Man Leading Double Life Denies Paternity (Full Episode) | Paternity Court

[@Augmented--]

I love the son’s calm demeanor. He has every right to be angry and yet he remained calm and respectful! ❤️

[@GRYL180]

He got the demeanor from his father! It's the judge who is a little bit excitable.

[@margochanning6868]

@@GRYL180 Exactly what I thought.

[@59thanks61]

The Father had nothing to say because of the mom's big mouth. She over there, I told you! Now show my son his respect! If she just wuda said, son go hug your dad, it wuda happened, but No, she had to go open her big mouth the wrong way.

[@carolnimo7060]

Sure enough!So well composed

[@wandrac]

I think that dad is still questioning the paternity and doubtful of the test...he doesn’t believe it’s accurate .

[@ps97nms137]

The son turned out to be a good man! Hold your head up young man✊🏽

[@shanteljones7502]

Trevon handled himself like a true gentleman💜

[@prettyblkgyrl74]

Shantel Jones - like a true MAN

[@wanzueni]

because of good upbringing,he should be grateful that coward of a man was not in his life.If i aere him i would keep him away from my children

[@ifoster165]

That man going to suffer omg

[@Nat-te3mg]

I wanna hug him

[@patricialightner6995]

That man should be ashamed of himself. Trevon so sorry he’s your dad.

[@Ella_B33]

I love judge Lake for those parting words "you go head with your sorry self" 😂😂😂 He's a sorry old man indeed, that young man didn't deserve that 😔

[@lorealharris7821]

My favorite last saying 🤣🤣

[@loveandmurderpodcast]

This

[@rosahurd6620]

THAT PART !!! I CAME 👁👁👁👁 for that comment!

[@geminirising1]

She read his behind 🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@patriciaevans3894]

@@geminirising1 Read his dirty behind clear as day..

[@yaqar3689]

My heart goes out to Trevon. He (and every other fatherless child) deserves better.

[@trenchvizion8022]

Yep that’s why I work hard to make sure my kids don’t grow up fatherless. - Trevon Lacey

[@jazziedeeee]

This young man is extremely respectful and humble. 😻

[@StrongSmartBlackMan]

jasmine davis thank you jasmine 💪🏾😘

[@mlm1916]

LOVE him. 💕 His Mom raised him well‼️

[@lynnmwalters7456]

Well raised

[@natnat0576]

He signed the birth certificate, um no you told them the name and they typed it in, there’s a difference

[@The_Maori_Taro_Planter]

that's a lie often used on this show.

[@allnaturalindigo4893]

@@The_Maori_Taro_Planter sure is

[@moontied4476]

Right! I don’t know why that lie out the gate annoyed me. what proof?! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@kanishiacravin6883]

You shouldn't be able to tell the hospital a guys name and they type it in without proof. A woman can give the hospital any name out of spite or just because she want that man to be her child's father

[@sasukeaclown705]

Nicole Edwards right and she said I HAVE PROOF!!!! {of what he didn’t sign it}

[@ronisharichards1338]

The son sounds more mature than his parents.

[@StrongSmartBlackMan]

Ronisha Richards I am

[@PrincessQuita86]

King Tookie Tr3 8 Your the son in this case?

[@Nat-te3mg]

and his mom is a life coach...

[@tincredible]

@@Nat-te3mg Oh, the irony!

[@teddan8036]

More mature than his cold hearted dad

[@Morenitasracing_co]

Her son is so kind, gentle and smart. My heart goes out to him 💗.

[@dorotheemackenbach4808]

Me too; exactly.

[@user-yu3ci4sl8v]

That son is GREAT...... ❤️ He is above the level of his “father” when it comes to be a man and a human being‼️ He deserves the world and beyond ❤️

[@love83forever]

He showed his son zero respect! If I was the son I wouldn't bother anymore. Just move on.

[@futuristicstoic]

Exactly, at least he found out the truth

[@tarantala111]

You are right. The old boy has an honest dignity. He been dicked around and needs time to recover.

[@marys2382]

Not that he couldn't have been the bigger person about it, but I feel he did that after the mom started hooping and hollering how she was right and celebrating. She caused the father a lot of hurt. He could have acted differently and not taken it out on his son though. It's not his fault and he was so respectful, more than his mom.

[@familyslove7036]

Father are very important in the life of their sons and daughters.

[@africacarey]

Wow what a sorry son of a b**** you know what after I found out he was my dad. I would have ex that man for out of my life why would you even want somebody like that around your grandkids . one of the sorriest men I've seen on the show and I was so happy to find out that he was the dad .when I saw how he reacted when he found out that was his son it was shocking

[@ladytiast-shirtsndesigns5297]

"In this moment your not a Man or a Father You go ahead with your sorry self"

[@LadyEmpressQueen]

she let him have it

[@christinamckinney2370]

She severely misread the situation here, and frankly, I was really disappointed in her. She should have addressed the MOTHER’S harsh, ratchet, demeaning behavior to this man. In light of her humiliating him the way she did, he merely stated that he would address his son in private. He had a right to do this. I didn’t feel that he was unloving to the boy during the testimony period, nor was he emotionless. He stated his sadness at the words the boy spoke in not having him in his life. But you can bet your bottom dollar that it was this woman’s MOUTH that pushed him out of his child’s life.... which happens too often to these children. It’s not fair!!! MOTHERS!! Allow your children to have a relationship with their father without having to deal WITH YOU!!!! Enough said.

