MAFS s14, ep 13

[@karendrives970]

The problem is that Olajuwan consistently talks about the work Katina puts in and never mentions putting in any effort himself.

[@shelbyvan]

Maybe she should up talk him. Then people will see what she sees But i like them

[@_CPerk]

He doesn’t think he needs to Improve anything

[@joyprice209]

And we see no effort

[@shelbyvan]

@@_CPerk i don’t think that’s true. I think katina needs to speak up. When called on his bs. He always tries to change.

[@NatashaB228]

She missed Kev’s sarcasm about O being a good husband for 1922.

[@elon9181]

Kev handled that real well

[@iAMtheYELLOWrose]

Steve definitely deserves better. I think he hasn’t laid out his finances to her because she is not right for him. She won’t respect his feelings about the social media thing. She doesn’t want to move in together after the show is done. She barely helps him around the house. He is the one that cooks and cleans. It sounds like he is the one that pays for things. He got her and her dog a gift. He accepted her dog even though he was not into it at first. He is always willing to talk about things to iron them out. Its def not Steve. Its Noi. And when he saw the story on her social media, he should’ve said, “I agree.” I do think Noi is a self sabotager.

[@IamTiaB]

She's an INFANT. A-nois the stew out of me. She DON'T want to married. She so immature 🙄 😒

[@IamTiaB]

Btw...if you listen to Steve dude got it together, how many of us saved up enough to live off of. If you caught what he said he saved a bunch of money and he's looking for an AMBITIOUS wife to figure what "business" they wanna start together. Go back around episode 3-5 one of them. But yes I agree with all you said @YellowRose

[@brownskinbeauty.]

@@IamTiaB Yes. He said he has multiple sources of income too, but that's not enough for her. She thinks he needs to work a regular 9-5 in order to make money

[@shelbyvan]

I think he is rich and doesn’t want that to be the reason he’s chosen.

[@flawlessfabdiva]

@@shelbyvan oh I agree, Steve is definitely holding a bag 💰

[@karendrives970]

Olajuwan had to admit he didn't cook for himself as a single man but enjoys making it sound like Katina has to have all the skills.

[@CherieButler]

He's a man....so that's why he believes that's acceptable. I think he is one of those manosphere f-boys ...that are asking women what they bring to the table. He treats her like a rescue dog that needs to be trained; not a life-partner.

[@karendrives970]

@@CherieButler absolutely and there are far too many Black men who have fallen for that ideology.

[@msbrownsuga]

@@CherieButler And hasn't provided a bit of evidence of what he has/will do for HER. So infuriating, and so sad.

[@circe...]

Right. I thought when they went to the cabin and the men were cooking, that Ola was gonna put his foot in it... he put his butt on a stool and watched Steve. SMH. What does he ACTUALLY bring to the table besides condescending jokes & jabs?

[@karendrives970]

@@circe... He's useless. Steve is completely self reliant. Olajuwan just runs his mouth.

[@zemetriahampton3454]

Honestly this week's episode put it all into perspective with Noi. She doesn't want to work once she's married/ has children so this worry about his work ethic and his financial stability has nothing to do with him and everything to do with the fact that she wants to stay at home and be taken care of.

[@IamTiaB]

BOOM

[@joanna0988]

He does work though, he's self employed. He's created and sold apps. It's a different industry but like Steve said it's more like real estate where you make lump sums vs consistent salaries.

[@derrickmason7457]

💯I think they will say yes decision day and then by reunion show it’s over

[@admissionisms]

Yup. I peeped the same thing in this episode.

[@msbrownsuga]

And she's been dishonest with Steve/herself about that fact. Noi, Lindsay, and O'Isaac are three peas in the same pod of believing there is only one way that their partners should behave, and punishing them - perfect strangers mind you - for not acting in the way Noi, Lindsay, & O'Isaac imagined.

[@crimsonskyy1]

Look at Marcus falling for Angel all over again when she went in on Noi!🤣🤣🤣🥰

[@Msladyrae92]

Petty= a love language

[@shelbyvan]

And on the itgtcaa when he said he would slap Will. Did you see Angel gooshing all over him. Like. That’s my man

[@crimsonskyy1]

@shelbyvan I saw him say he would’ve slapped Chris in the same situation over Angel and yes she gushed bc she already knew that answer

[@MszzDee]

Noi doesn’t want a plan she just wants him to work. She keeps saying it’s about feeling secure with finances but I think she has this picture of what she sees marriage as and Steve needs to fit her description. Even this week she said she is happy being a one income family cause she wants to be a stay at home mom.

