Mapuleng ON being a young Pastors Wife and her husband marrying his PA

[@Ownnarrativepodcast]

Hey guys.. i see the common comments and i have to say its really difficult to interview an introverted person... However i believe everyone needs to share their story regardless ❤️ thank you for your patience

[@randomlady]

Mosadi wena wa leka shem...wa lwela and that matters the most. We will keep watching 🤗

[@ThobileMacaws]

Sana wena ke and positive vibes ❤️❤️😍! We stand with both women cc🌹!

[@leratoolifant1988]

No no2 for this one.

[@leratoolifant1988]

She was overwhelmed."Christians like to impose" Everybody expected her be an angel.Sgandaganda. I think I would have ended like her more over lookwise IAM on the opposite side😂.

[@NokuphiwaM]

You tried your best

[@thabelofavormufamadi]

I love how humble she is, she with everything that happened to her she still speakers with so much Grace. I pray God continue to be her number one lover and her next husband will find her in Christ.

[@thobilemditshwa8799]

Yho, this interview is just emotionally draining, you can tell there's is just a lot to unpack but it's not coming. Thank you for being so patient with her, it's clear she's is still going through a lot.

[@nthabisengbaloyi5817]

I get that too she gives very vague responses making it difficult for the interviewer she wasn’t ready at all for this interview in all honesty

[@siyamtolo6733]

Nothing wrong with this interview. People just like stories that demonize the ex or told in a horrible way. She's here to tell her story not to demonize her ex. She sounds like someone who has healed, and I love her and how she told her story with grace. May she continue to heal and find a man deserving of the gracious woman she is.

[@dorcushatlane9525]

Thank you for posting that comment, well said

[@dibusengkaibe1228]

I wholeheartedly agree. From reading the comments I thought the interview was bad. But when I actually listened, it flowed well. Some Ppl are more introverted than others & we should respect that! ❤

[@NokuphiwaM]

I don't agree with you. The problem is that she was not telling her story freely, no matter what it is. Promise had to dig out basic things out of her, that did not even have to do with her ex husband

[@mathabathekgatuke7426]

Amen

[@sontomtolo473]

I agree 100%, I read the comments before watching and now that I've watched I'm confused cause there's nothing wrong with this interview. The conversation flowed beautifully.

[@thophishabangu2504]

It’s ok Mapuleng my dear! Your journey with God is unique&personal. To everything there is a time. Don’t feel that you were inadequate

[@juliemuchocho5698]

This is typical of an attack from the Jezebel and Ahab spirit. Attacks leaders in ministry and those talented or gifted people. This was a spiritual attack.

[@juliemuchocho5698]

Read 'The three battle grounds" a book by Francis Frangipane. A chapter on the Jezebel Spirit

[@maggiemwangi8026]

Am glad I listened to the whole interview first before reading the comments.As a married woman I understand you fully Mapuleng. There's clearly alot to unpack in your story but it's okay to share whatever you're comfortable to share. I wish you healing and the very best in your new journey! Lot's of love from kenya🇰🇪

[@Ke_Puly]

❤

[@samarahndoro6447]

I totally understand your Story Mapuleng. Being a pastor's wife is way too complex. I was married to one myself for 7 years. I find it very difficult to even explain to anyone about our setup, considering that out of marriage two beautiful kids came out. But I am more happier since the divorce and I feel absolutely relieved. I am sorry about your experience, you are a beautifully gracious woman. Stay strong and more happier for the kids and yourself. Thanks Promise for the beautiful interview.

[@disebok8321]

My grandmother always said "stay away from men of God and policemen" and i listened 😂

[@tumi_N]

😅😅😅😅❤❤

[@CbosEasyRecipes7]

Now what if he becomes a man of God after years of being married? Life changes

[@CheriAurora3605]

Kill me again😅😅😅

[@NsikeSibisi]

😂 tell Gogo I love her

[@LuckyJudaz]

What's wrong with us 👞👞👔👖😳.?

