MAHAL KA BA TALAGA O GINAGAMIT KA LANG NYA?

[@cjramos2112]

Done dealing with a narcissist, with a manipulative person! I'm moving forward, and I'm getting there. ❤️

[@hanapersonal2515]

I feel you 🥲

[@sweetlonelygirl1415]

goodluck! at sana magawa ko na din

[@tonethneth3247]

Same 💔

[@princesssulapas3397]

Yasss

[@dianaderoma]

Ako din!

[@theta8241]

Thank you so much, Kuya Darbs. I'm in this situation right now, and as much as I'm trying to tell myself every time how unhealthy the relationship is, I just can't find my way out. Now I heard this from you, this shit becomes clearer. One main reason for not letting go is the fear of what he may think of me. Yet, I had enough. The relationship is killing me. It is difficult to accept reality at this point in time, but I am not happy anymore. I will stop myself from expecting. I deserve mental peace. I deserve better.

[@emilygaddi9543]

People are people!! It is time for you to go. Your time had passed.

[@emilygaddi9543]

Peacefulness and privacy are supposed to be embrace. Trust me it works.

[@Zar0993]

kaya mo yan !!

[@djoiantonio5396]

Relate to you I’m in that situation too, sad to say😔

[@rainsi4060]

Dahil siguro mahal natin ang isang tao hindi natin napapansin yung mga mali, na justify natin ang mga maling nakikita natin. Thank you kuya darbs! Selfworth, boundaries, and love ourself first.

[@anthonypaguirigan5582]

True yan, hindi mo nakikita ang mali kung mahal n mahal mo ang isang tao.

[@juanmunti]

Been in this situation for less than 4yrs. He's always busy every time I need his company but whenever he needs me lagi akong nandyan para sa kanya. I gave all of my time and effort but didn't expect anything from him except his time and affection. I realized that his only using me when I stopped approaching him first. Umabot sa less than a month yung no communication namin, the funny thing was, we're not even in a LDR setup. Then he only chatted me just coz he needs some favor from me. I cut everything between us coz I realized that I didn't deserve that. I'm really glad that I escaped that situation coz I'm in a better place now... ☺️

[@rheaannrojo3308]

Hearing this from you made me think really hard. I am currently in this situation and it helped me a lot. Thank you, Kuya Darbs! From now on I'll be focusing my energy to myself na lang muna. I don't want to be emotionally manipulated by him anymore.

[@hazelreyes9516]

He was a narcissist and he is not aware of it. Even knowing that of him I still gave him everything made him feel assured. But in the end he had the most audacity to leave me. I love him so much. Thats why I am done. I will give everything to God.

[@noexcuses5524]

Sino name nya? Same kasi tayo

[@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369]

🥺💔

[@lanij4754]

Experience ko ito. Mabait kapag may kailangan. Umaabuso na . Thank you so much ❤

[@gg-lc5of]

Wala na ngang label for two years; ako pa nagbabayad tapos he drained me mentally pati pamilya niya. di man lang ako makawala kasi na dedevaluate ka tapos manipulated ka rin; sya pa nga tinutulungan sa work at promotion, sya pa galit. tinutulongan pero gusto libre lahat. you deserve what you tolerate nga. June 12 ngayon, dapat independence day na.

[@psalms_inspired751]

Thank you kuya darbs. I noticed lang last week and I realized. Then yun, I stop na kaysa sayangin ang mga panahon na magmahal ng maling tao. I know God will give me yung talagang pinaka the best na hindi ako mamahalin "dahil" Kundi mamahalin ako "kahit" in short walang kondisyon.

[@MichelleEspinile]

😢habang pinapanood ko ito Nakakaramdam ako ng sakit, na feeling ko na nasA ganitong sitwasyon ako,kasal Kami parang Wala akong choice, Kung hindi mag stay nalang sa ganitong sitwasyon😢😢😢

[@kaeayah9218]

Minsan make them aware what are you feeling, kapag naubos ka in the end wala kang regrets and what ifs. Basta ginawa mo lahat ng kaya mo, di porket naubos ka, e masmarami nawala sayo.

[@spencerguarte3925]

Sobrang knowledgeable yung advice thank you Sir.

[@delilahmirandacalaguio5766]

I'm done dealing with a magagamit partner kuya Darbs I'm now giving myself the worth that I deserve

[@gammiebassiecainap6385]

Ive been into a situation where ive been used, taken forgranted, not love, betrayed..😪 I surrender everything to God..

[@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369]

💔🥺

[@joygarrido6863]

Salamat sa napakagandang advice, realtalk talaga, nakakagising talaga ng isip ang mga advice po ninyo Sir.

