Love For Yourself Is The Beginning Of A Lifelong Romance | Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani

[@MindvalleyTalks]

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[@shehryarkhan4367]

Thanks for introducing me to this talk.

[@smartlindsey]

I listened to Kristina twice and could listen again and again. Mindvalley -- let the world hear Kristina. Everyone needs to hear this message again and again until it sinks in.

[@Moses29]

Doing right thing

[@HowellConsultations]

If you’re reading this... Don’t give up on your dreams... You got this. Hope our channel helps !!

[@HumansOfVR]

Thank you! Hope our channel helps as well :)

[@HumansOfVR]

Once you begin to *_Love youreself_* then everything gets better

[@raisingmaxi1601]

Once you learn how to spell, the entire society becomes more intelligent.

[@MindvalleyTalks]

Yes! I agree with you. Fall in love with taking care of yourself and everything will follow. Thanks for watching!

[@hominidsteve]

I have wondered about Kristina. Vishen has been the 'face' of Mind Valley, and whilst I reckon he must be a good old soul doing his stuff, Kristina has been an equally potent, but quiet and understated, powerhouse of intent and manifestation source over the years? Here in being authentic, not speaking 'authoritatively' in presentation, she endearingly coaxes us to pay more attention to our own authentic selves. Thank you Kristina

[@fionalightspontaneous1924]

Thank you Kristina for your vulnerability in being your authentic self. I have watched this clip at least ten times and I plan on watching it at least another ten! The part that grabbed my attention the most was when you said your perfect life 'didn't have space for messed up me '. I completely understood this! As a separated/divorced mother of 4 I, too, had known the shower crying. It was just before I discovered your clip that I had realised everything that you have spoken about. I now have the strength to know that I have not been the only one who felt this way. If you are not happy, you cannot help others. I love that!

[@bestbabylullabies]

This is the best talk I have ever heard from Mind Valley. Every other speaker seams false to me. Kristina is a real person not selling anything, What a fabulous person!

[@SuperNashum]

She does sell

[@roselyncaraballo3023]

You are very authentic, you inspires me to show my vulnerability and love her because it's part of me. Today I thinked I couldn't learn English, it's very hard to me, but then when I see you, I understand that I have afraid to show me how apprentice, I have afraid to make a mistakes but I Know that I can will do, I have the skills. Thank you so much.

[@smartlindsey]

Kristina addresses the emotions and masks we wear even when we think we are being authentic. She is a brilliant heartfelt speaker everyone would benefit from hearing. I will remember her message forever.

[@shazeelashiwram6751]

I am at a point in my life where i realized that i am not happy Been married for 31years now I want to move on in my life, to love myself and finally live for me but am very scared to be judged and rejected by my kids Now so coincidentally i watched this video and it inspires me to be myself and go live MY life

[@Diana-sb4yl]

Try your best to be your own self.

[@acajudi100]

Go and do not explain to anyone.

[@antonioselaya6095]

Make sure your son and daughter clearly, and without doubt, know how much you both love them, always!

[@CMoore8539]

I love this speech and she is absolutely Gorgeous!!!♥️ When ppl are being true to theirselves, they have a shine to them. She is shining! Edit: Perhaps her Mother disapproved because it was threatening to her own beliefs and choices.

[@MindvalleyTalks]

Thank you for that beautifully written comment for Kristina. Keep on watching our programs. Have a great time!

[@CMoore8539]

Mindvalley Talks Thank You! I love Mindvalley!!!❤️ I look forward to watching more of your videos. Have a Beautiful Weekend!😎♥️✌️

[@inout7949]

Love yourself is the best thing to do in your life.

[@javis3059]

I love this ❤️ talk. I am working on finding myself, living in the South in America as an AFRICAN american male. I always have to wear a mask to be accepted by people who I don’t even liked.

[@jerryrossman5470]

Be aware of your Christed Self, not an African American. It'll all clear up in the oneness we all share. You've been hypnotized into believing you are something you are not! Read Rev. Ike or watch him on KZbin. Let me know.

[@yolojenny5877]

I live in S korea.and i have to wear at least 10 masks every day .otherwise i cant live here..