[@Soul_Fed]

@@christinamckinney2370 if that was the case he could have mentioned that. But to say he didn't have anything to say to his son as well? That's what I didn't understand. And the judge said she understood about how he was feeling but he said that's not why he's not saying anything. The least he could have done was say something to the guy. Forget the mother she kind of made me upset too. But I wouldn't allow that to be a reason not to speak to my son.

[@contextualprecision8442]

No.. He didn' mention it, because he can only share the whole context with his son in private. The ratchet woman on the bench, playing Judge, and the young man's mother created an environment that's not conducive to sharing Truth in full context.

[@Soul_Fed]

@@contextualprecision8442 nah. His son lost out on the benefit of the relationship with his father because of his doubts and denials and he is upset? Lol regardless the son suffered and he could have said he apologized to the son for all of that and he would talk to him about having a relationship with him in private without his mother because of her behavior. I mean be honest.

[@POLOE]

WHY DID THE JUDGE LET HER GET AWAY WITH THAT LIE...SHE SAID HE SIGNED THE BIRTH CERTIFICATE! THEN SECONDS LATER SHE GOT CAUGHT UP.

[@breeharrison6754]

I was wondering about that too

[@annameade8570]

Exactly!!!!!

[@AvaBsMommy]

She let her slide the whole time. That little bit at the end was not enough.

[@awilliams8134]

True.

[@joseaustin2692]

Facts!!!

[@annam4617]

Im confused. The dad acted like he wanted to know but got an attitude when he was found the dad

[@josephb2439]

Anna M Right! That’s what I was thinking

[@jahhstone4532]

cz he probably was hoping he's not...so he could get to justify what she did

[@raheempeters6813]

That is absolutely right. Dad is a hot mess.

[@robvoyles]

he was hoping he wasn't and thought he could get all that money back if the DNA proved he wasn't and he didn't sign the birth certificate.

[@AvaBsMommy]

I don't think it was an attitude. I think it was shock, hurt and confusion. He needed time to process. Listen to his words and body language. They match.

[@Mrs_Tug_n_tow]

WAYMENT WAYMENT WAYMENT DID SHE JUST LIE IN THE FIRST 5 minutes?!? How he sign and wasn’t there TF?🙄🤬🙅🏽‍♀️

[@crazifyit]

I caught that too!

[@juicieleo813]

I caught that too

[@NestozLikwidVPotient]

Cause she a liar. J lakes said she left out a whole chapter

[@angelacarlisle1708]

Maybe just wrongly worded

[@annb1227]

He was hoping that was not his son...judge spoke a mouth full you go head with your sorry self...agree

[@tamekanash6705]

angela brinkley Qq

[@tinabethea7868]

I don't think the Judge caught on to why the man said he didn't have anything to say the reason why the father didn't say anything because look how the mother responded when she told the man he was the father she start acting a fool and that would have been enough for me right then and there she didn't have to say all that stuff because if she wasn't sleeping around the man had a accepted I tell you she did what she did

[@tinabethea7868]

%

[@marifroggy]

Yep because the still owes $5000 and may not want to pay the rest.

[@TheWalkingMegan]

I don't care what the mother said or how she acted there is NO reason to take that out on HIS son. SMDH

[@betheone8292]

You go on with your sorry self😂😂 she said exactly what I was thinking..

[@Taylife]

Too funny

[@blesynkonipo9889]

😂😂😂😂

[@adirayasharahla984]

Be careful who you lay down with, it can ruin your life and the child's life forever.

[@alanamoss8676]

Adira, you are a very wise young lady. If only other young ladies could be as smart as you, there would be a lot less hurt children in the USA. ☺

[@latoyajohnson8695]

Adira Yasharahla please say that again!!!!

[@jeanthree]

Adira Yasharahla its to bad when Obama was President he should have promoted Black family marriage and children.

[@badmos6966]

Adira Yasharahla very very

[@roxymarie1077]

Preach!!

[@melindasimon3027]

I think her reaction caused this man to not react. She instructed him to show his son respect. I think he was doing all he can not to respond to her.

[@Soulflowersun]

Melinda Simon I thought the same.

[@I2AmUS]

The father is a PoS. It's not about the mother, it's about the son.

[@resolute7177]

@@I2AmUS think over ur comment it made no sense

[@AvaBsMommy]

Absolutely! I'm glad you can see that too

[@shonuff5806]

Yes, @ 14:24, the Man cut his eyes over and when the Mom shouted her commands he looked aggravated and stayed on his side. Also I feel because the man didn't respond how the Judge felt he should she made that statement. I LOVE the Judge too.

[@AKY2011]

So being new in town & having your own place are reasons to sleep around? This lady is something else.

