Manly Habits That Women Secretly Love | Mens Fashioner | Ashley Weston

[@MensFashioner]

The Essentials App helps you to build the perfect wardrobe for your age, height, body type, and skin tone. Start your free trial: mfer.link/oy/

[@Iamsujant]

SUMMARY: 1:26 Cooking 2:25 Keeping Your Home Clean 3:15 Taking Care Of Your Body 4:14 Dressing Well 5:29 Being Decisive 6:10 Plans & Goals 8:05 Time Management 8:52 Be Punctual 9:22 Listening

[@shakaama]

and these days if you told women to do this, you'd be canceled, and told you were spreading hate speech.

[@sekharmoyye]

Thanks✌🏼

[@sadhaka007]

Being decisive....not deceive...

[@afiqomar5671]

thats just being a good person

[@Robbiedoesitbest]

im 17 and have all those but its hard finding someone likewise

[@willyforbin58]

Fully agree with your entire list, but it works both way, the small red guy with the fork tail does not rest only on men’s shoulders. Thank you for these videos!

[@Ddddddddddd381]

When people are venting to me I find it quite useful to ask “do you want me to try to help fix this or do you want to vent and me to empathize” gets rid of confusion

[@noName-kn1lx]

You mean listen to her whine and not do anything to solve the problem

[@Ddddddddddd381]

@@noName-kn1lx try rereading my comment. not sure you understood what I wrote

[@marc416]

Nod and agree...when their voice goes up....they've asked a question. Just say "Sometimes you just gotta do what you gotta do". 🤣🤣🤣

[@zinknot]

Sounds like alot of wasted time. She can get a therapist for crying out loud. If she loves her man she wouldn't subject him to such a horrible torture.

[@djtaylorutube]

When my wife is struggling to open a jar, I used to just take it off her and open it for her. Apparently this isn't right, so now I just stand there watching her struggle for a while, then I'll say "It must be frustrating to not be able to open that, do you want to talk about how it makes you feel?" She'll usually just give me the jar at that point.

[@QKvox]

This is a very good channel.

[@yanikjayaram]

7:38 - super kind moment, appreciate that. My tuba recital is tomorrow

[@realchavezjuan]

As a regular watcher of your videos, I thought this was a great addition. Well done!

[@marc416]

agreed!!!

[@xaxis1200]

Ashley you seem to have entered a unique range of video collections lately..very informative and your checklist style format makes it such a pleasure to watch ! keep em comin :D greetings from Prague !

[@Mozarteen]

Thanks a lot! A have a serious problem in trying to fix things when my girlfriend tells me things... but I'll try harder to just listen her ;)

[@DesigedByNino]

Her voice and appearance, I could fall asleep to this. Thanks for reminding us a couple things! Much appreciated!

[@wavygoods877]

This is probably one of your best videos of the year.

[@Bill_tyler]

Yes, trying to discuss thing equally and come to a solution, makes you a push over, take charge and decide what’s best

[@SkystheLimit87]

I like your list of categories to make improvements in. I'm going to steal that one :)

[@DeegoL9]

Thank you for the reminders and the tips!

[@jasonmcmillan6598]

If your lady cooks- the guy needs to do the dishes. This shows appreciation for the effort involved in the meal and that he is part of a team.

[@marc416]

With that said, vice versa. Otherwise, you are being a simp.

[@ESW206]

Women likes these habits because these are their duties to begin with so why wouldn’t they like it

[@M_bags6463]

Fair enough I agree with that, but if I cook for a woman and she doesn’t even consider washing the dishes I will notice.

[@HUSTLINKASH]

What if you didn’t like the food? Lol

[@zinknot]

That's if they both work and share the bill equally. Then of course cooking and dishes should also be split evenly. But women are rarely willing to do 50/50.

[@bsh1967]

Great conversation Erika... I mean Ashley 😂

[@fcknfrank]

This is great, thank you! Hope Dorian is solid!

[@nattvaktenphotography]

Nailed everything on the list💪 Not saying I completely mastered everything though but I'm doing my best in every area.

[@pgplaysvidya]

I leave my room numerous times a day (so maybe if a reader doesn't, that's the first step! lol) and every time i leave my room i bring something downstairs that needs to be placed elsewhere. that could be dirty dishes or cups, empty soda cans, etc. That way there's never any garbage or clutter in my room. Also because I do this, there's actually no garbage bins in my room. I find that having a garbage bin in any upstairs room leads to yucky buildup of things that shouldn't be there. like imagine old food in your room for days or over a week because it's easier? ewww So yeah, that tip about just grabbing w/e from your room to take it downstairs is huge.

[@chrisgregoire1246]

The truth is, the fastest way to a man's heart is The Simpsons references.

[@algonzalez6436]

Loved it! Keep these wonderful videos coming!

