Indian parents - Don't talk with strangers Also Indian parents - But you sleep with strangers on the first night of marriage
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Haha😂😂😂
@davkyldhnxii-b46193 жыл бұрын
Indian elder - Hum jaat-paat mein vishwas nahi rakhte Also Indian elder - Lekin shadi sirf apni hi jaati mein karna hai
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha😂😂 yr ek se badhkar ek👌🏻
@NavdeepSohpal3 жыл бұрын
Dii agr meri family ne uske sath contact krna bnd krdia aur ghr se niklna v ...toh kya krungi mai....aur kse baat krungi ghr ....
@priyankazmakeuptutorials30133 жыл бұрын
Mein apki video first time dekh rhi hu or apki smjhane ka tarika bohot achhi hai 😂..i feel that kuch kuch meri life mein...
@aarushiranjan90442 жыл бұрын
@Ranty Vlogs In my case everyone is against in my family and putting mental pressure on me to leave the guy otherwise leave my job. It's been one month now since I have informed my father but he is still not agreeing to even see the guy or to meet his family once.Could you pls help out how to deal with this pressure they are trying to build on me to give my permission to look for a guy for an arrainge marriage???
@nowsheenabanoo86822 жыл бұрын
Same mere sth b
@prashansa72113 жыл бұрын
How to stay strong.... Jab parents emotional drama kare and hume convince karne ki koshish kare ki hum ye khayal dimag se nikal de
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
bas apne man me ye socho ki emotional drama thode time hi chalta h uske bad vo khud samajhne lagenge, ye socho ki vo apko test karre h ki ap emotionally aur mentally strong ho ki nai love marriage ke liye, agey ek responsible life ke liye. abi se strong rehna seekh lena chahiye before stepping into married life is what i would advice 😊😊. sab sahi hoga, bas don't lose hope
@goodlife27483 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime aaj mere saath wahi ho rha h. Mere papa ro rhe h..idhr main ro rhi hu.. Udhr mera boyfriend ro rha h... Kuch samjh nhi aa rha... Kya kru.. LG rha h ki kyaa kr liya life me glti.. I m so help less
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
@@goodlife2748 yahi time h thoda patience rakhne ka. Khud mat roo ap bilkul bi. Apne decision pe bharosa rakho. Apka bf ko bi kaho roye nai himmat rakhe commitment ki h to nibhaye strong rhe, aur apne papa se bat karo unko samjhao unse pucho kya acha nai lag ra. Communication is the solution
@annannu96493 жыл бұрын
@@goodlife2748 mere ghar me v aysa chal rh h.. Baht ro rhi h mummy papa... 5saal se chal rh h ye struggle kya karu kisko kahun
@nowsheenabanoo86822 жыл бұрын
Mere ghr mai eik he problem arhi h kehte h distance bhout ziyada h ap eik he beti ho hmari ro rhi h mummy aur papa gussa kr rhe h btt nhi kr rhe h even whole family b yhi issue utha rhi h meri study b effect ho rhi h mjhe btao mai ky kru is situation mai
@davkyldhnxii-b46193 жыл бұрын
How can anyone stay with a boy/girl forever whom you have never met in life ? Arranged marriages are very illogical.
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
True! Still many prefer arrange marriages, to get aquainted with their partners later in life.
@chaelisa27633 жыл бұрын
True 😭
@ritikayadav65653 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime hi di Main apne dur k maternal cousin se love marriage krna chahti hu but family is not agree what to do
@ritikayadav65653 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime plz reply
@sangeetasaha19998 ай бұрын
Hlw ma'am kiya app meri msg ka rply karenge please actually meri sadi ko lekar problem chal raha hain ghar me because meri bf other caste se hain . Rishte bohot arahe hain but me cancel ❌ karti ja rahi hu .. emotional blackmail karte hain mummy papa.. meri bhai behen nhi hain koi me single child hu.. aj to mummy ne 2/3 nind ki dabai kha li ... Daily ghar me marne ki suicide ki baat hoti rehti hain.. log kiya kahenge ye sab ki wajese mummy papa nhi mante... Me bohot strong rehti hu 1 year se mana rahi hu ghar me but nehi man rahe .. bf ki family me sab man gai ,sab mujhe accept karliya, bohut piyar bhi karte hain ... Maam me kiya karu me meri bf ko bhi nhi chor sakti , but jab mummy papa ko rote huye dekhti hu to me tut jati hu andar se ... Fir v me bohot positive rehne ki koshis karti hu ki ekdin man jayenge...sirf dar lagta hain ki mummy papa ko kuch ho na jai meri wajah se...maam me kiya karu😭🙏 please RPL dena
@RajniKatoch-l5bАй бұрын
Kuch nhi hoga unhe. Kisi ko kabhi kich nhi hota.
