Manifesting: Why things feel worse before it gets better

[@FraterIgniUmbra-ci7gv]

For anyone out there that thinks that you MUST constantly be on the vibration of having that thing. I want to tell you that it's bs. Everytime I have manifested anything... It has literally either been in the moment (like a car ride in a town where NOBODY will give out car rides) just imagining being picked up win detail with the feeling of knowing.... Or imagining getting a thing and setting it aside letting it go after that. I have done this with thousands of dollar manifestations at a time, Christmas presents for the kids when I didn't have a dime to my name, food, just by knowing that it's coming and even seemingly possible things like my bank just taking off $400 Dollars owed (which banks don't just do that). Almost Everytime I have manifested something it has been imagined with great enthusiasm and then let go of. No need to worry whether it is coming or not. And if the image comes back into the mind again and doubt comes for a second... Cut it off and say to yourself "I Choose for it to manifest, so I know it will, because that is my freewill choice". No need to pine over it ever.

[@mindmatters1119]

When you’re levelling up to the higher version of yourself it can be uncomfortable, as is most spiritual growth. But the pay off is worth it. She’s right, perseverance is key.

[@KAREN-rx9pq]

Hi Cathy,I'm a 63 year old now and I'm the very best version of myself I'll ever be I'm sure!!! I'm a complete free spirit and feel very light each and everyday I've worked on myself for many years and live in the flow and neutrality of life!! I love my life and wish everyone could have my energy!! I would highly recommend daily/evening affirmations as they really work to create your reality!!! Bless you!!🙏❤️🇬🇧

[@toasted8432]

This sounds beautiful. I’m 20 now but much later in my life I will move into a little house in the woods near a river and live out my days in the flow of the present moment.

[@louiseevans8118]

Thats exactly what happened to me. I was feeling great about my goals. Now i got a horrible fever with vomiting so randomly i could feel not just the gunk physically but emotionally too really deep purging. Thank you for this video. Keep up the videos!! :)

[@BGivka]

WoW I couldn't understand what's happening with me. Emotions all over the place, and some weird excitement..but not in the usual way..and challenging situations coming up, almost opposite of my desire...

[@cabaiste]

your comment exactly describes me now, has it improved for you since?

[@calliebuttery3615]

Thanks Cathy it was all going wrong today but I feel so much better now 😊

[@lauray5495]

Wow! Thank you so much! You spoke to where I am right now, and how to help it. You are great!

[@MysticMelody333]

I think this is quite interesting that you say this. I started affirming for my SP to be obsessed with me and that he is the best version of him etc and up until that point I’ve had major major movement from him based on my previous affirmations. I got him to ask me out on a date. Suddenly one day last week the old story came up and I reacted and spiralled. I even had bad nightmares and bad sleep that week and I just found out it’s also a part of the purge. Took some days for myself but kept persisting and then 9 days later the old story came up again and this time I was neutral and calm and I was unmoved and unbothered. It brought up a fear I had since my last relationship in 2020. A feeling of unworthiness. I knew this came up again because I had to sit with myself and do the inner work. He is a reflection of my inner state. Each time this came up before I ignored it. But I sat with it last night and observed it and told myself I’m worthy of love no matter what. I was also feeling a bit ill and in general I feel very detached from it all. I feel like all of my fears have dissolved. I know it’s the purge and it’s the final purge too. I also don’t feel like I care at this point. Like nothing he does or say can move me now.

[@PersonalGrowthNow]

Phenomenal insights, as always. Been tuning in for a couple years now. When I feel unsure, I love watching and listening to your essence. 💛

[@cathyballard4442]

That's so kind, thank you Personal Growth Now 🙏

[@cheesy2970]

Best explanation I've ever heard on this topoc, which I've been researching for years. I learned so much from you in just a few minutes, which I can apply from now. Thank you so much

[@keirakeneallysupermodel560]

This speaks to me so much! Thank you..you explain this in such a different way and wholistic way..I feel resistance lifting off as you speak🙏🏼💖✨

[@cherryberry7357]

please i need to know the mystery behind this why is it everytime i decide on being in a positive vibration and to start accepting my life as it is and try to stay fullfilled in my desires something bad happens right after I decide this like not even joking the next day i find myself in a bad situation or a bad mood or bad sometimes what so ever i really am struggling I decided to start fillfull my desire of having money and to feel wealthy like two days ago and now guess what I’m literally going through a financial break idk what am i doing wrong it’s crazy. And nott even financial but even physically like i try to manifest physical appearance improvement and change and all of a sudden i start to notice break outs in my skin and my skin becomes pale and i look way worse than before i decide to actually accept myself….

[@johncletus369]

Same thing is happening to me

[@athenafearon3853]

Same with me,but it's just a test from the universe.That means your manifestion is nearly here

[@Petespans]

Your words sound so honest. "Let it pass through". Thank you ! Put the conditioner in , hahahaha, brilliant

[@verarobinson6759]

Yes happened to me suddenly I feelt horrible last couple of days depression nightmare lack of sleep constantly crying now I feel better

[@Laaea_8]

Thank you so much for this video, sometimes I forget that the limitations become even more visible in order to get released / heal and not much people talking about this process of manifesting 💜

[@NadineHarrington]

Perfectly said . . . so helpful . . . thank you. 🌷

[@lucybear5600]

I'm just finding your channel now. Thank you!

