Lub Kua Muag Tseem Niaj Hnub Los. 12/27/21

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[@nkaujhnub86]

I will never choose a man over my children! If their dad doesn't love them, I will!

[@jillvang3091]

Aunty, I cried while listening to this because it's my story too. It's not as easy as people say. Nobody will ever understand our pain and our guilt of missing just one moment of our kids because we are a broken family. Nobody will ever understand the pain and the guilt that comes with being divorced. I'm very bless that my kids are still here and still I fight the same demon everyday. May God comfort you and give you peace. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@auaumvhj5355]

tu siab tshajj li os

[@nkaujhmoobvaj1491]

It’s sad that it takes a life for us to regret the action we have taken. Such a sad story. Regret is the biggest sorrow in this world.

[@kanetoews7747]

So true

[@Karena312]

No husband or wife is worth losing my child to. I would rather be a single parent than having a spouse who don’t live my kids.

[@sindielee8129]

Don't be too hard on this mother. You will not know unless you've walked in her shoes. Clearly she is a good mother to her children. Otherwise, her son wouldn't have loved her that much. I have not walked in her shoes, but as a mother, I know how much I love my children and I'm sure she does too.

[@mayflower1987]

So true.

[@Focky446]

...But you can choose to be with your kids no matter what. In this story she didn't choose her kids all the way that's why it happen the way it did. Listen to it and see her behavior from the story.

[@AprilMay.2023]

@James Thao it is the stupid tradition and culture that caused all this. Whether she picked her new husband or not, her exhusband won't do the wedding without the son and dil actually moved from home to live with the exhusband. Her ex-husband has the choice to just do the wedding and didn't need to have the son moved. We have to identify the main cause of the problem, not point finger at this woman. Remember, She can't do a wedding without a clan/father family Hmong wedding makes this very complicated that's why many Hmong moms stay in toxic relationships and get abused.

[@mayas08]

I'm gonna keep it real as a mother myself NO man is Ever going to be worth more than my child 💯

[@etee8361]

Exactly! This is the 21st century, I hope we women don’t chose this path

[@maipha8560]

I agreed 100%! I fought life and death to bring my children into the world. I will never let a man stand in the way of loving children. If I was a single mother and my son needed to get marry, if the Hmong culture is to harsh and unaccepting, I guess we'll just have to go to the courthouse and get a marriage license for the two kids. Life is too short to live a life of regret. Love, support, and cherish our children because tomorrow will come but we may not be here to enjoy it.

[@HleeWai]

I’m not a mother but my mom has walked this path. My mom never remarried but when I got married it was the saddest day of my life. Life of being a living orphan is the hardest mountain I’ve yet to climb. These kinds of stories always makes me so sad. 😢

[@souathao4816]

P

[@kong7535]

My heart hurts so much for this mother. I really pray you find peace. I cried so hard throughout the entire story I couldn’t swallow.

[@waatchdogs6184]

My heart so broken for you. You're a great mom. *sending hugs and prayers

[@1418tym]

What a sad story. 😢😢😢 Please love your children and protect them with all your hearts and with everything. Do not wait until something happened to them. Then you would do something about it. It’ll be too late and you won’t ever be able to forgive yourself. I’m sure this mother loves her son very much, not saying she doesn’t love her son. But she failed to protect her son. She allowed her new husband to mistreated her son knowing that her son isn’t her husband biological child. Her husband doesn’t love or care for his step son. That is why I do not feel bad for mothers like this one. Or feel bad for fathers who acted the same way like this. Always remember whether you are a mother or father. If things do not work out with your first marriage. If you guys decided to remarried again. Please make sure to take the time to find the right one not just for yourself but for your children as well. Who will love your children along with you. It is your responsibility as a mother/father to protect your children from any harm. Stand up up against to those who have the intentions to hurt them in any way. Love, care, and support your children. Everything you do make sure it is what’s best for your children as well. It isn’t all about what is best for you and your own happiness. If things do not work out between you and your spouse. You can always find a new one. But your children is something you cannot find or replace.