@SamishaKumari-sf3mq12 күн бұрын
How to convince big brother if he was very strict
@Inspiredivyacgpsc2 жыл бұрын
Didi mere parents intercast marriege k liye ni man rahe dusra rista dekh rhe h kese kruu hm dono ek dusre se bhot pyar krte hai 😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@archanasharma2604 Жыл бұрын
Man gye kya
@Inspiredivyacgpsc Жыл бұрын
@@archanasharma2604 nai Mane h yar but mnaynge kese Bhi Krk👍
@sahilheer52553 жыл бұрын
Mam mere relationship ko 6 sala ho chuke hai...meri gf govt job krti hai aur meri govt job lgne wali hai...to uske ghr pe rishte ki baatein hone lg gyi so usne tang aake apne ghr walo ko bta diya mere baarein me...to uske ghr walo ne saaf saaf mna kr diya shaadi ke liye due to caste...wo pandit mai punjabi...uske ghr wale kehte hai ki tere papa seedhe saadhe hai unhe kuch ho gya to kya krenge hum...aur wo sb mujhe thoda thoda jaante hai...aur meri gf ne bataya ki mujhe usne padhaya likhaya hai aur aaj uski wjh se independent hu mai job kr ri hu...to unke ghr walo ne kha ki hum abhari hai us ldke ke lekin hum ni kr skte...maine apni behan ko bta diya sb meri job ni lgi still...and hum dono ne uski mumny se baat ki lekin whi jawan nhi.. papa ko ho gya iske kuch to hum to jeeteji mr jaynege...aur shaadi ke peeche pd gye hai ab aur uski...ab kya krein mam plzz batayie koi upaye bataye..gf keh ri hai mai apne papa ji ko dukhi ni dekh skti mai ni chhati meri wjh se unhe kuch ho jaye...mam gf bhi kya hi kre...aap batayie koi suggestion plzzzz urgent
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Dekho apki gf ko apne papa ko khud jake batana padega tabi kuch bat banegi. “Kuch ho gya to” ye ho gya vo ho gya ye sab purane jamane me hua karta tha ajkal ke time me sab parents ko pata hota h ki mostly love marriages hi hoti h. Aur jab ladki ki mom ko pata h to pakka uske papa ko bi hint hoga hi is bat ka. Dukhi karna na karna bad ki bat h use pehle khud apne papa se bat karni padegi aur apse milwana padega uske bad. Aisa to hai nai ki uske papa uski shadi nai karayenge kabi kyunki vo dukhi honge ya unhe kuch hoga. Yahi solution h. Apne ghar ki jimmedari partner ko khud leni padti h.
@priyankasahu11382 жыл бұрын
Main joint family mein rehti hun didi... Kese sabko manau Koi idea ya koi suggestion ho toh please batana
@shinegaming805 Жыл бұрын
Mam mere relationship ko bhut time hogya h ab muje shaadi krni h but kse manau
@Seventeen.11252 жыл бұрын
Meri family bilkul mane ko manna kar diya hai woh sirf yehi kehte hai untouchable caste hai society k log bol rahe hai shadi kiya to society se nikal denge or khana pani band kar denge mein kya karoun please help
@swatigrover3193 жыл бұрын
Di hmare to upper lower caste ka chkr pdega... family meri boht strict h.. papa to marne peetne tkk jayege..boht jada mess create ho skta.. Don't know what to do 😓 Bss bhgwan bhrose chl rhe h aage.. Plz guide 😌🙏🏻
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
dekho society ne hamare parents ko aise mould kiya hua h ki gussa to ayega hi, ho sakta h bahut tej aye. ap patience rakhna aram se samjhana pyar se bat karna pure process k dauran. agar apke parents ko ladka aur uski family achi lag gyi aur unke liye society se zyda apki khushi priority pe hogi to thoda der se hi sahi vo man jayenge. don't worry bas jo bi karo sahi waqt pe karna. jaldbazi aur overreact mat karna. all the best 😊😊👍👍
@swatigrover3193 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime thank you so much di ❤️ Honsla mila sunn k 😄😌
@GarimaJasrotia11 ай бұрын
Ma rajput hu sc se shddi ho jya gi 😢
@Pouuup3 жыл бұрын
I love the way you are and the way you express❤❤😙👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 .
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
💕💕💕🥲
@kusumchandravanshi76363 жыл бұрын
Di ham.dono.ki cast alag alag hai papa dusra cast sunn kar hi na kar dangai love marraige papa.mummy.dono ko nhi pasand hai ham.dono kai barrami mai ladka kai family mai sab ko pata hai bass maryai family mai hi kisi ko nhi pata hai mai ky kru 😭😭😭😭 or unkai family mai sab koi ready hai saadi kai layai bass maryai family ko kasai manyai plese help😥😥
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Unse bat karo, apne ghr pe batana to padega hi aj nai to kal agar shadi karni h apko to. Daro ghabrao nai, agar ap nai bataoge to aj nai to kal ko vo khud rishte dhundhenge apke liye. Jab ladke walo ki ore se sab ok h to ye bi batao apne gharwalo ko, ladke ko milwao, step by step karo par shuruat ghar ps batane ss karo
@himani23032 жыл бұрын
Phle too mere parents ne bachpan se kha ladko se baat nahi karne.. Ab mujhe unhone kuch ladke dikhae arrange marriage ke liye... Mujhe koi passand nahi aaya... Too ab kahte hai tu hi bta de koi... Tu apne marji se kar le ...tu dhund le.. Har caste mai kra denge.. Phir mujhe lga gusse mai kah rahe hai.. Lakin mummy ne kha tu hi bta dee... Mere parents apne hi game mai fass gae...
