LWM submission

[@tracie8635]

This story is really emotional for me to hear. Your are a Angel doing God's work🤗

[@hollydegrazia7779]

I can’t express how much I admire you and your husband in the selfless way you parent these lucky children! God Bless. ❤️

[@soniajuare5717]

Love your story about Alex’s mom, and I love your family. Thank you for sharing. ♥️

[@zazasworld8377]

You are such a awesome person. You are so selfless , bringing his birth mom into his life was such a awesome thing for you too do . You really have a beautiful soul.may God keep blessing you ..

[@elaineweinberg7094]

So true, that is a true mother.

[@Whatsthedeal106]

I have such terrible views on the foster care system in general, and it’s so amazing to see people like you exist! Seriously you are called to do this! The love 💕 is evident in your eyes and spirit! God bless you and your family, thank you for what you do!

[@malkaringel7864]

I think that you are one special compassionate, open minded lady Alicia. Thank you for caring for those that would've lived more of the foster child situation. I myself was one. That never leaves, as there's such abandonment issues there. I'd of liked to be adopted, but I was already a teen. Let's just say, I'm 65 & my history has totally colored my life, not in a good way. It was scandalous in the 60's to come from a "broken home".

[@donnahinsz780]

You and hubby are awesome people. You both have huge hearts!!!! Bravo to you both!!!!

[@zoeelisabethgayton4876]

This was a fascinating insight into foster and adoptive care, and so well articulated. Thank you.

[@kgt1121]

All I have to say is your such a beautiful person! I grew up in foster care, many homes, different states, on and off with my biological mother. I was adopted at 11 and it was an open adoption. I believe it was a good thing for me. I understood more of why things were the way they were. But my foster parents or adoptive parents are nothing like you. I was more just like a paycheck. You let them show their individuality and try to make everyone happy and comfortable. Always stay so wonderful and levelheaded❤️

[@tortimeese]

❤

[@shirleygiordano7627]

I'm sorry. Was it hard growing up? I feel so appreciative to have a great mom and dad. I'm so sorry you had that struggle 😔.

[@amandanavarro2465]

This is so wonderful. I am so happy his heart has had the opportunity to heal. God bless your family, all your children, and Alex. This could have prevented so much trauma and mental issues that can occur. This is amazing ♥️.

[@pamboone6921]

Wow, I absolutely agree you 100% on the open adoption. Our son has never got to meet or talk with his Bio mom. He will bring it up every once in awhile to look for her but then dismisses it quickly. I’m not real sure he can comprehend that I didn’t give birth to him, and he was adopted. He is autistic, but mostly a low social skill. It’s really sad cause I think it would fill that void he has also. I think you folks are so awesome! May God Bless y’all richly ❤️

[@lonnaproctor9547]

🙏 praying for your situation. Hope it can have an outcome like this on in the video ❤

[@jonihansen2155]

You and your husband are amazing, most children don't get to know their biological family. May God richly bless your family

[@savgal1211]

AMEN❤❤❤

[@me_stillme]

I think u meant most adopted children 🥰

[@edensgarden1775]

I wish the family who adopted my grandchildren was like you. The 2 oldest really wanted to stay in contact with me and my husband but she refused. It's been 5 years and I miss them so much. My heart aches. I love your family. Your wonderful parents.

[@YeshuaKingMessiah]

So sick that u werent allowed to adopt instead of strangers

[@YeshuaKingMessiah]

Use SM! My friend also found her daughter who taken from her by her babydaddy. She had lived not too far the whole time. It took 10 yrs of heartbreak on both their parts but at 16yo her daughter & she were reunited. Her daughter told her dad to go fly a kite within a few mos and moved in with mom. He tried to get her to hate her mom but as soon as she could hear truth, she knew better.

[@terimccartney778]

does your state have a grandparent law-I'd check this out with a lawyer

[@YeshuaKingMessiah]

@@terimccartney778 very few states gave this

[@edensgarden1775]

@@terimccartney778 unfortunately no.

[@susanlewis2297]

You are an amazing person to really really care for the emotions of your adoptive children they may not realize it now but one day when grown they will see the loving sacrifice that you and your husband have made God Bless you and your awesome family!!

