My husband followed me to Europe to destroy my life, cut off my nose and damage my face | LNN

[@LynnNgugi]

Hello Team LNN, I hope we can all learn from Abbie's story:) What message do you have for her, feel free to connect with her here youtube.com/@abbiemumbi To share your story with us, send a summary to [e-mail] or [e-mail] for consideration Thank you so much for watching:)

[@stellahmarriswambuwah9919]

GOD BLESS YOU ABBY AND LNN TEAM🌹🙏🏾 THANKS BE TO GOD MY DAUGHTER IS BACK WITH ME AFTER STAYING WITH HER NARCISSIST FATHER FOR 8 YRS WHEN I LEFT HIM AND CAME TO WORK IN SAUDI ARABIA TO SAVE MY LIFE.💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@joykuria9844]

Hello Lynn ngugi ,i need your help .i did wrong and i can't face it i need you to help me seek forgiveness aky

[@carolinew1476]

I always look to.my mother for strength..she has gone through a lot and she is the reason am.here...my father is like this or even worse I don't know am.really glad she had strength to leave and waited for us to grow up till we can stand on our own two feet then she move!! Who.knows what she had been going through all that time. More reason as to why am.always scared of getting married up to now35 yes and no child no husband to call my own.. Women and men go through gh alot in general as well as men..its a tough world out here only God sees us through to the very end. Thank-you Lynn for the people you bring to your show I also get inspired and encouraged and learn alot as well.

[@Bogohoney]

Lynn..when you forgive do you call the person and tell them I forgive you

[@lovedbyYahweh-ne1bw]

Such an amazing testimony..

[@jeddymoon3803]

“I don’t think people realize how much strength it takes to pull your own self out of a poisonous situation with someone you love deeply. So if you’ve done that today or any day, I’m proud of you.”

[@doreennkonge94]

People have no idea at all! Its so hard. Took me almost 20yrs. Family and friends gave up on me coz they felt it was me refusing to let go..hawajui sio easy. Anyone going through the same please be patient one day they will leave and dust off.

[@sadelshiko7210]

I walked out on a new year last year, as people were celebrating entering into a new year it was exact 1 hour into a new year he almost killed me with my girl, but I thank God I manage to excape, what hurts me to date is that my baby girl usually asks "mum bona daddy alikua ananifinika na pillow Ile siku nashindwa kupumua" this word uwa zinanihurt sana his aim was auwe mtoto then me next but I remember that day I had told God to show me the way and intervienne because I was in a toxic marriage, he used to beat me adi naogopa kwenda hosy juu sasa ntaambiana nn, atimes mad at myself on why I allowed someone to torture me like that besides the abuse also totured my baby mentally, but all in all I thank God I moved on with my baby Gods grace has been sufficient to us I secured a job in Dubai late last year at least I can pay fee for her and give her a good life. One day Lynn I'll really like to share my story in your channel to motivate someone

[@ephatmaina2657]

Spoken like a thousand people

[@Jojo-pv3uf]

@@doreennkonge94in hindsight what could have family done kama hautaki? You’re an adult, take some responsibility for your life. People watachoka. Its you getting abused not them, so getting out of the situation is also you.

[@hawarajabu4130]

Mi

[@abbiemumbi]

Thanks Lynn. GOD Bless you for allowing me to minister to God's people on your platiform

[@neyomi8155]

You're such a fighter Abbi...from your story as a 23 year old single mum I have learn a huge lesson...forgiving doesn't mean people have to reconnect🙂

[@margaretmutuku2159]

Abbie you are such a kind hearted mother to me

[@beverleybrathwaite396]

Keep Rising Queen Abbie. ❤

[@sonyia7521]

Wow, we are more blessed to have listened to you, such an inspiration. It gives us hope. We are agemates and am so inspired as a mother of grown children. Blessings to you Abby.