@Shrutiyadavshorts-j5338 ай бұрын
Very nice 😂😂😂
@Archana_Singh----1111 Жыл бұрын
Di mere papa bol diye h thik h karva denge sadi usse lekin fir dubara nhi bole h to iska. Ky matlab samjhu me please reply me
@raeesshaikh71002 жыл бұрын
Sachi yaar samajh nahi aata kya kre hume bhi love marriage hi krni hai 😟
@KajalYadav-ez1zv3 ай бұрын
Yaha to na sun rhe hi na puch rhe hai bt karna hi nhi chah rhe h kuch bolo to bhag jate h and call par bolo to call cut ab kaise karu
@harshpanchal59063 жыл бұрын
Meri kabhi girlfriend nhi bani and kayi ladkiyo se reject bhi hua jaha mom dad dikhate the but unme main interested nhi tha .....but last me jaha bataya waha ladki ki family ne samne se haa keh diya jiska pressure mujpe badh gaya muje na chahte hue bhi haa kehna pada mai kisi ko mana nhi kar paya...maine ye socha ki parents ki age ho rahi hai isliye mene apna man marke ye decision liya ki time rehte meri attachment ho jayegi us ladki ke sath but aaj 8 months hone par bhi mai kuch feel nhi kar pa raha hu ab mai kese kahu us ladki ko kese convince karu...kyuki wo serious ho rahi hai day by day...ab mai uska heartbreak karne se dar raha hu kyuki mene face kiya hai wo mai janta hu
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Do raste h apke pas. Ya to ap tension k maare usko nai batao aur shadi karke puri life compromise karo. Ya dusra rasta use abi time rehte bata do taki vo move on kar sake and ap bi life me freely agey badho na ki koi bojh leke. Decision tough h dono par choose apko karna h aur vo bi Jaldi kyunki 8months ho gye h.
@khushi-49003 жыл бұрын
Bhai agr bilkul feeling nhi h aapki To abhi jaldi keh do late kroge or strong ho jayegi wo or jyada mushkil hoga abhi start krdo kehna Agr aapko lgta h time to time aap feel kroge to mt kro Sidhi baat h bhai late mt kro please
@harshpanchal59063 жыл бұрын
Parents ne kaha ki same caste me hai aur koi ladki haa kehti nhi humare caste me kyuki same age ki ladkiya sabhi shadi kar chuki hai...ab ye last ladki hai jo 21 saal ki hai ....baki ladkiya 19 ya usse kam ki hai wo wese bhi haa nhi bolegi.....even parents ne ye kaha ki agar koi problem hota hai to same caste me ho to baat sunne ke liye koi to hoga lekin dusri caste me marriage hogi and koi problem hui to kon relative kiske aage baat rakhoge...maine isi darr ke karan tab haa kehdi thi kyuki tab mai jobless tha.... parents ne ye sab factors batake muje convince kiya
@khushi-49003 жыл бұрын
@@harshpanchal5906 to ab aapko agr koi feelings hi nhi h to fayda kya Or caste ke according aap khud dhundne ki koshish kro khi bhi mil bhi skti h aapko Or ab job to h na ?
@techamitstar5153 жыл бұрын
Aap dono ki castes ky h??
@madarauhicha693 жыл бұрын
mai pure 10 ghnte late hu🥺 reaction op h🤣🤣🔥🔥🔥🔥
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Hehe😀💜
@prakrti.s15902 жыл бұрын
Di I'm 25 year old ,and my bf is 27 yr old we both were preparing for govt. Job after greduation in 2017 . But didn't get success . We still in relationship want to marry to eachother , he is rajput , I'm brhamin girl . My father is lover of castism but my mom has no problem. I started to earn money since 2017 by home tution and also did job in school but due to corona I lost that and in 2021 October i and my boyfriend have got fight for marriage which was started by me so i left him but couldn't forget and we did patch up after 4 month and he also strated job in 4 month but that office was so far now so I said him to do MBA in order to get job in private company and I'm also looking for school he's still searching . He spent money on my things sometime still do , and i also helped him in financial dilemma . As i belive we will get job and we will do study for govt. Side by side . And we are thinking to live together his family will accept us soon as I know but mine not He cared me loves me even in 4 month he tried a lot to convince me . Now i wanna know it's okay if i go against my father but my mother know about me
@tanuzbhardwaj Жыл бұрын
Fr kya hua baad ma😢
@ishikasaha9667 Жыл бұрын
If family blackmail??? Then should we do?
@sapnashekhawat12166 ай бұрын
Cast bht bdi problem h didi...us case me parents bilkul nhi mante
@KnockoutYT3 жыл бұрын
Didi Aapne Ghr Walo Ko Jb Btaya Tb Aapki Age Kya Thiiii
@lavisamant95 Жыл бұрын
Dii agar unka doubt in cast or other caste Mai nahi Kara na hai ,? Kaise intercaste k liye kaise bole?
