What Men REALLY Want in a Woman: 4 Traits NOBODY Talks About

In today’s podcast, we're going beyond the usual clichés and explore four key traits that men genuinely desire but are often overlooked. These traits aren't just about attracting men; they are qualities that anyone can cultivate for their own personal growth and happiness.
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[@viewyview]

1:27 Introduction 3:01 Authenticity, be yourself 11:19 Intellectual Humility 20:05 Emotional Safety 26:47 Authentically Vulnerable Emotionally - emotional availability

[@cbebop5]

Thank you friend 🙌🏾

[@marciamellow1211]

It is all basic.. Be who you are ..period Married 40 years. We just wanted to be in a real place with each other..I was there for him,and he for me..comfort. Until death do us part. Love ❤

[@Kpleaides]

This is how it's meant to be..... however men these days are just all about them...... severe selfishness

[@MJFinn-d7d]

My man of 50 years often sheds tears with me. I love him for that. His emotional side is endearing, and he's the strongest, most passionate, dedicated man I've ever found in life.

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.*

[@adilewis802]

I went on two dates with this guy , I was vulnerable and he did not open up whatsoever.. I really liked him and was trying to get to know him but trying to pull things out of somebody is exhausting. Good luck out there ladies .

[@CdnEnjoyLife]

Same. Good luck sister ;)

[@222littlecat]

Same experience. So hard to have to drive the conversation all the time and feel that he is not curious about anything.

[@bnb0510]

Dating today is so hard. Can’t trust anyone and people are always looking for something better.I honestly feel like social media, dating apps, texting, etc has just ruined society and how we interact.

[@az0963818]

Don't focus so much on getting a guy that you're seeing to be vulnerable so early on. Most men don't walk around with their hearts on their sleeves like that. Instead, try getting them to feel COMFORTABLE with you. Once he is comfortable, sooner than eventually, he will start to open up to you, emotionally.

[@az0963818]

@@222littlecat Don't focus so much on getting a guy that you're seeing to be vulnerable so early on. Most men don't walk around with their hearts on their sleeves like that. Instead, try getting them to feel COMFORTABLE with you. Once he is comfortable, sooner than eventually, he will start to open up to you, emotionally.

[@Lovejoypeace69]

I follow you and I’m married. I love your videos. I still implement many of the things that you talk about to keep things fresh because we do forget! I’m 34 years in and keeping it fresh is so important.

[@chime-girl]

It was interesting to listen to this whole conversation from a males perspective. Something that is not covered for Men & Women are our hormonal changes for both genders after 50. Speaking as a 56 year old woman, I'm not as emotional as I use to be with less estrogen, I don't always have the patience for emotions and just want to get to the solution. Men are softer emotionally as they mature, it's scientifically written about especially as their sex drive changes. It's a reminder for something to be aware of knowing that there has been a biological shift within me and to make an effort in supporting my potential love mate emotionally as well.

[@vivianvargas2097]

Thank you for your insight. This is good to know.

[@aphong167]

Yes, it's true that men nowadays are more feminist to take risks and women are more leaning to masculine side. Not sure if that's nature's evolution or we are just in a wrong way.

[@perlitalaguna6622]

@Chime girl Oh wow. Didn't know this. Will definitely keep this in mind.

[@jewelvercoerainbow8225]

I'm also less emotional in my 60s than in my youth and wouldn't want to vomit emotional stress onto my male romantic interest in order to connect with them emotionally and spiritually. Surely there's more to building a deep quality relationship than sharing emotions. How about appreciating and respecting each other for who we are and being inspired by the other? At this life stage I find that more attractive than being a super hot hyper emotionally needy nympho bimbo.

[@Lovejoypeace69]

Give what you want to get. That’s a powerful statement. Love it.