[@bridgetrobinson76]

Yes and the son also said, he was raised with his two other brothers off different ages in a single household. I think momma was a bit wild back in the day. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mom2babygkaterad946]

@@bridgetrobinson76 Not a bit wild, alot wild!🤣

[@BijinMCMXC]

No, you’re something else judging her off her much younger self’s actions like she was saying she agrees with her past behavior. She was literally just describing her mindset BACK THEN 🙄

[@kyotoonyxx]

It's wrong, but we don't know how she was raised. Could of been raised in a strict house.

[@demielu347]

"You go head with your sorry self!" 😳

[@Dybeatsounique]

Demie Lu right😂😂😂 that’s sad he’s mad

[@AllanteDC]

Demie Lu lol i thought i was the first to quote this. That was fierce !

[@angelslive9651]

Sorry self 🤣🤣🤣

[@nini241005]

lol!!!! when i heard her say that i went straight to the comments to see if someone wrote about it

[@angelslive9651]

nini241005 - Yeahhh me too 😆😆

[@reneeashfordchampion8064]

This one made me cry.... I love the poise of the young man. At least he knows for sure. Stay strong young man, stay strong. 💪

[@keltonholman77]

Throw the whole parents away. 🤦🏾‍♂️They clearly couldn’t remember nothing they had done in their past. It’s just flat out embarrassing as the child to have to listen to stories like in public as well as on camera. They both owe THEIR son an genuinely apology.

[@keenafromphilly]

She a BIG LIAR... HER:"YES HE DID SIGN MY SON'S BIRTH CERTIFICATE" HIM: "I WAS INCARCERATED WHEN TREVON WAS BORN" HER: I GAVE THEM HIS NAME AND THEY TYPED IT IN" SMH

[@RayYoWTF]

The son is so respectful and holds himself up very well. I’m glad he got his answers but the way the father reacted made me so upset. I truly love this judge and how she let the father have it. What a shame.

[@reret8556]

The mom lied, yet its like he took it out on the son😔😔 sad!!!

[@latoyajohnson8695]

ReRe T that was so wrong on his side and wrong for the mom to keep so many secrets from her son

[@reret8556]

Latoya Johnson I agree! I hate that so many people lie to their kids

[@nevergetthenameiwant]

She didn't really lie to her son. She just did not tell him that 2 weeks after she slept with his father she started dating another man!!!! If he was so unsure, he should've had a DNA test done. Two even! There've been many other similar cases with overbearing women and the fathers have even apologized to their kids. It's not about her - It's about his son!He's only standing in a man's frame, he aint really one!

[@marcellafair3712]

She should be embarrassed of her actions in front of her child and that wig.. braids.. updo i.. cant tell chile!! The son is more mature than both of them

[@AvaBsMommy]

He didn't. He said he will call him later. He needed (and deserved) time to process

[@hmcdaniels]

When he said "between 3 to 6 month year old", I knew he was he was messed up. Lol

[@paulaanderson9770]

I'm glad I wasn't the only one that caught that. Lol

[@aprilcaesar8286]

I was wondering how is it the judge didn’t call him out on it.. I also went to the comments to see who else heard it. 😜😜

[@denisesexton5066]

🤣🤣🤣

[@lamiahassan887]

Oh my god, I had to find your comment to conform it🤣🤣

[@sunshinesun6727]

The mother killed that moment in the end with her babbling. She should have be quiet and let there emotions come freely. The Father was not gonna hug because of you, and the son was going to him because he felt like father should come to him.

[@Topnotchmvm]

Sunshine sun yep the father felt some type of way after her outburst so he chose not to show any type of love to his son

[@ariaslan691]

💯 ✔ 🎯

[@josieb9402]

i can't believe the judge missed that. she totally misread his stoicism. all that 'give my son his respect..blah blah blah, after standing there admitting how ho-ish she was back in the day, and that's what lead to the doubt in the first place smh!

[@missq3197]

I completely agree with you... the mother ruined it, extremely for her son. Because she was messy herself and wanted to lift some of her own guilt off of her. She definitely seemed like she raised a good young man despite the crazy.

[@Goku999-g96]

She should’ve kept her mouth shut but that still shouldn’t have anything to with the fact u just found out that’s really ur son and u missed all that time he could’ve ignored her and focus on the moment no excuse period

[@BobYourHeadMusic]

Her: "I have proof that he signed the birth certificate" Also her: "I gave them his name and they typed it on the birth certificate" ... But i thought u said u had proof he signed it?

[@motherof1294]

I was confused about that

[@yvonneday6784]

I'm not only disgusted of the father's behavior after results were read but the mother's behavior was no better. I wish the best for this respectful young man.

[@irritism1227]

I think the man had to keep from speaking in order to keep from saying something he may, later, regret. I feel like the mom's outburst, after the results, took away from the moment. She shouldn't have said ANYTHING, especially, "I told you that you are his father" because the TRUTH is, she didn't know. Imo, Judge Lake should've stopped the mom and set that straight BEFORE jumping down the dad's throat. The dad stated that NONE of the reasons Judge Lake spoke on was the reason for his cold demeanor. She wouldn't allow him to explain himself. Now, we will never know what he was going to say. I just hope he contacted his son and made things right with him. The son and his children deserve it!