@sameerkhan-ri1jy3 жыл бұрын
Medam hamari bhua BHT jyda interface krti h Kl mere Bhai ne bat ki to usko BHT piita meri bhua ne jabki Mere bade papa ka iklota ladka h😓😓 Or esa hone pr ab mj Dr LG RHA h 😓
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Peeta? 😱. Dekho yr gussa narajgi wagerah to honi hi h. Jab bi bat karoge bade aram se pyar se karna. Sabse pehle unhi se jake akele me bat karna. Unko dusro se pata lagega to apka bi wahi hal karegi jo dusro ka kiya. Agar ap unko personally jake bataoge aur kahoge ki BUA apko bata ra hu mera sath do ap hi kara sakti ho ye possible to ho sakta h unko apke liye feel ho aur apki help karde vo. Kya pata wahi apki shadi karaye. Bhua ko apni side me lelo pehle. 🙂
@sameerkhan-ri1jy3 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime ji Didi ye Kam possible ni h Pr m kosis kruga bhua ko manane ki Nhi to fir agr koi smjha ni to Glt kadam uthana pd jyga😓😓😓🙏🏻
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
@@sameerkhan-ri1jy himmat mat haro, koshish karo pure man se, sab ho jayega 👍🏻 all the best apko. Sab karloge ap bharosa rakho apne pyar pe.
@aarushisinghal74403 жыл бұрын
Very good advice communication is the key.
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
yes 😊😊
@pawanprajapati96273 жыл бұрын
29 april 2021 ko Meri ghr mai mom ki death ho gyi h kaise btau papa ko is se phle btaya tha to cast ki problem or log ky kahege ye bole the abhi problem ye h ki mom ki death ho gyi h himmat nhi hoti unse kuch kehne ki plzzz btao or aane wale time mai shaadi krna bahut imp h 1 saal ke andar karni padegi kya kre di btao plzzz
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Abi bahut kam time hua h apke ghar me mom ki death ko hue, abi apke papa halka sa bi recover nai hue honge emotionally, aise me ekdum se mat batana abi ek do month ruk jao unka man dekho theek hua ki nai. Agar ap abi shadi k liye bolne lagoge to apke papa ko ek hi bat lagegi ki maa chali gyi aur isko apni shadi ki lagi hui h, bahut galat message jayega. Jab bi apki shadi ki bat ho next tab kehna aur apni ore se bat initiate karni h to do teen mahine ruk jana, ek saal me kafi time h tab tak sab ho jayega. Is waqt bas ap apne papa ka emotional support banke khade rho. God bless you !
@pawanprajapati96273 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime thnq so much 🙏🙏🙏 Di
@funland18043 жыл бұрын
Meri phupho head hain .. wo caste ko bht manti hain ..papa ki death ho gai .. mama b caste or love marriage k bht khilaf hain 😢
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
i can understand. ap apne pyar se hi apni bat manwa sakte ho. sabhi khilaf hote h is cheez ke liye, mehnat karni padti h humein khud hi taki possible kar payein cheezo ko. keep on trying and sab kuch aram se pyar se karna 😊😊
@funland18043 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime ok 😍thank you 😊
@siddharth31403 жыл бұрын
I think aap bahut aage jaoge bas consistent video banate rehna btw love your videos
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
thank you for appreciating🙂, will try our best
@khushising89Ай бұрын
Hlo Di hm jisse sadi karna chahte hai vo hmare hi gotra ke hai caste same hai hm singh hai, but hmare papa bahut strict hai me mummy se kahi bhn papa se keh ke maar khilva di,pr fhir bhi haar nhi manege unki family bahut achi lg rhi
@Funwithsiblings1013 жыл бұрын
Hii di m apki raye lena chahti hu.. Agar aap meri jgh hoti kya Kya karti ..m ek ldke se bohot pyar krti hu hmko 4 sal Ho gye sath me ab bat shadi Ki aai h usne apni family m sbko bta diya h or sb happy h or uske Papa. Ne use ye he bola h Ki 1 sal k andar agar ldki ne uske ghar walo ko nhi btaya to m Teri shadi kahi or kra dunga ab m kya kru 1 sal ka time diya h or mera education abhi complete nhi hua h 2 sal baki h or Papa abhi shadi k liye nhi manage di m kya kru please aap mere is topic ka video Bna kr upload kro taki esa kisi ka problem Ho to vo kya kre please... Di help me... M ab kya kru
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
hii, yr sabse pehle to abi jab apka education chal ra h to ladke ne ghar pe kyu bata diya itni jaldi? i mean ofcourse dekho India me parents ye sab pata chalne ke bad jald se jald shadi karane ki bat karte h warna aise ladka ladki ka ghumna acha nai mana jata isliye agar uske papa ne ye kaha h to kuch galat nai kaha. ab babe dekho bat ati h apki side ki. adha kam to sahi h ki ladke wale khush h, ab apke pas do raste h ya to education puri hone se pehle shadi karna jo me recommend nai karungi kyunki shadi k bad kuch pata nai hota padh paoge ki nai, aur apke papa bi is option ke liye razi nai honge bcoz he knows indian society ka, dusra ye ki ap 6 mahine me apni family ko bata dena, aur apne gharwalo ki bat karwa dena ladke ke gharwalo se, dono families apas me hi iska solution nikalenge, ladke ne bahut jaldi bata diya family me, jab tak ap dono educationally free nai hue the ye bat nai batani chahiye, parents stress me a jate h ki acha baccho ka love interest h to jaldi shadi karao.
