A child born out of love.. is the best child to be had. That is also the best gift to your own child too. So.... don't hold back, but try your best ! ... I think cruising life is the best way now.. for this age group... imho... and to take care of each other. Cos the road is possibly much longer too. Not every child was born out of loving environments in the past generation... to be able to just even raise one from a loving environment is a Godsent.