[@yvonnemartine9408]

❤️❤️❤️

[@chriskianga2666]

Been watching lyns episodes and I sweared to myself that I will Love my woman like no other mans business when I get married..have learned alot through all the episodes

[@MarthaMuiru]

👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾and I pray you get a woman who will appreciate you and love you back with everything they've got

[@sonniem5315]

Pray you mean each word and may God guide you also may you have a woman who matches your vision of a peaceful union

[@chriskianga2666]

@@sonniem5315 Amen 🙏

[@willhector9478]

Remember to pray for a good wife too, I do pray for my son that when the right time comes my son will be blessed with a good wife too 🙏

[@jeriothmbai2108]

May God give you a deserving and equally respectful woman

[@camille121]

That’s why I left my very abusive hubby. He stabbed me , I was a punching bag and thank God for my house help then, otherwise would be 6 feet under.I knew it was time. Applied green card, by Gods grace I won. I left with my two kids to USA and left the abuser behind and for Good. 10 years God has been so faithful. I had to build my self esteem again, love myself again. Was hard to forgive but I had to.Big up to all women who emerge strong after abuse.

[@keiyhabib8573]

❤️

[@tezetaaschalew6468]

Thank you,God is good

[@annyarinze1326]

I thank God for you and i also pray to God ,that did it for you will do it for us too in Jesus name Amen

[@jusb2355]

Oh wow.God's good

[@blessedangie1847]

I tap this blessing

[@panafrican.nation]

1:15:38 this lady said exactly what I was thinking when I started watching this video. If the people who are violent in marriages have anger issues, why is it that they're not out there fighting everyone else in society? If anything, some maintain well put together, holier than thou images in public

[@abbiemumbi]

They are charmers! Making everyone believe you are the bad guy

[@zipporahnjauimwe6963]

I had a toxic mother in law n her son would always say its because of old age that she was so insultive to me n I would ask him "how come your mother gets old only on myself n not this other woman who is living here with us in the same compound*

[@panafrican.nation]

@@zipporahnjauimwe6963 Pole sana

[@abbiemumbi]

Thanks. Your on point in your observation

[@cate1175]

@@abbiemumbi your strong woman 💪

[@florenceachieng]

Whenever I listen to this story about a mother being abused,it really breaks my heart,A lot of woman go through Gbv everyday

[@carlosmakau3634]

Florence, while I acknowledge that women have been the traditional victims of GBV, men go through a lot of this abuse today but they can't talk about it in public due to stigma. This is a societal issue and spouses need to be sensitized about mutual respect. Negative conflict and violence doesn't solve relationship problems.

[@carolyneogutu6489]

Sure. I grew up in a violent home, now I'm taking antidepressants. It's so traumatic.

[@florenceachieng]

@@carolyneogutu6489 hugs mama

[@martoscorner]

@@carlosmakau3634 what I can advise any one wanting to be involved in relationships is to pray for your Godly anointed partner otherwise, stay without, its not bringing kids to this world in an environment not favorable.

[@gladysnyakenyanya8758]

Me too

[@nancyblessing8411]

Narcissist personalities know who to go for. They can be men or women and one major charateristic that they have is that they do not want anyone or anything that takes attention away from themselves. Abuse starts when children are born to the couple or the victim chooses to advance themselves via education or business or are earning more money. The victims are easy going, fully trusting, hard working, and empaths. Abbie I thank God that you are alive.

[@WanjiruMuya]

That's too much hatred from that man😑Mumbi you are a Warrior ✊ Merry Christmas Team LNN

[@abbiemumbi]

Hey Wanjiru Muya. Awesome to see you here darling gal

[@karichsamoei4630]

True ......merry Christmas too

[@marynjeri5176]

Merry Christmas wanjiru

[@gracemwendia341]

Oh my God! I knw her she was my mum's friend before she left kenya. I heard about her story and have been asking God what happened after. Am grateful to God now. Thanks Lynn.

[@tabithashultz6377]

This story is similar to mine, I survived the abuse after moving to the US and having my husband deported due to abuse. Whenever I think of the whole thing and about my survival and that of my children I see the hand of God

[@phoebeadikinyi3441]

Hugs mummy,hope hamkurudiana na the nigga

[@margybernard]

That’s terrible. Why so much violence?

[@juliahkamau8792]

When she said"for the sake of my young child God save me" Faith moves mountain. She's a strong woman.

[@lydiajackson8081]

Praise God u made it

[@rosemarynganga9951]

Mama you are a great woman of God. Its well you are alive. You are a heroin. You will see your third generation and praised God.

[@annkamau4144]

That bit about Kikuyu men wanting the woman children to suffer when the part ways is sooo true.

[@ruthnjoroge693]

True mine wishes My children to grow up poor and may be I die early and leave them suffering

[@aesinam]

@@ruthnjoroge693 God won't let that happen! He's with you and your children.