[@hominidsteve]

Maybe the important thing is to be aware of the masks, and the dance you do with your masks in relating to people. And to know what is really 'you' that you keep private. And to remember (as Kristina is epitomising in my appreciation of her sharing)...that truth be told, all people yearn to be authentic. Thus you will find you are actually finding more acceptance on a deeper, but perhaps 'lesser apparent' level, (people appreciate you but cant show it) ,if you do share your honest self. There is limited, sporadic, transient happiness, no real connection, in playing the game of masks. Of course, those you dont like are in the same boat as you in these choppy waters. As Kristina says... what is your emotion in feeling something negative (or positive!) in relation to a person...run with that, dig into it! So ultimately we are not forced to wear our masks...it just helps to make sure to look out for people who also are understanding about masks, so you have allies in being freer and more courageous to show yourself. This is where Mind Valley is so worthy in helping us 'be' and moving onwards

[@ahlam3642]

Be you! That’s the biggest gift you can share with the world. The people who deserve your love will organically as you explore the depths of you, come your way

[@BluSkyBliss]

Beautiful talk from a beautiful woman. Thank you for your wisdom and truth. The Love in me honors the Love in you (Namaste) ♥️

[@anastasiamoiseeva4403]

Beautiful, open, liberating for Kristina and for us! Keep going beautiful and wise women!

[@hasarawadumesthri]

This is the second time I listened to this. Lots of ife wisdoms ! Thanks Kristina for sharing this!❤

[@Beherenow-p5e]

In truth...we just limit ourselves so often in order to please others. Like my grandkids often say: stop it. They are only 2 and 6 years old....but they know. Life is awesome once you get it.

[@LadyPC]

"please be happy" - thank you, I am doing my best!

[@spiralsun1]

One of the best talks I have ever heard. So thankful for you. So staggeringly helpful, so perfect, so right on target, so inspiring. ❤️❤️❤️

[@NenaLavonne]

spiralsun1 agree! ♥️

[@makitasadhra2824]

WOW KRISTINA YOU'RE AMAZING. so brave, what a powerful speech you delivered - looking forward to being honest with myself and trying to live more authentically Thank you so much for this

[@mariannevonjohl7455]

You are fantastic. This is new to me, if someone mistakes you and nearly kills you and puzzles you , is accepting a meaningless influence to me..

[@tiffanyleite]

I’ve been watching Mindvalley’s video and this is one of the best! Thank you

[@nila.conzen]

"We are so obsessed with our reach, while we have unlearned to connect" I love this quote and the rest of the talk! I wrote about something quite similar on my blog recently (aboutthegoodlife.me) I would add: "We are so obsessed with our reach, while we have unlearned to connect - and DISCONNECT!" Learning to disconnect to reconnect is so so important in todays society! When we truly disconnect from any external distractions, we get to learn so much more about ourselves than while scrolling through our social media feeds watching others living their lives!

[@Beherenow-p5e]

Awesome. Thank u for sharing. Be true to thyself. Nothing has changed.

[@normalilianbarahona985]

Thanks Kristina, you are a truly amazing leader. I love this video. Is worth watching again and again🙏

[@MindvalleyTalks]

We are thankful this talk has touched you. You're always welcome and thanks for the support!

[@daniellacarolinagiordano]

Thank you, dear! Your message will change many lives.

[@lacitafleming]

Awesome! I needed to hear this exact message at this exact time. Thank you for your guidance 🙏🏾

[@ih-p7914]

Спасибо Кристина. Как раз вовремя нашла вашу речь.

[@kimberleyedward5593]

This was such a deep, eye opening talking!! Truly amazing!!

[@marshalslimshaddymathers4348]

WOW Kristina you are 40? I still cannot believe that, you look so young 😍

[@florencevandermeer9447]

40 is not old, not even close

[@chashkalozhkasb3573]

If shes 40 or something, shes young, she supposed to look young, dummy

[@swish6754]

40 is young

[@travelandtash]

Wow. That's so inspiring that you shared your personal story. Seems almost surreal that two such successful people in this type of arena could also have challenges. ♥

[@UzFermini]

You are powerful, I can feel your power, and which power ⛮ makes me feel more empowered. Thank you! 😘

[@cristinaantoninaburuiana7128]

Lovely and welcome message ! Thanks a lot, Kristina !

[@tti3360]

Thank you 💛

[@aligulnardhanani4444]

Thank you so much I have started my journey ..... An I'm feeling a little better with this speech of you ...

