5 Signs You Might Be Genderfluid

[@lynnsaga1397]

I hope you all enjoyed this video. Let me know what some of the signs that helped you figure out you're genderfluid!

[@Zay_M.]

Other than in the video? It’s the whole “I’m completely sure I’m x” “Shirt- no now I’m most definitely y- what the heck?” And yes I enjoyed this video very much! Made me feel all happy and stuff!

[@Kermit_Da_frog916]

Lynn, I swear, you are a mind reader! I was just looking into the possibility of being gender fluid the other day! Thank you so much for making videos like this, It has really helped me along my questioning journey. You're the best!

[@GoofygamerxX]

Lynn the last sign and I another sign stood out to me, also I love your videos

[@rabanryssel137]

Mostly the euphoria. Putting on a dress,looking in the mirror and thinking "wow,this feels so extremely right" old people saying:"excuse me young lady" when wanting something from me. A Person that publically read a book i wrote where the name on the cover was only my initials,talking about "the girl or boy who wrote this" sometimes the most random stuff.

[@LD-mu4eg]

I'd like to hear about people who figured out they AREN'T "gender-fluid". I'm sure as some of you grow up you figure yourselves out.

[@marthamerrill2457]

I'm a senior citizen who's starting to feel free after 60 years. Thank you for this video. Wondering though because some days I feel maculine and other days feminine. I like wearing both clothing.

[@noonstar3435]

We of the younger generations are happy you're taking time to find yourself!!! More power to you and I'm glad youve learned a bit more about yourself :)

[@Whimsical_bisen]

This feels very validating to hear someone of the older generation talking about being genderfluid\queer ect. Constantly hearing about how “the younger generation is confused” or “were just being trendy” feels very invalidating, and even tho Ik it’s not true, it’s hard not to let it get to me sometimes, so thankyou for sharing this. It helps me remember that I am valid for questioning my gender and trying to go down this path of self discovery. I’m sorry you couldn’t do the same when you were younger 😔

[@IamwhatIam2012]

SAME! In my 60s and finally becoming comfortable in my own skin with my ever changing gender! It’s FUN!! 👏🏼👏🏼🎉🌈😝

[@MisterHamiltonn]

You're an inspiration. I love you, you go. You're amazing.

[@ImASimp32]

@@IamwhatIam2012I strive to be like you! I’m still trying to be comfortable as a young genderfluid but I know that it will get better. Thank you for reminding me of that!

[@bigbadankadonks]

how i realized i was genderfluid was when i realized it really upsets me that i can’t just switch between a man and woman’s body, that i “was stuck” just being one. i want to be seen as all gender and no gender

[@ruisenor8993]

I literally feel exactly like this. Maybe I am genderfluid.

[@iiviz3040]

Yea same I just want to be both 😭

[@nataterraturzelle8584]

THIS. THIS IS IT. *shakes multiple fictional characters of varying genders in aggressive gender envy*

[@xenia7335]

same

[@KitFrill]

Oh, I can relate to that bro!

[@iamahatnamedbilly6277]

my thing is that sometimes i want to appear masculine and boyish and i impulsively wish for short hair and want to wear that baggy alternative style that a lot of stylish guys wear, while other times i want to appear super cute and coquette with long girly hairstyles and skirts and cute dresses… i usually just see myself as a girl and refer to myself as she/her all the time, but even when i feel like i want to be and present as a guy, i still kind of see myself as a “girl” and just go with she/her… i genuinely don’t think my periods of wanting to “be a dude” is just me changing up my style to be more tomboy like, because i want to look, sound, and present like a dude overall, but i still internally feel like a girl :( i had a period of my life (during which i experienced the most intense desire to present as a man that i have felt up until super recently) where i was convinced that i was a trans man and that my feelings for this sentiment would slowly grow stronger, but then they switched up kind of abruptly and i wanted to be all girly and cute 😭😭 i honestly can’t tell if i’m gender fluid or not or if it’s just something like super internalised homophobia, but i’m kind of scared that i’m just convincing myself that i am when in actuality i’m just a girl who likes crossdressing as a dude sometimes 😭 the reason i started thinking about this so much recently was A) because i’ve recently started feeling pretty intensely that i just want to be a guy again, and B) i was weirdly super inspired by a character in a webcomic that i was reading… (💀) whenever they’re feeling like it, they do a full switch up, full wig, voice, name, and everything, from male presenting to female presenting, and i was just in awe about how much i wanted to be like them and just be able to switch myself like that at will 😭😭 it sounds so incredibly stupid that this scene was kind of my realisation, but it is what it is ig

[@さっちー-k8m]

Omg are u me? Cuz im just like that! Im literally like u

[@best_of_ant]

Gender alone at home be like: *feels quite comfortable with agab, doesn't have to worry what clothes to wear or worry about gender much because nobody is around* Gender outside home: *stresses about being percived as their agab, doesn't want to go and correct people because they might not understand it*

[@lynnsaga1397]

that's the biggest mood oh my god

[@eredemia5912]

Relatable 😞

[@DeusExMachinae01]

This.

