Make Him Break His Own "Rules" For You (if they actually like you)

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[@maryjean-vb8bm]

If someone likes you, he will do everything at all cost to see you.

[@funnygirlever]

I miss this. 😢

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

Really? !

[@KevonnieElaine]

“You don’t see ppl saying i stop doing crack because it’s too much money.” 😂😂😭😭

[@VWYL900802]

My dad stopped smoking because it’s too much money. That is legit. Lol.

[@areebaawan8004]

@@VWYL900802smoking is not crack. People stop cigarettes all the time because of the cost. But crack?… people would rather sell their house than stop drugs.

[@orls9068]

@@VWYL900802Smoking and crack are very different

[@Patricia-uz2xx]

Does dalexis prepare those 😂

[@Ahbhswrzq9221]

Where is this recording from that he listens to? Can someone please share the name of the person or the link?

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.*

[@UknownWorlds]

Yes so true. So statement hits home.

[@kll2163]

A guy who does nothing for u, remember it’s not like ur losing anything, there’s nothing to lose…do better

[@lonerebeI]

There's definitely energy and time to lose, and you can't get your time back

[@vivigarciatoro]

This is so true! My late husband was the busiest person I’ve ever met as his work involved managing the sites of a multinational in entire continents. He flew from Germany to the UK three times a month to see me, for a year and a half, and when we got together I was his priority. Those were the best nine years of my life and those men are very rare nowadays.

[@Poodle_Gun]

My celebrity crush offered to fly across the country to get coffee with me. Needless to say, I was bummed that it couldn't work out. I would have made it work out, but there was a wall of just stuff. Red flags, the nature of his job, stuff I had going on, etc. It's too bad. I actually really genuinely enjoy being around this guy. He is still my only real celebrity crush (not just a character that an actor played). I think he thought I was just playing games. I wish he knew.

[@ClaUDiishmoO]

I’m a firm believer that even though these tactics may work, true change will only come and last if someone wants to from deep within them.

[@ksref]

I've had them return, but no lasting change like you say

[@MissSarahGM]

That's why I forced myself to not respond to my ex's last reach out. Although it sounded more nostalgic and regretful. As I always responded before and it went nowhere. He needs to feel my change and to go through the agony of loss.. to have a chance of growing.

[@whytewave291]

😊

[@TheLavenderLover]

He once said “I don’t chase.” Then he came knocking on my door in the middle of the night when I didn’t answer his text. 😂

[@brenaicooper3916]

So I don’t chase, I stalk lol

[@raicyner843]

💀💀💀💀💀

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

Lucky haha. You must've felt flattered and special. ☺

[@Lucid-1111]

😂they be the worst ones

[@JupiterSagittariusTarot]

It’s true I dated a army guy and he broke the commanders rule to still contact and see me ❤

[@charisma1349]

It’s a tough pill to swallow that he doesn’t love you back

[@yahushahamashiachiswarlike]

or to know that you were never truly loved.

[@yahushahamashiachiswarlike]

or that you was never truly loved

[@Nickilove259]

With every video I watch I end it realizing..this dude don’t want me. After this one I truly understand…he REALLY don’t want me 😂

[@sunflowerrayne6026]

Damn, same..... 😢

[@elviagutierrez9401]

😢 ugh, same.

[@lonerebeI]

Lmao yo, that sht hurts right?

[@michellehonaker4546]

You were never a loser! You just didn’t see how great you were!!

[@viviileee]

I rather a guy just not like me than not liking me enough. Thank you for this reality check. I needed to hear this today even though I felt it. What you said at the 26 min mark hits home 😢❤.

[@ceyciemateo9411]

Man all of this works! These strategies work! I got the man to commit!! & he’s hinting at marriage, a guy that told me he wasn’t “looking for a relationship”

[@safaathalia6388]

how?

[@thelaziestbee]

Yes, I'm intrigued too... in few words, what did you do...

[@JeanMarie16]

​@@thelaziestbee The willingness to walk away. That is the secret! That is the underlying message in 99% of Alex's videos.

[@ASh-io8ro]

That doesn't mean it'll work in every situation though.

