MANIPULATION AND CONTROL - Beware of manipulative people. RC BLAKES Periscope session

  Рет қаралды 109,819

RC Blakes, Jr

RC Blakes, Jr

Күн бұрын

People are constantly seeking to manipulate your life. Controllers come in all forms and fashions. You must understand the tactics of manipulators.
www.rcblakes.com for books and resources.
www.focfi.org
www.swimconference.org
www.comehometonewhome.org
Twitter and Periscope @RC_Blakes
FaceBook TC BLAKES
IG @RCBLAKES

Пікірлер: 451
@dare2eatcandy
@dare2eatcandy 8 жыл бұрын
You just describe all the characteristics of people with narcissistic personality disorder. These people are in every walk of life, and you must guard your heart from them.
@authenticme7351
@authenticme7351 5 жыл бұрын
Wow!! Man of God you are super Awesome!! I follow Apostle Helen Saddler and Dr.Carmen Bryant as well. I'm also studying mental health and psychology as a Nurse practitioner. I'm also very young in the ministry but I've experienced this for 8 years being with a narcissist. Divorced him in December. Hallelujah!! 😀😀
@briannajohnson9332
@briannajohnson9332 3 жыл бұрын
@@authenticme7351 hi
@LadyLuck8_4
@LadyLuck8_4 Жыл бұрын
Lol
@velvetsimmons9513
@velvetsimmons9513 7 жыл бұрын
AND, WHEN THESE MANIPULATORS CAN'T USE YOU, THEY DON'T NEED YOU. THEY MOVE ON TO THE NEXT SUPPLIER. SMH
@Mae-rr5ye
@Mae-rr5ye 6 жыл бұрын
sad but true. Leaches
@sadditycarroll1996
@sadditycarroll1996 6 жыл бұрын
That's the painful part...Thank God Jesus saves, and forgives because I was lost, drained, and feeling low and worthless.#JesusIsTheWayTheTruth#OnlyWayToTheFather🙇‍♀️💖
@stephaniecarter5087
@stephaniecarter5087 5 жыл бұрын
Things I saw for myself the people out here of these fools its crazy how people think that they can turn you around they are like snakes so slithery. And quick smooth tongue. Rob you and come in like a thief WATCH DEACERN THESE PEOPLE ! EXACTLY DONT ALLOW THESE PEOPLE TO SMOOTHLY SLITHERING IN WITH ALL THEIR PROMISES ( SMH) ALL LIES AND THEN THEY GOT TO ONE YOU UP ! YOU WOULD THINK THESE MANIPULATORS WERE RAISED OR CAME FROM THE SAME FAMILY OH YEAH THEY DO (_SATAN) AND YEAH THEY ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS HAVE AN OPINION OF WHAT YOU SHOULD DO WITH YOUR LIFE! OH YEAH THEY LOVE TO CRY TO GAIN YOUR TRUST BACK TO WIN YOU BACK OVER! AND USE YOU OVER AND OVER! MANIPULATION & CONTROL !!!! OH AND THEY SEE THEIR DEVICES ARE NOT WORKING ON YOU GUESS WHAT THEY'RE PLOTTING TO SEE WHO THEY CAN BE THEIR VICTIM SO I COULD TELL YOU ALOT MORE BUT RC Blake's JR TELLING YOU THE TRUTH AND LISTEN IT WILL SAVE YOU TIME !!!! OH AND THEY ALWAYS THINK THEY GOT ALL THE ANSWERS OH IF THEY GIVE YOU SOMETHING GUESS WHAT THEY WANT IT BACK! ( LAUGHABLE) OH AND THEY KEEP TRACK OF EVERYTHING THEY DO FOR YOU ( WHO DO THAT) ! AND SIMPLY ARROGANT PEOPLE LIARS ! AND ALOT THESE KINDA OF FOOLS WILL DRAIN YOU IF YOU LET THEM AND IF YOUR A PERSON WHO IS NOT STRONG RUN TO THE HILLS BECAUSE THESE KIND OF PEOPLE COULD BREAK A WEAK MINDED PERSON BECAUSE THEY ARE DEMONS DOING THEIR JOB OF THEIR FATHER THAT THEY SERVE SATAN THAT IS THEIR DADDY! OH YES HOW THEY LOVE LOVE ATTENTION ! SO EVEN THOUGH THIS SOUND LIKE NARCISSIST THE WORLD IS FILL UP WITH THEM!!! OH BOY GUARD YOUR HEART! PLEASE BECAUSE THESE MANIPULATE & CONTROLLING INDIVIDUALS ARE EVIL AND NOT OF GOD PRAY FOR YOUR ENEMIES BUT PLEASE DONT BUILD YOUR LIFE WITH THEM PLEASE BECAUSE YOU WILL BE WASTING YOUR TIME I ASSURE YOU BECAUSE YOU CANT MAKE THEM CHANGE!!! NOW JUDAS I CALL THEM WILL FAKE YOU OUT EVEN WITH A KISS DID YOU CATCH THAT!! THEIR JUDAS !! SEPARATE YOURSELF FROM THESE KIND OF INDIVIDUALS THEY WILL BRING YOU DOWN IF YOU ALLOW IT
@angelafayesims1563
@angelafayesims1563 5 жыл бұрын
Amen💕🙏💕🙏!!! Truth
@loverules802
@loverules802 5 жыл бұрын
Yup
@smilingface4761
@smilingface4761 3 жыл бұрын
I have learned and I love the art of cutting people off when they show me that they are toxic people.