[@twoelles1056]

🗣THANK YOU!!! I have said this since week 2.

[@Msladyrae92]

Olajuwon love bombed her at the wedding and has been knocking her down to size ever since. It is a tactic in abuse. Build the person up to break them down. He gives love then takes it away. Like Marcus was saying, there IS a difference between being and abuser and having abusive behavior. An abuser sets out with that as their intention. I don't think O is a bad guy, i think he has just learned horrible relationship tactics and I think it may be because he hasn't had much experience.

[@aliveandhearty7321]

Or maybe he's had a lot of indirect experience in men shrinking women's self esteem and is patterning himself off that.. i would love to see the relationship between that afican daddy and European mom maybe that holds some keys. I didn't like O from start because he talks too fast and too much. People like those are afraid of what you will find out if they fall silent for a second

[@IamTiaB]

And a Becky raised him, not being funny just being real although we have Tisha Scott for the black folk but most of the time our men are not that barbaric, it’s usually not allowed. 🤷🏾‍♀️ O and Otis from PAROI 💍 have barbaric behavior towards their mate.

[@Msladyrae92]

@@aliveandhearty7321 possibly, he’s witnessed some bad began and is modeling after that. Quite possibly he’s witnessed an overly dominant male and a submissive and quiet woman dynamic? I didn’t know his parents are still together I thought he was raised by his Mother only.

[@Msladyrae92]

@@aliveandhearty7321 and to piggyback off of your point about his speech. It does definitely alarm me. I call it the “ used car salesman” they will talk your ear off and go around in circles so that you get dizzy and can’t catch on to the fact that you’re buying a faulty car lol. He tried that with Katina’s male friend and he was NOT buying it. O is a charmer and he knows how to use words in his favor

[@Msladyrae92]

Melissa hit the nail on the head. Olajuwon does not respect the opinion of women. He is extremely condescending. He is so incredibly negative. I think that Katina goes out of her way to please him and be what he says he wants.

[@kendrat90]

Boom! I said the exact same thing after this episode. And he reads Katina’s silence as her disagreeing with the other person has said. He belittles her and talks down to her and she takes it. I want better for her.

[@thoughtsideas6929]

To the Panel: GUUUYYYSSS! Several episodes ago when Steve and Noi were on a boat, Steve told Noi, he keeps trying to have the convo w Noi and NOI KEPT AVOIDING the conversation. Nice girl but she's acting like a brat and, as of late, she's been acting like a jerk w that social media convo.

[@phillymystery]

Exactly. Now is annoying, stuck up, and selfish.

[@msAngel711]

The Mark & Lindsey impersonations had me cracking up! 🤣

[@rafiqah4106]

yes! I died! The Mark eyes!

[@johnanon9280]

This looks great being recorded in this studio.

[@YoutubeNameHere]

Olijawan thinks it’s good to be “passionate” and fail to realize he is emotionally imbalanced. He does not know how to control his emotions and lashes out when he thinks he is getting treated the way he treated women in the past.

[@nunayodangbizness8403]

He doesn't realize you can't avoid karma.

[@daniellesaffell3156]

Ola emotionally reasons, a huge error in Thinking where we justify how we treat others based off of our own feelings we have to own our own but it doesn't give us the right to treat people badly because of how we feel and feelings

[@FlabbyDouglas]

Emotionally imbalanced. Accurate.

[@ILoveNaeSayers]

Marcus acting like Mark took me OWT!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭 “the top of my eyes be getting dry”

[@karendrives970]

I think Jasmina and Mike COULD make it. I think Jasmina decided early on she wasn't attracted and isn't allowing herself to move past that point, though it's clear in multiple scenes that she leans in on him.

[@msbrownsuga]

Yup.

[@dcarmon8888]

That 1923 analogy just went all the way over homegirl's head, lol.

[@joannachavis9237]

The Mark and Lindsey impressions have me in stitches 😂😂😂

[@cocobrown1401]

So I just want to know when is O going to speak to Katina's love language? It all about what he need.. What he want. What he require! She bending to his needs! When is he going to ask her what she needs or requires!

[@nunayodangbizness8403]

He isn't going to because he thinks that it's not a requirement for a husband.