@Funwithsiblings1013 жыл бұрын
Di unhone btane Ki jldi nhi Ki uske Papa. Uski shadi jldi krana chahte h... Uske Papa. Usko 2/3 risty bta rhe the ldki k or use shadi mujhse krni thi to use btana pda Ki vo mujhe psnd krta h
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
@@Funwithsiblings101 to apke sasurji ko convince karna hoga fir to ladke ko ki apki education puri ho jaye uske bad shadi hogi, ya apke papa ko convince karna padega apke sasurji ko ki shadi ke bad apki education puri kara denge. Yahi do options h filhal to.
@Funwithsiblings1013 жыл бұрын
Di mujhe mere sasurji ne mil bulaya h ghar vo mujhse kya Kya sawal puchege..
@Funwithsiblings1013 жыл бұрын
Di please aap jldi se ek choti si video Bna do Ki kya kya sawal puche jate h jise sbko help milegi please di i request you
@himani23032 жыл бұрын
Sahi kha..Patience....meri didi ne bhi 6 saal lg gae mnane mai..
@parmjetkaurgodsa430 Жыл бұрын
Didi family kisi types alg alg hoti hai baat krne see life style change ho gya tha mera saas nhi le pa rhi thi mtlb j ki ghr wale kehte hai hum jo mante hai aap bhi mante ho toh salution kya or uper see emotional blackmail bo vi hadd see jeada le kr lo baat😞
@nikitabarman49313 жыл бұрын
Di apne court marriage ki ya parents or rishtedaro k sath ki....or kya kisi ne objection nhi kia apke shadi pr...ki intercaste h bolke
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
hamari shadi normal hi hui h parents rishtedaro ke sath nach gane wali badhiya, objection shuru me hua tha thoda bahut vo humne samjha ke clear kiya manaya sabko 😊😊
@nikitabarman49313 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime kitna acha h di..😢😢😢.....sabke family esehi mann jaaye..🙆🤞
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
@@nikitabarman4931 god bless you 🌸💜
@natssinha2 ай бұрын
Its about destiny,we have to make efforts to access it
@Gunnu1382 Жыл бұрын
Yha to 3 year hone Wale hn or meri family logo k bare m itna sochti h ki vo milna b n chahte dusre ki family se
@Success-7-g2q7 ай бұрын
My family too clearly deny to marriage. Tanne roj pdhte h
@PreetiThakur07musicmylife3 жыл бұрын
Sahi kha Didi ❣️❣️ ty so much for this video
@rashmiyadav82722 жыл бұрын
Agar unka concern sirf society hi hai to kya kare uske liye???
@GarimaJasrotia11 ай бұрын
Ma rajput hu ma sc se shddi Krna chti hu kase mnyu family ko😢
@rishikasharma36393 жыл бұрын
Hi Di, Kya kre jab parents dur k kisi relative se hi shadi krwana chate ho just coz wo all of a sudden kisi anjan family me nai krna chahte..aur unke hisab se aisa h ki relavtive me karane se sb kuch jana phchana h. Aur us ladke me bhi koi burai bhi na ho but only difference is i dont love that relative wala guy. tab kaise manae?
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
kayi bar aisa hota h ki log door ki rishtedari me shadi karate h, usse apke parents ko dar nai rhega ki ksii anjan ghar me bhejne se acha sab jan pehchan k h to koi apko kal ko pareshan nai karega ya dikkat nai ayegi. dekho agar apka koi boyfriend ya partner h to ap apne parents ko bata do, convey kardo isse pehle vo apse puche bina rishta tey kardein. agar nai h to ap us ladke ko janne ki koshish karo usse conversation karo, meet him a few times, dekho love to kisi se nai hota jab tak ap us insan ko jaan nai lete uske sath enough time spend nai karlete. apne parents se kaho apko time dein us time me ladke ko jan lo, kyunki nibhana apne h aur kisi ne nai. all the best 😊😊
@rishikasharma36393 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime di darasal baat ye h ki i have a boyfriend aur bhut serious bhi hu.. ldke k ghr me mujhe sb psnd krte h. Maine uske bare me last yr bataya tha but ye log nai mane coz ye relative wala ladka option me h. Jb tab ye optn rahega meri psnd ko manwana bhut mushkil h. Aur wo relative wala ladka mere sare chizo k bare me jante hue bhi use koi problm nai h shadi se. Infact mujhe usse force krna pd raha ki ap mana kr dena kisi bhi tarh. To is chz k liye hm uspr kitna bharosa kr skte h ki wo mana kr dega.. Kafi meri frnds ne mujhe suggest kiya h ki khud ki life ki decision kisi aur pe mat choro. Iske bare me ap kya kehna chahenge?
@Outofthboxx3 жыл бұрын
Hi , i really liked your video.. i am facing a similar situation rn, I live in Canada, and i have a boyfriend (indian) who lives in Canada as well. I told my dad upfront about this guy and how i would like to marry him, but he said No because he is from a lower caste .. neither of us care about castes. Now my family is not talking to me until i break up with my boyfriend
@Outofthboxx3 жыл бұрын
Not sure what to do😔
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
hi ! don't be sad, parents often say no the first time, they try to be persistent on caste and other issues and its not even their fault since they are currently living in the Indian society which makes huge issues on the matter of wedding. just keep on talking to your parents with all the love and care that you do, it shall take time , be patient and don't lose hope. they will come around!