[@Amy-yq2oi]

You and your husband are truly inspirational and a blessing!! Big hugs, loves, and prayers!!!

[@jenniferlane9000]

Your a beautiful and understanding Mom. Thank you for sharing your story. May the Lord bless you all ❤️❤️🙏

[@fshs6187]

I can’t imagine how hard it is for both mom and child to do this. But that’s a mothers love, even if it’s devastating for her, she will do what’s best for her baby.

[@reginamccarthy1372]

You are amazing parents, the world needs more people like you. Thank you for what you have done and are continuing to do for your children, loving them endlessly ♥️

[@feeldevine9641]

You are such a amazing woman I’m from 🇬🇧 England I absolutely love watching you and your big family I’m from a family of 8 and it’s lovely to see a mum like my own 💖💖💖💖

[@michellelasure5481]

U are 100% right my kids were taken at a young age and all there adopted parents told them was bad things about their real family really messed them up it's sad to say but they are home now with me and we will figure it all out now we r together the lies these people told my kids are just crazy thank u for being open minded there should b alot more people just like u.

[@renepassa1969]

There is a huge difference between adopting and fostering children. Adoption is forever, fostering is temporary.

[@roxannevlogs7329]

Alicia you and Josh are exemplary human beings ❤️❤️Thank you. You make my day 💥 I would love to be a foster parent but I don’t have the monetary ability to provide.

[@teresaacevedo1731]

Thank you for sharing . I admire you for loving and caring enough for Alex by reaching out to his bio mom. I believe it is such a selfless act and in the long run will benefit Alex. You and your husband are an example of what adoptive parents should be.

[@sheilacirioni4676]

That was a very heartwarming story& I have alot of respect for you telling it the way you did.Someday the children will know what( maybe even now) great parents you really are.☮🧞‍♀️💞🌴PEACE BE WITH YOU ALL,ALWAYS.

[@sophiahsieh6597]

I love your values and how considerate you are of every single kid and family 💖💖! We love you Alex - you are such a blessing!!

[@Moving_Forward247]

Thank you. I was feeling so depressed this morning and like I couldn’t do anything (and I have a lot to do). This motivated me to do what I need to do for my kids and also just moved my heart

[@junebuchholtz287]

She does the same for me!!! Hope your doing good today 🙂

[@linhaton4957]

Your love and kindness is an inspiration.

[@linhint6434]

So true!

[@lydiapicano8806]

God bless you and you husband for the love and support you provide for all you children. ♥️

[@liveformybabies1190]

my daughter and SIL are about to adopt their two fosters. brother and sister. in and out of foster care their entire lives. now at age 11 and 12, they have a family that loves them like they've never been loved before and I have 2 amazing grandkids. bless you for what you do.

[@CountrySteve2]

WOW You are absolutely amazing. I wanna cry. My stepmom as a kid was too jealous of my bio/later I call her my real mom on acct of how toxic the stepmom was. So most adopted families also lack the confidence and heart to even consider what you did. They would have used the excuse of it was closed...oops hands tied. Adoptive families change names then pretend like there was nothing but bad before them...So glad you are sharing your stories, in hopes more ppl could be like you and your family's beyond kindness.🐢🐢🐢Cara

[@kall_me_krazi]

You are a special person, Alicia! (Hope I spelled your name correctly!) You are beautiful inside AND out! You ooze such high vibrational LOVE energy!!! Thank you for just being you!!! I pray for you and your family daily! You and your husband are self sacrificing to give all of your children the best life they can have! Absolutely amazing souls having a human experience!!! You are both a blessing to those children and humanity!!! You set the bar high for others!! Thanks for BEING a breath of fresh air on a planet overpopulated with smog! Blessings to all!! Sending loving energy everyone’s way! Namaste!!!