[@shivamcreatz5847]

Can you please make a video on how to choose accessories according to the outfits

[@moonriver866]

Thank you Ashley! :)

[@g-rodz6314]

Great video, loved it!

[@vishaljoshi7796]

There are so many channels or programs for guys to learn all this. How women like a man to be. But i have almost never seen such channels or programs for girls to know what men like. It's unbelievable. Lol.

[@bright7sky]

Because it's men who are chasing the girls, and not the other way around!

[@MrMercho4416]

sexiest thing ever . Don't expect a woman to do anything and don't care what they think.

[@thomasaimone]

I am not the best man at finding matching clothes. They are clean, but I'm not sure if they match?

[@jeffbiggs6763]

TRUTH right here

[@madwax1360]

Whenever I put the car in reverse, I usually have my girl get out and help guide me. Not 100% positive, but I have a feeling this is why I'm why I'm still single.

[@St3veWK]

😐

[@freeMinder]

these were good

[@glauroo.junior83]

If I may suggest one activity man could dedicate to is to learn how to dance, specially couple dancing. As you have said, touching is a form of knowledge and, in the 60's rock and roll came and people stopped dancing together and "unlearned" how to touch and be touched. To be honest, what woman doesn't like to dance? I'm an accomplished tango dancer and I know that some women go crazy about that, to the point of flying to Buenos Aires and staying there for months, just to go dancing every night at the milongas.

[@djtaylorutube]

100%. I had done this before we met, I took her to classes. When we were younger we'd be dancing 5 nights a week, each night a different style. We married. Many years ago, she found it too tiring. I lost my dance partner, never danced since. Tragic. :(

[@glauroo.junior83]

Sorry to know about that. It is an usual situation, but the other way around, when the couple starts dancing together and the man gives up after a while. But when a man is into dancing, he does it with more energy and dedication than most of the women.

[@districtoutlaw3907]

Not the mustache tho!!🤣🤣🤣😂

[@aralajr4453]

I enjoyed watching this video, but one line made me sad, "My husband"... Hahaha.

[@itsmatty365]

eye cream is a joke, its just fancy moisturizer with eye cream on the bottle good face wash, good moisturizer & retinol is all people really need, consistency is key! don't forget body lotion & sunscreen my dudes!

[@Dev-gc2kx]

Thank you ma’am

[@EUANON1MO]

Funny I don’t do any of this , I just act like I don’t care, which I don’t I got other shit to worry 😂😂 but soon enough they cleaning the house and cooking for me 😂😂

[@leaderofnoone5096]

If you want me to listen, say something worth listening to. Talking a lot doesn't mean you're a great communicator.

[@LovecraftBur]

When you said tuba, I think that Steve was playing the euphonium. Just a fyi

[@spectre5x5]

It's taken me some time to get that active listener part. We are by nature, problem solvers. Still a work in progress for me haha.

[@noName-kn1lx]

Thats what her girlfriends are for…

[@Narweeboy]

Cooking got my Mrs attention when we started dating :)

[@joebright1369]

Female habits that men secretly hate: Having check lists of manly habits they expect;) I personally get turned off by rigid thinking and expectations without reflecting these. She has her points though. But as for having their hobbies they don't mind the girl being totally excluded from? Try motorcycle riding and see how sge excited she gets😂

[@karlr750]

I think that a guy can *blow* 2/3 of these points and still get the girl … mostly based on my personal experience. 1. Cooking (I learned to cook from my wife … mostly 7-8 years into our marriage. It's not a dealbreaker.) 2. Taking care of living space (when I first took my wife to my apartment, the first words out of *my* mouth were "My GOD, it smells like something died in here!" (We found a dead mouse shortly afterwards.) If you live in a pig sty, don't pretend that it's a mansion. Acknowledge it for what it is. (Especially if you're surprised by a noxious odor upon arrival.)) I'm not going to try to whitewash the obvious. This was the most *catastrophic* moment of my dating career. I brought my girlfriend into my apartment when it smelled like a dead animal … because there was dead vermin in my apartment. She kept dating me and married me anyway. It's possible to successfully navigate almost any dating disaster. Try to plan to avoid the disaster, however. 3. Taking care of your body. (When I started dating my wife, most of my competition was in their 50s and 60s. I had to look better than *those* guys, not the youngest and most fit hunks we ran across.) 4. Dressing well (I got into dressing better after *years* of marriage. Dressing well probably helps, but it wasn't a hard stop for me.) 5. Being decisive (This one makes a difference. Don't ask a woman what she wants to do. Tell her that there's something interesting happening, you're going to attend, *then* ask her if she would like to go with you. If she declines, go solo.) 6. Having plans & goals (You need them even if you aren't dating. Don't forget about them when you are.) 7. Managing time effectively: Not really an issue. I was far better at this than any of my dates/girlfriends. 8. Listening & paying attention: Leverage technology. Take notes on your first few dates. (Type up your notes while she makes her trip to the ladies' room.) Review your notes right before the next date, then follow up during the following date. You will seem like a caring, thoughtful, attentive guy … even if your only skill is taking notes and reviewing them.