[@Weird0sbackintown2490]

Why is it so relatable -

[@cerberus3856]

oops that sounds like me

[@radiochatter_]

i would be so much happier being genderfluid if i could shapeshift

[@theceoofeggmansempire5214]

Yeah, imagine being a man, woman, agender, nb, Solaris from S06, Wfc Trypticon, Flumpty Bumpty, Jessica Rabbit, Gorefield, Devil from Cuphead, Alice Angel, Bowletta, Metal Overlord, Dreamy Bowser, Overlord from Ninjago, Vaatu, Foc Megatron, Fem + OG Homelander, Loki, Omni-man, Wither Storm, Bill Cipher, Nightmare Fredbear, Doom Ducky, Joy Kill, Murder Monkey, Chef Monkey (From Dark Deception), Goliath Clowns, Monster Vinnie from Fnac 3, Tai Lung, G1 Megatron, Foc Bruticus, Shockwave, many versions of Starscream, Bayverse Megatron, any version of Bidy from BNC, any version of Baldi from bbin games, Malak from DD, Breezie the Hedgehog, Robo Sonic, Mecha Sonic, Death Egg Robot, Great Eggman Robo, true final boss of Sonic triple trouble 16-bit, Bowser, Reaper Nurse, Cackletta & so much more... 🥰🥰🥰 Now u speak in language i like, THE LANGUAGE OF GODS 🫠 This time i'd truly prove to myself & everyone that i'm genderfluid and it's not JUST A PHASE!! 😼 Luckily the new Kung Fu Panda 4 villain is a shapeshifter 😁👍

[@Waybright-x6p]

I can't imagine myself in ten, five, twenty years, it's very confusing for me, sometimes I feel masculine and sometimes feminine, and other times I feel like I don't fit into either of the two.

[@bbydeMoN7]

Non binary?? Cause u said u don’t fit into either of the two

[@Zay_M.]

I know that for me personally I have the most negative feelings from gender when I experience my agab A lot of “why did I ever think I wasn’t cis? Was I faking it this whole time? Oh shirt what if I’m actually cis” but then again “why did I even cut my hair this short? Will people look at me weirdly if I wear a dress?” I’m so glad Lynn made this video, hearing all that from them made me so happy and made me feel seen Lynn, thank you! Thank you so much!

[@lynnsaga1397]

Awwww I’m happy you liked it!!!

[@Fern_Tull]

mood

[@SunIsLost]

Dude, I can relate SO MUCH

[@SunIsLost]

@@Fern_Tull yea mood

[@ameliabattaglia2976]

I think the universe is giving me fricken signs, cuz I’ve literally been questioning whether I am or not, and then you publish this! Thank you

[@lynnsaga1397]

It was meant to be☺️

[@amygriffith8224]

Same, like i think the universe is trying to tell me my true identity.

[@ttcfan911]

No, the only sign you get is to seek help if you feel like this video is "literally me🤭💋💅🏻🤪" stop being online for a month and you will see how delusional you are. If you are a child, do not listen to people like this woman on the internet, those people try to manipulate you into something that you are not so you can "accept what we are and be in the lgbt because being a woman only is trash". And trust me when I say genderfluid doesn't exist, since when you can choose your genitals? Since when you can change your sex because you wear men clothes??? Dont be influenced and stay out of chirurgie stuff before regretting that choice.

[@ttcfan911]

@@lynnsaga1397 girl you are literally trying to influence children on things that don't exist and you say it was "meant to be"? You are creepy. You are a grown ahh woman trying to influence children on the internet like it's a daily basis, you get your whole personality from TikTok and then tell your viewers "it's ok to have a dysphoria" when you literally don't know what is a dysphoria or how trans people feel with dysphoria, you are trying to manipulate people so you can have intention but when you actually get it you just give terrible life advice for children. But you know "it's a trend so i have to post it!!" "I saw so many people that don't have a father figure like me that say they are nothing but a doggy, so I identify as a doggy too!" Like it's cute or edgy.

[@lizaje1495]

Oh... I'm genderfluid. I'm still figuring out my sexuality, but at least now I know where this occasional body dysmorphia comes from. Thanks a lot, you make me feel more at ease

[@StarsStillHere]

I've concluded that I was genderfluid a while ago, but I love vids like these, (or any content supportive of genderfluid people for that matter)! I grew up in the "genderfluid cringe" era of KZbin, where the label was getting a lot of traction online and none of it was good, so I still push off the label a lot. Whenever my gender shifts to a more fem leaning one (I'm AFAB), I get a lot of shame and doubt, as I want to fit in with non-fluid transmasculine people really bad. But vids like these serve as a reminder that other genderfluid folk and I have reasons to celebrate our identities, no matter what anti-fluid folk say. :)

[@elimanning5276]

Ok

[@mikepriestey2547]

You have a specific and unique personality to yourself, your gender doesn't change. There's no such thing as feeling male or female, there's only feeling like you. Every person in the World feels different from day to day, that's called being a human. Just because a man wants to dress more feminine doesn't mean he's female, it means he's male with his own personality that's different from anyone else. Wanting to do feminine stuff doesn't mean you feel female. As I said, there's no such thing as feeling female.

[@StarsStillHere]

@@mikepriestey2547 Youre just sad you're not as swag as I am, gendersolid.

[@mikepriestey2547]

@@StarsStillHere Nope. I just have common sense. Explain to me what it means to feel female or feel male.

