TOXIC FAMILY MEMBER || MAMA VLOG!

[@aliykhan6641]

Love seeing your face but didn’t understand a word you spoke. Please can you speak English! Love you

[@mamakamasala]

I know this vlog is in urdu and few of my KZbin family don’t understand but I am sorry sometimes it’s hard for me to make vlog with Nafia because she work full time but in sha Allah I try my best to make vlog with Nafia so she can translate in English 😘

[@aliykhan6641]

@@mamakamasala your English is amazing MashaAllah. We can understand you I promise. Or maybe if you speak in Pushto as most followers are Pashtoon! 😍😘 May Allah keep you smiling forever 😍

[@angelajohnson226]

But Mama , you speak very good English, just a few sentences in your vlogs would help us English speakers feel included, we not asking for the whole vlog. Glad you appear to be recovering from covid.x

[@selinakiran6905]

@@angelajohnson226 aunty basically said try to keep the peace between family members by ignoring the bad/irritating/bickering behaviour and if that's not possible then to distance yourself from them. Keep your hello and goodbyes to a minimum so at least you have that contact but stay away if its affecting your mental health/well being when ever you do interact with toxic family members.

[@salaamaadams3005]

@@selinakiran6905 thanks so much🤲🏽

[@zulekhasuni3999]

Assalam allaikum I am 100% with you on this. Removing toxic people from my life made my life so much lighter and happier. I felt I was drowing and could not breath and then I decided to remove toxic people. Did not fight, argue or exchanged any words, all I did was went silent and cut off, blocked their numbers, stopped taking their calls etc. Did whatever I could to stay away and trust me in the past 12 years or so I have been so much happy, healthy and life has been a blessing with my children. And these toxic people were very close family members who had nothing but bad intentions. It was not hard or difficult at all. All I had to do was make a decision and stick by it.

[@imsb3373]

Mama, the way you have described how serious and dangerous depression is for someone is amazing. It is so rare to have members of the South Asian community to bring light to this huge problem, in our culture no one ever accepts how serious depression is. I have to thank you for pointing this out. Really, so so so important to remind everyone the truth about how deadly depression is.

[@greenplant5197]

You seem to hv lost weight Mama Sabiha! Stay healthy & strong ! The antidote to all evil is to stay away from extended family problems! Best advise ever. All evil emanates from insecurity, envious ness& jealousy ! Sensibility demands to maintain equilibrium in life !

[@missuniqueh4181]

This really hit home for me thank you so much for sharing and talking to us about this. May Allah always keep you happy x

[@pandapanda-tn3zt]

Good advice mama. Teaching children to recognise jealousy from a young age is extremely important. So many do not even recognise it in themselves let alone their children. Advise children to quash it with ‘MashA. Or BarakA., and duas like ‘Almighty give you more and me too.’ Jealousy can ruin lives in more ways than we realise.

[@benazirchaudhary4596]

As always you spoke with so much wisdom may Allah give u a speedy recovery wishing u recover soonest inshAllah lots of love 💘

[@mamakamasala]

Jazakallah 😘

[@palwashascookingchannel1730]

Mashallah very informative vlog thanks for sharing your wonderful experiences with us ❤️👍

[@syedamahammahmood8335]

I really enjoy listening to you!! Love how u share everything with so much honesty.

[@johnkhan54]

She is so right misunderstanding coming from different family for example brother-in-law and sister-in-law it could be from any site then jealousy becomes no one see them self making mistakes!100/all right !Distin is the best solution

[@halimaellahi8514]

Very helpful talk 100% agree with you. My duaas are always for every single muslim

[@nabs1035]

No one inthis whole whole world could have explained so well.... So dignified way.. So graceful way about... Siblings and Khandaan people n toxity.. Within them... No words.. Absolutely incredible said vedio ... No words..... I dint miss a second of this vedio.. That you so very much mamma.....get well soon mamma.. Our prayers always with you... Ur looking fresh in this vedio.. Get well soon... Mamma.. We love u very much.... How can we contact or write to u.. To discuss about our problems in daily life.... ....

