These Are The Most Hurtful Thing A Girl Has Ever Said To A Man | Viewer Edition

[@robinkholmes7127]

Story 2: The fact that the OP's worst social experience with a woman was a school teacher, my heart sank. She handled the situation in the wrong way, expressed concern and look into neurodivergence or other reasons why the OP had no analytical or creative skills with the parents instead of shaming the kid in front of the class.

[@CJRoberts8812]

Some people are just plain mean. While I don't consider a great prize compared to many guys, (don't play sports, not particularly good looking, not a Big Strong He-man), I AM a Good Guy. And yes, even though I've had my share of heartbreaks, I've come out of them stronger than I was before. If you are a good person, honest, hard working, self reliant, any woman that only looks at the surface isn't worth your time and effort. There have been several times that I was actually happy that a woman did me wrong, because it showed me who she was, and that I was better off without her. Any woman who treats a guy like these women did simply doesn't deserve you.

[@HairBear1225]

Minor disagreement, my Facts dude...anyone who abuses a child is evil. Full stop

[@Bennykidd]

true dude. true. I have seen some bad things. my step-dad abused my dog and hit her yelled at her, and threw stuff at her. she is ok now. my other dog died. she has been depressed since our dog Lilly passed away

[@B.a.k.e.d.b.e.a.n.s.]

Minor sure this is more of a big problem

[@Alpharelic]

And this here isn't a tiny slap, this is fucking molestation. Anyone who does that, to a child no less, can get a life sentence in prison.

[@Randombookwoorm]

Agreed

[@marches45]

Facts was referring to the neglectful mother with bad taste in men as “not necessarily evil,” not the molestor boyfriends.

[@thegreatsun6571]

Wow. This one hurt. To lose a daughter that way.

[@15DAnglo]

um story 11 was just clear honest communication she didnt lead you on, she validated your value as a suitable partner but she also understood that her feelings were stronger for someone else. thats actually super nice.

[@simpleyetcomplex]

On the surface it may seem like perfect communication but a blunt answer still will sting to certain people.

[@15DAnglo]

@simpleyetcomplex I understand that being turned down regardless of how gentle it is done is gonna hurt but for a list of "Meanest things a girl said" thats not a mean thing. it just hurt cause they were turned down. but hey to each their own I guess.

[@Jedidiah_Martin_2]

I'll take that kind of honesty over a pretty lie all damn day. At least it shows respect.

[@MajorFenix]

​@@15DAngloIt lacks a lot of tact...

[@tinobiushecht-4205]

Story 2 really gets to me. I am dealing with some stuff in my life right now about my sense of self worth and my fear of the future. Recently I've noticed that I really use the thing in life that I'm good at to try to escape the fact that life gets harder with time and that at some point being good at these thing won't bring me any further. I've never had someone tell me this, it's just something that I came to recently and it really messed with my mental health. I'm still dealing with that stuff, in fact, I only recently reached out for help. To know that someone had to go through being told these things in front of a lot of people is heartbreaking to me, I can't even think about these thing for too long without crying, (And I don't consider myself a very emotional person) so knowing that someone had to go through that, is really making me sad.

[@rocky_1904]

Once in like 8th grade a girl said "What the f*** is that smile. It makes me want to throw up" Then said" stupid sped kid" I had some issues with my jaw so when I smiled it didn't look right but still I can't really control that. I've also been insulted for my laugh but that doesn't fit here. I've also had people get dared to say they like me. I could always tell because first Nobody would do that next they had trouble not laughing. I used to like people but now I lost hope then and still don't have hardly any.

[@nyotamwuaji6484]

That girl trying to force a kiss on him was indeed sexual assult. Too bad that according to the law, a woman cant sexually assult a man.

[@someghosthunter]

No, to society

[@liamcoulthard2101]

The worst thing a girl has ever ever said to me was one of my ex’s. She said ‘You know that I’m only here with you because I like your cousin and want him to be jealous, right?’ This was the day after our 2 year anniversary of when we first started dating and I had bought her a £45 necklace.

[@dreamspear2159]

Mine would have to be something my wife said over me forgetting to pick up toilet paper on my way home, she has BPD, well this triggered her BPD and she said "if I had any self respect I'd divorce you, I don't want to be with someone so forgetful. You're lucky it's more work then it's worth to find another husband" there was more to it then that but that stays in my head.