[@shaonsengupta6366]

@@irritism1227 agree with you. Probably he is overwhelmed right now and looking for the right words. Maybe he doesn’t have the right expression or is shy to show it, maybe he is also regretting in his mind the lost time, the huge bill he still has to pay. If there was no doubt, he would not have had any reason to stay away. Cheating kills you in every way.

[@verlesiaevans3966]

Wow his mom is/was trifling.....the son more mature than his sorry parents

[@ThePlutoandMarsEffectofTarot]

Very trifling!!!😒

[@gaylenewood7707]

Well hun they still on that bus having a bumpy ride😉.

[@jenpollard3962]

Verlesia Evans - yep...mother was a whole hobo

[@RacieRain]

So was he

[@kyotoonyxx]

His mom raised him tho. Not that sorry man. The son didn't become who he is without her.

[@tamberlinferguson4156]

The dad was mad bc how the mom acted when the results came out. His true colors came out!!

[@latoyajohnson8695]

tamberlin ferguson in full form,I think he low key wanted to hear that he wasn’t the father!!!

[@classicstorm]

Latoya Johnson I think it was both...

[@mileyfoe8129]

So mad to where he shouldn’t have hugged his son? It shouldn’t have bothered him so much

[@birdchoyce1268]

I think it's more to the story as to why their relationship went wrong. Maybe her reaction set him off, but something else was very odd about his reaction!!

[@debradixon9963]

tamberlin ferguson I so believe you on that one!!! Why she have to yell that out, that maybe the reason he didn’t hug him...

[@DiraLove]

Some people....sigh...its better that you dont know them....even if they are family

[@saturnladee110]

Kaadira LaGrier sad fact

[@nadinevital4016]

Kaadira LaGrier indeed

[@theninjacat7200]

true dat

[@leniebabe44]

that's not family...those are relatives..family loves and supports u....Relatives are just there because of DNA....

[@StrongSmartBlackMan]

Facts

[@scorad21]

"You go ahead with your sorry self" Dang Judge, I felt that deep in my soul but he is sorry!

[@shashaunnabradley2698]

Facts

[@creaholbdy1014]

The mother was just relieved she didn’t have to bring the other man in. But embarrassed herself just the same. The dad was probably hoping he to prove her wrong. It backfired on the both parents and the son still ended up hurting the most🤷🏽‍♀️

[@artluver3155]

Buddy was hoping he didn't have to pay that last few grand on that back child support. 😂

[@ethiopianabesha]

Jaysme Fland---lol!

[@elishabrown2938]

Exactly 😂 but he knew that was his son that s why he was making an effort to pay it

[@mikew2610]

Jasyme Fland. He's already been paying for years. The way the system is setup, he wouldn't receive a dime back if the kid wasn't his.

[@inferno7156]

Jail

[@pamelajefferson7238]

😂😂😂😂

[@norawilliams2606]

👏🏽 To the young man for being a real man and a real father. 👀 To the mom because she knew that she hadn’t been truthful and caused her son more pain. 🤯🤬 To the biological father for being a real 😾 for not being in his child’s life growing up and not caring enough once the results were read. The real adult and intelligent person in this case is the son. Blessings

[@tiffanyhall1944]

Some people are physical parents but they don't have the internal fortitude or inclination to give of themselves.

[@joshuaking9050]

True

[@geremymason5936]

I cant stand when the women that admit to sleeping with someone else have the nerve to say "I told you." If you didn't know with 100% certainty because you were messing with more than one guy, you dont get to have that soapbox because any reasonable person can have doubts.

[@Singlehood2Marriage]

I saw my BAJAMAS ... your honor.... I can’t 😂😂😂

[@celly9719]

Yes us country folks also say "Batata Salat" potato salad 😆🤣😂😹😆

[@WoodenGravel]

😂😂😂

[@user-sh8jo1jz2t]

The mother been lying from the beginning , saying he signed the birth certificate. No signature tho .. she kept a lot of secrets

[@seanwooldridge5326]

Dana R so do you wear Avia socks

[@TotaloneBadBoy-uo5gu]

Dana R There's a song 4 this court case...Thanks For My Child...I'm really thanking you, the man above...😔

[@latoyajohnson8695]

Dana R all of the drama could’ve been avoided had she just been honest from the jump,it’s just disheartening when you keep so many secrets it can effect a lot of ppl involved ESPECIALLY the children

[@lql1094]

The father could have at anytime gotten a DNA test himself. Please stop putting all of the wrong on the women. Even if she wasn't 100% forthcoming, the man (grown man) could have made moves to make the entire situation kosher. These men who stand there and try to say "she did this, and she did that" are just as culpable as the women. They are adults too. They 'should be' held equally responsible.

[@MGTOWUNIVERSE]

@@lql1094 You do know at-home dna test wan't available 25 years ago right???? You think a woman that is lying and wants the checks to keep coming will risk giving that up? Nah

[@petricedobson7836]

The judge said you go ahead with your sorry self!

