Make A Narcissist PANIC With THESE Words | Rebecca Zung

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[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@RebeccaZungEsq]

I'll see you all there!

[@wadelinn3059]

That's. Rite. Hun 👍👍👍👍

[@bryanandrew7729]

Totally

[@wadelinn3059]

Hi. Rebecca. Ok ⭐⭐⭐⭐

[@bryanandrew7729]

I'm so over it

[@popmonika]

The most powerful words you can use are no words at all.

[@Richard-vq7ud]

Yes. That is what i heard too.

[@herminablackstock]

So true

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@charlottepembroke5446]

If you don't do what they want, or if you say something they don't like, they go absolutely MAD and have to tear you down in the most cruel, humiliating way they can think of.

[@boxelder9147]

Can THINK of. Exactly. Gaslighting 400

[@charlottepembroke5446]

@@boxelder9147 Yes! It's as if they plan out something nasty to get you - I know that sounds paranoid, but it is how they operate. And it seems like they are pretty good at it, too.

[@charlottepembroke5446]

@@Stardustpal25 Very true - they suddenly turn on you with no warning. In my case I wanted to say, 'Wait, this is me you are talking to' because it was as if their entire attitude towards me had completely changed. And it was totally out of the blue.

[@trisha7029]

Yep

[@courtneymcgregor3417]

My sister went into full narc revenge mode when mum died and told me that she can do anything she likes to me now that mum's dead. This was late October. She is still trying to destroy me.

[@barbaraschultz1442]

Rebecca, you nailed it except one thing They have your children and are using them against your heart for years. Your children end up with their low self esteem taking on the pathology of the parent they live with to alienate themselves against the other! Most attorneys and judges do not get this!!!!

[@stephanieurick8820]

My dad actually apologized for something one time. I was floored. Out of the blue he asked me if I remembered a time when he spanked me too hard for something that he shouldn’t have even spanked me for. I couldn’t remember it. That’s how long it took him to apologize. It was over a decade before and I couldn’t even remember the event, or isn’t sure I do. There were many times that he whipped me for something he shouldn’t have whipped me for or also whipped me too hard. I could think of a dozen events, but not the one that he apologized for. Because it was that much longer ago. And I was an adult when he apologized.

[@boxelder9147]

These narcs are very dangerous. Extremely reactive. As difficult as it is to control your own emotions I agree with everything this content creator suggests. Be patient as you plan your exit.

[@whitneysawyer483]

"Yes" "I win" "Totally" "So over it" "Break free" "I've seen it" "Shut them down" "Just move on"

[@bigdeneen]

They are always right They don’t like the word no They are shallow They are manipulative They are Combative They know they are empty They will even sometimes suggest you delete yourself Just laugh and walk away

[@Jackgritty28]

Fragile ego of a narcissist,no self respect or values in life,supply could be their motivation,looks for trouble with control tactics.Trigger their rage when they question their effectiveness,it bothers them when their being exposed🚩❌🆘💲✔️

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@Villanelle-yh8tp]

Don't people with narcissistic or psychopathic disorders feel physically tired? Don't they need sleep? I have already met once that psychopathic people are loud at night, disturbing the sleep of others, leading to physical exhaustion, but they themselves are like a loud machine at a construction site that does not feel tired, but has great satisfaction in, malicious satisfaction from depriving other people of sleep. 🤔 What can I do?

[@User0player1]

If the narc is behaving like a full grown two year old behaving badly then I ALWAYS, ALWAYS point that out and am the only one that points out that destructive behavior. in fact, i am the only only one that does not simp to the narc. IF you are going to call a spade a spade then be calm, cool, and consistent about it. it is what it is. observe reality. embrace reality. call out reality. losing the narc is a gain/win.

[@taraarrington2285]

I laugh at them and ask them why they're so full of hate I'm like I get it you're throwing a fit you want my attention

[@allengarland3393]

You nailed it. This is a toxic survivor Island environment. We appreciate your work and guidance The rage is amazing. A narcissist with dementia makes it difficult and impossible every day.