[@francismeansfreeman3063]

Kung ang mga signs na to is nangyari sa buhay ko neto lang, at sigurado ako sa sarili ko na ginamit niya lang ako kung nasaan na siya ngayon,, let the karma do his job for her,, God bless her always

[@pernelmendoza4801]

Ok lang iyan sa Mag asawa hayaan mo na. Pero kung sa iba mo gagawin "NEVER"

[@mariceladingcaca6853]

Palagi mo akong sinasampal ng katutuhanan...salamat ng marami saeyo kase ng dahil sa eyo natauhan ko ....maraming salamat godbless u po...

[@lownajhinne3433]

Aray!!! Kuya darbs... grabe nman yan. Tagos hanggang puso

[@rochelleybanezhofilena4102]

Yes Tama.. dapat mag tulongan kayo dalawa..

[@sweetlonelygirl1415]

i hope this time makaya ko na to finally let go.. habng meron pang natitira 🙂

[@ariankrislungan8113]

Kuya darbs'ano po ba ang ppiliin.. Yong mahal MO oh Yong taong masaya ka

[@Liz-UPLOADS]

D lang yun ei..may pananakit pa pero andito prin ako. Nkakapagod pro ang hirap kumawala, ang hirap iexplain ..Ang hirap tanggapin na dpat ako lng ako lng mgisa..........

[@bigyellowbirdieee]

haaay ang hirap. when there's no third party and the problem is the both of you. i need more of this content. no cheating involved, just the problem between the two of you.

[@peniellebell2998]

LOVE NEEDS TO BE RECIPROCATED..😭😭😭😥😥😢

[@maysialsorianojr4188]

Ginagamit lang ako ng nililigawan ko noon. Alam ko worth ko kaya umalis na lang ako. And now I am happy and contented in my relationship. My girlfriend and I love each other and we give and take and both of us contribute in our relationship. I thank God for giving me a girlfriend that sees my worth and appreciates me. If ever mabasa mo to. I love you mahal. Tanggap at inaappreciate rin kita.

[@maysialsorianojr4188]

We are in LDR and our relationship and love,trust,faithfulness,respect,honesty and understanding for each other is going strong. We appreciate each other's efforts and always open to each other. I love you mahal ko 💙🤗😘. Sana mabasa mo tong comment na to

[@jennelyn6049]

Ang sweet talaga ng mahal ko. I love you so much mahal ko. Tsaka we appreciate each other's Naman eh and I'm so glad that I have you in my life, my sweet, carings, and loving boyfriend/fiancè/ Asawa. Tanggap na tanggap Kita sa kung ano at sino Ka man mahal. I'm always here to support you through ups and downs I will stay through the years. I love you so much mahal. Ikaw lang Wala Ng iba.

[@marvinpedrosa7009]

Salamat😢😢😢

[@isaacdiego5132]

salamat po sa inyo marame akong na tutunan ❤❤❤👍🏼👌🏼👌🏼

[@momzhieconz]

I been this kind of relationship everything so difficult after we broke up I'm trying to move on slow and life became better

[@christianpambuan6232]

Same

[@melodylozano5257]

Thankyou po ♥️😍 🤗

[@eunicaeunice2516]

kung iwan tyo ok lng atleast mkakapag simula tyo mkaka ipon tyo

[@mentorteng9442]

Great advice idol..👏👏👏 Reality tama ka..dami ko natutunan idol..sana maka colab.dn kita😊godbless

[@kuysjiar1510]

Penge strength. Pa heal.

[@kaneishiimee3992]

Bakit may mga ganun Tao 😔minahal mo na nga tapos gagamitin ka lang pala😔binigay mo na nga halos lahat ng mga hinihiling nya sya na nga palaging inuuna tapos ginagamit lang pala 😭💔

[@LITODUMANAG07]

Wala bang karma dyan?

[@kimberlyagbay8571]

Bakit Ngayon ko lang napkinggan to!

[@kaikaryll1736]

Toto o yan kuya Darbs galing mong mag ad vice always watching you from CDO more power to your utube channel God Bless po

[@sonnia1445]

Ganito ang situation ko ngayon literal na ako lahat as in lahat financial. Pag uwi ko ng bahay galing trabaho yong intuition ko nagsasabi na check mo phone niya BOOM! Long story short tinapos ko relationship namin nakakapagod kahit ano gawin mong mabuti at ibigay lahat sa kanya gagaguhin ka lang pala! Kaya always trust your INTUITION.