[@IamTiaB]

Same for Jasmina, when is SHE gonna "share" deep stuff

[@derrickmason7457]

She’s going to have to stand up for her at one point but I think she’s ignorantly focused she’s trying to be the best wife but putting her needs on the back burner will drain her eventually

[@msbrownsuga]

@@nunayodangbizness8403 👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿

[@msbrownsuga]

@@IamTiaB 👆🏿👆🏿👆🏿 We know NAYTHAN about Jasmina beyond what we learned on their first episode - and there seemed to be a lot to unpack. Yet she and the producers/editors have managed to make "their" story only about Mike's trauma.

[@celesteakaolisa2227]

Angel text Marcus and then both of them laughing? Wholesome.

[@miyahmcclaney675]

When? I ,missed it

[@ShaqJordan]

@@miyahmcclaney675 i missed it too!

[@RDT713]

Angel and Marcus imitating Lindsey and Mark has made my night 🤣🤣

[@cgreene8929]

Marcus is on... about Olajuwon being abusive. About Jasmina needing to put in work too. All of it. The thought that Michael clearly doesn't need more from Jasmina because he didn't say so is waaaay off. He didn't say anything because any time he tried to hold her accountable during the first half of their marriage, they ended up fighting. Michael is just willing to hold the blame if that means he may have a successful marriage. Want to see them make it but Jasmina certainly doesn't deserve him.

[@Msladyrae92]

Yes , I’ve seen him do this on so many occasions and I think that is why he’s make an excellent husband. The only thing we’ve seen him do is lie about the roommate. That was very strange but I mean maybe he was just nervous or didn’t want that on camera? Lol

[@Chitownfinest67]

O is an ABUSER!!! PERIOD. Katina is showing signs of emotionally abused woman!!! He is RIDICULOUS. He is for sure playing abuser 101 handbook

[@micdelos]

I understood where Kev was coming from with respect to Olaijuwan being a good husband in 1920. While not correct, standards were different back then. Olaijawan is not ready for marriage and need help, simply put.

[@daniellesaffell3156]

Marcus you are so right I'm a therapist and we meet the client where they're at our purpose is not to argue with people and force them to see their issues

[@Msladyrae92]

I think the most important part about seeking therapy is to be receptive to hearing about your shortcomings. That’s a big step and humans struggle with self actualization.

[@daniellesaffell3156]

@@Msladyrae92 yes, if Ola were seeking therapy and a rapport had been established between counselor and client, healthy confrontation is appropriate.

[@terynmc]

I wanna see Olajuwans interview tapes, like HOW did he make it on the show? The math ain’t mathing.

[@Msladyrae92]

He’s gotta be a recruit from another reality show audition

[@itsnotme7969]

And Lindsay’s tapes….How did that happen??

[@ATSGENXStyle]

@T Mc..exactly how did he make it on the show?????

[@brittany6500]

Steve got money if this man can travel comfortably and put his feet up he’s doing very well financially. When he told Noi that she can take time off from work says it all and he’s telling Noi that she can quit her job and work with him that’s a blessing lol. But Noi needs to grow up she’s very immature.

[@msbrownsuga]

Noi needs to stop being immature, absolutely. But: nothing Steve has said or done demonstrates that he is financially responsible and has consistent income (or a future plan). People spend more than they should, and/or more than they have, ALL the time. He may have walked away from his job with a decent lump sum, but he has yet to demonstrate a plan for maintaining an income stream: be it a 9-5, freelance consulting, starting his own business, or even living off of a stocks portfolio. Yes, he talks about ways that he "could" but not what he "is/will" do. I hope maybe they are just frontin' for the show, but it doesn't seem like it.

[@cshell75]

Noi is definitely immature. But I don’t think she is wrong for wanting a man with job security. Everyone is not meant to be the string for a dreamer. Entrepreneurs need partners that can deal with uncertainty.

[@brittany6500]

@@msbrownsuga good point about Steve your absolutely right. I was thinking the same thing about putting on a front because he’s really not saying anything about that topic

[@b.m5257]

His parents own an apartments building and he lives one of the complexes, he doesn’t really have big bills

[@karendrives970]

@@msbrownsuga but there's also not a thing he's said or done that indicates he's financially irresponsible either. He's not out there wildly spending that we've seen. He's home when he could be out playing. He's confident in himself and his earning abilities for a reason. He's a proven quantity and has enough confidence not to feel he has to be demonstrative about it.

[@6FtSlim]

NEVER watched an episode, yet so invested. Thanks you guys❣

[@prettygurl747]

This needs to be shouted from the mountain top.... VERBAL ABUSE IS EQUIVALENT TO PHYSICAL ABUSE! I don’t care who says otherwise. I’m ready to fight! 👊🏾 Every time they talk about O and Katina, it frustrates me that only Marcus will boldly label their relationship as “abusive”. The fact that the other 3 can’t see that as abuse, it really makes me question their judgment.