[@xiameevang9131]

So heart breaking for you sister.🥲😢🥲😢🥲😢🥲😢🥲😢🥲😢🥲 I’m so sorry for the loss of your son 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 that my God comfort your heart and wipe your tears.

[@onglee8796]

Divorced is a painful thing to watch our children go threw as I walk in this path myself. I am thankful to have a partner that doesn’t stop me from loving my children but still hard watching my children having hardships between two separated parents. 😢😢😢

[@hmongsiabzoo]

I’m sure she loved her children and tried to do what she thought was the best. We often make wrong choices or decisions based on our emotions. We as women need to be strong, independent and not depend on anyone so that our children will no go through what this poor woman’s children went through. My heart breaks into a million pieces for her son. He was so disheartened and broken; being rejected on both sides of his families. Sad sad indeed 😭😭😭😭

[@N.Ly00]

She loved her kid, yes, but she didn't do what's best for her kid. She picked a guy over her kid's happiness.

[@rebeckalor1216]

😭😭😭

[@_milly]

A parent losing a child is the most painful thing ever. The saddest part is knowing that they are lying there helplessly and have so much to say (to us) but are unable to. So all they can do is think about it until their very last breath. Tu siab dhau lawm os.

[@MissPeachie]

Sorry for your loss. I have a son too and I can’t imagine how it feels. Your son passed away from Covid-19, meaning this story takes place recently. This is the 21st century, why haven’t you guys evolved yet? Your story sounds like all this happened in the 90’s. If my new husband refuses to accept my kids, I am walking out. Also, teach your kids that education and career come before marriage. If you still live with mommy and daddy, you are not ready to have a kid. Use protection!!!!

[@ncouazooxwbya1552]

I am crying by listening to this sadness story!! I have 3 boys, when my older & middle son married, I had to do whatever it takes to taken cared for their wedding even my husband doesn’t cared! A mother stand firm and protect her childrens whether others disapproved!!

[@pajlis5886]

Husband's and wives who lose their spouse are called a widow, children who lose their parents are called orphans...but parents who lose their children has no name because there's word to describe them. Traditions make it hard on children who were raised in a country rich with different beliefs and values. I hope that future generations can over see some of these traditional ways someday.

[@nklee6154]

OMG, my heart is broken listen to this story. I know the hardship you went through. I am a girl but my mom had to fight hard for us on our weddings. I know you have done your best to protect him. May God with you and please be strong. Please do not end your live. They are still need you! You are blessed to have him and he is in heaven with peace.

[@nklee6154]

Being orphan is hard but being Hmong orphan is harder. Wish I could give you a hug. Please know that you are not alone. They are so many single mothers and Hmong orphans in this world are in your shoes. Please do not blame yourself. You have raised them alone and done your best.

[@lisvaj7375]

My ❤️ hurts for your son 😭. This is why if you can not love someone else kids, don’t date or marry someone with kids. The kids suffer the most.

[@kevinher3546]

Agree

[@johnbarron4843]

O shit. This one’s too real.

[@maivzebvaj4303]

This story is so sad.. I'm like tearing up.. thanks for sharing your story..

[@colleenchan9872]

Ntuj aws cas peb cov niag neej lwj siab no yuav tu siab ua luaj li os! Ua tsaug koj muab koj txoj kev lwj siab no tuaj qhia rau peb kawm os mog! Kuv los ntshe yeej yuav tau taug koj txoj kev lwj siab nyuaj siab no thiab os!🥲🥲pab koj khuv koj tus me tub kawg os mog.. txhob quaj heev thiab hlub cov tseem muaj txoj sia os nawb!