[@aneelazaman5362]

I do the same few toxic people in my life which i deleted completely from my life and trust me your heart is in peace than you sleep better you do better!! their lies are hurtful. May Allah keep us all safe from such people Ameen!!

[@safiabegum5096]

Saw happy to see you i thankgod that you ok God bless you and your family and keep well and Happy also bless you children and grandchildren Ameen

[@rehanaaswat617]

Mama aapne apne mum and dad ko proud kiya Look at how beautifully you raised your family. This is what your parents taught you and they bought you up MashaAllah perfectly 💞 You inspire me x I understand the depression I am fighting it everyday and umeed hai one day it will leave me alone inshaAllah. I have 5 kids under age 12 so I understand what you mean Millions of illnesses mai se depression is a silent killer and painful from the inside ALLAH SHIFA DAI Aameen

[@nazmeenakhtar4408]

U doing good masaallah keep it nafia is my favourite give my salaam to her x

[@s.7948]

Thank you for this video. I do exactly like you do aunty and stay away from negative people do dua for them but keep distance

[@sof4063]

well said mama ! rishte badalte rehte hain, spot on!

[@rehanakausar6177]

Aslamo alykum mama jaan ap ko suna he 😊ap ki baaten mere dill me uttr gai he me kr ri thi struggle is topic k baare me .himmat mili he bht dill smaj a gai he Shukriya bht bht ye ap ka Ahsaan he muj pe mje direction mili he Jzaaak allah khair allah paak ap ko shifaa kaamila ajilaa ata kre ameen sumah ameen 🤲❤️

[@summomlife7923]

Nice talking MashaAllah!👍

[@humegayt76]

You are right love u so much♡🥰🥰and plz give us nafia house tour or atleast kitchen tour

[@zainablatif7592]

Thank you Mam. You made me emotional but my head feels light now. I don't feel that much stress. Thank you for this vlog. Can you make more vlogs. Peace&Salam and much much love from Holland

[@mumparveen6192]

Sallam Ameen to all duas i was like this.. same as you very breathless but my 1st covid vaccination helped with my breathing and second i felt much better ive still not got my taste and smell since january but still not 100% but my duas for you always get well sweetheart love you all loads and loads xx

[@reem7710]

MashAllah what amazing advice you give... bless you- may Allah reward you for helping people with this advice xxx

[@mehwishmaroof6490]

Thankuuuuu mama u help us alot very nice conversation 👏very wisely u make us understand

[@SAQ3051]

Asalamualaikum I’m glad you and family are recovering may Allah bless you with shifa. Thank you for your wise words and being so honest in your talks, I really enjoy listening to you. It’s really sad that your sons had to go through a horrible experience in America, that was shocking but I’m glad they were okay.

[@johnkhan54]

I always hate that seriously Sister will always take Brother side but not a Sister side it should must be equal, your story is a heart ❤️ touching! It’s everywhere situation like this outside of the Uk and 🇺🇸, 100% agree with you, this is why we need to appreciate Allah , just for land she will get no matter what but nephew love And nieces love never came back,Allah may give ever parents long and healthy life for themselves and for the kids

[@poonammir77]

Mama jaan❤️ you smashed it again! You are so well composed and I just love listening to your experiences in life, you are an amazing sister! Love you my jaan 😘❤️💕🧿

[@zafiakhan1508]

You are an amazing person😊 masha allah. May Allah give you good health and happiness.