[@harneiksandhu3916]

Thank you Cathy this is what I needed to hear

[@lumb.2565]

I really enjoyed this video, and the " washing machine technique", I need a good "wash" 🌝✨🌹

[@crystalwhxre2496]

i've been tyring to manifest my sp and really bad things have been happening regarding 3rd parties but i keep persisting and I will not stop!! I know the universe is here for me.

[@emmabellaqueen]

Any updates?

[@Ambrosia_144]

You need to have the belief that there is no 3rd party anymore. When you manage this and persist, that person will vanish form your reality and you win back your SP. Good luck! 🍀

[@crystalwhxre2496]

@@Ambrosia_144 okay thank u 😭😭

[@BlenderLab.]

update?

[@crystalwhxre2496]

@@BlenderLab.did you get my long ass reply i can’t see it. lmk if you didn’t i’ll retype it for you :)

[@PlannerPerfect]

Thank you!! This really helped!

[@Lucida1818]

Thank you that was a very clear explanation 😊

[@violinwithcatherine]

That’s encouraging, thank you ❤

[@MarvinMAl]

Thank you so much my friend I appreciate your work

[@graceartsgifts]

Beautiful 😍 Thank you a great reminder ❤😊 God Bless

[@WRAWRASWORLD]

I'm going out in a park to get rid. Of the gunk,and do the washing machine,I manifested abig one a few weeks ago,.loved watching this ,by the way in your new subbie,x

[@LZMalik]

While manifesting abundance I had my car accident first and then a bone fracture in my arm. I ended up feeling worse and lost peace and money. I'm unable to feel positive and hopeful to continue

[@everythingsgonnabeokay5908]

i know all my desires are coming 😊

[@ivanjaji7578]

Thank you, Cathy

[@Bebobo96]

Watched this I was having a low day and struggling had it on in the background whilst I jornelled as you said write from consciousness I realised I was in fact doing that!!!

[@PamelaAnn]

Things do get worse before they get better. A situation is like a bruise, they get worse before they get better. :)

[@monaharper5574]

Thank you. So good ❤

[@paige3691]

Thank you love💛

[@wolfandraven891]

I'm going through it right now, I want to manifest a trip to North Korea because it has been my dream for over a decade to visit. But I keep running into obstacles like hearing things in the news, like political tensions or things from tour operators like a monument there being torn down that I wanted to see, or some things like that which make me think it's not possible. Because there is one really specific site there I want to visit and see and I have been trying to manifest it, but at the moment I am so filled with anxiety about things stopping me from achieving it that I feel like manifesting is almost impossible or won't work, even though it has worked for me before (like last year when I wanted my celebrity crush to notice me, I was so depressed for ages thinking it was impossible. Until one day he finally replied to me, and has even become an acquaintance of mine, maybe even what I'd consider a friend!) So I'm wondering is it possible for me to manifest this trip? It's really been my biggest dream for so long.

[@corrinahansen2544]

I've been manifesting for the past 6 months my partner asking me to move in with him I wrote the date being November, I have been feeling so amazing the past couple of weeks but the last few days I've had break downs and questioning his love for me. Is this all part of the manifesting process. ? I was so low today but put myself to bed and have snapped out of it now. Heading back upwards now and hoping this didn't surpress my manifesting

[@CathyBallard]

Hi Corrina, it sounds like you are totally on track to me. I don't believe we stop ourselves manifesting when we're in the middle of processing something. Quite the opposite. It needs to pass out through your system by being felt, but experienced from a higher perspective, or through self-compassion and self-belief, not letting the head talk derail you from your dreams and goals, etc. It's really helpfu; to state "this or something better now manifests for me", so you don't get attached to the form or expectation of how yur manifestation will show up

[@corrinahansen2544]

@@CathyBallard Thankyou Cathy . Love and light ❣️

[@lucycoons]

LOA is seriously demonic and Jesus is the only way truth and the life. Turn to Jesus, He loves you and will make things right and return everything the devil stole from you.

[@yashkosambia3524]

Thank you so much

[@malloriecook9838]

Thank u!! ❤

[@TheFocalProject_Beats]

E X C E L L E N C E ! 💎

[@adityaranadive2664]

Thank you😊

[@Moreeelifeee]

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[@Akshay_Modak]

Hi, I truly believe in the power of manifestation and I've had a lot of success with it with my soccer dreams and aspirations. And I've noticed how things fall apart before they come together. But lately I've been feeling too in touch with my body, with my heart especially, a sort of uneasiness and discomfort when I'm in a thoughtless state and can hear my heart beat, which causes a bit of anxiety at night. Does anyone else feel this way? Is this part of the process?