[@StarsStillHere]

@@mikepriestey2547 Once in a while I enjoy being called a woman, but sometimes it makes me severely dysphoric. More often I enjoy being thought of as a man, but sometimes that also makes me uncomfortable. And sometimes the lines are blurred, which is why I normally present as nonbinary to simplify it for other people. It fluctuates, which makes me genderfluid.

[@KrypticDonut]

I dont understand gender. I swear i thought i was agender fir a while then like im suddenly a trans girl. It goes back and forth. So from what ive worked out my gender is something beyond human comprehension.

[@VoidStarAbyss]

I've personally felt guilty for not just wanting to choose one gender. I lean pretty far towards female, but lately especially, I smile when someone calls me a he in a video game or on my socials. And before I heard the word genderfluid, I thought being a they them person would best fit my wish to be both. I also hadn't heard that THAT was also it's own thing. Also, as you've stated, your identity can change without you being truly fluid. Everyone is trying to solve the puzzle that is their mind and soul after all. Thanks for making these!

[@drana150]

I'm gender fluid, but usually identify myself as non-binary with they/them pronouns simply because that always makes me feel good and anything else would feel like a burden on those around me (also due to transphobic people she her pronouns are never ok, so I don't see the point as much). But it's definitely the fluctuating dysphoria that tipped me off- it made me doubt myself a lot when I came out because I wondered if I was just doing it for attention when I felt bad (news flash, dysphoria Feels Bad). But now I'm much more comfortable, and style myself either more masculine, feminine, both, or neither depending on the day- I've even made myself a chart to help nail down my gender expression if I can't figure out what to wear or smth. The chart is a quadrant with masc/fem on the x-axis and strong/ambivalent on the y (to indicate how strongly I feel about my gender that day). My worst days are -x +y because that's masculine/strong and, unfortunately, my body is not very masculine and binders only do so much work

[@itsjess97]

I think this comment really puts into words what I feel. Thank you so much!

[@drana150]

@@itsjess97 no problem! I'm happy to help. Wish you the best

[@ethan5817]

Oh my god, shut up.

[@psioniccrusher6190]

You’re a burden on people around you anyway, because they are all having to play along while you play make believe

[@pinkyellowblue007]

I feel like I'm both, mostly male but I feel like I act kind of female a lot of the time and I'm into some girly stuff also.I don't really like it when people expect you to be a certain way based on appearance etc.I don't really care what label I'm under, it took me a long time to figure this all out and also accept it but now I know who and how I am and I'm feeling good about it.

[@splitsee2526]

genuinely same, sometimes i feel feminine and it happens whenever my brain decides lmao

[@ghouls.s9643]

This hit right on the nail, every single one, for me and I am genuinely speechless. I'm 21 years old and have spent my whole life trying to figure out why was so fluid in how i identified, and how to pinpoint what i feel. I was trans for a bit, nonbinary, 'cis', but always snapped right back to feeling this way. I never considered genderfluid until I stumbled upon this video, and wanted to watch only out of seeking more knowledge on lgbt matters. I never would have guessed that it would be the missing puzzle piece clicking into place. Thank you for this video, you've helped me understand myself finally after so many years of feeling lost/confused

[@CalamarCat]

First video I watched on genderfluidity after having some realisations this morning, and just wanted to say for it being a great intro. And the bit at the end about "if being seen as multiple genders makes you happy, f ing do it" made me grin, and felt like permission I didnt realise Id needed. Thank you ❤️

[@yenmurillo7586]

I came out as Gender Fluid years ago but I’m here, like, just to make sure lmao I love your videos 💕✨

[@yourlocalPotato660]

1:03 i put my title to any because i feel like being called a he sounds cool but a she is cool too!! but then again they looks great ty i been trying to find out why i do this:)

[@antikovt]

It's difficult to me to realise whether I'm genderfluid or not, because I don't really feel "the transitions" and neither do I feel any dysphoria. I just feel gender envy towards every cute boy/girl I see and my top 2 dream of all time is to change my body however I want whenever I want at a flick of the fingers with no repercussions. Totally cis.

[@jakehart0336]

I recently went to a LGBT group with my boyfriend for the first time and I met a gender fluid person and when they where talking to me I asked them about how they found out they where gender fluid and asked them about how they felt when they where figuring it out. And it all described exactly how I feel, and this video is helping me confirm that I might be gender fluid myself

[@VEttariPEPC]

If Social Security and Pensions did not exist, there would be none of this non-sense. You would need to have children to care and protect you in your old age. But, because you think you will not need children to care for you when you are old and infirmed, you toy with these really stupid ideas. Since Social Security may not survive till you are 67, I suggest that you stop the nonsense, get married, and have the children you will need in your old age, It is either that or be eaten by rats when you are old and fall ill and are helpless on the floor, a couch, or a bed.

[@Pomsuki]

Being told I’m valid and having my feelings being told are ok genuinely made me tear up. Thank you so much ❤

[@natashalawely2900]

this was really helpful--particularly points 1 and 2. and just in time for my questioning! thank you very much for making this quick and informative video. i've been very unsure on what label fits me best for a while now.