[@shaziabi4443]

Thank you must talking about this topic xx

[@sobiakhan4190]

enjoyed listening every second of this video mashaALLAH wise words

[@mamakamasala]

Love you 😘

[@sobiakhan4190]

@@mamakamasala love u dear mama jaan

[@s.7948]

Paused at 35:48 to say that Allah swt works in mysterious ways this video was meant for me to watch thank you aunty I didn't know siblings can be hurtful because they are jealous. May Allah swt guide us all ameen

[@qwer1234346]

True that

[@highonslowdive4350]

Excellent advice. I am so touched . 🙏

[@nargissohail205]

Love you so much.Everything you say is so real and so revelant to what I've been living all these years.Im grateful for this video alhamdoullilah made me feel more at ease after listenning to you.Jazakallah for the video 🙏🏽

[@zeeuniverse7864]

Good you are eating eggs they are really good for covid recovery!! I hope you are feeling better MashAllah you look great ❤️❤️❤️

[@iwanttowatchyoutubenow]

Thats such a heart breaking thing to do, having fasted for a nephew and then having not let het nephews when the visited two extremes. I dont think I wouldve had any respect left if my aunt did that to us. But clearly you are all clean hearted people. Allah bless you and keep you safe.

[@zenabzaman]

Mama ap bhott samjdaar lady hi 🥰

[@arizorafiq5329]

Thank you so much for the very very nice talking and you're very smart I want to listen to you every time because you talking very good

[@qwer1234346]

Mama im currently going thru the same with my sister...wish i could speak with u

[@iamiraa]

Mama Jan missed you love to see you back masha Allah ❤️ loads of love and duas 😊❤️

[@mamakamasala]

😘

[@iamiraa]

@@mamakamasala ❤️❤️❤️

[@ghazalaasghar7598]

Mama Jaan thank you for sharing your experience I have gone through this kind of problem. But listening to u make me fell so much better thank you 💕 May Allah SWT bless you and your family always Ameen stay safe.

[@superkidsandmore5657]

Asalamoalykom hw r u mama u lost so much weight may Allah give u a quick recovery inshallah

[@S4FX]

Beautiful Advice May Allah swt reward your efforts Ameen ❤

[@uk3994]

Mama nice to see you I was no idea what happened to u cuz I was nt well myself but I’m praying for u

[@kasturik2294]

Mama has just recovered from covid

[@nasreensyed1633]

Thank you for another sit down talk vlog. I love these ❤️ hope you are feeling better Mama

[@mamakamasala]

Jazakallah ma jan

[@bilalraja6745]

I'm always isolated from my siblings and cousins, from them i have never felt the sensation of true family, only my friends treat me like family more than my own family

[@observer9681]

Slms mama, I wish you spoke English too, I don't understand anything. I watch your channels because you remind me of my mother and grandmother good memories.:)

[@shahambaloch7638]

Allah apko sehath aur emaan wali lambi zindagi de ameen

[@haniakhan1649]

Good to see u recovered.Stay blessed Mama!

[@sayi954]

Mama im confused, you said you were only daugther now you have a small sister xx

[@nazmeenakhtar4408]

That’s really sad mama your story make me cry now days everywhere same people got samll heart no love and respect for each others

[@mamakamasala]

Ma jan xx 😘

[@salaamaadams3005]

Love you so mama its a pity there isn't subtitles in English. May Allah grant you Shifaa Inshallah. 🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽❤️

[@mamakamasala]

I am sorry jan 😘

[@salaamaadams3005]

@@mamakamasala it's okay mama shukran for reply

[@Haafidhah]

Mamma please speak english or put subtitles. I really want to learn about this topic and others that you speak about as well JazakAllah Love you 💖💖💖

[@lifelife7729]

Came back from work and got so happy that you posted a long video ! Very good topic Can’t wait for more advice videos mama love you 😍❤️

[@yalmasaeed2381]

Stay happy and healthy mam ❤️

[@persianmuslimah8496]

Welcome back dear really good to see you Alhamdulilah may your health recover more soon. in sha Allah. ❤️💕❤️

[@mamakamasala]

Jazakallah meree jan

[@Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

Aunty I didn't really understand But Alhamdulilah i am so happy u look really well mashala much better

[@nylauddin7006]

