Forgive Assholes | Have a Little Faith

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@rakaig.whittiker572
@rakaig.whittiker572 6 жыл бұрын
Message to the naysayers: If this message does not resonate with you, kindly move on without comment. I healed YEARS of resentment toward my former husband beginning in January 2018 by watching this 2:00 minute message over and over and over and over. My grandfather and many of my aunts and uncles are pastors and no one has ever explained this concept quite this way. I didn't quite understand it until I found Pastor Nadia Bolz-Weber's message. So thank you, thank you, thank you Makers for posting this message, which I randomly found on one of my friends' facebook timeline page one dreary North Carolina night in January. Thank you endlessly.
@user-yv2bd7qm4p
@user-yv2bd7qm4p 2 жыл бұрын
"Forgiveness is being a freedom fighter." Brilliant!
@colleen308
@colleen308 2 жыл бұрын
Pastor Natalie-I first crossed paths with you because we have a mutual friend named Bill. & again just recently. I work part time at the Concordia Lutheran Church. I was trying to put together the bulletin & thought I’d throw a KZbin video on the “ELW settings & liturgical calendar explained in simple terms” as my you tube algorithm played on your sermon played. I was moved & felt a level of connection that was lost and long forgotten. Thank you for that. Recently it was brought to my attention in reading the stand in Pastor’s sermon, that maybe my all well intended “Spiritual/agnostic” subscription possesses a level of narcissism, which humbled me. I listen to you constantly and I feel like you are speaking directly to me. It fills my heart. Covid was heavy on a already disconnected switch left switch right disconnected & isolated world. I think I need God now more than ever. You are a prophetic Pastor and I am so grateful to have crossed paths with you again.
@melissafaught700
@melissafaught700 5 жыл бұрын
I come back to this video all the time. I mean...all the time! Absolutely the BEST video on forgiveness, from a perspective anyone holding a grudge can respect. As a survivor of 8 yrs worth of daily sexual abuse, this video helps me...on a regular basis. Thank you for making it!! ❤
@teresacamajani6028
@teresacamajani6028 4 жыл бұрын
YES!!!!!!!!!
@lelu810
@lelu810 4 жыл бұрын
Power to you Melissa, thank you.
@carly6744
@carly6744 3 жыл бұрын
Hugs You're amazing and strong!
@chrissullivan2282
@chrissullivan2282 Жыл бұрын
Best message ever on social media. I come back to this often throughout the year.
@Sirrus-Adam
@Sirrus-Adam Жыл бұрын
"Resist not evil, rather, overcome it with good" and "forgive us as we forgive others" certainly applies here.
@TyroneTorres
@TyroneTorres 5 жыл бұрын
0:33 - "Maybe Retaliation or Holding on to anger about the harm done to me doesn't actually combat evil, Maybe it feeds it! Because in the end if we're not careful we can actually absorb the worst of our enemy and on some level even start to become them!" Love IT!
@Stratman389
@Stratman389 6 жыл бұрын
I forgave my father. When i said the words "I forgive you" I was finally free. The world became a more hopeful and happy place.
@thefringechurch
@thefringechurch 6 жыл бұрын
Powerful way to put it, thanks for this!
@Astronomynatureandmusic
@Astronomynatureandmusic 5 жыл бұрын
That is absolutely terrific! Thanks for sharing!
@francesbrisco776
@francesbrisco776 4 жыл бұрын
@@qalbi-s_Ahnfy2095 yes!