@queenrocksradio2677
@queenrocksradio2677 7 жыл бұрын
It's official I'm addicted to ur channel u keep it real with a sense of humor I luv it 😁
@angelafayesims1563
@angelafayesims1563 5 жыл бұрын
Amen🙏💕🙏
@ghs9725
@ghs9725 4 жыл бұрын
Same here I am addicted to the Blakess' channel l am 39* and never had a father figure so I feel like listening all the time to compensate all the time Halla I will try to take day at a time.
@empresserica
@empresserica 4 жыл бұрын
I feel EXACTLY the same way!
@tramelparker2085
@tramelparker2085 3 жыл бұрын
Me too!🙏🏽💓
@mrschaudry758
@mrschaudry758 4 жыл бұрын
I am Muslim women but I love ❤️ your channel what you preach about love life with a father-daughter talk I wish our Muslim scholars would teach us this. This really needs to be taught to young kids. Your channel has helped me finally come out of my depression and love myself may God reward you for your beautiful work. Thank you
@speace6866
@speace6866 Жыл бұрын
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊))))0000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000⁰000000000000000000⁰00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000⁰⁰0000000000000⁰0⁰00⁰000000⁰⁰0⁰0000000⁰000⁰0⁰00⁰0⁰⁰0000000⁰00000⁰000⁰00000⁰⁰⁰000000000⁰⁰00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000pppp⁰⁰00⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰0⁰⁰0⁰00⁰⁰0⁰0⁰⁰⁰⁰⁰0⁰000⁰00⁰00⁰0⁰000⁰00⁰⁰0⁰⁰⁰⁰0000⁰⁰⁰0⁰00⁰⁰000⁰⁰0⁰⁰⁰⁰0⁰00000000ppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppppp
@laraoneal7284
@laraoneal7284 7 жыл бұрын
This is a wicked world.
@latishamitchell52
@latishamitchell52 7 жыл бұрын
Lara O'neal Yes indeed. Always been every since the Bible days. It just gets worse with time.
@lalastaywoke
@lalastaywoke 6 жыл бұрын
Its not a wicked world, It's the people in it who are wicked.
@laraoneal7284
@laraoneal7284 6 жыл бұрын
Lala Johnson Same thing. Ppl make up this world.
@LBmerryxmas
@LBmerryxmas 8 ай бұрын
I feel I don't belong in this world , it's alien to me, no one is authentic.
@jeanmorgan7594
@jeanmorgan7594 8 жыл бұрын
Bishop R.C. Blakes , it's 2:22 A.M., I'm am listening to you, laughing, because you are so on point. Man of GOD, you are such a blessing to the body of Christ, girls, women, ladies, and brothers and men alike. You were "SOLD OUT, " in Northbrook, IL, when I discovered that you were coming to the Chicago area. I have begin telling young women about you, writing your email address down on paper, so they can check you out. Stay on the wall, cry loud and spare not. Bless the name of Jesus. Shalom. Jean Morgan-Chicago, IL
@RCBlakesJr.
@RCBlakesJr. 8 жыл бұрын
Jean Morgan This means the world to me. I just want to touch people's lives in a positive way. Thank you Jean.
