[@PumpkinSpicePretzels]

Wow, I had a landlord like this... they just stopped responding after we kept reporting problems. I think nowadays they would rather the victims move than deal with the problem-causers. I've discovered however that confronting the problem causers dealt with the problem better than the landlord. There's a million solutions for everything.

[@lily10598]

It’s another slap in the face when they choose to ignore the situation instead of helping. I’ve really considered confronting my neighbors but I’m scared because there are multiple men and I don’t know how they would react.

[@peepsicle]

Yep! They actually LIKE when tenants move because they can just charge higher rent. This has been my experience. They do not care about tenant retention at all. So they have zero motivation to keep tenants happy. And just roll their eyes at complaints of quality of life issues like this and make zero attempt to actually resolve them. Also so many buildings aren’t maintained, have no sound proofing, and they take up carpets and put in hardwood flooring for aesthetics, but don’t put in any insulation between floors or walls. They just want to attract tenants, but don’t want to retain us. They’re literally thrilled when we leave.

[@back2the80s]

@@peepsicle hardwood floors in paper thin buildings. Ugh it sucks

[@melgonz.6962]

This. I've lived in many Apts, and face to face confrontation is the only thing that might work. You have to be firm. It's the only thing that worked for me. I'm a female so it sucks, but I've done it out of desperation and it usually works.

[@back2the80s]

@@melgonz.6962 not safe to Approach people you don’t know

[@BOOSHAGGY]

I’m listening to you. I’ve had similar experiences and it’s incredibly difficult and you are incredibly strong. You have to be strong and not be discouraged how some people rejoice in their natural imperfection impulsive inclination to tourture those vulnerable to them. You are not alone. I have moved 3 time’s from harassment by people who I work double the hours of. So please keeping on and I’ll pray for you and your channel. One last thing take your situation very seriously because you can’t realize how tired and physically spent you are if your strong like yourself. Sleep deprivation is the worst type of torture used by the military. That’s what they say. They can get someone to do anything with enough sleep deprivation. Bless!!!❤

[@BOOSHAGGY]

They are Jealous cause you’re pretty too.

[@LilLostSoul]

I relate to this but not with the music but constant fighting with my downstair neighbors, I believe the room down mine is the kitchen for them.. At some point I ended up getting woken up AT 3 AM by bloody murder arguing. I also have 3 cats so it's even WORSE for them, one is also get stressed very easily, I also currently have a lil kitty that I am fostering, she is sick (diarhea), she prob heard them scream at some point, luckily the mom works most of the day!

[@juliandasilva8333]

They don't take you serious because you keep saying I'm a nice person,to them that is a sign of weakness and gaslighting.

[@MisterKatz]

Also had such young neighbors. Loud music and gaming in the evening. Especially war games like call of duty, etc.. Under my apartment it sounded like in the war with music and strong bass, like you. It always went on until after midnight. I have knocked several times at his door and explained the problem. It was then a few days a little quieter but then it started again. I have asked neighbors if they also hear it. 2 others were also disturbed by the noise. We complained to the manager. But it took a year until he finally moved out. He moved out because he was threatened with termination. Now there is peace in the house. I hope you get your silence again soon. Stay strong

[@janacollins-maguire4942]

I feel for you, you have more patients than I do. People can be so inconsiderate. I have very rude neighbors where I am now. It doesn't go on all night and day but it's still being inconsiderate of others. Blasting music and dogs barking is not acceptable. Good luck you deserve peace. ☮️

[@lily10598]

Good luck to you too. Karma will get them.

[@jiazhengrobert8698]

I really love your video. Going through the same thing and getting similar responses from the management team. They seem to just blame things on people who are complaining because those people are having the issue and are desperate. So they know that they can bully these people and force them into a solution they don't like. Instead of trying to stop people from playing loud noises, they just choose to fix the people who have noise complaints. Absolutely insane. I empathize with you so much about how this could severely damage one's temper and impact their academic wellbeing so badly.