I think as much as people can get envious of other success it can also go to other head and they start heading in the direction of pride and greatness when they become blessed remeber our wealth and success just like poverty is all a test from Allah. Also my mum always says famalies becoming divided and toxic fueding etc remember its always the inverted commas family (unlces, aunts cousins) that becomes the happiest at their toxicity as they will stir the poo stick even further as they have so much to gain from your division whereas 'pradah' non family members have nothing to gain. Watch out for these people thats when you see peoples true colours. But dont worry these people will also be on the prays mats the most also and holding the most ruja

[@zeetee2053]

Salam mama very beautiful topic thank you for sharing your experience love you mama 😘😘🤲🤲🤲

[@abeeraklan2898]

Can u plz translate we love watching ur vlogs but i have no idea whay ut taking about

[@mamakamasala]

I am sorry jan next vlog is in English and Urdu

[@zenabzaman]

Mama ap ny to apni life khol k samny rakh de soch rhi hu yay na ho bad mai ap kyly vo logh msayle khary kr dy.....Best wishes ❤

[@user-kk8wc7fv7b]

Such a strong lady Masha'Allah ❤

[@zaynabeeruhomaun2571]

Aslm.... Alhamdulillah u r fine.... Stay blessed

[@82shams]

Salaam Aunty jee! love you so much😘your a true diamond! now i’m going to continue to watch the full vlog 😘😘

[@mamakamasala]

WalykoMasalam awww 🥰 so sweet of you

[@parveenkiani5264]

Lot's of dua for your family and you same problems we larn from you 💕🤲💕

[@funchannel6328]

Allah sab maa baap ko lambi zindagi dein ameen r jinke naye unko jannat al fridus mein uncha makan dein ameen🇵🇰❤🇬🇧

[@halimahamza488]

stay happy mama jaan hum h ap k sath. her bath share kiya karay love you. ........,💞

[@zainabahmedvlogs1226]

Main Apne bachpan mein Dadi ke munh se suna tha lanjy di lanjy di lanjy di aur aaj aapke mo suna bahut achcha Laga bahut jyada achcha Laga

[@taibaahmed8172]

Salam sister ap ki sayat abi theek ny hoyi ap milk boil kar k thori haldi dall kar piya inshAllah ap theek ho gy gi

[@mehruyunus4645]

Aunty you seem really hurt today...forget and move on...life is not all about worrying about these petty family issues ...there is no gurantee of life today...we shoudnt be worry abt these things really...look at the bigger picture...these kinda ppl and matters destroy peace of mind and mental health...

[@mamakamasala]

True jan we just try to be happy and forgive and forget 😘

[@yasminabasadien4723]

Slm Mama are you no longer posting any vlogs in English.

[@ranizia9738]

Asalaamulakum Rahmatullia Barakatuhu So so nice listening to you.stay blessed 🙌. Please remember me in your duas.x

[@syedamahammahmood8335]

As I am listening to you I must say you are spot on.

[@maizen2271]

Very good video bless u always ameen

[@zaraali1577]

Ur smile is beautiful 🤩

[@halimahamza488]

meri bari sister. meri shadi say pehlay bhi bhoot jelous hoti thi or ab shadii ka bad or jelous or hassad bhar. gaiya. lakin meri. her waqt. koshes hoti h k meri waja say. us m hassad. n aye. m bhoot door rehthi hon isi m sakonn h dor say duwa kr. do acha h pass ja kr tension lena jo tang karay. us ka door. band krv do isi m sakonn h. ap ki her bath m such h. nice topic

[@mamakamasala]

Bilkol sahee kaha g

[@shaheenparveen4948]

I agree with you

[@user-py3im6nm8w]

Very well said 😢

[@LifeInUK]

Ma Sha Allah nice video

[@halimahamza488]

nice topic

[@rifatbi1654]

True mamma

[@laibahhussain1694]

Nice kitchen you got

[@nazmeenakhtar4408]

Ji mama u see these all problems everywhere especially I see more in England mama if u believe are na too much family problems in uk

[@mamakamasala]

G jan too much true

[@FunTravelLondon]

I think most of the viewers are Students like me, wishing them all the best with their exams ❤️❤️

[@ht3290]

Good luck with your exams too!!