@thealanliddellshow3885
@thealanliddellshow3885 7 жыл бұрын
Robert Blakes Amen. From Williamsburg Brooklyn. At The Moment.
@Grillaland
@Grillaland 6 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@ericaunderhill4247
@ericaunderhill4247 6 жыл бұрын
It is helping me as a Christian womam its amazing to find deceit in the body of christ i expected to find this in street people but got my biggest relational disappointment right in church
@mwright0428
@mwright0428 5 жыл бұрын
Sad to say that I used to be a manipulator and didn’t even realize it. But you described me at a different time in my life. Praise God for growth and awareness!
@canduscanty8583
@canduscanty8583 2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your courage and honesty 💗 God Bless You 🤗
@aprilmcmillan5617
@aprilmcmillan5617 7 жыл бұрын
Pastor Blake I wish I would have found you a long time ago. You could have saved me 14 years of lies deceit and manipulation.
@Mae-rr5ye
@Mae-rr5ye 6 жыл бұрын
I agree. Crying doesn't move me and neither does begging. People have tried this my whole life that now the best thing a person can do to fix things is ,after proving themselves to me with time, sitting down and having an adult conversation.
@RealtorMaryGarrison
@RealtorMaryGarrison 6 жыл бұрын
My ex was super manipulative and everything he is saying is right on point...always criticizing others, always suspicious of others, tracking my cell phone acting like everyone else is bad, pretending to know everything...omg!!
@crystalwalker2124
@crystalwalker2124 3 жыл бұрын
Omg....sounds like my life before I filed for a divorce I still am dealing with having a private conversation and has he found a way to get into my emails,phone or car tracking.
@diannahminefee6298
@diannahminefee6298 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your teaching Bishop Blake's!!!! It has changed my life!!!!Love you& God blessed you abundantly!!!!!
@Ultraroyal13
@Ultraroyal13 7 жыл бұрын
This spirit of manipulation sounds like a narcissist (someone with NPD)
@loverules802
@loverules802 5 жыл бұрын
Yup you nailed it girl
@dianeoneil5376
@dianeoneil5376 4 жыл бұрын
Totally!
@ssunami_love1909
@ssunami_love1909 7 жыл бұрын
This was my Ex! He had me questioning My Pastor AND My Church... and I couldn't figure out Why I was all-of-a-sudden not "into my church anymore". I dropped him and Got my Church Groove back! I feel free! And my children are Happier!!
@ghisellesimon162
@ghisellesimon162 7 жыл бұрын
Sunny Daze my ex stopped me from church I still think that my marine is now practicing the spirit of manipulation deep inside
@ssunami_love1909
@ssunami_love1909 7 жыл бұрын
wow. This is a Real thing and a Real issue! folks don't wanna admit the truth(accept it) in order to Change it. And Men are often Just a guilty of this type of behavior as women. *I could no longer be a "Silly" woman. Im prayin for you and your situation, sis.
@lamiraclegasaway1832
@lamiraclegasaway1832 5 жыл бұрын
It be them with da problems.but they say its u.they lie cheat manipulate da situation
@loverules802
@loverules802 5 жыл бұрын
Amen sis
@lenebrantley221
@lenebrantley221 4 жыл бұрын
It was your ex way to control you. Isolate you from your church. Manipulation is a real. Thank God your husband is now an ex.
@torrihoward9729
@torrihoward9729 7 жыл бұрын
OMG! You have been describing the Satanic character of my husband (whom I recently separated from); this message is Totally him. I forgive him but I hope he finds someone else once this divorce goes through... I now know the lesson behind him being in my life. PRAISE GOD anyhow. I know I'll be better off without him! What a"wake-up call"! AMEN 🙏 first time Listener From Newark NJ 😊
@MrCoolkat73
@MrCoolkat73 8 жыл бұрын
on point brutha blakes I've been listening to you for awhile I thank God for allowing you to use you and give me revolution
@Misskitty550
@Misskitty550 5 жыл бұрын
"Let people into your life intentionally" resonates... Wow!
@rokenaedwards6804
@rokenaedwards6804 8 жыл бұрын
This is the truth. Sir you are teaching good. Wow this the second day a preacher preached for Acts 8. The Lord is speaking to me. Thanks Bishop Blakes.