[@Ntuthu28_M]

Amazing story. Thank you Mapuleng for sharing God bless you it takes courage❤

[@naledindlovu976]

Mfundisi was supposed to lead his wife and be her Priest and teach her the ways of God, she would have moulded into what God wanted her to be, his approach let things slip ...I wish they made it she seems so sweet and so beautiful too😍

[@mariaqumayo9442]

I saw that mfundisi was not make sure with red flag number 1, of him divorcing his first wife with their 2 kids! What happened in that marriage? why didn't he lead that wife and be her priest? Mfundisi is a problem. 🤣

[@Minister-Delina.]

I broke off a relationship with a pastor who was excactly like this. He confides with other women and never present never providing just empty promises and i now understood why the first wife left. It will never be different with any other.

[@msngema1380]

Not all interview are the same, thank you both for sharing.

[@mrsl2175]

This was a great story ❤ may she heal and Promise congratulations 🥂 your interview style is beautiful 🙌

[@leahlinki5683]

He wanted a beautiful wife. He got her. She wanted a husband! She got him! Khwensekhwenses! 😅😅😅😅😅

[@EllenRamohlokoana]

I wish you well, God be with you and protect you and your babies, Yes I am joining you in prayer ,hold on Jesus Christ will fight for you,Amen

[@likhaphaleboela6043]

Baby girl needs to heal. Parts of her are still bleeding. She prematurely went public about her story. But she seems like a good person who just went through an unfortunate ordeal.

[@qaqambafuzile5967]

I blame the pastor for choosing a partner not compatible with his calling. I can imagine this must have been frustrating marriage for both of them. Kids to the mountain prayer . Yho

[@boitumahloko6165]

Imagine hle, They were not compatible at all.

[@sibongilenkwana8835]

I thought so too...for me the being divorced twice and married 3rd time makes me question his maturity

[@starrjohnson1327]

I know a pastor who is getting married to a wild woman. He has played games with her. They have been going on trips but no intercourse. This is frustrating her. She broke up with him but he showered her with gifts to come back. He got her a bigger ring when she came back. Not every pastor has been called by God to the ministry.

[@Dimz7890]

Hahaha! You can say that again, take kids to the mountain prayer? She was and seems she still is a babe but I agree with you, the pastor is to be blamed. He should have known better, he also needs some growing up to do.

[@phendulwazondo5207]

Mara sana,m also blaming her 2 say "Yes", knowing that alot will b expected frm her as the wyf 2 the Apostle.

[@siphokaziluzipho4197]

Promise not everyone is comfortable with talking about intimacy. Shouldn't have pushed that section.

[@LuckyJudaz]

Yes hle

[@pulengphatedi8153]

Its so sad how a man will lose respect for you when they feel like that don't want you anymore, the worse is when they allow their new partners to disrespect you 😢 I know the pain.😢

[@nthatisidimema9084]

Men do not take breaks to heal or self introspect after long commitment relationships...he's going to take his toxicity to the next woman watch

[@sivuyisiwemntwana1227]

This is true

[@LeratoMatlhonoko]

The interviewer doesn't give the lady a proper support and she's not sympathetic..

[@LettyMakhati]

True that..

[@LorraineMosikari]

Red flag was he was with his kids when he came to pursue you, no judging but that was the red flag

[@LuckyJudaz]

What's wrong with that?

[@donalduck601]

First time I watch your podcast, and I subscribed immediately. I like the fact that you ask relevant questions, just like us you want to know and get clarity. Coming to the lady I think she and the apostle were not spiritually on the same page, she says so herself. I feel she didn't do enough to play a pastor's wife role. I have big question marks about her role in the whole mess. I'm sure if we could hear the other side it'd reveal what type of a wife she is. Nice interview 🙏🏼

[@sparrow62210]

Wishing you a blessed new journey ahead queen❤

[@siniecat]

Mapuleng...i pray for healing and restoration ...for you and your family....May God grant you strength and ease....May God also continue blessing you abundantly....and grant you a great spouse....❤ 3rd time's a charm😊God willing❤🫂🇰🇪

[@Kazi-f1h]

The problem here is not the interviewee but interviewer,unless u go tru a marriage where u don't feel supported by your partner,everybody thinks they have something to say about your marriage,family dictates ,u will think its not enough to divorce but I get this lady perfectly bcoz I've been tru it ,well done for leaving gal

[@phumitoday5002]

Why did this women come to the this show if she didn’t want to talk it’s like she is being forced to be here

[@brendahlela]

some of you sound like you are the aunties of the Pastor

[@siyabonga267]

😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@ReshoketsweMthombeni]

🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂

[@nokwandanobangula6592]

That's true ...why this woman hate ...u really sound like u are on the side of the pastor😮

[@nokuthulasithole6924]

😂😂😂Brenda maaan😅

[@Ke_Puly]

It’s the aunties, cousins and his crew continuing to show the emotional abuse I was subjected to 😂

[@peterrichard9769]

You are beautiful, you have a heart with people. I wish if l knew you earlier.