[@lizamacalandong1036]

Thank you for the video i am moving on now

[@gerardoquiazon]

Ok ser

[@abigailatwentyfive7885]

allowing the disrespect just cause i need love. alam kong inuuto lang ako pero ayos lang kinikilig naman ako. 🙃

[@lynlyntweetie5652]

Sakit pero its really true😢

[@agelcab9384]

Thank you kuya darps

[@veevillareal4069]

Ginamit lang ako. Thank u kuya Darbs

[@jericoperete8094]

Tnx po.. Now i know😔😔😔

[@zyairchannel]

Thanks boss darbs..

[@lenedrei]

Andiyan ako sa sitwasyon na yan ngayon ang hirap umalis pero alam ko kayayanin ko😭🤧

[@LITODUMANAG07]

😢😢😢 dama ko din yan

[@EllaFlores-m6f]

Dhil sa Love aq kc totoo ei ung Love so jinujustify q nlng cguro lahat ng red flag nia how about my self iiyak nalang sa sulok nd MA healthy ung ganung relation thank u s advice

[@rowenagarcia7664]

😅😅😅this vlog my fav to start my everyday routine ❤❤❤

[@hermatomi-as4165]

ganyan ang sitwasyon ko ngaun tompak lahat na sinasabi mu sa content na ito..salamat sa advice

[@ilocanangpobre86]

Ako 14yrs married with him...skn nman nung nanliligaw skn 1k at cake sa bday ko ang binigay..pro nung married n kmi binigyan ko xa motor at ngppatayo ako ng bahay manghingi p ng sahod pra xa n lng dw nanghukay ng butas pra sa toilet...dami ko sacrifice pro di ko nakikita ang effort nya after kasal...napakasakit😢😢😢😢

[@DenLouTV-up8rl]

Hiwalayan nyo na po.. masakit pero he needs to be a MAN / HUSBAND.

[@rosebenida1799]

Paulit ulit ko to pinapakinggan.😢

[@airizairiox2560]

Nandito ako sa sitwasyon na to,. Paubos na talaga ako,. Ung paubos na,. Sobrang ubos na pero andito pa rin ako sa sitwasyon na to. 😢

[@themadsofsandiego]

Willing to cross the ocean but he can’t even cross the paddle for you. Ouch! 😪

[@Xhex9096]

Kumbaga trust your instincts

[@villanuevaleanne6636]

very true

[@peniellebell2998]

Tama

[@eunicaeunice2516]

kc khit paano mkaka pag simula ka ulit

[@exmrsnowwomanscorned8369]

I was so lonely that I didn't think I married a manipulator at first. naubos ako at humanap siya ng iba.. 🥺💔

[@raerae8900]

Kuya darbs gawa ka naman video about sa relasyong matured woman at younger guy

[@fabulousfierce6428]

that’s kinda painful kuya 😭💔 #relate ? 🤔

[@mariacristinaortega]

Thank you

[@hustleeveryday5378]

Sapul ako dito ah, :( Fresh pa, pero dinadaan ko nalang sa rides, para makalimot! Hehehe

[@annsebastian3403]

Ouch 😅 Witty at the same time a lot of lessons..👍🤩

[@ping6081]

Hindi lang sa love ya pati sa mga kaibigan marami Rin 😅😅😅

[@carllukeariston4534]

Im done na po😔...kahit may anak kame harap harapan siya nakikipag chat sakin sa ibang lalake..5months na kameng hiwalay tumatawag lang siya kapag nagpapahatid lang siya at kung may kelangan siya...😔 I am doing my best to fixed everything but yun pala she is manipulating me na pala for her needs...😔

[@historybihendme]

I'm her now kuya darbs the jeanar gonzales na makulit sa fb live more ik u ya.💞💞💞

[@triplealpha4862]

Salamat sa video na to. Ang hirap bumitaw pag sobrang na attached kana sa tao

[@thechefmagician7540]

Relate gnyan din ako now

[@wrizellkate5477]

Kahit marami ka ng nakikita n redflag pero dahil mahal mo nag stay ka pa rin

[@daisytualla4938]

Ouch sakit

[@RR-cv9gp]

Ultimo pang gas nya hihiram pa sayo. Hahahahahahahahaha. Tapos malalaman mo nakakapag bigay ng bouquet sa ibang babae pero sayo kahit isang petal wala. Hahahahahaha. Saklap 😂

[@bokgp1162]

Magaling mag advice kapag single pero di ma iapply sa sarili

[@MarianAlipala]

Gingamit lng din Ako sa paraan na Ganon pagmamahal niya

[@DanikaKayeELua]

Sobrang relate ko lahat

[@kyletisoyandmommalove]

Magal8ng lang kapag sasamagn mo syang mamasyal.kapag wala ng planong mamasyal.ibang tao na sya😢😢😢

[@alexanderchua2049]

❤

[@allysaencarnacion8595]

💔💔💔

[@juliabutial2]

Am i into this situation? Felt so drained this days

[@emilygaddi9543]

Then leave.