@MysticButterfly22
@MysticButterfly22 3 жыл бұрын
Pastor if only I had caught the message 6yrs ago. It would have saved me from a Narcissistic Man, who ruled with manipulation and control. But thank God I am free now from that unhealthy relationship!!🙏🏾
@yolandaausborn7274
@yolandaausborn7274 7 жыл бұрын
It's 12:22 I'm lying in my bed listening to Robert Blake on why people cheat....Wow!!! that struck a nerve in my so call man because Robert Blake had explode the truth about cheaters and he got so anger and jumped up and hit me in my face because I was agreeing with what was being said, I know that was my clue to get to stepping. Thanks so much Robert Blake for your teaching,.
@daniellethebutterflywellne8549
@daniellethebutterflywellne8549 7 жыл бұрын
Yolanda Ausborn please sis I hope you are gone now.... I lived that life. now I'm free
@reflections4me
@reflections4me 6 жыл бұрын
I hope you left, really that slap made you get your shit out and go.
@foxyloxy5693
@foxyloxy5693 6 жыл бұрын
Yolanda Ausborn 🙏🏾
@nijaelinflorida
@nijaelinflorida 8 жыл бұрын
i can totally relate. doesnt even phase me anymore😭😂😂 just byeee
@lenebrantley221
@lenebrantley221 4 жыл бұрын
I agree! Try to avoid them as much as possible.
@milnanz7580
@milnanz7580 7 жыл бұрын
everything u described I've found in the research and revelation of a narcissit. The Lord's been dealing with me about my relationship wit this God hating man and the more scales are falling off my eyes the more i realise i was bound. bless u so much Pastor. lots of women need to come to the knowledge of this manipulative demon
@torrihoward9729
@torrihoward9729 7 жыл бұрын
Milna toots Amen 🙏
@veracamaj8481
@veracamaj8481 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you. You really help me be on the right track. Truth is my strength. With love...
@savannah6393
@savannah6393 8 жыл бұрын
Am listening from Canada Ontario thank you pastor for the word of confirmation
@PK-tm8qg
@PK-tm8qg 6 жыл бұрын
I hollered! They always try to 'one-up-you!"
@dr.anikathrower8979
@dr.anikathrower8979 5 жыл бұрын
YES! Always.....
@Godlywoman88
@Godlywoman88 5 жыл бұрын
This my dad. He always compares. "Does you car do this?", "Is the one I got for you better than what you got?", etc. Its really confusing b/c he can be generous at times, but then at other times he makes me not want to be around him.
@lenebrantley221
@lenebrantley221 4 жыл бұрын
Coworker is always comparing, competing and way too interested in me. It's extreme.
@jessicafifield7354
@jessicafifield7354 3 жыл бұрын
My ex narcissist fiance said to me I needed to stop listening to rc Blake's. He is messing with my mind. SMH...I asked God for help and he directed me to pastor rc Blake's and he's saving my life and speaking the truth. He just didn't want me to figure out his evil ways...I finally left him. I have God to thank, rc Blake's and my family that love me and help me get my mind right. God bless you!!
@inquisitivemind8672
@inquisitivemind8672 8 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 i can only laugh because im over it and recognize your examples, great thorough list, it is good that you offer up this wisdom, you missed the final tactic...when you disengage from the manipulative person and they throw that entire list of yours on you and feign misunderstanding...... Good job🖒✌
@ak-47intelligence75
@ak-47intelligence75 6 жыл бұрын
You spelled out my ending.
@jessicajackson8122
@jessicajackson8122 8 жыл бұрын
I found you last week and I am so thankful! I have been sharing your 10 habits of a powerful woman with all the women on my feed. I told them I'm putting in the work but I know they need it to so I am sharing. I told them to look you up. Hopefully they are! Thank you so much for all you do! I am from Cincinnati Ohio area and all my friends are from small town Indiana. lol So you might get some random IN followers soon. Have a blessed week sir! I am hoping to visit Houston soon so I can visit your church!
@lmilice
@lmilice 8 жыл бұрын
Brother...brother...brother. THANK YOU, sir. I recognize all of this first hand. You know what you're talking about. Continued blessings to you and yours.
@KT-sv6jx
@KT-sv6jx 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN First Time Watching This Message You Filmed This 5 Years Ago And 5 Years Later It's STILL A Blessing Thank You 🙏
@melissakimberleybatts23
@melissakimberleybatts23 7 жыл бұрын
Bishop RC Blake's my pastor who was a woman did this in my life, I was married and she wasn't! And then she wanted my husband and fell in love with him!!!! I got a story! Please pray for me and my family! My God! This was so good to look out for in the future! Everyone was trying to tell me! And I couldn't see it!!!! Until it was too late, no one been there at the ministry for years!!! One or two people!
