Please do not come to malaysia if you do not like UK. Malaysia is far worse condition if you have chinese skin color. Please see the comments of prominent ExPM(elected twice) about chopstick. It is even harder if you want to have prolong stay and make a living. 如果您不喜欢英国,请不要来马来西亚。 如果你有中国人的肤色,請參閱著名 ExPM(兩次當選)關於筷子的評論。马来西亚的情况要糟糕得多。 如果您想长期逗留并谋生,那就更难了。
That's great that you are aware of your desire to have deep connections, hop on a plane someday and visit Malaysia! Meanwhile there are great youtubes to watch that may answer some of the stuff you have been wondering.
You just gave me a good idea on where to visit when I come back to KL for a short visit in August. I like the way you can initiate talking to strangers. You can learn a lot from other people through talking.