@Phoenix_74
@Phoenix_74 5 ай бұрын
Nadia, this video is the most profound and powerfully uplifting video I have ever watched....I thank you from the bottom of my heart...I totally had the concept of forgivess completely the wrong way around!!! And really needed to forgive my father for abusing me in such a terrible way. I couldn't forgive him using what I thought was forgiveness, without your amazing perspective, I would still be locked in a mental hell for years!!! Thank you Sooo much!! Adrien Scott - South Africa
@kldenterprises3639
@kldenterprises3639 5 жыл бұрын
I had a very spiritual upbringing and quite progressive by many standards, but I could never fully embrace the concept of forgiveness, because it truly always felt like a doormat/pansy approach and I am more of a warrior. Nadia is the first and only person/teacher/pastor/mentor/spiritual advisor I have ever heard/read in my life who actually got through to me on what it means . Her thoughts washed over me in one of the biggest "aha" moments I've ever had. I even come back to this video to watch it from time to time . I love that forgiving makes me a Freedom Fighter and Warrior and a Free Person- and the perspective that it's for *me* not necessarily the other person was a different way of looking at it. Love, love, love this and hope others find some food for thought from it, too.
@jenniferferris-crisafulli435
@jenniferferris-crisafulli435 2 жыл бұрын
This video changed my life. I happened to come across it after a really awful breakup and it gave me perspective I really needed. Thank you Pastor Nadia ❤️
@infoSeeker007
@infoSeeker007 2 жыл бұрын
Now that's a Real Story WoW!!! God works in mysterious ways!!! Amen
@henrikharbin5521
@henrikharbin5521 3 жыл бұрын
I have been chained to regret and pain dished out to me by my ex and her friends for 32 years. If we ever get in contact again, I will day something like, "I love you and forgive you, but I think that by ing apart is for the best. I don't want to see you, hear from you, or have any contact, because I don't want to start a world War 6. If I see you coming, I will turn around and walk away. I wish you peace and a goid life"... Period.
@andrearediske9348
@andrearediske9348 5 жыл бұрын
I have watched this video over and over and over as I have struggled to forgive a close family member who hurt me deeply. Thank you, Pastor Naida for your wise and healing words.
@NY2Vegas
@NY2Vegas 6 жыл бұрын
I came across this in August of 2018. I've been going through a lot of issues (depression) over the unexpected and sudden ending of a "friendship" (bromance actually) where up until this past weekend (Sept 14-16, until I watched Nadia's message here over and over, and yeah it's been three FUCKEN months, 3 months of the "3 R's": Resentment, Regret and Retaliation all 3 represent wasted energy that doesn't do anyone any good...) did her message finally sink in. After forgiving this guy (with help from this video and my support network online and and 2500 miles away in NYC) and forgiving his latest buddy (who I was dumped for without any notice, who now commands his attention) and others in my life who I have let hurt me emotionally (I'm making a list), my take away is: "I don't have to "like" a person after what I went through; I just don't want to be "like" them. And I don't have to be "liked" by them." Forgive and forget, indeed. Now back to "Life"! After 3 incidents that point to the contrary, I knew there was a reason why I am still here. If reading this comment and watching Nadia's video helps just one person to have hope and continue the day-to-day struggle, then I am a happier guy b/c of it! "This Too Shall Pass... I Promise!"
@Michael-qb5hg
@Michael-qb5hg Ай бұрын
And now I do hope for you that you can make better choices in your life for yourself, because I'm sure you're quite deserving. And I also know full well what being so immersed in this life can also do. It's not healthy. Only the best to you!
@suddenlyshel
@suddenlyshel 6 жыл бұрын
I am on this same path of truth and wisdom Pastor Nadia, I'm so glad to have found you. I adore this message.
@fabfantasyuk5192
@fabfantasyuk5192 3 жыл бұрын
I need to hear this! Someone asked me for forgiveness recently and I wasn't sure if I wanted to let go of it. I did nt understand why not...I think I have used it as a shield and now is the time to let it go!! Thank you for sharing this word of wisdom :0)
@RMacGregor
@RMacGregor 6 жыл бұрын
Fricking fantastic on so many levels. Please keep these going!
@DeeDee-pp1zd
@DeeDee-pp1zd 6 жыл бұрын
Yes ! Thanks for posting this. It gave me help in my journey of forgiveness. For so long I have been angry for what was done . When it's family it's harder but your words just clicked something in head and my heart.