@BritTellstheTruth
@BritTellstheTruth 2 жыл бұрын
💯 my ex was a manipulator & man he was so good at it. Until God woke me up & Pastor RC Blakes Jr. teachings. 🎉Praise Jesus, I’m set free!!
@angell504
@angell504 7 жыл бұрын
Yes Lord. Confirmation once again. My boundaries is no contact with my manipulative psychologically abusive parents. No regrets. Victory in Christ Jesus.
@ghs9725
@ghs9725 4 жыл бұрын
How did you manage lady it is still hard for me to get rid of my mom
@LadyBrit095
@LadyBrit095 8 жыл бұрын
Everything you said fits the description of my children's father to the T. I wish I would have recognized how manipulative he was from the beginning. Now I have 2 small children with this man and at 21 I'm having to learn how to co-parent with a grown man (34) who has very childish ways..which is pretty challenging.
@ghisellesimon162
@ghisellesimon162 7 жыл бұрын
LadyBrit095 yeo
@marquitahaynes227
@marquitahaynes227 6 жыл бұрын
I'm going through similar situation with my soon to be exhusband. We have a toddler together and him his family are all controlling manipulators who never meant me any good. As long as i did everything he and his family wanted, the situation was fine. Now that I want a divorce, the circumstances have changed which I did expect from them anyway. It is very challenging but we must stay strong and break away. We beautiful women with big hearts do not deserve evil trash and that's what they are. You keep praying and I will pray for you too. God will see us through
@mgstacker42
@mgstacker42 8 жыл бұрын
Words of wisdom!
@Diasmonds
@Diasmonds 7 жыл бұрын
PRAISE THE LORD! YOU ARE ON POINT!!!
@simplymejourney998
@simplymejourney998 7 жыл бұрын
Pastor Blake, you’re 100% right ! I was involved with a man like that so happy that I learned from it moved on.....I praise Abba Father!
@RosieTheRiveter07
@RosieTheRiveter07 6 жыл бұрын
First timer from Corpus Christi, and following, God bless you man of God. .
@LolitaStClair
@LolitaStClair 3 жыл бұрын
MR. AND MRS. RC BLAKE BE BLESSED IN JESUS NAME AMEN!
@LolitaStClair
@LolitaStClair 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor Blake! Be Blessed!
@daniellethebutterflywellne8549
@daniellethebutterflywellne8549 7 жыл бұрын
this was my ex husband Carlton k Haynes...it nearly killed me, that marriage.....thank God for a renewed mind....whew!
@dr.anikathrower8979
@dr.anikathrower8979 5 жыл бұрын
Manipulators are deep! Yes, always trying to one-up someone.
@journeywithbess
@journeywithbess 6 жыл бұрын
Manipulative parents... let's talk about it.
@kittygalore2010
@kittygalore2010 6 жыл бұрын
Journey With Bess Amen this is a good topic
@lulub5059
@lulub5059 6 жыл бұрын
Please talk about this
@Trista1983
@Trista1983 5 жыл бұрын
Girl Yasss! My momma, uncles, aunts, cousins. This curse is on my entire family. Lol
@latashabryant6455
@latashabryant6455 5 жыл бұрын
Yess let’s talk about it. My mother is very manipulating to the point she caused me to not be able to bare children/conceive. During my teenage age years was the worst. Heart broken completely!!! 😔
@ghs9725
@ghs9725 4 жыл бұрын
Yes please
@midnightmediation1604
@midnightmediation1604 5 жыл бұрын
Great Paster rcBlakes! The truth is the light of the world... You told the real truth. Love it Paster! Thank You so Much👏👏👏👏
@debbieb4575
@debbieb4575 8 жыл бұрын
Amen R C Blakes your words are God given & a huge blessing from Leeds United Kingdom
@jjsky3003
@jjsky3003 7 жыл бұрын
That’s a bona fide narcissist
@loverules802
@loverules802 5 жыл бұрын
Yup
@felishatimmons2325
@felishatimmons2325 4 жыл бұрын
As I was listening to you most of the evening tonight, I was thinking..."Where have you been? Why am I just finding you? I've needed this advice on so many levels!" God, my Chief let me know in my heart..."my daughter, you are now ready to hear" Thank you Pastor for being a part of Chief answering my prayers in Jesus name, amen.