[@user-uv9ge1eh3s]

Zaj neej neeg no cav yuav tu siab ua luaj li o kuv mloog kuv lub kua muag los 2 thiab hlub tus me tub no kawg li o

[@tophatmellon5739]

Wow its soo sad. I have 2 son's with my ex. I still have my son's and they r grown men now but, I'm hurting with this mother. May, u are the only story teller that has true feelings when telling a story, I can't stop crying.

[@chouavang8715]

So sad 😭 I can’t even listen to the whole story. I can’t even make through halfway. My heart aches with you aunty. Only people like you can understand and feels the same pain. Words can’t even describe how you feel deeply inside. Be strong for your other children and stand for them because that’s all they got.

[@arlenemoua6460]

I'm so sorry for your loss, sister. Please don't be so hard on yourself. I know you did your best as a mother. I wish you all the best.

[@hmoobqabteb7943]

Dang. N. Ntsuab Teev, you made everyone cried with you in this story here. 😢

[@nkaujhmooblischanel7580]

Wo... tu siab dau li lawm kv nyiam kj cov neej neeg tu 2 siab no heev...

[@ynulau7364]

Niam laus aw mloog koj txhua txoj neej neeg koj hais nim nrog koj quaj txhua zaug thaum koj quaj , txhawb nqa koj txhua txoj li os niam laus

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

Very sad story for step.children don’t don’t get love from the step parents. Why our Hmong step parents are so heartless and not care for step children.

[@thedark-_-lord8285]

It’s not only Hmong people only- Its pple in general across race, culture or heritage.

[@monkeybanana9269]

It's everywhere not just Hmong. It's unfortunate but at the same time if the biological parents can't even love or treat their own children any better, why expect an outsider to do a better job? I rather just stay single with my kids than to bring in extra complications.

[@godness7770]

When it comes to choosing, I will choose my child over any man. I so sorry for your lost my dear sister. This such a sad story that made me cry missing my dad. Thank you for sharing. May God be with your Son, grandson, you and your family.

[@chaiteavana2749]

Ca koj yuav hais tus siab tshaj plaws li OS. Zoo ib yam li yog koj kiag li thov txhawb koj lub zog moog.

[@mimyaj669]

Kuv no kj cov dab neeg kuv tu siab hv li os nyiam hv li os

[@LilyXiongChannel]

Leej twg tsis raug txoj kev no tsis paub. Yus tus menyuam yog yus nplooj siab yus nco tshaj plaws mob siabtshaj. Nco ntsoov tias tej niag txiv tshiab no yus yuav nrhiav thaum twg los tau tiam si yus tus menyuam yus nrhiav tsis tau nawb mog. Yog tus txiv neej twg hlub tsis tau yus cov menyuam ces cuag li nws yeej tsi hlub yus ib yam..kuv tsi khe yuav los yog tham. Peb cov pojniam txhob ua siab muag2 thiab txhob ntshaw2 txiv maj mas nrhiav mas yuav yeej tsis lig.

[@hx7161]

I don’t understand how men and women can choose their new spouse over their children. How sad.

[@msi.l.v4464]

Sim neej no peb cov niam tsev yog peb tej niam txiv tsis sib hlub lawm txhob mus yuav txiv ntshiaj lawm os mog peb mus yuav txiv ces peb tau txiv es peb tej mi tub minyuam yuav tu siab mus tag ib sim neej os lawv aw😢😢😢😢😢

[@dreamwithme247]

Yog tshaj li os sister aw. Yog nyob tau ces yug nyob nrog yug cov menyuam xwb zoo tshaj os. Txhob xav tias yug mus yuav txiv es yug lub neej thiaj kawg no os. Yug mus yuav txiv tshiab ces yug tabtom tsim txom yug cov menyuam xwb.

[@sansangsansang6198]

Ca tu siab tshaj li os😭😭😭 nrog tsev neeg tu siab heev li os

[@user-vs9sn3ih5u]

Niam ntsuab teev zaj dab neeg no kuv poob kua muag tshaj plaws

[@dyte9180]

My heart breaks for this mother. The step father is evil, heartless, & selfish.