[@adrialivers36]

That was hard to watch and when he didn't move a muscle or even look his sons way smh.... That man didn't deserve that.

[@listenhearmenow]

Oddly enough I disagree. If the mother had shut up and not screamed at him he might have gone over to his son. He maintained his dignity and said he would be in contact. She kept him from his son all the years that he was PAYING CHILD SUPPORT. MOTHER behaved very badly all through this.

[@listenhearmenow]

Totally disagree with the judge on this one. She made it worse. She wants everyone to be immediately huggy kissy. It does not always happen that way. This son may be able to learn a lesson in dignity from his father.

[@Lita_213]

@@listenhearmenow The same way that he was court ordered to pay child support is the same way that he could've gotten court ordered visitation. He wasn't in that young man's life because he didn't want to be in his life. There are many parents who don't get along, not even long enough for the custody of the child to be exchanged, so they go through family members and even the police when it's time for visitation. The mother was wrong from the beginning when she got her son to play match maker on the bus all the way up until she acted an unjustified self-righteous fool in court that day, but none of that excused how coldly he treated his son. That young man -- *his son* poured out his heart to him regarding how his absence affected him and he still put his so-called *dignity* above his *compassion* (if he even has any) toward him. That "father" is a prime example of the difference between a male and man, and if he's lucky, someday his son can teach him what it means to be a man.

[@immortal-fatexx7040]

@@listenhearmenow He didn't need to go over to his son, he didn't even need to show emotion at that moment. But he could have acknowledged his son, looked at him and told HIM he would discuss it with him privately. Children shouldn't bare the consequences for their parent's sins. She was a horrible big mouth. But his son was nothing but respectful. He deserved that much.

[@immortal-fatexx7040]

@@listenhearmenow The father can learn from his son. His son was very respectful while he was the victim in all this. He didn't have to be "huggy" but he could have at least acknowledged his son, maybe looked at him? And tell him he would discuss it privately. He wasn't showing integrity, he was bitter. Did he have good reason? Yes, but unfortunately towards the wrong person.

[@michaelrhodes5961]

I loved how calm the son remain that proves you are more man than your so call Dad Be Strong in the Lord my brother

[@elainnialestrade3255]

Trevon continue to be the best father and individual that you can be. May God continue to bless you. Such a warm person with a huge heart... dont let the world steal your joy.

[@abbyguuuurl]

He thought for sure he was going to get that child support money back

[@Kqueen_bellla]

😂😂😂😂

[@changamuda7844]

*He WOULDN'T get it back ANYWAY. That is the one thing that you don't get 'reimbursed' in America..*

[@changamuda7844]

"(It's possible to get payments stopped 'going forward'..)

[@bridgetdallis6109]

No he didn't....his words were he was not sure because of the actions of the mother....and from her own TESTIMONY she was a get around girl....eyes on one man....while sleeping with another

[@testedtried1233]

No he didnt. He paid child support for a child he was never around . Good man is all I see. The mother was trifling and a loose woman.

[@NeAsiAVidE0VauLt]

Did he just say "between 3/6 month year old???

[@SpiritualLifeCoach43]

Im still confused by him, it is months or years? lol

[@venitajae447]

Neasia Rhynes I hollered when he said that, I had to rewind 😂😂😂

[@reniqharris]

Neasia Rhynes u stupid😂😂

[@itsmeAshley84]

Like the size on some baby clothes😒

[@artluver3155]

Yes he did 🤣

[@lezelglasgow6449]

why couldn't he just forgive her and hug his son period omg that's so sad and selfish of him after all those years Smh

[@saturnladee110]

Lezel Glasgow that's all Trevon wanted and he couldn't give him that... Just a hug smh

[@topflightstyle4141]

Men not like women the women forgive faster ! That dude is old school in his day he would have slap the you know what out of her.

[@brooklynforever1990]

Yup he's pathetic

[@lavetta9914]

@@brooklynforever1990 Yessss!

[@incidentalist]

Cause the Mom was hottin and hollerin at him, when she was the one who didnt even know who the Father of her child was.... He felt disrespected, so decided to stay to himself

[@chelsnieadantemapur5852]

i think the pyjamas things is true..

[@andreacurrie3204]

😆 This man can’t talk 😂

[@christinareynosa3902]

That last comment to the father from the judge Was just Awesome. Made my day.

[@GladEOlah]

I have been watching these episodes for a few months now and wanted to say that the Judge is one of the most compassionate persons I have heard of and yet she is firm and tells it just as it should be. Thank you for allowing the public to see you in action.

[@tiggy2timez]

I believe Mr Lacey's wall came up in the end because of heavy emotion, he has alot to say and lost time to make up for but wanted to do it privately between him and his son, not the world. Peace and Blessings be with you Trevon and Mr Lacey. 🙏🏾

[@skilletchef4444]

The most sober comment.that dude is hurt.judge should have known that the guilt is eating him up.then he thought about the pajama boy????? 😂😂😂😂😂

[@shantetorres718]

I agree. He's of a different generation too.

[@feleciathomas4245]

He made this about himself and NOT his son.

