From Lizzo to Sexy Red: Who Decides What's 'Too Much'? I How Body Positivity Fails Black Women

[@shaunadams670]

This is what media is allowing black women to push. Not family or positivity. 304 phase and twerking.

[@kareemabdulwahhab6919]

This is some shameful shit.

[@luthandogertze4060]

why do women like telling me what they want instead of asking us

[@georgehoustonofficial]

i'm not gonna front...this whole conversation was disgusting and full of denial

[@CelesteJem]

And confusing 🙄

[@RawwRex]

I ain’t even listen yet ima come back to this comment 😭😭😭

[@RawwRex]

“Twerking is in black womens DNA” well damn I ain’t make it far 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@chadthedad03]

Listening to this group of black women is depressing, especially when they talked about 304 phase. Sad and embarrassed. My daughter WILL NOT be like these women.

[@elizabethh4329]

then you should probably get her into a good network of like minded girlies near her! it makes all the difference ❤

[@chadthedad03]

@elizabethh4329 i've already started to teach my daughter to look up to and follow people who have the results she'd like, that didn't mortgage their dignity or morality. For example, 304 phases have never helped black women get married. Women are born with value. All they have to do is preserve, and add onto it. These women are teaching sistas how to diminish their value. Blind leading the blind.

[@ddoubleu170]

You don’t know who your daughter will become as a woman to her partners, nor should you. That will not be any of your business to know and would be quit weird if you pry. Focus on being a safe space for her and prepare her for the world. All men are not bad, but all men are not good - no matter how “good” of a woman you are. Encourage her to protect her self and work within her best interests/not sacrifice her time on unworthy people.

[@chadthedad03]

@ddoubleu170 I said what I said. Maybe your daughter will move like these "ladies," but mine will not. She already understands that she was born with value that she must preserve, and must add onto it. The women on this panel are telling women how to diminish themselves. Them speaking on relationships while their old selves are still sleeping with strangers, and having no rings between them is ridiculous work.

[@chadthedad03]

Lol. My reply comments are being erased.

[@TMCLLNH]

Wow, a whole conversation about shaking your butt, as a Blackman this is the reason so many brothers are heading in the opposite direction. Offended by everything ashamed by nothing. Keep leading sisters down the wrong path y’all doing a great job!

[@aniket367]

the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is what everyone avoids because it’s too real

[@jayc5756]

SMH 🤦‍♂️

[@missmarionlewis]

Why arent rhese episodes longer?

[@MamaPout]

This is the goofiest shit I've seen in a while. Damn. Black women are lost.

[@JoseWrightJr]

Body positivity as a topic...needs to die. Preservation, infatuation, & adoration of one's self shouldn't garner this much attention! Let everyone LOVE & LIVE IN their own bodies. There's a lack of backbone & comprehensive capability, and that's why the masses follow societal standards like clueless sheep. *shrugs*

[@alaroche]

this is psychobabble nonsense. Everyone "loving" their bodies is the reason why we are the most obese nation in the world. We have the most overtaxed healthcare system in the world. People are dying diabetes, high blood pressure, and cholesterol, especially in the BLACK COMMUNITY. This is not a feelings issue, it's a biology one. Stop with the emotional arguments and let's get healthy as a people. Stop embracing toxic behaviors like overeating.

[@JustBree716]

I dont see wedding rings on anybody

[@nisham27]

That’s very judgmental…wow

[@JustBree716]

@nisham27 it's an observation. You prefer to be offended and that's your right. But miss me sis. I said what I said for a reason.

[@jeannestrickland7027]

Don't fool yourself into thinking that a wedding ring represents high value. Talk to some sisters who have been around for years. Even Halle B., Mariah, Carey's, etc. types often end up divorced. Value begins with you.

[@JustBree716]

@@jeannestrickland7027 @jeannestrickland7027 there's 7 words in my initial sentence. Don't use your drunk talking points to add or subtract to what I said. An adult would ask the question and not assume that I meant that wives are more valuable. Now as a Christian, yes they absolutely are. However as an adult I am clear that not everyone shares my beliefs. To assume what you have based on 7 words is typical of one who don't comprehend. Happy New Year

[@chadthedad03]

​@jeannestrickland7027 You list 2 celebrity superstars? They don't live the same reality as 99% of the US population but you use them as examples? And Halle herself has had multiple failed marriages and relationships. Comes to a point where people must accept the common denominator. Just like all the women on this panel. They all move on demontime, and none have a ring for some reason. I'm embarrassed and I'm not even with them.

[@BasedLord-xr2lo]

Y’all are embarrassing yourselves

[@SavageWithaPen]

The way these women are speaking their truths!!!!

[@ViolaMline]

5:53 yes she does LIZZO stated a whole movement had a waist trainer line promoting big girls and with the show that got her in hot waters… her whole thing became her size by trying to fight the ridicule but it didn’t work cause of her exaggerated actions. The fell in love with her for her flute I wish she stuck with that more

[@Julissa0_o]

Man the comment section is angry, you know no one is forcing you to consume this content. You can choose to simply not watch .

[@snipes4486]

Your just as lost as these clowns if you agree with this nonsense

[@chadthedad03]

Not angry, it's disheartening to see black women this lost. And they have a platform like they speak for BW. Also, are the comments about these women incorrect?

[@ROBShembe]

0:22 What is happening? Zuma💤💤💤💤💤💤💤💤 style "I back again"🧛‍♂️

[@Julissa0_o]

I wish these videos were like 20 minutes 😢

[@jrgetda1911]

This TV show is giving young people advice is terrible a podcast whatever you wanna call it. She 39 years old talk about she wanted to be taken care of at the whole bunch of bad decisions.

[@kingcosmo5731]

A Trauma podcast equals Trauma results….these O’s for the street .. when you seem them, treat them as such 😂😂😂😂

[@Samarthgaikwad-w6x]

society would change overnight if more people read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki

[@ccd5942]

The shot will not have you binge eating afterwards. Please, Bring a healthcare professional on when talking about health , wellness, and medications. The GLP-1 drugs decrease food noise and make you feel fuller longer. They have many benefits! Let’s educate and share factual information. There is to many myths in our community! Love your podcast

[@SavageWithaPen]

Blonde hair ate down!!!!!!!

[@Sandipbhai-tx6jm]

everything you believe might crumble if you read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki

[@tanajidubukwad]

they don’t want you to read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki because it sets you free

[@ViolaMline]

And this too short! Longer episodes please

[@MdSaif-gy2lp]

the truth feels dangerous, and that’s why the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is ignored

[@KyeyuneBatuma]

Yikes 😅