[@Em-qc2dm]

Ooo. This ends on a dangerous note around the 27:00 mark. Women tend to say things like that because they grew up being goaded by men for feminine behavior/reactions/emotions. They're told, "What are you going to do now, cry?" or "Oh, she must be on her period," or "Be careful now, we wouldn't want you to break a nail". Their fathers and brothers teach them to work on cars and how to beat up an attacker. Their male friends during their teen years give them praise when they get tough and tell a young man off or show strength against him during competition. So yeah, if fathers and brothers treat their girls this way, then those ladies will have the reaction towards men for not behaving like strong men when they themselves were encouraged to take on those qualities by men during their life. It really is a pointless circular argument because then men can strike back on how they were taught to be more gentle and nurturing. Then they become "lazy/inactive" as a reaction, which adds more fuel to the fire for women to spark off about. A lot of women feel they do more than men, but most men get to enjoy the financial advantages and play time. Then the men turn it on the women again when they don't physically put out because they're too tired or don't have that kind of connection with the man any longer... seeing him as a child to be taken care of rather than a partner who loves them, protector, or provider. A man who truly cares for a woman would be a protector and provider as well, not just a lump on the couch waiting to be served and cleaned up after/entertained. If that's how they are seen, then it is also difficult to respect them because then she'd be respecting someone who seemingly does little of anything while she does 5 things at once and on 4 hours or less of sleep (while he complains how tired he is after drinking with his buddies the night before and now has to go to work). Also, women get tired of men pushing them aside saying, "I got it" or "I'm fine" when they're not fine. There comes a time where the feminine energy has enough and says herself, "ok you're fine. I'm going to ignore you now and go about life as if you need nothing" because really why would she take on another unnecessary task on top of all the other ones she has to do already? The feminine energy will shut down and treat the masculine just as any ol' joe on the street might just because he is not open to nurturing when it is offered. The cycle continues. They both spiral into opposite corners in anger and rejection, filled with dissatisfaction and gradually develop contempt for one another. This is probably why the bible instructs women to submit unto their husbands, because that's what it's going to take to stop the cycle. And my opinion is that takes greater strength. However, I don't recall the bible saying you have to submit to a boyfriend or dating prospect, so until she becomes married to that man, it is what it is. The whole thing is dumb. If you want to be independent, then be independent. There will be emotional wounds single or together anyway. Maybe it's a matter of how much you can stomach.

[@Sherry-rq1jx]

This is so true happens so often,sad

[@TeaLaRee]

Women have a hard time respecting men who come home and do nothing even if they're the provider because they don't show up as a man to her but just another person she picks up after and it's just not hot. I'm sorry but it isn't . When you're tired and especially when you put effort into making you look good, kids are good and the house but you can't offer a compliment or flirting....You're gonna get nothing from a woman if you act entitled like the kids do with their snacks. It's a HUGE turnoff.

[@Himmiefan]

First, this is a bit too long to read. Also, submit doesn't mean obey at all. It's submit to one another (equality), wives to husbands (receiving and supporting), and husbands "lead" through acts of service just like Christ did for the church. There's no hierarchy or who gets the last word, etc.

[@SamanthaJames-d4j]

@@TeaLaReeFACTS

[@dianethompson6804]

I think a man wants peace! A place where he can come home to and know he won't be judged, he doesn't have to compete, and whatever happens, you've got his back!

[@stars-are-us]

sounds exhausting. So women are servants. What if she works full time? So many things need to get done at home. I say hire housekeeping, hire a personal chef, personal assistant, and go to the spa daily. Don't have children. I feel it has to be a team effort in relationships. Why get burned out or watch someone you " love " get burned out not honoring boundaries.

[@dianethompson6804]

@@stars-are-us I didn't say she had to be chief cook and bottle washer! I also said that is what a man wants. I didn't say I was willing to give that! Lol!

[@zenfan1098]

I say in the Dog House then 😅

[@Himmiefan]

@@stars-are-us He didn't say anything about chores or not doing chores! Did you post this under the wrong comment? He's only talking about something each partner needs from the other partner.

[@Mathperez-d6v]

I think you are right! After a hard day’s work , all men want is to come home sweet home with good food, relaxing mood & ambience at home & comforting hand & heart from a partner & bonding fun with kids. So simple, nothing extreme & extravagant. While women wants strong leadership, intelligence, honesty, assurance , sensitivity, provision & safety for the family. Those are expectations for each roles designed by God for men & women.