[@faizanaltaf7033]

Mama app same marii dadii amma ki tarah hoo

[@mamakamasala]

😘

[@saimazaki5397]

U r great

[@ReyanMomin-kb5bm]

Hum apki her video dekta ha tu her video ma dunya ka kaamo ka liya aap na time nekalaa ha aur aap ya bhi kehti rehti ha ka ma na jawani ma bohut kaam kiya ha tu lihaza ab aap apni umer ki akhre lamhaat ma ha tu mere pyaree behen kuch time apna allah ko bhi da da taaka allah aap sa raazi hojaya jasy app ki dunya achee ha vasy aap ki akherat bhi achee hojaya ya baat ham na isliya khdee ka ham na aap ka bohut sary vlog dakja han tu isma app na apna aamaal ka bary ma kuch nahi bataya

[@mamakamasala]

@@ReyanMomin-kb5bm hahahaha KZbin ke mufti sahib agar app ko time milay tu jawo awer mama welfare page daikh lo Allahumdolilah may nay seref Allah ke raza k ley ju keya hay wo tum jeysayy log soch be nahi saktay awer yahan tum ko batah kar may tüm ko safayeee nahi dena chahtee koyonkay may tum ko is qabil he nahi samajtee awer tum ju keyboard per buhut ahla Ferhat ka mysalman apnay ko Zahir kar rahay hu wo be mujay pata hay k tüm khod keya hu mujay naseeyat karnay sey acha hay apni ıslah karo awer mera hisab Allah per chor do awer tum ju keh rahay hu tum nay meree buhut video deykheee hay ye b bakwas kar rahi hu kayonkay ju merey video daykhtay hain un ko pata hay k may keya hon awer Allah ke raza k ley keya kartee hon awer ik bath yad rako merey lay mushkil nahi hay tum ko dondhnaaa awer tumaray ghar puhunch jana so merey chanal per ah kar mujay naseeyatooo sey acha hu ga k apnay amal ke fikar karo awer logon ko fazool naseeyat karna chor do awer tum ko keya pata k mera akhiri time hay hu saktaa hay tüm kal he is dunya şey fana hu jawo tu kuch hisab Allah ko karnay tu awer apni in gundi ungliyoonnnn ko aram do awer dafa hu jawo merey channel per anay ke koyee zarorat nahi hay tum ko samhayy nahi tu tumaree halat kharab kar dön ge

[@CARS.AND.MOTORS]

Good 🥰😘👍🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@kasturik2294]

Blood is always thicker than water. No matter what, blood stick together when time comes. So forget what happened and move on.

[@funchannel6328]

I like yr vlog🇬🇧❤🇵🇰

[@nuzhathosein878]

SALAAM mama you take care your self please

[@laibahhussain1694]

Food give you good health and energy

[@mamakamasala]

G jan but not feeling hungry 😪

[@laibahhussain1694]

No you want for a few days

[@laibahhussain1694]

Because your boady not use to it

[@abeeraklan2898]

Plz translate we like watching u but somt knoe any hindi

[@MM-jm1gb]

True sad over little things happens and really hurts

[@mamakamasala]

True

[@bilalbilalrind7778]

Mem can you help us please mem please 🙏

[@bibimariamkhan7459]

Ma sha allah

[@angelajohnson226]

Could anyone translate a little bit of this for us English speakers please.🤗🙏

[@laibahhussain1694]

Hello

[@dianakumaran7245]

Aapne jindagi ka sachchayi bathayi.yahi tho hotha hai har ghar me.

[@mamakamasala]

Bilkol g

[@safinayousaf1462]

You are right Mama Jaan