Lowering your gaze makes you more manly

[@redasruminations2591]

Very well articulated message and you integrated different islamic and biological concepts there very smoothly. Despite me being very familiar with the subjects you are discussing, the way you bring it all together is nice and clear. May Allah reward you for this brother!

[@MahdiTidjani]

Appreciate this. Ameen

[@Pagalchhagal]

@@MahdiTidjani I agree brother Mahdi, good video. Also some in the West i think know this as an after-prison effect

[@ivetabombalova3933]

​@@MahdiTidjani Lowering your gaze makes you insecure. People think that you are shy. However, I do understand where your teaching is coming from. My muslim friend once shook his hand with another muslim man. I felt left out. He told me that in Islam men don't shake hands with women. Guess what? He broke that rule the moment we introduced each other. However, due to his guilty feeling, he lowered his gaze, and I thought that he is shy. I told him, while holding his hand that when we introduce each other, we look straight into the person's eyes. Guess what? He broke another rule, and that is what you tell men not to do. No matter how hard you try to confuse and misguide those who trust you and follow you, love always wins. And therefore, you are not the Mahdi, the muslim ummah has been waiting for. www.change.org/p/mahdi-u-talk-too-much-silence-mahdi-tidjani-2021

[@banyadam4739]

@@ivetabombalova3933 shut up

[@jujibuu9426]

​@@ivetabombalova3933💀 so cringe bro

[@marcelolb1221]

The way u explain it is so profound mashaAllah. Really opened my eyes brother, seeing it from a different perspective. I'm gonna send this to my non-muslim friends and see what they have to say. We need more channels like this. Channels that explain the harm of certain things Allah swt prohibited directly, not only from a religious point of view but also biologically, morally and socially speaking. May Allah swt bless u and keep your intentions pure ameen

[@Wuanty]

This is my favourite video on your channel, completely alignes with me. Looking at women you’re not with or lusting after destroys your peace of mind, especially if you’re not willing to approach/talk to them. I started applying this last week and already start noticing some benefits.

[@luhaydan7442]

This one is a smart take and he has many like this advising men, yet people see the negative only.

[@Dzikrullah_999]

jazakallah brother. Every man today needs to hear this

[@shmsyh5047]

This video still holds a very special message even now , jazakallah Mahdi for this video.

[@mangolassi5273]

youre a great story teller brother, i have kept this video as reminder because i find it really helpful. thank you again

[@anisahabdulhaqq5634]

Alhamdulillah. A powerfully realistic message to everyone !!! Jazzak Allah khayr Brother.

[@SIGSEGV1337]

Something I've realised is that even if you can't go live in Saudi, just moving out of the city makes a huge difference. There is a ridiculous amount of fahisha in cities, along with all the other disadvantages, if you move to an area with a significant Muslim population like some place in Yorkshire, you will experience far less hardship in lowering your gaze.

[@aladdin_aljaylani]

AlSalaamu Alaikum Akhi Mehdi, Masha Allah tabarak Allah, this is an excellent video. It is much needed advice to all brothers. You are extremely underrated. I am surprised why your channel has not blown up to >100k+ subs. You deserve much, much more. May Allah bless you and your family. Maybe one piece of advice that you may benefit from is to reduce the use of vulgarities in your speech because I am sure that this prevents individuals from sending your videos to their family. For example, I would love to send many of your videos to my father and brothers, but I would feel uncomfortable sending many if them to my family’s WhatsApp group because of some of the vulgar terms used. Jazzakum Allah khayr and may Allah bless you, your family, and all that you do. You have some excellent advice, keep it up!

[@kjy05]

MashAllah jazak Allahu khairan❤️

[@sammysammy8604]

Love how you explained it bro my point exactly regarding my husband who can't control his gaze

[@itachifrs1516]

He’s right about this 100% May Allah bless him

[@syedmajidahmed8292]

This was very deep message.....thankyou for sharing this ..... 𝑨𝒍𝒉𝒂𝒎𝒅𝒖𝒍𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒂𝒉 for islam JazakAllah khair brother

[@andreeaboloca246]

One message I wholeheartedly support...Islam supports it Alhamdulillah

[@bilalkhares4932]

I think that this makes a lot of sense, and I would say that women should also lower their gaze and one benefit is that she doesn't compare her husband to other men. Men are probably more effected by what they see but certainly it effects both.

[@ivetabombalova3933]

Means you have no confidence. Grow up and instead follow the voice of your heart.

[@curiouscandy4148]

Assalam Allikum brother. Wow, I am impressed by this video for several reasons. Firstly, it was respectful. In previous videos where you spoke of pornography, whilst I wouldn't have argued with your rationale, you used derogatory terminology such as 'basic bitch' which is at the least unhelpful. Also, as someone who used to work with sex offenders in an attempt to monitor and modify their harmful behaviour, I can confirm your theory re arousal. Basically, men are very visually orientated. The more they look at porn, the more disatisfied they become with real women & this as you say can impact on their ability to enjoy normal sexual relationships. Also, porn can become very addictive so the analogy you used with heroin addicts was very accurate. The need for that 'hit' increases with each time used, whilst satisfaction levels with normal stimulus decreases. For some, they then seek out more worrying forms of porn and may even seek out physical and criminal encounters/behaviour. Anyway, credit where it's due. Salam

[@MahdiTidjani]

Walaykomasalaam, jazaakAllahukhair

[@MohamedShou]

Brother we shouldn’t be using words like “build like a brick” or “build like a while” and other offensive words because we Muslims even have adab in how we speak that’s why I don’t listen to certain Muslim KZbinrs because their speech is literally the same as a “roadman” and it turns me off from listening to them. Obviously someone is gonna give the excuse “but that’s how they grew up” Yhh that’s not really a good excuse in my opinion But this was a very profound video and I had similar experiences as well, keep it up brother 👍🏾

[@ruwhite1316]

why the hell does everyone gotta be offended by everything ☠️☠️☠️

[@lifesshort9524]

Bro you are really sensitive, what he said was funny and makes the message more appealing to the youth.