[@McCoysOakHillFarm]

This all goes both ways not just women, but men also. I have experienced this with men. I spend time working on myself also due to wounds from childhood and in adulthood.

[@elizabethf8078]

What I can't jive with is someone who 1) demonizes people on the other side of the political fence..asserting that the other side is populated by idiots, insane people, yada yada yada.. or 2) a guy who is triggered by his ex and calls her a psycho, blaming the relationship on her. He picked her for a reason, so he needs to look at himself and why he chose her and address that --take responsibility. 3) Cringy sexuality. A guy who has obviously been with hundreds of women, and is constantly in seduction mode. Any of those is a HUGE, full stop red flag. I don't want people like that taking my time.

[@Angrymobs62]

I cannot talk to certain people of a certain political persuasion. One side is anti human.

[@EverythingLvl]

Both sides are anti woman, one side doesn't mind calling men beating women's face sport and the other wants us as incubators. Politics is garbage on both ends

[@aishahwilliamsmobley]

When I was a baby I was a cry baby and was constantly told to shut up or be quiet 🤫 now as an adult I stay quiet and shutdown during conflict.

[@analia1480]

I think this channel should have millions of likes. I'm from Argentina and I search information in other languages because there's always something else that other KZbinrs don't have. I appreciate you guys for sharing these valuable knowledge.

[@Hss-q3h]

Been following you guys and would absolutely love to hear a conversation between your two wives 😊

[@mariagratiaplena2000]

🥰

[@MandyB-jx4zm]

I had 2 experiences recently where I opened to a man then I felt rejected. I have huge emotional capacity to hold space for another. When I share my emotion openly it feels very vulnerable and exposing, especially if they don't respond with compassion or deep listening.

[@CdnEnjoyLife]

Question for you guys: I genuinely have these qualities. Why do guys jump at the 'red flag' women instead of me then? Where do I find guys with these qualities as well? Help a Canadian girl out please ;)

[@PRIYA-ic4yd]

Canadian girl here to who needs help please. ☺️🇨🇦

[@lapslazulytopazio711]

Canadian guys are into foreign woman as far as i know. They are always complaining about Canadian women behavior, cold, lack of higiene and too rude.😮

[@blunttalkingoffspring]

I liked this podcast or video ..I have the shell at first ..Men really like compliments..I think that I need to work on some things in relationships ..thank you for pointing things out to us in an emotionally tactful way..I appreciate your video.

[@lindac2554]

Very interesting And i love how you explained the points for better understanding Who is your lovely guest? Gary.......?

[@XMFH666]

My boyfriend & I are introverts. He plays video games in his free time while I'm watching TV in mine. We couldn't be happier. We hate going places

[@mining4goldmeister420]

I think, being female, and seeing the truth of what men want - I can also see that the same applies to what women want - a person comfortable in their own skin. They are self assured enough that they can allow someone into their space with open arms. They are emotionally mature enough to take responsibility for their actions and choices and can manage their emotions in a way that doesn't have the other person always walking on eggshells. They don't have to play games to get their needs met. Their smile lights up a room because their full of love heart shines thru. They are at peace with themselves and give off that aura of peaceful contentment. They allow space for anothers needs and boundaries, making room for growth and finding compromise within that space. They show gratitude for having someone in their life and express it often. That authentic, real self is always there. That real authentic person provides the safety we all crave, a place were we can be vulnerable, and know that person will protect that part of us with their life and not use it against us.

[@angelakeegan2237]

Couldn’t love & agree with your explanation more!!

[@jewelvercoerainbow8225]

Well said 💯

[@zensvlognotapro]

Relationship is partnership. A partner can be a good listener and willing to create solutions than become a problem . A partner is the one that you can tell anything without judgement willing to work out the relationship to thrive. Talk the problems instead of ignoring it.

[@melissameza4032]

They want 1. Pretty face. 2. Skinny body. 3. Do the same activities they like.

[@mtngrl5859]

Sounds like you haven't met many high quality men.