@kelashkelash41272 жыл бұрын
Didi mar my cast problem ha mummy papa ko kya kru
@jyotisharma90182 жыл бұрын
jb agar parents dhamki de tb kya kare??
@shalinisharma4642 жыл бұрын
Me brahaman hun aur wo sardar hain mere family to nhi maaan re hain mere dono parents nhi man rahe hain
@jyotikabaug61253 жыл бұрын
Kya jawab de jb bf k parents usse kehte h ki love marriage mei izzat h vo chli jaegi love marriage jyada ni tikkte di
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
isi video ka ek boys perspective karke video banai h , jisme yahi bat mention ki h jo apne puchi h. ek bar use checkout karo apko jawab mil jayega aur boys ko kaise convince karna h apne parents ko iska idea bi lag jayega 😊😊
@arijitbiswas41643 жыл бұрын
Achha didi app aur jija ji ka age keya same hein.. actually mera case me mera partner bhi same age ke hei
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
hanji hamare age same h 🙂🙂
@arijitbiswas41643 жыл бұрын
Thik hain didi ab bohot confidence bar raha hein ❣️
@supalidas93113 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime thank you so much for more motivation 😁❤️
@gameofthrones87643 жыл бұрын
missed editor sahab! but all in all great information
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
editor sahab khush ho gye ye sunke 😂
@tamannasingh95453 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime I know mam...asaan naii h...lekin smjh me ni aa rha kaise bt start karu... smjh ni aa rha phle job karu ya baat karu...agar bt kar li phle..to phr ye log mere bhar jana band kr denge... Pls help me mam...kya karu isme... 🙏
@chandanidubey73613 жыл бұрын
self dependent ho kr k parents se baat kra?
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
yes !
@poojadixit8959 Жыл бұрын
Mere bhai papa h Or nhi maan r 6 saal ho Y mnate mnate
@karan_offical_28533 жыл бұрын
I like your expression 🔥
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Thanks💕
@sweetysingh99163 жыл бұрын
Hamare khandan me aisa kabhi ni hua aur na kabhi hoga tumko jana hai chale jao hum ni sath denge.. To kya kare? Ye baat mummi ne kaha
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Shuru shuru me sab aisi kehte h. Ekdum se ha koi nai kehta😊. Hang in there. Patience rakho aram se bat karo. Kaho apke khandan me ap pehle hoge jisse shuruat hogi love marriage ki. Unko bi time ke sath chalna sikhao pyar se😊. Don’t worry!
@leeforlife72253 жыл бұрын
Hello di.. love from Pakistan... plz reply krna... mere parents convince ni ho rhe k larka different city se ha aur wo chahte hn meri shadi 5 saal k bd e ho to kese manaun unhn?
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Apki age kya h? Shadi 5 sal bad kyu chahte h ? Plz reason batao. Aur dusri city se h to kya hua ladka aur ladke ki family achi honi chahiye aur un logo ko ap pasand hone chahiye. Bas yahi 😊
@leeforlife72253 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime thanks for replying di... me MBBS kr rhe hn last year ha aur age 24 saal ha ghr wale chahte hn house job khatam ho jae tb shadi krni ha... larke k ghr wale mje psnd krte hn
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
@@leeforlife7225 house job khatam ho jaye matlab?
@lalitamahor52443 жыл бұрын
Di jab pta chla apke parents ko phone nhi liea apka
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Nai me 24 years ki thi jab pata laga tha😅😅, i was too old for them to take my phone. Isliye sahi waqt pe pata lagna chahiye, taki aisi bachkana cheezein na ho jaise phone cheen lena ana jana band kardena wagerah. 😊
@lalitamahor52443 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime ryt thanks di may b use 24year s phle pta ni chlne dungi nd thank a lot apki viedos helpful rhi ❤️
@mukeshmishra112 Жыл бұрын
Single life perfect double bad😅😅😅😅
@skalra99793 жыл бұрын
Didi soda religion same a ?
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
nai mai pahadi (Garhwal) aur mere husband jain hai
@tanvisharma45523 жыл бұрын
Hii Ranty, Maine bhi apni love story k bare m apne bhai or mumy ko btaya parso. actually bat ye h ki m 26 years old hu and self independent hu or hm dono hi punjabi family s h but hm pandit h or vo jatt h. and maine apni mumy or bhai ko alg alg btya mtlb bhai ko subh or mumy ko sham ko to dono k reaction ache ni the dono n danta sunaya or mumy n bar bar yhi kha ki jaat bridari hi alg h hmari tere papa nhi manege or parso mumy n mjhe bhut danta bhut guusa kra, ldke ki photo dekhi pr kuch react nhi kra dekh kr and kl mera bhai or mumy ek dm nrml the kisi n mjhe kuch ni kha or na hi papa ko btaya or kl s dono nrml behave kre h or mumy n prso sirf ita kha ki bhai bolra h abhi ignore kro jb krni hogi shadi tb dekhege, "i think vo isliye kunki maine kha tha ki ldke valo ko abhi 1 saal ka tym chahiye pr m abhi isliye btari hu kunki ap kisi rishte ko ha na krdo" ab mjhe ye smjh ni ara ki vo ek dm nrml behave kre h iska mtlb kya h? and ldke k family vale ek dm agree h blki vo bhut khush h ki maine apne ghr p bta diya. kya ap pls btaskte ho mere ghr valo k reaction ka mtlb??