[@theg1rlThyme]

Same and it’s kind of starting to turn me off from even watching

[@prettygurl747]

@@theg1rlThyme agree. i used to look forward to their opinions on each episode...not so much anymore.

[@Sandi-lt6yu]

Agreed! Marcus always keeps it real. It’s absolutely abusive. She literally said “I feel like he’s beating on me with his tone” that made me so sad. Idk why they’re so hesitant to call it what it is. I think it’s because Kevin and Melissa met O in person and have some bias? Idk.

[@prettygurl747]

@@Sandi-lt6yu There’s definitely some bias there.

[@TheBwil32]

SAME!!! I wish they would’ve had Marcus on the after show when O and Katina were on.

[@PRTEEGRL]

Here’s the trick to a FANTASTIC BBQ/cookout: don’t invite people until you’re done cooking!!! If you tell people you’re cooking, it’s too much pressure. Cook first. If your food is good, THEN call folks. If it’s bad, no one would ever know!!

[@MsmissesOfficial]

This is low-key genius

[@naytime]

😂😂

[@LocdnessMomster]

Olajuwan and Johnny sound like they'd be great friends.

[@kerrynhughley3543]

I’m trying not to wake my baby up but Marcus and Angel have me in tears with this Lindsey impersonation 😂

[@karendrives970]

Because Noi was refusing to listen when Steve would want to talk about his finances. He said that. He pulled out the spread sheet to force the issue and she STILL made childish faces.

[@derrickmason7457]

💯 she doesn’t want to speak about what bothers him but she forced the issue on the finances

[@cheryljohns5868]

Melissa you look so pretty. I love your hair.

[@strul001able]

Lis is the only person in America that has hope for Jas and mike 😂😂

[@karendrives970]

I see Jasmina leaning into Mike. She's comfortable with him and isn't willing to admit that's attraction.

[@Ashleynavyy]

😂

[@esther2027]

Me too😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I want them to work so bad!!! They literally could work if they just gave each other more timeswithout the cameras

[@Klgray7373]

Nope! I want them to make it & be happy but they need to start hugging & kidding to light that intimacy

[@Selflovematters4life]

Man when those get turned off they can make it. If Jamie was able to develop romantic feelings for Doug, Jaz and Mike can make it. The attraction was they on wedding day.

[@Xshonda]

The Mark and Lindsey impersonations have me in tears and literally screaming 😂😂😂😂😂

[@rileyptk]

😂😂😂😂

[@iAMtheYELLOWrose]

I am so excited to see what yall think about the latest episode.

[@jasontaylor9944]

If O hasn't ever been arrested for domestic violence, I would be stunned. He is a classic dv abuser exerting power and control over his victims.

[@Msladyrae92]

He seems like the type that would punch someone randomly at a bar

[@jasontaylor9944]

@@Msladyrae92 it's not his fault, they looked at him "sideways"

[@sumdat99]

I just knew Alyssa was going to pop out of a closet at the retreat..lol

[@talkingwithtyvethia7283]

Yessss and I’m so glad that that did not happen!

[@jaclynlee6386]

😂😂😂

[@flowerchildwild]

😂😂😂😂

[@cheryljohns5868]

Katina is desperate. That's why she puts up with that man. Neither one of them are ready for marriage. They are both immature.

[@Msladyrae92]

She has low self esteem unfortunately, a lot of us struggle with it until we gain self love

[@scovyaporsha]

@@Msladyrae92 And I think in her head she thinks O is the best thing since Jesus Christ. I've been there. It takes knowing who you really are and know your worth to walk away. Katina is not there yet. Hopefully she can get there. She's got alot to give to the right person.

[@darkenyawebber-tennell262]

Steve wants to be respected and protected by his wife. Especially if he is in a higher income bracket. Jas, is use to men being enamored and oozing sexual lust Her hubby is seemingly more reserved and he is protecting himself as well. Once again, individuals should do self work to process hurt and seek to forgive. No couple is going to make it, but they all need to make it to therapy.

[@TWood-bq3jj]

None?

[@Trice_Marie84]

Michael and Jasmina remind me a little of Karen and Miles. I think they will make it! I hope 😂

[@johnanon9280]

No. Jasmina is simply not attracted to Michael.

[@Trice_Marie84]

@@johnanon9280 attraction can grow.

[@IamTiaB]

Cause I just knew Killer was gonna say no!