@kayepeters7565
@kayepeters7565 6 жыл бұрын
I loved this! Yes, to send love and healing to another freely, allows me to receive it too! I'll take all I can get of love and healing just through my own actions. It's the way the Universal Law works with our energy. Blessed Be.
@lindahillemann5880
@lindahillemann5880 Жыл бұрын
"Speak truth to stupid' should be on a t-shirt. I've never heard that one before. 😂
@NaldV-vd8if
@NaldV-vd8if 5 ай бұрын
💁🏻‍♂️✝️🧔🏻‍♀️"CRISTO VENDRÁ PRONTO POR UN REMANENTE FIEL POR SUS HIJOS FIELES QUE HACEN SU VOLUNTAD AMÉN" (San Mateo 25) (Apocalipsis 3:10).🤦🏻‍♂️😢🤦🏻‍♀️📖🔍🎺
@Anna-3084
@Anna-3084 6 жыл бұрын
My life's goal is to meet this amazing woman and hear her speak
@spiritinstardust
@spiritinstardust 2 жыл бұрын
“Free people are not afraid to speak truth to stupid.” 😂😂😂🏅
@OurGraciousDays
@OurGraciousDays 6 жыл бұрын
This is so wonderful. Being in ministry for 12 years has blurred the lines for me over the years, but I'm getting up over that hump and on a great road to living free!
@gypsyxoxoxo8331
@gypsyxoxoxo8331 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting forgiveness in such a way that I can now finally begin to forgive what I felt was unforgivable!!!! Thank you from my heart, thank you from my soul!!
@CrisLifeCoach
@CrisLifeCoach 3 жыл бұрын
The ones who don’t like this video don’t seem to have reached that level of self awareness, consciousness and/or emotional maturity that encompasses forgiveness - do the work and get there if you DARE then see how it feels
@charleneclausen328
@charleneclausen328 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the reminder that we are not what surrounds us today.
@sondraonishi1822
@sondraonishi1822 6 жыл бұрын
Aloha sis. Wow this crazy world oh so needs you. Go girl. As a addict in recovery from much included religion. This is so beautiful to me. Love
@angelkitty2244
@angelkitty2244 4 жыл бұрын
WOW THANK YOU! Okay I literally talk text how to forgive assholes and this video came up and I LOL .. I listened to the message here. & I was absolutely in sheer amazement at the explanation & interpretation forgiveness & it instantly lifted my anger disappointment to laughter and FREEDOM!! God comes through in all sorts of ways! 🙏💗
@dfitz8721
@dfitz8721 6 жыл бұрын
I’ve only learned this since I’ve become 50.. so sorry it took so long.. you are spot on, thank you!!!
@pjperdue1293
@pjperdue1293 6 жыл бұрын
I can't believe how powerful this is for me. Thank you. This is life-changing.
@michaelvolgare4454
@michaelvolgare4454 6 жыл бұрын
I never heard forgiveness explained in this manner. It really is true that if you don't forgive you will be linked up to your tormentors forever. That's no way to live. However my question is now how do I forgive myself for hurting others.
@CoachGayle
@CoachGayle 6 жыл бұрын
In her book Lovingkindness, Sharon Salzberg shares various meditations, including one on forgiveness that goes something like this: "To all those who have hurt or harmed me, I offer forgiveness; from all those I have hurt or harmed, I ask forgiveness; and for all the ways I have hurt or harmed myself, I offer myself forgiveness." Does that help in any way?
@sarco64
@sarco64 6 жыл бұрын
Forgiving ourselves can be harder than forgiving others. I think the first step is to realize that we are forgiven by God. Maybe the best way to realize this is to actually hear the words, "Your sins are forgiven," which is part of the Lutheran liturgy. Here is an explanation from a more traditional Lutheran pastor. kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3LCmqyVfreIiZI
@drld
@drld 6 жыл бұрын
It seems clearer to say that we accept that God has forgiven us, rather than say that we forgive ourselves. "Forgiving ourselves" contains an inherent conflict--we recognize that we have done something hurtful yet we are going to distance ourselves from that hurt, we feel guilty but we're going to ignore that guilt. The Good News about God is that He has forgiven us through Jesus Christ. Our task is to believe that what He says is true, to trust Him, to have faith in Him. We choose to believe what He has pronounced as true. Forgiveness is God's gift, not our accomplishment.
