沒有小孩不能理解的事｜從不喜歡小孩到體諒小孩

沒有小孩不能理解的事｜從不喜歡小孩到體諒小孩｜兔女狼

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@isabellalai4578 7 ай бұрын

我喜歡那一句：你沒辦法想像從來沒有過的生活。這句可以套用到所有人所有情況

@王宥璇-p8u 7 ай бұрын

突然想起，我剛出生沒多久的時候，外婆剛過世，然後我媽背著我坐火車回鄉下看外婆。那時候我好像在火車上哭了，然後就被一位小姐說：「你可以管一下嗎！帶小孩就不要坐火車啊！」，真的覺得媽媽非常的辛苦！

@nellwang5651 7 ай бұрын

對，講入每個爸媽的心理

@tinayen1292 6 ай бұрын

屁有些爸媽帶個小孩就要全世界買單容忍有次我本來有座位全程讓座將近一小時後來下車我覺得自己很白痴

@麗莎-b7m 6 ай бұрын

看了心好酸媽媽真的很辛苦

@y.t._tsao 5 ай бұрын

就是不同角度看的事情相反的，沒有人有義務去忍受別人小孩的噪音

@YeiwenChang 7 ай бұрын

最恐怖的時期是2-3歲多，他對你的話似懂非懂，卻又不太會講話，而且精神力極佳…我車子副駕現在都不太坐人，椅子還往前拉，因為狂踩踢，又很難溝通…心裡很無奈卻又覺得可愛…我們真的是好矛盾的父母

@leeelaine4968 6 ай бұрын

應該是說，小孩七歲前，能多陪就多陪，因為現在小孩還小，生活突然少了很多「自己」，所以才會有這些感慨，等小孩進入學校體系有了自己的朋友，父母就會突然因為多了「自己」而有失落😂

@cherriefaye1407 7 ай бұрын

我是全職媽媽。已經8年了，其中妹妹也是全親餵母奶四年，我大概將近八年沒跟孩子的分開過，但我還是很愛到處跑，可是我又不會開車，所以我就是一台推車（小一點就揹巾），帶著大的走偏天下，包括一打二帶他們出國。直到最近兩個月我的生日，朋友約我單獨吃飯，我當天真的是像跟男友約會一下出門😁😁 我的孩子屬於文靜的，出去都算很乖，但我妹妹的孩子在三歲開始有注意力不全和過動，（一歲以前哄睡只要三分鐘，根本天使）他在外面永遠在追著孩子跑，道歉是家常便飯，罵小孩也很頻繁，但也想說是不是他自己也是很努力，但他的大腦跟身體不是他可以控制的。

@linlinlin628 6 ай бұрын

天啊～我小孩現在也是天使，目前7個月都自己睡覺，很能沈浸在自己的世界，我也有點擔心未來會有自閉症等方面的問題😢。

@張靚-b2k 7 ай бұрын

不是不能體諒帶著小孩的家長和小孩本身，但幾天前在火車上看到獨自帶著兩個小孩的家長，小姊弟已經吵起來，整個車廂內都是那一個小孩的尖叫聲和哭聲，然後家長在旁邊看佛經......但凡他有想要安撫他的小孩，無論最後有沒有用，我都會體諒，畢竟沒生過也帶過嫩嬰和學齡小孩，很多事是不可控的也清楚，但這種的就真的很想上說:請管好你的小孩

@juanqin7996 7 ай бұрын

我還沒結婚我的生活就是兩點一線，上班回家沒朋友邊緣人沒有小孩的我也不喜歡升管理職因為薪水真的沒多少，要管天還有地我想像如果我結婚前跟結婚後應該也不會差多少😂 不過真的很佩服狼敢當面跟家長說可以管好你的小孩嗎？因為怕被打，社會怪怪的人太多，誰知道對方下一秒會不會腦羞

@西顧 7 ай бұрын

我覺得小孩子皮、搗蛋的程度,跟家長有沒有認真管教有關.像我們家樓下鄰居的小孩曾經在電梯裡面跳,我們在外面等電梯的也只聽到小孩的爸爸說:不要跳,然後就沒下文了,小孩還是照樣跳🤷‍♂