[@agathahofmann6977]

woman! you are amazing! AMAZING!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@patriciarussell7487]

Best mom ever,it's all about the kids!!💖

[@YeshuaKingMessiah]

I love how ur not trying to fulfill ur needs when u started helping kids but meeting *their* needs. So OF COURSE finding his mom was a nonnegotiable. I would have scoped it all out first as u did but she seemed not a danger and talking etc first for awhile was excellent. Closed adoption has baffled me since a child. Unless the rare rare case of extremes, closed just isn’t in child’s best interest. Having the bio parents in their lives (except for those rare cases) is just part of HELPING kids vs “building a family for infertile couples”. One is them centered, one is child centered. I have strong feelings yes Ur doing such a service to these kids, Alecia 🙂

[@velvacrosby2390]

I gave a beautiful child up for adoption when I was seventeen. I actually signed her over to my foster parents. I was 16 by 4 days when I had her. Lord Jesus knows how much I loved her but, I had another child by a different man when I turned 17. I knew he would never accept her and would most likely harm her. I wanted a closed adoption but I regret that. I regret that I didn’t leave the second man and live as a single mother. Life choices are so hard when you are too young. I am so happy to watch you and Jesus is watching too.

[@leilarobles1311]

Wait, not judging just confused. You had her first then met a man and had a kid with him and then put your first child up for adoption because the dad of the second one didnt want her? I'm not judging just interested

[@shell7142]

@@leilarobles1311 I believe that’s what she said…. Sad story, I feel for her as she understands now. This is why people need to learn from others past mistakes: children should not be having sex. Wait until marriage. We are suppose to learn from history, but our sinful ways keep us from us learning and making better choices. The Bible shows how many times the children of Israel kept making their same mistakes rather then learning. This is also another reason why we as parents NEED to teach our children on morals and about God. Every generation is getting worse and farther apart because if parents aren’t teaching their children then who is? No one. 😕

[@suzannep8371]

You are such good people. God bless you all 🙏

[@cinm9565]

I am a new subscriber and so am going back to the beginning. I already thought you were the best, and this confirms it. While I am sure it would be easier for you to have closed adoptions, you ALWAYS do what is the best for the children. Haters and critics just have holes in their lives. I watch you every day. I couldn’t have children and watch you daily to fill the void in my life. Thank you.

[@annemariemartin4946]

Wow, thank you for sharing your thoughts on this very sensitive subject. Our family had given up my sisters son at birth (she was only 17) and it has always left a giant whole in our hearts and my sister suffered daily because of this. It was a closed adoption at first and after 27 years she was able to find and reunite with him and his adoptive family. We love them all and our life is now complete and whole again.

[@tonyaburnside1037]

❤️❤️❤️so happy to hear you’ll are amazing just a home filled with love

[@ajcurran100]

What a beautiful thing you did for Alex. And I’m so pleased his birth mum was up for seeing and explaining things to him. You and your husband are just what this young man’s needs

[@Kaylaakakay]

Thank you so much for what you and your family is doing, it’s definitely given me such an positive outlook into foster to adopt and hopefully one day I get to too, and it’s all thanks too y’all. Thank you ❤ and love y’all

[@savgal1211]

I just discovered your Channel about a week ago I do not have Instagram or Facebook KZbin is my only social media. I am a 60 year old female who never could have kids. I am a retired registered nurse, so I got to do a lot of my loving and care taking that way. I know it's not the same I'm also a firm mommy LOL that should say as in a doggy mom. and they were $1 found in a dumpster then I rescued three pitbulls and paid all the money to get them healthy and got people to adopt them. I enjoy watching you and your children so much you and your kids and your husband are an inspiration and a blessing. whenever I feel lazy I just watch one of your videos and I get motivated haha I'm glad I finally found out why you weren't using it washer and dryer and home I didn't know your septic was down. I was thinking how can this family of 12 go to the darn laundromat haha. I live in Savannah Georgia I hope your kids get to go to the beach at some point if they haven't been. God bless you Mom you guys are in my prayers every night and I know so many wonderful things are going to continue coming your way. you are one-of-a-kind❤❤❤

[@katies0]

You are such a wonderful Mama

[@jeanieolahful]

This is so beautiful. You really are such wonderful parents. I can’t imagine what happened with that other adoption situation, but I’m so glad he ended up where he belongs. It’s obvious what a happy, loving, son and big brother that he is. I also believe in open adoption. I know it’s not always the option, but when it is it’s a beautiful thing. Thank you for sharing and showing others the joy and challenges of your large gorgeous family

[@NikiLivi5]

Y’all are amazing for doing this for him and all of your kids! I’d love to foster kids. Unfortunately, after 5 kids of our own my hubby says he’s done.