[@CariadNZ]

Thank you, this is a realistic womanly approach to actual growth.

[@MegAmorRomance]

I have just started watching and listening to Kristina and wow... she is amazing. There is something about her energy which is so alive, real, authentic... yes, buzzword but true. And so vulnerable... but riveting. Very sexy and I don't mean that in a sexual way but more in a way of wanting to feel that freedom of self, of that aliveness. The enthusiasm and realness always gets me when I listen to either Kristina or Vishen. So expressive and in face, words, hands, energy... It's a joy to watch and hear. And I love how Kristina explains her brain. I have the same type of brain. I must analyze and think about they why of all things. I think that's a gift to be able to think like that. And also sometimes I'd just like to leave my brain on a charger somewhere and just go out without it sometimes. LOL. But I like the take on feeling all feelings. And when something comes up where we feel we have to censor the feeling... start digging. Hmmm... why am I trying to stop that feeling etc? Brilliant. Loved it. Thank you :)

[@dolsiemercado3140]

Love this!

[@NicoMoreno]

Thanks so much for the awesome video 🔥 This will definitely help me improve my Mindset, Business, and Life!! Keep it up! 💯💯🙌

[@HumansOfVR]

100! Keep up the good work

[@dennymuktar9676]

Love this vid! Thx Christina!

[@HellerFamilyPics]

Great Talk ... at 64 years old I'm starting to figure this out.

[@dnllmaurer1]

Decide what feels true for you & be genuine to yourself. Life only promises change so you learn to adapt. You can either go forward or backwards, grow or die, but not both at once. You must decide & as long as you're alive, it's never too late. Wishing you abundant blessings as you find your inner joy through personal triumphs of growth & enlightenment.

[@gloriaaustin5000]

Such an authentic and insightful talk .Thank you x

[@briduga1969]

I needed to hear this message today, thank you

[@MindTrip888]

I wonder how many people get married because they are being polite? And stay married because they are being polite? Two people on their best behaviour meaning both are not being their authentic self? Not the person you married? Seems being Fake is far too common to be considered not normal... Being genuine seems to not be tolerated as much. Perhaps there are better ways in between that we have not been exposed to as to experience them? For much we are programmed to behave is instinctive subconscious cultural mimickery. While I have striven to find truth, it would seem the whole world in relationships is about HOW YOU EFFECT FEELINGS within others. People don't remember what you said or did so much as the FEELING they HAD that they ASSOCIATE with You. So if you can assist everyone to GENUINELY FEEL GOOD about themselves, they will feel good about you. Not flattering, but genuine truths, which are encouraging. Genuine emotions are what the LAW of ATTRACTION is all about. These are the energy that have a great effect on us, on others, and on the things that are attracted into our lives and we towards those that we FEEL towards. And this works both as positive and negative. Feel happy and you see more happy things in your attention, its how our filters work. Feel anxious and you find more things to be anxious about. Feel fear and have much things to fear stand out. Feel you are in the right place at the right time, and amazing things will come your way which will back up your consistent feelings... Learn to find what your normal feels like... Ask yourself questions that evoke happy successful emotions in you. Such as... How would I FEEL if EVERYTHING was going OKAY and working out WELL? Give it a good 20 seconds to half a minute of FEELING this... for this is the NEW NORMAL you require to set your AUTOPILOT and SEEING and SEEKING the things that reinforce this FEELING.

[@JOHNSONJOSEPH1988]

Ray okeedoki ❤️

[@Maya-il2yy]

Beautiful 👍👍👍👍

[@CMoore8539]

Ray okeedoki Awesome what you wrote!❤️ I think that many of us have done the same thing, just trying to be polite.

[@treversgoh]

Ray okeedoki ☺️🌿☘️👆🏻🌿💕💕🌿❤️☘️💕❤️

[@THEDIAMONDLIFE1]

Nothin but gems dropped in this vid. Thank u for the wisdom! ❤️🔥🙏

[@djosfr]

спасибо, желаю тебе жить своей мечтой, с отличной семейной жизнью. Thank you so much !

[@healthyfoodnews7]

Love you all

[@mariadodds4913]

A wonderful talk full of wisdom amd strength.