[@Miriam32787]

This videos confirmed what I already knew its crazy CORRECT!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@AsistafromNJ]

Great video! I have watched quite a few videos on narcissists. I can binge watch your videos all day. I feel like you know my narcissist😮 Thank you!!!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

So glad you found them helpful! What is something you're struggling with? 😊

[@giggymontez]

mine is a covert. Always cheating on me, love bombing me at the end. Kept the house, moved her right in. I filed for divorce n hes already wearing a new wedding ring. im relieved but also hurt.

[@kirstinebjerregaard2969]

Shut them down, they do not deserv my company, it is so hard to have a narcissistic sister, it has ruined my whole life. Kristine from Denmark, I’ve to listen to your videos.

[@marilynng4337]

Funny how they treat others like we can't do to them These folks are foolish and unbelievable!!!!! I wish I could go no contact My son and daughter in law and soon to be ex are all toxic I have an almost two-year-old grandson that is at stake. Jesus, please continue to help me. Thanks, Rebecca for this video

[@kristinawessely3888]

I don't fancy how someone can call their own son a narcissist. Suppose you raised him yourself. Wasn't there anything you could do against this development? Like teaching him true values? And also, does it mean you don't love him? My mother is a narcissist, which is making it impossible for me to love her. I think every child deserves being loved, at least by their own mother. Otherwise they will be forced to develop serious psychological disorders....

[@debbieb5400]

TOTALLY! That's what they do. They use fear and intimidation. My daughter's "insignificant other"is held up for hopefully 6 months or 180 days. It has taken me 2 months to come up for air. BUT, he calls 3-5 times a day and we aren't ever really free. Unbelievable he could still have power to control from where he is at. It's difficult when children are involved. Oh yeah couldn't work because sick off and on. Lived off us 9 years and I feel like I've been through a war. (At least a huge battle). I'm 64 and my health has declined significantly and my hard working husband too. We're worn out from this but you are a light in this darkness. At least we're getting some ubderstanding of this liar, and raging violent lunatic. My husband tells me to never provoke him as he is mentally ill and insecure. He is a total "2 year old" and we've given him chance after chance and expects to come back......

[@shelleynamdar7103]

EXCELLENT video! You have given me so many tools and insight to deal with the toxic people who have pursued me through the family court system for well over 6 years now. When I employ these methods, they've absolutely behaved in the ways you've predicted. One thing I've learned is that they have a toolbox of tricks, but their tools are limited and it's so easy to see the patterns once you stop being in defense mode and really take time to see their behavior for what it is.

[@TheKrazykraker14]

Excellent comment!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@GodiZreal]

I don't get why I have to worry about not hurting their feelings they sure didn't care about hurting mine. If I'm busy I'm busy. Why do I have to walk on eggshells?

[@mikegump3766]

Your so kind in sharing all this wealth of information...Thank you from the bottom of my ❤️ 💙 💜...

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

I'm glad to be helping! What is one point that you'll start using today?

[@mikegump3766]

@Rebecca Zung I now know how they think & what to expect if I engage in a discussion... The appalling thing to me is how good of a pathological lier they can be, just lie & do it so well & easy... I just am astonishing over this...In my situation, my ex-wife was a rape victim of 13 yrs old girl that never got sycological help & turn to a Narcissistic so-called married preacher for something, which turned into an affair...Dealing with situation, me knowing this but she would not admit to it... So I use all of your information, so helpful bcus I was at a loss, emotionally, mentally & physically...Our 39 marriage ended & I was accused of what they were doing....OMG, a nitemare, we have adult sons & our youngest son & daughter-law won't speak to me or allow me around & their kids...( three little daughters)... It goes on & on...

[@gracebetou]

Omg, I had said everything you said, not to, no wonder he flipped out. This is too funny.😂

[@peterknyk1942]

Silence or an adamant NO!!!

[@palapalak.8907]

Had a 1.6 year relationship with one. Horrible. Constant LIES! I was sick all the time. Major player. I am so happy to be FREE!!!! I have ny life back.