[@megchris7685]

Been watching your content for days now!! Alex seems like such a smart and loving young man! I’m Currently traveling from my new home in PA to the old home in UPSTATE NY to sell it! You and your family are such a blessing and I enjoy watching daily! You shorts are calming my nerves as I ride back in this rainstorm! Have a happy Sunday!💕

[@hillarygroundwell2807]

What a wonderful thing for you to do paying for the flight for Alex' s Mum.You are parents in a million ❤

[@michellesmith7060]

Very interesting I have always wanted to do Foster Care but unfortunately I was born with a bone disorder that has made working hard and I have 4 children of my own so we have never really financially been able to do it. I have a good friend who was abused in Foster Care so I have been wanting to do it since I was very young but life had other plans. To see your family really gives me hope that seeing this more people will at least talk about this major issue facing our society... ✌️✌️❤️❤️❤️

[@donnamoreau150]

U dont have to have tons of money to foster

[@KFARRAR71]

My niece an nephew got adopted a couple of years ago. And my daughter and niece is the same age and was so close before they got adopted. I’ve reached out so many times to just meet at the park, anything to see my niece and nephew. But unfortunately they will not respond. I respect you so much for letting your children,if they want, to stay in touch with their biological family. Certain circumstances I can understand the adopted family not wanting kids to be in touch with bio family members.

[@hattyburrow716]

You’re amazing ❤️

[@PreppyEmma14]

🧡🧡🧡 I love the Dougherty Dozen soooo much

[@beckypeak9373]

I had a family member, who asked me to take his girlfriends baby that we thought he was the Dad, but found out he was not the Dad. It's a long story but, at age 2 we adopted him, he is now 7 and he began saying that we were not his parents that he thought we found him in the forest. But I think it is not fair to keep him from her and I was thinking of reaching out to her and see if she would want to be apart of his life. It is hard for me because I have had him since birth, and my heart breaks to think of losing him. But I just feel he needs to meet her and see how it would go. Thank you for sharing your story. Praying for you all. Blessings above and beyond.

[@IloveyouJesus03]

You’ll always be his mum. Maybe he needs to meet her to answer those questions?

[@beckypeak9373]

Thank you for the reply. I am praying for God to show when is the right time. I don't want to jump to soon. But don't want to wait to long. God bless you and your beautiful family, thanks for the things you bring to the table.

[@mariahknisley4916]

Such an amazing family!

[@rvcuisinemarysway]

I love love this story...omg so sweet!

[@rhoadestraveled]

What a beautiful spirit you have!

[@ConstantCompanion]

My parents adopted twins..which were actually my second cousins. So..we of course knew their mother but she was in such bad shape that by the time she was able to connect with them..it was pretty much too late. Thank you for explaining the sugar addiction! I had no idea! I couldn't for the life of me understand why the oldest (by 12 minutes) wasn't interested in anything but chocolate milk and mashed potatoes. It's taken years..almost to the point of too late .but they're coming along. Thank you for sharing

[@kathiduffy1723]

U r incredible!

[@RV1701]

I love how respectful you are about their privacy, and of course yours. Very Beautiful

[@linhaton4957]

I really like it when you talk in your videos.

[@ic9310]

I´m glad for Alex and your family that the meeting with his birth mother went well.

[@rosetta-kittytarot7093]

You and your husband are one in a million! May god bless all of you xx 😘

[@jillywells1232]

You are amazing! May God Bless You and Yours. ♥️♥️♥️

[@rachaelnuchols764]

Wow! So awesome! God bless you and your family ❤. Praying for everyone.

[@boniacuna8573]

Thank you for sharing this story Ms. Alisha it’s true and I agree with you. I my self can’t have children and have been looking into fostering and adopting what hindered me from doing so is that I know that fostering means I have to let go it hard to open your heart then having that little one leave. I have learned a lot and feel much better to start fostering and adopting I feel it a calling for me.🌻🌻🌻abundant blessings to you all. Much love for the whole family.