@mariseilevert5074
@mariseilevert5074 6 жыл бұрын
Maybe express being sorry to them….? asking forgiveness and saying heartfelt "sorry" goes a long way… they are more apt to feeling forgiveness after that; then you yourself would be more apt to actually feeling self-forgiveness after seeing how your apology made someone feel a bit better about the whole thing. I know I would feel a lot better if a couple of the …(want to call them assholes but decided to call them "not very nice guys") if they gave me an apology for what they did. It's hard to actually no longer feel hard feelings from having really bad thing done when I was 11, and they go on like pretending it never happened, denial leaving me ostracized from rest of extended family. fuck it. they're assholes. they suck. So ya, Michael, do apologize to her, or him, or them. It'll help in every way and you'll feel better they'll feel better. I appreciated reading your question, I'm glad that there are some people out there that aren't assholes ;-) Blessed be, Michael, Peace Love & Light
@myfrienderic6758
@myfrienderic6758 6 жыл бұрын
Don't be so hard on yourself. The harm we've done motivates us to do right, now. The past is an unending itch. "When will it stop itching?" I just said. Leave it alone (go for a swim, meet someone new, help someone who didn't expect it) or, on certain nights, admit the itch & drink the syrup: that life is tragic, real, strange, and out of our hands as soon as it's passed us by. Old problems with old answers. Be good now.
@christined4360
@christined4360 3 жыл бұрын
Love this lady!
@rose_brier
@rose_brier 2 жыл бұрын
This Lady is wise beyond her years! May God bless her
@lintzejian
@lintzejian 6 жыл бұрын
Definitely not the same way I heard of it before. From personal experience, when I forgive others, I learn to let go, not of the way the other person hurt me but rather that I don't let it affect me anymore. Different people tell you different things about forgiveness and if I forgive justto adhere to the doctrines of the church, then I can outright say that I'm lying through my teeth because I am definitely not being truthful of how I feel. If freedom from the pain caused by others is what you want, then forgiveness is the key. And it starts with you. You have to forgive yourself first (not put blame to yourself though). And forgive others in order to move on in life.
@michaelcampbell29
@michaelcampbell29 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for these words of wisdom and common sense ... that are not at all common for some reason. I need to be told this and it makes so much sense - thank you!
@lilleyprescott2448
@lilleyprescott2448 4 жыл бұрын
my brothers death made me come to this conclusion, it was such a relief..like getting rid of a cancer or space occupyig lesion in your head you don't need.
@rcknqt
@rcknqt 6 жыл бұрын
Just found your light! Please keep shining! I’m in!
@marianneban4162
@marianneban4162 4 ай бұрын
This is amazing and incredibly life-giving🧡🧡🧡
@ArcaneTarotTherapy
@ArcaneTarotTherapy 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful message. And just the way I needed to hear it. Thank you
@gardenbee1238
@gardenbee1238 16 күн бұрын
I almost adopted a prejudiced and discriminatory mindset because I refused to forgive someone for the same treatment directed at me. I had to catch myself. I had to really become aware of the stuff in my head. Thanks
@Magick41
@Magick41 6 жыл бұрын
I wasn't sure how I would respond to this, but felt that I should. There is never any true peace unless it is within. As long as we live an adversarial existence at any level, we will never be free of conflict because we carry it with us. The "other" appears to us as if in a mirror, and reveals what we are by our reaction to what appears to be going on "outside" of us. There is actually no "other", no "inside" or "outside" but all merely appears as "sensations" . A free person, does not react to the images in the mirror.
@cadnaw
@cadnaw 5 жыл бұрын
I love this! Thank you for opening my eyes to a whole new way of thinking.