[@RyderxRhodes]

I appreciate the focus on gender euphoria. Because I connect to being genderfluid based so much more on euphoria than dysphoria. I have my moments where when someone genders me as male, (I am very much presenting in my physicality as male) sometimes it feels off and weird and just don't know what to do with it. But the other day I was in my full make up, and a dress and gothic trench coat. And this person at a store I was shopping at had said to me, "your an absolute goddess". Lemme tell you, there's no better feeling than that validation and affirmation. So thank you so much for that focus

[@nataterraturzelle8584]

Thank you for using non-cis and explaining why you use it because I hear a lot of "So you're trans" when I try to explain my gender. Not that they're wrong, but I still heavily identify with my agab while also feeling like other genders. I've joked with my friends about being "cisn't" or "CIS+, the premium subscription to unlock exclusive gender content"

[@Fox-Boy-Fynn]

As a currently genderfluid person this really helped me confirm if i was genderfluid or not! And i still think i am thank you. :)

[@katechan8262]

crazy

[@sammylafaver5279]

Thank you for this video. I am currently going through how I see and feel about myself. For many years I was masculine in my dress now I am more feminine in dress, yet I don't choose my appearance based on feminine or masculine. So I'm considering if I'm genderfluid.

[@eminence_effort]

Commenting because this is something that’s important to me, I watched your video 1 year ago and I found it again after so long. I was born a girl & while I don’t see myself as Transgender I do find that some of the signs of being Genderfluid that you mentioned fit into how I feel about myself. I let people close to me use she/her but when it comes to people in general I like they/them because it’s not a specific pronoun & I like that. Idm he/him either but I rarely identify with those pronouns. I wear relatively average clothes I don’t complain too much. It’s just my mom specifically says if I was born a girl then I should be required to use she/her. She thinks I’m lying to everyone around but if I say I only used she/her I’d be lying to myself. She hates pronouns & I’m really hurt by that. They/them is my preferred pronouns not just she/her I feel invalidated

[@Din_Djarins_Eyebags]

The way I experience it is I'm floating in a void of gender neutral space and sometimes I float closer to male or female identities, but I'm mostly just me. Although I've been cursed with a chronically feminine appearance so I constantly get called she/her, my friends sometimes use they/them for me and even more rarely he/him and it makes me feel amazing every time.

[@RainbowChips91]

I just clicked the video because i was curious. I conconsider myself non binary male and i have a hard time deciding if i wanna be feminine or Masculine. But I'm learning i can do both.

[@aralynvandermerwe3473]

Me trying to figure out if I’m gender-fluid or a trans man: 🗿💀 Someone help me what do I do 😭

[@B4NDllKOOT_]

I just knew I was GF when I was deciding on what to wear ‘something nice and girly or laidback and masc’ and the same goes for my persona it’s a mix of “omg girrl gtfo” to “alright bro fosho” idk if I’ll conform to one of these but if not then it definitely should define me as a person who’s gender fluid and I’m also bisexual

[@Izumi_Chenoba]

Further affirming me being genderfluid. I recently realized that I am genderfluid, after going back and forth between things for quiet some time. I use mirror pronouns at the moment, which I find quite helpful and comfortable.

[@delphox-lover9555]

I’m glad i found this video, see i’m a genderfluid grey aroace person, and when i find videos about it i just smile

[@jynxisdeadx_x]

For the longest time I always knew I never felt "fully female" and I've used many words to describe my gender identity over the past year, from demigirl to nonbinary, even at one point thinking I was trans. I'm so glad I finally found the gender identity that feels right and comfortable for me and this video definitely helped me because I've dealt with all of these things. I've been experiencing a lot of gender dysphoria and I can never pick between wanting to be more masculine or feminine oftentimes. I'm glad that I can feel comfortable being the person I wanna be without worrying about being male or female, I'm proud to be genderfluid 😊

[@thatcomicnurd]

All of this actually makes sense. It feels comforting to hear honestly

[@VEttariPEPC]

Honesty, or craziness? If Social Security and Pensions did not exist, there would be none of this non-sense. You would need to have children to care and protect you in your old age. But, because you think you will not need children to care for you when you are old and infirmed, you toy with these really stupid ideas. Since Social Security may not survive till you are 67, I suggest that you stop the nonsense, get married, and have the children you will need in your old age, It is either that or be eaten by rats when you are old and fall ill and are helpless on the floor, a couch, or a bed.

[@Ranpo_Edogawa954]

I realized I was genderfluid when I couldn’t figure out what my identity was because it was constantly changing

[@melody-502]

struggled with my gender for years, saying i was something to my friends then changing it weeks or months later, every time it felt perfect, and then I saw this video and i have not felt more affirmed in my life. thanks a lot.

[@kylecarlson1159]

I think I might be gender fluid and this video helped me ☺️ and the euphoria I felt just wearing more feminine clothes for the first time was amazing!

[@chillmill_08]

i loved that they talked about feeling euphoric at the end it made me smile:)

[@Naravayax]

Sometimes i feel masculine and sometimes i feel feminine and right now i feel like nothing and its really upsetting me.

[@axelx._]

This video is literally me, I feel good about being called a male even though I am Cis female. I have thought about me being demi girl but no, i think i really am genderfluid. Except i have a problem. I’ve come out to my mum alot of times and all she says is, “you dont need to put a lable on yourself, you are too young.” Yes i may be, but this time i really really am sure of it. So i am gonna wait until after my birthday (7th of january and maybe on my birthday) and come out. But plans dont always work out so...goodluck to me i guess!

