Daddy should have asked Justine to apologise for yelling at him the whole night and also throwing his toys when told to clear them. Let Justine see and realise his own mistake of yelling at 'big people'.
@Enchanteralle Жыл бұрын
Ah Justin level up in resisting to follow rules. Daddy has such patience and has been very good in teaching Justin to reason the consequences of not cleaning his toys. 😂 Justin ran away but also came back. Lots of patience needed!
@kam-eb3jh14 күн бұрын
一隻可愛的小豬!!!!!!!! lucky parents
@user-tz2qg4qr9w Жыл бұрын
I learnt a lot from this Daddy, such a great lesson of how to educate and guide kids to behave 👍👍
What I took away from watching this is that there's never a tantrum without a reason. J was overwhelmed and stressed out whenever he heard the countdown (behind his loud cries there was panic and helplessness). He stormed off because Daddy did not acknowledge his stress. I saw some impressive "authoritative" parenting in the recent frisbee video. In this video, it was mostly "authoritarian" until the very end, when explanations and guidance came in. But Daddy must be an awesome dad because J was willing to open up and express his feelings the entire time! Love your videos. I am subscribing.
@derrickng4511 Жыл бұрын
Dont agree with you, i rather find Sandy made valid comment kid 不能竉
@TherapyHow Жыл бұрын
🙂The term "authoritative" means establishing rules while providing warm guidance and explanations. Daddy's effective parenting in his recent frisbee video is a perfect example. J has been quite open to sharing his feelings because Daddy makes sense and is willing to listen. In the short run, parents may achieve their goals by treating kids in an "authoritarian" manner. However, when kids are forced to comply without understanding why, they may repeat wrongdoings, lose their motivation to communicate, or even grow up to become people-pleasers if they always had to comply out of fear rather than understanding. Regardless of age, if we don't agree with the person trying to convince us, we won't change. "Authoritative" is actually more effective, as we can observe towards the end of this video. In addition, acknowledging children's emotions helps them calm down and makes parenting more effective.
@waiyeechan2439 Жыл бұрын
authortative
@roamingalone5226 Жыл бұрын
Justine will be very proud of his dad when he grown up. He is a cute boy.
小 Justin 好可愛❤很喜歡這個 video 看見小朋友真性情的-面 😍 Justin 嬲嬲豬個樣實在好惹人喜愛! 見他在耍脾氣、可能係因為爸爸 👨🏻 yelled at him, 所以他傷心了 💔 🥹
@yolandatan4578 Жыл бұрын
Adorable Justin would realise and be grateful to his dad’s patient and authoritative teaching when he grows up and be a dad himself, all out of love and wisdom. Good parenting is vital on the development of children as this have great influence on family bonding, up to social relationships.
Oh Justin, your daddy is so patient towards you. So be a good boy . 😮
@chamyuiyau730 Жыл бұрын
教育家,支持你們一家,美滿生活,创做人生。
@lisa16186gmail Жыл бұрын
😂😂 Big people cannot yell at small people... Justin, you are so cute and lovely 😅😅
@wendylam3768 Жыл бұрын
I think Justin probably learned that from school. He is bad tonight. I am disappointed in him. Daddy is very patient. Actually, too nice to the little boy this time. I don't think Justin will learn if you are nice to him. He will get spoiled. This is just my thought.
@mayteo7864 Жыл бұрын
Has been following this cute boy for awhile and noticed his transformation(旁观者清)He should be complimented of his IQ,however his EQ is a concern. 鼓励的赞赏和认可好想渐渐得让他不能接受稍稍的挫折和失败导致不能从教导和纠正中警觉自己错误而改正。
@JJJ-mq5ok Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right Justin. Big people cannot yell at small people.💕
@streetsmart73 Жыл бұрын
Kudos to Mark who is patient and controlled. Justin is growing up too. Kids do have "temper" too here & there. But Mark really stands his ground. Well done daddy. Mum is fantastic allowing the father takes full control of the situation. In my days on the streets of HK, my late father without the doubt will do the exact opposite, the old canto style of getting the child to clean up 🤪🤪🤪
@zoemasf Жыл бұрын
教得很好👍👍
@hh6481 Жыл бұрын
教育小孩要有耐心好脾氣,還需堅持原則,父母難為!