[@talkingwithtyvethia7283]

I hope so. Cause for somebody who doesn’t feel anything, she is always close to him!

[@Trice_Marie84]

@@talkingwithtyvethia7283 right!!! And matching shirts if you watched this week

[@Sunshroom__]

I love how Melissa missed Kev’s whole point 🤣

[@LocdnessMomster]

He looked a little hurt after

[@Nikki-ci5ze]

I do not love that. So speak to your husband in such a way to make the exact same point your husband was saying is just eww😮

[@kimberlyturner4065]

I believe Steve doesn’t trust Noi enough to share what he actually has. For some reason he can’t/won’t articulate what he said on the After Party “I develop Apps from scratch, Ive sold Apps to Apple…” I caught that & it confirmed to me that he has his ish together…

[@Msladyrae92]

He might have said it off camera . I do think he’s not very good at articulating that aspect of himself

[@jemnaturally3050]

You four make this show 10x better!! 🤣💛

[@tonyswifey7976]

He’s truly abusive. Run Katina run. 😣😣😣

[@twoelles1056]

🗣THANK YOU MARCUS!!! I never understood how people were on and still on Noi’s side! She has been a liar since the honeymoon. Quite frankly, listening to her opening story, she was giving red flags from the jump. She’s projecting own personal insecurities and instabilities onto Steve. So is Steve expected to put Noi’s life together and provide her the stability she’s lacking simply because he’s the husband/man?🤔 is he her father or spouse?

[@Msladyrae92]

I agree with Angel, I think Jasmina does have attraction to Mike WHEN things are going really well. In those moments he needs to run with it and take the lead on being more physical. I think she is used to having a man be more agggressive in that area. Mike don't be taking her subtle cues

[@brianbeavers6224]

Bingo! I hate the term but I think she prefers alpha men who go after what they want and make their desires known and handle biz. Mike is acting scary and not flirting or anything. It turns her off and he doesn't get it. I wish Pastor Cal would have got them in a room and asked why there is no hand holding, sex or kissing and made both answer.

[@Msladyrae92]

@@brianbeavers6224 yea I totally understand her feelings. I would be more inclined to put him in the friend zone if he’s not making some kind of moves

[@jessicaharris435]

I just realized that Mark's company did him like Office Space 🤣

[@joanna0988]

🤣🤣🤣 Love that movie

[@filmadcamp1512]

Oh my goodness, I used to direct that song back in the day with the Children's Choir - Inside Out.🤣 I didn't realize it was popular.

[@MrClbrown33]

Yall are missing the point when Steve said he tried SEVERAL times to have the conversation with Noi and she will not give him ANY feedback. Also, she admitted that she wants to be a stay at home mom to 3 kids while he HAS to get a 9-5???? That's stupid in my opinion. She is selfish and immature and doesn't deserve Steve in my opinion.

[@blacknsmallbuys]

They are an episode behind.

[@Msladyrae92]

Yea even when he talks to her about it she doesn’t say anything back. It’s not like “okay let’s come up with a game plan “. She’s incapable of compromising on ANYTHING. She wants him to say he’ll get a 9-5 job tmro and that’s that she won’t be happy otherwise. She’s a brat . Not ready for marriage nor motherhood

[@melissafreeman8219]

Yes! It does not matter the year. Respect is respect.

[@ldjchs]

We don't care about the show for real. We watch this for y'all

[@desmondmurrell5097]

100 percent. I have NEVER seen the show. Lol

[@leanolaone6431]

I feel like everyone (Jas, us viewers and the experts) expect Mike to do all the work, open up more,be more romantic,initiate physical intimacy and we forget there are two ppl in the marriage. I know I want my man to lead,but a man also needs to be given the room to do that and it should not always be on him. Does Jas reach out to hold his hand,lean in on him when they are sitting on the couch, does she give him random pecks on the check/lips? On the other hand I feel like Mike is scared to fully open incase Jas says no on decision say,he doesn't want to be heartbroken

[@DelbertHewittJr]

thank you Angel for singing my song! Their not going make! NO their not make! more singing that song please!

[@IrisCannon]

I screamed when Marcus said In and Out 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@tenyathomas6065]

1:06:25....Forget about MAFS....let's talk about the proper sides at a BBQ! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I thoroughly enjoyed the side convo!

[@MsButtalove]

Thank you Marcus for saying it. O is being abusive and it is ridiculous. I believe he is so insecure when it comes to this marriage that he is projecting on his wife.