[@persiamotorman]

When my neighbor moved, I saw his speakers which were close to five or six feet high (I saw the boxes they were originally packed in). He used to constantly play loud music which I ignored. But he heard a sound in my apartment and flew into a rage slamming the wall which frightened my cat. This type is very vengeful.

[@lily10598]

My neighbors had large speakers as well. I saw one sitting on top of it once. There is no reason to have a six foot speaker in an apartment.

[@Casechaser5]

I feel so bad for you and can definitely relate. Let's be honest, loud and inconsiderate neighbors absolutely suck ass! It's especially frustrating for respectful neighbors like us! I'm sure you're doing all you can to resolve the issue. I just wanted to let you know that in the present moment, it may be tiresome and frustrated, but once everything is in the past, it won't affect you as much as you currently think and it'll be an after thought. What im trying to say is that go easy on yourself as you go through this process! I hope everything works out.

[@jamesstpatrick8493]

Time to lawyer up and sue management, don't be nice be firm. Management doesn't care, suing is an option that will get a resolution

[@chrisdeming9287]

Don’t bother calling security. You need to contact local police. There should be a non-emergency dispatch number you can call so they can send an officer out.

[@RealMTBAddict]

In my city that takes 2 hours

[@chrisdeming9287]

@@RealMTBAddict Maybe where you are. The average response time for most cities is less than 10 minutes though.

[@RealMTBAddict]

@@chrisdeming9287 Yep my city doesn't hire enough cops.

[@ladyoftheamazon]

I called for 3-4days straight and they always lied about sending someone and never showed up 🙄

[@chrisdeming9287]

@@ladyoftheamazon Was it the dispatch center or the local police station that you contacted? You would need to contact dispatch. They’re the ones that can send someone out. If you called the main office number, they most likely would end up referring you to dispatch.

[@xoxolaurynwuvsu]

I don’t think I related more to anything in your video more than you saying “it’s my alarm now”

[@benjaminclasper9355]

The management sound like a complete and utter joke at times and also security sound like that too and that neighbours what the heaven’s hell is wrong with them? What kind of person in the history of insanity is like that are they utterly deaf to everyone else who lives around them No person is like that completely surely. That neighbour needs therapy.

[@regemerator7829]

No other neighbour complained? Well that's not what they said at spring break

[@lily10598]

Exactly! They switched up so fast

[@teniyung5971]

I know the feeling. My neighbor above me is loud just like that.

[@marthahenrich1185]

Lily, I am so sorry for what you are going through. I’ve lived in an apartment (not my choice) for 7 years. Each person that has lived above me has had their own unique way to torture me. I am noise sensitive and have a hearing disorder called misophonia where certain noises like repetitive tapping, make me want to hurt someone. I was told by management “no one hears it but you” and “it’s an apartment and that’s just how it is." I listen to white noise or music with earbuds. I have other ways to play white noise but only earbuds will totally stop it. People are so rude. They don’t care. I hope you can find some peace and quiet. You are a lovely young lady and I wish you well.

[@spudkitn2263]

I'm really sorry to hear that you suffer from misophonia. That is the downside of apartment living, everyone will bound to make noise, especially in apartments where the walls and floors are not properly insulated. Coming from me as an upstairs neighbor, i live below an old couple who also are very sensitive to noise. Even with rugs and panels Its a nightmare for me to know that everytime I drop something on the floor, or walk to the bathroom at night that there are people downstairs waiting their chance to complain to management about me. I received a noise complaint letter recently because I made too much noise at 3PM. I was installing my unit AC. However What lily is going through is simply inexcusable as nobody needs to be blasting very loud music 24/7. These type of tenants is what I think would fit into the nuisance category.

[@studio-era]

Been there myself. As you go through this, take comfort in the fact you are not crazy or being a bitch, or anything of the sort. I hope you find a solution quickly. Keep looking. Keep fighting.

