Loving a Straight Guy: How to Move On & Heal?- EP4 Not A Therapy Session with Yogi & Kabeer

In this episode of Not A Therapy Session, we’re diving into a topic that a lot of us have dealt with-falling for a straight guy. Whether it’s confusing signals, navigating your feelings, or figuring out how to move on, we’re here to help you through it with some real talk and humor. From throwback tunes to heartfelt advice, we’re here to help you navigate love, friendship, and self-acceptance. 🌈💬
We kick off with Rohit’s love problem. He’s fallen for a junior at work and can’t tell if the guy is sending mixed signals or if his feelings are clouding his judgment. Yogi talks about the classic wishdar moment (where you wish someone is gay and read into every little thing), while Kabeer reminds us about the reality of office romances and power dynamics.
Next, we talk about a forceful kiss gone wrong. A listener shares how a kiss led to a friendship-ending block. We unpack the issue of boundaries and why forcing a kiss-whether in Bollywood or real life-is never okay. Yogi gives us his Bollywood throwback moment, and Kabeer discusses love-bombing and the importance of remorse and respect in relationships.
Finally, we get into the heart-wrenching situation of falling for your straight roommate. Yogi shares a personal story of his first love and how he found the strength to move on (even though it felt impossible at the time), while Kabeer talks about creating emotional distance and putting yourself first. It’s a tough road, but you deserve a love that loves you back.
Have you ever fallen for a straight guy? We’d love to hear your stories and how you dealt with it in the comments below! 👇
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About Yogi and Kabeer:
Former Radio Mirchi presenters, Yogi and Kabeer are the hosts of India’s top LGBTQ+ podcast, Shuddh Desi Gay, a Spotify Original. In January 2023, they became the face of the country’s first same-sex partner insurance policy, appearing on outdoor hoardings across India. Their podcast won Best Self-Love and Motivation Podcast at the Hubhopper Podcast Awards 2022, and they were top nominees for LGBTQIA+ Voice of the Year at the Cosmopolitan Blogger Awards 2023. Now based in Gurgaon, they also host Not a Therapy Session, available on KZbin and Spotify.
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[@MidhunKrishnaR]

Omg man, I know how wrong the second person was, but you guys went a little overboard. He just wanted to share and you guys judged him like hell and addressed him as a harasser. Love you guys, but could’ve been a bit soft on a guy in his early twenties who did a wrong act. He will change.

[@san_live]

Really enjoyed the episode guys, Recently discovered your channel and from here I came to know that you guys also did a podcast on spotify which was a huge success. The way you guys answer questions with such maturity and clarity is commendable. Always stay together and lots of love❤❤❤

[@himansusharma5012]

Pagal hai ye log jo straight guy ko love karte hai jante huye bhi ki wo straight hai uske piche padna pagalpan hai .

[@ankit-bk4ux]

Supp I wanna make frnds and by your previous comment find that you are practical. Can you share ur insta if u don't mind

[@TransientSoul-er2cp]

Since ur 1st episode I sent a message on ur insta... Please take it as well 🙏. One kind suggestion... If possible increase time duration of this session as its coming only once in a weak. 💐

[@SuyashShine-ek2oi]

Last wale k questions k liye us bro us