[@micdelos]

Is it me or did Melissa seem a bit irritated at times during this episode? I loved her hair makeup and fit. Angel is hilarious especially now that’s she’s recording remotely. Kev brought his A game today and had very good opinions. Marcus and Angel dynamic is awesome 😎

[@blacknsmallbuys]

She does seem a bit off. Probably just tired since she’s busy with filming Love On Stage season 2.

[@terrelynkornegay4234]

Braids may be too tight lol

[@fdoctor79]

It doesn't help either when you are constantly being cut off by others.

[@blossomwithgrace]

I think the rest of them came in with tension

[@Xshonda]

She definitely seemed irritated! Maybe she’s tired though.

[@PRTEEGRL]

I know FIRST HAND about the things that Olajuwon is doing. He is abusive. Hopefully. He’s young enough to change his behavior.

[@derrickmason7457]

You maybe right but I just don’t think he’s self aware I don’t think we can jump to abusive the man does truly care about the woman from what we’ve seen. Same as a person who is extremely insecure but unaware they are that

[@mohasnomoreftg]

Nah…. Stop make excuses for this man. He has proven he is abusive! Point blank… I’m tired of grown men not taking accountability for their behavior!

[@PRTEEGRL]

@@derrickmason7457 I agree with you. I don’t think that he knows how bad he is. He thinks he’s right. This is why mentorship is important. Gotta have someone in your life get can correct you and show you yourself.

[@derrickmason7457]

@@mohasnomoreftg if that’s the case you need to be that way across the board but considering they all couldn’t find love and resorted to experts finding it for them they all have some hurdles just like everyone in life. Idk if your married but the other person you marry has issues and insecurities that have to be worked on we can’t just throw someone away every time they do something we deem as disrespectful or marriage wouldn’t exist

[@derrickmason7457]

@@PRTEEGRL 💯

[@stajamarie4431]

Yeah Olajuwon is abusive. Look at how beat down Katina looks. I don’t like it.

[@CARATMom]

Jasmina don’t want Micheal. That dog won’t hunt. Melissa wants the marriage more than Jasmina. That’s the problem. Y’all be seeing stuff in Jasmina that isn’t there. She don’t want that man. It shouldn’t be this hard. Also she isn’t nice. I don’t know why y’all keep acting like Jasmina is good for Micheal. He deserves to be with someone who thinks he is wonderful.

[@joanna0988]

🤣🤣🤣 facts

[@IamTiaB]

Facts

[@derrickmason7457]

💯sad to hear tho there a beautiful couple but your right.

[@williams.matthews2711]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 $he’s completing her contractural obligation.

[@tiffbluestocking2020]

She sure don’t. He won’t want her either.

[@troskeyj]

Kev and Marcus talkin about the obligation butt had me weak!!

[@cusegurl66]

Noi thinks poor. Like Olajuwon she stuck in that back in the day work thought. I don't think she can grasped the idea, that this is not a 9 to 5 man. And like Steve said why should he be working for someone, when he can make more money for less time. He make an app or 2 in set for the year. She to poor minded, and immature.

[@pamk1967]

HEY TBTB 4!!! Liss, Kev had a point, dude had a 1920 mentality, but You win girl😉 Glad y'all are doing for us. And I had a husband that questioned my abilities on stuff he had no knowledge of, hence now an EX husband!✌🏾 Stay Healthy and safe 🙏🏾😷❤❤❤❤ 👋🏾 Hey Josh❣

[@9Essence]

Yessss for the grilled veggies 🥰🥰🥰 yes Grilled salmon 🥰 Ok the Ketchup on everything dance tho

[@tris5045]

Right on, Angel!! Ninja, you don't know how to cook butchu pop quizzin me on how to cook...O, go somewhere and seek validation elsewhere!! He's clearly a mam child who needs a hug and words of affirmation from his daddy and/mama.

[@deesp4778]

Come on now with the Inside Out mash up! I love how churchy Kev is! I was rocking right along with him…..“🎤although I’m a child and I may not know very much”

[@acoleman6621]

I'm with y'all on the sides. That's all I need when they're good.

[@vidalmonroe7569]

Why do Michael has to do all of the work? It's like she is perfect or something and he should kiss the ground she's walk on!?