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
agar vo normal behave karre h iska yahi matlab h ki filhal vo hold pe dal re h ki jab bi agey bat cheet hogi ladke walo ki ore se pehl hogi tab bat agey karenge vo. dekho ap ladki wale ho ap to pehl karoge nai bat ki according to our patriarchal society, achi bat h ladke wale khush h razi h to its good for you, make sure ki vo apko pasand karte ho apke sasural wale. baki agey jab bi bat hogi ap aram se karna, apni family ka bi sath dena ksii k against mat jana bas bade pyar se apni bat rakhna. also make sure ki apke sasural wale apke mayke paksh ki respect karein. all the best 😊
@tanvisharma45523 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime ldke vale mere sath h blki vo mjhe smjhate h beta agr ghr vale dante to sunlena age s jwab mt dena parents h vo guusa to ayega hi unhe pr aram s handle kro or hmari jb bhi jarurt ho hm tumhare sath h hm mnalege, bs ek bar tumhare papa ko pta chl jaye kunki vo chahte h ki mere ghr m sbko pta chle kunki agr vo ek dm s ayege to khi bat bidg na jaye or mere in laws mjhe 7 saal s jante h hmara relation bhi 7 sal s h unhe sb pta h m sbko janti hu pure khandan ko or sb bhut ache h, but m cnfuse apne mumy or bhai k reaction s hu ki vo agree h ya ni h kunki vo ek dm nrml h
@tanuzbhardwaj Жыл бұрын
@@tanvisharma4552sadi hui ya ni fr??
@tanuzbhardwaj Жыл бұрын
Sadi ki apne fr.. ye jaat pndt m ye smty h bht jyda no mean no krdete h
@SunitaVerma-ze9ev10 ай бұрын
Mere ghar pr cast ko leke bahut isu ho rha mere
@annugupta46442 жыл бұрын
Chlo thora mind thanda hua mera Same mera yhi hal hai Log kya kahenge Tum aise bate krdi Haye ye taane gharwalo ki nigrani 😅😂
@jyotiranjan68563 жыл бұрын
Padhai ya independent hone se pehle hi agar shadi ke liye force kare parents, toh kya kare?
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
to unse kaho ki independent nai hogi ap to jis tarah aj apke parents apko shadi ke liye force karre h, apke sasural wale bi ap par dominance dikhayenge, koi ma bap na ichahega ki uski beti dab ke rhe kahi bi. unko samjhao ki respect tabi milegi dusre ke ghar me jab apne kuch hasil kiya ho. i am sure they will understand.
@jyotiranjan68563 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime Thankyou so much for your response, I'll definitely do this.❤️
@nehaidrisi64683 жыл бұрын
Mra bf gujjar h m Muslim hm 5 saal s sth h school tym s shdi krn chte h but Dr h gr m ky hoga jb sb cize smne aygi but ak ciz Sikhi h mn bhrosa rkho apn ap ur positive rho ki sb acch hoga abh 3 saal k wait h insah allh hm 3 saal bd m bh apni love story share krungi KZbin p y dream pura Ho jy bs
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Apka dream pura zarur hoga, himmat nai harna, sabko pyar se samjhana, sabki izzat karna aur khud pe yakin rakhna. God bless you🙂
@nehaidrisi64683 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime thnks for reply 😘
@harshpanchal59063 жыл бұрын
Please help me 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 please meri help karo kyuki mentally mai kafi time se pareshan hu
@manvi.65063 жыл бұрын
Thanks pandit ji for introducing me to my love pandit ji number near my name 🙏
@lalitamahor52443 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much di❤️
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure 😊
@monubaraut67953 жыл бұрын
Hlo mam kafi inspire hota hu aapki video se mam me abhi study kr ra hu kafi form bhi feel kr ra hu government job k liye mam Muje ek ladki se pyaar ho gya hai or vo ladki Jo vo chamma r cast se belong krti hai or me jaat hu to Ghar valo ko kese convince kru me Shaadi k liye pls hlp
@tanuzbhardwaj Жыл бұрын
Hogyi sadi
@prachidwivedi7205 Жыл бұрын
Thank you didi 💕
@sunona46443 жыл бұрын
Kookar me kya pak raha hai
@ShabuAnsari-j2f6 ай бұрын
Kis riste ki baat kar rahi ho Jo maa baap Ko puchhe rakhti hai
@dwivedikajal121 Жыл бұрын
You are so cute 😍 ❤
@Success-7-g2q7 ай бұрын
Papa to mrne ki baat kh kr emotional krte h
@arijitbiswas41643 жыл бұрын
Achha didi ... Maa ke batane ke baad behi answer milne ke baad keya karuu 🙃
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
manate rho, unse pucho kya doubts h kya questions h , sabko bade patiently respond karo fir naa ha me badal jayegi.🙂
@arijitbiswas41643 жыл бұрын
Thik hein didi ..aur sabal tha .. actually humare age abb 21 hein (Engineering clg me 2nd y ) aur partner ke bhi same age.. toh kab batana chaiye dono family ko
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
@@arijitbiswas4164 abi nahi batana, apni graduation puri karo aur placement lelo, uske bad batana. Ye karne se pehle jitna time h usme apne parents ko bas aisi majak majak me hints dete rehna ki ap love marriage karna prefer karoge. Aur apni partner ko bi yahi same karne ko kehna.
