Love, Money and Relationships - Answering your Assumptions

[@aliabdaal]

00:00 Intro 01:08 Productivity 04:11 Body 05:12 Emotions 06:32 Stress 07:59 Friends 09:34 Personal 16:27 Being a doctor 17:15 Money 19:20 KZbin 20:21 Brother 21:09 Relationships 27:07 Romance

[@costacoffee4life665]

Hi man: can you do an update on the magic keyboard for iPad Pro please? Also good notes vs notability?

[@4amaguitar520]

Sir Can u plz add subtitles 🙏

[@costacoffee4life665]

@@BenoniChannel either you’re a scammer or you don’t know how the world works. If you’re not then you don’t need an iPad. No one does. So if you want one, find a job. Work hard. Make income on the side online and then buy one. Like I did. And Ali Abdaal did. I suspect you’re younger than 15 or you wouldn’t ask this.

[@ayub9616]

what is your religious beliefs? @Ali Abdaal

[@costacoffee4life665]

@@ayub9616 he is Muslim. Why doesn’t he talk about it? Because (if you listen to his podcast: Not Overthinking) he doesn’t want the politics that emerge. And he doesn’t want his channel to be about religion.

[@minpodcastdagbog]

"I DON'T HAVE A SECRET GIRLFRIEND!" Exactly what someone with a secret girlfriend would say!

[@AskArianne]

Shhh 😂

[@shantanubhow]

hahaha 😝

[@udokafintelmann6803]

Ali the kind of guy to schedule his breakup on Notion

[@prodigion1]

xd, like your vids btw

[@ArcherNewton]

He butchered your name lol

[@apkrish4175]

He got in the vid and a liked comment Let’s go chat

[@erikastellah]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@musicanieli12]

Ohh gosh i didnt expect this goshh 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Chakradharudu]

We all know that Notion is his girlfriend

[@Voduke789]

And Skillshare

[@lmf8182]

@@Voduke789 skillshare is his sugar daddy

[@red_dll]

Can't blame him. I love Notion aswell.

[@dasyad00]

Notion cheating on Thomas Frank?

[@tommysong851]

And Roam Research is that one mistress.

[@tusharsrivastava7921]

No one: Literally no one: Ali: procrastinates *productively*

[@crystaljc6721]

never knew procrastinate and productive could be in the same sentence ;-;

[@smilodon92]

That's an interesting oxymoron

[@shubhamrane0]

@@crystaljc6721 very good example for oxymoron.

[@shubhamrane0]

@@smilodon92 sorry your comment was John Cena for me.

[@benostein]

Crazy respect to Ali for being this open and transparent again, not many people would 👏🏼

[@petrichor259]

Yeah, unlike Mr. Mike

[@vampirethespiderbatgod9740]

@@petrichor259 Mike is a Hypocrite

[@willrobbins1454]

Ali the type of guy to cry in 3x speed to get it over with

[@iamsica]

I feel bad for laughing at this... 🤣

[@krispy777]

This is one of the funniest comments here.

[@willrobbins1454]

@@krispy777 thanks! I'm inclined to agree...

[@claryyy]

Underrated comment 😂

[@Part1617]

Lmao

[@ShivamJangra]

No one: Literally no one: Ali: "Email me if you want to date me"

[@arturkohut]

It seems like someone would get 100 emails with dickpicks soon

[@supreetkaur8210]

And that too with a subject line “marriage” ... how romantic 😍😍

[@freshasdaisies3350]

His team would schedule them a meeting

[@jamilaaali9127]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@re3mai]

I started laughing so hard when he said that 😂😂😂😂

[@ishitamann2100]

me: *skips to relationships*

[@nishita3084]

Didn't we all

[@fitnessabdul6811]

@@nishita3084 No.

[@blitzmlcom2939]

@@nishita3084 Nope, I didn't

[@supreetkaur8210]

I did as well !!