[@analia1480]

​@@mtngrl5859sounds like she met 90% of men. The rest is here giving this information

[@vkdeen7570]

who told u this? lol u think if the man likes football or going to play golf he wants a woman who likes the same? hell no. men want u to have your own activities so he can have some peace away and a space with the boys. he doesn't need u all up in all aspects of his life. take some interest sure but if don't try to become him... 1. pretty face - sure. men are attuned visually way more than women 2. skinny body, not necessarily. in shape or athletic works as well. curvy (not fat) for most guys will do as well. guys actually have a wide range of attraction and hence rate 60% or more of women as attractive. whole women rate o only 5-15% of men as attractive

[@roosteroriginal6458]

Skinny!? 😂 no, who really wants to bang a bag-a-bones. Thick is the happy medium and fit is the best. Skinny is just as lazy as fat.

[@jekalambert9412]

And, if you meet all of the above, then he MIGHT start thinking in terms of the topics discussed in this video, but most men I've met prioritize the 3 attributes listed above and never consider the deeper topics when considering dating profiles or women they get to know via other routes. If you don't match on those 3 criteria, you are simply passed by even if you actually are the kind of person who has the skills to be a great partner.

[@tianiemitchell5692]

I'm an old fashioned woman but when it comes to being with a man that I care about I find it very attractive when a man can be honest a real man can be honest if a man was honest with me I would keep his confidentiality I wouldn't be talking about him behind his back to my friends I think women, wives who do that breach that special confidence they should each have for each other

[@jillwalker6076]

I as a woman does share feelings, want him to share his.

[@jocposy]

What language is this post in?😢

[@Himmiefan]

I get that the male ego is very fragile, but far too often, women are asked to accommodate the man's ego way too much. At some point, the fragile ego man needs to grow up. Ultimately, both genders need to be polite, and there's a way to state a different opinion while still respecting the other person's.

[@westcoastsands]

Thank you for these valuable tips, gentlemen.

[@rvakitty5641]

All this might be well and good once in a relationship. Before you even get there weight and outward beauty are the most important things to men. They will pass by a terrific female to go after the skinny pretty ones. Be real people.

[@hattyflame3889]

Very real conversation !! Thank you, great advice 💛

[@gbaca07]

I've been single almost 8 years. It's hard to meet anyone in New Mexico. Selection is limited

[@lela888]

Get out of there, move.

[@MandyB-jx4zm]

I Love this, both of you. Thank you very much both of you for sharing your perspectives.

[@tianiemitchell5692]

I agree we have to be real with each other that's what closeness and Communications all about during the good times and the bad times mentally physically whatever monetarily

[@vinitachandraart]

Love it, great video ❤️

[@thewayofthewell4547]

This has been very helpful and gives me insight into why relationships flop and others survive. This has been the most helpful of what other discussions and presentations I've heard. Like the icing on the cake! It all makes sense and completes the picture. Thank you guys!

[@jacquelinenoel2992]

Great talk, men! Thank you. 🌹

[@alaalfa8839]

What if it's not toxic positivity, but turning on or activating a parasympathetic nervous system and sometimes it's activated also by smile or positive approach, so the body will not downregulate the genes, downregulate the immune system by and increasing the stress hormones that create diseases. Create peace inside body chemistry neurology and epigenetics But to some people, it may just appear to be toxic positive. Be positive but not overreacting positively. Even some very positive smilling people use in serious situations a silent humble voice. maybe a good tool to activate the parasympathetic system is doing sports, going for a walk, and stopping analyzing the problems too much at work or in relationships. Some said the great idea that often some problems are solved by themselves... the more we try to solve them the less it's solved. Some problems need action but some dont, some just need a peaceful approach.

[@karenlubeck3294]

As Women aren't all the the same, Men aren't all the same. I have heard youtube videos about what Men are looking for but at this time in my life , my conclusion is there really isn't a secret other than making him a priority in your life if you both care and through action encourage and emotional support your partner. Do thoughtful things and be willing to listen when your partner need to discuss their day or work through a challenge with each other. If a couple can do that plus be attracted to one another, you have real potential.