[@janeateka1148]

Any man who is violent and a narcissist feels this way for their kids and wife after parting ways ...they are animals in human skin I tell you..

[@PetonillaNzomba]

Very true

[@user-wr9fn4ny4i]

Kikuyu women are trick too.

[@nkirotevictoria2667]

The worst thing that can happen to a person is to have their pain undermined. To hear people say abuse is normal. Where I come from I've observed alot of abuse in my home and in neighbouring homes but the women don't leave because of 1. What people will say 2. What will become of my kids 3. This man can get us from anywhere 4. I'll loose my position in society 5. I'm not worthy of anything better And a million other things. Thank you Abbie for sharing your story. You are a strong woman.

[@bornstrong2227]

Especially children 😂😂African woman sits there😂😂

[@muchanetamadondo9066]

The kind of society l come from.

[@Alyciah]

What I can say God is the source,..get out, invest in a skill, n God. U will b alright ❤

[@lucyndege7679]

She is my sister’s best friend….continue winning Mumbi

[@doreenmwenda939]

My dear women, never love anyone more than yourself. Always love yourself first, being single & happy is far better than staying in abusive relationship or marriage

[@TheBizuzu]

Mungu Akubariki Doreen Mwenda....Well said ...no one is born to die for another person ...Our Lord and Savior Jesus-Christ of Nazareth did ! We should love ourselves first!

[@Jojo-pv3uf]

Even the Bible says love your neighbor AS YOU LOVE YOURSELF. Its a commandment to love yourself, for its only with the love we have within can we love others.

[@brendakabanda2181]

I hope my African sisters take this to heart and choose themselves. Being abused to continue someone's bloodline isn't worth it.

[@lizsarah4580]

Well said

[@kidsentertainmenthub4126]

Well said sissie iv even learnt how not to attach feelings,so when i smell any form of disrespect i leave faster than i came in and forget that i ever knew you.

[@veronicambiyu5359]

As a survivor of domestic abuse I think we need an action plan for Kenyan women. There should be cultural and religious re-education. The discussion concerning what men are taught during initiation need to be addressed.

[@rosebellewaihenya4888]

I see this lady and her kid, she lives near my mum. Her story was in a lot of the media, am glad you did her story.

[@julieandega1505]

At my early 20s I was a victim....feared to be a single mom of only 1boy,never even shared my story with even my mom nor any friend.....feared about how people could view me... after 3yrs I got strength 💪 picked up my broken pieces and said enough is enough...I had to leave the country too and I managed to overcome everything....it wasn't an easy journey but I made it

[@mummyuk5c]

Well done. The Lord is thy shepherd.

[@Wanjiku_Ngugi]

Congratulations 🎊

[@sharifahnamutebi3232]

Alhamdullah

[@wilsongoli2747]

Wow, wow, wow !!!. It's not about anger management. Why didn't you hit you boss or parents or the wall? It's about power. I'm a man, but this helps me to counsel people I know who are going through abuse. Thank you, Lynn for you work. Thank you, Aunty Abbie

[@ritaallahmagani4248]

Thanks very much for this wonderful eye opening talk . It is an eye opener for us abusers that are lost on what to do.

[@StellaEmmanuel]

God bless you, Africa need people like you to change for the better

[@annemwangi2411]

You are amazing my friend Mumbi ,all the back in Botswana to UK.I remember all how strong and encouraging you always were.....you are a true testimony of Gods love....

[@murenenellus7850]

My heart sunk🙆🏻‍♂️🥲this could have been me🙆🏾‍♀️ I went through all this lady went through and even worse, BUT I almost brought him to stay with us in Europe thinking he will be better. My gutts stopped me, the phone harrasment and abuse. God save your children🙌🏽

[@abbiemumbi]

Your guts dud you well. Gut feeling is usually right ✅️

[@abbiemumbi]

Let us listen to our 6th sense or gut feeling. At least give ourselves the time advantage.

[@Joyful-gu5bj]

Whenever I listen to content about abusive marriage, it scares me to get married Your Destiny is surely in the hands of God and no devil, no man has power over your destiny until God calls you home himself.

[@emilykibicho3359]

I love this interview. It's good to see the scars though, don't try to forget the scars. The scars are your trophies to remind you of the battles you have won, your strength .