@CrisLifeCoach
@CrisLifeCoach 3 жыл бұрын
Man you said it all I have taken years to learn in practice 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@melaniedaniels204
@melaniedaniels204 6 жыл бұрын
I got a lot more from this video than the forgiveness element. I got it's ok to be the way I am, ignore the people who don't understand my thought process and just keep doing it my way. Very uplifting. Thank you ❤
@Trasea
@Trasea 6 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful and I believe, anointed. Forgiveness is a beautiful thing we have all been offered thru Christ, and when we forgive others, a wave of refreshing water washes the burden away. The greater the sin against us, the greater God's grace. Ask Him for help and He is faithful to help. So, what makes this lady so authentic and relatable?! I was thinking about how today's church isn't relevant anymore because all it does is try to recreate what God tore down after Jesus died and resurrected. The Temple system of the Old Covenant world is obsolete, and yet we humans, doing the best we can, missing the mark, have rebuilt it. I am seeking God zealously to find what He wants for us in our New Covenant, post Law/Temple world. Where fear and guilt are replaced by Love and Grace, and righteousness, peace, and joy in the Spirit flows out of us... and spontaneous gratitude and cheerfulness overpower all the shadows and worries of life, because Jesus has overcome the world! I'm seeing smaller groups, home gatherings, out in nature, mornings, evenings, whenever... where everyone can share their gifts, their testimony, and the backslidden and de-churched and Prodigals can return to their first love, knowing our God is rich in mercy that is new every morning. In Him we live, and move, and have our being. We are the tabernacle where He dwells, the Living stones with Jesus as our Cornerstone, in our midst.
@AuthorFEFeeleyJr
@AuthorFEFeeleyJr 6 жыл бұрын
I come from a fundamentalist church and when I first heard of Nadia, I reeled at the way she looked, and at the way she spoke (language) yet, with as evil as fundamentalism is with it's dressed up self-serving, man-worshipping, cult-like tendencies - her message is like a cool drink of water to a parched throat. People don't like her for the way she looks, for being a female preacher, for her tattoos, for her language - and yet she speaks the truth. Religion is a difficult thing for me. Yet, Religion in many ways is man-made constructs surrounding this pure, holy, thing we call God and yet, I find that even with the best of intentions we can't help but screw it up or manipulate it in an "ends justify the means" sort of thing. I've had been involved in fundamentalism for almost 20 years before I left it. This is the one person who makes me believe that God is not some devil-like being, some Greek knockoff, or some schizophrenic jerk who loves you one moment and then is ready to kill you the next, someone who, if they were a person, I would absolutely want nothing to do with. The thing I like about Nadia is she doesn't drag God down from heaven, throw him into a box that says, "Dumber than we are," before serving him up on Sunday morning.
@POSTALHIPPY
@POSTALHIPPY 6 жыл бұрын
I like her for her message here, but no use in using religion to do it. Freedom is not following an invisible god selling you a cure for a problem he created.
@AuthorFEFeeleyJr
@AuthorFEFeeleyJr 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I always hear that from Atheists but like transcendental meditation - I can't quite get there. It just doesn't do it for me. Different strokes, I guess.
@POSTALHIPPY
@POSTALHIPPY 6 жыл бұрын
Your body and mind are amazing things. Amazing what you can do without invisible beings. Learn it. I did. As you say though, different strokes.
@AuthorFEFeeleyJr
@AuthorFEFeeleyJr 6 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, did we just have a good conversation about different points of view? did we break the internet?
@POSTALHIPPY
@POSTALHIPPY 6 жыл бұрын
I think it's broke, but AI will come in and fix it, and us, soon. lol
@fredr7217
@fredr7217 Жыл бұрын
Good statement
@anneefreres3299
@anneefreres3299 Жыл бұрын
I go back to this video so often when I need this reminder
@anti-populargirl9793
@anti-populargirl9793 6 жыл бұрын
I have said this for years... I am glad this is getting out!