[@ceyciemateo9411]

@@thelaziestbee I followed this channel and applied the strategies. They worked. I got the man to fall in love with me. You need patience & discipline

[@notallabouttarot5194]

My ex husband traveled across states to get to me not once but twice. This was after our split. And bought me a house even after our split. Loved me till the day he died and after. This dude came to me in spirit after death😂😂😂. Yea…that was love. True story 😂😂😂

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

Wow crazy.

[@elizam8714]

If someone wants to they will. Bc they sure don't have a problem skippin states to step out on a "commited" relationship or entertain multiple bodies.

[@thatshithitmehard20]

"He can't chase a women, it's cause he DOESN'T like you" was all that i needed to hear.

[@esnova11]

As a child, i loved to be different never felt im loser, i lived in my own world of art and dance. I never knew i was liked by boys, i liked dressed extremely vintage in order to be different, didnt wear any make up untill i graduated college, and braided my long blond hair. Now im 45, and i have 3 boy friends 28, 37, and 48 :) I love life.

[@JJCapri]

That's the bottom line, action. I've noticed with time, that what make a woman beautiful is self assurance and you can't act it. Also, patience, even in the way a woman walks, talks, and seeing it while she think carefully and truthfully is so beautiful. And, and, when you talk about meditation, I replace it with Jesus in my mind. How he hates hypocrites, then I think oh, I have to do right starting from inside.

[@emmaperez6670]

Amen 🙏🏼

[@andreatorluemke4982]

You can re program your subconscious love. Re wire those those neural pathways. Auto suggestions to the subconscious. Keep putting the good stuff in clear the trauma and negative self belief that no longer serve

[@deborahrobinson5374]

All the tactics in the world won’t make someone do something they truly don’t want to do. It may intrigue the person to want to return but it won’t keep them unless they wanna be kept

[@mercedesharrison5550]

True, if it does there is an expiration date on it. Also the problem with these sort of videos is they are not true for abusive men, only normal humans with emotional range. Not that we should be with that abusive man anyway. Just that abusive men will not “get activated,” to love you and they don’t abuse you bc they don’t like you and they will not be breaking their rules indefinitely. They will be masking until they feel you cannot escape.

[@andreatorluemke4982]

Keep meditating it all adds up the self love stuff

[@paolanamuncura8879]

18:36 this is so true everyone is insecure👏👏

[@storm4515]

Damn, this dude knows his shit. 👏🏽

[@ksref]

The majority of dating coaches/advice seem to focus on insecurities causing people to act needy& anxious, trying harder. I'm in my 40s and the dynamic I'm finding with men is very different from that. I'm running into a lot of men that have been damaged/hurt and when there's a new level of closeness they shutdown and pull away, avoid. Had one in particular, very interested- both of us in a limerent state of infatuation (he's recovering from substance abuse). I'm afraid his feelings for me were too dustracting/triggering similar to a drug so he backed off. He's not dating others, he buries himself in work and intellectual pursuits. You're so good at researching and explaining psychology- I'd love to see you tackle the matter of middle age men post-divorce and if women can do anything constructive if he's avoidant. I can and have pulled away- 9/10 it doesn't work, but neither does pushing towards. Huge topic you could make a new course on... hint, hint😉

[@MissSarahGM]

It"s because the dating pool is full of avoidants and emotionally unavailable people as we get older. The secure ones have paired up and are less numerous back in the dating scene. If they are severely avoidant there is nothing you can do but go your own way. If you don't and take the breadcrumbs, you are enabling them and you participate to the anxious/avoidant trap. Also a recovering addict is not likely to be ready for a relationship, he's not emotionally available from what you say.

[@ksref]

@MissSarahGM yes, he's my most extreme example and I know that's a lost cause. But surely there has to be some useful advice beyond just dropping everyone. I've been doing that and it's exhausting. It's definitely an entirely different environment at midlife... Alex may not be there himself but I'm confident he could learn and apply R. Greene's principles for us. He has a real knack with examples.

[@ASh-io8ro]

I hope this isn't too rude--but maybe he's not that into you, sometimes it's just that simple

[@MissSarahGM]

@@ASh-io8ro so you write that shit under every comment. you must feel very miserable.

[@ksref]

@ASh-io8ro no, not a rude suggestion. I thought that too, but based on our talks/interactions you could say he's too into me.. he's definitely scared of being close with anyone. In any case, I'm more concerned about the overall pool of people and navigating that successfully. Lots of 2-3 month good starts that go nowhere, rinse, repeat.