[@CanadianBear47]

i am unique i would agree their meanness is incomparable and yet weak. fragile, coward, their meanness does come back 10 fold and yet u are free. u know who they truly are and their meanness is to cover up. u see it and they fear u for it. my light will burn away their darkness. as in they will be dark and i wont invite to my light my light. u can come and yet i control this space

[@TheKrazykraker14]

I love the way u said; ‘you can come but I control this space’ I am in this type of thinking an boundary setting right now, so for me that really resonates .. totally love the way u put that .. I will definitely add that to my ‘self talk’ ✌🏻

[@CanadianBear47]

@@Stardustpal25 thanks. I think it's been a long journey and still more to go.

[@betsysorrell1357]

Yes! The I don't care phrase works!

[@HealingAutomatically]

Happy 🆕 Year Rebecca, 🎉 I wish you the best of the best!

[@teresacoleman5349]

I work for a boss that is a narcissist, and I’ve only been back there a couple months to be trained to become a management and she has made my life a living. Hell she gas lights me She bullies me she manipulates me. She threatens me. I used to love my job of five years and I actually hate it now, I finally went to the district manager, and I pray that he helps because I can no longer take her abuse! I am actively seeking another job because of her actions. 💔😥😥😥😥😥

[@cheri2255]

Best most informative video yet! Thank you! All makes so much sense! No fear...done with believing or falling for the games!

[@oscarwilliamson1128]

Cheri,You look gorgeous ❤,Hope you are not with a narcissist….

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

You are so welcome babe! What is something that you are grateful for? 🙌

[@sheribrogden9247]

It's not so easy when you have a narcissistic only child.

[@lisahaaseckle]

I see now. I've been wasting my time and my breath and it's been driving me crazy, literally.

[@NoTrashInHeaven]

It's really difficult not to tell the narcissistic spouse who is also a total leach, I'm busy!!

[@bryanandrew7729]

Yr explaining my boss in great detail

[@betsysorrell1357]

It is true. They want your interaction. Strategic to fight the interaction works best.

[@laviniahealy6851]

Thank you. Really helpful.

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

So how can you starting slaying?

[@hotbrickchick7476]

thank you for your knowledge and wisdom.

[@drcliffbrickman6087]

Hello & Thanks from Dr Cliff.

[@SaritWorld]

Thank you.

[@charlottelamborn860]

they hate "whatever"

[@RoB-dp1cm]

Break free!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

Stay strong! ❤

[@patriciaalexander6029]

Break Free

[@bryanandrew7729]

That's very interesting at my job I was a Gardner I worked for my bosses wife but now I'm working on the farm his wife would praise me of a job well done then you see that look on his face

[@patriciaalexander6029]

Fantastic

[@cindyramsey512]

Break free

[@jtee231]

These videos keep me encouraged I know I’m dealing with a narcissist I doubt myself and think maybe I’m over thinking but this is all dead on and I need to trust my intuition also when the truth always come out this person fights so hard to convince otherwise and I’m just telling them hey you can’t lie to me I have proof of everything just be honest it’s not that bad.. and they will just go on and on and further into a dark hole

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@CanadianBear47]

their envious. must be hard being envious of everybody

[@marcusbate6229]

I’ve definitely seen it (triangulation)

[@octaviamoore5194]

Narcissist are the most pathetic individuals I have ever met!! SMH

[@mateowilliams2162]

They live their entire life driven by hate , they are frauds they deflect the things that would set them free if they took responsibility for the things they deflect to the ones they want to be

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@michelleknapp9176]

Yes I’m done with narc

[@yasminabdull7503]

yes tnks

[@CanadianBear47]

true its like opposite gotcha game

[@sheribrogden9247]

So over it!

[@robynlouise6017]

totally.