@Charoletta77
@Charoletta77 8 жыл бұрын
Trying to brain wash somebody
@Boujiek
@Boujiek 6 жыл бұрын
OMG...I needed to hear this TODAY!
@sadditycarroll1996
@sadditycarroll1996 6 жыл бұрын
That you owe me (when you didn't ask) just killed me...i swear I know this person...its sad...creating a crisis...oooh I know this persons!#ThankGod#ForPastorRC
@newlynatural5374
@newlynatural5374 7 жыл бұрын
GREAT info on manipulative parents!! Touchy situation.
@cynthiaworkinprogressjenki1157
@cynthiaworkinprogressjenki1157 8 жыл бұрын
Say that!!! yes when you have a good heart... I always say when you live by treat others as you wish to be treated I have not realized I have been living in a fantasy world for awhile... in yes you don't expect people to intention hurt you or manipulate you this is slapping me upside me face .
@Baatipari
@Baatipari 2 жыл бұрын
A lot of manipulators ask questions and blame you for having boundaries, esp if you are in a vulnerable position.
@Valley__
@Valley__ 5 жыл бұрын
This was my ex of 6 years I’m so happy I found the Love of Jesus Christ. He has showed my the truth and his love is so great and grand it give me calmness and the will to wait for the right person that loves the Lord how I do or even more.💗✝️
@marciaparks807
@marciaparks807 Жыл бұрын
I’m from Decatur,Ga, I’m a New Birth Missionary Church in Lithonia,Ga member and I thank God for you!!!
@ladymillion7722
@ladymillion7722 4 жыл бұрын
I thank God for a man of God like yourself. I been through everything you are speaking of. Now I am learning and. Making a difference. Thank you jesus!*
@assimilation1149
@assimilation1149 8 жыл бұрын
Bishop Blake, thank you for this message. When dealing with narcissist personality control and manipulation are common traits along with the sense of entitlement, grandiose and praise seeking. Considering having to work or be in relationship with them, family/friend, in order to get them to comply with whats acceptable in getting anything done they must know they are getting something out of it first. Their self-centeredness and superior perception does not allow them to think otherwise. One of the strategies in psychology to work with or be around this type of personality is to formulate what you want into plenty of positive affirmation, boost their ego, then give the task or then ask from them what you need done. Would you consider this approach a form of control and/or manipulation, witchcraft? Please share your thoughts.
@simplydee2567
@simplydee2567 8 жыл бұрын
How do you deal with manipulators when they are family members? Sister has been jealous of me and i have given her no reason to.
@daniellethebutterflywellne8549
@daniellethebutterflywellne8549 7 жыл бұрын
Simply Dee you have to disengage until they decide to take care of their mental health
@rayquanellis6902
@rayquanellis6902 7 жыл бұрын
Simply Dee JUST LOVE HER AN PRAY THAT GOD REMOVE THAT SPRIT CAUSE LOVE WILL COVER HER AN GOD WILL DELIVER HER GOD BLESS SIS
@thebestindewest
@thebestindewest 6 жыл бұрын
No contact....keep it to the minimum
@foxyloxy5693
@foxyloxy5693 6 жыл бұрын
Simply Dee I had to disengage with several family members sister cousins as they showed jealousy. I who give to others will open my arms to anyone. Why be jealous. They say blood thicker than water? No it isn’t as water blends well with water!
@queenateeba4803
@queenateeba4803 5 жыл бұрын
You love her but keep your distance keep speaking and walking in love. That scare demonic spirits. You cant fight jealousy with hate. You only allow demonic spirits in. You tell her how you feel if she dont change from there you have to remove yourself until she respects you. But still call or text her you love her, how she doing. Then that's it because you don't want that demonic spirit on you.
@whatname9112
@whatname9112 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the insight and wisdom of controlling people that monitor every aspect of your life....I imagine it must be challenging to supervise or shepherd a large flock....there are a few true servants of God, however, there are some bishops, pastors, elders, deacons that abuse their power and suppress people or allow it for the mighty dollar to cover up for there wronged loved one or friend, or a political favor....on the other hand, it can be difficult as a servant or employee that is abused, used, manipulated, deceived, because of their vulnerability or position of inferiority.