[@SarahJacksonLV]

08:15 BARS right here! "REAL relationships have REAL problems, right?...But then those problems also have REAL solutions-which are REAL opportunities for your relationship to GROW."❤🎉

[@alaalfa8839]

Men are not just about masculinity. They have billions of cells in the body and the only thing these cells need is good energy, vitamin D, and other important vitamins minerals, and chemicals. Often thoughts and emotions affect the cells as well. Some say that every cell in your body feels like there is lack of a vitamin D. These communities of billions of cells dont think every day "How I would make myself more masculine" they they just need the chemical balance and good epigenetics etc. Often thoughts and emotions affect the cells as well. So men may think more about what their body needs than what their mind and ego need. The same is about women. Sport and good mood is a good tool to maintain the balance of body and immunity. A positive mood increases the immunity. So if a man is listening to soft music or reading poetry it may positively affect the body. But it doesn't affect their masculinity.....otherwise, if it would affect their masculinity they would not seek the feminine energy of women and mothers and aunts and neighbors.

[@TianieMitchell]

Yes we're always supposed to be as positive as possible but when we have a situation where there's contention we have to love each other enough to be respectful and decent and share our feelings and listen to each other out of respect and decency

[@Jennifer-gr7hn]

Actually it was Socrates who said "I am wise for I know that I know not." We will better relationships, when we have better singles, which comes from growth, HUMILITY and working on addictions, traumas, etc. Too much "smart" too little wise. Yes, humility. All about humility. Narcissists (or "those with those tendencies or streaks) don't choose this.

[@seizuregirlllll]

I haven’t made it all the way through yet but you just got on the thing about smart people. There’s a huge difference between IQ smart and streetsmart. For instance, there was this woman who had an IQ of 140 I believe it was and she thought it would be smart to sneak into her ex-boyfriend’s chimney. Well, she ended up dying because she kind of got stuck and basically couldn’t breathe. Just because someone has a high IQ doesn’t mean that they’re smart in all aspects of life. I come from a more streetsmart background, so I definitely wouldn’t be going down someone’s chimney. And honestly, I don’t think I could see myself with a guy that is high IQ super smart dude.

[@mtngrl5859]

The problem with her was not just the chimney, but choosing to be obsessed with an ex.

[@lori6156]

How likely is it to find a real transparent guy in his 60s being self reflective and is capable of true emotional maturity?

[@a.d.b535]

My bf is to toxically positive --- unwilling to address problems / just sweep them under the rug like all's well.

[@Kpleaides]

That's kills a relationship

[@shellyparks1088]

So This information is really helpful. I love the ideas on being more realistic. I have this guy friend that I totally fell for because he is so real and so good to me. I remember wanting more but when i got the courage to tell him how i felt, he told me that we had talked about this before and that we couldn't have a romantic relationship because it's something happened he never talks again to the women he was in that type of relationship with and he didn't want that. Plus, after I discovered that he's talking to a woman over seas i don't think I even have a chance for anything more than a friend because this woman continues to call him. He never answers her calls when we are spending time together and he never really talks about her. How do i know what to do in this situation and how to i know if he's interested in the possibility of "us"? Am i doing something wrong by spending time with him if he's really interested in this other girl?

[@judyandrews9566]

Yes. Quit wasting your time with him. Start dating other men. Check out joining Love Strategies, I did and have learned so much about relationships and myself. 😊

[@veronicacurry3877]

16:40 we are always having different views and he never takes mine seriously he always says it's bullshit 🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe it is? 😂

[@sharlafenwick4056]

Shouldn't it be more about what you give in a relationship than what you want? And why would anybody feel that they MUST earn somebody"s love? Love is more than constant manipulation to earn love in return .

[@angelabak3122]

I like you guys,keep on your good work,the right messages for us,women

[@pattylyons9645]

I often wonder why men stay with women who constantly say things to emasculate them. It's not just rude and insulting, it shows how deeply flawed her character is. That's not someone he should be with.

[@adrianafernandez3935]

I'm happy most of the time! I try to work things out.......I'm older now .got my act together. I Pull men anywhere I go. It is confusing to do this at my age. Younger men keep coming back Some successful ones too. Somewhat confusing. We will see..... I'm on my 7th month with this beautiful one. I keep wondering ...when is he going to be bored??.

[@cathyandresiak]

Getting some guys to open up is a challenge!