[@dreamspear2159]

Another one would be over hearing my mom talking to my grandma when Grandma asked about me and my mom said "I don't understand how I raised such a failure" when referring to me. Just two things that live rent free in my head

[@Slamminization]

I won’t go through the entire sad, sordid history here, but from the age of 24, to 36, I was in a very dysfunctional, codependent relationship with a woman four years my senior. We were both heavy drinkers at the time (I quit 10 years ago and haven’t had a single drink since), but we each handled our alcohol VERY differently. Whereas I would become relaxed and happy, she, practically every night, would inevitably reach a point where something in her brain would 'Snap' and out of the blue, she would just turn on me, starting fights over nothing and becoming horribly verbally and sometimes physically abusive, knowing that I wouldn’t hit her back. The thing that she loved to scream at me during these tirades, the thing that she KNEW would hurt me the most, was: "I thought I HAD a man!". Hearing that phrase screamed in your face, week after week, year after year, will completely destroy your confidence and self esteem. Add physical attacks, in which you can only defend yourself by trying to block strikes, and you’ve got a perfect recipe for anxiety disorder and possibly PTSD (both of which I’ve been officially diagnosed with). I’m 55 years old now, live alone, and I haven’t been in another relationship for the past 19 years.. Not since I FINALLY got out of that nightmare, at the age of 36. When that happened, I felt like I’d been released from a 12 year long prison sentence, that I didn’t even know I was serving. That entire experience was so awful, that to this day, even thinking about entering another romantic relationship with a woman, just isn’t worth the risk to me. I’d rather be alone and happy, than in a relationship and miserable.

[@tylerhenderson9075]

Not one interaction stands out, but it was more of the cumulative realization that I made girls and women my age uncomfortable. High school and college mostly. It made me really examine how presented myself to those around me and I softened my attitude and demeanor. I dumped some baggage SMG knocked down some emotional walls I had built from an unhappy childhood. A few years later I merry the wonderful women that became my wife. 10 years and still going strong.

[@elenaspector5008]

I just wanna say You look EXACTLY like how I imagined you from your voice like damn literally?!!!

[@fdinos69]

The most hurtful thing my ex said when my grandpa died that I was close to and couldn’t go to his funeral because of lockdown back during Covid she said get over it and it is what it is

[@nanoglitch6693]

"I don't do things that make me throw up anymore." 🤣

[@BrozvilleRealm]

a little bit of criticism Mr. Facts, saying that 'you don't have to listen to someone's opinion on you' essentially is blaming the victim for being upset. even if a person doesn't matter to you whatsoever, hearing hurtful things about yourself still hurts.

[@DarkestFIameMaster]

But it's important to learn that those who belittle you shouldn't effect you and to move on. Easier said then done but it will certainly make life more enjoyable.

[@BrozvilleRealm]

@@DarkestFIameMaster my point is you're telling people that any negative feelings stemming from the belittling shouldn't be felt, therefore invalidating the negative feelings they still have

[@andrewlanglois6362]

7:44 Wasn't Allowed, He Should Invade Women's Privacy.... A guy stole his bag and bullied by throwing it in female locker room. OP rather should have talked to Women Instructors about the Bully, and where the bag is. That would have been the more settled approach. It's called Menacing, and those committing mischief can get reported in for sexual harassment, even though they did not do any wrong. A guy walking into a woman's locker is considered committing a mischievous act.

[@Farhan_049]

11:14 Just as there are naturally gifted, there also exist cursed by birth! Whether you delve into self-pity or make something out of it, is entirely your choice.

[@pietrocampagnari1190]

12:46 the text isn't textin' right i think 💀💀💀

[@poisontribal9909]

“The worst she can do say is say no.”

[@comradekid1272]

Unrelated to the stories HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

[@Ghoulastre]

The real question is, what's worse being told, or say it in silence

[@Jedidiah_Martin_2]

The silence is worse for everyone.

[@GamingXenZen]

Well Mainly Facts. In the moment people say thise hurtful things, its gone hurt. No matter what. It will at least irritate you in some way and that's just facts.

[@PlasticBluVentRabbit]

Sigh… the combination of sad and mad is real

[@MRoderick89]

For me it's not what she said to me it was the action. We were getting on really well never had a fight at all we made date plans for the Friday then on Thursday she had blocked me on everything no way to get in touch. I was totally heart broken it's been months and I still can't find it in me to get back out there.