@kathleenba9639
@kathleenba9639 2 жыл бұрын
Yes sis
@meralyspena4248
@meralyspena4248 2 жыл бұрын
Yeh....I forgive those toxic people. May my father Jeovah Protect me from their evil tongue
@hopntobewheatnotatare5314
@hopntobewheatnotatare5314 6 жыл бұрын
She's good! I like her way of thinking.
@honeybadgerisme
@honeybadgerisme 5 жыл бұрын
sure wish I could give more thumbs up! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼❤️👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
@julianascuriosity8517
@julianascuriosity8517 6 жыл бұрын
Wonderful message, wonderful truth sister 💞
@pacaluvr7963
@pacaluvr7963 6 жыл бұрын
Powerful perspective...thank you.
@vivianwoods9967
@vivianwoods9967 3 жыл бұрын
My favorite video
@lovesings2us
@lovesings2us 3 жыл бұрын
I love this! It really helped me. Thank you so much.
@jamesstruthers1797
@jamesstruthers1797 6 жыл бұрын
Great message - badass indeed! Thank you very much.
@Talapearl
@Talapearl 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my god I love this!!!
@shawneecowan2443
@shawneecowan2443 6 жыл бұрын
I love this video. I watch it over and over. Yet, i cannot forgive those that have harmed me. They altered my life path. How do you get over that?
@tracyewilson3536
@tracyewilson3536 6 ай бұрын
This was good! Thank you.
@robertsimon2885
@robertsimon2885 4 жыл бұрын
What if they don't deserve forgiveness?
@pistelboy
@pistelboy 2 жыл бұрын
In some way you are basically saying that if I do not choose to forgive, I am no better than my abuser. I can be free and hate the person who hurt me. If it is a stranger, this is even more present. If it is someone whom I love, then I most likely will forgive them. Repair has to be a part of the process of letting go, and there are some things that just cannot be repaired.
@GG-yn6jw
@GG-yn6jw 6 жыл бұрын
This one video just one video is all it took for me to subscribe to your Channel and know that this is something that will be life-changing thank you so much God bless
@rebeccaparks7681
@rebeccaparks7681 6 жыл бұрын
BEAUTIFUL. It's a shame it had to be named Forgive Assholes but I'm betting this got many of us to listen, right? "Speak truth to stupid", don't stay chained to those who hurt you. Nadia Bolz-Weber, you have a new fan
@melzization
@melzization 6 жыл бұрын
Very cool, could have said this myself, from the hard path of learning the nature forgiveness. Thanks
@civilmagpie1454
@civilmagpie1454 3 жыл бұрын
They don't deserve an apology nor forgiveness
@brikkstonewall3958
@brikkstonewall3958 5 жыл бұрын
This makes a lot of sense.
@gwenritch
@gwenritch 6 жыл бұрын
I’m having such a hard time trying to forgive a person who is constantly interfering in my life...so hard
@conniepratt2039
@conniepratt2039 5 жыл бұрын
Whenever anyone was ugly to me, my Gramma would tell me, 'Things could be worse. You could be them. How miserable they must be, to be that hateful.' It helps me keep my perspective and not their's. I hope this helps you, too. 🤗
@sharsalmonweeks5919
@sharsalmonweeks5919 Жыл бұрын
And they consistently continue doing the same..so you forgive, the next day they do and say something new, forgive, they do , you forgive…so they get away with their behavior and I continue to forgive? I understand…it’s hard always being the one that is supposed to forgive…it’s hard.
@blanquitopapito7778
@blanquitopapito7778 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@dfitz8721
@dfitz8721 6 жыл бұрын
Truthfully I don’t care about others actions.. my reactions are the ones that count
@leslikayolney7484
@leslikayolney7484 6 жыл бұрын
This helped me a lot. Thank you for posting.