@MakaLionHi Жыл бұрын
Kids act out on their large emotions. My job now is to make sure that he understands that his actions were not correct, and why
You can watch the perfect daughter and father team on another channel, where you can see the daughter always perfect (so fake and you can tell she is acting). Justin is not perfect (we are not either). I love to watch Justin for he is testing the water to see how far he can get away with (part of life). Justin will have good, bad and ugly days (we all do). So far, Mom and Dad are doing a great job on coaching, loving and discipling. In the long run, Justin will get the benefit of life lessons he learned.
@annapiano2964 Жыл бұрын
小家伙太逗了😂
@chanlyepeng278311 ай бұрын
Hi Justin 每次看到你. 心中好疼你啊! 😘😘
@pearlchow3034 Жыл бұрын
Big people don't yell at small people🤣🤣🤣🤣Don't count🤣🤣🤣Justin just don't want to go sleep
@milkiczx Жыл бұрын
Justin那个哼和okay?可爱疯了 每天看几遍都不腻🤣
@ddwych Жыл бұрын
It is good to provide stepping stone to kid👍well done papa👍
@karenwu5471 Жыл бұрын
爸爸好🈶️耐心哦👍
@szaffira991 Жыл бұрын
Smart Justin😅.Dad son punishment scenario maybe quite often. I saw it in my family and I saw it in an Italian family. Children don’t feel love if tooo many punishments. Even though they are called disciplines.
@szaffira991 Жыл бұрын
I guess it passes to the generations.
@MakaLionHi Жыл бұрын
Well, I guess in my mind I didn’t think of it as a punishment. More like “a countdown to punishment”. But you’re right, Justin saw it a little differently. After reading some of the responses to the video, I’ve spent the last few days changing some of my tactics, to try to communicate a bit more with J
@szaffira991 Жыл бұрын
@@MakaLionHi great dad 😃
@banghuynh6223 Жыл бұрын
@@MakaLionHi Counting can be intimidated. Try use the timer and walk away to test the method. You are doing a great job and Justin will learn from all the lesson. We all learned from it by watching your videos :)
@wendyhuang1228 Жыл бұрын
@@MakaLionHicould you take more videos of your new tatics and share with us? Thank you so much! I use some of your strategies in my teaching
同意。觉得他的态度不是在撒娇。他的呐喊,丢玩具的力度,爸爸要拉他的手,而他很用力的打爸爸的手让人担忧。整个过程,不觉得爸爸有shout at him而是耐心的沟通教导。反倒是儿子无理取闹的呐喊,还说大人不可以骂小孩。可能已到了必须严厉纠正的程度了
@alphabetacanton Жыл бұрын
@@mayteo7864 Small children like to push the boundary; it is a normal part of growing up. Justin's dad is very patient in guiding him back onto the right path. Note that Justin is very fair even when angry and admits that not picking up toys would lead to accidents and injury. I would certainly side with him when he insists that daddy should concentrate on the topic at the moment and not talk about taking him skating.
He meant it when he said big people cannot yell at small people. It doesn't look like daddy was yelling. By yelling he meant that counting thing which really gets on his nerves. Great Job on staying calm daddy!
@lydias4702 Жыл бұрын
老爸EQ和IQ真的很好
@yin8013kit Жыл бұрын
你兒子也太兇了吧? 太寵了.
@user-vq9th6cq5w Жыл бұрын
受教了,爸爸的情绪控制做的很好。我一但开始骂小朋友,他就会跑过来对我说“媽媽,我真的很爱你”……
@weixianwen9889 Жыл бұрын
奶凶奶凶的小家伙也不是省油的燈哇
@vantsang333 Жыл бұрын
good daddy 😃
@chuckie826 Жыл бұрын
Justin 欺負爸爸,對媽媽態度不一樣
@researchman12001 Жыл бұрын
A super dad knows well how to educate a super smart son-boy!
@gemgem9585 Жыл бұрын
超好耐性
@yingwu385 Жыл бұрын
This reminds me so much of my struggle with my son! But is the count down really a good idea along with threatening him of timeout? Daddy had to repeat the count down how many times? There is gotta be a better way! Let me know if you figure it out :)
@KhabibandEnola Жыл бұрын
You don't think you are yelling, but your counting is already a kind of yelling in his mind. It is definitely not the boy who needs to be more patient