[@mangolassi5273]

focus on the message, hes using examples and making it articulate for more people to learn. this channel isnt for just muslims as well so dont see him as an islamic scholar. just a brother giving his experience and helping out others. he was also using examples not meaning it

[@SIGSEGV1337]

Akhi this is the customary way of speaking in certain places, who are you to dictate the language of others. This is like going to Spain and asking them to speak English

[@Aouf1]

your wife must be built like a brick house

[@MHiggins]

You are right the sensory overload is significant. With all of these exaggerated examples of sexual activity which isn’t realistic at all. The fact that porn addiction leads to erectile dysfunction is pretty significant.

[@itachifrs1516]

Exactly especially in today’s society in the US and non Muslim countries where there is oversexualism everywhere

[@emilygutierrez5899]

Amazing I loved this its so beneficial to lower our gaze

[@ivetabombalova3933]

He is deceiving you! Actually when you lower your gaze, this is an indication of shyness and a lack of confidence. Don't you agree?

[@coffe2270]

@@ivetabombalova3933 dont care it is a sin not to do so and my gaze shouls be only for wife and family

[@expertfinisher6574]

السلام عليكم May Allah bless you and reward you for your efforts. Just as not lowering the gaze is haram, putting pictures of women without hajab in video thumbnail is clearly haram.

[@Ramo1812]

Thanks!

[@MahdiTidjani]

This is unbelievably generous! Thank you so much @Ramo1812

[@markov.2467]

Mahdi is hilarious 😅👌

Hello sir, I'm planning to go to kuwait for work and hopefully experience the same thing in order to clean up my heart ! Would you think it's a good idea ?

[@valeriarushiti1119]

Respect 🫡

[@sanad2267]

I loved this video more than u could imagine

[@MahdiTidjani]

yes sir - ive been been given a 1 wek ban on the new one as well which ends tomorrow (wednesday 10th feb) @mahditidjanispeaks

[@MahdiTidjani]

And thank you Sanad

[@sanad2267]

@@MahdiTidjani no thank you mahdi, you have changed my life from being a feminized man to a more respectable human and for that you have my eternal gratitude.

[@dgrdst5810]

How has it helped you ​@@sanad2267

[@equityjustice2695]

Brilliant info and absolutely true. But being a young guy with no wife is maddening. Mad world aahhhhhhhhhhhh Ps it's emasculating not unmasculating

[@rinopw4262]

Really good talk bro Alhamdulillah, wished they'd talk about this in schools. I'm from Indonesia and I've never heard of this perspective before, guess even here is too liberal.

[@machinegunkely4417]

This was very funny and educating at the same time . Thnkyou brother mahdi

[@MahdiTidjani]

My man

[@osamagebara3763]

Perfectly well said my brother. May ALLAH reward you

[@abuyusufsherakhmatov]

Jazakallahu khairan

[@clauaome25]

As a woman I enjoyed this video

[@nahidnoor6421]

Respect ✊🏾

[@lifesshort9524]

Yo mahdi, you the man bro

[@md.shahadathossain8880]

Women right now be like :my man, mahdi...take love 😆😆😆 Same women when mahdi criticise women: you mysogynist, abuser 😆😆😆 Silly women

[@alimy1119]

Great content brother

[@FungusHumungus-c9s]

بارك الله فيك اخي

[@juxtapositionMS]

Very beneficial, Masha'allah. May Allah bless you. Jazakallahu Khairan.

[@Ystrly]

You're right, there is more harm than benefit in it, mybe you'll find your wife through looking, personally i find it good for keeping my standards high for women, and it makes me less woowed and distracted by them, but i found it does alot more harm than good i quit it.

[@bu_khalid2476]

I love you for the sake of Allah brother Mahdi

[@drei6248]

It’s so funny when you say no cap 😂😂😂

[@abderrahman_01]

Thanks for the Video, appreciate the Advices. May Allah put Baraka in you, and give you more takwa. It's Sad for me to see Saudi Arabia heading the way it is now, especially after seeing how it was.

[@Brother_mar]

Factual.

[@mihabrilj152]

... Avoid damaging your ability to love, and aprichiate beauty. ... God came, said to a man: "dont kill yourselfe" and the man lived.

[@rinopw4262]

Btw the red flag link doesn't exist and the amazon link as well or is it because I'm not in the UK?

[@istriver.]

Please talk about No Fap movement (islamic perspective)

[@Adam91838]

haq haq haq haq

[@CamelJockey562]

What's the name of the company that he worked for? I'd like to get a teaching job in Saudi

[@qlfur9263]

How do you then find a wife if Islam pretty much prohibits contact with women?

[@expertfinisher6574]

You go to her father and ask for marriage. That time you can talk to her in prescence of her father and look at her and her hair.

[@ashey181]

Lol this guy is funny 😂

[@rages1896]

12:42 hahaahaha

[@d.bcooper2271]

Lol 😆 🤣 😂