[@vuyokazimtwecu9896]

This is a great story and the lady is not a sensationalist, very descent conversation

[@LollyMadikiza-xw4ok]

@vuyo...she is in video,what did u expect?

[@bahumimatebesi8000]

Sadly it seems like there was no marriage from day one.. also Promise some people don’t like to discuss intimate details, it’s too private to explain issues of intimacy? I understand why she’s not being open about it.. 28:17

[@BotakiHlalele]

Great testimony and the flow is awesome. Thanks for sharing your story

[@lulubear-qp6tn]

Mapuleng is my childhood friend I'm so sorry for what she's going through.

[@AbrahamDlamini]

This one went south .

[@blinkym21]

Gave up after 10 mins, I’m sure you have a story to tell sisi all the best💫

[@FaithFusionTelevision]

I foresee a response from the ex husband here.

[@tedtlyhlatswayo403]

Promise, I think you really tried here. You listened & asked all the relevant questions & even though some of the answers were vague, or seemed structured. & Promise you had this look like you were not fully convinced.

[@MphoNteo-s1v]

She is still healing

[@rofhiwamalala4749]

I love the fact that she still respect the hubby ❤❤❤

[@siamisangsia6840]

This lady shouldn't have asked to be interviewed cos she clearly doesn't wanna share her story .

[@gladymolobela8929]

Because she is lying , she is blackmailing him . Very abused my son back forth . She is evil , locking him out of the house , you have hear other side of the story , swearing at the Pastors grand mother , she is a very Rude girl

[@mmatshepomarebane5592]

Yeah your right she’s not honest she’s probably hiding some other stuff and I also think she wasn’t fit enough to be dating a pastor she’s not yet matured spiritual.

[@LuSo254]

I feel like she would have interviewed better in her mother tongue. Her vocabulary is probably limited

[@angelinealfesta680]

I agree with you. She just wanted clout

[@mathabathekgatuke7426]

@@gladymolobela8929you know her personally?

[@LungisileHadebe]

Mapuleng Tsotesi hometown girl from Frankfort

[@zaneleluhabe8863]

Someone called men of God who are players "izigebengu zase Calvary"😂

[@Ownnarrativepodcast]

😂😂😂😂😂no wayyy

[@esthermphanda3520]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@zaneleluhabe8863]

@@Ownnarrativepodcast phela yay they can be such smooth operators abo bradas nabo MoG

[@nkhensanimaphophe5408]

I can attest to your story as mamfundhisi

[@siyasisandsmay6392]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Amen soo true though😊

[@dikolizaskk5847]

This thing of calling these fake pastor's "man of God " Why? Why? Everyone is God's child

[@darealvirgo86]

Nkare nka shaker this girl iyooo 😢😢😅

[@tembezelanilubatapela3116]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kamogelokoloane5182]

To be lively neh,hai man

[@RelebogilePrudence]

😂😂😂

[@mellowouthere]

She's not vague, she's reserved. Yena le Promise are the perfect pair. Promise can hold down a conversation, the lady is good at answering questions nje, she's just not a talker. Love to both phenomenal women ❤.

[@motheowalerato701]

👌👌

[@Millibabe]

Her voice ❤

[@busin6388]

Based on the comments I cannot waste my time and go beyond 15mins. My jaw dropped at the point she said her child was 3months, but thou shall not judge

[@phemelogaomphe1199]

This interview is not flowing. The lady is not 100% free in sharing her story.

[@tso7778]

Hello, how are you? Life is full of surprises. Please pass my regards to Mapuleng.