[@LivingBestLife]

some raw honest soulful talk. Thank you Christina. Love

[@Ahmedibrahim-ii5kk]

this speech is absolutely wonderful

[@atulVkota]

V'nice Ms.K.M-L, simply keep listening to u is, soulfully gripping indeed, without any slides or texts or visuals thrown on the wall etc, just listening to u, is good enough, keep going, u r awsome, doing well, cheers 👍💎👌🙏💐👸👑

[@aligulnardhanani4444]

Very true ....I love what you say ...

[@monialoha777]

Awesome , she is so pretty and well-soft spoken❤️❤️❤️

[@connecttoself]

beautiful speech and mesmerizing beauty. wow ! what a combination

[@masiiharwood6082]

Brilliant talk, thank you Kristina😘💚💚💚💐💐💐🙏

[@literarybirds]

Finally I got my answer Am 29 having same situation same fear to hurt my love ones my parents if I take decision for me but my surrounding doesn't allow to step in my chosen world. Its prerequisite to love yourself but my Mom says wait for the right time to own u

[@alokebogi6380]

Thanks so much for fantastic explain doing well,

[@nicolecarter789]

Absolutely beautiful speech from Christina 😀🙏 Thank You for sharing this with us ❤️🙏😀🥰🦋😘

[@akankshaawachar]

A very inspiring and an amazing insight into how to go about in life... Thanks so much... Really helpful... 🙏😊❤😘🤗✨

[@tiffanyleite]

Loved it!

[@josephotoet7377]

So if she had learned to be happy early, she would not have married that guy, however she had to go through it in order for us to learn to connect

[@Empre55]

💖👑🙌🏾🤗 all of this year one of the biggest undercurrents has been self acceptance. Especially that I am lovable where I am regardless of how much improvement I have decided I need to make. ..regardless of my emotions. I don't have to hide them. I can & should I choose express them if it will give me inner peace. I am the Ambassodor for my inner child.

[@sudheersudheer5606]

Very cute personality, Vishen is so lucky!!

[@adirbarak5256]

If you are truly moved by this talk, get your self a physical or digital copy of "six pillars of self esteem) by Nathaniel Branden. He covers self-integrity and self acceptance and much more and can truly be referred to as a guide to happy and fulfilled life.

[@shreeg100]

That's very beautiful.. be happy 😍

[@balakrishnaprasad8928]

Progress your life for loving your self and what do you want and always be happy with a smily face 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@awakenthegreatnesswithin]

Love is the key 😃😎

[@progressisbeautiful1541]

Don't know about her, but her husband is a one lucky man.

[@hominidsteve]

You didnt pay attention! She has split with Vishen. As ex-husband he can still view himself as one lucky man

[@naturedegree5671]

Fantastic and lovely presentation Friend obrigado friend Thanks for excellent video friend

[@kuzonio]

Oh man this talk is wonderful but when the conversation goes to masks around 11:45 it comes off so much differently listening to this in the middle of a pandemic! 😅🤪😷❤️

[@shalinitiwari119]

So, we think we are helping but we are not helping if we are not happy.

[@ashleighevans1867]

Does anyone know where this dress is from?

[@alijavahery3832]

Finally the hours and hours of watching very useless ted talks paid off by watching this amazing video. I was about to boycott ted talks but the talks were not that informative and useful. This has made it worthwhile 😊.

[@kathleenkaleookalanismith8724]

Dang this is so freakin true. Dang!!!! 🤔😲

[@thadicktater6832]

I'll have to show this to my wife.

[@GadgetsGearCoffee]

"we've lost the ability to connect" have we ever had it though? Hasn't there always been masks throughout history? I don't believe falling out of the accepted societal standards with masks were ever celebrated

[@loristromski1334]

I just want your dress

[@marshak6459]

EVERYTHING IS NOT A MASK. WE ARE HUMAN BEINGS AND WE FEEL EMOTIONS THAT ARE REAL. WE CANT JUST FORGIVE AND FORGET AND ACCEPT ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING IN THE WORLD AND WALK AROUND LIKE A ZOMBIE. GOD DID NOT CREATE US THAT WAY.

[@AnnanyaBanerjee]

❤️❤️

[@nirmoldeb6518]

MADAM ME WAITING YOUR HELP.