[@abbiemumbi]

It is not possible to forget the scars. I see them everything I look in the mirror. But God has healed me from the pain. God gave me beauty for ashes. Ps 118;13. You pushed me violently so I may fall(die), BUT the Lord helped me. 🙏

[@catherinewanjirukinyua888]

Lynn thank you. Abigael thank you. “It’s not just a face”. I decided to watch at the edge of my “watch decision” to not trigger anything in my healing journey. Grateful I managed. That part of arrogance, and assuming that all is well and as a woman you are not going anywhere, you permanently deserve his abuse- “the Valentine phone call”, the person who asked her when she was straight from hospital, she should go to see the husband in prison, he is still the husband”. It’s very sad, the mindset. There’s much to be done in my beloved country Kenya and I am grateful for that the once who know what that means are taking initiative in giving solutions in their own small way. Thank you.

[@kidsshow1919]

Please lynn help baby sagini junior whose eyes were gouged out get Justice, please visit that baby too give him a hug on my behalf once you get there , I can't imagine the pain that innocent child went through for 6 hours

[@reneerenee1792]

Forgiveness is devine, but never go back to your abuser. This is touching. Am a victim of abuse, the healing process is a journey and not easy.

[@jenniferkamonjo7126]

She is a really strong woman.. I thank God for sustaining her and keeping her alive .Just like Esther she is here for a time like this to encourage others.

[@jaquellyneazangu7037]

I always see wale wa Mimi ndio wakwanza naomba tulikes sijui ni za kuuza🤗 haya Leo ni Mimi abeg👍

[@patriciakoroma587]

Aunty Abby, so glad to hear your story. Domestic violence is really soul destroying, the child/children are also affected by these abuses.

[@hannahngigi162]

She is a gem. I would call her gold that has really gone through a real fire. May she live long to give this testimony to generations after generations. My mom died as a result of domestic violence at only 38 years. I was 19 and we were left four of us! We have seen the Lord working through us as we give back what God has given to the community.

[@kukundaevas327]

This is another touching one. 💔

[@thobekamtembu8578]

1

[@hannahngigi162]

@@thobekamtembu8578 Thanks

[@hannahngigi162]

@@kukundaevas327 Thank you so much!

[@sherri2843]

Hannah Ngigi, Wow! My condolences. Rip to your Mom.

[@becsower5978]

I can relate with you mum..God bless you so much for sharing... I missed being killed by my ex-husband with a dagger very narrowly... Thanks God to someone who got no peace until she called me and told me to escape... God bless those who helped me escape to a women shelter safely.... We must learn how to spot these red flags in advance🙏.

[@Annah21526]

I rule out that singleness has never killed any one.

[@julietkutegeka1513]

True but children are the main reason here and anyone can have a child

[@gladysgitau7458]

Exactly 💯

[@susanwanjiruwairimu6339]

Yes also God always help when you walk out

[@Mother.Confessor]

Aki being single, dating, married or celibate doesn't protect you from violence or death by the hand of a human. I fear humans.

[@janetwairagu4462]

Do you guys know that most of the marriàges in the 80s were horrific stories like this ? With most of the women doing emotional labour and giving up their dignity to keep the society happy and maintain social respectability while being beaten every day ? The number of people who have had to keep up this rousse are many. Ukiona grown women who want nothing to do with their dads in the old age ,this is the reason . Abuse ,sabbotage and trauma.

[@MariaMutua-bw6kk]

Isn't it just that?,..."Am more than Just a face", this is so powerful, this Mama is so awesome,❤❤A seed of God will never be cut off,Abbie is a system of Grace,a movement of abundance,her children are so lucky to have such a mother.Love you mum,Lynn you know you are our gem,❤🎉, to you women receive your flowers 🌹🌹🌹.

[@selfaakinyi2986]

I WISH MY SISTER COULD LEAVE HER MARRIAGE, EVERY DAY I SEE HER CALL AM SO SCARED I FEEL SOMETHING HAS HAPPENED TO MY SISTER, I HOPE SHE WILL COME OUT ALIVE TO RAISE HET 3KIDS,🙏🏽

[@missrono9045]

💗Sending Hugs Akinyi. Am praying for you, mom and your sister. Keep your heart strong. Keep talking to her, keep listening, it is not in vain.

[@selfaakinyi2986]

Amen

[@annitotia11]

May God protect your sister Akinyi... when you are in an abusive relationship only other people see it takes God intervention for the person to walk out...