[@apreLLa84]

Right! And the moms reaction didn't help. I hate when they 100% after the results lol!.

[@teresacalladine7479]

Amen. I believe he just needs time. I don't believe, he's being cold . I believe he needs peace and privacy ,that's all. Hopefully that's true. God bless them all. I pray.

[@GodisLovetoo]

That was heartbreaking.... He must have thought it really wasn’t his son.

[@lisarobinson8320]

They have the exact same nose. He just doesn't want to be liable for child support anymore.

[@sheenaperez1882]

Lisa Robinson he paid it off already. He only have a little left. So it can't be child support.

[@NoDeathforDinner]

Yeah if it was child support that upset him you think he would be happy that he didn't waste all that money supporting some other man's son for all those years.

[@mrjasonsamuel23]

Goddess Love He couldn't let go of the pain

[@latoyajohnson8695]

Goddess Love I believe that he wanted to be not his son

[@sabrinamcewen1981]

Loool at "You was on TEAM TOO MUCH!'"

[@oluchukwumaduka2967]

I understand this man. he is real with his feelings. he can't scream when he is genuinely shocked and hurt

[@jazzyjazz1823]

Wow this was just sad. The mom lied from the beginning and the way she reacted ruined the mood. I can understand the father being angry with the mom, but that was cold and Trevon didn't deserve that. She know she wasn't sure. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Sabrinawayofliving]

I think he was ashamed and shocked. He could be upset that he lost out on his son life. The mother did leave a open window 🤷 I believe he will come around eventually.

[@chigoziememereuwa4320]

I believe you are right, not everyone knows how to process emotions, he did say that he will contact the son at a later date. The judge could have cut him some slack, it is a big news he just received, especially if he lived his life thinking that wasn't his son

[@Sabrinawayofliving]

Chigoziem Emereuwa yeap my father didn't come around until I was 23 year's old . I was very cold towards him and didn't know how to react. I waited until I released alot of anger and pain before I let him in and decided to meet up with him and have a lunch date. Our relationship is still not the best but one thing I must say he love his granddaughter like crazy and I'm happy about that. We can't judge people off emotions not every emotions have the same definitions .

[@chigoziememereuwa4320]

I'm so happy for you and i'm glad it turned out okay for you. I hope we have more stories like yours

[@latoyajohnson8695]

Natural B3autyhair only time will tell

[@juanitagartley937]

@@chigoziememereuwa4320 I so agree.

[@snickerz5810]

Pajama man lhh “the door opened and i saw my pajamas. he was in the bottoms and she was in the top.” I died! 😂😭

[@AKY2011]

😂😂😂 yeah that part had me crying laughing

[@trinabishop101]

Me too

[@xo3535]

😭😿🤣

[@MrStanley39]

This judge makes me laugh.......her ending was priceless.

[@1015teetee]

What just happen I almost spit my water out! Judge I never new you could go off on someone like that! 😳 She said, In this moment your not a man or a father in my eyes, then comes, "You go head on with your sorry self!" WOW HE IS GOING DOWN IN PATERNITY HISTORY!

[@juanitagartley937]

Yasssssss

[@privateinvestigator8783]

I love how the Judge always greets the court with a Good Morning!

[@jaboukinteh9198]

The mother was sweating hard when those results were coming out 😂

[@Yonnie2436]

Trevon was better off without his pappy..😒 😞

[@delovelyqueen7498]

yonnie2436 you are right

[@Yonnie2436]

Ken Baker That happened over 20 years ago.. Now he knows, he is the father, he still can't let go of his anger?? That's heavy, hateful, and sad.. Move on, be a man and stop letting the past eat you up.. Now Mr. Baker, I hope you caught that. 😏

[@Yonnie2436]

Ken Baker it's called resentment

[@mikew2610]

yonnie2436. He's been paying child support for years not knowing if the kid was his and was denied being in the child's life. Her integrity was shot in the first minute of this video when she said he signed the birth certificate when it was typed in. As much as I want to blame the father, the mother was just as worse in how she handled the situation. As much as I watch paternity court, the judge was totally biased in this one. She didn’t call out the woman for her lies especially the first one with the birth certificate but criticized the father for his reaction.

[@keanaspencer2169]

Mike W that's what paternity tests are for. Once parental status is substantiated, visitation rights would be be the next move. He can't blame her, if he did nothing about it. She has proven herself unworthy, by cheating/habitual lies. He knew the type of vindictive chick he was working with.

[@kcoren2075]

After the paternity result, the mother should have stayed calm instead of dancing and yelling, I believe that sorry behavior harden the fathers heart.

[@AvaBsMommy]

And I honestly don't think it was hardened, he was just trying to stay calm and talk to his son later, like he said he will.

[@joseaustin2692]

Exactly……… she just got lucky with how the results came out it’s not a matter of I told you because I feel in my heart. it was really down between two men.