@dianelivermore7093
@dianelivermore7093 6 жыл бұрын
A thousand thank u's, I really needed this reminder today... Well, actually it's a little overdue, but, better l8 than never 🤗🤓👌👍✌😇😀😎
@KLCollington
@KLCollington 4 жыл бұрын
I love this message. Can I featured this message on my album as a interlude? I have a track entitled "Defining Free" and i feel like God led me to these powerful words of being free and not being a doormat to people who want to cause you a great deal of harm
@desireedavenport1306
@desireedavenport1306 2 жыл бұрын
Okay, but how do you forgive someone who was so toxic to you that you just can't risk bringing them back into your life again? If I forgive, I receive more pain and abuse and will never have peace of mind again. At least now, I can truly live happier and more free than I would be to give that forgiveness.
@theresarezac7502
@theresarezac7502 Жыл бұрын
Hello Desiree, I struggle with this same question! There are people in this world who do not want us to be happy. Or at peace. The number one goal always seems to be putting me down to make themselves feel good. I did cut out the truly abusive people, they do not get to be in my life.
@carlamiagm
@carlamiagm Жыл бұрын
Oh Des and Zac, you are talking about something more and different from forgiveness. That would be reconciliation and maybe putting yourself at risk. Forgiving someone doesn’t mean that what they did is OK now; it does not mean you want to spend time with them now. Forgiveness is letting go of the right to get even, or the need to get even, or the need to think about wanting to get even. It’s only breaking away from the anger, the resentment, the hate, in order to free yourself of that burden. It doesn’t mean you can now spend time with these people. Avoid them as needed, but you will no longer spend every waking moment hating them for what they did to you. That emotion, the anger- that’s the chain that actually connects you to them. Free yourself from the person, and then, as you are able, free yourself from thinking about them. “Let it go” to free yourself. That means more that you “are over [thinking about] it” and them, than that you “are ok with” what they did, or that you can trust them not to do it again. That may be the case, if it’s something you both want to work on, but forgiveness itself doesn’t at all require “bringing them back into your life”! If you think that’s the goal, you will be asking more of yourself than is necessary, and more than may be safe. Be safe! Just don’t let thinking about everything they did to hurt you take over your life. As I have heard it said, “Not forgiving someone is like taking poison and hoping the other person will die.” You are holding the pain and anger, and holding it can poison you (while the guilty party is not punished, “poisoned”, or even aware). Stay safe. Be at peace. Don’t reconnect.
@shawneecowan2443
@shawneecowan2443 6 жыл бұрын
What if you still have to be around those people? On a daily basis.
@mariekewesterterp5913
@mariekewesterterp5913 5 жыл бұрын
Great message. Can I add a translation, please? If I try to add a translation, it says it is forbidden for this video. I would like to translate it to Dutch so more people can understand the message.
@caseywilliams4164
@caseywilliams4164 4 жыл бұрын
Free people are unafraid to speak truth to stupid. I like this chick
@Redhead77
@Redhead77 4 жыл бұрын
This is very good
@kyleschu
@kyleschu 6 жыл бұрын
this is so true thanks putting this video on here i needed this
@TheIntuitiveMindset
@TheIntuitiveMindset 5 жыл бұрын
Flippin Love This ... JUst Subscribed
@rustyburke4012
@rustyburke4012 6 жыл бұрын
Really good video and it's true! I needed to hear this
@Chris-hr3fc
@Chris-hr3fc 6 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this!
@Psychecafe
@Psychecafe 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! You totally make,,,,, sense. xoxo
@lisarossiter9809
@lisarossiter9809 6 жыл бұрын
WOW! Beautiful!
@Freespeech78
@Freespeech78 6 жыл бұрын
Love this message..thank you
@richardjirsak4463
@richardjirsak4463 6 жыл бұрын
needed this message
@LegosDeus
@LegosDeus 5 жыл бұрын
Find JESUS... No crackwhore angry lesbian will save you...
@zook838
@zook838 2 жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful. So refreshing. Thank you sister girl.
@kirrilysam7315
@kirrilysam7315 3 жыл бұрын
Just how do you do that? Is there steps? I have a memory so I can never forget.
@juliabowden8360
@juliabowden8360 Жыл бұрын
Free people, this comment brings the late Bishop Desmond Tutu to mind.
