[M4F] Your Best Friend asks if he can stay over after he fought with his parents [ASMR] (deep talk)

you open the door to find your best friend asking if he can stay the night. you say yes and he starts to explain why he needed a place to stay
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[@senioAra]

AWWWWW THIS MAN DESERVES LOVE

[@kayleighmel4554]

An autistic demisexual, welcome to the club! What I give to have a person like you in my life to talk like this with. You so often put exactly how I feel into the words I can't

[@beebo-the-blobfish]

Why are you telling my whole life story🤪 from being demisexual, to recently discovering being neuro-spicy, and the conversative parents. It's almost scary how much you just described my life. EVEN THE FRUSTRATION OF WRITING ESSAYS. I'm stunned👏👏

[@justme.itsuki]

as a neurodivergent pansexual i can relate to this sm and its so sad how we still go through this same criticism in 2024, its been so many years of hearing "this isnt natural", "god didn't plan this out for you" blah blah blah and i wish it could all end soon, we need a generation where we can finally be accepted and not looked at like monsters.

[@spirit_shiro8024]

i’ve never found someone in my life that thinks the same way i do and went through the same situation as me. thank you bring this part of your life up and hope things get better for you

[@jenifaelderubis9627]

Hiiii~ (always gives me butterflies ☺️) I love this video, it feels incredibly validating for me as I’ve had those kinds of conversations with people, including my parents. As a demisexual and demiromantic, I’ve heard the whole speech of “oh it doesn’t exist and it’s just that you haven’t met someone yet and bla-bla-bla”. Like, if that’s how this is received, how is it gonna be if/when I have to come out about my gender identity (cause I’m heavily questioning myself rn)…? And my dad told me almost exactly the same thing when I brought up the self-diagnosis of AuDHD (autism + ADHD)… and I had some psychology classes AND some “yeah, that makes sense, you should definitely try to get some assessments done” by professionals (they’re just not the ones that can legally give you a diagnosis) so yeah… That video felt incredibly relatable, validating and cathartic for me. Thank you! Anyway, y’all take care folks and remember that you are valid and loved! 🫰

[@BellaHarris-t7k]

Coming from someone clinically diagnosed with Asperger’s, if self diagnosing is done with the right amount of research and it brings u solace and comfort then that’s fine. I hope u have managed to connect with like minded folk. For me I’ve decided to go nomad style and go completely independent but it can be very useful to find those with the same diagnosis or issues and find comfort in that which I hope u once again have found

[@BellaHarris-t7k]

Also friends to lover makes so much sense. Like falling in love with someone u have a really close bond with just makes sense

[@natsanerd]

its the same for me. ive done my research and talked to people with dyslexia and anxiety and all that and ive figured out that im on the spectrum for certain attributes of dyslexia and all that jazz and it definitely takes a lot of looking into and ive learned a lot about it and how you dont have to have every single aspect of a mental illness like dyslexia or autism to have those illnesses. so yeah.

[@yangeldorf]

i'm only 8 minutes in but oh my that's too damn relatable 😩 edit: 12:00 oh it got even more relatable

[@chloebrynn]

I love how relatable this video is tbh my parents are okay and are the ones who pointed out that I could be autistic but when I tell other people they instantly tell me I’m not just because I’m not as quote on quote bad as people with autism are

[@Ivy254]

I havent heard the whole thing yet, just got to the demisexual part and my heart did the thing. Being ace and demiromantic is such a subtle but huge part of me, it gives me tingles hearing someone else talking about it 😭😭 edit: and now neurodivergence too 😭 bro i feel so seen. I struggled with all this so much during covid bcz i was in my head a lot more with nothing much else to do. I remember being so so desperate for help i almost told my mom. i didnt end up telling her, the fear of possible rejection was way too much. Im in a much better place now but god that was an awful time

[@sparklepugtea]

I swear my throat has been killing me the past week, but this is making my day better at least :)

[@tcao9458]

Not me going, "That's so me!" During this whole thing. Also at 26:30 ish you explained the things really well!

[@CinderFalls]

This reminded me of the conversation I had with my mother about autism. Luckily it wasn't so bad to the point we argued but she was also very much denying the possibility that I could be on the spectrum. I feel like they all have the same response when autism is brought up, just a simple "No."

[@violet3449]

I love your videos and it makes it even more special when I learn something new! Didn't know what demisexual was till now. Hope all is well or is going to be well soon! I also relate too much to the dismissive parents.

[@emotionallizard6236]

As an Asexual Demiromantic person thank you for recognizing those on the Ace spectrum. I feel like the ace spectrum is often dismissed like you're describing.

[@emotionallizard6236]

Also being diagnosed ADHD and self-diagnosed Autistic and being afraid to bring it up to my conservative relatives, after spending years wondering if I was broken or wrong.

[@BluestormsSong]

For what you said about politics, 🙌 THANK YOU!!!! You are absolutely right, there are things that shouldn't be dragged into politics, but that doesn't stop people from butting in where they shouldn't.

[@urgirlIvy_]

Velll we need part 4 of the babysitter but take your time we'll be here waiting 💗💗

[@chloebrynn]

Omg 16:05 was like so relatable I never even thought I could have been autistic u till my mum brought it up and now I read much more into it I relate to everything I always felt like I never fitted in and that I was different but I thought that was just my anxiety which some of it was but most of it was autism

[@ray.b9341]

Holy crap! Wait this makes sense now that I look back on how I was in high school 🫥 I had a friend from the tennis team who had a crush on me but I barely knew the him. A year later I fall hard for this guy and I confess which was terrifying and he said he no longer felt the same 🤣

[@Renadi245]

IN LOVE

[@Sarahpayton-pq4bi]

I hope he knows that he's my only comfort😃😃

[@Aylilla]

HIIII OMG YOURE BACKK

[@hectic2216]

As a clinically diagnosed Aspie, I hate how accurately raw these descriptions are about how it feels to be on the [aroace & neurodivergent] spectrum are. Hate because I know how shitty & broken I felt, believing something is wrong with me for the longest time & seeing people going through the same unpleasant experience. Sigh... Great audio though. I'm the one listening but I felt heard.

[@danidias0421]

Just P.E.R.F.E.C.T🩷

[@Sage_doesart]

Fun fact I'm bisexual and autistic

[@mayonnaise-no.1]

im so acoustic

[@senioAra]

Hope you're soing fine

[@CinderFalls]

32:24 Hope you're ready to catch these hands 🗣️

[@She_so._groovy]

YAYY!! IM EARLY!!!! 💗💗💗

[@CarmenDeveroux]

Love! Hai! ❤

[@SandStone-ni7ks]

Ok, I might be overthinking this but I do believe that the colors of the demisexual flag are the colors of the shadows in velvet’s eyes. If you look closely. 😅If I am wrong I do apologize.

[@velvetvoiceaudio-rb8pw]

if they are that is one hell of a coincidence. neither me or the artist making my pfp intended that. but hey, if it is, fits i suppose

[@SandStone-ni7ks]

Guess so.🫢

[@TheBlackDork]

Ahhhhj

[@senioAra]

HIIIIIIIII~~

[@ilikemenshands]

I feel like I’m watching an episode of Drag Race and I’m being READ LMAO!! No, but seriously I think you’re in my head sir. Besides the demisexual aspect of things, you’ve literally described me to a T. I just got into a mini-fight with my mom abt my mental health and she completely dismissed everything I was expressing with a “point” that didn’t make a lick of sense. But anywaysss, this is another banger audio that ya girl loves!! As always, much love 🫶🏽🫶🏽