[@savitaram3975]

Even after the results, YOU IGNORE YOUR SON?!!!!🤬

[@Rr-qz5rc]

“Three or six months year old”@ 1:58 😔

[@angelaw4186]

Shaina RIGHT! I replayed it several times to make sure I heard that clearly lol

[@simoneshepherd2327]

You heard that too aye lol

[@thompsonh4]

Shaina 😂😂😂😂😂

[@LorraineRichards777]

I AGREE MONTHS & YEARS OLD WOW!!! Where DID HE Go TO SCHOOL?? WOW 🤔

[@enidmbabazi7215]

Shaina yes í heard that too 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@LisaBrown-kb4nx]

I think the father is hurt and needs his space and proper time to mourn and accept. The way the mother was behaving after the results were read, just hurt him even more all over again. It made him not want to react so he just curled up and is trying to take it in, in his own way. Give him time. Everyone reacts to shock differently.

[@nicoleraheem1195]

Lisa Brown They judged him so harshly too

[@LisaBrown-kb4nx]

Nicole Raheem yassssss

[@latoyajohnson8695]

Lisa Brown that would sound fair if he wasn’t so cold about it

[@missbeeline]

Lisa Brown exactly what i was thinking. That's a lot all at one time. Not everyone deals with bombshells the same way. We dont have a right to dictate ppl's emotions and how/ when they handle life altering information.. geeeesh. Give the man some time...we as ppl can be so judgmental

[@lql1094]

Exactly!

[@kimberlyblount6172]

He's still bitter about her cheating on him

[@resolute7177]

who wouldnt

[@Brandiisbeloved]

Dosui someone who doesn’t know how to let her and move on. It’s been a decade move on

[@MissLadyG99]

@@Brandiisbeloved Everyone deals with pain differently, and we don't all heal as fast.

[@s.sutherland3957]

@@MissLadyG99 yup

[@kingfemmo]

The mom's outburst right after the results were read probably put him off, all that "I told you," and "give my son some respect; hug him." She already said she wasn't sure who the father actually is, so she had no business saying all of that. Plus she was trying to rub it in and give him orders about what to do. She really messed up that moment, and I think the judge missed that.

[@terryfoster7763]

I love this Judge! She tells it like it is!!

[@TeeTee_709]

When she said I was in it to win it, she took me all the way out.😂😂

[@fydenciarichardson5410]

Why do these women sleep around with multiple people then tag someone and get on these shows looking more foolish than the men

[@mummyivy6072]

Trevon is really mature

[@StrongSmartBlackMan]

Sevi brown thank you

[@classylady4606]

LOL! She said "you go ahead with yo sorry self"!! Classic!

[@safello]

"you're not a man or a father!" well said judge

[@faisamohamed6292]

9:31- “ just found out that Pajama man could be his father “ y’all need to stop 😭😂😂😩

[@anncrane6451]

Wow! He's just as cold as ice.No emotions or anything? But the son has it right,he's going to be in his kids life not like his father wasn't in his life.His mother played a part in keeping alot of secrets from her son and to only come out in court.I hope they mend the broken relationship and move forward?

[@justred5164]

He’s a good kid

[@venitajae447]

😮!!

[@mikew2610]

Ann Crane. Yes cold as ice. That was too many years of going to craziness and the mother played a big part of it.

[@anncrane6451]

Mike W You are correct

[@latoyajohnson8695]

Ann Crane I hope so too but as of right now he’s a sorry cold as ice type of person

[@Empresslove444]

Ain't nothing like an old fool!!

[@ZefenMakeda]

Genesis A. D lol

[@AUser0000001]

Genesis A. D lololololol!

[@a.v.london1952]

Genesis A. D the both bad! 🙁😬

[@shannondbrown1552]

Except a new fool....shannon b

[@gypsyj7154]

Why 👏🏾 not 👏🏾 do 👏🏾 this 👏🏾 years 👏🏾ago !!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Crusty-Crab-Pizza]

Amen on that one!

[@StrongSmartBlackMan]

And at home why we have to go all the way to Georgia for the truth

[@cherylhartley2355]

"You go head, with your sorry self" Alright now Ms Lauren!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏

[@NamaijJames]

The reason that man acted that way was for several reasons (1) the way she lied and said he signed the birth certificate when he didn't (2) the way she moved on 2-3 weeks later (3) all the secrets she kept (4) how when the judge asked the son about how this made him feel he only placed the blame on the dad and not his mother as well (5) then the way the son only gave praises to his mother when his father did indeed pay child support for all them years. But he will come around he just doesn't want nothing to do with her.

[@stylishdinero3720]

agreed and the sad part is she was still lying and hiding thing and she signed his name to the birth certificate

[@stylishdinero3720]

yes he wants nothing to do with her she definitely owes him an apology and when the results were read she just should have remained quiet and let them hash it out

[@michellekauffmann9445]

You nailed it honey ❤️

[@traceygarner7764]

No, you didn't nail it. Paying child support doesn't mean anything without time. That's what kids need, especially young boys is TIME! Of course he's going to place blame on him, he wasn't there. The young boy didn't know about the secrets, so how is he to blame. At the end of the day, the mother RAISED her son. That old fool wouldn't have paid if jail wasn't an option. Also, ask this happened 25 years ago. What does that have to do with his son, NOW?!!!