[@denisehenry1577]

Karl, that's a litany - and a helluva of lot to say! Did the mouse make its way into the house because it was dilapidated: the louvers and/or screens were tampered with, or was it really a pig sty, as you mentioned? If so, did you also have an infestation of mosquitoes and roaches? In addition, did you have to clean mouse droppings; depending on the pellet size of the feces, one can tell whether it was a mouse or rat?! If they large droppings, it was a rat; small, a mouse! They carry lots of germs in their feces,... hope you had lots of bleach and disinfectant to rid the place of the foul stench and germs! Afflicted, DMH

[@realafricanherbs]

This was absolutely helpful!

[@karlr750]

@@denisehenry1577 , The apartment complex was old, and the management didn't do *any* regular pest control. I did my own, but that didn't stop cockroaches and rodents from occasionally arriving from the adjacent apartments. My apartment was cluttered, but not dirty. I've always been a stickler for cleaning up anything that might attract pests.

[@alfredoesquivel4668]

First comment ❤️❤️❤️love your videos

[@Veesaki]

Bravo ! 🤗

[@michaelangelo6947]

Spot on 😊

[@marcjohnson6757]

"...Food poisoning sucks and lobsters can be aggressive..." Hahahaha, that's awesome. Seriously! I love your advice. Thank you. 😁

[@denisehenry1577]

Food poisoning, what makes that funny?

[@marcjohnson6757]

@@denisehenry1577 It was meant to be funny!

[@thetruthfacts7272]

The mustache caught me off guard 🤣

[@timvibes]

I think these traits can be applied to women as well.

[@liudizzle]

Especially the cooking

[@vindiesel564]

What about lifting sulfur from a volcano down to a village?

[@JasoniumGH]

7:41 that's a euphonium, not a tuba!

[@zinknot]

Women wanting to vent all sorts of problems with simple solutions but not wanting a solution kills me. It's so annoying, women enjoy the drama and don't want you to ruin it by solving any problems.

[@freddierodriguez3036]

Oxford shirts are mostly worn by men but look better on women. Even sexier than lingerie. Interesting you mentioned Martha Stewart as she also wears Oxford shirts. Best wishes! 🤗

[@marc416]

PING...PING....PING

[@freddierodriguez3036]

@@marc416 I just googled “ping, ping, ping” Hope what I said wasn’t offensive 😂 Cheers!

[@marc416]

@@freddierodriguez3036 Not at all sir! Please do not worry about it!!

[@kirkveesaert9595]

As always very Clevahh !😁

[@noName-kn1lx]

Ashley skips over the woman veto You pick a place she says no dont feel like it you pick another and she shoots that down too and then you say where w you want to go and she will say one of 2 things. I dont care or i dont know

[@marc416]

This happens once the honeymoon phase is over.. HAHAHAH

[@JamaicanMeCrazy]

Stay strong gents 👌

[@aryanmamidwar2171]

How to understand when she needs the solution and not?

[@asgerdaugbjerg6057]

three comments: 1. You are right - all men should master all nine habits 2. So should women - I love when a woman is punctual, listens and dresses well 3. why are you in such a hurry to deliver your message? It is really stressful to watch this video....

[@ohneworte5980]

But in my opinion "dressing well" means more than something that makes you look better. If a woman isn't able to walk trough the park because of her high heels, that's bad dressing; same if she cannot enjoy a starry night because she is freezing.Get real, girls, and stop being sugar dolls!

[@josephgomez7368]

You make me want and be a better man. There is a listening and there is pandering , try to draw a parallel, if you can associate her frustration with your experiences she’ll know you understand? Am I right?

[@djtaylorutube]

Fastest way to a man's heart isn't via his stomach. Aim a little lower.

[@nikitapower947]

Love yourself more than you love your girls.

[@danielfitzgerald2561]

Keep the moustache 5:06

[@jackhicks8935]

Wonder if there are comparable vids for women…

[@hirozzayz8164]

I worship you

[@gusthecollector164]

I don’t ask a fish how to fish 🐠 I ask a fisherman 🎣

[@hirozzayz8164]

A man should work and do all the chores at the house for his lady. 💯

[@St3veWK]

Pathetic

[@zinknot]

What's the point of having a woman then?

[@rs-qt1qg]

I find it ironic that women want men to be punctual and have time management skills hahahahah!

[@Jebro439]

Damn you have a lot of videos

[@marc416]

So men must be more feminine to be more attractive? Seems like a sneaky thing women say to get out of the roles they don't like by calling it "sexy"... 🤔😒🤔 Nothing is more important to women than to be able to find a guy they "can fix". In the honeymoon stage, I do agree that if our hobby is important to us then it is important to you. But after.....mmmm not so much.