[@nkaujhmoovaj9832]

Even his own father too so sad

[@kiayaxkh6031]

Niam lau aw ca kj niam tham kj saj dab neeg tu siab ua luaj o kv ce niam nrog kj quaj2 ta nro kj zaj dab neeg o

[@tunglu9364]

Tus niam laug koj zaj neej neeg no tu siab heev niam laug tshuab teem koj tswv koj tk

[@zookawgliyay1476]

Niam tai nrog koj tu siab tshaj plaw li os cas yuav hlub koj tus me tub ua luaj os

[@yervang8968]

Niam hluas me zaj no koj hais tau tu siab kawg. Kuv niam nrog koj quaj quaj😭😭😭thiab os. Thov kom tus niam tsev no hlub hlub nws tus me tub nawb.

[@lubpajchannel]

Tu siab tshaj plaws li os

[@Focky446]

.....After listening to this story, the boy in here died directly from COVID but 80% indirectly from the divorced parents fault which resulting lack of love and supports. The boy just wished to be loved and have support. Listen up new parent or parenting, if you're single or have no kids you can do whatever you want but once you give life or have kids it's not all about you anymore. I'm sure this boy had alot of questions before he passed. The way he wrote all his last notes to his mother, he probably went through neglect of love from the two divorced parents. Sad to have a child passed and ended their life before the parent wake up.

[@yogkuvxwb7219]

Viv ncaus aw, koj zaj neej neeg no mas tus siab tshaj li. kuv mloog mas kuv quaj222, mloog nrog lus kuas muag, Sorry you have to go through these pain, as a mother I feel your pain. Cas uas ib leej niam es yuav tus siab uas luaj os viv ncaus aw. Txob tus2 siab lawm os, vim uas tsis taus li cas lawm, take care koj tus kheej os mog. Mu heart break for you. tus siab tis siab rau lub neej no dhau lawm.Please thiank of your other children and your self and them. Your son will never come badk. Sorry.

[@leelor9411]

Niam Ntsuabteev, zaj no koj hais tau tu siab tiag, tiag ua rau peb teev tsis peb lub kua muag li thiab. Nrog tu me niam tsev tu siab ua tus kab mob Covid-19 no tau coj koj tus me tub lawm.

[@tshuakoj3053]

sib pab caum koj lawm

[@daengxiong1370]

Tu siab tiag tiag li o lawv aw 😭😭

[@khamphengthor2256]

txoj kev tsuag ntxhaw niam thiab txiv txoj kev hlub tshaj li os kuv hmoog tus niam no lus neej tus22 kuv siab ua luaj ua rau kuv quaj2 kawg li os nim hnub no kuv niam pem lus neej ces zoo ib yam li koj tus ua niam lus neej thiab os mog txhob tus siab os mog peb cov me nyuam hlub leej niam tshaj li os mog

[@saibtsisdhuav933]

Tim 2 tus txiv xwb os. Tim txiv yug thiab tim txiv tshiab. Hmoob txoj kev ua cai quav dev. Tu siab tshaj plaws.

[@douayang2163]

Zaj yog zaj top of Hmong sad storied the year 2022.> txhob sib nrauj lawm hmoob aw!!!!!!!

[@maykerlo7026]

So sad for this mom. I'm a single mom myself. Me and my kids has gone thru hell with their dad. I will never choose a man over my kids. Hopefully this mom will find some peace.

[@kevinher3546]

I’m proud of you stay strong love you kid

[@VivoVivo-ox3hs]

Zaj neej neeg no tus siab tiag2 li mloog g taus li o mloog ces lo2 kuas muag li. Lub neej nos ces niam tau txiv me nyuam g tau txiv, txiv tau niam me nyuam g tau niam ua lub neej lwj2 siab lwj2 Ntsws li o. Hai txog thaum twg ce lo2 lub kuas muag.