[@michellehonaker4546]

When you talk about how you were when you were young you do realize, yes you were different than the ‘typical’ kid but you never followed the crowd, you didn’t compromise your authenticity and for that you are absolutely amazing!! I have a lot of respect for you!! Keep being you because you are a beautiful person inside and so cute on the outside ❤ Much love from Atlanta, Ga❤❤❤

[@FR-mp3og]

Omg, I can’t believe how you’ve changed, i was watching your channel years ago and now you’re a whole new level in a healthy relationships, i’m now watching all your videos and advices and they are sooo helpful and healthy 🙏🏻🙏🏻💜💜💜

[@Pandababyy247]

Alex, I think I’ve been watching you for awhile now (2019) that any content you put out resonates effortlessly! it’s exactly what I need to learn .Thank you 😊💟

[@maxinetv2276]

Father Alex is looking fine af 🔥 I've been following since 2022, and you're glowing ✨️

[@VWYL900802]

All the secrets of the game of love is all right here!!!!

[@ministryofhealingfarm]

Adam, sacrficed himself and almost got everyone eternal damnation to follow his Eve. 💕

[@WildAntics13]

Interesting

[@privateGOAWAY24]

What are you talking about? Adam fucking threw eve under the bus when God asked Adam, did you eat the apple? He fucking blamed it on even said " she She gave me the apple and I did eat "😒 God didn't tell eve not to eat the apple he told adam not to!!! Adam could have protected Eve and said " " Yes, I ate the apple. It's my fault, I take all the blame, Please don't punish Eve too!

[@a.b.creator]

You mean the serpent.

[@tonyas.6148]

Maybe 🤔 I’m weird, because when he was describing himself when he was younger, I thought 💭 it was dope AF. The meditation 🧘🏽‍♀️ the Christianity ✝️ & being so different from everyone else is DOPE in my opinion. Who wants to be like everybody else🤮. I love being DIFFERENT!! It’s my superpower!

[@AussieGirl235]

Being Christian isn’t something to be proud of. It s not a “superpower” 😂. It makes you super styupid

[@cmm867]

This video is just incredible ❤ thank you Alex. Your content has really changed my life!

[@tresnanymoonlight888]

Alex, I love you. You are like the brother who give advice to sister.. cheers from Dubai❤

[@rayyanrayyan7059]

ah nemu ka tres di sini, im a big fan of yours ka tres, Both of you have changed how i vision my life❤

[@DiaColada]

“ idc if your granny choked on a pork chop” is a wild introduction 😭🤣🤣🤣

[@hediyaC]

Dalekis, you are becoming a genius 🫶🏽

[@bjrambow584]

You got some REAL gifts my friend! Don't change. I liked this post a lot!

[@ilenek.5428]

I love format with the audio explanation!!! Really superbly done!

[@GreenestOne]

I love how your videos have evolved over the years. ❤

[@januarybaby]

I have watched you for years and nothing hit yet with me until you used the "crack" reference here. Literally everything makes now

[@annakane7243]

Best video yet! Always keeping it real! Thank you for a fabulous seminar this weekend in London 😊

[@monkeymind3917]

Father Alex- I am such a huge fan of yours! Been watching off and on for years and I’m so impressed at the beautiful person you are and how far you’re coming. Thank you for being my guide through the difficulties of dating in today’s world! I am learning so much from your wisdom and am now a huge Robert Green fan too. Love your work. Absolutely love you- thank you so much for being the charismatic charming amazing man you are who loves to share knowledge and help us ladies out!!!! 🥰🥰🥰

[@TheKeishana]

😂😂😂😂Fada alexxx

[@Ash-wl8up]

I could see you tearing up there with Robert Green's description of love, well I did!

[@JJ_913]

Thank you for the tough love Father Alex ❤

[@crystalkarel9221]

Beethoven, no 5. 🙏🏼

[@rebelflower1891]

I’ve loved that video, it was incredible !!! 5:35 this got me hollering 😅😂😭 effortlessly funny !