[@choxomoxxo565]

Me trying to find an excuse to ask my parents if I can shop in the boys section cuz I don't like what's in the girls section sometimes:

[@duskzx]

my mom was helping me fill out an application for a job recently. (She's very accepting). But as she was filling out the part I was unsure of it got to "gender: male _ ; female _ ; I'd rather not say _ ; other _ " and she clicked female and I felt a pit in my stomach. Once my uncle called me a boy and I felt so uncomfortable. And then when I put my hair up in a beanie to look more masc, my friend said I looked handsome and I loved it!! So I've been recently thinking I was gender fluid. And I feel now that I definitely am.

[@Shady-mask]

I already knew i was gender fluid this has comforted me

[@QWERTYUIOPASDFGHJKLZXCVBNM546]

I have questions. I think I might be genderfluid but I’m not sure. My gender dysphoria definitely fluctuates. Most days I feel like I want to be perceived as a man and some days I just don’t care. The weird thing is I NEVER get dysphoria about wanting to be perceived as a women or being perceived as no gender. I’m wondering if I’m just trans and getting used to it or maybe demiboy or bigender.

[@GhostyMarie]

When I sit here, I'm still scared to talk about it with my mom finally. I have bounced between trans and cis for years until recently. I wonder, though, you asked, how would you feel in 5 years being perceived as one gender or another. I would be fully comfortable to be viewed as a man, than a woman all those years. But maybe it's because i feel masc recently. I think i lean towards masc. I want to tell my mom, but i have a sinking fear. Maybe she won't be accepting even though she seems to be fairly (minus They/them Pronouns which I'm working on.) And it's scary. But its hard not haveing them know.

[@purpleourple]

Gender fluid is my 3rd favorite beverage.

[@elimanning5276]

I love the taste of semen in the morning. Good substitute for coffee!

[@whodis5444]

Gender fluid isn't a thing. You're just using gender as a fashion statement.

[@lilchubbers]

im worried that being genderfluid may be forced without me realizing. i don't want to call myself something i'm not . im fine with being called a boy or girl but still when thinking abt how I've been referenced as a girl my whole life, I think I would be confused being called a boy but like....i still don't mind yk???? sometimes I think, what if im just a tomboy? but idk. i wouldn't mind dressing as a male, having certain features and my hair in specific ways that might represent a man while still being how ive always been.

[@MrBdmfps9]

Okay. I have a serious question. Is there any science behind gwnder fluid? Or is it just how u feel or feelings?

[@juanpineyro1295]

All my life I grew up with the fact I'm a sissy or crossdresser bisexual guy. As a teenager I considered the possibility of being a MTF trans and to do the transition, but I didn't liked the idea of let go my life as a male. Sometimes I really feel as a girl, like there's a female side of my mind, when some people started calling me as a she I felt so great. But I don't have that feeling all the time. That's why I never wanted to express it, the fear of being judge and catalogued for life. I never liked the fact of being called by a name just for the stuff I like to do. By now that I learn about the other gender identitys I consider I can be gender fluid. But I really think I'm nothing more than a human being. I don't care if people call me a he or a she or whatever. I'm just a person living my life.

[@nathanmartin8393]

Sounds more like “gender fluid” just means you’re emotionally unstable and stuff bothers you everyday.

[@LeoTheRyan]

Thank you. Before wathching this video I wasn't shure if I really am genderfluid, or I just pretend so I could feel better. Even before the video ended, I felt SO relieved, that I started to cry. Just thank you... (and sorry for my English, it's not my native language)

[@megazero3450]

Hey thank u for this video I just found out that I was genderfluid 7 days ago. I'm still trying to find out what I am on my journey and it's so hard. I am also having trouble what I feel some days.

[@theceoofeggmansempire5214]

Same except i don't remember when i truly started considering myself genderfluid, but it surely happend recently.

[@PurpleEnbyTerminator]

Still don’t know if I am still genderfluid and been in a long enby period or if I’m just enby. Not that it matters, I’ll just follow the vibes.

[@pr89045]

Y'all get some medical help!!!

[@catrainbows]

I’m definitely not gender-fluid because I never feel like a man. Instead, I range from non-binary, agender, demigirl, and just a female. I have mild gender dysforia sometimes. I’m pretty sure the correct term is girlflux

[@L1v1nLaV1daL0ca]

Yeah Ik I’m late but I still want to share my experience with you guys since you guys understand me better This is my way on how I found out I was genderfluid So in my school, there is this class that was call GSA (which stands for Gender Sexuality Alliance) and it took place during our advisory and other grades lunch. So one day we were talking about how we found out how we found ourselves, and struggles, then I decided to talk, (little info I was very nervous) and started off by saying how I identified, nonbinary, then how I found out I was that, but then I explained something that went something like this, “sometimes I feel like on one day I’m a women, then the next day I would feel like a men, then the next day both, then I might feel like I’m none of them”. Then somebody (I don’t want to say their name) said that I might be genderfluid, and then some of my classmates that were also from the LGBTQIAA+ and 2 teacher also said that I might be genderfluid as well, then after a while, I decided to come here to see if their are other amazing people on the internet to see if they were also genderfluid and can explain the signs on how I could be genderfluid, and now I believe I’m genderfluid since I feel like a period of time I was a men, then I changed to women, then to nonbinary and so on, and how sometimes wanted to find out which gender I am, then came the changes of pronouns and how I would liked to be addressed, how I’m actually scared of people and classmates only saying that I’m a girl, or using the pronoun, she/her/hers often when I said not to use it that often. And know that you helped me figure out who I am, and thank you so much! You really had helped me! Thank you sooooooooo much! Happy pride month! Remember you guys belong and are beautiful the way you are! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤🤍🤎 Thanks for reading this long text 😅