[@chinhthao4741]

Ua cas yuav pab tu siab thiab los kuas muag ủa luaj hlub koj tus me tub kawg lis os

[@yervang1654]

Nej ua rau tus tub tu siab lawn nws thiaj kis Kab mob Los Mas pab nej tu siab thiab hlub nws kawg li

[@jorvang1420]

Nrog koj tu siab kawg os tus me niam tsev aw tsis quav los lub kua muag lo es nrog koj hlub thiab tu siab kawg os

[@youathao3628]

My heart breaks for you mama.

[@brendayangvang9756]

😪😪 tu siab tiag2 o ib leej niam nplooj siab yuav ploj ib ib txhis mas mob tiag2 o mog

[@shounathao8697]

Niam Tais Aws… nrog koj tus siab os mog. But don’t be so hard to yourself. Tseem Tshuav cov nyob nrog koj es av tsij hlub lawv mog. Lesson learned. Hopefully you will stand up for your kids next time and don’t let this happen to your next kids. Love and hugs rau koj os mog.

[@nkaujhmoobtushaibhaib4677]

Tu tu siab li os lub neej zoo li no txhob mus tom ntej lawm nrog me nyuam nyob yog qhov zoo os

[@maoyang2061]

If she was good to her children she will do her son's wedding on herself whatever she can...that's too late lady..I very disappointed on a mother like this. She said she love her son but told her son to go live with the X-husbund....she is a cawer.....

[@blueberrysmilie1]

Tu siab hlub liag raug lawm os. When your parent aren’t dead that you can cry and tell them your struggles at their grave and people will sympathize. But they are alive but its like you have no parent and no one who will listen to your struggles, bc they refuse to allow you to say you are orphans. Orphans have no feeling of home to belong, when their parent throw them around. If you can’t love your children don’t bring them into the world because they will wait for your love forever.

[@lt2784]

Qhov no lau! Thov kom nej Txhob sib2 nrauj lawm mog

[@ntxhiandnomlwmchannel7785]

Tu siab ua luaj os tus sister

[@chongxiong340]

OMG thus story make me cry so much

[@Loves_DuckSR]

Oh my. I am crying my eyes out. I'm so sorry for your loss, sister. It's so hard in that situation. You have to walk in your shoe to understand. I see your son loved you so much. You're a good/great mother enough for him to love you so much. May you learn to forgive yourself. May he rest in peace.

[@gaoshenxyooj9947]

Thov cov txiv tshiab pab hlub tej me nyuam thiab tej me nyuam twb tsis muaj kev txhaum thov hlub lawv thiab mog txhob ua li no tsam tej me nyuam tu tu siab os lawv aws thiab nyuaj leej niam npaum li cas leej twg tsis yog ib leeg niam leej twg tsis muaj hnub nkag siab tus mi leej niam txoj kev tu siab thiab mob siab 😭😭😭😭

[@nkaujshenglauj4978]

Tu siab ua luaj li os lawv aws cas nim yuav ua rau peb quaj txhua tus li os mi tub txawj xav

[@l3eautifulflaw87]

Nrog koj tu siab tshaj

[@kiamoua7038]

To the Mother of this story. I can relate to you. Don't beat yourself too much dear. I too lost my first love, my oldest child, my daughter this year to covid. It's very hard, we tell ourselves to move on because we're suppose to but it's so hard. Take it one day at a time, Mama. He probably knows it was a very hard decision for you and I believe that he's not mad at you. Take care of yourself and the little one.

[@kayherrs9876]

😭

[@AppApp-fn9lp]

Nrog koj tu siab os😥😥😥😥

[@mmmlomzemkawgliiosrrt2566]

Tu2 siab mloog g tau li o niam ntsuab teev aw ...

[@thaevang5369]

2 niag txiv dev laus no cas yuav txaus ntxub tshaj plaws li os. Niag txiv dev tshiab los zoo li. Niag txiv dev laus qub los zoo li cas yuav txaus dhuav tsaj plaws.