[@tebohomaholi6738]

The sound of "my podcast". Eish heavy nyana

[@gladymolobela8929]

She came with a child who was not well , the Man of supported her all step of the way and he did everything to make sure that her boy finds healing , He loved her son , We are family they didn't say anything about that . Ask her who is the father of her first child

[@nomandlambanjwa38]

You must come on the podcast and tell your story😂

[@mmeme5861]

Tell us more about that

[@NombuyekezoMampofu-hg4lj]

I have a feeling that usis is still healing usagowa,and she's not ready to share her story

[@DianaMokgawa]

I watched the interview to the end an every minute I got more confused 🤞

[@gladymolobela8929]

It's lies she knows that

[@CbosEasyRecipes7]

Ask, maybe I can try and answer what I heard cause mina I think understood her 🤣🤣🤣

[@iris1896]

​@@gladymolobela8929you sound like the husband's cousin 🙃

[@Miss_Sir2]

Promise, you tried sisi.. To the lady, avoid interviews at all costs , they are not for you.

[@tembezelanilubatapela3116]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Miss_Sir2]

@@tembezelanilubatapela3116 hayi don’t laugh 😂.. I’m giving grown up advice here 🙈

[@nokuthulasithole6924]

😂😂😂I agree

[@mananammalegae]

Maybe a second interview will be better 🤔🙏🏾 looking forward to it

[@nondumisomyataza7029]

Sounds like her marriage was draining and it sounds like this lovely lady is still drained by what she went through. I pray that finds strength as she continues to heal.

[@thophishabangu2504]

Nice interview

[@nokuthulamkhize8877]

Mmm..I get you gal! You did well leaving that narcissistic pastor

[@giftyanntengey4464]

It's unfortunate when one gets married to a man with narcissistic behaviour. Obviously his 1st married might have ended due to his behaviour. I experienced similar behaviour from my daughter's dad who went the extra mile to try to paint me bad for the world to think I was the problem. He was later diagnosed of bio polar, unstable mental illness. You need to be strong mentally, emotionally and physically to be able to move on. My experience has taught me to teach my children not to accommodate people who attempt to gas light them. Let's train our children to speak out about domestic abuse.

[@prudencemolefe6526]

Spiritual role, mamfundisi role, mother role, step mom role.. marrying a divorcee who should have know better but nope.. he chose to be absent while wife was overwhelmed.. so sorry.. i hope yall get it 😅

[@thokomtswene6128]

I think she's still in love with the guy, she's hiding things

[@kitsokebaitse7814]

But she ruined the podcast they are the ones writing to promise why are they not open

[@gladymolobela8929]

Now only she realizes that she lost a good man , that man suffered in her hands , she doesn't say what did her husband do .

[@nenesibanda4171]

People who are guests to podcasts must be willing to be open and speak about their experiences which can be rather educational or /and motivational to other people. If one is guarded then podcasts are not meant for such a person...as this particular guest. This is my perspective.

[@marynamakhoma5477]

Please remind us why this lady is on this podcast 😢

[@segamogotlha5290]

*WHAT'S THIS THING: "A MAN OF GOD"???*

[@TheSouthAfricanPost]

Her Story has no climax. I was waiting for the part she will say my marriage end bcs of 1.2.3. But there were zero reasons provided except that she felt not included in church activities and that he spends more time out and family was involved. there is more to this than her story.

[@luthandombobo8626]

The lady is humble but yet look to be still in pain

[@pulengphatedi8153]

How sad, when a father thinks they can replace the biological mother with the other woman. 😢

[@pfulu]

I’m just wondering what type of church is this.? Or name of this church.

[@BoitumeloMokgosi-zq7nj]

What happened to the father of the1st born son?

[@FreeAAtLast]

We have not heard the other side, but you can tell a preson who destroyed the marriage. She was busy abusing the guy and expected him not to vent with anyone because he was kind. She comes here and blaming a guy, without reflecting on what she did wrong on her side. Women are so cruel and rude to kind guys.

[@joseymoloi7169]

Mapuleng was married to them not him, WOW!!

[@SamukelisiweNgcobo-fe2rb]

Waz also wanna hear more about PA lady i thot the PA story will the top main character of the story yet it comes in the end.