[@arpitdayalmusic]

Yes I have problems sleeping and waking up..there is a hyperactive state

[@arpitdayalmusic]

And I wake up at midnight sometimes and it feels so weird and fearful

[@zaforahmed7119]

Yes bro I feel it , a wave , shaking, inside vibration, headache or worries, sometimes a bit fear discomfort, and sometime it so strong positive vibration.. Thing's are like fall apart that make me kind of uneasiness 😮what is it , is it about to come on way of reality that has been manifested ❤?

[@candiceg_9713]

I have been manifesting a positive relationship with my sp I felt like I wa so close and it seemed so real but now I’ve discovered he’s been meeting someone else 😭I’m absolutely devastated I feel like the universe has tricked me

[@cathyballard4442]

That's really tough, I feel for you, Candice G_97. While you're in raw emotions right now it's going to be hard to see through to the other side. But eventually you will get there and see the lessons that your soul wanted you to learn. Although it doesn't feel like it now, the universe always works in the service of your soul evolution

[@michellekruger3757]

What I got from this is that perhaps he is not conducive to the person you are aiming to be.. Going through something similar and it is awful.. X

[@candiceg_9713]

It’s really hard and god does it hurt I was so close I had the feeling I had dreams I could even smell him I had all the signs I was heartbroken but the best thing to do is keep manifesting manifesting manifesting ignore your reality n keep going I feel so much better now regardless of my situation I’m so glad I got into law of attraction and started learning more about it it’s saved me xxx

[@rinosyah4161]

@@candiceg_9713 going through an exact situation word by word.... its crushing... but trying to pull myself up... the universe has our backs

[@candiceg_9713]

Keep going I promise u I was literally suicidal n really poorly through the stress of it all I feel absolutely amazing now even though I have down moments no one on this earth will help you other than the universe

[@marianapuljic3552]

You’re awesome

[@gabriellewritesforyou]

Yes, this totally happens to me!

[@paullewis7520]

Thank You 🙏💜

[@rjjrdq]

How many decades does the process take? I've been confident in my expectations but life span is starting to become an issue.

[@lucycoons]

It will never get better!! LOA is from the devil and Jesus is the only way, the truth and the life. He loves you.

[@Bidenomics2024]

lol you sound like me. to me if manifestation works 100% these coaches would be rich already. some manifestation teachers have like 5 subscribers lol. its already destined. some people just meant to be rich and some has to suffer because of past life karma.

[@deepquotes3319]

@@lucycoons why you Tell someone that their lives Will never get better? Just why? Did Jesus taught you to discourage people? .. please stop cursing people with your words. Follow your Jesus, leave people alone.

[@lucycoons]

@@deepquotes3319 I was saying that using LOA doesn’t get better because it’s from the devil and not following Jesus! I was encouraging people in other comments to turn from this and follow Jesus because He’s the only way. I definitely wasn’t cursing people with my words, just warning them.

[@lucycoons]

@@deepquotes3319 part of following Jesus is sharing the word with others.

[@paulinemegane5399]

🙏🏾

[@Joe20231-p]

Thank you

[@anumrkn]

Recently jist few days back I started sending positive affirmations in the mirror. i feel very depressing and things seem to have worsend(relationship). . does it happen ? can this manefistation tech b cause of.this depression and disrupt???

[@CathyBallard]

HI Anum, I think it can. If you're telling yourself positive things as a way of setting a new belief about yourself, in order to change fully you have to release the old programming that says you're these untrue things. The way through is to acknowledge that part of yourself that doesn't want to change (familiarity is preferable to the ego than change, even if it's painful), listen to what it has to say, comfort it, send it love, but be clear that you are moving forward into who you do want to be. Don't believe everything you think or let yourself be pulled down by negative emotions if you can help it. It's part of the transformation process of breaking a mindset habit.

[@tnijoo5109]

I was listening to youtubes about this kind of thing today. I think it’s similar to what Cathy said. It’s stuff that’s countering your core subconscious beliefs and as it gets into the subconscious it’s like the subconscious mind and energy you held in the universe is suddenly vomiting this really negative stuff up that’s painful AF. But it’s supposed to be an opportunity to deal with the beliefs that you previously had no idea were running the show. Now you get to deal with them head on. I haven’t figured out how yet, but at least I know kind of what is happening. A couple days ago I did all this visualizing and feeling of my relationship with my mom being healed and pictured getting a letter apologizing. Today I got a piece of mail from her (which is very rare so I was shocked and thought my manifesting techniques worked) and instead it was her being cold, insensitive, and unloving. So I looked up stuff on when you get exactly the opposite of what you tried to manifest. I’m still trying to make sense of it. But I hope there’s a gift here or that it’s resolving a deep heartbreak in me.

[@asmitwish]

Hello 👋 I also manifest career but I get opposite result 😔

[@loridana8005]

Isn't that also an assumption?

[@Musick328]

I actually disagree. Release what does not work, and focus on what IS working 👍🏻

[@richarddaratony6468]

Can't hear you

[@dominiquekivuvu8]

Love your energy!! Thanks for the video 🧲✨🪐🪞💚 88888

[@barbarastolzenberg527]

Thank you

[@ascendedtimeline4078]

Thank you!