[@rarebreed-wj3ov]

I had this problem in 2019 I kept getting jacked around. Management learnt what backfire & a perfect deck of cards meant called a holiday weekend. They tortured me so after 6 months I tortured them being an electric guitar player. A payback 2-12 Cab. Everyone learnt they better shut up finding out I had a 200 decibel system. They kept me from sleeping and management ignored my complaint. So they all reaped what they sowed and THEY DIDN'T LIKE IT. I moved to. Power Chord treatment Bass Treatment Airplane Treatment. Everyone Shut up.

[@mariawallerstein]

I am so so sorry what you were/are going through. I hope your situation improved somehow? I am dealing with a similar situation - not nearly as bad as yours, but i live between two apartments and I have to endure their noises too.. I had to shake my head the whole time listening to your story. I hate when people are not understanding or empathetic.

[@zitrandy]

God bless you, I am going through the same thing here. You will prevail.

[@tabathia7633]

I have heard enough, I'/m going through the same thing. Please, don't connect any more mgr. or corpt. people They don't care! Just save your money, put in ear-plugs, or whatever, you are better than this, you are! Start looking for a beautiful house apt. mobile home, or whatever, and forget about this nasty place. That is what I hope to do. Good luck!

[@benjaminclasper9355]

At 6:50 when security said to you “I’m not going to send anyone you need to call corporate” for goodness sake are they FOR REAL? Really??? And your anger was perfectly understandable Are they really that stupid.

[@flowerskellykelly]

Sad they penalize you instead of the people causing the problem.

[@aireannetoni]

Girl! When you recorded the music I understood and respected your persistence.

[@doctorshutup9817]

Never let them gaslight you into thinking you're in the wrong. I can tell you're a good, patient person but we all have our limits. The resason other ppl arent complaining is probably b/c he's playing bassy electronic music and bass travels down. Does what they're doing not break a local noise ordinance where you live?

[@lily10598]

It definitely does break noise ordinance, I just don’t have the right equipment to measure the sound for proof :/

[@ladyoftheamazon]

@@lily10598download decibel x app it’s free and you can screenshot the decibel level. That’s what I’ve been doing to show my apt mgrs as proof and for the courts if I can take it there. My neighbor is a narcissistic weirdo and the management doesn’t care that I’m disabled, ptsd & autistic and i have major sensory overload issues to touch and sound and the bass vibrates through my entire body it’s so sadistic I know it’s intentional because it started in my room and room only, then I got a couch and tv for my living and started spending more time out there. Why is this weird bitch coming into the living to play the bass now?! Like it’s crazy af! Mgmt told me if I don’t like it then move lol The police won’t even show up. Im losing it! Migraines, not thinking straight 😵‍💫

[@Fiawordweaver]

Your school should have a legal aid from your college to advocate for you against manager who has not done her job. Management should be fired.

[@marymiller-oc6vj]

Inconsideration of neighbors is a symptom of the breakdown of society. We are suffering greatly because of it. Truly it is psychological torture, because our homes are a necessary refuge from the hustle and bustle of the world. A place to go to rest and regain our strength. When we have no refuge, no rest, health breaks down. It is anti-human. Antisocial. Increasingly, we find ourselves surrounded by antisocial people who simply don't care that they cause others to suffer.

[@theafterhoursspot1327]

I'm here cause I'm going thru this now, had to knock on neighbor door on Thanksgiving Eve playing music at 3am on a high level, thanks for this ..

[@NatorDM]

Making a Better Business Bureau complaint, and making a review on Google and all other review sites is something I would definitely do during all of this, but because I see your comment with the link to part three... Honestly I'd still probably do it even if your out so that no one has to go through the hell you went through. Also I'm not sure where you are and what your laws are, but after having gone through all of this if it were me... and this was happening... I'd probably just call the cops and make a noise complaint. Regarding the manager who is emailing you the reason why no one next to them is actually complaining may be because those people are the exact same or are going to the party. These college apartments are rough... I remember going to a total party apartment my first year in college it was the only thing with availability and I had four roommates, and all of the guys were in a fraternity and it was probably very much like your experience in these videos. My second apartment was so... so... so... so... x infinity much better, not only was I on the top floor with no one above me, but it was an apartment where if you were in a Frat or a Sorority you wern't allowed to rent an apartment. It was incredible I can't tell you the sheer joy of waking up to nothing!!! Now I actively avoid apartments when I can, but most people cannot. Sometimes it's not really a persons fault... heavy steppers in wood frame apartment structures that have little to no insulation etc. However, loud thumping music and intentional noise like you are showing and describing is bullsh*t. I wish you luck and future peace!