[@Duc2B]

I feel frustrated when I see such speech because I need to learn realistic and applicable things. I work in a global corporate and I ensure you that if you don't muddle you to others, to politics and if you don't play poker face, it's impossible to climb the ladder and be accepted. Yes you can be authentic, but it has a price. I would be glad to hear more applicable and balanced speech. Ty 🙏🏻

[@evaelgoraicy2991]

Thomas Ponçot and if you are not true to yourself you also pay a price. Ask yourself, which price you would rather pay.

[@hominidsteve]

There is no 'applicable and balanced speech', except the one you find to give to yourself. All the best with determining what is truly important for you

[@elenabelacastre7789]

That's a wonderful message, but I find THAT OFTEN PEOPLE DON'T ALWAYS PRACTICE WHAT THEY PREACH! OFTEN people try to INFLUENCE 6he outcome! WHAT CAN SOMEONE OR ALL OF US DO ANOUT THAT?????? IS THAT AUTHENTICITY??

[@hominidsteve]

I reckon to be truly authentic is being that...so you cant be aiming at an outcome. In being authentic things will evolve in ways one cannot predict. There can be your orientation based on intent and focus, but what will actually manifest and come to be in hard reality cannot be known

[@hominidsteve]

It is in believing in the radiating force of being rigorously true to yourself...being so cannot but influence others

[@shineshyn1166]

Love ur husband first.. wat kind of life u r leading mam.. think abt ur kids life .. peace with ur soulmate with whom he is n fulfill ur life till last . Tats the turning point to society for a change. U r failed in life n making others to change . God s der to look after all.

[@raisingmaxi1601]

Blah blah blah, didn’t find this useful at all.

[@laskoki3838]

What about your relationship with God? Where does that fit in to this message?

[@tonyraffles4366]

Oscar Wilde out of all the genius's he's number 1 he's makes everyone else seem like grubby little men and yes I include myself in that I was made to read his wit and wisdom books and his wit charisma charm grace personality never left me Three's a picture of him with his hand under his chin and holding a cane and my mother asked me what does that picture tell you I did not have a answer so she said superior son superior end of .

[@JeanneDeSilver]

I love Christina and Vishen and am very disappointed/discouraged that they, with all the resources of Mind Valley, were unable to rectify whatever it was that caused their marriage to break up.

[@AlpaKapadiaTeli]

Don't think we should judge. Everyone does their best.

[@Diana-sb4yl]

What is there to rectify ? They both made a decision to end a " marriage" .

[@dewadharmawickrama2386]

Love definition is different from culture to culture. Is your point leaving your kids to fulfill your desires is a better choice. May be it is Russian way of 5hinking. Once a mother gave a birth to her kids it is nature guides you 5o look after them till they become independent. A common sense of a countryside peasant would even rationalize it. Anyway thanks for ur disconnected thoughts !

[@rommanarayan7058]

Getting Old Toxic Slt!

[@shoshanabloom8669]

This is a completely selfish attitude. I am not happy so I should make everyone unhappy to do as i want‼️ People have obligations in life and not just me me me. I cannot believe how selfish you are

[@hominidsteve]

With all you assertiveness, I just wonder how you came to be watching Kristina sharing herself...and why?

[@fionalightspontaneous1924]

Kristina didn't come across as selfish to me. She simply acknowledged her own truth and shared this with the world. This would not have been an easy decision to make. Nothing in her speech gave me the impression she was abandoning her children, nor shirking her responsibilities. Quite the opposite. Not only is she acknowledging her truth, she is essentially going to be a better mum for doing so. If you are not happy within yourself, you cannot make others happy. If what Kristina said stirs something in you, perhaps this is because this is against your beliefs and choices. The choices Kristina makes doesn't personally affect you. Our mission on earth is to become the best version of ourselves. Yes it is about the self.

[@gladysunegbu8881]

This is selfish bullshit talk,u need JESUS desperately!!!

[@Sibaanom8]

Terrible speaker, her voice brims with anxiety and her speech is too personal and banal.

[@temitopejohnson9615]

Your opinion

[@hominidsteve]

The problem might be with your concept of 'speaker'?

[@hominidsteve]

It serves you not?

[@Sibaanom8]

@@temitopejohnson9615 Yes it's my opinion and I'm free to express it! Get over it!

[@Sibaanom8]

@@hominidsteve The problem might be with you being offended by my comment?

[@dolsiemercado3140]

Love this!

[@yogeshagarwal5629]

Thank you!!

[@dolsiemercado3140]

Love this!