[@yervang1654]

Mus yuav tus thib ob Mas mus yuav tus lawv nyiam yus es lawv thiaj Kam pab yus o

[@kazouavue5288]

Kuv sim neej kuv yeej hla dhau 3 lub taw rooj los lawm , muaj txiv tuag txiv nrauj huv si , kuv yeej tsis pub kuv cov me nyuam ntsib teeb meem txiv tshiab tsim txom tau li koj nawb

[@koobtsheejchannel4981]

Kuv quaj2 tsitau nrog kojlmthiab ca yuavtu siab ua luaj li o txoj niag kev ua ntsuag

[@maiyang570]

As a mother I feel your pain. 😢 😭 😢 😭

[@juliehawj3385]

Tu siab ua luaj os. Yus menyuam yog yus txoj siab tiag2 li os!! Peb cov poj niam yuas tsu nco ntsoov tias ib tug txiv tsis yog peb txoj siab es txhob tsaws2 ib twg txiv tshiab uas tsis hlub peb cov menyuam ntsuag.

[@cindylor2012]

Lub neej tsis zoo muaj me tub me nyuam mus ua neej tshiab li no mas tu siab tshaj li .. no one will understand the pain .

[@niamzajdabneeghmong6475]

I think, you are his best mother for him!!

[@trusung144]

mloog tag lawm los kv tseem quaj quaj tsis xav tuag xov tooj li os tus me niam tsev aw kj tus me tub txawm mus lawm los nwg tus nruj nplig yuav nrog nraim kj tus ua niam nawb mog es kj txhob quaj quaj ua kj lub siab loj thiaj li hlub tau kj tus me xeev ntxwv thiab kj pab me nyuam os mog , peb ua neej nyob tus yug yus thiab tus yus yug mas mob siab tiag tiag li os tus niam tsev aw

[@AnLongFL]

Yus niam thiaj hlub yus xwb 😭😭😭

[@iavlauj1]

wow. it's so sad. I start crying since the mom read the son letters. just can't hold my tear back. felt sorry for both the mom and the son.

[@maisvwj6763]

Hlub koj tus me tub kawg nws nim mus lawm tu siab nros muaj niam muaj txiv yug los tsis muaj niam muaj txiv hlub. Tus viv ncaus aw txob tu siab os tej zaum nws yeej paub tias koj hlub2 nws los koj ua tsis tau dabtsi es txob rau txim ntau2 rau koj tus kheej mog.

[@maileemusicchannel3588]

What a sad story 😢😢😢

[@paweenahanwachira9883]

ua ib leej niam yog zoo li kom mas kawg kev kuv to taub koj tab swg peb cov ua niam peb yeej hlub peb cov me nyuam thaj yog paub tiag zoo li kom cia nrog tej me nyuam nyog xwb zoo dua koj twb tu siab txaug koj tug tub tseem tau txais txoj kev tu siab npaum kom thiab

[@pebtsevxeemthoj3391]

Wow..,,Kuv nrog koj tus ua niam tusiab heev os…cas koj yuav xaiv tus txiv dev siab phem thiab siab mes ko os. I not saying anything because your son said it all…I just hurt and crying with niam Ntsuab Teev.

[@7stars2love]

Cov txiv dev uas yuav luag niam es tsis kam hlub leej niam tej me nyuam mas ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws kiag li os

[@kuelee9184]

Losing a child is the hardest thing ever is like losing a prot of your self we can have any man any time so don't choose a man over our children because one's they gone we can't find them anywhere 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@touayang1051]

Ua cas yuav tus siab ua luaj li os me ntxhais aw.

[@smvv1389]

🥲🥲🥲🥲🥲what a touching story!so sad! Tu viv ncau lub neej niam txais tog txiv txais nta ces yeej zoo li no os. Txhob quaj mog nws twb tau zoo lawm os. Hopefully you find peace with your other children and your grand baby. Koj Yog ib leej niam zoo os. 🙏

[@chaiteavana2749]

My heart goes out to you

[@chongher4663]

Nrog koj hlub koj tus me tub kawg li os tus niam tsev aw, peb yog ib leej niam ces txoj kev hlub yus tej menyuam yeej tsis txawv deb es nkag siab tias yuav mob koj siab heev li.