[@dauthenticexplorer1364]

Parang yung kilala ko ah. Lol. The whole relationship revolves around exploitation.Narcissism at its finest!

[@aliepadullonvlog3774]

huli ko ng nalaman na nakakausap pa pala nya yung ex nya. Okay pa sila nag sinungaling sya sakin before, pero ang bait ni lord sakin hindi din talaga mali lahat ng kutob ko na may communication pa sila ng ex nya. sabi nya mahal nya ako ayaw nyang maghiwalay kami palagi nya kong pinupuntahan sa work ko. 😒😢 hindi ko alam kung totoo bang mahal nya ako kahit madami ng dahilan para sukuan ko sya mahal ko padin sya 😢😔

[@noexcuses5524]

Ginagamit ka nya . He wants a cushion na pag di nag work out yung sa ex ay meron syang masasandalan at may option sya which is you You were being treated as an option Pag alam ko na may communication yung partner ko sa ex nya. Let go na kasi kung walang mali bakit di nya na communicate yun sa akin?

[@cessybee42]

Edi wow nga 🥹

[@Almost.beautiful]

Nabulag Ako sa pagmamahal ko sa kanya dumating na sa point na hind ko na alam na ginagamit nya lang Pala ako .. Hanggang sa maubos Ang Pera ko😭

[@noexcuses5524]

Tanga ka kasi . Kahit yung jowa ko ako nagbabayad Di ako nagpapagamit. Cheap lang binibili ko kasing pagkain at May grocery limit kami

[@aa877ghhgs3]

😫😫😫🤬 putang ina nla mga bastos!! Ittaba nla ung d nl pngoaguran . Pero ok lng..minahal ntin cla..pera lng yn mhhanap p uli ntin..kinxenxa n lng nla..sana lumigaya cla...

[@theapadilla-gw3wl]

How about nmn yung ginamit kalang para d lang matuloy yung ayaw niyang naka plano ng kasal?

[@GraceMendozaEarls]

Nang yari yan sa akin minhal ko ng subra Pero ipamigay kapa sa iba

[@AmelieFajardo-c8b]

Sa 4yrs naming pgsasama ni minsan dpa Nia ko niregaluhan kht bday kht ano okasyon never Ako lagi ngbbgay damit sapatos Pera delata bgas lahat ako

[@princesssofia1299]

Pero minsan mga mamahalin regalo ang ibibigay sayo pero mahal pa pala talaga ex niya at rebound ka lang.

[@mgrendor]

Sad part is yes ginamit lang 😭

[@cretobasay9051]

Iniisip ko ng bumitaw sa relasyon namin laging ako nagbabayad,wala daw siya work.Ako rin wala work nagkataon dumating ang CC kaya yun ang ginagamit ko.

[@almiray6023]

Hmmmm

[@melissadantes2672]

😢😢😢

[@herbertmascarinas9285]

relate po ako

[@mitchellgraceagtuca6531]

Nung una ko napanood ito parang di pa ako naniniwala sa situation namin eh pero ngayon unti unti ko na realize na ganinto na pala yong nangyayare HAHAHAHA

[@RedCruz-k8d]

Pero paano kung wla tlg cia pera at alm m n kapos ppnu un mnggmit p dn ?

[@rsvitangcol]

dis is true

[@herbertmascarinas9285]

💯👌

[@jocelynginemelo4286]

Ganito yong naranasan ko sa live in partner ko noong mag bf/gf pa lng kmi lahat ng gsto niya kahit nauubos ng pera ko naging 3 year's yong relationship then after 3 years nagsama kmi doon ko nkilala yong ugali niya ginagamit niya lng pala sa simula pa lng,ang masaklap pa noong nagsa na kmi nagawa niya na ako pagbuhatan ng kamay ang sakit doon ko na realize hindi niya pala ako mahal kundi ung pera ko lng Hanggang Ngayon nagtitiis ako sa ugali niya na sinto2x💔💔💔

[@ji-yan2330]

un ung feeling ko ngayon

[@roseannpugales03]

Sadly but thats part of life na nagagamit talaga dahil sa love.

[@AmelieFajardo-c8b]

Payuhan m naman Ako sir 1taon din Ako nakipghiwalay kc d natigil sa pgsgashabu

[@marygracevillegas9579]

Equal partnership

[@mariosolis9319]

Goodeve po my FB page po b kau Sr?

[@AmelieFajardo-c8b]

Pero weekly dinadalaw ko xa at dinadalhan ko xa Ng lahat Ng pangangailangan Nia