@orangeziggy348
@orangeziggy348 4 жыл бұрын
Forgiveness cannot change assholes. They will still remain assholes in this life. But forgiveness is done in order to let go and set yourself free from more of his or her abuse. Unfortunately forgiveness requires a practice of forgiveness because when people (assholes) injure you a million times- you fall into a million pieces which will require a a practice of forgiving thousands of times in order to release them to their 'maker'.
@sharsalmonweeks5919
@sharsalmonweeks5919 Жыл бұрын
I understand
@susanneh2207
@susanneh2207 Жыл бұрын
I love this so much! Such a powerful message! ❤
@NaldV-vd8if
@NaldV-vd8if 5 ай бұрын
💁🏻‍♂️✝️🧔🏻‍♀️🕊🙇🏻‍♂️💒👨‍👩‍👧‍👦🌇🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻🎺👼🏻😢"QUÉ TRISTE!" Ver la Apostasía final que mí hermano San Pablo apóstol profetizó que vendrían falsos maestros que son Lobos rapaces vestidos de ovejas malolientes para Engañar con falsas doctrinas... 💁🏻‍♂️✝️🧔🏻‍♀️"CRISTO VENDRÁ PRONTO cómo Ladrón en la Noche a buscar lo que le pertenece a un REMANENTE FIEL. Amén." 💁🏻‍♀️✝️🧔🏻‍♀️"CRISTO VENDRÁ PRONTO POR UN REMANENTE FIEL POR SUS HIJOS FIELES QUE HACEN SU VOLUNTAD AMÉN" (San Mateo 25) (Apocalipsis 3:10). 🙋🏻‍♂️"Saludos con amor y compasión 🤦🏻‍♂️😢él joven Naldo mensajero de DIOS!"
@lualncol
@lualncol 6 жыл бұрын
I'm all for the bolt cutters but how to incorporate "Love those who hate you and pray for those who persecute you"? Love and pray without being chained- love and pray AND forget?
@ahoneyb76
@ahoneyb76 6 жыл бұрын
Maybe praying for those who persecute you means praying for them to have no more hold over you.
@rai6638
@rai6638 6 жыл бұрын
She can't because she's not a pastor, she's a heretic, that practices Wicca among her other beliefs
@rai6638
@rai6638 6 жыл бұрын
Virginia García she says in her book Pastrix that she spent time with the Wiccan goddess who is Jesus’ aunt. By the way, I am a female who is working to become a pastor.
@rai6638
@rai6638 6 жыл бұрын
Virginia García the1witness.blogspot.com/2018/06/wolf-in-sheeps-clothing-nadia-bolz-weber.html?m=1
@AuthorFEFeeleyJr
@AuthorFEFeeleyJr 6 жыл бұрын
Blogs are never primary sources. Ever. She's actually an orthodox Lutheran per her own testimony. You all really need to get over your shit.
@hope4surf
@hope4surf 6 жыл бұрын
This is solid G O L D ! ! !
@mayorcurley3321
@mayorcurley3321 6 жыл бұрын
Great message. Like people, faith is evolving.
@mossyman789news
@mossyman789news 6 жыл бұрын
Heard this before in the 90’s
@BrianDoolittleAustin
@BrianDoolittleAustin 5 жыл бұрын
Fire!
@tammybrickert2068
@tammybrickert2068 6 жыл бұрын
Love it
@piak78
@piak78 6 жыл бұрын
Forgiveness is to imagine a version of the person you would like to see and not focus on the screwed up version they are right now. Forgiveness is not judging yourself from other peoples opinion of you. People are just assholes sometimes. Remember people try to bring you down by abusing you physically or verbally, just becausethey feel inferior to you. Stay away from people who bring you down by their jealousy and hatred. And whenever u remember what theyve done to you and u feel angry, just imagine grabbing them by their hair n punching them in their face. This should release u from the emotional pain instantly. love to all suffering on account of assholes.
@jimorison6159
@jimorison6159 3 жыл бұрын
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