[@leslielee822]

Cas lub neej noj Zoo li kuv lub thiab os. Kuv tug tub mob Covid tuag thiab es mob lub siab npaum li cas os. Sim neej no leej twg yog niam es tub tau tso tseg mus ib sim neej mas hlub thiab nco puag thaum yus kiag los txog kiag hnub nws tag sim neej. Nco thiab hlub mus ib sim neej li os hmoob aw!!

[@patervang1682]

kuv thov koj pab hais rau ib tsoom hmoob yog yus muaj me nyuam 2,3 tug me nyuam lawm no thov txh sib rauj mog yog nib sib rau ces yuav ua rau tej menyuam txom2 nyem tag ib sim es yog nib yug 2 peb tug me nyuam law no thov kom nij pab tej me nyuam mog vim tus nrog koj nyob los yuav txom nyem hos tus nrog tus mus los yuav txom nyemos ib tsoom hmoob

[@poheu9307]

niam txiv tsis tau tuag cas cia me nyuam ua ntsuag ciaj vim yog koj xwb tus niam tsev.

[@maitongvue5397]

Kuv tsis tau taub hais tias cas peb cov poj niam hmoob no es yuav ruam txog qhov xum cia yus cov me nyuam txom nyem es tsuav tau niag txiv siab phem no na..txawm txiv yug thiab txiv tshiab los yog tsis hlub yus cov me nyuam xwb yus twb tu siab tsis txawj tag yus xum xaiv yus cov me nyuam ua ntej nawb

[@khiavdimvang9481]

This story make make me cry so sad . Hlub koj mog me vivncaus

[@etee8361]

Never chose your new spouse over your children. You can replace your spouse, but you can never replace your children. If you are a divorcee, never remarry a Hmong man. Just my opinion.

[@Focky446]

...Wrong about the part never remarried a Hmong man. You can. What should a divorce woman do before she ger serious to be a relationship with a divorced Hmong man?? You should not be hurry into the relationship but know the history of a man before married him. Hang around with him, test him. Get to see how he handles challenges or difficulties times. If you're ready to remarried, have terms and if she or he still doesn't love your children, stand your ground, leave.

[@etee8361]

@@Focky446 Hmong men never forgive. It’s true to test the waters before jumping into a relationship, but Hmong men likes to bring up the past. She will never have peace in that relationship.

[@Focky446]

@@etee8361 Wrong again. You based your view and opinion by what you've been through or experiences. Not all Hmong men or all men will do the same thing. True, most men will bring the past that's why she shall have conditions, terms and compromises before she remarried. That is, if he ever take her for granted and brings her horrible past to present, she can leave. She must stand her ground and believe in herself if she had to leave for a toxic man. Like wise, there are men who cheeris life, children and family oriented.

[@etee8361]

@@Focky446 exactly! My views are based on my experiences. Maybe you are not one of those hmong men… but I am sure you have heard of the many emotional abuse these women divorcee goes through when married to another hmong men. Again, speaking from my experiences and maybe, just maybe, raising awareness to my hmong women who are seeking a healthy relationship.

[@tongkafamilyuasi2223]

Yeej hais qhias nej cov ua niam ua txiv nawb peb cov ua me nyuam no Yeej tu siab rau nej cov uas ua niam ua txiv phem nawb yug tau hlub Tsis tau cem txhob pheej sib sib ua kom muaj luag los ua Neej nyob Tsis tu sias nawb. Ua nej ua ces peb Yeej xav tia tuag ces zoo dua tau kev kaj siab lawm xwb hos.vim muaj Tus yug Tsis muaj Tus hlub Tus ntav ne.