[@batnat8559]

I'm going through hell my neighbours besides me and above me. It started because I'm housebound, which they think is funny, and of course, I'm a target because I can't move properly. We definitely are all entitled to peace day and night ✌🏻💜💡xx

[@missmary.foodconsultantand9174]

Me too. I barely go anywhere. I was here first and he moved these folks from hell next to me.

[@batnat8559]

Bad tenants are often left with the impression they can do what they want when they want due to the landlord/company that owns the property, leaving situations to get out of hand and with little to no consequence.

[@_wingedknight_]

Same. I stay at home due to distance learning and dealing with anxiety, they've made my life hell with their wooden weaving loom from early in the morning till late at night. I just don't get how they think it's okay to rake in some money whilst extremely disturbing others/disrupting their lives. I can't study or think clearly. They also look down on me because I'm at home all day and they think I do nothing or have no work

[@djicebreaker80]

I totally understand, I was noisily neighbour once. But i have to respect others around me, it’s a nightmare i know, I sing & DJ so ℹ sound proof my flat, now I’m dealing with new problems with new neighbors, stomping, playing darts, he was unaware of noise levels and now he knows, i still continue to monitor the situation & get back on track on doing things I love

[@dingdong6452]

I hate that the shitty people face no consequences an d are partying it up having the time of their life while YOU start to look like the problem for saying something. It's so unfair. You don't deserve it.

[@ariana278]

I used to have very loud neighbours above me and they would be arguing 24/7 and throwing furniture at 4AM. I kept going to my landlord but even with the letters they ‘sent’ to them they would not stop and the neighbours around them apparently were deaf ( I think they js didn’t want to get in trouble) because the only complaints were coming from me and my roommate’s. I moved out ( not only bc of the neighbours ) and they recently got kicked out I hope they’re in the mountains where they should be

[@HM-wi4zf]

I have a similar experience when it comes to rude upstairs neighbors and cold, heartless landlords. I tried to be civil, told my upstairs neighbors of the problem which made them be louder, after 3 written warnings from the landlord and the noise not stopping, I took the legal advice route against my landlord and won my case that the neighbors were too loud. The problem here is that the Arbiter cannot issue a eviction to this outcome, only the landlord. In response to my case, the landlord spit in my face and gave them a 4th warning instead of a deserved eviction. All that money and time on a legal case were all for nothing. How likely will these sociopathic neighbors listen a 4th time if they didn't listen 3 times already? So the noise continued, I gave them multiple letters and video evidence and received rude responses back in return gaslighting me telling me the noise was not loud. I asked the management was the Arbiter at my legal case wrong then? I waited months for that answer and never received it. The message was the upstairs neighbors are untouchable and they didn't care how much I was suffering from the noise. I read other neighbors suffering from loud neighbors and the reactions from management was the same: a gaslighting and cold response towards the victim and a baffling defense towards rude, loud neighbors. I read that landlords don't want to evict because it costs a lot of money. Requesting a transfer or moving out are the only answer. The bad guys won. Now I do petty things to get back at them because being civilized didn't work and expose the landlord as jerks on ratemylandlord.com.

[@brendabrock7702]

I moved out fixed up my van and happy as hell to get away from abusive people! I have money now!

[@michaelinzo]

I would have killed my neighbors if I have that.

[@freddykillerdestinyzombiez509]

Me too I tried confront his bitch ass they're we're all standing by the window telling me to GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE!!! After him and these grown men jumping like Hulk smash Upstairs