@Jenlop777
@Jenlop777 4 жыл бұрын
You crack me up 🤣🤣 ‘mayynnn I’m having a heart attack’ 🤦🏽‍♀️🤣 you got me howling in the UK 😂😂😂😂
@koreenalaw8644
@koreenalaw8644 5 жыл бұрын
Im so glad that I found you. I have come so far since listening and learning from you .. thank you so much! Youre awesome!!
@maggieedward3951
@maggieedward3951 7 жыл бұрын
Seem to attract them all my life 🙏 god is great, bless up bishop Blakes and family ♥
@lindaparker6102
@lindaparker6102 5 жыл бұрын
Control & manipulation is that of a narcissist personality !! Amen Pastor , Amen !!
@nettabeatty950
@nettabeatty950 3 жыл бұрын
That part about they know everything about everything or turn it right back about them...Pastor preach this please it's the absolute truth
@PK-tm8qg
@PK-tm8qg 6 жыл бұрын
Bishop! You are a blessing to the body of Christ!
@PK-tm8qg
@PK-tm8qg 6 жыл бұрын
I can't stop watching this! Humorously life-changing!!
@ordainedforgreatness970
@ordainedforgreatness970 3 жыл бұрын
God Bless you my man
@AdidasLove
@AdidasLove 3 жыл бұрын
You can hear the harps out of heaven coming thro the sound system.....😂😂.😂😂
@fambam6709
@fambam6709 2 жыл бұрын
Mann … I love you so much Bishop Blakes. You told the truth and had me laughing so hard! You are a underlining comedian also. Your style of ministry is so profound with a great sense of humor! God bless you sir!❤😅
@lizblacmman8094
@lizblacmman8094 4 жыл бұрын
Pastor that’s so funny 😂 when you said they know everything “brain surgery’ lol, but oh so true about manipulators!
@angeliquep8391
@angeliquep8391 6 жыл бұрын
#REALTALK.... This is exactly what I'm going through. It's as plain as day too see it!
@ikramawaale5713
@ikramawaale5713 3 жыл бұрын
R.C I enjoy your delivery of the Truth. God bless you
@lynettebailey5128
@lynettebailey5128 7 жыл бұрын
Trinidad first timer. Love your video
@RCBlakesJr.
@RCBlakesJr. 7 жыл бұрын
Lynette Bailey Thank you
@whatname9112
@whatname9112 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you, if a person does not want you to meet new people, observe your every move, or hindering you from resources or using your data to obtain money as they follow you around and pry into your life.... On a different note, it is challenging to supervise a crowd or to shepherd a flock there are a few good servants of God, however, you do have pastors, elders, or bishops, that abuse their superior position or authority ....as a servant or employee or a vulnerable position because of fraud ....it is difficult to be abused, used, deceived, manipulated just because they are in an inferior position or lack assistance. I will observe what I say and who I entertain. Thank you for the insight and warning about controlling, users, and deceptive people!
@ghisellesimon162
@ghisellesimon162 7 жыл бұрын
I'm dead... your having problems every time I go to church I am so dead he cracking me up
@realheart100
@realheart100 7 жыл бұрын
OMG Thank You for this teaching!! and LOL!!
@sharonpolsom
@sharonpolsom 8 жыл бұрын
DEEP! I LOVE IT!!!
@catherinepraus8635
@catherinepraus8635 5 жыл бұрын
Im happy i found your podcast im moving on from my sick partner of 21yrs i see now it was always a one way gig
@sim1860
@sim1860 3 жыл бұрын
I’m here in 2021. Still relevant. Your messages are timeless, sir.
@leyamariebooth7890
@leyamariebooth7890 6 жыл бұрын
Praise the Lord. Your personality makes me laugh. The way you deliver your messages is serious in nature yet you can pull a smile from me even when I am feeling down. Thanks Sir Pastor Blakes for your words of wisdom.
@tamelacole478
@tamelacole478 6 жыл бұрын
Speak on it Pastor RC BLAKE'S and yesssss I'm dealing with it Right now in church and out of church ®🙏®
@carolmcloughlin2859
@carolmcloughlin2859 Жыл бұрын
Some parents don’t deserve honour…especially if they’re abusive..I won’t honour abusers…thanks for sharing this..greetings from Ireland..many blessings to you and your family Sir..
@marshabahe3175
@marshabahe3175 3 жыл бұрын
Manipulation is the saddest thing ever, truthfully, :( Thank you for pointing out the fact that it is witchcraft. I never even thought about that.