@獅子座雲 7 ай бұрын

小孩子就是真的很調皮搗蛋我很討厭很煩

@kr_luv.sjh_ace 7 ай бұрын

認同！可能本人算喜歡小孩，可以理解有時候小孩真的不可控，一般只要看到家長有在安撫/管教我就會體諒，畢竟有時候真的不是一哄小孩就會好，但家長有盡力去不造成別人困擾我就會覺得ok 但如你的例子只是說說但沒有實際行動去管教的，放任孩子影響別人的我一律不會體諒，都會很氣去瞪那的孩子別家長（雖然不一定有用😂但我沒勇氣像狼一樣跟家長說😢可能那一天遇到一個無法忍受的滋擾理智線斷掉就會說）

@ccheng7725 7 ай бұрын

真的！超討厭那些家長為所欲為的樣子的人氣氣氣憑什麼我們要一起接受

@KL-tn3gi 6 ай бұрын

Hi, i m a fan from HK and just wanted to leave my words here suddenly. Not rlly related to ur current video but i truly wanna say i love ur channel! No matter the vlog, or simply sharing videos. Coz sometimes when sadness derived from the loneliness as for being the identity of LGBTQ comes around, ur videos always give me a sense of belongings that reminds me i m not alone. Hopefully one day i'll be able to meet the girl and build a family with her, just like what u two does. So yeah, rlly rlly wanna tell u guys my love coz u guys hv no ideas how ppl get inspired or anything by u! Peace out!

@PotatOstrich 6 ай бұрын

Hi there~ Although I don’t know you, I hope you’re doing alright. I think anyone who is part of the queer community all share this kind of loneliness you mentioned more or less in some point of life. I remember when I was in high school which was the loneliest and the most painful period of time in my life. Looking back I think one of the biggest reasons that made it so difficult to me was that I didn’t know what I was suffering for and I had no one to turn to (now I know part of it was my queer identity, just like what you mentioned, it took me about 7 years to realize, what a journey lol). As growing up, I’ve always feel like an outsider. It’s not that I got bullied or something like that but was a feeling of knowing you don’t belong anywhere or comfortably fit in any group and I think my queer identity maximized this feeling and made it even worse. At that darkest time of my life a video called “a letter to you” by the KZbinr Shannon Beveridge (I’ll leave the video link at the end) saved me and changed my life by showing how powerful the gentleness grew from scars can be. I hope this video can give you some strength, too. By the way, I also want to recommend a podcast called “made it out”. The queer presentation in the podcast kind of ease my pain of the solitude in my teenage hood. (Sorry in advance, if my grammar seems kinda weird cause my mother tongue is mandarin, but I hope my words can make you feel a little less lonely :))) A Letter to You kzbin.info/www/bejne/rHOcfmOcbqt3n6csi=dTu8pAt0tyYVHhc9 Podcast youtube.com/@madeitoutpodcast?si=FVBuaSYGoMPT-BEB

@丁乙芸 7 ай бұрын

沒小孩的時候，都覺得有小孩的人遲到就是不夠努力⋯⋯後來發現，真的是很不想努力耶😂就是會遲到啊啊啊

@jaypv2388 7 ай бұрын

😅😅😅小孩🤣🤣🤣 5:49 11:53 🐰🐺越來越👍！❤ 我遇到過的在爆踢的後座都不是小孩，而是大人！😅🤣🤣🤣他會爆踢，我會爆粗！🤣🤣🤣我也不賴。😆 我老師給我一個分享~終極育兒教育：修理自己。🤣🤣🤣

@kinhyL 7 ай бұрын

很認同 "終極育兒教育：修理自己。" 真的，你如何孩子就如何所以一定要把自己的不好改好要不然只會看見另一個自己，全部不好都在那孩子身上因為孩子真的是身教很重要~ 看著爸媽去模仿長大的 ----- 補充 ----- 本身是從事兒童藝術教育接觸不少幼兒，真的可以從孩子身上看見他們平時如何對待他人或父母然後就知道父母平常是如何教育他們

@jaypv2388 7 ай бұрын

@@kinhyL 所以我是不生主義者。😅🤣🤣🤣

@kinhyL 7 ай бұрын

@@jaypv2388 🤣