[@wonderlubisi4881]

Rebound marriages both of them were not aligned...they were wounded hiding the pains from previous relationships 🧘‍♀️recipe for disaster

[@CbosEasyRecipes7]

Why do I feel like most men need to grow up though!!! Where is the leadership in this.. 🙈

[@boitamarakums1790]

Man of God

[@nolusindisomshumpela7183]

She was overwhelmed - over burden. As a Christian its refreshing to hear her testimony. The bible says whoever the son of man sets free ,is free indeed...My sister you are free from slavery.

[@bonolomofahla]

A lot is going on here 😭😭

[@wonderlubisi4881]

Woman we go through a ĺot😢😢

[@sikelelwapiyose587]

I just subscribed

[@Afro_Sims]

She's too guarded.

[@maphalemahlatse7797]

yeses mmabo atla are bhora, if y'all are not ready to disclose information ledula le bo makgolwa lena ka gae akere bana ba geshu...ahh what a boring interview please.

[@mellowouthere]

19:03 - 19:05 beautiful moment 😂

[@NormanMakhoba]

I would love to be interviewed in this Podcast, and correct a this woman. Unondidwa lo..

[@Victory2me]

Sounds like the pastor was looking for a beautiful , spiritually weak woman to make a family with but not have to account or partner with. So glad Mapule has grown in God from this🎉🎉🎉

[@sibongilenkwana8835]

😂😂😂 @ the English part

[@esthermphanda3520]

That was funny

[@NelaoKegobonyeTibinyane]

I have been in the same shoes. Pastors are loved nobody wants to admit to their mistakes short comings. People even my own family did want to believe me. Its was hard to proof that this person had erroneous ways... I also suffered mental illness. in hindsight I was married to to a classic narcissist which from a spiritual stance was operating under the spirit of JEZEBEL!

[@Ke_Puly]

Thanks for sharing. Its truly difficult to explain what you’d be going through when you are in that situation because there’s no physical evidence of what is going on behind closed doors

[@omphilemathole4450]

The big killer of christian marriages are: Being married to the church ad ignoring the life God blessed you with. Not having time for wife and kids. God wont give you a parter and leaves to alll temptation The other part we dont talk about is , the temptation pastors face in church, cos they are model men, and every womans ideal man. Temptation in church is huge like devil attacks every minute. Prayer with no action become meaningless. Even pastors need to be confronted when they go astray. Lets stop treating our pastors as holier than thou. We are human subject to corrections.

[@lufunok5968]

only managed to watch this today . what nonsense it this? for 1 hour ?

[@matanato01]

53 minutes later and I still don't get the point of this interview. We don't know what let to the marriage, how long they were married, arg kuningi. It was a waste of our time and yours Promise. I think you also need to have a seperate person screen these people for you so that we can experience them with you for the first time on the show, because you leave so many things unsaid because you already know them

[@nankihoaeane4396]

Old lekgowa nice lady

[@pfulu]

So this man has to divorce you through the family.

[@mphotinymgangane3697]

This interview would have been better in her home language, She was gonna be more free and comfortable

[@NormanMakhoba]

There are always two side to a story. My advice is listen to the Pastor side. No Feather comments.

[@ColGaddafi]

That was never gonna work. The man saw a beauty queen and wanted nothing but to fool around.

[@ColGaddafi]

Of course the Pastor was going to be advised by his congregates that this lady was not the right person. With a little bit of pressure on him, it was already cast in stone.

[@TjokotjaPatla]

Woman of God. Not married. On maternity leave and looking to meet to a man to be a husband. That makes sense.

[@lebogangmaja6749]

Could not listen to 15 minutes , But i would also dump this woman_ Not sure if she is tired , lazy , but aiii a big NO for me , i would be frustrated with this type of person

[@robinnahnampiima7275]

Is not my place to Judge,she is not telling the truth, she is not well

[@Ke_Puly]

😂

[@ogopolengmathibe1767]

Iyoo I wont even finish watching this. It is so boring

[@NkechiSaba]

She sounds like someone who went through a lot.Too much expectations on her.I am a wife to my husband before ascending the church roles.Every woman needs to be loved and cared for.We also need privacy and rest,no matter how spiritually matured we may be.Focus on your healing dear and seek the face of God.