[@contextualprecision8442]

He was struggling to pay support, and such women use those children as pawns for the government check.

[@sunshinesun6727]

Its the way the mother said give your son a hug, hug your daddy. But u didn't know for sure.

[@user-sh8jo1jz2t]

They got the same nose

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

Dana R agreed

[@itsmeAshley84]

And eyes!!

[@ethiopianabesha]

and lip lines.

[@shelbyvan]

Dana R yes that’s what i kept looking at

[@lynettesmith6153]

Dana R lol yup

[@johnfuller1569]

I will give the mom kudos for raising such an amazing Son.

[@JaneDoe-ql7sc]

the young man & his father both share a quiet peaceful demeanor, nice mellow vibe. I don't blame the man for wishing to wait till later to embrace his son. The mom is all "Go see your daddy!" & it was just too bizarre & surreal to talk like that after the uncertainty of years, as the mom herself was uncertain & felt the father of her son could possibly be a different man. I think the young man is very nice & that his father will find joy in being his dad & the children's grandfather. The young man's father has been very responsible financially over the years, & now he can truly feel good about that.

[@illyxx6314]

I really think if the mom wouldnt have reacted like that when the results cane out he wouldnt have got cold hearted so fast in that moment .. i think she spoiled the whole truth for him

[@annawhyte5890]

Exactly

[@supremegoddess5347]

I was sooo nervous, I'm glad he didn't pay child support in vain!!!

[@lavernejackson2055]

The mama need to hush. This is why the man had nothing to say. She jumping around saying I told you. She needed to handle iI differently.

[@shonuff5806]

@ 14:24 the man cut his eyes over and looked aggravated.

[@WholeBibleBelieverWoman]

As soon as the DNA said he was the father, that woman started in with, "Give my son his respect. Give him his respect!" right after the father had also learned that there was another man that could have been the father. He has paid $32,000 in child support and felt he could not come around due to the mother's attitudes with things over the years. I understand him not wanting to "obey" her demand. I believe he wants to be a good father but does not want to be around the mother anymore at all. I believe she "froze" his heart at least for those moments.

[@tresabrown2517]

EXACTLY! sometimes it is that thing in our mouth called a tongue but in this case a "pink tornado" she lied from the beginning, and her mouth was a turn off to him, that is why it is said not always what we say but how we say it. At the end see i told you get on over here and give your son his respect that is possibly what ran him off before her mouth. I truly don't believe she knew for sure if that was her son's father or not.

[@juanitagartley937]

I agree

[@WBBW2]

@@tresabrown2517 Agreed! And the child is the biggest victim.

[@Abbylicious]

"With yo sorry self"🤣🤣🤣🤣 I heard that

[@anastasiacole8242]

But he said “He was between 3 and 6 months years old” 😂😂😂😂

[@GiftFromGod4U]

I thought I heard that wrong. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@nichelledelaine-rust1588]

The Mother is full of it. She is a liar

[@kelliemartin36]

Right. I see why the man has doubts.

[@Gnoremak]

This must be the dad’s burner account

[@09kenedy]

@@Gnoremak nah she is fun of it. They. Both are… just sad

[@patriciaevans3894]

She lied yes,but so did he.Went away on family business for a week..Yes his other 'family ' business. Did you see him drop his head smiling when the mother revealed he slept with her and didn't come back and she found out he had a nxt lady in the neighbourhood..He jus mad when he returned with his cousin, she wasn't waiting with puppy eyes for him and he felt foolish in front of his family member.. And he still gotta finish paying the child support ,SMH

[@Fraylovesskincare]

Well the end broke my heart.

[@delovelyqueen7498]

Faithy Wray Me too, is heartbreaking

[@melissaoakley1466]

Wow… what a piece of garbage. That was horrible to do to that young man.

[@moonshinegrrl393]

Got to love the Judge telling "dad" what for

[@butsikfinkel3483]

So she has the right to make him the legal father without his consent? Therefore he has to pay child support? This country is ridiculous.

[@brandyb2931]

He looks just like his dad. Let him and his father do their thing in private. They will or they won't work thru it or they won't, you can't force someone to be a father and in the long run...he may be better off.

[@ashleyayuso]

From two unbecoming people rise a gentleman. Some people have the strength of an ox.

[@StrongSmartBlackMan]

Ashley Ayuso 💪🏾

[@lameshadowdell6409]

Son, move on don’t force love. Continue to be the wonderful MAN 👨🏿 that u are

[@kbmain]

It seems to me that the mother messed up "the moment" when she blurted out all that hot mess when judge read the determination, and it made the father just go numb, and cold. JMO

[@chariotwofilthy8374]

Hi edagdwg thanks You tube for sharing this story of what happens when the mother was not telling the hole truth the father felt you came on T.V. and made me look bad god bless him he didn't leave before linda j. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾☮️☮️☮️☮️☮️

[@anitregaines]

He said 3 to 6 months years old 😂😂😂

[@evalunajohannes2382]

😂😂😂 he was confused at that moment.

[@thislibraissomodest6046]

😂😂😂😂💯