[@MissyWissy2001]

As someone who was given up after I was born overseas- I think adoptions should be open. I have MS and since I don’t know my bio family- I have no idea of any medical family issues. Also- being adopted I don’t know when my true birthday is only when I was found on the police station steps. It’s like I don’t have a true identity because everything about me is so unknown. Anyone actually reading this who wants to adopt- please at least if possible let the kids know their birth family. I have tried the 23nme, AncestryDNA but have never been able to find anything other than 3rd and 4th cousins which is not really helpful.

[@MissyDcherrydaisypie25]

I’m pretty new to your vlogs still but I’m curious if Alex knows his bio dad as well ? I’ve never heard much mention . I am so happy you were able to reunite he and his mom it seems they have a beautiful relationship now .

[@jomoore147]

U are an angel

[@moore.k9028]

the good fight 🧡

[@tammy5362]

Awesome you have a great family

[@lindamcauley4728]

You are amazing. God bless you all xx

[@elliejobe2512]

Thank you for sharing this with us. I wish only the best for your family. Are you ever afraid of losing the kids when they get older?

[@crystalwarren5718]

I agree . I believe every child Deserves to know who their biological parts are. Even if they aren't what we we want for the child. They have the right and need to find the answers to the questions they have. I believe that a basic human right.

[@truebluelozz]

You are an 😇 You are amazing 🥰🥰🥰

[@deedee55686]

Wow. Amazing

[@madamemaura]

what does LWM submission mean?

[@Kaylaakakay]

I’m so sorry I have to ask, what does LWM mean?

[@generalhospitalfans]

I love watching your videos and I love the kids and you guys for taking them in you don't have to tell me if you don't want to but which one is your biology children

[@brandyfreeman4098]

@Glenda Inman, Zoey, Dash, Bodhi & Harlee are her 4 bio kids. She discusses it in another video somewhere 😀

[@KrisBowlr]

You>>>>>😇💖

[@fubar1491]

💛

[@linhint6434]

What is LWM? Thanks! 🙂

[@TheAshley9697]

That’s my ?. I’m just not as knowledgeable in this area….

[@brandyfreeman4098]

@Lin Hint, I believe it stands for Love What Matters

[@rochelleb973]

You and your husband are amazing

[@moanauerata-jennings1158]

You guys are one special family💕

[@adrianacarballude]

I think it' s wonderful you gave those kids a home. On the other hand, I think it's awful how you make public every aspect of their lives. You are putting them in danger exposing them to all the possible dangerous people that surf the net.

[@julierollins7676]

That is awesome

[@t_jbjorkfam813]

Does Alex still speak to his bio mom?

[@Literally_Kyle]

I think so

[@junebuchholtz287]

Yes!!!!💓

[@glendaruff125]

Which one is Alex? I'm new.

[@asmaalsuwaidi386]

the oldest

[@weepangoons]

What’s LWM?

[@brandyfreeman4098]

@weepangoons, I believe it stands for Love What Matters

[@joyce9523]

🧡🧡🧡

[@mrswi2kbug]

Thanks for sharing

[@lindahempel1666]

❤❤❤

[@agracefilledlife1397]

💞

[@LindsayDoepel]

I thought Alex is a teenager? Unless you have more than one Alex in your Family?

[@rhonah2255]

It’s Alex’s story.

[@suzannerockall4030]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@RedRockz]

What is LWM Submission?

[@gribbler1695]

Love What Matters site.

[@elliejobe2512]

P.S. I am open to being adopted. :) Couldn't think of a better family.

[@junebuchholtz287]

Me too lol

[@bogchamp5627]

the heck is lwm

[@gribbler1695]

Love What Matters site.

[@johnbuschman8815]

Why in the world did you pay for Alex's mother Air fare?? She could have at least done that!! It seems very selfish of her!!! Joan

[@YeshuaKingMessiah]

Becuz the whole thing wasn’t about them or his mom. It was about ALEX and he needed to see his mom. Simple.