[@sharonkiruki9239]

@@annitotia11 true

[@aisharicci6400]

People really don't talk about the anguish and helplessness families of abused people go through. Most times these families and friends try all they can to get their loved ones out of the abusive situation but only the abused can make the final decision of walking out!

[@Wakama783]

This are the kind of women who should be running FIDA. An experience is worth a theory talk in class. The western world protects women. If we can't learn from Botswana then where??? There's so much domestic violence in Kenya but they've nowhere to run to. Hence the question, where do I go??? Can we give them a solace??? Am talking from a sister in law who sees this every time I travel back home. Lynn Fanya kitu fungua Safe house

[@eveoirongo7081]

True. How I wish there can be a safe house and opportunity to exit for resetting. May God grant Lynn partners for saving lives.

[@zubodospectacular8598]

This is such a powerful testimony, thank you mum for sharing. It was such a difficult thing to go through, we all thank God, how you chose healing despite going through such a terrible difficult thing.

[@thato97]

Thanks you. I am from Botswana. When we tell people that we are far much better than any African countries only that we keep low profile. People think we are nothing but better.In Botswana free education and free health care.

[@rexona1178]

Are you competing only with people below you, typical mentality of us Africans. There are countries in South East Asia that were far poor but are now inventing things. What are your people doing with all their resources and what is their level of IQ?

[@muisyofrancis4371]

MAKOROKOTO

[@alicemachoka446]

Am your neighbor here

[@winnieshikanga9235]

Soooo

[@janethbyegon]

It's why I want to go to Botswana one day soon.

[@salomemainatv]

Oooh what a sad 😔 story! The Lord having rescued you from jaws of death, I just thank God for your life. Thanks mama for sharing.

[@chaniawillow]

What a strong and inspiring woman. And she's even more beautiful now than in the older photos. Peace is everything. God bless you mum! I am so happy that you are free. Thank you for sharing that abuse is emotional all the way to physical. People underestimate the damage of emotional abuse. Keep educating our society esp to improve systems.

[@doreenmwenda939]

Dear Abbi, you're so beautiful and sorry for what you went thru. Kindly, If in an abusive relationship or marriage , please check out

[@jacklinewanjiru5685]

Thank you lynn for bringing Abbie on the show, she's really a strong woman You loved someone who never reciprocated the same to you

[@narashanancy7223]

..This is the strongest woman I have ever seen! Her attitude is beyond us. God bless you Abbie some more!

[@eunicewariara9809]

Went through the same violence, those things can really confuse and drain you badly, I later found out that I was married to a narcissist, and offcourse you know how hard it is to leave to pple, but I finally left being stubbed all over my body 3 yrs ago.. steal in the healing process and I can tell you that am very peaceful now

[@annewangui1043]

This lady Abbie oozes so much positivity, she's definitely touching many hearts. May God continue blessing her

[@adrianochieno6131]

This lady has the strength of an elephant and a heart of a lion. Pole sana dada. You suffered so much yet you have become stronger than ever

[@bibiananjambi5383]

Thanks Lynne for hosting Abbie she is such an inspiration. Empathy not sympathy as Abbie says gives solutions

[@dineomocoach]

I am here inspired by her bravery and determination to keep going against all odds. Abbi thank you for sharing our Botswana with the rest of the world, it’s quite interesting to hear what people say about my country, glad that you found Emang Basadi Movement to be progressive. Lynn, there is just something about you show. Love you sis, you are doing an amazing job. 🌟🌟🌟🌟Keep shining . Much love

[@micky5857]

Thanks very much my dear sister women domestic violence are more than we can even think of. Your so strong. We should not feel ashamed of bringing it out.

[@Mother.Confessor]

Very moving and eye opening. One day we'll all face the truth and our demons. Narcissists know no boundaries. They can control and manipulate you from another planet. Glad you got out, glad you and yours are well.

[@Rhoda_Wangare]

He was a charmer..most abusive ones are good to other people except their spouses.

[@pammurithi4331]

This stories are a lesson to those who are in abusive marriages or situations. Lynn can you imagine my 9yr old boy told me today that he would want to meet you. Reason I don't know why.

[@sherryrazan8690]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Zintlle]

Ur doing something right

[@b2772]

Abuse is real and very traumatising.😪😪 Praise God aunt your life came out of such toxitism.