[@queenbee9581]

Thank you for this Alex. I needed this today. 😘

[@mametzfrancess9970]

The Moustapha caught me by surpriiiise😂😂😂😂😂that's his name😂😂😂😂😂

[@jacquelinewilliams3917]

Hi there wow! The content in this video, is immense. As it is very in-depth & informative in many ways. Love, pain influence, emotions, being nieve, expressing one's self There are so many individual, plus pognient points. I will reflect & comment again. The non verbal cues, being individual etc..... Thank you for sharing & making this video. J ☝️👍👏👏💯🙌💟💟

[@Audrey_3]

This is so true and on point Father Alex!! 💯

[@anniebootboot]

Most ppl are highly insecure fr

[@languageandmana9255]

Thank you Alex. Your really opened my eyes❤

[@a.prettiblessing1111]

Thank you Father Alex❤️

[@peggybestgotos5933]

I love that You stayed You & didn't let peer pressure get to you. Makes you Unique! Keep up the Awesomeness! 🎉 27 But God chose the foolish things of the world to shame the wise; God chose the weak things of the world to shame the strong.

[@sandradesouza9940]

And yet you are one of the coolest guys I have observed!! How can we discover what someone's insecurity is? Can you think of a key question to ask to learn it? Also, do you think people are always aware of it, or could they be oblivious to it?

[@nbee6217]

Share some of your own insecurities that cannot be used against you. When you drop your guard around people; they are likely to drop theirs. Always have at least one sob story you don’t mind sharing with people, use the same story every time.

[@sandradesouza9940]

Thanks for the tip!

[@Jessica.Souths]

"It never goes away". The package deal. But that is only because you haven't accepated that part of you within yourself yet? Just the words you used made it very clear - "I was very wierd". You have to reframe that to - when I was young I was interested in reading the bible and I accept that previous verison of myself. You have to have compassion and accept all of you to really get that solid untouchable confidence. Then you don't have any trigger-words left.

[@daraa.8681]

25:44 this is the best part

[@maried157]

Could you do a video on about how to communicate and date an avoidant dismissive partner?

[@AriaColeccionistaDeCanciones]

Do not date that type of person lol

[@maried157]

@@AriaColeccionistaDeCanciones lol right! I was in it before I saw the signs. He’s goneeeee

[@nathalie8497]

Do not date You will have headaches

[@xw6475]

Hell yeah Father Alex!!! Please do more of these type of videos🎉 thank you so much

[@dscrmortgagegal]

I love this style of videos ❤

[@LaLaKnight]

Omg I needed this

[@jonesystef]

This is so true!

[@javierflores7888]

I loved this video man

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

Nah, there are some people who won't break the rules because they are too arrogant, egotistical and selfish.

[@zainab6120]

What did granny do to get this 😔

[@juanitadyer6445]

Hey ready for this thanks so much god bless😇🙏🏽

[@whyjustwhy2168]

When the guy acts like this i don't like them. When they don't care and doesn't like me i like them. I give up 😢

[@candycurlyable]

Check on your self esteem. Someone not liking you attracting you is a huge lack of self respect and it’s SAD. Please work on you to accept that you deserve someone implicated, not someone who don’t care

[@whyjustwhy2168]

@@candycurlyable yeah I just really don't care and attract the same so ah well it is me 😂 just have to stay out my feelings and leave when they act like that. I can handle it. Just fell in love with someone that literally cannot be with me but I feel they will come back. I will still have fun and no worries until they do or if they don't. But they will

[@Goodwillwinoverevil1984]

Or they could PRETEND to like you only to use you.

[@mohittiwarii20]

Love love youuuuu

[@cathrinesinna4889]

31:37 😂😂😂 love you Alex. Thank you

[@sharonqui74]

I loved the end 😂❤️❤️

[@user-xx7xx2ek4i]

I love your work greetings from Germany I watching u

[@oyungerelchuluunbaatar2756]

Haahahaha the way you talk funny is gem

[@CaliforniaGirl1]

Hi from Cali.

[@Mindsetolympics]

this mans advice a lot of times be for anxious attached women....-_- which I am only 50%ish of lol so I can't fully relate because I don't take as strong of actions to have a man.

[@ladycynthian]

Where is the audio from? Thank you for the content, love it!

[@shanara5524]

It’s Beethoven’s Moonlight Sonata…The voice recording audio sounds like Robert Green’s 48 Laws of Power

[@pinksky8460]

Thank you Alex

[@jennifers5718]

it works 😮

[@teemadarif8243]

but largely to do with attachment style too right

[@isabellaschwarz198]

This video hit the shit outta me. darn

[@tradewithm3274]

Alex what audio are you listening to / referencing in this video - can you link it? Thx

[@marie-annavandeleijgraaf9254]

Art of seduction by Robert Greene

[@lou15176]

It’s ok if we are in receipt of the obituary 😂😂

[@lebom2456]

😂 I heard that!