@arijitbiswas41643 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime thik hein didi aisa hi karunga ❤️🤧
@manhattancupcakes_082 жыл бұрын
Amazing
@nupurtiwary8 Жыл бұрын
Relative or samaz ka hi dar hai jada
@akashj603 жыл бұрын
😯😯😯
@narsinghrokachhetri32303 жыл бұрын
Apka name madam
@Success-7-g2q7 ай бұрын
Sb kholte h pr we nhii mnte.. Unka apna kuuda ka dimg h
@narsinghrokachhetri32303 жыл бұрын
Same in nepal
@manuchoudharyshorts1362 жыл бұрын
09.42 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Suffyyy__118 ай бұрын
Papa to mann jaya lekin rishtadar badhka dete h
@sahilkumar-g1f3oАй бұрын
didi thoda drama km kijiye
@brahamnarayansingh35683 жыл бұрын
Greatly explained ....maam dikkat yeh chal rhi hai ki mummy ko ladki bilkul pasand nhi aarhi aur pitaji ki baat to rehne hi do main khud Job kr rha hu lekin koi nhi sun rha mummy whi baar baar bolti rhengi ki ladki life barbad krdegi teri ...main Marr jaungi lekin teri shadi uss se hogi nahi chahe kuch krle chahe zindagi mein akele reh lekin uss se nahi usko janti bhi nahi hai bus ad gayi hai ki Marr ja lekin hogi nahi ab batao kya kre main to wait kr rha hu aap batao kya kru maine socha hai ki aise hi bhaith jaunga lekin kahi aur nahi krna hai aap koi short tip batao kya lagta hai manenge ki nahi .
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Manenge, kabi na kabi to gussa kam hoga, agey chalke khud jab apke liye rishte dhundhne lagenge tab unse yahi bat karna ap. Ki apko usi ladki se karni h. Tab dekho kaisa reaction ata h, abi to kafi gusse me chalre h aisa lag ra h, wait for them to cool down and reconsider things.
@brahamnarayansingh35683 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime thank u maam lekin maam kya batau aapko ki itne zada ade huae hai ki ek dum saaf bol diya hai ki uss se nahi hogi chahe puri zindagi akela reh humein koi matlb nahi hai . Ek baat puchu maam kabhi kabhi bhaut buri trah se anxiety hoti hai aur mann mein darr lagta hai ki agr end mein sath nhi huae to kya hoga main uske sath hi rehna chahta hu hamesha lekin in cheezo se itna kuch mann mein bhaith gaya hai ki bata nhi skta ghbrahat hone lagti hai bhaut zada
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
@@brahamnarayansingh3568 bilkul anxiety aur tensn mat lo, khair hum dono bi lete the tensn jab tak bat bani nai, par shadi sanyog ki cheez hoti h, agar apki kismat me hogi to zarur hogi, baki apni ore se effort karte rehna par ksii ko force mat karna.
@brahamnarayansingh35683 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime Sanyog kya hoga maam ... smjha smjha kar thak gaya hu lekin koi nhi sunta bus ab yhi tarika reh gaya hai ki जीवन bhar akele jiyu jb khud dekhenge ki nahi karega kahi aur to kuch to asar padega nah ki uss se bhi nahi padega maam? Mere kuch dosto ki bhi hui hai wo bhi kehte hai ki honi hogi to hojayegi kyuki unki to hogyi lekin ab main fasa pada hu kbtk kitna aur wait kru kuch nhi pata chalta
@joneyjoney97712 жыл бұрын
भाभी चालू लग रही हैं ।
@himanshisingh8143 жыл бұрын
di unko problem sirf unka ego hai bss that's rision sb kuch thik hota hai bss ego🤨 ko na chott pahuche 🙄
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Yes! iss ego ne hi duniya ka beda gark kar rakha hai.
@himanshisingh8143 жыл бұрын
@@literarysublime thanku didu for reply 🥳
@tanuzbhardwaj Жыл бұрын
Vo ni dhkte apne bache khushi vo dhkte h samaj or ristedarr bt toh ye hai.. smaj or ristedar dono he pit picha burai krte fr b parents unko bada drja dete ha like they are god
@NeetuSingh-nq6mo3 жыл бұрын
Overacting
@literarysublime3 жыл бұрын
Overacting is life❤️🔥
@abidhussain77223 жыл бұрын
Are bhai video banani hai banao na ajeeb ajeeb harkat q karti ho Puri duniya se alag ho kya lagta hai kitna samajh dar ban rahi hai
@MdNASARALAMALAM-f5m11 ай бұрын
Lannat ho eske maa baap aur bahi par jo esko khuleaam ghumne ki azadi derakhi ha Lannat ho eske jindagi me Bhagwalove terap haram rilesansip lannat ho tumhari zindagi me
@ashuagrawal75443 жыл бұрын
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@ashuagrawal75443 жыл бұрын
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