[@AnimeNarutoAkatsuki0]

Could you please turn down the volume for the outtro? Nearly peed myself 😂

[@GamingXenZen]

Damn Story 3 actually happened to me. Only it wasn't COVID but she went for some 5 months school travel thing for her course (can't remember what it's called) and we were already friends. We were chatting for a while after she left but slowly her replies slowed till it just died and she would leave me on read every time I texted her. I just figured she was too busy to reply and tried to ignore it but something about it didn't feel right to me. It just felt weird and off. I confronted her about it and she said that I seemed to be aggressive towards her. But all I said was "Hello, how are you doing and all that" And she left me on read because it was a choice of watching the videos of snap reels or whatever they are called I sent her or facing my aggression but I was not aggressive to my knowledge and would literally chat to her the same way we always did before she left for her college thing. Well anyways I removed her and haven't talked to her since then anyways. She could have just told me what she thought I was doing that was aggressive and I would have apologised for the misunderstanding or something not just ghost me and accuse me of what I wasn't even aware I was doing if I was doing it. My suggestion is for him to just ignore her and stay away from her. Save yourself the trouble. It's mad annoying honestly. Just drop her and move on with your life. You even had to hear this from a mutual friend smh

[@nevaehhamilton3493]

You had a toxic friend. The moment she was given the chance, she abandoned you. She never wanted to be friends with you.

[@GamingXenZen]

​@@nevaehhamilton3493 Ye I know. I like to not jump to conclusions easily. I saw her by chance when I was going to see another friend that goes the same Uni as her just a bit away from the Uni. She was gonna just walk by me like she didn't see me and normally, I would have let it happen but I called her and after chatting a bit I asked her what all her shenanigans was all about and she said 'I was going through some stuff'. All I said was alright and bid her farewell. In my head I was thinking that it was great I decided not to bother about her anymore because if what she said was true, then she accused me of aggression over texts because she was going through something when all I was trying to do was check on her. Imagine what would happen if she was going through something again and I was trying to see what's up irl. She may accuse me of beating her up or something. No thank you

[@andrewlanglois6362]

12:06 When I was in High School if some girl said to me, a smile down my face like the Chesshire Cat could form. Was this in 2002???? Back them, it's a comment inciting for a Positive Emotional Reaction. I think you were the wrong guy, with the shortly long hair.

[@TheHellhound01]

horrible fucking stories but just gotta say, the first guy has to have a degree in english, that story was absolutely articulately written

[@CrazyHLady]

3 min in 😢

[@franchottwoodjr6181]

First sir.

[@dragons_breath.]

Hellooooooo~! Wishing everyone an amazing day! You are all wonderful!

[@chefcinnabutter]

Wishing you a wonderful day too homie/homete!

[@TheSolidMidgetOfficial]

This. This is why we say: _"Hmph. Women ☕"_

[@G.M.C2005]

Why does this channel always do this of the male prescriptive? Why not do videos of the women’s prescriptive?

[@TidaDoesStuff2]

Mr. Facts is a male, that's why. Make your own videos with your female perspective

[@Slirox]

Is there a problem with it being the males perspective? We only ever hear about women's perspective shouted from the rooftops in real life and here on the internet so there shouldn't be an issue with more videos on men's perspective. Besides he also does women's perspectives and not only that he's thrown in some of woman's perspectives in those "men's only perspective" videos so it tells me u don't watch these videos.

[@G.M.C2005]

@@Slirox im just saying and no women prespective isn’t alway said of the rooftops and also even when it is it isn’t always listen to. Also men have been represented more thought out HIStory so I don’t wanna hear you say men don’t get representation because that’s a lie. Literally all we learn in history classes is about MEN doing stuff. Not women men. We women are only getting some spotlight now because men have had it HIStorcally.

[@G.M.C2005]

@@Slirox and I never said there a was a problem with male perspective im just saying that men have had the spotlight all throughout HIStory. And I think that he should videos like this for women perspective too. There a lot of stuff guys say to us that harsh to.i fact I’d argue it’s worse when guys do it

[@G.M.C2005]

@@Slirox I never said there was a problem with male perspective it’s just we have HIStory classes for that.