@zeewash7153
@zeewash7153 6 жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard😂😂😂😂😂everything I have seen & experienced. Should be actors & actresses. So thankful God gave me discernment & a strong willed personality as to not be drawn into a manipulator’s scheme. The ones that I have met see they cannot control or manipulate me & keep it moving.
@kenyastrickland8164
@kenyastrickland8164 4 жыл бұрын
Amen
@lvncsr6166
@lvncsr6166 7 жыл бұрын
You've just described the NPD Narcissistic Personality Disorder.
@ghisellesimon162
@ghisellesimon162 7 жыл бұрын
He so real he said zooming In you more with those emotions
@kissmeej7
@kissmeej7 4 жыл бұрын
Good message. I question where individuals learn this type of behavior.
@soniabailey6855
@soniabailey6855 7 жыл бұрын
clarity. thank you.. I was able to identify associates in my life that exhibit this behavior. thank you.. wow.. informational..
@miriamgeorge3951
@miriamgeorge3951 6 жыл бұрын
Man of God , you truly hear God, thank you Sir for speaking to me
@laquashiawhite5697
@laquashiawhite5697 6 жыл бұрын
My my! God is Wonderful and Working! Chicago! Love this TRUTH keep doing what you are doing!😍
@ankiewarrington8190
@ankiewarrington8190 4 жыл бұрын
When i meet my mother i have 2 days PTSS flashbacks and 2 nights hyperventilation. And all my energy is drained out
@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD 3 жыл бұрын
It takes a supernatural type of discernment to be able to detect this person when they raised you. Christ saved me, and then Word opened my eyes and delivered me of codependency. Study to show thyself approved. 2 Tim 2:15
@AquaticFlowable
@AquaticFlowable 8 жыл бұрын
omy what a confirmation. Thank you so much. Im in Parkville, Mo
@ilovegodalways4526
@ilovegodalways4526 6 жыл бұрын
Awesome and powerful message.
@jessicatucker2677
@jessicatucker2677 7 жыл бұрын
Yes! You are on point!!
@bck12034
@bck12034 6 жыл бұрын
Pastor Blake you have totally described my ex! Thank God for deliverance from this type of individual!
@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD 3 жыл бұрын
Grandiose covert narcissists are master manipulators. Beware those bearing grand gifts and generous gestures you did not ask for. You think it’s love but it’s not. You’ll pay for them at the expense of your authenticity. As soon as you assert yourself and what you want or need doesn’t agree with what the narcissist wants you’ll be presented with a grand invoice.
@terryhill1553
@terryhill1553 6 жыл бұрын
You are a messager from God: May God continue to bless you abundantly, as you have blessed so many.
@genevafoxx6824
@genevafoxx6824 4 жыл бұрын
Good morning Bishop!😍😎😎. Succinct. Two-edged Sword. Christ -like Wisdom. Thank you. Thank you GOD!😍😎
@DoubleRainbows-fp6ih
@DoubleRainbows-fp6ih 4 жыл бұрын
1st time- In UK. 🥰 Thanks . Love your blessed Ministry.
FOUR HABITS OF THE GREAT WOMAN by RC BLAKES
54:30
RC Blakes, Jr
Рет қаралды 14 М.
Jaidarman TOP / Жоғары лига-2023 / Жекпе-жек 1-ТУР / 1-топ
1:30:54
DON'T BE A SILLY WOMAN! Game is real. PERISCOPE SESSION by RC BLAKES
29:25
SIGNS THAT A MAN IS GROOMING A WOMAN
1:01:19
RC Blakes, Jr
Рет қаралды 90 М.
Why do toxic men "bread crumb"?
51:41
Ace Metaphor
Рет қаралды 123 М.
8 SIGNS THAT A MAN HAS BAD INTENTIONS by RC Blakes
58:48
RC Blakes, Jr
Рет қаралды 582 М.
You working all the time-You don't know whats going on
21:48
4CyclesofLife.com
Рет қаралды 10 М.
They're Hiding Something From You... Your Person's Deepest Secrets Unveiled 💫 Reading
1:10:20
The Path to Mindfulness and Personal Empowerment
Рет қаралды 2,6 М.
God's About to Move You So Fast,You Pull a Sneak Pass✈️✨️
12:53
Jaidarman TOP / Жоғары лига-2023 / Жекпе-жек 1-ТУР / 1-топ
1:30:54