[@evejblessing5401]

Following Lynn 2022 was worthy, Happy new year Lynn Ngugi

[@MburawaUK]

Am shocked this happened in UK. Abby thank you for sharing your story, very proud of you mum. May God bless you.

[@KuiWaKamau]

Waaa! This is deep & tragic. The enemy came to steal, destroy and later to kill. We thank God that the enemy was defeated coz he didn't accomplish his "mission" to kill Mumbi. God above all 😇🌻❤💯✔ #SayNoToAnyKindOfViolence

[@abbiemumbi]

No to any kind of violence

[@ireneodero1492]

That man is perfect example of a narcissist. They begin as prince charming then they evolve to bitterness

[@juddiewandera]

I am encouraged to follow my dream even after just listening to what Lynn has just read from our guest today. Abby the inspirer🙏🙏

[@nancyhunja915]

Thanks Lynn for bringing this lady. So sorry Mumbi but God saved you from death that you may magnify His name.

[@estellasimpson9975]

Abbie.. Abbie.. Abbie you’re loved by God. You were saved for a reason 🙏🙏☝️❤️❤️ may you continue to inspire others. This story has left me speechless.

[@Hewala]

Hello Abbi. Hello Lynn. So proud of you both. Greetings from Geneva. I admit I haven’t been in your situation Abbi, but I nearly was long time ago with some guy then my aunt’s voice came in my head. (The guy did touch me but he was hoping up and down like a baboon beating his chest) my aunt had told me that if you feel threatened when a man raises his voice, run and don’t ever go back because it will come to nasty bruises. I escaped and no amount of pleading got me back. My aunt RIp was a Catholic nun and a counselor in the villages. I was lucky and helped someone close too years younger with the same advise. Now with two grown up kids, boy and girl I pass on that same message. Would love to meet up next time when in the UK. Thank you for sharing.

[@Ijusthavequestions]

Like a baboon 🤣. That's funny. Glad ulikanyaga kubwa kubwa mapema.

[@ruthwaithera1065]

This is so brave of Abbie. We thank God for healing her. I pray that everyone gets the courage to walk away as hard as it can be. I crave for a time where will stop normalizing abuse,where we will understand that we can still be very good parents albeit separated.

[@carolyneogutu6489]

It's true, abusers are charming to other people so that when you're hurt no one will believe. I remember my violent and tyrant father when selling harvest he would add soooooo much to neighbors yet we were not allowed to take a portion to eat. We grew and harvested much then he sold everything and my mum had to buy the same for us to survive. Sad❗

[@beatriceobegi8577]

Sad

[@sanyuelpuganda3581]

Yes.. Forgiveness is a must! Just sharing a quote " If you do not forgive, it is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die"

[@claudiaorgill4785]

She is so humble, who would want to treat her badly.

[@liznyaga3918]

There's something really beautiful about this lady, she speaks with a lot of grace. I just love her and love her story of courage. God must be the center of her life, coz this can only be God.

[@rosedhieu8618]

Abbi is such a strong woman. This story is just one in many untold ones. Glad Abby and others who are sharing their experiences will help others who are undecided in an abusive relationship be it male or female. However, female victims are more especially in countries where domestic violence has been normalised.

[@margaretwambui8213]

Very true this is just a tip of the iceberg

[@hylinekwamboka7611]

This is a strong woman...its still very difficult for both men and women to take such bold steps from toxic relationships. Lynn, thanks alot for the show. We have great stories to share when the right time comes.

[@Moniq-j8f]

Such a sad story yet inspiring at the same time. Abbie is resilient and wise ,patient too. She's going places. She has come this far because she released and accepted to forgive. So many ladies are suffering in silence is better to take a stand like Abbie. Thank you Lynn vfor airing that story. You're so blessed.

[@nyamburarachel8184]

Marriage has really changed its meaning 😥

[@gloriouswomandaily]

Sadly...but all is not lost

[@athyjudy5682]

So sad🥲

[@isaacm-kenya9172]

As long as you continue watching negative stories your statement will remain true. There are very functional marriage and good husbands.I am not sure which channel to refer you to.... Filter what you need to watch and hear. Tafuta positive stories

[@nyamburarachel8184]

@@isaacm-kenya9172 kindly direct me to those channels

[@payingitforwardwithcarol]

@@isaacm-kenya9172 what of us who grew up in homes where the only thing we saw was violence. I have been trying to let go but weuh. When I sleep all the episodes starts playing in my mind

[@doricahkerubodoricah1885]

I have been honoured to work with Mumbi and she is amazing and inspirational

[@rejoicevanderwalt8232]

This is so real and so much needed in our society. What a strong wise black woman. Now teaching us practically. Thank you ma'am Abbie Mumbi you are a rock indeed. Sister Lynn may God continue to inspire you in this work. Thank you very much you are indeed an evangelist to the broader African community.