[@safiiiyyyaaa]

Haha yup 😆 so thankful there were timestamps 😂

[@sakshigulgulia1790]

“If you want to date me, send me an email” that’s how productive this guy can get and we love it

[@hishamflaneur5873]

And the email goes to potential wives folder in archives 🤣 revealed by his assistant

[@dark-void2174]

@@hishamflaneur5873 lol

[@farland789]

The best thing about not being a full time doctor is that Ali has the time to like every single comments including this one.

[@pequodexpress]

Or an assistant is paid to provide a majority of the responses.

[@AnasNuurAli]

Loooool the relationships/romance ones are too jokes

[@josetrevino1139]

Xd

[@031ayshamk8]

Anasssss

[@allkinds1069]

Ali last time: "i was trying to raise my sexual market value" Ali now: "I am sexual market value"

[@sandzakJEbosna]

This entire video was a set-up so Ali can get his future wife to slide into his e-mail inbox.

[@ashwithashetty5452]

Cudnt agree more😂

[@rozminhall]

I hope it wasn’t a joke cause I did mail him lol XD

[@IESWlodarczyk]

@@rozminhall hahha good luck girl

[@rozminhall]

@@IESWlodarczyk 🤣🤞🏼

[@IESWlodarczyk]

@@rozminhall have you had any success?

[@indiabliss]

I think you’re a thoroughly decent chap , innately kind, honest and likeable

[@shuvojyotirakshit5808]

Let's confess it , you have gone straight to the love and relationship time stamp 😎

[@auroprasaddas6335]

i love the fact that ali is brutally honest

[@DeanChillin279]

In 12 months Ali I've gone from not being aware of your channel, to your channel being my favourite. A refreshing honest and likeable chap! Keep up the excellent content!

[@runerasmussen590]

Ali: "Friendzoned? that has happened once.. me: "Ah not so bad" Ali: "twice.." me: "Uuh ouch" Ali: "three.." me: "bruh?!" Ali: "..Four times?" me: "BRUUUH.. give me a hug"

[@TheDentistryDiary]

The honesty that this guy offers 🤣🤣🤣 I love it... ‘I feel like I’m just selfish and tend not to think of others’ I’m the same so it’s nice to hear I think like a genius ✌🏼

[@DutifullyInnerCreation]

Ali: I do NOT have a secret girlfriend His secret girlfriend: 👁👄👁

[@smirk6154]

PLOT TWIST:YOU ARE HIS SECRET GF LMAO

[@Akta]

Imagine the interest people will take when you do have a girlfriend

[@St3v3NWL]

I think he is gay, which is okay regardless.

[@punitdevnoor4496]

@@St3v3NWL 😂

[@St3v3NWL]

@@punitdevnoor4496 It is pretty normal for people with an arabic/Middle Eastern background to be confused and closed about this subject. I don't mind but in his Canary vlog he was very closed about this subject.

[@bamin93]

@@St3v3NWL You’re so ignorant. Arabic is a language so no one can be Arabic. And he is not Middle Eastern, he’s Asian from Pakistan. Stop generalizing people.

[@St3v3NWL]

@@bamin93Honestly shut up. I didn't say he is an Arab, I said Arabic background, that is something entirely different. Also since Pakistan is not technically in the ME, they value the same cultural and religious values making my point still valid. You triggerd because I said he is gay, seems that the subject is also very sensitive to you too.

[@Mounimstuff]

I can only admire how honest you chose to be.

[@FinalPattern11]

Marriage email - mate, so much respect for that plug. Lad.

[@KasiFr]

Surprised this isnt titled "PRODUCTIVELY answering your assumptions".

[@rafaelmatsumoto]

Ali said something simple, but in fact deeply thought provoking: "Everything is more fun when you're doing it part time". Maybe that should be our main focus career-wise, you work productively, but on shorter periods.

[@arezcoolarez]

Ali should do a dating app profile video, I want to see his tinder lol

[@supreetkaur8210]

Me too !!

[@ravenclawsunshine7491]

Omggg I would love this video LOL

[@cristinacorrea7189]

"If I'm not doing something, it's not because I dont have the time: it's because I'm actively choosing not to make the time." A lesson for everything, not just relationships :) keep up the good work, Ali!