[@marthaestrada4037]

You’re a special guy the guy I’m. Interested in I’d not authentically vulnerable with

[@TianieMitchell]

Yes I agree as far as this toxic positivity is thinking that and hoping that he's going to change is not good you talk to him you tell him how he's making you feel and how it makes you feel sad and unhappy and if he doesn't change his behavior then you need to say arrivederci

[@deadpoolstrikesagain3914]

Just know someone , her guy never helped made excuses he's busy..did not praise her or with time became distant to a point they hardly spoke..and everytime she tried figuring out how to approach him..he d complain she nags. Very sad to see it kill her emotionally over time. So my friend explain a tad bit more.

[@MyFungal]

I feel men want someone who's there for them even when he screws up and women be genuine

[@Truckenbaby]

My man gets extremely Upset when I share my feelings.

[@JayashreeSreedharan]

Life isn't a bed if roses we have to plant our own garden 🎉🎉

[@zirgas77]

But what means this situacion? : When man says "I love you much" for the 1 woman and in the same time for other woman say or writes messages " I miss you and you always in my heart and in my mind". I know it is sounds not normal this situacion,but what it can mean? Who he really loves and planing future with her and why he miss other woman? Situacion: woman which he loves ( how he says) ,this woman absolut doesnt know that this man has woman which he miss. And woman which he miss,she knows that he has woman which he loves. So which woman really is in this man heart? Can somebody answer to this question corectly? Because here desperate need good corect answer. Thanks❤

[@jewelvercoerainbow8225]

From what you're saying it sounds like the man might be a narcissist - almost certainly is a narcissist. This is typical narcissistic behaviour: sending ❤ to more than one woman to see how many ❤❤❤❤❤ he can collect to make him feel loveable because he's trying to heal a childhood wound. But don't feel sorry for a narcissist: they use and discard people. For them, it's all about numbers, boredom and turnover. Loving one woman deeply and exclusively is beyond their capabilities. Don't take it personally. You know you deserve better. Your love won't change or heal them. Loving them is a waste of emotion.

[@KatelynB1001]

“Toxic Positivity” is my new favorite phrase.

[@isabellepersic4396]

what about a fairly "normal" woman who is with a man with BPD? that's a whole different ball game

[@alaalfa8839]

What if it's not toxic positivity, but turning on or activating a parasympathetic nervous system so the body will not downregulate the genes, downregulate the immune system by and increasing the stress hormones that create diseases. Create the peace inside body chemistry aneurology and epigenetics But to some people, it may just appear to be toxic positive. maybe a good tool to activate parasympathetic system is doing sports, going for a walk and stop analyzing the problems. Some said great idea that often some problems solve by themselves... the more we try to solve them the less its solved.

[@cupcinka]

Best way 👍🕊️

[@JobjobJob-f6e]

It lingers!!!!! It lingers!!!!!😂😂😂

[@shelia3711]

It was real in the 1950's because men had a responsibility to work and provide for his family. The woman stayed home and took of the home with the kids

[@EverythingLvl]

And he cheated and left her and she had no recourse. Get your head out of the clouds lol men haven't changed

[@lenovoovonel3771]

Adam, if the woman is having sex with him, she is already exhibiting vulnerability. Therefore, telling him more of how she feels about liking him, without him taking the lead makes the vulnerability too risky.

[@Sharon-hi3xz]

You guys are funny!

[@poisonivy1985]

I love listening to you guys!

[@dmrd222]

Men *definitely* need to have more intellectual humility and be more emotionally available *and* emotionally vulnerable. Communication will break down if they don't open up.

[@maryp4579]

Lol - had to laugh about 'podcast whatever we're on, the one where Adam blames his mother.'

[@Mariamarcelino31]

Love this video

[@amandaboado7057]

It’s hard to be vulnerable with your partner when you’ve had to hide your tears because he thinks you’re manipulating him. Men hate it when women cry. I was taught to be a hard arse in order to not be manipulative. Do they really care? Or is it too much for them? I don’t fall for Mr nice guy anymore, as long as they can say what they want and do what they want we’re all good, right? Don’t make them accountable for anything, not even for being vulnerable. Did it ever occur to the average male that a fragile male ego is difficult for anyone to deal with? You’ve got to be a magician to master it especially when your ego gets dumped on all the time too, but hay why would that matter to a male?