[@MsKairetu]

Oh God, how much can one person suffer. Stigma to single parenting is still very common but I have parented my own with joy and peace. I would rather be alone than be with a man who I dread to see every evening. May God helps us all 🙏

[@teresagacheru7340]

What a beauty inside out !? She's too bold n one in a million to came out n share such a life threatening happening ! Am inspired n have learnt alot from the testimony. It can never be over before it's over! Kudos Madam n may the Almighty continue strengthening you to writing more educative n inspirational books🔥👏👏👏

[@phoebelukelabibombanga8956]

I'm more than a face more than just a name it's not over until God says so I'm encouraged

[@alicenjoroge1501]

Waaaa this is my story .Taking me down the lane again.Thanks lynn

[@joddymartha7296]

I am more than just a face ! This is more than just an inspiration oh my God🙏🏼

[@shee3393]

I believe one day Lynn I'll share my story 😭

[@giftytengey2066]

Thanks Lynn for another educative interview. Indeed our strength comes from the Lord. It has taken your guest years to heal, her experience has made her a stronger person. Life is precious, let's all be take care of ourselves. Bless you Lynn. Gifty from Ghana 🇬🇭

[@mercyjackline2518]

More than just a face 🙏

[@rosewanjie4992]

So sad!!! But happy that Mumbai has healed!!! May God Almighty remember women!!

[@phyljohns7778]

She's super strong and quite a charming survivor. It's a very difficult decision to make. It's more difficult even with narcissists. May God help people in marriages. It's tough

[@mmanongntoane8335]

What an inspiring story. You don't know how many women have gone through this and have kept silent. Thank you for taking up the role of advocacy for women. Wish you the best in all your endeavours.

[@Faykyms]

I remember back 2018 somewhere at a house I had rented,my so called boyfriend I loved that time ,decided to slaughter me and then himself,guys it was 1am at night I really fought for my life guys,the knife ilinikata mikono only and I managed to throw the knife through a door ikaanguka nje and then alikua amefunga nyumba na kufulia na akaeka funguo kwa mfuko,my guys when I managed to throw the knife away the guy alianguka chini na akaanza kulia uncontrollably,mm nikachukua funguo ,I opened the door na tangu nitoroke upto date sijui kama ako hai ama ako wapi,it was over.sikuamini if I could over power a man,I thank God for my life today,he was determined to kill me completely alikua ameniambia watu watakuja kujua tuko ndani juu ya harufu

[@lucywairimu9236]

Long live dear sister

[@jlmchannel5579]

Nasty experience ,bless the Lord at all times 🙏🏿

[@tabbiemwas7478]

Glad u took power in ur hands to direct ur life .

[@Faykyms]

Was really a nasty experience,could tell the man was feeling so disappointed when he didn't manage to accomplish his mission,he knew he had lost it all, allowing me to escape alive,yani I didn't know a man can reach a point of feeling like he can own you ,such that even if you decide to walk away and begin a life on your own,he knows definitely you will make it because am a Nurse and I could hustle here and there,I remember that night begging him to spare me because I was the only hope of my family,he said he want to disappoint them😭😭,will never forget upto date I do have phobia with knives ata nikikosana na mtu first thing I do think of where the knife is😭

[@lizznjeri9231]

@@Faykyms woi mungu anakupenda,

[@charitykoech2677]

I associate with that feeling of getting stressed towards evening at the thought of going back to my abusive husband😥

[@phyljohns7778]

You will overcome

[@tsiheriambooka1137]

It is well my dear

[@tabbiemwas7478]

Please take charge of ur life

[@carolinebadia7049]

This story should open your eyes. Please flee! What are you waiting for?

[@annmuchai6200]

Pray and ask God for guidance to do the right thing.