[@steph6109]

Robert Green is not the genius here, you are. Honeslty his points dont hit on their own. Also, you werent weird as a child, you just werent chasing validation that people trying to fit in to the pop-culture are.

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Thank you but I am not even close to Robert Greene haha

[@princessnaa588]

Which audio is this from??? Is it the 48 laws of power ?

[@albadawn3582]

New subscriber 🎉

[@Abcdefghijklmnoplm]

I’m surprised you haven’t become a Muslim. That’s the usual path of spiritual people, they end up reading the Qur’an and see it as the truth and accept Islam. I have ALOT of friends that have gone through this between the ages of 30-40

[@Soouber]

Ameen🤲🏼

[@luciatheron1621]

Maybe for men, not for women.

[@christinaqueens8551]

Hi like ur style. I got it he doesn't like u

[@Bella_forever_]

I've been watching your videos for a long time, years.. I have a question have u ever been in love yourself before? I havnt heard you say if you have experienced that before, just curious.. if so can you do a video on the psychology of being in love from your perspective please

[@tradewithm3274]

Where is this audiobook from Alex please tag it? Thanks ❤

[@angelwings6193]

men say women are complicated when n reality They are,, cos of hangups traumas, that they dont express but keep deep and deeper inside, as a form of self protection, perhaps? im nit a man and cant pretend to know how they think or why but soooooooo many ply the player cos of past hurts they cant let go of so they want to punish as many women as theey can,,,,,,,,,,,,,, an opinion of so many other opinions hugs Alexis You are Real

[@hazeltreeretreat9035]

I like your hair

[@samarar1562]

What's the name of the audio that Alex is listening to/referring to during the video?

[@ElizabethSeiden-lg6mj]

If I stay away for six weeks, will he still be waiting for me?

[@xan8185]

Mamma, stay away for good. Men know what they want from the get go. Honestly. That’s what I have seen and learned from all my friends and my own experiences. The man that wants you just knows right away. He might come back but it’s because it’s his ego. Not because he wants you. And even if he thinks damn I miss her lemme go back, he won’t be for you. Wait for the man that can’t go the day without hearing from you. That can’t wait to call you to see what you doing. That wants to meet up with you even for 5 minutes to get a kiss. To see your smile. Trust me. You have no idea cuz if you did you wouldn’t ask this question…the man that wants you will know and he can’t go a day without you. Leave the loser that don’t even care if you exist. If he comes back it’s to prove to himself he got it like that. Don’t fall victim.

[@ElizabethSeiden-lg6mj]

I can tell that he’s a player who thinks he’s Brad Pitt when in reality he’s Fred Flintstone!

[@TheOriginalRasheedat]

What book is he playing for us

[@beyzaxoxo]

I love the bella hadid thumbnail

[@queenisis88gr]

U r funny asf 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Abcdefghijklmnoplm]

Savagery 2.0 new channel name 😂😂😂

[@puabi666]

Love has been that complicated and women have to play games

[@supremexz6130]

From which audiobook is this??? Who knows?!

[@pinoniks]

Lol I have never been chased, even if I go no contact or whatever. Must be ugly af, but I'm too stupid to understand how ugly I am I guess. Life is nice. 😊

[@alexandragomez4391]

What book are you listening to ?

[@angelwings6193]

13:34, hes in this trance,,,,,,,,,,,,,,over yoou,,,,,, his arms will fidget, cos he wants to hug you but hes at work,,,,,,,, he will gwt google eyes, cos hes gone into dreamland, when he looked at you rmembering, and wishing and projecting what the 2 of you could do, etc,,,,,,,,, he aso has ahard time controlling his body, cos you can tell he wants to hug you etc, but he will suddenly realize this is out of line r disrespectful and he will then take control of his body,, bingo thats how you Know,,,,,,,,,,,, he can scream at you in some horrible cases men lose it to the point that they cal you all kinds of things but,,,,,,,,, its not you its his past,,,,,,,,,,,and then he regains compsure and is aopologetic w some excuse real or from the past or imagined due to trauma sighhhhhh so sad