[@CanadianBear47]

i agree. when i was doing magic mushrooms i are busy. i was busy talking to dead friend and i said i was busy. i like magic mushrooms because when on them narcotic people still want things and yet your internal world is more important and really and truly u dont have anything for them. u are free

[@deborahmosscrop361]

Omg so true 😮

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

You got this ❤

[@ACA-kb2vf]

Great message!! I work with Narcissist people and I go absolutely no contact. I don't look at them and I say nothing to them. Basically invisible to me!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@kimberlyforbes7547]

TOTALLY!!!!

[@lorean7268]

Totally.

[@theresascott89]

Totally!!!!!

[@DMNV23]

Totally!

[@lingathasanramalingamsorna6086]

Yes 😊

[@dtswingle]

YES!

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@diahnhall45]

Dane how I’m crying how can you just sit back for so long and let me go through such horrible manipulation and sit back and watch him psychologically abuse me . Omg my MAMA would NEVER let this happen to me EVER . I told my mama Tommy was not marriage material and I did NOT want to marry him.

[@sheribrogden9247]

I win!

[@gabecouncil1001]

I WIN!!!!

[@lorraineakiritsis9775]

Yes!!

[@AStarAlmost]

I WIN!

[@lorean7268]

I’ve seen it.

[@diahnhall45]

I just want to be with my family.

[@diahnhall45]

I WANT and NEED MIMI right NOW

[@user-pn1xn1cl1i]

Shut them down

[@megans788]

Yes!!!!!!!!!! 🌈

[@cindyramsey512]

Ive seen this before

[@lindakeenan3344]

Yes

[@Blondie7676]

YES

[@cindyramsey512]

Totally

[@AStarAlmost]

SHUT THEM DOWN!

[@commonman131]

I need more info.

[@patriciaalexander6029]

I WIN

[@jtee231]

So over it!!!!

[@AnthonyMassarelli]

yes

[@williamwoody7511]

I realize after these. videos that failed at every single aspect of dealing with my ex.

[@marleneduch8322]

YES ❤

[@RebeccaZungEsq]

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[@janellmcgowens811]

Yessssss!

[@betsysorrell1357]

Panic attacks. Exposure fo the cause!

[@lauramccarthy6255]

Please help, my husband and mother in law tortured me they electrocuted my brain and drugged me with psilocybin. They think they fixed my brain. I can't prove it, I just sound crazy. Please can you do something. Advice?

[@jeanfrantz2788]

I win

[@norasully]

Win

[@williamwoody7511]

Another funny aspect was that she started having problems at work about the same time we started having these serious issues again..

[@missleanneward6484]

Totally😮

[@DawsonDave-YZF-R6]

YES😎

[@CanadianBear47]

lols i c now why coward works so well. lols its cus its true first off and second deep down i think they knw it. lols

[@deborahmosscrop361]

Sorry but they are crazy simply put I have a classic narcissist I’m trying to get away from without drama 😢😮nuts

[@warriorsintraining9793]

They contradict themselves ALL the time! Especially when giving you directions or info you need!

[@warriorsintraining9793]

I call it pulling 180s

Someone Please convince me not to wanna get revenge on my ex wife. It's been 17 years since our divorce. And I am just finding out that she was a narcissist. She has been a narcissist. I have two children with her that are adults now there are mid20s. Their lives are tarnished and I need help. Craig she gets the narcissist supply she has a pervert boyfriend that's a photographer. What should I do?

[@patriciaalexander6029]

So Over It

[@sirrantsalott]

“You are a loser”, “You are a failure”…I didn’t have to say it, I just had to be me and live my go-getter life and covert narc mom, grandiose narc half-bro, and ASPD-BPD brother are offended just by my presence or if I showered and feeling like my happy self 😂

[@mosaicowlstudios]

If they can't make you love them, then they want you to hate them. Do neither. Be indifferent to them. Why do they bother you so much?---THEY DON'T. You think they're a JOKE. They are INSIGNIFICANT to you.

[@TammyBrown-jf5kv]

Can a narcissist really love someone?

[@tanyadepoalo4312]

No, not the way we do.

[@williamwoody7511]

So over it..