[@bhargabdeka167]

Really admire the tone and manner in which you answered the questions. Been following your work from a few months. Value adding content honestly ❤️

[@jothyjangid5566]

The way he explained IQ and related it with his relationship concerns...hit me hard cause he is FREAKING DOCTOR!

[@jaro-subscribeifyoulovebus3123]

Ali - Gets negative comment: "Cool" Me - Gets negative comment: "Better think about this for the rest of the day"

[@TheMiddleAgeWeeb]

For the rest of my life*

[@detailedemoji4615]

This is the power of stoicism my friend.

[@alwynjohn-thesimpleinvesto4730]

Ali your studying tips and advice have helped me a lot in school. With 6 AP classes, I am able to work full time, play two varsity sports, and pursue my own business endeavors. Great free content, keep it up my man!

[@avapond5682]

I don’t understand how this man is single.

[@joyandpeacefullaughter5307]

He's a nerd with standards.

[@avapond5682]

@@joyandpeacefullaughter5307 fair enough, I’m sure there’s someone of quality out there !

[@tromboner6061]

It's obvious though. Most intelligent people don't find someone good enough for them. N honestly it doesn't matter to them cuz they can live by themselves in modern society especially.

[@emtee3098]

I assume it’s by choice.

[@bbx7739]

I actually can't picture someone with him :)

[@joymae]

“You aren’t as productive as you seem” is probably what all the haters are thinking lol but HOW COULD HE BE?! Successful KZbinr, Skillshare Professor, and doctor. Idk anyone else that can balance all that and more.

[@weston5577]

Finally you made a video about you as a person you need to express yourself

[@daarkreed1508]

He gives me hope for my future, he proves that everything is possible, you know? I’m constantly stressing out about my future at an age where I shouldn’t be feeling that way, and you really help calm down my nerves. What you do inspires and helps me so much. ❤️

[@PokhrajRoy.]

‘Good in studies’ is the most Indian English term after ‘Pass Out’.

[@nigirizushi533]

True hahahaha

[@mahrukhchaudhry5385]

They way he timestamps everything 😂

[@abreshmi1]

It’s useful!

[@lisama2748]

As always 😂

[@anandvalsarajan9368]

Damn uselful

[@fariharahman494]

The most organised person I've ever seen tbh

[@ThreeTwentyTech]

Love seeing these videos that talk about you as a person and who you are away from the camera!

[@LilisNotes]

These videos make you more real - thank you for showing us a very real you, Ali! The love of your life will come at the most unexpected time! I met my fiancé when I was doing some research on dating apps because I was building a dating app as a startup idea with my friends.

[@user-qg4bm4oq3o]

wow even your procrastination is productive - goalsss

[@leo_polaris4720]

The fact that he organized the assumptions into categories, that's a lot of work too because of the bunch of questions.

[@joyandpeacefullaughter5307]

Same thing I was thinking of.

[@MC-ko2mx]

He has a team, that I assume helps him out with things like this.

[@MsGr8d]

I related so much to the personal part of this video. Especially the bit about people thinking you're judging them when the reality is that you're not thinking about them. It's nice to hear someone else say the same things.

[@radhupv5291]

I always come across Ali's videos when I'm procrastinating. And when i hear him talk about procrastination, I remember that I'm procrastinating and put away my phone. If i pass my exams, small credit goes to u Ali!!💜

[@abhishrutisingh5396]

Oh my god! He is the most quick witted person I have ever seen. He knows everything to answer so perfectly .

[@eloadventure4073]

Regarding this whole relationship dating thing, in my opinion the less you care and actively seek for someone the higher the chances of meeting the right person just when you expect it least :)

[@axhlo]

3:25 To be fair Ali, filming yourself being lazy is still kinda "productive" since it's being used for future content. Not surprising people come away with these assumptions. 😉

[@Catdogcatdog1212]

I LOVED that he said its not that he ‚hasn‘t time‘. I always say that as an excuse. Instead its true what he has said. Its not that i dont have time, its i ACTIVELY CHOOSE to not have time for this/or that. ... i will now avoid saying i dont have time. All about my own priorities

[@ainurabdrakhmanova3229]

Thanks for saying that first you get attracted to a person and then look into personality because this is the truth. Especially when you don’t know the person. And now I know that you have a brother and procrastinate productively, amazing.