[@brianbeavers6224]

Exactly I get tired of the focus on him. Why can't she open up and be vulnerable and earn his love and trust. A marriage is 2 people working to make it work. Damn she signed up for it

[@vidalmonroe7569]

@@brianbeavers6224 that shit pissing me off man

[@summerwoodson2288]

I love when they get off topic

[@nunayodangbizness8403]

I think Steve doesn't want to air out truly how much money he has because he doesn't want a materialistic wife. I have a feeling Noi is going to regret her behavior & showing all the worst of herself & miss a good guy. Steve is dodging a bullet but he definitely could have assured her without divulging to the audience & Noi ALL of his finances without some reassurance.

[@joanna0988]

I agree. He has developed and sold several apps. His industry may not have consistent paychecks but when he gets paid it's in lump sums in the 10s and 100 thousands.

[@jaysim3253]

@@joanna0988 yeah that's what I was thinking. After he does a job he'll probably bring in more than what most people make in 6 months or a year.

[@joanna0988]

@@jaysim3253 Exactly and he might work 2 hours one day and 10 the next. My brother in law is a graphic designer and his schedule is very flexible which is great when you have kids but I guess Noi doesn't see it that way.

[@nunayodangbizness8403]

@@joanna0988 she very much lives her life hyper focused on one way of doing things. She is also very self centered I wonder how that plays out professionally for her? Because if she is able to be open in a workplace setting then it means she's just not willing to make room for Steve.

[@joanna0988]

@@nunayodangbizness8403 True. She seems inexperienced in adult relationships. Well actually most of the cast does 🤣

[@BonesTheProd]

I wish this was for the current episode cuz last nights was a doozy lol

[@IamTiaB]

Oh this ain't last night's 🤦🏾‍♀️😩 dang

[@traciej6869]

Right!

[@talkingwithtyvethia7283]

Yes!

[@empressshev3372]

I just watched episode 14 and skipped over here looking for the review. I was royally pissed at the realization that Noi has a problem with Steve not working because she wants to be be the spouse who doesn't work!!

[@noirmative9293]

Honestly, Angel is my favorite.

[@cjdejour]

Can I just say...I have been terrified of Lindsey since I laid eyes on her. She looks like Rhoda from the bad seed movie. Patty McCormack has to be her ancestor. Whew! I feel better. Lol

[@Msladyrae92]

That’s one of my fav movies and books lol I loved patty McCormack I thought she was so believable but scary as heck

[@cjdejour]

@@Msladyrae92 yes she was so good! And they keep remaking this movie. I'm like nope. Got it the first time! Lol

[@m.w.8496]

Angel is even funnier on a separate video!

[@wordinsight]

To confirm this is last week's episode. Are you a week behind?

[@LaNayaD.]

I believe so because one week she didn’t upload

[@CARATMom]

Yes. They did an Oscar special in place of an episode.

[@dec1slh]

They no longer have early access to the episodes, so they are probably going to be a week behind going forward.

[@derrickmason7457]

@@dec1slh it be nice to tell the audience lol I’m commenting while listening and I’m like what I’m saying is for this week

[@erynjustice9080]

@@derrickmason7457 they did.

[@bheepeey]

Nice set, although today the energy between Kev and Melissa is a bit off, was there a fight just before the filming started?

[@Chitownfinest67]

Noi is seriously arguing over to continue to put her marriage personal issues on social media, and your husband is asking not to. ARE YOU KIDDING?!? She is not ready to be married. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@magbarr2760]

Kev broke Olajuwan all the way down

[@derrickmason7457]

So excited for Micheal and Jasmina but idk why ppl think love is supposed to be this Gaga love feeling that’s not true marriage is a marathon many days you wake up you have to choose to love. I’d hate to see them end because jasmina doesn’t have a lovey dovey feel. Feelings fade true love is loving all of a person who’s committed to you. Micheal has stepped up for her

[@joanna0988]

I've been married for 17 years and we started with a spark and still have it. Yes we built emotional attachment and have deep love for each other but a marriage with no lovey dovey feelings is just a roommate situation.

[@derrickmason7457]

@@joanna0988 nah I’m not saying lovey dovey is bad lol I’m saying judging wether or not you wana stay with someone on just a feeling is dangerous to me. Many days you wake up you may not be on best of terms you mean to tell me you feel lovey dovey in that moment or are you committed to the person without the feelings in the hard times.. I’m going on 10 yrs married and sure enough there’s days I don’t wana deal with myself let alone my wife when we’re not on the same page. But love is commitment not just the feeling . Jasmine is just waiting for a feeling and would he willing to pass on a man who’s willing to work to become better for her

[@joanna0988]

@@derrickmason7457 I don't think she has to force herself to be with him just because he's willing to put in work. She's young and beautiful, she has time to find a man who is committed and she also has romantic feelings for. And of course you will not feel lovey dovey 24/7 in any relationship but if you don't feel it at all then that's not a romantic relationship.