[@denisehenry1577]

If you have to fix him, then he is not man enough to fix himself! A real man has standards - he is actively pursuing to better himself! Conscientious as described in the latter, he will be just as aggressive in critiquing himself (independent of what others think and/or say) - and as such, will not only be aware of his flaws, but also make a conscious and bold decision to change and/improve! I am sorry you need to fix a man! What does it do for you as a woman, and what does it say about you as a woman: - your standards! You should want good man, not an a__ hole of a man! Especially, if you looking to get married and/or have children! Is that the man you want to take home to your family; walk with shoulder to shoulder in public, and moreover, is that the man, you want to the father of your child/ren?!!! I am a transman: - I have set standards for myself! Relationship status does not trump how I conduct myself; needless to say, irregardless of whether I am single or coupled - The same applies! It's all about self-love! Obviously (no judgment), the men whom you have attracted, do not love themselves! If they did, they would want the best for themselves! Nuff said! I am not a dating coach, but I know what I want - and it sure ain't a half a__ woman!

[@ohneworte5980]

On the other hand, a girl is way more sexy when she acts manlier. For example, if I would say "I got to change my tires; oh, how I hate theat" and she'd reply: "Give me the keys, I'll do it for you" - man, that sure would turn me on ...

[@marjunparo3887]

Ashley love ur vids so beautiful as u

[@amurika6336]

Male maid

[@alialrahahleh676]

Women love money. alot of it. forget about all the above

[@fredkuykendall9390]

Being a gentleman, I firmly believe in respect to a lady as well as other people around you God Bless you, love your videos

[@zinknot]

And how many women do you see choosing the gentleman over the bad boys? Quickest way to the friend zone really.

[@BPratto]

I;m not cooking a damn thing if she cannot cook , don't need her

[@karidachainkh4777]

I'm a guy but I'd like suggest you not follow the advice of using exfoliant once a week. Most people must be thinking of physical exfoliation which is bad, it causes micro tears and abrasions in the skin causing damage to the skin barrier. If you want to use something I'd say go for a weak chemical peel followed by sunscreen. Upvote so others could see this

[@locoindio]

this list is idiotic. these are not things women secretly love about men. this is a list of stuff any adult male knows who lives by himself. in my experience, here are a few things women secretly love: 1.) when you have boundaries and call her on her bullshit. she will fight you on it, get upset, whatever. but secretly she likes it. women respect guys who do not let them walk all over them. don't be an abusive jerk. there are limits. but putting your foot down is something women secretly love. 2.) if you know how to objectify her. women want to feel beautiful, sexy, etc. they like for men to objectify them. it's HOW you do it that makes a difference. generally, if you do it with some confidence and maybe a bit of swag, it goes over well as long as you don't make the girl feel cheap. it's on you to figure out the dynamic of how you do it. again, moderation is key. 3.) knowing how to fix stuff. women like guys who are handy. they do not want it to go to your head, but they DO like it. if her car has some issue, and you fix it, the modern woman is trained to have a massive self indulgent ego that cannot respect you out of feminist principles, BUT at a biological level, she will very much like it and see you as someone she could spend quality time with or see as a romantic partner. being able to cook falls into this category but only just. women are generally turned off by guys who are overly domestic. again, biology. women like guys who are a bit rough around the edges, a bit wild, but who THEY can tame. so. discard this moronic list presented in this video. it's something that belongs in a dust bin. listen to what i said. it has served me well, and i imagine it will work for a lot of other guys too, long before the nonsense in this video will. imho

[@noName-kn1lx]

Exactly this is the nonsense women like to publicly say they like. The inner woman wants exactly what you said.

[@leeklass3907]

Some of the women I work with would like partners that cooked & cleaned in fact one day one said to me how atractive she would find it if her partner helped but he's never lived on his own. Until then I never would have considered them attractive habits more essential. I know of a man who thinks its not his job to cook & clean depsite men of his generation who enjoy cooking in fact they they make the meal if they have friends visit their homes.

[@MrCuteBai]

All these won’t matter if you’re not: 1) Tall 2) Good Looking 3) Rich Save your time guys, focus on yourself 👍🏻

[@timsmith7453]

Another shocking thumbnail pic 👎

[@timsmith7453]

Just another shocking thumbnail. Like something from 1820s England.

[@rickymaliki1741]

You ain't never getting married girl

[@williamhughey6875]

You are full of deception from what should truly be female sex fantasy about masculine visual appeal. Yes his doing certain good things for you can be very appealing, but you women never really come out with raw interest.

[@puvendranpillay3096]

Watch Tatespeech or Mr locario instead

[@omarleone99]

i dont care

[@sachinparmar9111]

Today u lok manly too

[@kanker5256]

men dont cook women do