[@askayem]

He's now answering all questions productively 😂😂... Also liked the fact that he's asking intrested girls to send their picture to his Email with the subject as "Marriage"😂🌟❤️

[@hanami741]

I'd seriously write Ali with this subject line if he was my type. Because jokes or not, it seems like a chance to get the guy actually.

[@kekeh.5696]

I died there🤣🤣

[@crazymango7068]

just want to tell you that you’ve changed my life thanks bro

[@ibocetinkaya_]

This should be titled 'My productive talk about love, money and relationships'

[@eesaali9076]

‘Spending an hour’ I can easily sit there for 3 hours before realising; it may be time to get up and do something now

[@w00g]

Can you imagine Ali speaking at this speed on a date? Good luck, man.

[@vicki-lynnemccabe]

I love your honesty! Some of those assumptions I would have never of thought. I don't think your snoby or just trying to get rich. I get so much out of your videos and how well you multitask. It's inspirational. Keep them coming.

[@notactuallyfine]

⬇️ here’s your “wasteman” counter

[@lexi6797]

Your honesty is refreshing. I have to say that I wouldn't have answered some of these assumptions because some of these ppl are rude and seem to be projecting their own insecurities onto you.

[@BooklerNatsu]

Loved the relationships and romance part, I can relate to your thoughts a lot hahaha

[@liahatz]

Why you apologising for a self indulgent video we are here for it

[@mikegarcia7539]

feel some questions were harsh on him but he handled it well

[@mindiyasara]

You have a purpose. I watch your videos because it helps me. So life coaching and sharing with others to better themselves ❤

[@chloeborjgin1374]

That's very clever of you to put the relationship & romance in the last part of the video. Most people stayed just for that

[@ZarishAftab]

when he said, "I look for the fact that I'm attracted to a girl or not then judge their personality" BOY I REALLY FELT THAT AND I FELT SO WRONG FOR THINKING DAT WAY

[@hanami741]

yeah, people who claim that looks don't matter....idk, they probably lie or are in some total minority. Not everybody wants a glossy magazine type of beauty, but being physically attracted to someone is a must, then being attracted to the personality is a must. Idk how else you're supposed to have good sex with someone?

[@samiraansari5686]

@@hanami741 So I know that this is not how it works for everyone, but I personally do not get physically attracted to people unless I know them and know their personality? Like, some people are obviously conventionally beautiful, but I don‘t necessarily find them physically attractive. Kind of like Greek statues- they’re beautiful, but I don’t wanna bang them. And with strangers, it doesn‘t really matter what they look like to me, if I don‘t know them, I won‘t find them physically attractive either. However, when I do get to know someone and like their personality, I will also start to see them differently, notice things about their looks that I didn‘t notice before etc. and then the physical attraction will come on. Until then my lady parts are just equally indifferent to anyone 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@sanaa8367]

@@samiraansari5686 You are a women right , I feel same but man are different

[@ReynaSingh]

For a video that wasn’t meant to helpful, there sure was a lot of talk about productivity. Keep it up Ali!

[@imdee9024]

Excited for him to meet someone. He has his life together, he's funny and he sounds super honest. Can you imagine the intelligent conversation between them.

[@cryptoflippodcast]

Why are people so obsessed with your love life 😂❤️

[@hanyaobject9598]

Lmao😂 but me too, I am wondering. And Idk why.

[@hera5454]

I actually find him so sweet ? LIKE I MIGHT BE contemplating whether emailing him or not

[@ivx8126]

Hey this video wasn't useless. The stuff you said about managing negative emotions at the start was really helpful!

[@alwynjohn-thesimpleinvesto4730]

Make sure to destroy the like button, Ali is so helpful and genuine!!