[@derrickmason7457]

@@joanna0988 and that’s the trap telling women they have time to keep passing up a good man over lovey feelings is foolish to me I know a lot of women who kept looking for better and better and never found this imaginary guy who made them feel soo Disney movie love. If she didn’t need help she wouldn’t have come on this show for experts for her to pick a man

[@joanna0988]

@@derrickmason7457 I never said a perfect man, I'm just saying it's possible to have those feelings in the long term. If it's not important to you that's fine but she wants the chemistry and spark so why should she settle? I know lots of women that chose husband's from a logical mindset and they're all divorced because the kids are older and they want excitement and romance in their life

[@LadyMO488]

OMG! Not Ruth Chris or In-N-Out😂😂😂🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

[@sherondaness7505]

Had me dying!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@leahb.1393]

That song at the end was so chaotic and funny 😂

[@SyracuseEatingClub]

Agree with Liss. I think Steve's points of time for cooking and cleaning was not addressing anything Noi cares about and he didn't realize that.

[@nunayodangbizness8403]

I really, really wish that men who don't like women for any reason other than sex, a maid & a baby incubator would just say that upfront. It exhausting, trying to discern them from those who truly like us.

[@sherondaness7505]

But they don't know it themselves 🤣 so they can't admit at all unfortunately sis.

[@joanna0988]

@@sherondaness7505 That part 😫

[@nunayodangbizness8403]

@@sherondaness7505 I think most do know but they also are of the belief that if they speak it out loud they will never get laid again. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@MsSugarDyme]

I think Noi is leveraging her unwillingness to censor her social media against Steve's unwillingness to get a job. It is petty and childish but I see it a lot in marriage.

[@nakiaholste9401]

Steve need to quit talking to Noi about social media and let that girl be single cuz she ain’t ready. She has also done a horrible job clearly saying to him “I would rather my husband traditionally work instead of me” cuz that’s what it is. Katina needs to leave Olajuwon alone. He is not the match for her. Lindsey needs to go to charm school PERIODT. Also, jasmina is not attracted to Michael and she’s force feeding us this “chemistry” thing.

[@CarlaMecheleMedia]

Marcus is correct. Olajuwon’a behavior is emotionally abusive. He is manipulative and making her feel small intentionally to feed his ego. He also expresses a lot of anger. He holds resentment towards women. This has potential to progress into a physically abusive relationship

[@bombchelle01]

I remember Steve saying that he pays 2/3 of the bills & he's not sure why noi is worried

[@mzhunter8691]

I think Michael snd Jasmina are going to make it too. I feel like In the end the unlikely couple will be the last one standing

[@saffiyaswashington5640]

Its called verbal abuse and that is a thing and that is crazy if he is truly doing that.

[@Bkrunz]

If it’s taking so much to be a stable, loving husband… being such a man may not be for you. I do not believe Olajuwan cherishes and respects Katina. If he does, his idea of what the looks like is differs from the majority.

[@GeeSmith333]

Lis wants Mike and Jas to make it so bad 🤣🤣🤣

[@mariojune1084]

Yall an episode behind!

[@girlfromdabay93]

Can y’all please talk about the ultimatum

[@CharliEdwards]

Is Liss okay?🥴

[@Webbfamilyforyou]

Honestly Marcus and Melissa can do this themselves and Angel and Kevin are just extras

[@firstname8348]

Agreed, great idea

[@christopherjackson7011]

I think they lean on having the option to leave at the end of the process which kinda circumvents the whole experience. At any moment they are met with too much discomfort of any kind for any reason from their partner they can distance themselves. Maybe because the marriage/relationship is new and they don't really have that connection/comfort it makes it harder?!?!

[@Msladyrae92]

Yea that's exactly it. These ppl went from single to married that is a huge leap.

[@msbrownsuga]

Which is where the show/experts fail them completely.

[@jacquelyncarr3487]

@@msbrownsuga but the show isn’t failing them when they’re signing up for this. These ppl have to had seen this show before. It’s married at first sight, it’s a legit legal commitment from jump. Most of them shouldn’t even go into this experiment.

[@loveherstuff]

I thought this was about to turn into a hellofresh ad lol I'm triggered Angel!

[@melisamichele7622]

Michael needs to make a move!!!!! 💕🦋Jasmine is very affectionate. At the table she was almost in his lap! I agree with Marcus, she wants him to be more assertive.