[@myghostlyromance]

I might be either gender-fluid or a demigirl. The thing is that I’m not that comfortable with he/him or referred to as a boy but I do like wearing male clothing (mostly suits) and be called by stang term for boys, I have gender dysphoria as I keep going back and forth with identity, I got boobs and there are times I wanna have them but other times I don’t want them, there are also times I don’t wanna be referred to as daughter but rather child but there are times I do mind being daughter or maybe even a girl. Just wanted to tell about my experience since it’s been bothering me and it’s something I think about every single day that it’s annoying and so much pressure.

[@meowmeers]

Lmao this is exactly how I feel 😭

[@myghostlyromance]

@@meowmeers I mean If I feel gender-fluid, that’s that, I know it’s not permanent and I may change my label later on in life but I think I might use the gender-fluid label tho.

[@michaelgray2319]

5 signs you're insane

[@Sage.Therian390]

#1 you hate on people that don't affect you

[@enidsvultureculture]

Thats true, im mentally ill and non binary :D

[@Queer_Dragon]

Wrong, we are eldritch beings incapable of being insane

[@lemonraven]

So I've been questioning everything recently and just thought I'd type "How to tell if you're genderfluid" into KZbin, and it was so comforting to see a familiar face I'm subscribed to watching have the first recommended video. I always thought I was just a cis bisexual who enjoyed cross-dressing a lot-LIKE ALOT-since I'm comfortable in my body but also comfortable as a man, no-not just comfortable, I get really happy. And then when you said that about the Euphoria I was like "So...maybe I don't just have a weird love for being referred to as he/him and then she/her the next day?" I still don't know if there's a better fitting label for me though because I don't think I'd be comfortable being nonbinary. Do you have to also be okay with being an enby sometimes to fully qualify as genderfluid? I'm pretty new to all this so I really don't know.

[@Zahraahardlywrites]

I just recently realised I might be genderfluid. So about two years ago I came out as Non-binary and I felt very comfortable with being referred to as partner and using they/them pronouns, however after a couple of months I came out as a trans man, because I started feeling more comfortable using he/him pronouns and being referred to as boyfriend/partner, well what do you know, couple of months later I came out AGAIN as Non-binary because I didn't feel as comfortable being referred to as a man, and that kinda went on for a couple of months. The reason why I didn't even consider that I was genderfluid was because I thought I had to experience ALL the genders on the spectrum, and I've never really felt connected to the female gender, I also thought it was what media usually portrayed, like you wake up one morning and feel like a girl, or feel Non-binary or like a boy. I still have really bad chest dysphoria but some days I can tolerate it, my feelings around my chest fluctuate. I've also been looking into T and some days I'm really comfortable knowing I might grow a beard, while some days I'm way more comfortable having a shaven face. I've now settled on he/they as my pronouns (might change who knows hehe) and after doing some research and connecting the dots I think I can safely say that yeah I'm probably genderfluid.

[@nictiser]

thank you very much, now i'm 100% sure that i am genderfluid, i was really questioning if i really am genderfluid, but now i am very sure about it!

[@leonienuhn4571]

i identified as demigirl (afab) for a while, but now am wondering if im genderfluid instead how do i know wich one i am?

[@ermetetrismegisto5341]

Look between your legs it's easy

[@freydislive7535]

I used to be absolutely positive that I was female but last week I woke up and thought “wait a minute I don’t think I’m fully female” and now I’m trying to pick between non-binary a gender or gender fluid

[@Kuiper_Starz]

As a kid I thought I was misgendered because I had an apparently “masc” voice.

[@JONKOSNIPES]

you forgot the 2 other signs 6* you like cheese 7* you enjoy air

[@evieswegsda1089]

I Don’t Really Have Any of These Signs, but I Feel Like I Might Be Demi-Fluid (Partially Gender-Fluid) Cause I Occasionally, Deep Inside, Might Feel Almost as If I Have No Gender, or Might Occasionally Feel as If I Have Feelings of Having Some Mild Transgender Identity Deep Inside, but I Still Fully Associate Myself as my Birth Gender (Female) and I’m Happy to Be Pronouned as She/Her, Even If It was One of Those Occasional Days Where I Feel Deep Inside Almost as If I Don’t Really Have a Gender or Feel Almost Like Transgender.

[@zsuzsannakoos2384]

I realized I might be genderfluid about a few months ago. I cut my hair short in August and during fall, I tried to look as masculine as I could. I told myself I was doing it, because it'd be fun if someone thought that I was a boy. And then one day a child on the bus called me a boy and I felt so much joy. Those were the first signs, I've been experimenting with my gender ever since and now I think I'm comfortable with identifying as genderfluid

[@chesteryolo7058]

I think all of these points can be explained by people either being unable to connect to their masculinity/femininity due to something that went wrong during their development (or because they still are developing), them feeling pressured by societal standards of what it means to be a man/woman and not understanding that not fitting those standards doesn't make you any less of a man or woman or just plainly wanting attention/wanting to be special. The people I have known who claimed to be genderfluid all fit into one or multiple categories, so I don't believe genderfluid is an actual thing (nor amy other genders, for that matter)

[@KAMI__KITSUNEE]

what song is that in the background? sounds soothing :)

[@punksterpride8339]

Thankyou so much for sharing all of this. It was extremely Validating and helped me feel at ease with my Identity.