[@RenaHall-w7w]

Trust .

[@Himmiefan]

In regards to know-it-alls (a huge turnoff!), I think most women have encountered a man who is extremely confident in his opinion or whatever he's talking about, yet is 100% wrong. Wrong, wrong. We just laugh to ourselves and move on. And yes, women can be know-it-alls too, absolutely.

[@roosteroriginal6458]

"Toxic positive outlook" is the most toxic phrase I've ever heard. 😢

[@jeannetteurena1223]

I was happy homemaker, Stay At Home Wife and Mother in d 2000s, @ least most of the time & did worked p/t sometimes He wasn't, didn't like the idea,too much. That's why after 10 years, I left, with the kids. I'm glad. Only it should have been earlier. 👍

[@tahiyamarome]

true enough but they also want to have these 4 things in a pretty package. Men are in competition with other men. All the time. Every day. Everything in their lives is partly evaluated by how other men will see it. Not every minute. Not to the exclusion of everything else. But they will feel like they are losing out if they compare their lives from the inside to the lives they see their friends exhibiting on the outside.

[@ziziiris]

I’m just wondering why dating becomes so complicated these days

[@vkdeen7570]

social media and feminism

[@leannebrown954]

You need to give an example

[@zenfan1098]

My experience is most guys just want a lot of sex and sexual favors, or resort to drugs and alcohol, unfortunately thats what i always ended up with 😢 hopefully God will send me a God sent, wish me well, I'm going through it bad 😐

[@Nene_uk]

Toxic positivity looks like being plastic

[@emilytaylor1001]

❤❤❤

[@kristinej.4182]

I think this video could have been more concise… the four things mentioned could have been rolled into one concept. It was too general and philosophical for real applications bc we all are unique in our personalities. I really prefer how Orion Taraban at Psychacks explain things so much better!

[@susanlynn1213]

suggest you improve background in the house

[@notbyinit3756]

Elevator story : circa 1700's affluent families had what was called a "dumb waiter"😅 meaning silent servant . What a way to emasculate a man using his common sense.🙄 I would have said, "Work smarter, not harder. Is there more room in there ?"

[@valindabalcarzar8305]

😊

[@eb5631]

Started strong & fell off 😴

[@glori-zh1jc]

Just an unsolicited thought here, I don't think this format is good for your channel. Too much talk. You know, of all the "dating advice" channels on KZbin, I watch yours 95% of the time because of its conciseness. Even way back Sexy Confidence time. Don't change it. Too much talk out there that people just wants to get to the substance in so short a time as possible. Less is more works best on KZbin. Just saying.

[@o.aldenproductions.9858]

You guys are astronomically far behind Jimmy 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bethshotwell8991]

Whose Jimmy?

[@SusiGlover-yg5pm]

It just ain’t worth it for me!!!!!

[@wilshirehome]

Safe zone is the key!

[@panda59043]

see a same-sex therapist for the initial statement.

[@Bronte866]

Yawn.

[@JOEYDEEZ369]

This here is just so riveting…. Why it’s a bit like watching paint dry… but somehow a lot less fun hahahah…. Only kidding guys…. Or am I ? Probably… yes… perhaps… no… maybe… could be… might be… I dunno… hmmmmm No !! Thanks nonetheless to both you ‘Love Strategies’ geysers… Bye for now;)

[@X.X407]

Leave your mamas alone hahaha ❤

[@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894]

Good domestic skills friendly and feminine virginity

[@jbsnm1]

Too much talk, i agree, get to the point

[@JoanGrowden]

Come on you guys, you both talk too much and don't get straight to the point...What Does A.Man Want In A Women..? Only takes afew minutes to let us women know what men want..be real 😮 😮😮😮

[@genieyess1720]

Bad advice you guys are giving. I am being real!

[@Tess-k4o]

Get to it already blah blah blah

[@Ashleigh-xd8qr]

And who really cares?

[@celia9947]

Rubbish.