[@shidahmwenifumbo937]

She went through the most 😢and so scary 😟 What a brave mama and also God is faithful 😢

[@raziahcheptoo9390]

she is strong.More than just a face,is my take home today ,lynn you are a blessing

[@ngozinwankwo5051]

Abbie is a wonderful person and makes a lot of sense. I love the fact that she can laugh again

[@monicaopondo2150]

Lynn, I have realised that every girl brought up by loving and peaceful parents, admire their parents and are always positive towards marriage, but most of them end up in toxic and brutal marriages. I am one of them. And many more I know are victims! Lynn, its sad.

[@daisychemutai9967]

Very true Monica.I agree with you.

[@mugabiamina5120]

So true ..same here

[@ruthdavid356]

I agree. I guess many overlook because they didn't see that happen at home and they became so hopeful that it will change someday. Big mistake

[@sallychepkosgei6923]

Some people were never meant to marry anyone I mean marriage is not meant for everyone.

[@ednahchirchir1924]

True

[@veraonsongo2338]

May you get many platforms to tell this powerful story to encourage people to walk away from abusive relationships. Power and respect to you WARRIOR QUEEN🎉🎉!!!

[@pollynkirote3762]

This is amazing Lynn for bringing this amazing story we learning and also appreciating our selves for who we are

[@vanessaandjan4406]

Have never seen a strong woman like her,she is very beautiful and God fearing,live long mum under care of God protection ❤🙏

[@margaretmbae2681]

I want the book 'More than just a face'

[@marjoriekashiri781]

Abbie is a great strong woman indeed. I admire her. Her story is a wake up call for me. That the then husband of hers was a demonised person. Her story actually has caused me to look at what is happening to me. In Abbie's case, at least there was a relationship between her and the evil man compared to my story. I am being abused by a man I had never had a relationship with. I don't have friends, he destroyed the friendships and even destroyed my relationships with my siblings. This is a man of high social standing and quite influential. By the grace of God I live. Yes, the Christian principles tell us to forgive those who do us wrong, but how do you forgive someone whom you don't even talk to, but abuses you through using other people who live near you? Forgiveness gives people a fresh start. It is a means of freeing the offender from the shackles of being abusive or of doing wrong to others, whatever is the case may be. It expresses hope that there is more to the person than their faults and failures. At the same time forgiveness frees the wronged person or the forgiving person from possible prison of anger, hatred and probably revenge. Forgiveness as well offers hope to the offended, making her or him realise that there is more to her or his heart than harbouring wounds. The cycle of evil begetting evil is broken by forgiveness, but in my case I find it hard to forgive the man because I don't know how I can do it. I tried to forgive the man even though I have never had any relationship with him and that he is robbing me my freedom to live in peace, I offered him my forgiveness. What happened after that, made me to realise that I was dealing with a person who was beyond reasoning with. He, instead of embracing the forgiveness and realise that he was in the wrong and move on, he doubled his abuse to me. And for his convenience and unfortunate for me, the person he uses is my next door neighbour. Life is unbearable for me. I think I have now reached a breaking point. I can't take it anymore. After listening to Abbie's story, it was a wake up call, if it means sleeping in the streets, I am prepared to do so to free myself from the abuse. Thank you for sharing this story. I am now hopeful that I can get out of this situation and have freedom and my life back.

[@doreenmwenda939]

She forgive him becoz it was her way of healing. She needed to let go.

[@florencegichomo1850]

Oooh my this woman is a great example awesome message God bless you as you grow your career ❤❤🙏

[@agnesnjeri8402]

Before I finish with the episode..I would like to congratulate team LNN for doing alot in that one week that you were in London..kudos🙌

[@iremwa776]

A survivor ! a strong Abigael, thank you for sharing your inspiring story, stay strong , you are a very courageous woman, blessings 🙏

[@gracemwangi1053]

I just love the whole conversation ❤️❤️❤️ the way she is trying to bring out the whole story for us to understand.... You are a hero and a testimony 🙏🙏🙏🙏 God saved you to save more ladies going through what you went through

[@susanmukasa4213]

You are such a great woman and a living testimony.Thanks for talking out to young people that for a good marriage,you don't get impress by what your eyes sees but the character.Your voice is the rescue of many people.

[@agnesnjeri8402]

Five years wasn't enough for that him to be in jail..that was so soo wrong,I thank God that the lady was strong enough to stand again..that was baad.."more than just a face"that deep

[@coralsky-o3h]

I know, the crime was premeditated attempted murder. I believe the govt so no need to spend taxpayers money on a non citizen criminal. So they gave him 5yrs & sent him right back to wherever he came from.