[@kaiabraham4603]

"I don't think I secretly enjoy it, I just enjoy it" - "So I do secretly enjoy procrastinating"

[@harsheensahni3927]

So a perfect girl for Ali would be :- 1. Attractive 2. Pakistani 3. A doctor 4. Correlated IQ 5. Into Productivity Huh. If you’re out there, COME SOON. ✨praying✨

[@mohamadjaber6931]

When Ali used to have 200k, i was the only one this early, look now!

[@Lilydee]

I want a friend like Ali for Christmas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! productive, smart, a good influence and always something to learn from :)

[@electeng6481]

I love how he point out from the begining YOU CAN FIND SOMETHING BETTER TO DO ..! that's the point people. Stop making assumptions about others because you know your self better

[@-rj-1718]

I dont think these relationship assumptions are necessarily a bad thing, it just shows how much people look up to Ali, cause he’s set such high standards, people cannot understand how he lives such an insanely productive lifestyle and still has time for all of these things... Keep up the good work!!

[@JagOnline]

Just commenting to add engagement to Ali’s channel (for the KZbin algorithm)

[@charmw8313]

The way how I made myself comfy when you said” this video is not made for those who want to learn” loved hearing your background

[@nidaa5819]

The response to the emotional part made me think. I think before developing a productivity mindset, analyzing everything, or finding a solution. I was more in tune with people’s emotions and I was a great listener. Now I have found many of my close friends complain that I have lost that part in me to just listen and sympathize with their emotions. Something, I have to unlearn.

[@alwynjohn-thesimpleinvesto4730]

Love your videos Ali, keep it up!!

[@pranavgurung4345]

can’t wait to finish this video! thanks ali!

[@historiapinkman7012]

Omg you're so funny without even trying to be. Found myself cracking up throughout this video

[@SushiandBento]

I love how literally all of Ali's subscribers just love to tease him 😂😂

[@stepbro.2140]

10:46 I feel what he's saying on a different level, I get people saying I'm judgmental and I don't even understand why because I really am very very unjudgmental, I don't really care abt what someone else is doing, like honestly! Just to let you know bro, I understand and relate to what you were talking about! Loads of love!

[@sirena9167]

If you truly want to know what stress feels like, get in a bad relationship you’ll find out very quickly. That’s the only thing that makes me truly stressed, and it sometimes pours over into other aspects of life. I believe that’s what may cause most people’s stress.

[@justteresiah]

This was really entertaining. And helping me to be productive 😂😂

[@faizasheikh4403]

I love how Incredibly transparent you are which I why I share allll your KZbin videos the min you upload them 😀

[@nicitakhattar3279]

Sometimes I start looking at Ali’s hands and then the whole video ends without me even realising it. He could really be a hand model, he has pretty hands!

[@mauve9266]

Mans got nice hands

[@syedsaadqainhaider2456]

All his videos have this affect:they make u wanna study more With that I will now head off to study Thanks ali

[@TheShapingSickness]

Wow, it's crazy how many people assume you're not emotional, so much of what you say speak volumes to me as an introvert. We do have emotions, we just don't leave them in the open, we value them.

[@ByronWrightJr]

Definitely love the format of your videos. Learning a lot from it.

[@foxxmore3641]

Me: skipping to relationships and romance. Not thinking about skipping to money

[@RossyDourado]

Gotta give it to you Ali... You've been a huge Inspiration.. And tis December I have finally Started my Channel.. Thank you so muchhhh for igniting tis fire in me.

[@sammoalla9698]

Your the reason I keep motivated every day. Wishing you well

[@lyalin7094]

his life sounds literally perfect

[@shwetha107]

Ah..at this point, Ali is immensely enjoying the attention and love that he gets from youtube.That's it.

[@lakshmi8906]

I really like how honest he is here

[@omaresmat.a]

Ali, I think you are just awesome, very powerful man in Productivity, You are really look like an idol and a role-model for all kids and teenagers or maybe for old people, I really wish to meet you one day Despite the distances and miles between us, I really wish to be like you, you are the best person I knew in 2020 🌟

[@siyasingh9562]

He is so straight with his answers I love it

[@fayrouz13]

Some of the comments are really funny 😎..you are a simple smart guy who likes to share what he is good at with the world. Thanks to KZbin for bringing out .