[@pandoraberg]

I'm a lesbian and my current pronouns are She/they i have almost always identified as a female but i've always sorta questioned my gender🥲 I've also always wondered why when i see different actors, fictional characters etc. I get so much gender envy (most of the time when i get gender envy its almost always men for some reason) i also really like being able to dress very androgynous. I dont think i neccesarily identify as transgender though. I remember this one time i was in the process of getting diagnosed with autism and i was having a meeting thingy with a psychiatrist and she asked about my pronouns and i was so happy that she asked and i said she/they😭 I could maybe be nonbinary since i have identified as nonbinary once but i was scared people wouldnt accept it so i just went back to calling myself a girl but i'm not sure i'm having a full on identity crisis💀

[@bruhmoment341]

This really helped me a bunch, I thought I was gender fluid already, but wasn’t sure, as I saw many say they had dysphoria, but for me, I’m not a very in touch with my emotions typa person, so I can’t really tell all that well, and for me, I’m comfortable with being one or the other, or being perceived as only a dude, as that was what I was used to my entire life, and I didn’t know much different, but when I am being referred to as how I am at that moment it just gives me this sort of euphoria that feels giddy almost, maybe I’m just an easily excitable person!

[@djhuston]

Honestly not sure wehre I am, but I love your positivity and guidance. I hope you have a fantastic day!

[@juliahart8593]

Thank you for helping me understand my sibling!! They just came out to me as gender fluid

[@stardewofpyrrhia4381]

Thank you so much for doing these!! Where were they in the era of buzzfeed quizzes?😂 Can you please cover genderflux next? ❤❤

[@katlyn7066]

Thanks for posting! Sharing with my partner. I love how our communities can use labels and groups as a jumping off point for self discovery and comradery ❤ feeling trapped inside a labeled box shouldn't be the point

[@rorygiambalvo2955]

I'm not sure if I'm a feminine trans guy or fluid, because 90% of the time I feel best when I imagine myself with male genitals and a flat chest, and then I have moments, sometimes a couple of days, where I feel more like a girl, but still want a smaller chest. It's very frustrating when trying to figure out transition steps

[@bxbyoasis1182]

Can you be genderfluid and lesbian??

[@Officalbugjuice]

Yes of course!! Gender ≠ Sexuality

[@The1stPurpleCat]

I am genderfluid, specifically between girl and multiple nonbinary identities (specifically genderkirin or genderfae). I am AFAB. My pronouns are she/her and ey/em (I’m pretty good with any pronouns except he/him and similar pronouns). Here are some signs I was genderfluid: I’m definitely not a man. But sometimes I am uncomfortable being a “woman” or “girl”, but so do all girls, right? Being on video games or needing a username, and always going as something gender neutral. Playing video games, and realizing I hated when they called me “he”, but not when they called me “they”, and I sometimes preferred “they” to “she”. “I wish it was me” every time I saw a female character who passed as male for storyline/plot reasons, despite identifying as a girl. Examples like Haruhi from “Oran Host Club” and Pidge from “Voltron”. Also wishing I could look like very androgynous nonbinary people. Wanting my boyfriend to be bi for inexplicable reasons, but also sad because I didn’t want him to think he was in a “straight relationship”, even though I was ok with it being straight passing. Wishing I could wear dresses in a gender neutral way, and skirts in a ‘boy wearing skirts’ way. Wishing I would look androgynous (and people can’t tell my gender) some days, but wanting to be perceived as girl other days (sometimes in a fem way and sometimes in a tomboy way). Feeling giddy and excited, but also feeling like I have a secret, when I buy/wear “boys clothes”. Like my “guys hoodies” which are hoodies from the mens section, or the fun t-shirts I find from the men’s section. Some days I like my chest, so long as it was supported well (big chest). Other days I absolutely hated it, ranging from wanting smaller chest to wanting flat chest. Couldn’t tell if it was because I hated being sexualized, or if it was another, ‘completely mysterious’ reason. When I was little, I hated the idea of being a girly-girl, so I self-identified as a tomboy, despite not being masculine nor having typically masculine traits/hobbies at all. Always felt “not like other girls” but hated the idea of being “one of those girls” who say that despite just having less feminine traits/hobbies. I honestly felt like I wasn’t always fully a girl. When I was little, I felt “special” (the same way as “not like other girls”) cause I hated playing house and Barbie/MH dolls, but loved stuffed animals. Wanted to be a princess/night who ruled her own kingdom without a prince. Both things could 100% be a cis girl thing, but the fact I was happy that in my mind I was less feminine because of it was a little odd. When I was little, I learned about pronouns. I learned “he” went to the masculine stick figures, and “she” went to the feminine stick figures. Seeing how I identified as a tomboy, I thought people would use “he” for me, so I informed my mom I liked the “she” pronouns to be used for myself. She said “Uh, yeah… your a girl”. When I was little, I kinda felt bad for feeling somewhat disconnected with being a girl, so I did the most feminine thing I could that didn’t upset me, which was attempting to grow my hair long. I pretended my favorite princess was Rapunzel and Princess Aurora, because she wore pink and had beautiful long blond hair. As I got older (5th through 9th grade) I felt “not girl enough” because I didn’t have a crush. Later on found out I was a-spec. To cover up both being “not girl enough” and the fact I lacked attraction, I decided to choose who I had a crush on.

[@michellegable3400]

Can I be gender fluid but feel more masculine most of the time. Like I never feel feminine but don’t want to be fully a male.

[@seth_i.thinkk]

Turns out then I’m genderfluid🤭 The 1st 2 signs I’ve felt, but then when the 3rd sign came on my reaction was like 🫢 because literally just earlier I thought I was a trans girl because that’s what I felt, but I imagined my life being a girl and I was like ehhh and then I imagined my life being a boy and I was still like ehh, same thing with non binary, and sometimes I’m good with he, other times I’m good with she, and all the time I’m good with they. Tysm for this video you literally helped me through my gender identity crisis Tysm😭😭

[@wujek7616]

Thank you, now i know that i don't have a mental disability

[@h_mikka]

i’ve been question ing my gender for 7 yrs and its so tiring lol i can’t figure anything out

[@cynthiadollar9163]

My little way of getting masculine gender Euphoria is using the men's bathroom at my bank. I haven't been caught yet, wish me luck, lol.

[@thenorthstar777]

I've been through many phases before in the past and then after a while just pushed it away and thought it was stupid of me to feel that way and I am the gender that I am but now I'm starting to think back on it again and think about my gender identity and I don't know what it is. I know I am a female and I do identify with that but it's just that there's sometimes very rarely but sometimes I will not completely identify with being female and I'll question if I'm nonbinary again or something like that. I don't know how to explain it, it's complicated but basically moral of the story is I don't know what I want my identity to be or what it is but I do know that I am female. I just don't always feel completely connected to it if that makes sense

[@melanieschmidt4240]

I call myself genderfluid, but I watched your nonbinary video and then this one and feel way more reinforced got 5 out of 5 lolol :D

[@Angrymorganite930]

This actually made a lot of sense. It’s perfectly described feelings that I’ve had in the past.❤

[@BiancaTallarico]

I don't know if I'm gender fluid maybe bigender? I have times I want to look pretty but a lot of times I still like dressing like a guy. I'm a metalhead so I still love my jeans, chains, biker boots, and death metal band tees. I'm on HRT. I know everytime I try to grow out my facial hair I do shave it. I just don't like masculine body hair but I love dressing masculine. I still like acting masculine at times. I've described myself as a Trans tomboy but I have wondered if I'm actually gender fluid. Like I want women to see the masculine side of me as well as the feminine side of me. I feel strange when a Trans woman tells me they're straight. Like I feel like I wasn't man enough for them.

[@maler8429]

sometimes i feel as unicorn. then i woke up and realise that i am only a horse

[@creamyisdead]

Thanks for this! Rn I'm struggling with figuring out if I am gender fluid, or if I'm just super cis and my scitzo trash is fuckin with me but this was very helpful

[@bxbyoasis1182]

Does anyone of any good outfit ideas for genderfluid people? I just recently came out and I could use some advice :)

[@mx_nana_banana]

i’m an enbie questioning if they’re genderfluid, and the one thing that makes me feel good, is skinny jeans and a t-shirt, not a baggy t-shirt, one that stops at your hips.

[@noahdavis8559]

I am a "man" with feminine traits, just the way I carry myself and my mannerisms and stuff. I'm flirting with the idea of calling myself gender fluid. I'm either that or I'm non-binary lol

[@theceoofeggmansempire5214]

Or Demiboy

[@blazi64]

I'm so glad I came across your channel, it's like a hidden gem! You don't know how much I've learnt with you, now I understand myself better. Thank you so much!! 💖🤍💜🖤💙 ✨️✨️✨️✨️

[@Anna_RetroSynth]

When I was a kid I would crossdress in private and I'd always have to be wearing at least 50% women's clothes all the time. I thought I might be a transgender woman but it keeps moving around! I don't feel comfortable being a trans woman in public but I can be feminine. So confusing!

[@dakotajones3400]

I personally am ok with she/her but sometimes I feel like I don’t match my gender so to speak act more lady like the clothes I wanna wear I don’t see them as clothes with gender I just see them as clothes I feel like I’m between wanting to be just a person that is a girl but finding more clothes they comfortable with

[@mexicanwitahat9111]

A sigh for me was sometimes a cousin of mine wore dresses and somedays when she did and I saw it I got jealous(I now wear dress when I’m feeling feminine and my grandparents are okay with it😁(my parents don’t know and I don’t live with them)

[@Luc111i]

I have a question!! Can someone be transmasc and genderfluid?

[@SoccerSounder]

From my understanding, yes. Genderfluid is basicly your gender just isn't static, so that can go between the binaries, agender, bigender, etc, without having to encompass all of them; just more than one. I think genderfaun might be close to what you're looking for? I don't think it's that known of a term, but there's a wiki page about it so :3